Nouman Ali Khan – Striking Examples From the Quran #19 Reaching for Water

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The concept of "has been asked" is used in the Quran to describe actions taken by Allah, including inviting others to his path, asking for personal intervention, and requesting help. The duality between "has been asked" and "has been asking" is discussed, as it is a way to achieve personal and professional satisfaction. The importance of fulfilling personal and professional goals is emphasized, and the concept of "naught" in the Quran is discussed as a way to build a sense of agility and humility. The importance of asking for good things in the life of the next life is emphasized, and sponsor students are encouraged to help students reach their goals.

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			I've been thinking about how to present,
		
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			the parable today that belongs to Surah Surah
		
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			Ra'ad,
		
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			and it's the 14th ayah of Surat Surat
		
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			number 13, ayah number
		
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			14. That includes a very brief parable, but
		
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			it's a very heavy reality that Allah has,
		
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			and a very heavy concept that Allah has
		
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			summarized in,
		
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			this ayah. So what I'm gonna do is
		
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			first try to elaborate that concept, and then
		
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			kind of show you how Allah is talking
		
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			about that concept in brief language.
		
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			One of the great features of the Quran
		
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			is brevity. What that means is Allah will
		
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			say something very brief,
		
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			but that brief
		
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			small comment will include an entire world view
		
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			inside it.
		
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			Right? So I I'm just gonna take a
		
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			little bit of time to explain that world
		
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			view that's encapsulated
		
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			in the opening comment
		
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			of this ayah,
		
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			could be translated
		
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			that he alone owns
		
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			the true call, one way of looking at
		
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			it. So it's,
		
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			or, you know, so so he alone owns
		
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			the true call,
		
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			or it could be he alone deserves to
		
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			be called on in truth. So there's kind
		
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			of multiple meanings here. But I wanna start
		
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			with something very basic.
		
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			Take you guys with me on this journey,
		
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			and get you inshallah to the same place.
		
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			You see, I'll I'll start with a parable
		
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			and or an example of my own.
		
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			Let's just say you were driving and you
		
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			had a flat tire.
		
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			Right? And, you had to pull up to
		
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			the side of the road, and now you
		
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			need help,
		
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			you know, changing your tire. So you get
		
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			out of the car, you have a spare
		
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			in the back, and you start, you know,
		
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			you have a jack, and you start lifting
		
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			the car,
		
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			and you start working on replacing the tire,
		
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			but you couldn't lift it anymore. You could
		
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			only lift it so much,
		
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			but you don't possess the strength
		
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			to go any further.
		
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			And so at this point, you've done everything
		
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			you could, and you needed additional help. And
		
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			somebody was passing by, and you said, hey,
		
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			Could you help me out for a second
		
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			over here,
		
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			because I'm I'm not able to do anymore?
		
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			And you asked for help
		
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			at the point where you were done
		
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			exhausting your resources.
		
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			Right? So you did everything you could, and
		
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			then you asked for somebody else's help.
		
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			This
		
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			kind of help, when you have already done
		
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			your part,
		
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			and then you're asking for somebody to help
		
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			finish the job, basically,
		
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			That's actually called in Arabic.
		
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			Is one of the Arabic words for help.
		
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			It's the same word we use in the
		
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			when we say
		
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			It's the same origin word.
		
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			Another example of something similar. So the idea
		
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			By the way, just to compare, if you
		
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			had a flat tire, you pulled up to
		
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			the side of the road, continue to sit
		
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			in your car, and somebody walking by you
		
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			said, hey, could you I have a flat
		
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			tire, you wanna help me out? I'm just
		
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			you know, it's a little hot outside so
		
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			I'm just gonna stay here, but you please
		
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			do help me out. That's not istiaana. You're
		
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			not seeking aoun because you're you didn't do
		
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			your part.
		
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			You're just you're asking for help without any
		
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			contribution of your own. You understand? Okay.
		
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			Similarly, you have the concept of
		
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			the help of Allah
		
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			to ask for help from Allah. Okay?
		
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			The the word is actually used originally in
		
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			the Arabic language for military aid.
		
