Nouman Ali Khan – When You Meet Allah In Janna – Highlights – Surah Al-Insan

Nouman Ali Khan
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The importance of finding out who is a Madkur and acknowledging one's need for validation and mention is crucial in modern society. It is crucial for parents to be Madkur to their father and for people to post pictures and thumbs up to be recognized. The importance of rewarding people for their effort in the first few stages of the ayah is also emphasized. It is crucial for individuals to make a decision based on their needs and learn the Quran and make a decision based on their needs.
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You're going to meet with Allah himself.

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You're getting dressed in Jannah to have a

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meeting with Allah himself.

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Now,

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when you have that meeting with Allah and

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may Allah grant every one of us that

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meeting with Him, when we have that meeting,

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He's giving us a drink.

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And so,

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I and you have to make a decision.

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As you're leaving the school, as you're graduating,

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you're thinking about a job, you're thinking about

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a career, you're thinking about the next chapter

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of your life.

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Every one of those chapters has to have

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one title.

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How will Allah remember this?

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Was there ever a time

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that from the endless oceans of time, the

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endless oceans of time, was there ever even

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a simple small episode of time

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when human beings used to be something

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that wasn't even worthy of being talked about,

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wasn't even worthy of being mentioned, and also

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wasn't even worthy of being remembered.

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Allah is asking you and me a very

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simple question.

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Was there ever a time when no one

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remembered you?

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Was there ever a time

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when no one talked about you? Even after

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I came into this world, you'll notice something.

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Human beings, by their design,

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one of the words for human the origin

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of the word is actually

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and means love and compassion.

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Human beings

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don't just give love, they also want to

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receive love, and they want to receive compassion.

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So even from childhood, the moment you become

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a little bit self aware, you are looking

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for attention. If your mother is not looking

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at you, mama, mama, mama, mama. Those of

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you that have kids know this already.

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Kids need attention.

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They're always looking for attention. When they get

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a little bit older, they draw something. They

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wanna show you because they watch your attention.

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They want to be acknowledged. Look at how

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I'm dressed. Look at what I did. Look

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at what I can do. The kid can't

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even jump yet. This is his jump, but

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he says, look at me. Look at this.

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Now look again because he wants that attention

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for himself. He wants to be

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The word

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is someone who is mentioned, someone who is

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remembered. This is put inside the nature of

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a human being. And as you grow older,

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you wanna when you're a teenager, you wanna

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dress nicely.

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You wanna look good because you wanna be

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seen and noticed.

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Also, You

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wanna be mentioned. You wanna be talked about.

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And as you grow further, now when you're

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in university, I know there's a convocation happening,

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there's it's a big deal to graduate, and

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what happens? Peep one day people get their

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certificate,

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you're gonna get a lot of uploads on

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Instagram and on Facebook

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of pictures of certificates that nobody cares about

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except you.

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But you have a need to be madkur.

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You have a need to be mentioned. Masha'Allah.

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Congratulations.

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Congratulations.

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We live our life

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looking for acknowledgement

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even when people get married.

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There the wife is looking for the acknowledgement

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of the husband. The husband is looking for

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acknowledgement of the wife. We're looking to make

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our parents proud. We know when you graduate,

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everybody's congratulating you, but you wanna be Madkur

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to your dad. Dad, I graduated.

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Dad, it's done.

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Dad, did you see the picture?

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And you need to get that congratulations from

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your father or your mother because there's always

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someone who we want to be remembered by.

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You know, there are studies now

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that people are now more isolated and feel

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more lonely and alone than ever before in

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history.

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It's interesting, I was at an Islamic school

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in a in a another Muslim country, and

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I was talking to a number of boys

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and girls. There were about 300, 400 boys,

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304 100 girls,

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13, 14 years of age.

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And I gave a lecture, and the principal,

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and the teachers, everybody was there.

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So they had a question answer session, and

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nobody asked a question. 800 children in the

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room, nobody asked a question, and I said,

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they're not asking a question because the police

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is watching them. The teachers are there. The

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principal is there. The cameraman is there. They

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don't wanna get in trouble. So what I'm

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going to do is I'm going to go

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into the crowd and talk to these kids

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with no camera, no microphone.

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I just wanna talk to them. I went

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inside the girl section just talking to these

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young girls

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2 hours,

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they couldn't stop asking their questions.

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And on the other side, the boys, another

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2 hours, they couldn't stop asking their questions.

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And the most common question was, what do

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you do if you feel alone all the

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time? What do you feel what do you

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do if you feel invisible,

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if nobody sees you? Human beings have such

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a deep desire to be madkur

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that a teenager

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sees all their other friends online,

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and they're like, I'm I don't have an

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online account. I don't I don't have that

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many followers. I'm not being seen. I'm not

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Madkur. I better take another picture. No. I

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better change the filters. I better do something

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else. I better change the background or the

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light wasn't good enough and then post it.

