Omar Suleiman – The Firsts – When Allah Guided The Children Of Abu Lahab

Omar Suleiman
AI: Summary © The interviewer discusses the Prophet's image, relationship between his uncle and brother, the importance of Islam's actions and actions of its siblings, and the aftermath of his actions. They also touch on the Prophet's son's political and intellectual stance, his flexibility and pride, and his humility and focus on money. The discussion touches on the Prophet's son's closest relative's influence on the world, as well as his humility and focus on money.
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Dear brothers and sisters, InshaAllah Ta'ala, as we

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get into

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these last few biographies

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prior to Dhul Hijjah, may Allah allow us

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to witness it. May Allah give an accepted

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Hajj to all of those that are going,

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accept their du'as on behalf of our brothers

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and sisters in

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and beyond. May

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Allah accept everyone's Ibadat,

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everyone's acts of worship in that month, Allahum

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Amin.

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I wanted

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to kind of summarize at this point now,

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the family of the Prophet

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coming back to him

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after Fathuh Makkah. Obviously, you had from the

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family of the Prophet

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those that are considered from Assaabihun al Awloon,

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the first Muslims, the first to embrace Islam.

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And then you have those that held out

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until the very end

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and embraced Islam on Fatiha Mecca with some

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of the most severe enemies of the Prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. Of course, some of

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them who were enemies to the Prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam themselves, such as Abu Sufyan

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ibn Harith, the brother of the Prophet Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam who we spoke about. You have

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some that were indifferent,

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but they eventually came around again at the

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end, and the Prophet was so happy to

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have them. Hakim Nuhizam

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You have some like the mother of the

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Prophet

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Halima

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Sadia

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who was out in the desert when this

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entire affair was taking place

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and Islam came to her at the end

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of her life and the prophet SallAllahu Alaihi

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Wasallam was able to find comfort and joy

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in giving Shahada now to the woman

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that gave him milk and nursed him when

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no one else would when he was a

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child, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. And so the last

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2 that we're going to cover

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are the last 2 uncles of the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam that we haven't spoken

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about in detail just yet.

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You had Abu Lahab,

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you had Abu Talib,

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you had Al Abbas,

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you had Hamza.

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Right? So Abu Lahab,

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obviously, is the one that we're going to

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focus on tonight in terms of his family

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and what would become of the family that

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he left behind after

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his notorious enmity of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam.

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Abu Talib, who protected the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam and tried to shield him even as

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he hadn't embraced his dua in Mecca, still

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protecting the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam and serving

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a fatherly role. Al Abbas

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becomes Muslim later on, we'll talk about him

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in detail next week, who tries to step

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into the role of Abu Talib and protect

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the prophet

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after the death of Abu Talib, though he

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is not to the seniority of Abu Talib.

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And then finally, Hamza

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who was the brother of the prophet

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as well as the uncle of the prophet

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closest to him in age, who embraces Islam,

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the only uncle to make hijrah with him

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and then to be killed as a martyr,

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to be martyred on the day of Uhud

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So the only uncle

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that was hostile to the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam was Abu Lahab.

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And the sad thing about this is that

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Abu Lahab

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arguably was the closest to the Prophet

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in terms of playing that fatherly figure role

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before Islam. There is a deep relationship

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between Abu Lahab and between the Prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam, and so the pain that

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will be caused by the rejection of Abu

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Lahab is severe.

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Now the title for tonight is the Muslim

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family of Abu Lahab.

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But before we talk about the Muslim family

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of Abu Lahab, we're gonna talk about Abu

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Lahab. We're gonna talk about his wife. We're

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going to talk about

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his descendant who doesn't embrace Islam. And that

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will give us some perspective into the lives

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of those that did embrace Islam.

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And one thing that I'll tell you, SubhanAllah,

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is that no one's life in this family

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ends normally.

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Everybody has a very dramatic exit

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from this dunya into the akhirah. It's stunning,

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SubhanAllah, when you start to study

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each and every single one of their exits

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from this dunya, may Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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give us a good exit and allow our

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good exit to be a welcoming from the

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Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam into the next realm,

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Allama Ameen. So let's talk about Abu Lahab,

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the uncle of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

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He's about 20 years or so older than

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the Messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

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So he is a fatherly figure as well

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as an uncle, and we've already established this

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idea that Al Amr

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that the paternal uncle is like Al Warl,

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is like the father as the Prophet SallAllahu

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Alaihi Wasallam said.

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And when the

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Prophet was born, of course,

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he did not have his father

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Right? His father had passed away

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while he was still in the womb of

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Aminah.

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And this man steps into the picture, and

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we only know him for the scorn

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that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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has scorns him with in the Quran

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in Juzamah read so frequently by all of

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us. But Abu Lahab

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doesn't exactly fit

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the image that's often given to him

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in the movies. Right? Now, obviously, when there

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are movies about the Sahaba,

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the villains

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always look like villains,

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and the heroes look like heroes.

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Right? The image of the hero, the image

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of the villain matches

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what would bring out the greatest emotion, what

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would dramatize

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how we see these figures around the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. But Abu Lahab does

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not fit

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the image

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that is given to him in many of

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these movies and many of these popular

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references. So who is he?

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His name is actually

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So the father of the Prophet

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was Abdullah

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ibn Abdul Muttalib. He is Abdul izah

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ibn Abdul Muttalib. Abdul izah, obviously,

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in dedication to the idol, Al Uzza, the

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slave of Al Uzza.

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He was

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a stunningly

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handsome man.

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Immediately,

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you know, deflates,

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some of the imagery that you have,

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of the man. Extremely handsome. In fact, even

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when he's described in the most unflattering accounts

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by those who came from Mecca and saw

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or came into Mecca and saw him doing

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what he was doing,

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they were struck by his appearance.

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Very handsome man,

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very intelligent,

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wealthy, well put together, well dressed. And just

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side note here,

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all of the uncles of the Prophet SAW

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Allahu Alaihi Wasallam are described with a similar

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description.

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Right? Of course, the Messenger of Allah SAW

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Allahu Alaihi Wasallam was the most beautiful

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creation that you would see. His uncles are

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all described as being exceedingly handsome.

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Abu Lahab is no exception to that. He

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was handsome, he commanded

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a great respect because of his tribe. So

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he's from Banu Hashim.

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He's also exceedingly wealthy. So he's got the

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lineage. He has the wealth. He he has

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the appearance,

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he has everything in society, in that pagan

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society, in that Qurashi society

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that would cause him to succeed.

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He's described

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as having a glowing

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face. Now, by the way, when they say

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not all Nur is the same, not all

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light is the same,

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Right?

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Abu Lahab, which means the father of the

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flame, was actually his nickname before Islam.

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Why? Because the flame, they said he had

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reddish cheeks, he had a glow from his

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face,

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and of course that's something that was appealing

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to the Arabs, the reddish face. Right? He

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had a brightness, a glow,

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of iman, not the light of faith,

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but he was handsome.

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And some people's names were flipped when they

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rejected the prophet and some people's names simply

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took on another dimension.

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So Abu Hakem, the father of wisdom became

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Abu Jahal, the father of ignorance.

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Abu Lahab, the father of the flame became

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the father of another flame which is hellfire.

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Right? So what was a positive nickname becomes

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a negative nickname for him, but he was

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described by his appearance, which tells you a

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little bit about how he was. He used

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to wear a famous,

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cloak from Adam from from Yemen.

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He was described as being very generous towards

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the pilgrims.

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And in his generosity, which was boasting and

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not from a place of sincerity,

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Abu Lahab

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gained a reputation of generosity.

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How does he come into the life of

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the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam?

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I take you back to a few weeks

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ago when we describe

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that moment where Aminah

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gave birth to the Messenger of

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Allah Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam.

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Abu Lahab

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loved his brother, Abdullah, the father of the

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Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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And he too was grieving over the untimely

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death of Abdullah, and there isn't much in

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terms of years between him and Abdullah.

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Right? The father of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi

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Wasallam. They're very close in age.

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They grew up together.

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And so, of course, Abdullah died without even

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knowing that his wife Amina was pregnant with

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the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

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And when Amina

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gave birth to the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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Subhaiba

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becomes Muslim later on,

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was a servant in that house. She went

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to Abu Lahab to tell Abu Lahab, the

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uncle,

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that your nephew has just been born.

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Abu Lahab out of joy over the birth

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of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam freed Fawaybah

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Radiallahu Ta'ala Anha from slavery,

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Was so joyous, he sacrificed,

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he celebrated.

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He saw the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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as an extension of his beloved brother, Abdullah.

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And

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as time goes on,

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the closeness between the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam

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and Abu Lahab

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is in every single way in terms of

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business, in terms of caring for the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

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He was the neighbor of the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wasallam. And when I say the neighbor

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam, I don't

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just mean that they lived in the same

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neighborhood and there was any distance. They actually

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shared a wall.

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So when you think about the closeness,

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they shared a wall.

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So, I mean, if you think about how

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the exchanges between those two families,

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they are as tight as they come.

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2 of the sons of Abu Lahab, who

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we're gonna speak about, are engaged to 2

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daughters of the Prophet

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By all accounts, this is supposed to be

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a beautiful relationship

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of 2 families that are coming together, and

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we're gonna talk about the full family

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of Abu Lahab.

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His wife,

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her name is Jamil

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Arwa Bint Harb. Arwa Bint Harb.

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Who can tell me who she's the sister

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of?

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Abu Sufyan ibn Harb.

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Right? So she's Abu Sufyan's

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sister.

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Not the Abu Sufyan, the brother of the

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Prophet Abu Sufyan ibn Harif because we've distinguished

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those 2. Abu Sufyan, the chief enemy of

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the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam to come, right?

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That's his sister.

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Okay?

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Now,

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the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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comes out on that day

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to proclaim,

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to call out to his closest relatives, to

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call them to Islam.

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And when the Messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam stands on a Safa, he calls out,

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You

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which was a cry of an enemy that

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was approaching.

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Something severe is happening. Something severe is happening.

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The family of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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his relatives, all

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surround Asafaa

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to hear what the messenger of Allah SallAllahu

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Alaihi Wasallam

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is going to say.

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When the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam calls them

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to Islam,

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I can't emphasize enough

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how history could have changed

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if his uncle responded to him differently.

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Right? When the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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introduces

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Islam to these people after they just affirmed,

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you are the trustworthy one, you are the

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honest one,

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When the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam starts

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with that call, you know, if you ever

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see the pictures or the videos of entire

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tribes entering Islam,

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naturally,

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those of Banu Hashim look towards

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their elders.

