Omar Usman – The Motive Patrick Lencioni 3 Things I Learned

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In this video, the speaker discusses three things he learned from the book The Motive by Patrick Lenc Geoff. The first thing is that leaders are held accountable by their primary role, which is managing and leading people, and that leaders are held accountable to provide guidance and coaching to their leaders. The second thing is that leaders are held accountable by their actions, and that they need to provide guidance and coaching to their leaders to ensure that they are doing the right things. The third thing is that leaders are held accountable by their actions, and that they need to provide guidance and coaching to their leaders to ensure that they are doing the right things.

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			In this video, I'm sharing 3 things I
		
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			learned from the book The Motive by Patrick
		
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			Lencioni.
		
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			This is a book that explains 2 different
		
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			motives that a leader may have for becoming
		
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			the CEO of an organization
		
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			and the cascading effect of either of those
		
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			two intentions.
		
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			So the first thing I learned really was
		
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			exactly that.
		
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			The organ the health on
		
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			the impact on organizational
		
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			health of the two different motives. So the
		
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			first motive that he outlines is the wrong
		
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			one, which is that people ascend the ladder
		
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			of leadership
		
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			as a reward. So they see their moving
		
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			up or them taking a role as a
		
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			CEO or a lead manager, whatever the case
		
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			may be, as the reward or the prize
		
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			for all of the hard work that they've
		
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			put in. And so when that person becomes
		
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			a leader, they act in a certain way.
		
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			So for example,
		
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			they don't like to do the things that
		
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			they don't want to do. So now that
		
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			I'm the leader, if I don't like meetings,
		
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			I'm not gonna hold meetings.
		
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			If I my interests align with marketing, I'm
		
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			gonna go full force in marketing
		
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			and delegate the rest out.
		
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			The problem with this is that, he says,
		
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			the role of the chief executive, which he
		
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			says the chief executing
		
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			officer,
		
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			as he renames it,
		
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			is that the primary role of that job
		
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			is managing and leading people. So coaching them,
		
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			holding them accountable,
		
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			helping them navigate different issues.
		
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			And so that requires doing a lot of
		
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			other work that the CEO might not want
		
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			to do. So when they come in with
		
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			the wrong motive, when they come in seeing
		
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			it as a reward, they're going to be
		
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			less likely to do the things that they're
		
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			supposed to be doing. And so things like,
		
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			I don't like meetings. I think they're boring,
		
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			so I'm not gonna have them. On the
		
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			other hand, there's the CEO that sees leadership
		
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			as a responsibility,
		
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			and so they come in as the servant
		
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			leader. And one thing that Linconi says in
		
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			the book is that we need to do
		
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			away with the term servant leader because
		
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			all of good leadership is actually servant leadership.
		
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			And so when that person comes in, they
		
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			see their role as a responsibility
		
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			of helping other people.
		
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			The second thing I learned is where a
		
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			leader is held accountable. So when Tony gives
		
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			the example that a an athlete is held
		
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			accountable by their performance on the field, a
		
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			surgeon is judged by their
		
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			performance, for example, in the operating room, a
		
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			leader is held accountable or or judged by
		
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			their performance in meetings
		
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			and the outcome of those meetings, which is
		
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			the decisions that they make. That's the primary
		
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			role and responsibility
		
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			of a leader. Now one thing that happens
		
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			in kind of the trap that people fall
		
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			into, when a leader
		
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			doesn't want to have meetings, or they see
		
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			that now that I'm the leader, I can
		
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			choose not to do these things, they're not
		
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			having the right amount of communication in a
		
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			healthy decision making process.
		
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			And the thing that they hide behind, and
		
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			to me this was really interesting,
		
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			was they hide behind labeling all these things
		
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			as micromanagement.
		
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			Well, I don't wanna be a micromanager, so
		
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			I have smart people around me, and I
		
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			delegate to them, and I don't have to
		
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			worry about it. They're they're grown ups. They
		
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			can do their job. And on the flip
		
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			side, people that don't want to be held
		
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			accountable, they'll say, I don't want to be
		
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			micromanaged. I don't want someone checking in on
		
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			me constantly, and so on, and that starts
		
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			the breakdown
		
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			of accountability and culture, and it cascades its
		
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			way down the organization.
		
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			But instead, what a leader is supposed to
		
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			be doing, according to Lancione,
		
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			is
		
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			providing guidance and coaching,
		
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			providing a sense of accountability to their leaders.
		
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			And he says that doesn't show a lack
		
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			of trust.
		
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			What it does show that
		
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			the leader is there to provide the benefit
		
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			of guidance and coaching, and helping people to
		
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			maximize their potential. So even the best, even
		
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			the most competent, they still need some of
		
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			that direction and coaching, and that's the primary
		
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			responsibility
		
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			of the leader, and that's where they should
		
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			be focusing their time. And if they're not
		
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			focusing their time on that, then actually, it's
		
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			a sign of them coming in with the
		
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			wrong motive.
		
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			One other thing that he mentioned was
		
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			a lot of times leaders will try to
		
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			avoid difficult conversations,
		
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			and so they'll shy away from it. Politics
		
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			will continue to fester within the organization
		
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			because the leader doesn't like having those uncomfortable
		
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			conversations,
		
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			or they don't want to make someone feel
		
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			bad. And he said that, actually, this is
		
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			an act of selfishness,
		
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			because when a leader is avoiding those difficult
		
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			conversations,
		
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			they're doing it because they themselves don't want
		
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			to feel uncomfortable,
		
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			and in turn,
		
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			the consequence
		
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			of that is that the bad type of
		
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			behavior will continue. So the leader with the
		
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			responsibility
		
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			mindset
		
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			will tackle those things head on.
		
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			The third thing that I learned
		
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			was,
		
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			and this really is more of a warning,
		
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			which is that when someone does come in
		
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			with the right intentions, they come in with
		
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			the right motive,
		
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			there's still a trap that they can fall
		
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			into. Because when they come in with the
		
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			right motive, and they're coaching people, and they're
		
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			helping people, and they're serving people,
		
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			people will end up praising them quite a
		
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			bit, and they'll say, oh, this person is
		
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			so humble. This person is so responsible. I
		
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			love working for this person, and so on,
		
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			and so on, and so on.
		
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			And it becomes easy to drink your own
		
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			Kool Aid. And so Linconi says that it's
		
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			vital
		
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			that as people ascend the leadership ladder, as
		
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			they take on more responsibility,
		
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			especially
		
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			when they're doing it and with that sense
		
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			of responsibility,
		
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			that they have a strong inner circle
		
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			that can help to call them out on
		
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			behavior or hold them accountable as well. So
		
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			that's 3 things I learned from this book.
		
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			I highly recommend it. You can read it
		
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			in a short sitting.
		
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			One question that I have that I'd like
		
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			to hear your thoughts on.
		
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			So, Lenconi outlines the 2 motives. 1 person
		
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			that comes in with a sense of responsibility,
		
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			and 1 person that comes in with a
		
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			sense of this is my prize and my
		
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			reward. My question is,
		
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			how do we tackle the structures,
		
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			or the setup in different companies
		
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			that incentivize you to seek that reward?
		
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			Because a lot of times people are seeking
		
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			that leadership as the reward because that's how
		
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			the incentive structure is aligned. So how would
		
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			you suggest that we tackle that? I'd love
		
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			to hear your thoughts in the comments.
		
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