Riyadh Walls – Jumuah Talk Only Masjidus Sunni (30 December 2022)

etc. What can I do to impact the world positively, it's very easy

for us to feel despondent

and then just take a backseat

and hope for the best.

The reality at the end of the day

is that there is something we can do.

The

In fact,

it's not just a possible solution.

It's something that we are obligated to do.

That that's none other than

providing

our children

with the sound upbringing

and a good example.

If we look at every major figure in our history, that's impacted

society positively.

Right?

If we look at every major figure that's impacted our society

positively, and provided positive change behind that individual,

more often than not, I would argue 90% of the time, you would find

behind that individual was a parent who had very high

aspirations

and provided the child with a good upbringing.

We should never ever underestimate what that can do.

We look at the likes of Mr. Musharraf here I am Allah Allah

the likes of Imam Abu Hanifa Rahim Allah to Allah the likes of Imam

Al Ghazali Rahim Allah Allah likes every moment now when we refer

them Allah to Allah. The likes of remember Suki Rahim Allah to Allah

the likes of Imam or rumley Rahim Allah Tala. Even Catherine de Oh

yesterday, more contemporary scholars the lecture of Sheikh

Mustafa slavery that actually of Sheikh Muhammad died Ramadan al

booty. Wala when we read the biographies.

What stood out to me once every single one of them

was motivated by the parents. Every single one of them had a

parent standing behind him that had very high aspirations, very

strong wool, and Tawakkol and Allah subhanaw taala and then

provided them with a good upbringing.

That's true for

most scholars, we do get we do get the the rare case the likes of

amendments to UT Rahimullah to Allah was an orphan. The likes of

even hudgell hate me, Rahim Allah Allah, who was an orphan, and then

divine intervention came through. We don't know perhaps the parents

did have high aspirations but didn't live long enough to see the

success.

So what's imperative for us

in today's time,

is to ensure that we have very high aspirations for our children,

and then to provide them with a very good upbringing.

In fact, more

today,

in today's time,

it's more

we are obligated to do so given the attacks on the morality of our

children.

And given the attacks on the upbringing of our children, it's

not only an optional thing now, it's not only you know, if I feel

like it, it's a necessary step for us, for us to take.

And if we see the impact that these people had in society, the

likes of environment of us early the likes of Muhammad Al Fatiha,

who conquered Constantinople, his mother from a very young age had

this aspiration for him.

The likes of Sheikh Salah Kadena UB, who conquered Palestine, the

likes of Imam Al Ghazali on intellectual level, who took on

the shiny balconies at the time, we took on the philosophers and by

the way, today we still use Immanuel fatalis works to

understand philosophy. The first book you wrote was Maqasid will

philosopher the aims of the philosophers the second of the his

work was widely accepted, hidden is enrolled at the half

philosopher, the incoherence of the philosophers. So on every

aspect, we see how the positive change that these individuals

brought into society that was fueled by the parents intentions,

the parents aspirations and the parents,

the parents ensuring that they have a good upbringing and a good

education. Now, the reality

is that I don't think any individual who

argue against this. I don't think any individual who deny that he

wants this for his child but the the many of us feel like how do we

get the so Mr. Ma Rahmanir Rahim Allah Allah, one of the scholars

when we just mentioned

a 10th century chef, a Judas, one of the most important important

Shafi scholars, because we refer back to his work. So today in

order to know if any of the Shafi AI books contradict him, Ahmed

Ramillies, books, those those views are put aside, and his book

is considered the preponderant view in the madhhab. So this is a

big figure we're speaking about. Remember Rahmanir Rahim Allah

Allah writes 100, roughly 100 lines of poetry,

addressing the parents and the upbringing of the children.

And so, I'd wish to touch on two three of these points that Mr.

Romney puts forth, for us to ensure

that our children follow the same to the trajectory that the likes

of Mr. Romney and others had. One of the first things you mama

Romney says.

