Omar Usman – Decisive Deep Dive Prepare To Be Wrong WRAP Framework

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The wrap framework is designed to help individuals learn to prioritize their options and eliminate biases. It is important to note that setting a trip wire is a good way to set a reminder on a calendar and retain a gym membership. The video series provides additional resources for further learning.

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			The last step of the wrap framework is
		
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			p, prepare to be wrong. And what that
		
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			means is that, okay, you may widen your
		
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			options, attain distance before deciding, reality test, do
		
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			all these different things, try to overcome your
		
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			biases, overcome your emotion,
		
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			all of that,
		
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			but still, you need something to signal to
		
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			you if you're going down the wrong path.
		
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			How do you do that? There's a famous
		
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			story about the rock band Van Halen for
		
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			basically being divas, that they would have in
		
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			their lengthy contract rider
		
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			that they wanted a bowl of M and
		
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			M's in their dressing room with all the
		
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			brown ones taken out, and this was something
		
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			that they hid somewhere in the middle of
		
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			that contract rider. Now the reason that they
		
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			did this
		
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			was they had a very they had a
		
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			lot of requirements for their shows. They were
		
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			doing a lot of innovative things with the
		
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			lighting and all of that that wasn't very
		
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			common. And so if their instructions weren't followed
		
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			exactly, it would create a big problem in
		
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			the show and it might actually even create
		
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			safety concerns or create a hazard.
		
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			And so what this did is they could
		
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			walk into the dressing room
		
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			and look at that bowl of M and
		
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			M's and they would know immediately.
		
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			Did the organizers of this event
		
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			pay attention to all the details that we
		
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			put in? If there's no brown M and
		
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			M's, it's a good indicator that yes, everything
		
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			is probably
		
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			taken care of very well.
		
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			But if they found a bowl of M
		
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			and M's
		
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			with the brown ones left in there, it
		
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			was a signal to them that they didn't
		
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			pay attention,
		
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			and we're gonna need to go back and
		
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			verify every single step of the setup process.
		
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			So they created this trip wire, something they
		
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			could very easily look to and say, okay,
		
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			this worked, okay, that didn't work.
		
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			In that first video with the banana bread,
		
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			that will be the example of setting that
		
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			limit of investing 2,500
		
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			and revisiting it after 8 months. And we
		
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			can apply this to all types of decisions.
		
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			Take take the example of gym membership. We
		
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			all struggle, should I get the gym membership,
		
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			should I get the gym membership, I don't
		
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			wanna just get it and then not use
		
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			it. Well here's a very easy way, set
		
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			a tripwire, create a framework for yourself.
		
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			Get the gym membership and then set a
		
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			reminder on your calendar
		
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			that 3 months from now, if I haven't
		
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			visited the gym at least twice a week,
		
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			I'm going to cancel the membership because I
		
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			know I'm wasting my money. But if after
		
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			3 months I've been going 2 or 3
		
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			times a week, now I can be satisfied
		
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			that I made the right decision, I can
		
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			be confident in that decision,
		
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			and now retain that gym membership.
		
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			Setting that trip wire is a good way
		
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			even after you've done all the other steps
		
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			to give yourself that final something to alert
		
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			you to whether you've made the right decision
		
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			or not. That's the last step in the
		
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			wrap framework. Hope you enjoyed this video series.
		
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			Please make sure you go through the deep
		
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			dive that I've linked to in the description
		
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			down below. It's got a ton of additional
		
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			resources to help you master the art of
		
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			decision making.