Riyadh Walls – Jumuah Talk 23 October 2020

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The segment discusses the history and characteristics of Islam, including the assignment that it does not require gender equality and the proposal that it only takes care of people's emotions. The "haste" concept is discussed, including the "people of" and "haste" in the context of the assignment. The "ethos of" is discussed, including the "has been mistranslation" concept, and the importance of understanding emotions and intellect. The segment also touches on the use of negative language and hesitation in relation to praying.

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			Hola Hola Monica
		
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			Allah
		
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			Allah
		
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			shadow
		
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			shadow
		
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			shadow Mohammed was
		
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			Shan
		
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			Shan
		
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			find your
		
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			love
		
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			Europe behind I mean
		
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			you won't be a center or the real
story Cubana.
		
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			You won't be a
		
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			citizen Obinna
		
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			europea Musa region Kuru before
rich Kuru winner. Jambi. I learn
		
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			who you will be a thinner shark
Rama Homina was a manner that
		
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			will help them in your head book
for the amillennial curry buena
		
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			electrooptic Yeah, I remember
Celtic Yassa Europe the Celtic
		
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			yellow teeth
		
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			have been arena Rhema jocks the
Himba geez, in the trailer
		
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			condition 14
		
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			Why should you watch a
		
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			lot more? Yeah, man between your
western or for Rahul Eamon. I'll
		
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			go to your table Turton while
Congress should do coolamon but
		
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			should you enlist a union or
whenever we get our house even our
		
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			having been murdered and
Rasulullah Bella
		
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			also had OMA khachapuri uma Bucha
hydrophila How could you have
		
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			had to atone you're killing Bella
has become a cashier but deja vu
		
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			Gemini, Alpha jumio kosali He
solo?
		
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			Salam aleikum, La Jolla Island and
Houda Mohabbat Inessa Alma na hat
		
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			Alan Aiken, Hamilton and
Biographia from Islami walk across
		
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			Aqeedah
		
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			Illa Aimia Sarah T Kiran
		
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			is smart omae
		
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			Ilana Carlo Mowlana Tamara Kosmo
fi kita the hill as his
		
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			brother owns the below him in a
shape shaytani R Rajim wala who
		
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			name is Lulu the Allah hinda build
models
		
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			while you reach early Allah hinda
Darja. So doc Allahu La vie,
		
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			tomato Muslimeen we've been
speaking about the sacred
		
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			institution of marriage.
		
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			And we have spoken about the 100%
Spiritual equality between men and
		
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			women in the eyes of Allah
subhanaw taala. But physically,
		
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			emotionally and psychologically
they are not equal. In fact, Islam
		
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			does not call for gender equality.
What it calls for is justice.
		
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			spiritually. We've sorted that
out, although Sanatana has stated
		
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			that
		
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			emphatically in the Holy Quran
100% equality with regards to the
		
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			good deed of a man and the good
deed of a woman, but physically,
		
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			psychologically and emotionally
they are not equal. But Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala has granted equity
in other words justice, in the
		
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			attributes that he is given to a
man in order that he can fulfill
		
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			his role in the family and
likewise the attributes that he is
		
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			given to the woman that she might
fulfill her role, and that they
		
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			might fulfill each other's rights
that Allah subhanaw taala has
		
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			granted the one over the other.
And that takes us to a hadith of a
		
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			beloved Prophet Mohammed Salah Abu
Salah Marlon in Sahih Bukhari
		
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			a hadith which has been narrated
by none other than of the login
		
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			name is Ruth are the allowed to
baraka
		
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			and then the BA sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam up all set up Kuno afara
		
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			tune, such a cool new authority.
		
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			Now, the atoms they were saying a
shelter off will be the things
		
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			that number the opposites, he said
they will be a follow.
		
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			Now after in order to understand
it, you need to understand the
		
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			opposite of Atharva tuner that is
etha don't
		
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			you if you don't I'm fooling him.
Willow Kennedy him Kasasa
		
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			you almost wanted to Allah is
speaking about, about the true
		
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			believers
		
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			that they preferred others over
themselves like the unsolved
		
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			window hygiene. When they came to
Medina came and
		
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			they gave to them in some of them.
Some of them actually even
		
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			divorced the wives so that the
more hygiene could get married,
		
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			some of them gave of the of the
wealth to the more hygiene.
		