He says,

Are you born Noah Chu Lucia, told us Savi and Calima you

he says, Be sure to busy your child or other the heart of your

child. So yeah uses the word.

What Aidan Sugarland Sheriff, pelvis. Sabe uses the word hot

pile, which literally means hot, but the word call

and intellect the word hot and intellect and intellect is

interchangeable given the context. So the commentators on this verse,

they use both,

they say the first thing you need to do, they tackle it from the

intellectual side, ensure that the mind of the child is busy.

With those things that are gradually developing his

intellect.

These are the commentators speaking, I'm just delivering the

message. They say, lack of focus, and racing thoughts are

detrimental to the development of the child's intellect. And this

can be avoided

by avoiding busying the child's mind with randomness directly,

direct, directionless, content,

whatever,

the same email telling you, the child can sit down for four hours

with a book, the same email that they're not unrealistic. They tell

you know, they learn through play, they learning through play.

However, what the minds are being consumed, consumed, consumed with

must be directed. You need to manipulate it in such a way that

the mind is busy with something that's beneficial. That gets him

thinking. Right.

And then the commentators continue and they focus on the same word

from the spiritual aspect. And they quote the likes of Imam Al

Ghazali Rahim Allah Allah women because Allah says that what ever

in this through the eyes and ears are channels to the heart, and

whatever images reaches the heart

that pollutes the heart, it's almost impossible to eradicate

after that. This is the words of a man of his early that didn't see

the internet that we have today. Right? So from a spiritual aspect,

basically they say ensure that whatever interests the child to

his heart, through his eyes through his ears are not things

that are going to pollute his heart

because it's impossible or close to impossible to eradicate it once

again. The beautiful point that Mr. Moran Lee mentioned here is

what he says keep the child's mind to heart busy with those things

that are beneficial and couldn't be my huge boon axial Adobe,

because it's going it's going to affect his credit it's character

later on. If what's interesting is pollution. If he's busy with every

random thing, statistically videos

for four or five hours straight what do we expect of the child?

What do we expect him to make of his life there after

right so if what's interesting is pure.

And the development of his intern intellect is consistent and

directed. You can expect good character but if the other the

opposite is true, then expect you gonna tell me that you will have

very little etiquette

and you won't necessarily be able to make anything of himself.

My mom Rahmanir Rahim Allah Allah continues. You know, we've

mentioned the list a list of scholars, the likes of Imam Suki,

so I wish to perhaps just she mistook his relationship with his

father. Before we continue with the words of Imam Bromley in his

poetry. He was a mama

tsuchiura mulata Allah says his father

would send them to Imam and Mizzi Muhammad mmm Mizzi was one of the

great Madison one of the time and scholars of religion. And he sent

him to him as a hobby at the same time was also a scholar of Hadith

and a leading scholar in the science of religion. One day, Mama

Sookie the sun the sun is superior the father Sookie the sun is tell

you, Dina Sookie the father is the period in SOP, the son would go to

a museum and he's relating this in his autobiography. He says when he

came home when he comes home, his father asked him, What did you

learn from him? Is it today? You couldn't fully saw the pod in

tattooed. tattooed in a suitcase was one of the leading scholars of

his time, the chief judge, and I'd say Father, you couldn't. So you

would ask your son origin and buy music today. And then you would go

to a mother happy the next day and we'll come back. What did you

learn by my, my mother hubby today?

Which beautifully demonstrates to us gives us insight that his

father was very up to date to this education.

Right? Not just he's going classes some way.

I'll see the report the end of the year. Every day when Mr. Mizuki

returned from from class. His father asked him What did you

learn today and challenge him on his understanding.

Then remember, Sookie says his father never allowed us to sleep

the last third of the night. His father would wake me up as a young

child and say even if you're going to play, you're not going to sleep

this last portion of the night. Because I don't want it to become

a habit of yours that you can wake up at this time. This hour will be

for 5g This hour and a half before Fajr mama so please wait himself.

A father would never allow us to sleep the last third of the night.

