Omar Suleiman – Meeting Muhammad PBUH #08 – When He Would Play With Your Kids

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The importance of showing parents' connection to the Prophet sallhails during parenting is emphasized, along with the use of honoring children by sharing pictures and knowledge. The speaker also discusses the importance of showing mercy and being exclusive in the face of emotional support, while also highlighting a woman who talks about being treated poorly by the Prophet sallama and how she talks about being treated poorly by children. Additionally, the speaker notes that profit slice is not normal, but the image used is a representation of the culture of cities in the Middle East.

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			If you go back to your childhood and your memories from childhood, you can remember your uncle's
your Auntie's are those adults that were kind to you that were very playful with you that would make
it a point to joke with you that would make you feel welcome. And children have a way of detecting
that. Right they feel kindness or they feel unwanted very easily. And that's why the prophets lie,
some stresses lay some in them in them your hamsterley Ilana, where you walk will carry on and the
prophets lie Selim says that he is not amongst those who fails to show mercy to the young ones. And
at the same time, upholds the respect for the elderly.
		
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			Under sub nomadic are the Allahu taala. And he says, I never saw anyone more merciful with children
than the Prophet sallallaahu. It was something I mean, when you brought your children around the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he would do everything but ignore them, he would play with them
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he would talk to them sallallahu alayhi wasallam and that helps each
one of the children develop their own connection, especially to the messages, right you talk about
making the children love the messages, you know, going to the masjid and seeing that kind adult and
especially if there's a sweet Imam or a kind Imam. And in the case of the Prophet slicin, being your
		
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			Imam, your child wants to go see the Prophet slice on them because they know that the Prophet slice
on them is going to talk to them, they know that the Prophet slice might give them something, they
know that the Prophet slice them is going to be playful with them. So that's really part of the
culture that the profit slice on them is setting up in his community, and honestly a lot of time and
he says he used to mix with us so much that He would ask a little brother of mine yet about homemade
nefa, add a new layer. I had a younger brother named about homemade, and he had a little bird and
new layer and the profit slice of them every time he saw him. He'd asked him about his pet. He'd
		
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			asked him about his pet birds love it, he was selling them and take interest in it, right. So when
you're walking up to kids, and you're talking to children, and you're asking them about their
interests, you're asking them about how far they've gotten in their game, about how things are going
in their sports or whatever it may be that they're doing. So the prophets lie, some would develop
that type of relationship with the children of the community, those children, of course, who would
grow up to become the scholars of this oma right, because they were young enough to be Sahaba. And
at the same time, they learned whatever they could from the elder companions, and transmitted that
		
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			to the next generation of eager tabular in the next generation that came in this oma. So how did
this start off with the Prophet sallallahu? It was to them? Well, for one, if you had a child, and
you lived in Medina, you wanted to bring your newborn to the prophets Isola, you wanted the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wasallam, to name your child for you, you wanted the profit slice of them to hold
your child and make their app, you wanted the profit slice them to do the technique where he would
take the date sallallahu wasallam and rub it on the top of the mouth of the child you wanted that
from the profit slice on them. And he would oblige it his Salatu was Salam. And this will be a lot
		
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			of data and who mentions Abdullah the son of Baba. And he says that when he was born, the Prophet
slicin held him and he took the date and he put in his mouth and he put it in the mouth of Abdullah.
Abdullah really loved that date. So the Prophet sly sometimes said, who would unsought a Tamil This
is how the unsought are, they love dates, and the Prophet sly some named him Abdullah, so you had
all these children that were walking around, that were actually named by the prophet sallallahu
wasallam. And when the Prophet slicin saw the Abyssinian children, he would try to speak their
language sallallahu wasallam. And he would stumble, speaking their language sometimes on purpose so
		
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			that they could laugh with him at his Salatu was Salam and he was trying to speak their language, a
child could take him by the hand sallallahu wasallam and show him things and point out things to
him. And the prophets lie some would play with them, and Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
would not turn away from them until they were satisfied. We also see Subhana Allah a really
beautiful narration because sometimes these things are actually you know, in the small print, if you
will, when the profit slice that I'm used to receive fruits, now back then obviously probably for
better, you don't really have candy, right? The sweet is the fruit and the kids loved fruits. And in
		
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			Medina when people would would have their new picks of fruit, they would always want to bring
something to the profit slice of them. And also last night, someone he would get a piece of fruit,
he would make your app for the fruits of those people, the fruits of that Medina and then the profit
slice on them would do what he'd looked to the smallest child insights he'd called that child over
and he'd give them the fruit it has a lot to us and I'm so that was like his way of giving candy
Salalah who it was send them to the children of the oma and this was his habit, it his salatu salam,
even as people would prefer the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with the sweet fruits, now with
		
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			his own children Salalah hardiness and that was a sight to see in and of itself, meaning his
grandchildren. It has a lot to say about when it comes to it. Heston will Hussein, about the Allahu
tada and Homer, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam his relationship with them was so beautiful
		
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			And the profit slice of them would not just hold them and testify to Allah subhana wa tada how much
he loves them. But he would say loudly sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Allah love those who love them
and hold them sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and he would kiss them it his Salatu was salam, fatty
metal, the Allahu taala and her she mentions when the Prophet slicin used to visit the house and
he'd called out a 10 mil look at where's the little one, where's the little one that he means
Salalah how it was set on my thumb to look at. He means Salalah Hardy was cinnamon has some of the
low tide I know, bring them out to me. And the profit slice of them would put in his own cloak it
		
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			his Salatu was salam, Al Hassan and Hussein and Osama bin Laden, Zainab and omarama he would put all
of his grandchildren at his slotless that I'm under his cloak, and he would hold them close and he
would make do and this was a site that was changing the culture of Medina, there was a man that one
saw the Prophet slice alum, throwing and Hassan Hussein and kissing them and hugging them. And he
said, I have 10 of them and I never kissed any of them. Like this is not this is not normal. You
know, we're men. We're not supposed to kiss our children. And the prophets lie Selim said, What can
I do about a man who has no mercy, you know, whoever does not show mercy will not have mercy shown
		
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			to them. The prophets lie Some said this is part of Russia. This is part of mercy that we show to
these children. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam especially paid attention to those
orphans to those children that were deprived of that love. The Prophet sallallahu Sallam would go
out of his way to be that figure to those orphans that didn't have the level of a father, because he
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam did not have that love himself. He grew up without that. And he said,
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, the best house is the one in which orphans are treated well, and the
worst house is the one in which orphans are treated poorly. So just like when he talks about feasts,
		
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			being exclusive, and the worst feast being the ones, that the poor are excluded from the Prophet
sallallahu it he was said themselves, that the worst houses are the ones in which the orphans are
not treated well. And the Prophet slicin made it a point to be that emotional support and to bring
them close sallallahu wasallam emotionally, so that they could feel that connection. And that's why
he told her that will be Allahu taala. And he said, Do you want your heart to be softened? Do you
want to find that your things will be provided for you in life, he says, additionally, a team of
mink bring the orphan close to you will be allowed to see he Walter immelmann flajnik and caress his
		
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			hair and feed him from what you eat, and he said will lie, it will soften your heart and it will
fulfill your needs. So the prophets lie, some would go out and he would bring the a time he bring
the orphans to his own home, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he would walk with them. And because they
were so subject to exploitation, the Prophet slicin would not just play with them, but he would
intercede for them for any issue that they had Salalah hardy he was alone. So he pays special
attention to children as a whole in the oma and he pays even closer attention. So Lola Hardy was
alum to those children that were not getting to live like the children around them. So
		
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