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			And the attribute of the believer
is that he always helps another
		
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			believer, even if it means he just
himself short in inverted commas.
		
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			Why? Because when somebody gives
sadaqa they never do themselves
		
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			short. That's why I say again, in
inverted commas. You're never
		
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			doing yourself short. When you
spend in the path of Allah.
		
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			Our Beloved Prophet Muhammad
Sallallahu wasallam says,
		
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			lie and pursue made a mistake Our
aim to serve the consumer is
		
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			that sadaqa charity will never
ever cause a deficiency in your
		
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			ism makes you fat, what we know is
that it multiplies it.
		
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			Remember, universe of Akkad Allah
has annihilated interest, any
		
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			transaction in which there is
interest, it is going to the
		
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			blessings of Allah, what your
risks are the conflict, Allah
		
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			multiplies charity and the person
spends in the path of Allah was
		
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			one of the other multiplies to at
least 10 times at least 10 times.
		
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			Punjab Hill has submitted for the
harsh RAM Surya so I'll ethos and
		
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			ethos is when a person wants to
see to somebody else's needs
		
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			before they own. Allahu Akbar. And
this is in fact the aluminum of
		
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			Sheffield of Camelot Allah He
describes this as true friendship
		
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			in a satirical hockey mankind the
mark
		
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			Woman Yeah to run off slowly in
fact, woman if a Ray Ray buzzer
		
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			Manny Sadak shocked at the thick
enough Sony Ah man, Allahu Akbar.
		
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			Arabic language so sweet. And
remember Shakira Hallo Daddy says
		
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			indeed the true friend is the one
that is always there for you.
		
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			And the one who will even harm
himself to benefit you.
		
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			And the one that in difficult
times, woman is a rival the man is
		
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			so dark in difficult times when
you are down and under. When you
		
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			are broken into pieces, then the
true friend will be speaking about
		
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			the true believing friend
		
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			that if the true friend shifted to
thick enough solely it's not he
		
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			will break himself into pieces and
then become the glue to stick your
		
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			pieces back together. Doesn't
sound the same language but the
		
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			meaning is beautiful. Mashallah.
So this is a song the opposite of
		
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			a thorough tune.
		
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			Tune another word for it is an
Ania
		
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			an alien coming from the word
		
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			I me my Hi.
		
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			You know, there are many AI
specialists and was thinking about
		
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			the medical kind. There are many
eyes capital I mean AI
		
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			specialists. In our community
today Malasana Tala make us the
		
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			people of ethos of the people that
say me, people are
		
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			those that are always looking out
and considering the needs of
		
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			others.
		
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			We as
		
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			a
		
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			The Prophet is saying Sahaba there
was a Shah, there wasn't. So have
		
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			always each other, that they were
that they had what they needed,
		
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			that if anybody was was down the
TV uplifted, if anybody was was
		
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			sick, that they should be treated,
if anybody was was hungry, the
		
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			patient we fake, etcetera,
etcetera.
		
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			But he said there will come a time
when people will know, they won't
		
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			be, they won't be thinking, the
way of ethos, they will be
		
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			thinking the way of alpha. In
actual fact, there's a saying in
		
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			the West, which I think best
represents this offer all this
		
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			underneath this i story, and that
is God for everyone and everyone
		
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			for themselves. But
		
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			in fact, subhanAllah the ethos in
this community Subhanallah when I
		
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			sit in the company of our elders,
and I hear about the ethos that
		
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			this community HAD, Once upon a
time, when it was a relatively
		
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			poor community. I say that again,
when this community of Muslims
		
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			here in Cape Town was a relatively
poor community.
		
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			And when they will be oppressed
		
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			by the previous regime in the time
of apartheid, but yet they had
		
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			ITAR for each other. They had a
name for it and Africans, he held
		
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			MCI.
		
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			He held MCI. They had little, but
was that little because they were
		
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			contented. Allah put Baraka in it,
and therefore they could share it
		
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			amongst each other.
		
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			That was the ethos.
		
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			But the prophet said, such a cool
Aha, there's going to be a time of
		
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			other people are just going to
worry about themselves in the
		
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			volume of the next person.
		
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			And then he said, sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam said they
		
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			were almost in what tone Kiruna
Ha, is going to be a Salah people
		
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			only going to think about
themselves, and you're going to
		
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			see things to kill, that you're
going to dislike.
		