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So if Abu Lahab, his neighbor,

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who is to be the father-in-law of his

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2 precious daughters alaihis salatu wa salam

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says, You

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My blood is your blood. My money is

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your money. I'm going to support you and

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follow you. We believe in you. Go forth.

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If Abu Lahab

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says, we believe in you,

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the entire

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episode changes.

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But Abu Lahab

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calls out to the Prophet

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and he curses him with the lowest curse

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in that

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society,

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may you perish, O Muhammad.

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Now, by the way, that is equivalent to

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the worst curse word that you could think

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about in the English language.

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Okay. Tabun Laka You Muhammad.

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And he says, Alihatha

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Jama'atana,

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is this what you gathered us for?

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You want us to turn all of these

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gods into 1 God?

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You want us to turn all of these

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gods into 1 God? And there are multiple

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narrations about how this how this conversation then

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takes place. But when he says that,

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he takes the air out of the room

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figuratively, right? Like, woah.

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And everyone else walks away from the Prophet

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except for Adi

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and who was a child. He says, I

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will follow you, You Rasool Allah.

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But Abu Lahab was the one

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who started

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the turning of society

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against the prophet

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Abu Lahab is a businessman. He rejected the

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Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam on the basis of

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money. He said, we make money off of

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these gods. We sell these gods. The pilgrims

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come from all over. Everyone makes money off

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of these idols. I am a man of

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commerce. How is it that you're gonna turn

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it all into one invisible God? It doesn't

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make sense financially. It's not a good business

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decision.

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That's what he's saying to the prophet, I

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can't hear anything else that you're saying because

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you're taking away our commerce. Right? I always

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tell people think of Abu Lahab not as,

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you know, like Captain Hook, if any of

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you remember

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imagery. Think of Abu Lahab as like a

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guy from Wall Street.

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Alright? Suit, tie, really cleaned up.

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Right? No. No. No. No. This this is

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a bad business decision. I hate this. And

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he even says to the prophet,

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you know, in in some of the subsequent

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conversations,

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he says, if you can't put it in

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my hand, it doesn't exist.

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Right? And there are multiple tafasir of

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He says, what you're promising me is as

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empty as these hands, and he

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blows on his hands, he says,

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I see nothing of what you're promising us.

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It's as empty as my empty hands right

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now. And Allah says, you and your hands

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will perish.

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You and your hands

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will perish.

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In one narration, in the Qurtubi, he said

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to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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What do I get if I embrace Islam?

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The Prophet said, You get what every Muslim

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gets.

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Abu Lahab said,

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So you're trying to bring a religion to

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your uncle that will put him on the

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same level as all of them?

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That's what you're giving me? No, no. I

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need my leverage. I need my money. I

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need my profit

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with an f.

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Hates the Prophet

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from that day on and the humiliation and

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the abuse

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starts.

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His wife,

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Jameel Arwa bint Harb.

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Imam Ahmad Rahimullah narrates his Musnat from Jundub

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ibn Abdullah

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that the Prophet

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became ill,

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and he was unable to stand up for

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prayer for a night or 2. Now imagine,

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they're next to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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they can hear his qiyam at night with

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Khadija

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And so they didn't hear him standing up

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and praying

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for a few nights.

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And Jamil comes to him and says to

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him,

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Where is that devil that descends upon you?

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I see that your demon has abandoned you.

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And that was the revelation of

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Allah swears

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that your lord has not abandoned you. Your

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lord has not forgotten you. Your lord has

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not forsaken you. Your Lord has not become

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repulsed by you. Your Lord is here. Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is with you.

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When the initial

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verbal insult didn't work,

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they then went to the next level, which

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was the physical abuse of the Prophet

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And Jamil,

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whose nickname

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is Hammaratul Hatab,

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the one who carries the firewood,

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she

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is the person

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who literally takes it upon herself

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to harass the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam every

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time he exits from his home, Alaihi Wasallam.

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So what should what would she do? Ashoka

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She would place actual physical thorns like spikes

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and stuff outside of the house of the

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Prophet So imagine the Prophet when he gets

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out of his door, he has to step

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over

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the spikes.

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Right? Like he literally has to avoid

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the harmful things that she's going out of

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her way to put in front of the

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door of the Prophet

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On top of that,

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she and Abu Lahab would take

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the guts of animals,

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the waste of animals,

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and they there are 2 narrations as to

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what they would do. They put it in

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front of his door, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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and they put it on top of his

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door. Why on top of his door? I

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mean, it gets really nasty, but I want

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you to have an image.

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That every time the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

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would open his door, what was on top

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of the door would fall on him Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam.

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And then on top of that, like, think

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about psychologically,

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your own uncle,

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your uncle, who's like a father figure to

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you, who's doing this to you.

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And on top of that, like, not only

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has this filth fallen on top of you,

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now you gotta step over this the the

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spikes

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and the thorns

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and all of that that's been placed along

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the way. On top of that,

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it's also narrated that she used to strangle

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the Prophet

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at times.

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This is like his aunt.

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So she would take this rope, she'd put

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it around the neck of the Prophet SAWS-eleven,

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and she'd chug it this way.

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Right? And it had some thorns on it,

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so it would leave marks on the Messenger

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of Allah,

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Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam.

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I'm giving you a picture of the parents,

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Abu Lahab and Jamil, because we know that

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their ending is not good.

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One of the things that they used to

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put in front of the door was

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was like a particular type of filth,

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and the prophet

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appealed to the senses of Quraysh, the sensibilities

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of Quraysh sometimes.

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So he said,

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What type of a neighbor is this, O

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Banu Abdul Muttalib?

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People who claim to honor your neighbors. Is

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this how a neighbor is supposed to be

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treated? Is this how a relative is supposed

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to be treated?

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So here's the thing, Abu Talib,

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Abbas,

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Hamza, they're not Muslim yet.

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Right? But they still they're trying to protect

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their nephew. Like, this is at the end

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of the day family. We don't treat family

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like this, and they're embarrassed because the prophet

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is

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talking about the betrayal of their values. This

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is aib on the family. It's shameful for

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the family.

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Right? And we know Hamzah

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how he is with Abu Jahl, right, when

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he smacks Abu Jahl,

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not even as a Muslim because how dare

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you treat my nephew that way? There's one

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narration

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that Hamzah

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heard the Prophet complaining. He comes out. He's

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not Muslim yet.

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And

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he says, What is it that you're talking

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about? The Prophet points to all the filth

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that Abu Lahab is putting on his door.

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Hamza

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takes it and he puts it on Abu

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Lahab.

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And Abu Lahab says, in akhirajulan

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majnoon, this brother of mine is a crazy

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man. He's a madman. Leave Hamza alone. Hamza

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is like, what are you doing? You're embarrassing

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us.

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Abu Lahab

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says,

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I've freed myself from you. I've freed myself

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from him. He's basically denouncing all of his

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brothers. I denounce Muhammad

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and I denounce all of those that protect

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the Prophet

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Now he takes it to the next level.

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He goes to his sons.

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He says,

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My head is forbidden from your head. Basically,

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I'm disowning you.

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Our lineage is cut if you don't divorce

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the daughters of Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

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Now an important,

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important distinction to be made here.

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Rutba,

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Rutba,

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who's the oldest son

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of Abu Lahab and the closest in age

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to the Prophet

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extremely close in age to the prophet

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Utbah

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seems to have been a little bit hesitant

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and that's why some of the narrations

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Abu Lahab is particularly talking to Urutba to

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say, if you don't divorce

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Ruqayyah,

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the daughter of the Prophet then basically I'm

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disowning you.

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Right? Either way, Abu Lahab says you both

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need to divorce

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the 2 daughters of the Prophet

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Ruqaiyah

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and Qrthun, may Allah be pleased with them.

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Rutba,

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again, there is no narration about the way

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that he actually divorces Ruqayya,

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Right?

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Simply that it's devastating to the Prophet I

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mean, do you imagine, by the way,

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Rasulullah

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the father, how much he loves his own

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children, how much he loves his daughters, the

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way he treats his daughters,

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and how the Prophet

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you know, chose these 2 noble men for

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his 2 daughters and thought that he was

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doing them right, and the guilt and the

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empathy and all that comes with that. Right?

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I'm the father of these 2 girls. I'm

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supposed to be the one protecting them, giving

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them a good future,

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giving them the best, and this is how

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you hurt the Prophet

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Rutba

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does not do anything except for divorce Ruqayah,

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and he's very close to the Prophet SallAllahu

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Alaihi Wasallam in age. Rutaybah

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is the name

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that you must remember.

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Rutaybah is the second son of Abu Lahab.

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He is engaged to Qursum,

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the daughter of the Prophet

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Rutayba makes a scene

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of this divorce.

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And again, put yourself in Mecca.

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You know what Abu Lahab does to the

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prophet You know what Umjameed does to the

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prophet What does Retayba do?

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Retayba walks up to the prophet

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in public, his father-in-law,

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and he says,

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Oh, Muhammad, I have

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disbelieved in your religion.

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And he starts mocking the Quran, right? The

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star that you talk about. I disbelieve in

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all of it. He starts humiliating the prophet

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SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, all this nonsense that you're

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talking about, and he makes poetry

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about that. And he says,

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and I'm divorcing

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your daughter. I'm separating myself from your daughter.

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I don't love you. You don't love me.

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I don't love her. She doesn't love me.

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She's done.

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And he takes a step further.

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Now, can you imagine someone talking to the

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prophet this way, your father-in-law? Like, again, just

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Arab morals at the time, like, what are

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you doing? But on top of that, he

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physically attacks the Prophet

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He tears his shirt,

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alayhis salatu waslam, and then he spits out

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the Prophet

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for you to treat him this way to

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manifest the ugliest,

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the ugliest behavior

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of your parents?

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The prophet

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did what he rarely did

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to people, but every time he did it,

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it was very impactful.

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When he did this to the Prophet

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the Prophet SallAllahu

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Alaihi

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Wasallam

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says,

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Oh Allah, set one of your dogs on

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him.

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O Allah, set one of your dogs on

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him. So the Prophet

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made dua against Ir Tayba

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ibn Abillahab,

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the only child of Abu Lahab who gets

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a dua made against him by the Prophet

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But again, the way he treated the Prophet

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was very, very, very different, very ugly,

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right, in this divorce. Like, you could have

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went and, you know, maybe apologized and said,

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you know, my father is forcing me to

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do this, but to do it in this

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way is just further humiliation, physical abuse, again,

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taking away from the Prophet sallAllahu alaihi wa

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sallam in society.