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Somebody will put a heart emoji. Somebody will

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put a thumbs up. I'm lazgour.

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I can exist now.

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And if you don't post it, if you

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don't post your next slice of pizza, if

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you don't post your, you know, where you're

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standing, what park you're in, or some

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wisdom from Abu Jahl or something. If you

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don't post that,

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then all of a sudden nobody knows you

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exist, so you become Ghayr Mathkur.

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You know in the same surah, Surah Al

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Insan,

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later on at the very end,

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Allah describes

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or towards the end, Allah describes people who

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make it into Jannah.

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May Allah enter all of us enter all

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of us into his Jannah.

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When we make it into Allah's jannah, eventually

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there's a point

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where Allah describes that his believers

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are being dressed up especially.

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You

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know, He's saying, you

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know, They're getting dressed with different kinds of

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silk.

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Their special bracelets are being put on them.

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You could think of it like a Rolex

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watch or something or a brand watch is

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being put on them. Bracelets are being put

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on them. Nice suits are being put on

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them. Why are they getting dressed up? You

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get dressed up because there's a special occasion.

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Right? You get dressed up because you're gonna

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meet somebody special. And the very next part

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of the ayah Allah says,

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and their reb Allah will give them a

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pure drink to drink. You're going to meet

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with Allah Himself.

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You're getting dressed in Jannah to have a

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meeting with Allah Himself.

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Now

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when you have that meeting with Allah, and

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may Allah grant everyone of us that meeting

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with him, when we have that meeting, he's

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giving us a drink.

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Allah is giving us the drink. And while

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he's giving us the drink, he's talking to

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us. And what is he saying? He says,

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This is your pay,

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this is your reward,

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and your effort

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was

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appreciated.

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Your effort was acknowledged,

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meaning

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human beings were created,

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not remembered.

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Human beings will die, and people may or

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may not remember them.

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But Allah says,

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Longer than the age of the universe,

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and longer than the existence of a samawat

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wal ard Allah will remember my efforts. Allah

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will acknowledge them, and Allah will say, You

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did good effort, and you're getting rewarded now.

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Allah acknowledges

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me. I become Madkur,

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and Allah.

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I am remembered by Allah Himself.

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There's one thing to do, dhikr of Allah.

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This is an ayah where Allah is doing

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dhikr of you. He's mentioning you.

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He's remembering your effort. He's acknowledging your effort.

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So now I learned something about my need

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for validation. My need to be acknowledged.

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My need to be seen. Allah put that

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need inside us and no human being can

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ever ever fulfill that need.

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When you want somebody else's attention or somebody

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else's acknowledgement, you will always be disappointed.

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And then you just you you realize if

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you're truly grateful,

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if you're truly grateful then you're looking for

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Allah's acknowledgement and that's it. That's enough for

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you. And when that's enough,

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in Jannah, Allah says, Here is your here's

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the acknowledgement.

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And so

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I and you have to make a decision.

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As you're leaving the school, as you're graduating,

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you're thinking about a job, you're thinking about

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a career, you're thinking about the next chapter

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of your life. Every one of those chapters

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has to have one title.

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How will Allah remember this?

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How will Allah remember this? I know when

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you're getting a job, what will my mother

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say? What will my father say? What are

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people gonna say? How much am I getting

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paid? Where did I get the apartment? Am

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I gonna get this? Am I gonna get

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that? Who's you know, you have all these

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questions about prestige and acknowledgement and being Madqur

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in society.

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1st, if you can just put on top,

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how will Allah remember this? What impact am

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I leaving behind?

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And am I leaving behind something that can

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continue to make me be remembered by Allah

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If I'm doing that, then I have succeeded.

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What am I trying to get at? Yes.

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Human beings were made

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We were made not remembered for most of

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history. Yes, we have very little time in

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this world. And in that time, after that

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time, we might become

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You might even become

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at IIUM next year.

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That might happen to you. So that's the

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reality of my life and your life. In

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fact, even if you do a lot of

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good for someone, a year later they'll forget.

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They'll say, what did you ever do for

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me?

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They don't remember. You're not remembered.

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The only one

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with whom you will be forever madgkur

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is going to be Allah

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and the opposite of remembrance is forgetfulness.

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So Allah says,

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To some people he says, today

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we are forgetting you like you forgot this

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day.

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We have a choice. We wanna be the

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people that are forgotten by Allah and remembered

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by people

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or we wanna be the people that are

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remembered by Allah no matter what people think.

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May Allah make us those that are truly

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remembered by Allah azza wa jal and given

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that drink on judgement day.

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