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			And as many if you look in the
commentary of this hadith,
		
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			some refer to the fact that there
will be a lot of will be a lot of
		
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			innovation.
		
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			But also the fact that they will
be to the degree where people will
		
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			be making things that Allah has
made haram they'll be making it
		
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			harder. And that we can see is a
worldwide phenomenon is a
		
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			worldwide phenomenon where people
are moving and I'm going to use
		
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			the English term, people are
moving away from God with a
		
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			capital G Allah subhanaw taala the
God of Abraham, gender Thea Hula,
		
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			hula Santa Kola, for cambio Mila,
Ibrahima Hanifa. Se o Mohamed
		
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			Salah Salem that Allah has spoken
the truth and follows a pure way
		
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			of Abraham
		
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			given degree with a French
president, Emmanuel Macron, when
		
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			he said the other day that Islam
is in crisis. What does he
		
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			actually mean when he says that?
		
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			Because Islam is the only Deen
that remains on Earth,
		
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			representing the serenity of the
one true God Allah subhanho wa
		
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			Taala on earth
		
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			represents a true belief in Him
		
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			and representing the
implementation of his laws and
		
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			commandments.
		
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			There is no other religion that is
holding on to law as the muslimeen
		
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			are holding on to the law of Allah
subhanaw taala. So when he says
		
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			Islam is in crisis, what he
actually means is as Islam means
		
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			submission to God is in crisis.
		
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			In other words, God is in crisis.
Harsha. We seek refuge in Allah
		
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			subhanaw taala from such words of
falsehood.
		
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			I challenge him to say those words
again. I challenge him to say
		
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			those words again, we don't want
him to say those words. But if he
		
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			did say those words again, because
when he said those words, the very
		
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			next day, Allah subhanho wa Taala
brought down trinet torrential
		
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			rain from the summer and put
France into a flood crisis that it
		
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			hadn't seen in 100 years.
		
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			Be careful Mr. Macron or anybody
out there that thinks that God is
		
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			history?
		
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			La ilaha illa who there is none
worthy worship saved him well who
		
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			are alive conditioning Cuddy and
he has power of all things gender
		
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			theory.
		
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			So the model of semi center Kulu
		
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			Alpha.
		
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			Think you're gonna you're gonna
see things that you're going to
		
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			dislike.
		
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			So the Sahaba ask Allah for my
Munna
		
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			up
		
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			when the whole world is going
crazy, and corona COVID-19 is a
		
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			sign of a craziness let me tell
you.
		
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			In fact Allah subhanaw taala tells
us in so many places in the Quran,
		
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			called the halal meat company come
sunnah message. Allah.
		
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			This Coronavirus, and if you think
about what could still be coming
		
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			Coronavirus is only an odor, it's
a French word or the odor starter.
		
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			It's only a starter, if you think
in terms of what is still coming
		
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			in terms of the punishment of
Allah subhanho wa Taala This is
		
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			nothing. This is just a sign. This
is just a wake up call a Tamil
		
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			Allah for Allah to start your
room.
		
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			Also, when he says a camera, Allah
uses the multibody means for the
		
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			future, that the Command of Allah
is coming. The command of Allah is
		
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			coming. But notice that you don't
really see for that come on.
		
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			Get your lives into order now. And
I started myself repent and return
		
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			to Allah now and I started myself
make sure that your homes are in
		
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			order now and I started myself.
		
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			So they asked the messenger
Solimar you send them from a
		
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			tomato now what should we do that
we'll discuss? The world is going
		
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			to go crazy the world is going to
move away from from God Almighty
		
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			from Allah subhanho wa Taala from
his laws and commandments, they
		
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			can to live according to the whims
and fancies less than desires from
		
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			our kupuna What shall we do?
		
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			According to be your son Milani
will set them to a dune and how
		
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			can
		
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			I make him What does alone Allah,
Allah the
		
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			he said,
		
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			fulfill the rights
		
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			of those who have rights over you.
		
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			Fulfill the rights of those who
have rights over you. But just
		
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			alone, Allah, Allah de la and ask
Allah for the fulfilment of your
		
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			rights,
		
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			fulfill the rights that others
have over you and ask Allah for
		
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			the fulfillment of your rights.
		
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			And that's what you want to ask me
this topic, about the home
		
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			about marriage, about husband and
wife,
		
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			about family about children.
		