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Now, SubhanAllah, there's a wisdom here as well.

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So we're gonna talk about Utaybah later on

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this Dua of the Prophet

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Ruqaiyah and Unkursum,

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who did they end up marrying?

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Uthman ibn Affan

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who was more handsome than the children of

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Abu Lahab,

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who was better, who had the most noble

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of character,

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who was more generous than Abu Lahab and

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his family. He manifested everything you would want

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in Jahiliyyah and everything you'd want in Islam

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together. And the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

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married Ruqayya to Uthman radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu. Uthman

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made Hijrah to Abyssinia with Ruqayya, and then,

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of course, when Ruqayya died,

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he married Qrthoom

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to Ithman

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So what, you know,

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Those 2 women get to show up in

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Jannah

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as spouses of Ithman

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rather than having been buried down. And this

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is one of those Asa and Taqra who

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say, well, you

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might want something and

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or hate something and it's good for you

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or vice versa. Like, it obviously is devastating

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that this is happening, but instead of being

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married to Uthba and Uthayba, the children of

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Abu Lahab, you ended up being married to

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Ismail ibn Affam

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So these are 2 sons.

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Chance, would you mind putting up the chart

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really quick, Insha'Allah?

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I want to just give you a quick

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look at the rest of the children

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of Abu Lahab. Okay, great.

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Then you have Durwa

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bint Abi Lahab.

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Durwa bint Abi Lahab.

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Durwa

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was also

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engaged

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to Zayd ibn al Haritha

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And what was Zayd's name at the time?

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Zayd ibn Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. He's the

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son of He's the adopted son of the

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prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. Remember, Hakim Al Khazam,

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who we spoke about last week, purchased Zayd

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gave him to Khadija. Khadija gave him

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to the prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam. The prophet

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SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam freed him and made him

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a son.

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So Zayd is also engaged to the daughter

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of Abu Lahab Dura bint Abi Lahab, and

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he breaks that off too. So it's it's

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3 broken engagements actually if you think about

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it. Right? Not just 2. The 2 sons

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from the 2 daughters and the son of

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the prophet who at that time is the

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full son of the Prophet

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in terms of Jahiliya, Zayd ibn Muhammad,

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divorced from Dura bint Abilahab. And then you

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have

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Ibn Abilahab, who we're gonna come to as

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well.

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He's a younger one.

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And this young son

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is the one who, when the Prophet

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was

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expelled from Makar when Hijrah happened,

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He is the one who confiscated the house

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of the Prophet and Khadeel

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So he moves in next door

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to his father

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and to his mother

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and becomes the neighbor of Abu Lahab, lives

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in the House of Revelation, the house of

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the Prophet and Khadija, of course, stole it

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at the time.

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And he marries

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Aatika Bint Abu Sufyan ibn al Harif.

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I'm mentioning this for a very particular reason

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for those who follow this series.

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He marries Aatika bint Abu Sufyan ibn al

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Harith ibn Abdul Muttalib.

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The reason why this is important is because

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it kind of gives you another dimension to

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Abu Safiyyah ibn Haraf being a brother to

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the Prophet and how he kind of steps

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into some of the positions that the Prophet

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would have had. Right?

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Had he not

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declared prophethood. This is his brother in full

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effect. Now his daughter is Maryann, the son

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of Abu

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Lahab,

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and his daughter is moving into that house

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right next door

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to Abu Lahab.

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Alright.

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We'll talk about these kids once again as

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time goes on. So this kind of gives

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you the scene in Mecca as to what's

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happening.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala reveals,

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Perish the 2 hands of Abu Lahab and

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perish he.

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His wealth will do him no good nor

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that which he earns.

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He will enter into a fire that is

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with a blazing flame. So again, the name

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means something else.

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And his wife

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will be the carrier of firewood

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in place of the firewood that she used

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to place in front of the house of

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the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam,

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and she will be pouring

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SubhanAllah, just imagine that. She'll be pouring the

00:30:02 --> 00:30:04

flames on her husband in hellfire

00:30:05 --> 00:30:06

As she used to try to pour the

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adha, the filth on the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam.

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And she has around her neck

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a rope of twisted thorns.

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Right? So it gives you a scene.

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So much to talk about here.

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Number 1,

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Allah has named so many or Allah has

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referred to so many opponents of the Prophet

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in the Quran.

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Why is this the only man who is

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named in the Quran?

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Why as an enemy of the Prophet

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Number 1, the scholars mention

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the consequence of his rejection was unlike the

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consequence of anyone else.

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Right? This is your own family. If you're

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You know, it's almost to say if your

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own uncle

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doesn't believe in you, then who are we

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on the outside in tribalistic society to believe

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in you? The consequence.

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But also,

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he left I mean, just the visual, he

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left the Prophet

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humiliated and alone on the day of his

00:31:02 --> 00:31:05

initial call. Think about the scene of everyone

00:31:05 --> 00:31:07

turning away from the Prophet and the Prophet

00:31:07 --> 00:31:08

standing on safa

00:31:09 --> 00:31:10

completely,

00:31:11 --> 00:31:11

completely

00:31:12 --> 00:31:14

bewildered as to what just happened here.

00:31:15 --> 00:31:17

How did I go from being this beloved

00:31:17 --> 00:31:19

person to my people, to everyone turning their

00:31:19 --> 00:31:21

back on me except for an 8 year

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old boy? What happened here?

00:31:23 --> 00:31:25

So just as he left the prophet SallAllahu

00:31:25 --> 00:31:27

Alaihi Wasallam alone in an effort to humiliate

00:31:27 --> 00:31:28

him, Allah

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left him alone to be humiliated in the

00:31:32 --> 00:31:33

Quran in a way that no one else

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is humiliated

00:31:34 --> 00:31:35

by name.

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Right? That it is Ibadah, it is an

00:31:37 --> 00:31:40

act of worship to read His name

00:31:40 --> 00:31:42

in this way.

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And so that is one of the wisdoms

00:31:44 --> 00:31:45

that the scholars mentioned

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in this regard.

00:31:47 --> 00:31:49

Now, why does Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala mention

00:31:50 --> 00:31:51

that his money and what he has earned

00:31:51 --> 00:31:53

will not benefit him? Because Abu Lahab, when

00:31:53 --> 00:31:55

he eventually kind of you know, when people

00:31:55 --> 00:31:57

told him within Ben Muhashem, like, you know

00:31:57 --> 00:31:58

that your nephew

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is speaking the truth, he said, look,

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03

if he's right, on the day of judgment,

00:32:04 --> 00:32:05

I'll pay myself out of *.

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

I've got the money for it.

00:32:08 --> 00:32:11

The man is so addicted to his money,

00:32:11 --> 00:32:12

he thinks, I mean, at the end of

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

the day, I know how to buy myself.

00:32:14 --> 00:32:16

I'll post the bill

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18

out of Jahannam on the day of judgment

00:32:18 --> 00:32:19

if I have to. Right? If this is

00:32:19 --> 00:32:20

all real.

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

And

00:32:26 --> 00:32:28

So Allah revealed his punishment and

00:32:30 --> 00:32:31

punishment

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as well. The story gets a little bit

00:32:33 --> 00:32:34

richer here now.

00:32:35 --> 00:32:37

If they were abusive to the Prophet

00:32:37 --> 00:32:39

before, how abusive are they going to be

00:32:39 --> 00:32:41

when Quran comes down naming them?

00:32:43 --> 00:32:43

Right?

00:32:44 --> 00:32:47

How enraged do you think this is going

00:32:47 --> 00:32:48

to make them?

00:32:48 --> 00:32:50

So when this surah came down

00:32:51 --> 00:32:52

and Jamil

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heard the surah recited,

00:32:55 --> 00:32:57

she grabbed the biggest stone

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and she came out of her home screaming

00:33:02 --> 00:33:05

the name of Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

00:33:05 --> 00:33:06

and saying, where is he?

00:33:07 --> 00:33:08

Basically saying, I'm going to kill him.

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

The Prophet was sitting next to the Kaaba,

00:33:12 --> 00:33:13

next to Abu Bakr

00:33:15 --> 00:33:17

Abu Bakr looks at the Prophet and he

00:33:17 --> 00:33:18

says, You Rasool Allah,

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

she's calling your name, and she's clearly

00:33:21 --> 00:33:24

coming with an intention to harm you.

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

And the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says,

00:33:29 --> 00:33:30

Allah is going to take her vision away

00:33:30 --> 00:33:31

from me. Don't worry.

00:33:32 --> 00:33:33

She won't see me.

00:33:34 --> 00:33:36

So she goes to the Kaaba. She sees

00:33:36 --> 00:33:37

Abu Bakr,

00:33:38 --> 00:33:40

and she says, hey. She didn't even call

00:33:40 --> 00:33:43

his name, literally in Arabic language. Hey, You.

00:33:45 --> 00:33:46

Where is your friend?

00:33:47 --> 00:33:49

And the prophet sitting right next Abu Bakr.

00:33:49 --> 00:33:51

Abu Bakr is looking at the prophet and

00:33:51 --> 00:33:52

she's saying, where is your friend? So he

00:33:52 --> 00:33:54

realizes that there's a miracle, and the prophet

00:33:54 --> 00:33:55

is sitting in full tranquility,

00:33:57 --> 00:33:58

completely unfazed by it.

00:34:00 --> 00:34:01

So Abu Bakr

00:34:02 --> 00:34:03

stayed quiet. She said,

00:34:07 --> 00:34:08

Oh Hajani,

00:34:08 --> 00:34:10

it has come to me that he has

00:34:11 --> 00:34:14

made this poetry about me. Right? Because this

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

was the type of poetry they called, remember

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18

this poetry. Right? Hasnat al Nuthabit was the

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

expert in it. So it's come to me

00:34:19 --> 00:34:21

that he's making these lines of poetry.

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

And she says,

00:34:24 --> 00:34:25

if I find him, I'm going to smash

00:34:25 --> 00:34:27

his face with the stone. So she's telling

00:34:27 --> 00:34:29

Abu Bakr that when I find Muhammad sallallahu

00:34:29 --> 00:34:31

alaihi wa sallam, I'm gonna smash his face

00:34:31 --> 00:34:32

with the stone.

00:34:32 --> 00:34:33

Then she says,

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

You know what? He's a poet

00:34:38 --> 00:34:39

and I'm a poet too.