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			It's not just used generally, it's used for
		
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			military aid. So for example, there's 2 armies,
		
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			you know, back in the day, 1 army
		
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			showed up on one hilltop, the other one
		
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			showed on the other hilltop, and they just
		
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			slid down and they clashed into one another
		
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			and one of them is losing, the other
		
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			one's winning, etcetera. And then a reinforcement arrives,
		
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			from the side,
		
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			you know, aiding 1 of the 1 of
		
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			the armies.
		
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			Right? And just coming from the side and,
		
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			reinforcing them. That would be Nasr. That would
		
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			be additional help. Right? So there are multiple
		
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			concepts in the Quran that illustrate the same
		
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			reality.
		
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			Allah's help comes
		
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			and Allah's
		
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			Allah responds
		
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			and helps in some way, but the first
		
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			step has to be taken by
		
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			the believer. In fact, the Fatiha begins that
		
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			way.
		
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			It's it's actually
		
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			You have to do the the try to
		
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			do it yourself, and then you ask Allah,
		
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			then you're in a position to ask Allah
		
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			for help. So there's this reciprocity.
		
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			The subject is made extremely clear in places
		
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			like Surat Al Baqarah, where Allah says,
		
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			I will respond Allah says Allah talking about
		
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			himself, he says, I respond to the one
		
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			who calls
		
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			whenever they call.
		
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			Whatever call they make, whenever they call, I
		
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			respond immediately.
		
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			Therefore, they should also respond to me.
		
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			So now you're asking Allah to respond to
		
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			you, and Allah is saying, and you should
		
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			also be responding to me. So it's a
		
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			two way street.
		
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			So what I'm trying to get at in
		
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			in the Quran, Allah and and I wanna
		
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			contrast this with other religions.
		
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			In the Quran, our relationship with Allah is
		
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			actually reciprocal in some way.
		
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			We ask Allah,
		
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			and Allah is also asking us.
		
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			In fact, we start by doing what Allah
		
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			asks, and that puts us in a position
		
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			to ask Allah.
		
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			Okay? Now,
		
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			let's take one more step along these lines,
		
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			and this again, a different kind of analogy
		
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			before we get to this, this ayah.
		
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			And that is that,
		
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			you know, what you ask for, what you
		
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			want in life,
		
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			a lot of times, if not all the
		
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			time, it's determined by
		
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			what your goal is.
		
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			If, for example, there's a young man whose
		
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			goal is to be selected for a football
		
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			team.
		
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			Let's say that's his goal.
		
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			If that's his goal, then what does he
		
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			want? He wants the right kind of coach.
		
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			He wants the right kind of training schedule.
		
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			He wants the right kind of nutrition.
		
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			He wants the right kind of sleep schedule.
		
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			He wants the right kind of regimen. He
		
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			wants the right kind of improvement.
		
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			If you ask him, what do you want?
		
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			Well, I want these kinds of shoes, or
		
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			I want this kind of opportunity, or I
		
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			want this kind of a coach. This is
		
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			what he wants. He's not gonna ask you
		
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			for a PlayStation. He's not gonna ask you
		
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			for, you know,
		
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			you know, a new shirt or something. He
		
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			because that's not on his mind is I
		
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			gotta join this team.
		
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			So all of his wants, all the things
		
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			that he needs to fulfill that ultimate dream,
		
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			every every other thing that he desires is
		
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			in line with that.
		
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			It's in line with that. So once you
		
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			have a goal in mind,
		
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			then your wants become aligned with that goal.
		
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			And sometimes even when we give people presents,
		
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			right, you can give people if you don't
		
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			care about people, you can give them useless
		
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			presents or re gift.
		
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			People give you useless stuff like blenders, and
		
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			then you give it to them. So you
		
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			could do that. But if you care about
		
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			somebody and they're just, for example, they're just
		
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			joining university,
		
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			or they're just, you know, they're just about
		
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			to go on, you know, some business trip
		
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			or something, you get them something that helps
		
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			them in school, like you get them a
		
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			new laptop or something or you get them
		
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			something that actually helps them in their purpose.
		
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			Right? So we we we want things
		
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			based on goals.
		