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			This is of paramount importance in
the time that we are living in
		
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			Germany of paramount importance.
We began with a higher what a
		
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			whodunit mystery loving Miss
Lizzie Allah hinder Bill Monroe
		
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			will reject you.
		
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			So the women are the same rights
of goodness that they have over
		
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			their husbands as their husbands
have over them. But for the
		
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			minimum is a degree what is the
degree we've spoken about that
		
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			already famous fully in
responsibility, the responsibility
		
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			of practical leadership?
		
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			Now, we touched on something last
week and I want you to take a
		
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			little bit further today. Jamarcus
		
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			we touched on the nature of a
woman
		
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			and how our beloved prophet
muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam, how he begins that hadith
with beautiful words Subhanallah
		
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			the most beautiful words what does
he say? And this hadith is also in
		
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			Buhari
		
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			Hadith began with
		
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			this hadith Bukhari authentic
hadith.
		
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			In this hadith, which is narrated
by
		
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			the amount of article
		
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			when our beloved Prophet Muhammad
Salah Salem is stone, so when we
		
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			say Hiram sosu being a sappy
		
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			treat woman country.
		
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			You know, it's like the opening
statement of any talk,
		
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			basically outlines the topic of
the talk. So, if anybody is to
		
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			read this hadith,
		
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			then based on the first words that
our beloved Prophet Muhammad
		
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			Sallallahu Sallam utters this
hadith is about treating woman
		
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			country.
		
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			But then he goes on to say
something that perhaps has made
		
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			this hadith one of the most
misunderstood Hadith and we
		
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			touched on that last week, but I
just want you This is such a
		
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			sensitive issue that I want to
bring our minds and our thoughts
		
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			back to it the lighter What did
you say? He said for in another
		
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			model, the holy men because a
woman has been created from a roof
		
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			A woman has been created from a
room.
		
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			And then he said,
		
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			well enough, I want to shame you
for delivery.
		
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			And indeed, the most crooked part
of the room is its upper part are
		
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			low, an upper, we don't say you
know, some way between the middle
		
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			and the top node meaning actually
means the top part of the room.
		
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			The top part of the room, which is
you're
		
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			referring to the head of a woman,
		
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			referring to the mind of a woman,
and Wallahi. I'm going to say this
		
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			before the time. If you think this
is pejorative, if you think this
		
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			is derogatory, if you think this
is negative, well, I think again,
		
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			Allah it's not at all. There's no
negativity in the statement of our
		
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			beloved Prophet Muhammad
Sallallahu Sallam whatsoever. In
		
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			actual fact, when we compare this
hadith with another, you're going
		
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			to actually see that there is
actually printed for them.
		
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			And a warning from Him, praise for
woman and a warning from him. Keep
		
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			that in mind. What did he say? He
said, for Indian, a woman has been
		
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			created from a roof
		
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			and the top, the most crooked part
of the roof of the top part of the
		
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			roof is the most crooked part.
		
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			Fell and crooked please. You know
when we're solely played cowboys,
		
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			and
		
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			when we hear the word crooked,
don't think of crooked as in terms
		
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			of evil or bad, or mischievious.
It's got nothing to do with it.
		
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			And the next statement clarifies
that What did you say? allah
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for me
to chemo Castletown. Because if
		
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			you've tried to strike the lips,
if you try to straighten it,
		
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			then you're going to break it.
		
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			And if you leave it
		
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			when you talk to learn ESL
language, it will remain cooking.
		
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			It will remain bent. For so
soaking is
		
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			so cheap woman counting.
		
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			Cheap woman can take my advice
cheap woman can't
		
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			take my advice tree woman can keep
what's the Hadees about
		
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			the crookedness of woman love
Allah. People have misunderstood
		
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			this hadith.
		
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			This is about treating women
currently based on the way that
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala has created
them and then takes me know
		
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			perhaps to them one of the most
controversial ahaadeeth When I say
		
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			controversial, what for a true
believer, but for those who don't
		
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			understand it, for those who have
taken it out of context for those
		
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			who have mistranslated or
misunderstood it
		
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			and that is the words of our
beloved Prophet Muhammad Salah
		
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			were to not be was salam.
		
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			And this hadith is also Hadith
		
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			which has been narrated by
Abdullah Muhammad Rasool Allah
		
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			Azza wa sallam upon ma a two min
Naki Sati up clean wala dean of
		
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			the leper, leafy looping guna
		
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			He's like a father guidance.
		