00:34:40 --> 00:34:42

So she goes and she stands on safa,

00:34:42 --> 00:34:43

where the prophet

00:34:43 --> 00:34:44

made the initial call.

00:34:46 --> 00:34:48

And she makes these lines. She

00:34:48 --> 00:34:49

says,

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

Starts singing it with a rhythm.

00:34:59 --> 00:35:01

So that people start repeating it after her.

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

What does it mean? Obviously, turn the name

00:35:03 --> 00:35:04

of the Prophet Muhammad

00:35:04 --> 00:35:05

the most praiseworthy,

00:35:06 --> 00:35:08

to Muzhammam, someone who is humiliated.

00:35:09 --> 00:35:11

Muzhammam and Asaina, we have

00:35:12 --> 00:35:12

rejected

00:35:14 --> 00:35:14

Muzammam.

00:35:16 --> 00:35:18

And we have refused

00:35:18 --> 00:35:19

or repudiated

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

his deen, his his affair.

00:35:22 --> 00:35:23

His affair.

00:35:25 --> 00:35:26

And we hate his religion.

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

Right? So we reject him, we reject his

00:35:29 --> 00:35:31

affair, we reject his religion, and she turned

00:35:31 --> 00:35:33

into poetry. So imagine the prophet is sitting

00:35:33 --> 00:35:34

next to the Kaaba, you see how close

00:35:34 --> 00:35:35

Safa is to the Kaaba.

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

Maybe 1 or 2 of you who have

00:35:47 --> 00:35:47

studied.

00:35:48 --> 00:35:51

It's not common. SubhanAllah. But imagine in that

00:35:51 --> 00:35:52

moment,

00:35:52 --> 00:35:53

right,

00:35:54 --> 00:35:55

the boastfulness,

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

right, to say those words around the Kaaba

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

about the Prophet Sallallahu

00:35:59 --> 00:36:02

Alaihi Wasallam, and she left still not having

00:36:02 --> 00:36:04

noticed the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam.

00:36:05 --> 00:36:05

Afterwards,

00:36:06 --> 00:36:08

you have, of course, the boycott of Banu

00:36:08 --> 00:36:09

Hashan.

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

Abu Lahab sinks to a new low. SubhanAllah,

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

I wanted to get to the Muslim family,

00:36:13 --> 00:36:14

it's taking me some time.

00:36:15 --> 00:36:16

Abu Lahab sinks to a new low with

00:36:16 --> 00:36:18

the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. No one

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20

does this in that society.

00:36:20 --> 00:36:23

Abu Lahab says, As for Banu Hashim, I

00:36:23 --> 00:36:24

have nothing to do with them anymore. Go

00:36:24 --> 00:36:26

ahead and torture them.

00:36:26 --> 00:36:29

They cut themselves off from us when they

00:36:29 --> 00:36:31

adopted this religion of theirs.

00:36:31 --> 00:36:35

Torture them, boycott them, starve them. I don't

00:36:35 --> 00:36:35

care.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

You wonder how you see the, the token,

00:36:39 --> 00:36:41

quote, unquote Palestinian that goes on the news

00:36:41 --> 00:36:43

today and preaches the Zionist points? They can

00:36:43 --> 00:36:44

only find, like, one of them these days,

00:36:45 --> 00:36:46

right, who keeps showing up on all the

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

shows. Like, he's so angry and hateful, and

00:36:48 --> 00:36:49

you can just see him in his face.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:52

And you're like, what an evil omen, right,

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

to his people. Right? It's like they got

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

one. They keep on putting on Pierce, and

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

they keep putting on all of those. Right?

00:36:57 --> 00:36:59

Think of Abu Lahab that way. Talking about

00:36:59 --> 00:37:01

his own family, you know what? Starve them.

00:37:01 --> 00:37:02

Torture them.

00:37:03 --> 00:37:04

I'm happy to hear that they're crying at

00:37:04 --> 00:37:06

night and for 3 years, they have nothing.

00:37:07 --> 00:37:10

Abu Lahab, wake up. It's not happening. Abu

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

Talib dies

00:37:12 --> 00:37:15

because of the pain of the boycott. Your

00:37:15 --> 00:37:15

brother,

00:37:16 --> 00:37:18

a noble man dies because of the pain

00:37:18 --> 00:37:19

of the boycott. Doesn't move his heart at

00:37:19 --> 00:37:22

all. Khadija Radiallahu Anha dies. I mean, you

00:37:22 --> 00:37:24

torture. This used to be your neighbor, Muhammad

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in Khadija. Can you imagine

00:37:25 --> 00:37:28

being a neighbor of Khadija radiAllahu ta'ala Anha

00:37:28 --> 00:37:30

for all those years, that noble woman and

00:37:30 --> 00:37:32

what type of relationship you would have had

00:37:32 --> 00:37:34

and seen her beautiful and noble characteristics, she

00:37:34 --> 00:37:35

dies because of the starvation.

00:37:36 --> 00:37:37

Nothing.

00:37:39 --> 00:37:42

Afterwards, when Abu Talib passes away, not only

00:37:42 --> 00:37:44

does Abu Lahab not have any sympathy,

00:37:44 --> 00:37:47

he ramps up his efforts of delegitimizing the

00:37:47 --> 00:37:48

Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:37:48 --> 00:37:50

after the boycott is over. So what the

00:37:50 --> 00:37:52

Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was doing for the

00:37:52 --> 00:37:54

years prior to the hijrah is that he

00:37:54 --> 00:37:56

would go out to the places where the

00:37:56 --> 00:37:58

travelers would come. He kinda The Dawah in

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

Mecca has reached its its end.

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

Right? Now he's waiting for those pilgrims coming

00:38:03 --> 00:38:04

from abroad,

00:38:05 --> 00:38:07

right? And those coming to the marketplaces in

00:38:07 --> 00:38:07

the

00:38:09 --> 00:38:10

to Islam.

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

As this is happening,

00:38:13 --> 00:38:14

Tarkal Muharabi

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17

became Muslim later on. He said, I remember

00:38:17 --> 00:38:18

coming to Mecca

00:38:19 --> 00:38:21

from Yemen, and I saw 2 men walking.

00:38:21 --> 00:38:23

I didn't know who they were.

00:38:24 --> 00:38:26

1 man was walking and saying,

00:38:29 --> 00:38:30

Oh people say, you

00:38:30 --> 00:38:31

will be successful.

00:38:33 --> 00:38:34

And

00:38:35 --> 00:38:36

he

00:38:37 --> 00:38:37

said,

00:38:38 --> 00:38:40

and a man is walking behind him pelting

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

him with rocks

00:38:42 --> 00:38:43

and saying,

00:38:45 --> 00:38:47

Don't believe him. He's a liar.

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

He said, I asked,

00:38:50 --> 00:38:51

what is this?

00:38:51 --> 00:38:53

Think about how confusing the scene is.

00:38:54 --> 00:38:56

And they said, that is Muhammad

00:38:56 --> 00:38:59

ibn Abdullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. He claims to

00:38:59 --> 00:39:01

have a new religion that believes in one

00:39:01 --> 00:39:01

God.

00:39:03 --> 00:39:04

That's his uncle,

00:39:04 --> 00:39:05

Abu Lahab,

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

that is pelting him with stones and saying,

00:39:08 --> 00:39:10

Don't believe him. There are multiple narrations. There's

00:39:10 --> 00:39:12

one from Rabi ibn Abad,

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

in Muslim Ahmed. And he says, I saw

00:39:14 --> 00:39:16

him in Dhul Majaz in the marketplace. And

00:39:16 --> 00:39:17

he said, you know,

00:39:18 --> 00:39:21

people would gather around Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

and he'd start to have an audience. So

00:39:22 --> 00:39:24

it wasn't enough just from Safa. Right? And

00:39:24 --> 00:39:24

Safa,

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

the first call, Abu Lahab dispersed the audience

00:39:27 --> 00:39:28

by his response.

00:39:29 --> 00:39:31

In this narration, Muslim Ahmed, like the prophet

00:39:31 --> 00:39:32

sallallahu alaihi wasallam, would start to have the

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

attention of some people, and then Abu Lahab

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

would come and start throwing things at him,

00:39:36 --> 00:39:37

saying,

00:39:38 --> 00:39:39

Don't believe him. He's a liar.

00:39:41 --> 00:39:41

Subhan'Allah.

00:39:42 --> 00:39:44

Prophet makes hijrah.

00:39:45 --> 00:39:47

Now I want you to remember is that

00:39:47 --> 00:39:50

everyone has an extraordinary ending here.

00:39:50 --> 00:39:52

Did Abu Lahab fight in the Battle of

00:39:52 --> 00:39:53

Badr?

00:39:54 --> 00:39:55

Did he fight the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:39:55 --> 00:39:55

in Badr?

00:39:56 --> 00:39:57

No, he didn't.

00:39:58 --> 00:39:59

He's a good businessman.

00:40:00 --> 00:40:00

Smart.

00:40:01 --> 00:40:02

He's like, I know how to get myself

00:40:02 --> 00:40:03

out of this.

00:40:03 --> 00:40:04

He calls

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

Abu Jahl's brother. Abu Jahl's name is Amru

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

Nuhisham,

00:40:08 --> 00:40:10

and he has a brother named Al Asim

00:40:10 --> 00:40:12

Nuhisham. He calls Al Asim Nuhisham.

00:40:13 --> 00:40:14

He says, you know how you owe me

00:40:14 --> 00:40:15

4,000 dirhams?

00:40:17 --> 00:40:19

Said, yeah. He said, go fight in Badr

00:40:19 --> 00:40:20

for me, and you're free from the dead.

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

So he sends the brother of Abu Jahl

00:40:24 --> 00:40:26

in his place, Al Asr ibn Nishan, to

00:40:26 --> 00:40:27

go fight and battle in his place in

00:40:27 --> 00:40:30

exchange for freeing him from the money

00:40:31 --> 00:40:34

that is due to him. And he's hanging

00:40:34 --> 00:40:36

out in Mecca thinking, piece of cake.

00:40:36 --> 00:40:37

We ran the Prophet

00:40:38 --> 00:40:40

out. We treated him this way. What's the

00:40:40 --> 00:40:42

worst that could possibly happen?