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			We want things based on goals. Now, what
		
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			happens to someone who doesn't have clearly identified
		
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			goals? Someone who says, Yeah. I My goal
		
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			is I want to be happy.
		
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			Okay. Well, if that's your fuzzy goal,
		
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			then what's gonna happen? Well, you know what?
		
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			Today I want ice cream because that'll make
		
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			me happy. And tomorrow I want a video
		
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			game because that'll make me happy. And today,
		
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			you're gonna keep coming up with new things,
		
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			and guess what? None of them will do
		
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			one thing that you want, which is what?
		
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			Make you happy. You'll have ice cream and
		
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			still be depressed.
		
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			You'll play you'll you'll get this, that, or
		
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			the other, you'll still be because you're no
		
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			closer to any kind of target.
		
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			Right? When you when you when you acquire
		
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			something that you wanted,
		
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			and it even takes you 1 inch closer
		
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			to your goal, you feel like that was
		
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			worth something.
		
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			It got you somewhere. But when you're aimless
		
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			and you have no
		
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			no real objective,
		
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			then even if you get things you want
		
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			in the moment, it didn't lead to anything.
		
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			It didn't it wasn't part of a bigger
		
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			picture. You understand?
		
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			So now, let's with that with these couple
		
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			of concepts in mind, let's come back to
		
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			this ayah. Allah says
		
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			which can The word
		
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			can actually mean 2 things.
		
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			Can mean a call.
		
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			Okay. A call. So Da'wah tul Haqq is
		
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			me calling on Allah is actually also Da'wah.
		
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			So it's another word for Dua.
		
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			Many people here are familiar with the word
		
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			Dua.
		
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			Dua in Arabic is another word for Dua.
		
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			So when I do a Dua to Allah,
		
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			I'm actually doing a to Allah also. Okay?
		
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			So call to Allah asking Allah for something,
		
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			asking Allah for something, that's one obvious meaning.
		
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			The other meaning, because the is
		
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			interesting in that way, or then the in
		
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			the beginning, the
		
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			it also refers to Allah calling on you.
		
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			So you have 2 things merged in this
		
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			phrase,
		
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			you're asking a love for something
		
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			and Allah says the only one and how
		
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			does this ayah help us understand that concept?
		
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			Allah is saying in the end when you
		
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			ask for something
		
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			the only time you really truly ask for
		
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			anything is when you've asked Allah. Anything else
		
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			and anyone else you ask is actually not
		
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			even asking. It wasn't even really asking because
		
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			it didn't count for anything. It was empty.
		
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			It was thin air. The only one who
		
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			ever responds to you is actually Allah.
		
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			So, the
		
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			true call that is ever made is actually
		
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			only ever made to Allah.
		
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			On the flip side, Allah is also saying
		
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			that the call to live the demand that
		
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			is made,
		
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			the true demand that is made, how should
		
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			you live, what is expected of you? No
		
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			one else is calling you to do something
		
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			that is more justified and rightful than Allah's
		
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			call on me. Like what Allah is asking
		
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			me to do, what Allah has invited me
		
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			to do, the way Allah has invited me
		
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			to be, that's real. Everything else is fake
		
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			in comparison.
		
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			So there's this duality in this phrase.
		
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			Now there's a relationship between those two things.
		
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			Imagine just by visual because I'm I'm I'm
		
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			borrowing a visual from another Surah in the
		
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			Quran when Allah says
		
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			He he wasn't able to climb the mountain.
		
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			He wasn't able to scale the mountain. So
		
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			let's take the
		
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			image image. Allah wants me to climb a
		
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			mountain. Let's use that image. Okay? Allah wants
		
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			me to climb a mountain.
		
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			If that's the call Allah
		
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			made, climb this mountain,
		
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			then you know what? That became my objective.
		
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			And because that became my objective,
		
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			now I'm going to ask Allah for things
		
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			that help me fulfill that objective.
		