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			A beloved prophet tells him I have
not seen naughty salt. And you
		
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			know, you know, it's one of the
biggest problems.
		
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			One of the biggest problems
tomatoes see me is the
		
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			mistranslation of a hadith.
Especially for and here we are
		
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			living in a non Arabic speaking
community at large he doesn't
		
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			understand the Arabic language. So
we rely on translation, but
		
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			we are going to go for adjusted to
istilah and then when we come back
		
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			to the community
		
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			you have to feel happy
		
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			with some good user
		
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			ship to come to God for your food
or a bar could move on.
		
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			And hamdulillah on me, I shall do
more than what you saw
		
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			when I became aware of him and now
have you been a 1 million
		
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			crossover MMA fighter with MDA
with
		
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			yo yo skinnable secret inhibitor
owner we talked about mica
		
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			otherwise
		
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			you're not gonna see me in
continuation.
		
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			Our Beloved Prophet Muhammad
Sallallahu Sallam in this house
		
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			Give sahih Hadith he says to woman
the woman was in front of him. Now
		
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			I want to prepare you. The
question is when he says this is
		
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			he insulting them?
		
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			Woman is he insulting him and open
up a prophet Muhammad says what he
		
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			insults woman.
		
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			Woman I know which whose seat lies
Janna for each and every single
		
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			one of us, woman of whom Allah
		
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			wa should be treated with goodness
and kindness with respect with
		
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			love with mercy, compassion.
		
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			Woman of another prophet Muhammad
Salah Salam said
		
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			that you are those who are
basically wise and I am the best
		
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			to my wife.
		
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			Is this the Mohammed that would
insult women or degrade women have
		
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			a little woman I asked him you
		
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			love Allah? By Allah? No.
		
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			He says to me in Pune amaro a to
me Naki sati. Aladdin now notice
		
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			what is not the
		
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			first mistake, the translator says
deficient.
		
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			deficient that's indicative.
		
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			derogatory, we're deficient.
		
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			This is the wrong word to use for
nothing some products.
		
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			Because the fact that a woman the
first thing he says Ma, he may not
		
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			be Satya tackling what?
		
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			Immediately, somebody will
translate and say intellect. So
		
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			knocks, knocks, which means
basically a shortage. Oh, so when
		
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			women are stupid,
		
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			you haven't understood.
		
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			You haven't understood the Hadith.
In actual fact, if you really go a
		
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			little bit deeper the word that
comes from the word upon
		
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			this is called, you know, in Saudi
Arabia, they call it Egon, what is
		
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			ego?
		
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			That thing that they put on their
heads.
		
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			It's black. Nowadays, they make it
in China. But in the old days,
		
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			they used to make the dumb black
goat's head
		
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			and exercise its main purpose is
what not to keep the book.
		
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			The book, Rajesh Sharma has the
scarf that way over our heads,
		
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			that's not the main purpose for
the Eagles to keep the good throw
		
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			on your head. That is something
that was introduced much later.
		
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			The initial purpose of the call,
but the Prophet said to the man,
		
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			when he said,
		
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			obvious in Jurmala, Allah
		
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			can I leave my camera and put my
trust in Allah almost like times
		
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			and put my trust in Allah. So he
says 10
		
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			times the channel, take a
		
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			minute, if Paul every time he used
to use that rope, to tie the one
		
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			leg of the camel with a bracket.
And even when the camel goes on,
		
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			all falls down, then one of the
legs they tie with a God so that
		
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			the camel doesn't run away.
		
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			And that is where the occult comes
from the occult is there to
		
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			restrain us. The uncle is day to
restrain us
		
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			to keep us within our limitations
and our boundaries.
		
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			And this is where allows differ
comes in
		
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			the hemisphere of the brain, which
has to do with allow different
		
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			emotion and the hemisphere of the
brain that has to do with
		
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			intellect. Now I know there are
some medical practitioners here in
		
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			JAMA, please correct me if I'm
wrong. But when I was in Yemen
		
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			some years ago,
		
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			somebody explained to me that
between the intellectual
		
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			hemisphere of the brain and the
emotional hemisphere of the brain,
		
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			there is a bridge. And in the man
that bridge is very narrow. And in
		
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			the woman that breaches like a
highway.
		
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			The way the emotions and the
intellect are moving in between
		
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			each other.
		