He would wake us up in many siblings and save even if you're

going to play around but you're not going to sleep this out. A

father that was involved in his child's education and not only

education, but his spiritual upbringing as well.

In our suitcases, when he would come back from him as a hobby we

will go to my mother who was very he was very happy with my mother

happy was a very approachable person you came from my mom Mizzy

wasn't too happy because for me she was an unapproachable person

very stern person and for the child at that time, you know, we

just gives us insight to that they were normal human beings like you

and I

remember Romney Muhammad Allah Allah continues and he says

off the focusing on the heart and the mind of the child he says via

the field be here and could Anil Joe Holly what could be handled

fiscally what Burley woman or this bill could be well here in Baku

lumen Lai settler who Amana protect your child from every

sinner? Ignorant, treacherous liar, any individual who has these

characteristics, not let your child spend time with him? For in

our Salah bill

have the sabe

and sorbitol Ashari

he says the secret and the cinema of Azalia Ron Allah Allah mentions

as well. This is the secret to the upbringing of your child. He says

the secret of the saints

of their upbringing and how they

see to the nurturing of the children is what have the sabe and

Sofitel luxury they never allow the children to spend time in

people who are involved in sin. Straight up Let's call a spade a

spade. Right anyone was involved in fiscal involved in was was

involved in lying to the cheaters whatever the quality may be, never

allow your child to spin time in those people's company.

Why is it the ba ba our nature we steal from one another you rub off

on me and rub off on you from you

will soon and universally be inevitable model II

Khalili

the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he quotes the prophets of

salaam who said that your character is that of your

companion?

Your character is that of of your companion. If you allow the child

in company that's not beneficial. What do we expect?

We're going to pour

false in the glass and expect not to come out. Right? So the second

advice of Mr. Muhammad Rahim Allah Tala is what protects the children

from company that's not beneficial.

He continues and this is you and I, as the parents and he says, oh

you father. Oh your mother

who has not yet

read himself of bad habits and sin

At the very least, he pleads to us at the very least, do not commit

those sins in front of your children.

At the very least, if you cannot read yourself completely from sin,

irrespective what it might be, at the very least, do not commit the

sins in front of your children. Your child needs to see you as the

Father and as the mother in the best light as possible. You don't

have to be the most knowledgeable person, we don't have to be the

most strongest person, we don't have to be the most wealthiest

person, but my son needs to see me as an upright person.

So no matter what this means is that I struggled to hurt myself or

what no matter what the bad habit is that I struggled to read myself

or,

at the very least in my marami Rahimullah analysis, do not commit

to sins in front of your children.

So after the intellect, and the heart, often ensuring that he has

good company, after ensuring that you only display good character

to your child.

He leaves one loss advice. And that's what that's

ultimately everything that we implement. Everything that we wish

to steer the child in a certain direction, will only come into

fruition through the will of Allah subhanaw taala one of the chef

Morabito Hajj, Muhammad, Allah Tala is quoted to have said that

when they asked about the upbringing of his son, who's also

a great scholar, he said that he's tarbiyah of his child was Doha

rubber. He's telling me, his child was a DA.

So after we have

stressed and exhausted ourselves in ensuring that the child gains

the good in education, the good companionship and did you display

good character. Last, but not least, you need to make dua for

the for the for the child, the average for our children needs to

take preference over do anything else or anyone else.

And if Allah subhanaw taala sees our sincere efforts

and when we are consistent in our efforts and consistent in our

eyes, certainly Allah subhanaw taala will except my mother was

early is in Mama was early because Allah subhanaw taala chose him to

hurry, hurry because Allah Subhana Allah chose him to be Muhammad

Buhari. The times are different, the challenges are more the

distractions are more but the same Allah subhanaw taala exists, we

need to experience have very high aspirations and ensure that our

children are in good company receiving a good education and

Insha Allah, the need of the time, the challenge of the time could be

seen to and solved with the next generation of our children

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