Rasul Suluki – Loving Your Brothers

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The speaker discusses the importance of telling people that they love people in a way that is not related to their faith. They explain that the concept of love is not just a physical or intellectual expression, but rather a heart-to-head connection. The speaker also emphasizes that love is not just a physical or intellectual expression, but rather a heart-to-head connection.

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			We are
		
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			always grateful to Allah for
		
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			having El Maqasit
		
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			and being able to come here.
		
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			And,
		
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			we really like to try to avoid talking.
		
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			But,
		
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			Masha'Allah,
		
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			we,
		
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			I was
		
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			reading the Hadith of the prophet
		
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			where he mentioned
		
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			that you will not be a believer until
		
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			you love each other.
		
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			And,
		
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			in the same chapter he mentioned,
		
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			or in the next chapter he mentioned,
		
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			that if you love someone,
		
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			tell them that you love them.
		
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			And I think
		
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			I'm from a generation where you didn't do
		
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			such,
		
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			you know,
		
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			especially if you were a man, you didn't
		
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			say to your father,
		
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			I love you dad. I mean,
		
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			I wasn't Muslim either, so
		
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			we didn't know that such a thing was
		
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			supposed to take place between
		
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			2 men.
		
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			And so,
		
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			a lot of us
		
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			didn't get a chance to tell our fathers
		
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			that we love them.
		
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			And some of us, it wasn't until they
		
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			were very ill
		
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			that we had the opportunity,
		
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			or we were forced
		
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			by the moment to say,
		
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			I love you.
		
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			And the reason
		
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			for the prophet saying this,
		
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			it was mentioned in the commentary
		
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			that
		
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			it solidifies
		
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			the love between people.
		
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			When you actually tell someone,
		
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			and tell your children
		
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			that you love them.
		
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			You know, we're we're kind of stingy on
		
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			this word, or it becomes the word that
		
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			we kind of say and
		
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			really we're not connected to what we're saying.
		
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			I love you. Well, what does that mean?
		
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			Do you all, do you obey? Do you
		
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			provide? Do you, you know, the other actions
		
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			that go along with this,
		
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			this love.
		
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			So,
		
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			you know, even though you've come from a
		
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			generation and maybe from a household, and I
		
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			may have mentioned this before,
		
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			you know there's some households where they don't
		
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			mention this at all, love for each other,
		
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			And it's really
		
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			sad
		
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			that it doesn't take place because it's,
		
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			you'll
		
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			be surprised the effect that it has on
		
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			people, just as the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam
		
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			told us that
		
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			to smile
		
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			when
		
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			we're engaging with other people,
		
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			and a smile from someone
		
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			has a tremendous effect on the heart.
		
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			And so,
		
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			what we want to try to do
		
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			is
		
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			the brothers and sisters that we know,
		
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			you don't have to do it today because
		
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			they might think you're just
		
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			copying, but that's not bad either.
		
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			But go and tell the people
		
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			that you love that you love them
		
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			because
		
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			we won't be a believer
		
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			until we love them.
		
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			And the way to nurture that love in
		
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			that same hadith was by giving the salaams.
		
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			But the salaam
		
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			of this is not the salaam,
		
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			It's from the heart.
		
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			And that's where we want to come from.
		
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			My heart to you. Assalamu
		
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			alaikum.
		
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			And to tell you
		
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			that I love you.
		
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			For Allah's sake.
		
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			And if someone says, I love you,
		
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			you say, may the one for whom you
		
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			love me,
		
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			love you.
		
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			Because all of our love is for his
		
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			sake.
		
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			And that's why,
		
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			you know, we're in these sessions like this.
		
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			I mean that
		
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			the reason for coming is that I'm
		
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			I'm praying that Allah
		
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			cause love
		
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			to enter into my heart for him and
		
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			his messenger Muhammad,
		
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			and not just an intellectual
		
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			or sing along
		
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			program, it's really
		
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			to infuse the heart with love for Allah
		
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			and his messenger.
		
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			And if we come out with that, dear
		
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			brothers and sisters, we have
		
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			we have got the world, and and the
		
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			heavens, and the earth, and everything in it.
		
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			So
		
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			we ask Allah
		
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			to help us, to give us tawfiq,
		
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			people of the world. We have a very
		
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			strong presence in the world. We have a
		
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			very strong presence in the world. We have
		
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			a very strong presence in the world. We
		
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			have a very strong presence in the world.
		
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			We have a very strong presence in the
		
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			world. We have a very strong presence in
		
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			the world. We have a very strong presence
		
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			in the world. We have a very strong
		
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			presence in
		
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			the world.