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			And if we are to say that a woman
has nothing in terms of Apple,
		
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			then we have to say that a man has
not symptoms of autism. A man has
		
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			a shortage in terms of emotion.
Woman has extra and a woman has a
		
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			shortage in terms of outcome A man
has extra nautical in terms of
		
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			cleverness in actual fact if you
go further in the Hadith, this is
		
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			where the stigma of changing your
brain is for women. Allahu Akbar.
		
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			It turns into a phrase because you
know when he says he says Model A
		
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			to me now, but I didn't have
		
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			Another lady looking income after
the loop.
		
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			I have not seen
		
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			those with a shortage in a circle.
And indeed, of course, why?
		
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			Because a woman gets so high and
she can't pray. So there's a
		
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			shortage. It's not negative. It's
just a fact of life. She gets so
		
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			high, she can't pray, she gets her
hay. She cannot fast. So there's a
		
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			shortage. It's not a negative
connotation, it just means that
		
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			she, because of this Azima
natural, she doesn't have a
		
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			choice. She's not allowed to pray,
nor is He allowed to fall. So how
		
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			can it be negative, now you can
follow me
		
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			on Facebook, not just get up in
some sort of negative connotation
		
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			whatsoever.
		
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			And he says, living looping
		
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			means that a woman she with
		
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			the way Allah has created her
uncle, so Woody, this is my
		
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			attention to a phrase of the
lover, Lizzie looping that they
		
00:31:06 --> 00:31:12
			overcome. Men have internet. Other
words, Allah subhanaw taala has
		
00:31:12 --> 00:31:17
			given them the ability to outweigh
any man. And that's why I always
		
00:31:17 --> 00:31:20
			say when it comes to Nikka I will
say please remember, and I say to
		
00:31:20 --> 00:31:24
			the bridegroom, specifically, a
woman has the last word and any
		
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			arguments. Anything a man says
after that is the beginning of a
		
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			new argument. to still play
yourself. We aren't friends.
		
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			This is not a this is a
		
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			this is not a derogatory word.
This is praise that of another
		
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			prophet Muhammad Salah Salem is
making a woman in terms of the
		
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			ability to outwit a man and that's
why in the previous happiness is
		
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			so so Denisa.
		
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			Treat woman kindly. In other
words, don't let the fact that
		
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			they have less control over their
emotions cause you to do harm to
		
00:32:04 --> 00:32:07
			them, cause you to abuse them
		
00:32:08 --> 00:32:11
			cause you to be unmerciful, low
		
00:32:12 --> 00:32:14
			income or uncompassionate towards
them.
		
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			And it's a beautiful answer. In
fact, our beloved prophet muhammad
		
00:32:20 --> 00:32:22
			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
		
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			when he said, he said that an ISA
Chaka encouraged a woman or half
		
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			of men. That's why I mentioned
this last week. If somebody hits
		
00:32:34 --> 00:32:38
			you in the dark with your wife and
say, Please up to half woman,
		
00:32:38 --> 00:32:42
			other half of men, Allah Akbar,
this was the Prophet SAW Salem, he
		
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			said,
		
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			ma
		
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			and no one was honestly accepting
noblemen Walla Walla
		
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			and nobody wouldn't humiliate them
except the richest man. Now this
		
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			acid which is a Hadith, but the
scholar here says, yeah, and he
		
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			bothered Musa he has lived in
		
00:33:08 --> 00:33:09
			Lima, one of the few.
		
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			That woman, they overpower the
noble man who was a noble man, he
		
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			doesn't play
		
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			the noble man he allows himself to
be to be overpowered in terms of
		
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			in terms of cash in terms of the
argument, in terms of the
		
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			discussion, he allows himself you
know, it may my son, he keeps
		
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			quiet.
		
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			Because the property is speak good
things you keep quiet. So the
		
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			noble man allow himself to be
overcome.
		
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			And what, for whom I have to
		
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			know
		
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			what you're saying, but the
richest man he will not give up
		
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			nice.
		
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			If I'm, if I'm fat, say
		
00:34:03 --> 00:34:08
			this is this is the richest one in
the eyes of Allah subhanaw taala.
		
00:34:09 --> 00:34:09
			And then he says,
		
00:34:11 --> 00:34:17
			cooler Caribbean, so I prefer to
be the noble defeated one, then to
		
00:34:17 --> 00:34:18
			be the richest.
		