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			Now I'm gonna ask Allah for strength. Why
		
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			am I asking Allah for strength? It'll help
		
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			me climb that mountain. I will ask Allah
		
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			for
		
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			better lung capacity because as you climb up,
		
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			you start running out of breath because it's
		
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			gonna help me climb that mountain. I'm gonna
		
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			ask Allah for the kind of shoes I
		
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			can use to climb this mountain or the
		
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			kind of rope that I can use to
		
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			climb this mountain, or the hook, or a
		
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			teacher, or a trainer, or partners that can
		
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			help me scale this mountain.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Or recovery from injury if I've slipped and
		
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			I can get back up and keep climbing
		
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			on this mountain. Everything I'm asking Allah for
		
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			has to do with the mission Allah set
		
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			me on, and now I'm asking him in
		
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			line with that.
		
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			Think of
		
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			Musa
		
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			when he was sent to challenge Firaoun.
		
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			What did he ask Allah? He said,
		
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			You Allah expand my chest.
		
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			Because expanding chest means I won't have anxiety.
		
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			Because he knows he's going to someone who
		
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			masters in causing people anxiety. That's his expertise.
		
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			He could make you feel nervous, he can
		
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			make you feel anxious.
		
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			He's about to go take on the world's
		
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			greatest superpower, Wayasiddli Amri.
		
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			He has a problem speaking himself,
		
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			He wants to make sure that whatever he's
		
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			going to say is understood by everybody.
		
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			He might feel alone and intimidated
		
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			Everything he's asking for
		
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			is actually because Allah said,
		
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			That's the mission. Now that he's been told
		
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			to climb that mountain,
		
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			everything he's asking for is in line with
		
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			that mission. Now many of you have heard,
		
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			Usada, I've heard that you should ask Allah
		
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			for everything.
		
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			The hadith says even a shoelace you've heard
		
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			that before ask Allah for everything even a
		
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			shoelace
		
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			therefore I ask Allah for a new car
		
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			and I ask Allah for you know a
		
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			new this or a nicer that or because
		
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			the hadith says ask even for a shoelace.
		
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			Yeah. But you're not looking at the whole
		
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			picture.
		
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			If that shoelace is going to help you
		
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			tie your shoe better so you can climb
		
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			that mountain, then ask for the shoelace.
		
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			It's not in isolation. Randomly, I decided to
		
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			ask for a banana, and then I asked
		
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			for a shoelace, and then I asked for,
		
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			you know, Velcro shoes or whatever.
		
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			That's not the point that's being made. The
		
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			point that be that's being made is once
		
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			you embark on that journey towards Allah,
		
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			then whatever you need to successfully
		
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			embark on that journey, you ask Allah for
		
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			whether it's small or it's big.
		
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			Everything is in line with that journey.
		
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			And you're asking Allah to remove things from
		
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			your path that will distract you from your
		
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			goal.
		
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			The problem The the the What I want
		
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			you to understand here is,
		
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			it's as if first Allah set my eyes
		
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			on a goal
		
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			and because I became clear about my goal,
		
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			the nature of my duas
		
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			changed.
		
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			The nature of my What I'm asking What
		
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			I'm begging Allah for changed
		
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			because my objectives have entirely changed. Just like
		
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			I was telling you, the young man who
		
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			wants to join a football team, the things
		
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			he's going to ask for are not going
		
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			to be the same as some other young
		
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			man who's not trying out for a team.
		
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			It has no goal in front of him,
		
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			he just wants to enjoy his summer vacation
		
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			or something like that. They're not the same.
		
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			And in fact, even if you get temporary
		
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			joy without having a larger objective, you might
		
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			enjoy it very temporarily but the feeling of
		
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			emptiness settles in very very quickly.
		
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			But when you actually get purposeful
		
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			purposeful prayer,
		
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			then even if it's a small thing, because
		
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			you know it's working towards a larger goal,
		
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			you appreciate it, you thank Allah more for
		
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			it, and it takes you it propels you
		
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			even further.
		
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			This is the the one of the great
		
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			hikam carry captured inside
		
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			Now let's compare this to other religious worldviews.
		
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			In other religious worldviews, I speak of them
		
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			sometimes in condescending terms. I don't mean to
		
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			be condescending to other religions, but I do
		
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			want you to understand
		
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			with other religious traditions. Some of you heard
		
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			my today,
		
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			before you fell asleep.
		