00:40:43 --> 00:40:44

Abu Rafi,

00:40:46 --> 00:40:49

who was the freed slave of Al Abbas

00:40:49 --> 00:40:50

and Umunubaba

00:40:52 --> 00:40:54

Abu Raifah says I was sitting with them

00:40:54 --> 00:40:55

and

00:40:55 --> 00:40:56

Abu Lahab

00:40:57 --> 00:40:57

was

00:40:58 --> 00:40:58

pacing

00:40:58 --> 00:40:59

nervously

00:41:00 --> 00:41:03

around the tent waiting for the news from

00:41:03 --> 00:41:03

Badr.

00:41:04 --> 00:41:06

And then he'd sit and he'd put his

00:41:06 --> 00:41:07

back on my back, like this is the

00:41:07 --> 00:41:09

treatment of a slave. Right? Sit up and

00:41:09 --> 00:41:10

let me rest on your back.

00:41:11 --> 00:41:13

He'd put his back on my back, and

00:41:13 --> 00:41:15

then he'd get up and he'd pace again

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17

nervously waiting for the news.

00:41:18 --> 00:41:20

Then, Abu Sufyan ibn al Harish

00:41:21 --> 00:41:22

comes to the tent.

00:41:23 --> 00:41:25

And Abu Sufyan ibn al Harith, as he

00:41:25 --> 00:41:27

comes to the tent remember, Abu Sufyan ibn

00:41:27 --> 00:41:29

al Harith fought the prophet alaihi wa sallam

00:41:29 --> 00:41:29

al Bayr.

00:41:30 --> 00:41:32

Abu Luhav stands up and says, Mel Khabbar,

00:41:32 --> 00:41:34

what's the news? What happened?

00:41:35 --> 00:41:36

Abu Sufyan Al Harith

00:41:36 --> 00:41:37

says,

00:41:37 --> 00:41:39

we found a people

00:41:39 --> 00:41:42

who were small in number, but not encouraged.

00:41:42 --> 00:41:44

They were small in number, but not encouraged.

00:41:45 --> 00:41:48

We fought them thinking we could overpower them.

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

Somehow, they overpowered us.

00:41:51 --> 00:41:52

They killed us

00:41:53 --> 00:41:56

as freely as they wanted to. They captured

00:41:56 --> 00:41:58

us with absolutely no issues,

00:41:58 --> 00:42:00

and they had with them

00:42:00 --> 00:42:03

these humongous men that filled the skies. And

00:42:03 --> 00:42:06

they were wearing white robes, white garments that

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

filled the entire horizon.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

And they would strike us, but we couldn't

00:42:10 --> 00:42:12

strike them. And they would pluck us from

00:42:12 --> 00:42:13

the field and throw us around, and we

00:42:13 --> 00:42:15

couldn't do anything to them.

00:42:16 --> 00:42:18

So this is Abu Lahab hearing this from

00:42:18 --> 00:42:20

Abu Sufyan al Hadif.

00:42:20 --> 00:42:22

Abu Raffa was secretly a Muslim.

00:42:23 --> 00:42:24

He's secretly a Muslim,

00:42:25 --> 00:42:27

along with Lubaba who's the mother of Abdullah

00:42:27 --> 00:42:28

ibn Abbas.

00:42:28 --> 00:42:29

So Barathe,

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

he says, so I stood up out of

00:42:32 --> 00:42:32

joy

00:42:36 --> 00:42:37

and I said, It's the angels. It's the

00:42:37 --> 00:42:38

angels. It's the angels.

00:42:39 --> 00:42:40

And he said, Abu Lahab

00:42:41 --> 00:42:42

punched me, and then he got on top

00:42:42 --> 00:42:44

of me, and he started beating me with

00:42:44 --> 00:42:46

both of his fists until he almost beat

00:42:46 --> 00:42:47

me to death.

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

Then comes the end of Abu Lahab.

00:42:52 --> 00:42:52

Lubaba

00:42:55 --> 00:42:56

takes a tentpole

00:42:57 --> 00:42:59

and she cracks it on Abu Lahab's head,

00:43:01 --> 00:43:02

and it exposes

00:43:02 --> 00:43:04

a huge wound on his skull.

00:43:05 --> 00:43:06

And she says,

00:43:11 --> 00:43:14

Are you showing yourself off on him because

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

his master is gone? Al Abbas is gone.

00:43:16 --> 00:43:17

Al Abbas is not here. Is that why

00:43:17 --> 00:43:19

you're beating up on him? He's not yours

00:43:19 --> 00:43:20

for you to beat up on him this

00:43:20 --> 00:43:22

way. What do you think you're doing?

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

So she popped him with the tent pole.

00:43:25 --> 00:43:26

Now, here's the thing.

00:43:28 --> 00:43:31

7 days from that moment where she popped

00:43:31 --> 00:43:31

him,

00:43:32 --> 00:43:34

that wound became infected,

00:43:35 --> 00:43:36

and his whole body

00:43:37 --> 00:43:39

started to rot, Abu Lahab.

00:43:41 --> 00:43:41

And subhanAllah,

00:43:42 --> 00:43:45

he became so ill that when you looked

00:43:45 --> 00:43:47

at him, you were terrified by his condition,

00:43:47 --> 00:43:49

by the infection that spread throughout his entire

00:43:49 --> 00:43:49

body,

00:43:50 --> 00:43:52

that his own family

00:43:52 --> 00:43:54

let him die alone in his last days.

00:43:54 --> 00:43:57

They basically quarantined him because they were afraid

00:43:57 --> 00:43:58

that whatever he had might be contagious because

00:43:58 --> 00:43:59

they've never seen

00:44:00 --> 00:44:01

anyone's condition like that.

00:44:02 --> 00:44:04

So the one who forced the prophet salAllahu

00:44:04 --> 00:44:06

alaihi wasalam alone was forced alone.

00:44:07 --> 00:44:09

And then on top of that, SubhanAllah,

00:44:09 --> 00:44:10

he dies

00:44:11 --> 00:44:12

a week later,

00:44:13 --> 00:44:16

and his body stunk so badly that none

00:44:16 --> 00:44:18

of his kids wanted to go and retrieve

00:44:18 --> 00:44:19

his body.

00:44:19 --> 00:44:21

The stench from the body of Abu Lahab

00:44:21 --> 00:44:22

was so bad

00:44:22 --> 00:44:25

that they left it for 3 days until

00:44:25 --> 00:44:27

some of the family of Ben El Hashim,

00:44:27 --> 00:44:29

they said, come on, you can't do this

00:44:29 --> 00:44:29

to your father.

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

Right? Like, this is shameful. Don't do this

00:44:32 --> 00:44:35

to your father. So they had some of

00:44:35 --> 00:44:37

the slaves go and pick up the body

00:44:37 --> 00:44:39

of Abu Lahab, and they put him on

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

a place in Mecca. And you know how

00:44:41 --> 00:44:42

they buried him?

00:44:43 --> 00:44:45

They pelted him with stones from far away.

00:44:47 --> 00:44:49

SubhanAllah. So the same way he used to

00:44:49 --> 00:44:50

follow the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, and

00:44:50 --> 00:44:51

pelt him with stones,

00:44:52 --> 00:44:53

he was pelted

00:44:53 --> 00:44:54

with stones

00:44:55 --> 00:44:57

in that way. Alright. The next 10 minutes

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

are a bit gruesome, but it's just to

00:44:59 --> 00:45:01

show you some how every single person who

00:45:01 --> 00:45:03

hurt the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam was hurt

00:45:03 --> 00:45:05

in the same way. Remember the son of

00:45:05 --> 00:45:06

Abu Lahab who

00:45:06 --> 00:45:08

did what he who tore the Prophet SallAllahu

00:45:08 --> 00:45:09

Alaihi Wasallam's shirt, beat him, spit at him

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

and all that stuff, and the Prophet made

00:45:11 --> 00:45:12

what du'a against him?

00:45:14 --> 00:45:16

Oh, Allah, place upon him a dog from

00:45:16 --> 00:45:17

one of your dogs.

00:45:18 --> 00:45:19

This is Ur Tayba.

00:45:20 --> 00:45:20

Ur Tayba

00:45:21 --> 00:45:23

went out on a journey to a sham,

00:45:23 --> 00:45:25

one of the trade routes. Abu Lahab told

00:45:25 --> 00:45:27

Ur Tayba, or he called Ur Tayba and

00:45:27 --> 00:45:29

his friends before he left.

00:45:29 --> 00:45:30

He said, listen,

00:45:31 --> 00:45:33

I'm afraid that the Dua of Muhammad SallAllahu

00:45:33 --> 00:45:35

Alaihi Wasallam, the curse of Muhammad SallAllahu Alaihi

00:45:35 --> 00:45:37

Wasallam will come upon him, So protect him

00:45:37 --> 00:45:39

throughout this entire journey. I want you to

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41

surround him the entire time. This shows you

00:45:41 --> 00:45:43

that they knew what they were disbelieving in.

00:45:43 --> 00:45:46

They knew that they were upon kufr. They

00:45:46 --> 00:45:48

knew that the prophet had something

00:45:48 --> 00:45:49

that they were denying out of their own

00:45:49 --> 00:45:51

ego and arrogance. So he said, look, protect

00:45:51 --> 00:45:53

my son when you all travel.

00:45:54 --> 00:45:56

So they got to

00:45:56 --> 00:45:57

a zarkah.

00:45:57 --> 00:45:59

A zarkah in, by the way, Jordan, modern

00:45:59 --> 00:46:00

day Jordan.

00:46:01 --> 00:46:01

Right?

00:46:02 --> 00:46:03

And

00:46:03 --> 00:46:05

they go to sleep at night,

00:46:06 --> 00:46:08

and they would place Ur Tayba in the

00:46:08 --> 00:46:10

middle of them. So they'd all sleep around

00:46:10 --> 00:46:10

him.

00:46:11 --> 00:46:11

Okay?

00:46:12 --> 00:46:13

And SubhanAllah,

00:46:13 --> 00:46:15

in the middle of the night, a lion

00:46:15 --> 00:46:15

comes,

00:46:17 --> 00:46:19

and they wake up to the sound of

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

a roaring lion.

00:46:21 --> 00:46:24

And the lion walks past all of the

00:46:24 --> 00:46:26

rest of them, and they're all frozen because,

00:46:26 --> 00:46:27

obviously, they don't wanna

00:46:28 --> 00:46:30

upset the lion. No one's gonna get up

00:46:30 --> 00:46:31

and fight this lion.