00:34:20 --> 00:34:24
			So you might come see me, Allah
grant us understanding. I was
		
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			going to try to teach us wisdom,
how to speak to one another,
		
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			bearing in mind the different way
in whichever conduct that Allah
		
00:34:30 --> 00:34:35
			has created each other woman
different from men, men are
		
00:34:35 --> 00:34:37
			different from women.
		
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			And then Allah subhanaw taala
calls especially as husbands and
		
00:34:41 --> 00:34:44
			fathers to understand this Mita
		
00:34:46 --> 00:34:47
			according to
		
00:34:50 --> 00:34:53
			call Allah to Baraka with the Isla
de la ciudad onto the lamina
		
00:34:53 --> 00:34:55
			shutdown and what do you want
		
00:34:56 --> 00:34:57
			to call it? Well, I totally
		
00:34:59 --> 00:35:00
			forgot the caller also.
		
00:35:00 --> 00:35:02
			All right, so promoting tequila
		
00:35:05 --> 00:35:10
			what kind of vinyasa Bihu looking
hassling? What Allah you know
		
00:35:10 --> 00:35:13
			Salatu was Salam yonder CDD Wahabi
Mohammed
		
00:35:15 --> 00:35:19
			Daniel she's very well known all
of a sudden will be in the middle
		
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			of it
		
00:35:22 --> 00:35:23
			so
		
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			along with Mohammed
		
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			Mohammed
		
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			Ibrahim
		
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			Mohammed Coronavirus Gigi
		
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			find him has
		
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			one side
		
00:35:44 --> 00:35:45
			one side is to Huberty
		
00:35:47 --> 00:35:52
			Allah Larissa listen to me well I
don't have to again I'm gonna say
		
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			the corner if you want to see of
course the cost in your local
		
00:35:55 --> 00:35:56
			anime Allah
		
00:35:59 --> 00:36:02
			Allah Masha mourtada or Hamilton
or moto MC mi Allah.
		
00:36:03 --> 00:36:06
			Allah Marfan Mahadevan Bella Allah
Marfan.
		
00:36:07 --> 00:36:09
			Hey by the law in La Jolla, what
		
00:36:11 --> 00:36:13
			are you having fracture you will
move
		
00:36:16 --> 00:36:20
			on to logic in your hammock hula
walking
		
00:36:38 --> 00:36:41
			when my mom was shadow aligner
		
00:36:44 --> 00:36:44
			I should only
		
00:36:47 --> 00:36:49
			hire a solid father
		
00:36:51 --> 00:36:54
			for the karma karma the shoulder
		
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			bag
		
00:37:03 --> 00:37:04
			system let's check
		
00:37:07 --> 00:37:11
			in aims to provide assistance to
all in Cape Town struggling
		
00:37:12 --> 00:37:15
			to be knocked out of the 100 foot
massage in Cape Town about 100
		
00:37:16 --> 00:37:19
			countries currently struggling and
the United Kingdom
		
00:37:20 --> 00:37:24
			contribution to the central Simon
sands which will allow us to cover
		
00:37:24 --> 00:37:27
			the shortfall of municipal
accounts and salaries of
		
00:37:27 --> 00:37:29
			immigrants indicators is important
		
00:37:30 --> 00:37:32
			not to predict the condition but
rather
		
00:37:34 --> 00:37:35
			to consider signing up
		
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			for
		
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			more inshallah
		
00:37:40 --> 00:37:45
			inshallah because of your generous
contribution we will shortly be
		
00:37:45 --> 00:37:48
			able to adopt a PCS massage
program, but we are still a long
		
00:37:48 --> 00:37:49
			way from
		
00:37:51 --> 00:37:54
			silence to be able to research to
benefit from
		
00:37:59 --> 00:37:59
			this
		
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			was
		
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			the
		
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			last one
		
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			we move
		
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			on
		
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			this means that it was nine
o'clock
		
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			well yeah go on
		
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			the last
		
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			one
		
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			I
		
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			love
		
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			this
		
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			Walkman was
		
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			so awful
		
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			on
		
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			business was man
		
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			real long in Canada
		
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			alone
		
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			Hello
		
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			more long
		
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			might a moment
		
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			well I can
		
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			hardly even see how
		
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			I'm gonna
		
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			All
		
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			right
		
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			Morning
		
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			care
		
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			Morning