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			I was talk talking about when when the
		
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			Israelites
		
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			cross the water, they cross the water, and
		
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			now they've escaped Firaun,
		
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			and they have their prophet with them who's
		
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			shown them multiple miracles, and they pass by
		
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			a village, you know, that
		
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			used to sit in front of idols and
		
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			meditate.
		
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			They passed by this town that was idol
		
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			worshiping and they sat by idols and meditated
		
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			and they said
		
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			can you make us a god like this
		
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			one? The I mean, these guys are this
		
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			is pretty good stuff. Can we have one
		
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			of these too? Why can't we have it
		
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			like that? You know? Why why is it
		
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			that they wanted that? Because I I want
		
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			you to understand
		
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			and understand the the the the nature of
		
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			consumer religion.
		
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			Consumer religion. Consumer religion is I have a
		
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			The only reason I worship a god
		
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			is because that god will give me something
		
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			I want.
		
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			Okay? So I go to I go to
		
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			this God and I'll, you know, put some
		
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			milk in front of it and put some
		
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			whatever flowers in front of it and you
		
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			know, do the thing and the candles and
		
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			all of that stuff. And then I'll tell
		
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			him I really want my uncle to die
		
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			because if he doesn't die, then I'm not
		
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			gonna get the village the the the the
		
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			the horse. My dad signed it off to
		
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			my uncle. I'm next in line, so I
		
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			really need him to
		
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			die.
		
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			And the the uncle is right next to
		
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			him. He's going, I we really need my
		
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			nephew to die because
		
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			now it just depends who's gonna push who
		
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			off the mountain in the from the temple
		
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			or whatever.
		
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			But
		
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			the the idea is you're you're turning to
		
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			a God because you have a wish
		
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			and you're going to worship and sacrifice and
		
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			do whatever and in exchange your wish will
		
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			be granted. So
		
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			duas
		
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			Dua In other religions, Dua is actually just
		
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			a wish. It's a wish list.
		
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			You go to that god with your wish
		
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			list and you say god I want to
		
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			marry this girl or I want to marry
		
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			this guy or I want to do this
		
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			or I want my you know, some lady
		
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			came to me. I can't some things just
		
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			traumatized me for life, man. This lady came
		
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			up to me. She said, what do you
		
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			do if Allah never answers your dua? I
		
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			was like, what dua is this?
		
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			She goes I've I've made I fasted and
		
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			made this dua I've prayed tahajjud and made
		
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			this dua I went to the haram I
		
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			did umrah I did umrah in Ramadan and
		
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			made this dua Allah is not answering my
		
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			dua I was like, which is this? Can
		
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			you tell can you tell me a little
		
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			bit about it? I'll go to the side.
		
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			You know.
		
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			She goes, yeah. I really want my daughter
		
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			to marry this boy, and she says, no.
		
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			I made so much dua.
		
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			And so and Allah is not answering my
		
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			dua. So so you believe
		
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			that you have a wish
		
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			and Allah should answer your dua by handing
		
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			you a psychological remote control. You can press
		
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			like him
		
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			and point it at your daughter and your
		
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			daughter's entire personality will change because you asked
		
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			Allah to exert control on another human being.
		
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			Our Messenger was told
		
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			You are not in control over other people
		
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			but you, lady,
		
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			want to ask Allah to hand you control
		
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			over another living soul
		
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			because you want them to do something you
		
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			want and they don't want it. How dare
		
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			they?
		
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			And you're like, Allah is not answering my
		
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			dua. You know what that is? Allah is
		
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			not granting my wish.
		
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			That's not a dua.
		
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			And you know where these kinds of duas
		
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			come from? They come from a lack of
		
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			real purpose.
		
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			Your purpose is much letter much lesser. Oh,
		
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			if she marries this boy, then that's a
		
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			really rich family then we get to say
		
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			we married in this rich family or my,
		
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			you know, my my cousins will be happy
		
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			or this one will be happy or this
		
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			one will say this and this. That's your
		
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			goal. Your goal is very low and because
		
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			your goal is low, the things you're asking
		
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			Allah for are in line with that low
		
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			goal. That's what's actually happening.
		