00:46:32 --> 00:46:34

The lion walks right to the head of

00:46:34 --> 00:46:34

Urtheba,

00:46:36 --> 00:46:37

and Ur Tayba

00:46:38 --> 00:46:38

screams,

00:46:39 --> 00:46:40

he shouts

00:46:41 --> 00:46:42

and he says,

00:46:46 --> 00:46:48

Muhammad has killed me, and he is in

00:46:48 --> 00:46:50

Mecca, and I'm all the way in Hashem.

00:46:51 --> 00:46:52

Not to give you too many of the

00:46:52 --> 00:46:55

graphic details, but the line basically decapitated him.

00:46:57 --> 00:46:58

Literally ate off his head.

00:46:59 --> 00:47:01

That's the dua of the Prophet against this

00:47:01 --> 00:47:02

person, so he tore the clothes of the

00:47:02 --> 00:47:05

Prophet His body was literally torn SubhanAllah, from

00:47:05 --> 00:47:07

the dua of the Messenger of Allah against

00:47:08 --> 00:47:09

him. Jameel, last

00:47:10 --> 00:47:12

graphic ending here, and we can get to

00:47:12 --> 00:47:13

the Muslims.

00:47:14 --> 00:47:16

Jameel Arwa bint Harb,

00:47:18 --> 00:47:18

was

00:47:18 --> 00:47:21

obviously dealing with the sadness of her husband

00:47:21 --> 00:47:22

and her son now,

00:47:22 --> 00:47:25

both killed in very gruesome and nasty ways.

00:47:26 --> 00:47:28

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala caused it that one

00:47:28 --> 00:47:30

day as she was walking, she was carrying

00:47:30 --> 00:47:33

that same rope. She had a habl that

00:47:33 --> 00:47:34

was well known where she had the thorns

00:47:34 --> 00:47:36

on it. She was carrying it, and she

00:47:36 --> 00:47:37

sat on a stone,

00:47:37 --> 00:47:40

and she basically fell forward, and she was

00:47:40 --> 00:47:41

killed by her own hands.

00:47:42 --> 00:47:43

She was found holding

00:47:43 --> 00:47:45

the rope on her own neck.

00:47:46 --> 00:47:46

As,

00:47:47 --> 00:47:48

Al Qurtubi says,

00:47:50 --> 00:47:52

had basically taken her as she used to

00:47:52 --> 00:47:53

strangle the Prophet

00:47:53 --> 00:47:55

she too died in the exact same way.

00:47:55 --> 00:47:58

A miserable ending for 3 people from this

00:47:58 --> 00:48:00

family, and it shows you, SubhanAllah,

00:48:01 --> 00:48:03

the humiliation of these people who harmed the

00:48:03 --> 00:48:04

Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:48:05 --> 00:48:06

as they harmed it, and of course,

00:48:07 --> 00:48:08

fahkhanataha

00:48:08 --> 00:48:09

Allah

00:48:09 --> 00:48:11

SWAJal strangled her with how she used to

00:48:11 --> 00:48:12

do to the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam, but

00:48:12 --> 00:48:14

what's worse is what comes in hellfire because

00:48:14 --> 00:48:15

that's where the real

00:48:16 --> 00:48:18

torture and punishment is. May Allah

00:48:18 --> 00:48:20

protect us. Allahumma Ameen.

00:48:20 --> 00:48:22

Now, if you put that image back on

00:48:22 --> 00:48:25

the screen of the children and the family,

00:48:27 --> 00:48:28

everybody else

00:48:30 --> 00:48:31

on this chart becomes Muslim.

00:48:33 --> 00:48:35

Everybody else is going to become Muslim.

00:48:36 --> 00:48:38

So let's start to walk through the stories

00:48:38 --> 00:48:40

of how the rest of them embrace Islam.

00:48:40 --> 00:48:41

So 3 people,

00:48:42 --> 00:48:42

Abu Lahab,

00:48:43 --> 00:48:46

Jamil, and Arutayba have a miserable ending

00:48:47 --> 00:48:48

that exactly mirrors the way they used to

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

torture the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam.

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

The first one to become Muslim is the

00:48:52 --> 00:48:53

daughter,

00:48:56 --> 00:48:56

And

00:48:58 --> 00:49:01

has a magnificent story because she's actually from

00:49:04 --> 00:49:07

She's from the early Muslims, the Muhajireen.

00:49:08 --> 00:49:10

How does she gain that particular

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

type of presence? So again, she was divorced

00:49:13 --> 00:49:14

from Zayd,

00:49:18 --> 00:49:21

When she was divorced from Zayd, Abu Laha

00:49:21 --> 00:49:23

married her to Al Harith ibnunofal.

00:49:25 --> 00:49:26

Al Harith of Nunufar

00:49:26 --> 00:49:28

fought the Prophet in Badr,

00:49:29 --> 00:49:30

and he died

00:49:30 --> 00:49:31

fighting the Prophet

00:49:31 --> 00:49:32

in Badr,

00:49:32 --> 00:49:34

and she was left with

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

2 or 3 children from him.

00:49:37 --> 00:49:38

And when the news came back from Badr

00:49:38 --> 00:49:42

while everybody else was steaming in revenge, Durwa

00:49:42 --> 00:49:45

said, I knew he was a prophet. I

00:49:45 --> 00:49:47

knew he was a prophet. She made Hijrah

00:49:47 --> 00:49:49

by herself to the Prophet

00:49:49 --> 00:49:50

in Medina.

00:49:51 --> 00:49:52

She escapes Mecca,

00:49:53 --> 00:49:54

and she goes to Medina

00:49:54 --> 00:49:57

with her children. Now imagine the sight

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

of the daughter of Abu Lahab holding her

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

children and walking into Medina, and you're a

00:50:02 --> 00:50:04

Muslim in Medina. What in the world is

00:50:04 --> 00:50:05

happening here?

00:50:06 --> 00:50:08

So she comes in and there's this mystery

00:50:08 --> 00:50:11

surrounding Durrah bint Abi Lahab. What do we

00:50:11 --> 00:50:12

do with her?

00:50:12 --> 00:50:14

Right? Is she a spy? Is she coming

00:50:14 --> 00:50:16

to plead on behalf of someone? What is

00:50:16 --> 00:50:18

the point of Dura showing up here? And

00:50:18 --> 00:50:20

Dura comes, she comes to the prophet

00:50:20 --> 00:50:21

and she says,

00:50:23 --> 00:50:24

She takes Shahab.

00:50:25 --> 00:50:26

She becomes a Muslim.

00:50:27 --> 00:50:29

So when you talk about how you have

00:50:29 --> 00:50:31

to be nice to new Muslims, how do

00:50:31 --> 00:50:32

you be nice to a new Muslim that's

00:50:32 --> 00:50:33

Abu Lahab's daughter?

00:50:34 --> 00:50:36

So the women in the Masjid,

00:50:36 --> 00:50:39

when Dura walks into the Masjid, what do

00:50:39 --> 00:50:41

they do? Start talking,

00:50:41 --> 00:50:44

and Dura can hear them talking

00:50:44 --> 00:50:45

about her.

00:50:46 --> 00:50:47

And eventually,

00:50:48 --> 00:50:50

some of the women from Banu Zurayk, they

00:50:50 --> 00:50:52

were known to be stronger women from the

00:50:52 --> 00:50:52

Ansar.

00:50:53 --> 00:50:54

They said to her,

00:50:59 --> 00:51:01

Are you the daughter of Abu Lahab,

00:51:01 --> 00:51:03

the one who Allah says perish the 2

00:51:03 --> 00:51:04

hands of Abu Lahab?

00:51:05 --> 00:51:06

And she said, yes.

00:51:07 --> 00:51:08

They said to her,

00:51:11 --> 00:51:12

What good is your Hijra?

00:51:12 --> 00:51:13

Like, go back home.

00:51:14 --> 00:51:15

You're the daughter of Abu Lahab.

00:51:16 --> 00:51:18

What good is your Islam

00:51:18 --> 00:51:19

going to have?

00:51:20 --> 00:51:21

And the Prophet

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

was sitting in his home.

00:51:27 --> 00:51:28

And

00:51:29 --> 00:51:30

she comes to the Prophet

00:51:32 --> 00:51:34

and she said, You Rasool Allah, Innan Nasayusihu

00:51:35 --> 00:51:37

An Habib, the people are making fun of

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

me. They are mocking me. They're saying, you

00:51:39 --> 00:51:41

are the daughter of Hatab Anar.

00:51:52 --> 00:51:53

Gets up and the Prophet

00:51:54 --> 00:51:54

was angry.

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57

Yes, the Messenger of Allah SWALL, this is

00:51:57 --> 00:51:57

the type of stuff

00:51:58 --> 00:51:59

that would cause the Prophet

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02

anger. His face was red

00:52:03 --> 00:52:05

He went to the Masjid

00:52:06 --> 00:52:08

He prayed with them Dhuhr,

00:52:09 --> 00:52:10

And then the Prophet

00:52:10 --> 00:52:12

told her, Aj Lisi, sit there.

00:52:13 --> 00:52:16

Wait there. So he wants Dura to be

00:52:16 --> 00:52:17

there to witness this and to see what

00:52:17 --> 00:52:19

he's about to do. And the

00:52:19 --> 00:52:20

prophet stands up on the manbar,

00:52:21 --> 00:52:23

on the pulpit, not on Jum'ah after

00:52:25 --> 00:52:26

And he

00:52:26 --> 00:52:26

said,

00:52:29 --> 00:52:32

Who what is it that you're hurting my

00:52:32 --> 00:52:33

family? You're hurting me in regards to my

00:52:33 --> 00:52:34

family.

00:52:47 --> 00:52:48

A.

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

She's from the family of the prophet My

00:52:54 --> 00:52:55

intercession is for dura

00:52:57 --> 00:52:59

What is it with you that you hurt

00:52:59 --> 00:53:01

me in regards to my family? Will you

00:53:01 --> 00:53:03

stop hurting me in regards to my family?

00:53:04 --> 00:53:05

Sets a tone.

00:53:06 --> 00:53:07

Right? And the prophet

00:53:09 --> 00:53:09

he said

00:53:12 --> 00:53:13

that,

00:53:14 --> 00:53:16

No living person should be hurt on the

00:53:16 --> 00:53:19

account of someone who's dead. You don't mock

00:53:19 --> 00:53:21

someone on the basis of someone that's passed

00:53:21 --> 00:53:23

away. A father, a mother, it doesn't matter.

00:53:23 --> 00:53:24

Don't hurt someone on the basis of a

00:53:24 --> 00:53:25

dead relative.

00:53:26 --> 00:53:27

Don't do that.

00:53:27 --> 00:53:28

And Durrah

00:53:30 --> 00:53:32

becomes a member of the community of the

00:53:32 --> 00:53:34

Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam in Madinah, on top

00:53:34 --> 00:53:35

of that. When Prophet

00:53:36 --> 00:53:38

chooses well for people, who does the Prophet

00:53:38 --> 00:53:39

marry her to?

00:53:40 --> 00:53:42

He marries her to Dihyah

00:53:44 --> 00:53:45

Who is Dhihyah?

00:53:45 --> 00:53:48

The one who Jibreel Alaihi Salam

00:53:48 --> 00:53:50

used to look like in human form because

00:53:50 --> 00:53:52

he was the most handsome

00:53:52 --> 00:53:54

of the companions of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi

00:53:54 --> 00:53:55

Wasallam. The most beautiful

00:53:56 --> 00:53:57

of the companions of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi

00:53:57 --> 00:53:59

Wasallam. The ambassador of the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi

00:53:59 --> 00:54:01

Wasallam to the Romans and beyond. The Prophet

00:54:01 --> 00:54:03

SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam marries Dihyah

00:54:03 --> 00:54:05

to the daughter of Abu Lahab. You know

00:54:05 --> 00:54:07

what I think of the irony here? Her

00:54:07 --> 00:54:09

mom used to tell the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi

00:54:09 --> 00:54:10

Wasallam, where is your Shaytan?

00:54:12 --> 00:54:13

It looks like he stopped descending on you.

00:54:13 --> 00:54:16

And she was talking about Jibreel alayhis salam.

00:54:16 --> 00:54:19

The daughter of that woman married the man

00:54:19 --> 00:54:19

that Jibreel

00:54:20 --> 00:54:21

would look like when he would come down

00:54:21 --> 00:54:22

to this earth.

00:54:23 --> 00:54:24

Subhanallah, the way that it flipped.

00:54:25 --> 00:54:26

So Dura

00:54:27 --> 00:54:29

is considered one of the best

00:54:29 --> 00:54:31

because she's one of the early ones and

00:54:31 --> 00:54:33

think of the sacrifice that she made to

00:54:33 --> 00:54:34

come to

00:54:34 --> 00:54:35

Al Madinah.

00:54:35 --> 00:54:36

Now who's left?

00:54:37 --> 00:54:38

Let's start with Utbah

00:54:39 --> 00:54:40

and Mu'attab.

00:54:41 --> 00:54:43

The Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:54:44 --> 00:54:46

comes back in Fathih Makkah.

00:54:48 --> 00:54:49

And Al Aba

00:54:51 --> 00:54:52

who's obviously

00:54:52 --> 00:54:54

and we're gonna talk about him next week

00:54:54 --> 00:54:55

in sort of his own detail

00:54:56 --> 00:54:57

because he keeps showing up in every one

00:54:57 --> 00:54:59

of these stories. He's the one that the

00:54:59 --> 00:55:02

Prophet is communicating to everyone through,

00:55:02 --> 00:55:03

right?

00:55:04 --> 00:55:05

Al Abbas says

00:55:06 --> 00:55:08

that the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam called me

00:55:08 --> 00:55:09

and he said,

00:55:16 --> 00:55:16

Where

00:55:17 --> 00:55:20

are your 2 nephews, Ruthba and Mu'atib? I

00:55:20 --> 00:55:21

don't see them here.

00:55:21 --> 00:55:22

Prophet

00:55:22 --> 00:55:24

is looking around the scene of Fathih Makk,

00:55:24 --> 00:55:25

and he's looking for his old relatives.

00:55:27 --> 00:55:29

And Al Abbas is thinking, you know, he's

00:55:29 --> 00:55:30

probably not excited

00:55:31 --> 00:55:32

about seeing the children of Abu Lahab,

00:55:33 --> 00:55:35

all the harm that came from those parents.

00:55:37 --> 00:55:38

But he says to the prophet,

00:55:44 --> 00:55:46

that they have fled to the edges of

00:55:46 --> 00:55:48

Mecca the way that some of the leaders

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

of Quraysh have fled because some people ran

00:55:50 --> 00:55:52

away from the prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam thinking

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

that he would carry out retribution.

00:55:55 --> 00:55:57

The prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam said,

00:55:59 --> 00:55:59

go to them.

00:56:01 --> 00:56:02

And bring them to me.

00:56:03 --> 00:56:04

Go talk to Utbah and Mu'attab

00:56:06 --> 00:56:08

and tell them that I want to see

00:56:08 --> 00:56:10

them. You can imagine, we're the kids of

00:56:10 --> 00:56:11

Abu Lahab.

00:56:12 --> 00:56:14

We don't think this is gonna end well.

00:56:14 --> 00:56:16

Utbah divorced the oldest daughter of the prophet

00:56:17 --> 00:56:18

He divorced Ruqayya.

00:56:19 --> 00:56:19

SubhanAllah.

00:56:20 --> 00:56:22

Usman is there amongst those

00:56:23 --> 00:56:24

that have come.

00:56:24 --> 00:56:26

There's a lot of pain here, right?

00:56:27 --> 00:56:27

So the Abbas

00:56:28 --> 00:56:30

says, So I went to them

00:56:30 --> 00:56:32

in the area that I knew them to

00:56:32 --> 00:56:33

be.

00:56:38 --> 00:56:41

I said to them, guess what? The prophet

00:56:41 --> 00:56:43

is calling for you. He wants to see

00:56:43 --> 00:56:43

you.

00:56:48 --> 00:56:49

And so they came rushing.

00:56:50 --> 00:56:52

Now they're excited, like, woah, he called for

00:56:52 --> 00:56:54

us? Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam wants to see

00:56:54 --> 00:56:55

us?

00:56:55 --> 00:56:57

So they came riding very quickly with an

00:56:57 --> 00:57:00

Abbas the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

00:57:02 --> 00:57:05

until they came to the Prophet sallallahu alaihi

00:57:05 --> 00:57:05

wasallam,

00:57:07 --> 00:57:09

the prophet called them.

00:57:09 --> 00:57:11

This is one of my favorite scenes because

00:57:11 --> 00:57:13

it's just so beautiful and it's in the

00:57:13 --> 00:57:13

details.

00:57:23 --> 00:57:24

Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam went between them, he

00:57:24 --> 00:57:26

grabbed both of their hands and he said,

00:57:26 --> 00:57:27

Let's take a walk.

00:57:29 --> 00:57:30

And he walked with both of them,

00:57:31 --> 00:57:33

talking to both of them for a long

00:57:33 --> 00:57:35

time, Sallallahu Alaihi

00:57:36 --> 00:57:38

Wasallam. Can you imagine the scene? Sallallahu

00:57:38 --> 00:57:41

Alaihi Wasallam. What a Rahma. What a mercy.

00:57:42 --> 00:57:43

As if he's putting them at ease and

00:57:43 --> 00:57:44

saying, listen,

00:57:45 --> 00:57:47

I know it was your father, it wasn't

00:57:47 --> 00:57:49

you. It was your mother, it wasn't you.

00:57:49 --> 00:57:50

Because we don't actually see any of the

00:57:50 --> 00:57:53

particular aggression from Utbah or Mu'atib. Prophet SallAllahu

00:57:53 --> 00:57:55

Alaihi Wasallam putting them at ease,

00:57:56 --> 00:57:57

walking with them SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:57:58 --> 00:58:00

until he reached to the Mu'tazam

00:58:01 --> 00:58:04

of the Ka'aba, right at the Kaaba, sallallahu

00:58:04 --> 00:58:04

alaihi wasallam.

00:58:06 --> 00:58:07

And then the prophet

00:58:07 --> 00:58:09

after talking to them, holding their hands, walking

00:58:09 --> 00:58:11

between them for that long, he lets them

00:58:11 --> 00:58:12

go.

00:58:14 --> 00:58:16

And Al Abbas says that he came back,

00:58:18 --> 00:58:19

and the prophet

00:58:19 --> 00:58:21

face was full of joy. He was so

00:58:21 --> 00:58:21

happy.

00:58:23 --> 00:58:23

So,

00:58:24 --> 00:58:26

I said to the prophet sallAllahu alaihi

00:58:27 --> 00:58:27

wasalam,

00:58:29 --> 00:58:31

may Allah keep you happy, O Messenger of

00:58:31 --> 00:58:31

Allah.

00:58:33 --> 00:58:35

I can see joy in your face like

00:58:35 --> 00:58:36

this is

00:58:36 --> 00:58:38

so much happiness in your face.

00:58:48 --> 00:58:51

That I asked my Lord to give me

00:58:51 --> 00:58:54

my 2 cousins, and Allah gifted me with

00:58:54 --> 00:58:54

my 2 cousins.

00:58:55 --> 00:58:56

So the prophet

00:58:56 --> 00:58:58

had a soft spot. He loved

00:58:58 --> 00:58:59

still

00:58:59 --> 00:59:01

who was supposed to be his first son-in-law,

00:59:01 --> 00:59:02

Utba, his cousin,

00:59:03 --> 00:59:05

Mu'athib, who's a young man, he loved them.

00:59:05 --> 00:59:06

Even though Mu'athib

00:59:07 --> 00:59:09

confiscated his house, Mu'athib lives in the house

00:59:09 --> 00:59:11

of the prophet, khadid radiAllahu anha. What does

00:59:11 --> 00:59:12

the prophet do?

00:59:13 --> 00:59:14

He lets him keep the

00:59:15 --> 00:59:17

house. You can still live in that house.

00:59:18 --> 00:59:19

So the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam doesn't take

00:59:19 --> 00:59:21

back. You know, I remember when I when

00:59:21 --> 00:59:22

I did the Sirat of Khadija

00:59:23 --> 00:59:25

there was a question. Why did the Prophet

00:59:25 --> 00:59:26

SAWH-seven put his tent

00:59:26 --> 00:59:27

close to

00:59:27 --> 00:59:28

Al Mu'allah

00:59:28 --> 00:59:30

where the grave of the Khadeed

00:59:30 --> 00:59:32

was? Why didn't the Prophet SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam

00:59:32 --> 00:59:34

just go back home? Like to his old

00:59:34 --> 00:59:36

house in Fathah Makkah.