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			When you set your goal higher, the things
		
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			you ask Allah for are going to be
		
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			higher.
		
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			And so you find a lot of people
		
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			setting their goals low,
		
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			and then asking for lower things
		
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			of Allah,
		
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			and then getting frustrated with Allah that he's
		
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			not giving me what I want Because now
		
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			we're turning our religion
		
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			into consumer religion. We want Allah to We
		
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			place the order,
		
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			especially in the odd nights of Ramadan. We're
		
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			gonna place a lot of orders. You know,
		
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			we're gonna make our wish list and we're
		
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			gonna come to Allah. And if that doesn't
		
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			get answered, then hey, come on. What's going
		
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			on over here?
		
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			I'd even I, you know,
		
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			the masjids around the country,
		
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			they get they get the people in their
		
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			boards, or if you have an office line
		
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			or whatever, it gets
		
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			overrun. Right? Which one is the night of
		
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			Dua again? Is it tomorrow? Is it today?
		
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			Listen, because I have a list. I gotta
		
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			I gotta get through my list.
		
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			Right? And we have this this concept we've
		
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			we've developed this conception
		
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			of how the things we want in this
		
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			dunya,
		
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			that's what the deen is for.
		
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			The purpose of the deen is to ask
		
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			Allah for things we want in this dunya.
		
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			That was the purpose of every other religion.
		
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			When Allah says, Allah alone owns the true
		
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			call. What is Allah's call?
		
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			Allah's call is to be ready to meet
		
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			Him.
		
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			That's Allah's call.
		
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			Is actually ultimately
		
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			Allah is inviting us to be able to
		
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			meet Him on judgment day, to not be
		
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			among the people that Allah says about them,
		
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			He won't look at certain people on resurrection
		
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			day, and he won't purify them. He doesn't
		
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			want us to be from those people.
		
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			He says,
		
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			Some places some faces will be lit, they'll
		
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			be lit, they'll be illuminated,
		
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			staring at their rub. He wants us to
		
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			be those people.
		
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			If
		
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			that's the goal, I need to meet Allah.
		
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			That's the goal that's been set. Then my
		
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			duas are in line with that. And I'm
		
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			not saying you become a saint and you
		
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			don't care about anything in this life. That
		
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			is not what I'm saying at all.
		
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			In fact, now what what I'm saying is
		
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			2 things become inseparable.
		
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			2 things become inseparable, the blessings of this
		
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			life
		
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			and how the blessings of this life are
		
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			connected to the blessings of the next life.
		
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			How?
		
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			We go around the the the Kaaba,
		
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			and we get to a certain portion of
		
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			the haram,
		
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			and the the Kaaba, and we're doing tawaf,
		
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			and we say
		
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			Give us the give us beautiful good things
		
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			in this life, and give us beautiful good
		
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			things in
		
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			the next life. In this life, in the
		
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			next life.
		
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			That's not asking for 2 separate things actually.
		
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			We're asking for one thing. We're asking for
		
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			good things in this life that lead to
		
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			good things in
		
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			the next life. If you get good things
		
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			in this life that have nothing to do
		
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			with good things in the next life, that's
		
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			a problem.
		
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			And that's why right before that dua, insulbul
		
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			Bakar Allah says
		
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			There's among these people who say, You Allah,
		
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			give me in this world,
		
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			give me this girl in marriage, give me
		
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			this car, give me this job, give me
		
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			this money, give me this, give me this,
		
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			give me this, give me this, give me
		
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			this.
		
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			Dunya says they have no portion in the
		
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			akhira.
		
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			And you would imagine if that that dua
		
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			is saying that aya is saying don't ask
		
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			about dunya, but the next ayah made you
		
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			ask about duniya again.
		
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			Why? Allah is teaching us that we should
		
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			be asking for things in this world that
		
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			benefit us in the next world.
		
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			What this also does
		
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			is that it teaches me humility,
		
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			a lot of humility.
		