00:59:37 --> 00:59:39

He let Mu'athab keep the house

00:59:39 --> 00:59:41

that he stole from the Prophet Khadija

00:59:42 --> 00:59:43

And the Prophet

00:59:43 --> 00:59:45

was overjoyed to have his 2 cousins with

00:59:45 --> 00:59:46

him, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, and that is from

00:59:54 --> 00:59:54

Now, what

00:59:55 --> 00:59:56

Now, what happens in every one of these

00:59:56 --> 00:59:59

stories, Hunayn and Ta'if are where it shows.

01:00:00 --> 01:00:01

In Hunayn,

01:00:02 --> 01:00:05

Utbah and Mu'attab were amongst those who did

01:00:05 --> 01:00:06

not flee from the side of the prophet,

01:00:06 --> 01:00:07

sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

01:00:08 --> 01:00:08

Mu'attab

01:00:09 --> 01:00:11

lost an eye fighting alongside the prophet, sallallahu

01:00:11 --> 01:00:12

alaihi wa sallam

01:00:13 --> 01:00:15

in the Battle of Hunayn by which he

01:00:15 --> 01:00:17

always wore an eye patch after that.

01:00:18 --> 01:00:20

And this solidified the bonds of the Prophet

01:00:21 --> 01:00:23

in Utbah and Mu'attab. So Utba

01:00:24 --> 01:00:25

ibn Abi Lahab

01:00:28 --> 01:00:28

Strange

01:00:29 --> 01:00:31

when you read that he's the one that

01:00:31 --> 01:00:32

divorced the Prophet's

01:00:32 --> 01:00:33

daughter.

01:00:33 --> 01:00:34

Utbah

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

They fought alongside the Prophet in her name,

01:00:39 --> 01:00:41

They continued, and they fought alongside the Prophet

01:00:42 --> 01:00:43

in Ta'if as well.

01:00:44 --> 01:00:46

Kharida and Izzam,

01:00:46 --> 01:00:48

may Allah be pleased with them. The other

01:00:48 --> 01:00:50

2 daughters also embraced Islam, but we don't

01:00:50 --> 01:00:52

know anything about them. So all of the

01:00:52 --> 01:00:52

children,

01:00:53 --> 01:00:55

except for Uttaiba

01:00:55 --> 01:00:56

became Muslim.

01:00:57 --> 01:00:58

On top of that,

01:00:59 --> 01:01:00

Al Mu'attab

01:01:01 --> 01:01:02

had many children.

01:01:03 --> 01:01:05

And what did he name his children?

01:01:06 --> 01:01:07

Abdullah,

01:01:07 --> 01:01:08

Mohammed,

01:01:08 --> 01:01:09

Abu Sufyan,

01:01:10 --> 01:01:10

Musa,

01:01:11 --> 01:01:11

Rabaydullah,

01:01:12 --> 01:01:12

Saeed,

01:01:13 --> 01:01:14

Khaleda.

01:01:15 --> 01:01:17

So he's Abba Abdillah and he has a

01:01:17 --> 01:01:19

son that he names Muhammad,

01:01:19 --> 01:01:22

and he names his children Musa and Ubaidullah.

01:01:22 --> 01:01:24

I mean, it's so beautiful and profound

01:01:24 --> 01:01:27

when you think about this. And here's the

01:01:27 --> 01:01:27

thing,

01:01:28 --> 01:01:30

from the descendants of the children of Abu

01:01:30 --> 01:01:30

Lahab

01:01:31 --> 01:01:34

are many, many Muslims. So you can find

01:01:34 --> 01:01:35

hadith narrators

01:01:37 --> 01:01:37

whose grandfather

01:01:38 --> 01:01:39

and great grandfather

01:01:39 --> 01:01:41

is Abu Lahab. I want you to think

01:01:41 --> 01:01:43

about this name. I was looking at this

01:01:43 --> 01:01:45

name from the from the book of the,

01:01:45 --> 01:01:45

the

01:01:46 --> 01:01:49

Al Qasem ibn al Abbas ibn Muhammad ibn

01:01:49 --> 01:01:50

Mu'attab ibn Abilahab.

01:01:51 --> 01:01:52

It just blew my mind.

01:01:53 --> 01:01:54

That's a hadith narrator.

01:01:54 --> 01:01:56

Al Qasem was the oldest son of the

01:01:56 --> 01:01:57

prophet

01:01:57 --> 01:01:58

ibn al Abbas,

01:01:59 --> 01:02:01

who was the uncle of the prophet ibn

01:02:01 --> 01:02:02

Muhammad, of course, is Muhammad

01:02:03 --> 01:02:04

ibn

01:02:04 --> 01:02:05

Abilahab.

01:02:05 --> 01:02:07

Every single one of them is a half

01:02:07 --> 01:02:08

of the Quran.

01:02:10 --> 01:02:11

And so they all read

01:02:14 --> 01:02:15

His children, his grandchildren,

01:02:16 --> 01:02:18

and by the way, his descendants surely exist

01:02:18 --> 01:02:21

in the Muslim world Muslim world today. So

01:02:21 --> 01:02:22

the descendants of Abu Lahab,

01:02:23 --> 01:02:26

Muslim descendants exist in the Muslim world today.

01:02:26 --> 01:02:26

SubhanAllah.

01:02:27 --> 01:02:28

And this is the way that Allah

01:02:29 --> 01:02:31

changes the fate of people. I wanna also

01:02:31 --> 01:02:33

share with you something else in this regards,

01:02:39 --> 01:02:40

His money did not

01:02:41 --> 01:02:43

benefit him nor what he earned. Ibn Abbas,

01:02:43 --> 01:02:44

one

01:02:44 --> 01:02:45

time, 2 children

01:02:46 --> 01:02:48

Abu Lahab, got into an argument.

01:02:48 --> 01:02:51

Ibn Abbas tried to break them up, and

01:02:51 --> 01:02:52

then he left them, and he said, you

01:02:52 --> 01:02:53

are maqasab.

01:02:55 --> 01:02:56

You're what he earned.

01:02:57 --> 01:02:58

And they asked him, I said, what do

01:02:58 --> 01:02:59

you mean by that?

01:03:01 --> 01:03:03

And he said, when Allah said, he

01:03:03 --> 01:03:04

meant his kids.

01:03:05 --> 01:03:07

He didn't benefit from his children.

01:03:08 --> 01:03:10

He didn't benefit from his children. SubhanAllah.

01:03:11 --> 01:03:12

He took pride in his money. His money

01:03:12 --> 01:03:13

did him nothing. He took pride in his

01:03:13 --> 01:03:15

children. His children became Muslim.

01:03:16 --> 01:03:19

And read his humiliation and taught his humiliation

01:03:19 --> 01:03:21

to their kids and their grandkids and became

01:03:21 --> 01:03:23

a father of the Quran who all

01:03:24 --> 01:03:26

taught that Surah. So when you read,

01:03:28 --> 01:03:29

is

01:03:29 --> 01:03:30

and

01:03:33 --> 01:03:34

and and and their descendants.

01:03:35 --> 01:03:37

Now when you read that Surah, think of

01:03:37 --> 01:03:38

all of them and think, somehow, what a

01:03:38 --> 01:03:39

failure.

01:03:39 --> 01:03:41

If he would have become Muslim, they would

01:03:41 --> 01:03:42

have all been his

01:03:43 --> 01:03:45

They would have all been a continuation of

01:03:45 --> 01:03:47

his legacy. He would have benefited from the

01:03:47 --> 01:03:47

intercession

01:03:48 --> 01:03:48

of the Prophet

01:03:51 --> 01:03:53

I leave you with one narration

01:03:54 --> 01:03:55

in this regard,

01:03:55 --> 01:03:57

and it's the narration of Al Abbas

01:03:58 --> 01:04:00

who we will speak about in detail, inshaAllah,

01:04:00 --> 01:04:02

next week. Even though we've spoken about Lubaba

01:04:03 --> 01:04:05

his wife, and we will speak about Abdulla

01:04:05 --> 01:04:06

Abba

01:04:07 --> 01:04:08

in detail

01:04:08 --> 01:04:10

one day soon, inshallah ta'ala.

01:04:11 --> 01:04:13

But it's the dream of Al Abbas.

01:04:14 --> 01:04:14

Al Abbas

01:04:16 --> 01:04:16

sees

01:04:19 --> 01:04:20

in his dream

01:04:21 --> 01:04:22

his brother Abu Lahab,

01:04:24 --> 01:04:26

And he said

01:04:26 --> 01:04:29

that he was in a terrible situation.

01:04:30 --> 01:04:30

Right?

01:04:32 --> 01:04:33

And he said, I asked my brother as

01:04:33 --> 01:04:35

I saw him in this terrible situation,

01:04:35 --> 01:04:37

Abu Lahab in this terrible situation,

01:04:40 --> 01:04:41

I asked him, what did you find?

01:04:41 --> 01:04:42

What's

01:04:42 --> 01:04:44

what's the hereafter like for you?

01:04:45 --> 01:04:46

And Abu Lahab says,

01:04:55 --> 01:04:57

He said that I have not found

01:04:58 --> 01:04:58

any

01:04:59 --> 01:04:59

relief

01:04:59 --> 01:05:01

since I left you in that world,

01:05:02 --> 01:05:03

except for this amount

01:05:04 --> 01:05:05

of water,

01:05:06 --> 01:05:08

for the time that I freed thawaybah,

01:05:08 --> 01:05:10

radiallahu anha when the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam

01:05:10 --> 01:05:11

was born.

01:05:12 --> 01:05:14

SubhanAllah, his eternal humiliation

01:05:15 --> 01:05:17

is when he humiliated the Prophet

01:05:18 --> 01:05:20

The one form of relief and respite that

01:05:20 --> 01:05:21

he has on the day of judgment

01:05:22 --> 01:05:24

or, you know, in his punishment is for

01:05:24 --> 01:05:26

the one moment that he honored the prophet

01:05:26 --> 01:05:28

sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. A little bit of

01:05:28 --> 01:05:29

relief for that time

01:05:29 --> 01:05:30

that I honored Muhammad

01:05:31 --> 01:05:35

Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

01:05:35 --> 01:05:37

make us amongst those who honor the way

01:05:37 --> 01:05:38

of the Prophet

01:05:39 --> 01:05:41

and who are honored with the companionship of

01:05:41 --> 01:05:42

the Prophet

01:05:43 --> 01:05:44

May

01:05:45 --> 01:05:46

Allah be pleased with his family and his

01:05:46 --> 01:05:47

companions and may Allah

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam fit for the dose

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of

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