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			I can be very sure about what I
		
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			want.
		
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			I can be very sure about what I
		
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			want,
		
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			but I don't know that.
		
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			I feel it. This is what I want.
		
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			You Allah, if I have this, I will
		
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			be a good servant. I will fulfill my
		
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			purpose towards you. I will be able to
		
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			do good. You Allah, just give me this.
		
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			And Allah could in His wisdom decide, no
		
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			actually you think you want this and you
		
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			think this is the best thing for you
		
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			but it's not, and I won't give it
		
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			to you. That can happen.
		
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			That can absolutely happen. Nuh alaihi salam must
		
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			have thought that if son if his son
		
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			becomes a believer, it's the best thing ever.
		
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			Father and son will do Dawah together. The
		
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			deen of Allah will be served.
		
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			Allah decided, No. I'm not gonna give you
		
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			that dua.
		
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			Ibrahim alaihis salaam must have decided that the
		
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			one who makes the idols his father, if
		
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			he becomes Muslim, then the entire shirk manufacturing
		
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			industry
		
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			in the region will shut down. This is
		
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			great.
		
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			What a great aid to Islam
		
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			and I'm sure he asked for the guidance
		
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			of his father. Allah didn't answer that prayer.
		
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			So Allah responding,
		
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			Allah responding is on Allah's terms not on
		
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			our terms. We ask to the best of
		
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			our ability but we have to have a
		
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			level of humility that Allah's plan is better
		
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			than what we can ask
		
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			And we cannot say, You Allah, you didn't
		
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			answer according to my wishes,
		
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			my thinking,
		
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			my strategy. We have to develop a humility.
		
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			I also add something else to this concept,
		
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			and that is we have to develop a
		
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			sense of
		
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			agility.
		
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			Agility means I asked Allah for something, I
		
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			don't see that Allah is giving it to
		
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			me. Right? I asked Allah for one door
		
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			to open, and that door is not opening.
		
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			I keep asking, I keep asking, and that
		
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			door is not opening.
		
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			And for 5 years I'm frustrated with Allah
		
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			because Allah is not opening that door.
		
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			You know what? Maybe in those 5 years,
		
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			I chose
		
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			to become blind to the 100 other doors
		
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			that Allah opened because I don't want any
		
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			of those, I want this one.
		
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			I'm stubborn with I'm telling Allah this door
		
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			or nothing else.
		
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			I'm being and then I'm saying Allah is
		
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			not answering me.
		
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			You ever see a bird that's trying to
		
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			get out of a window, but one window
		
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			is closed and the other one's open, and
		
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			it's smacking its head into the glass?
		
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			I I feel like sometimes we're that bird
		
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			and we're like, You Allah,
		
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			Come
		
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			on.
		
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			Just turn a little bit
		
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			and get out.
		
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			There's another door opened.
		
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			No. But that's not the one I want
		
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			though.
		
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			Because we have we have our own stubbornness.
		
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			A human being is asking for something bad
		
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			for himself very convinced they're asking for something
		
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			good
		
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			It could very well be you hate something
		
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			but it's good for you. It could be
		
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			something you love but it's bad for you.
		
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			Allah
		
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			knows you don't know.
		
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			So now,
		
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			having given you
		
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			that opening let's see what Allah is saying
		
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			about this
		
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			that in the end truly if you have
		
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			asked you've only truly asked Allah the word
		
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			one one more introductory comment on the meaning
		
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			of the word
		
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			actually also means to invite
		
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			invite someone. When you honor someone and you
		
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			invite them to your home, that's also.
		
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			But is also used when you need somebody's
		
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			personal help.
		
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			So for example, in the Quran you
		
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			have Right? Like if you needed help, for
		
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			example, fixing something in your home and you
		
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			call a bunch of guys, hey I need
		
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			to move some furniture,
		
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			can you come over? Right? That's also dawah,
		
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			that's also calling somebody for the purpose of
		
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			help.
		
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			When you're using the word dawah with Allah,
		
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			It's as if you're asking Allah's personal intervention,
		
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			personal involvement in in whatever it is that
		
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			you're doing.
		
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			You you want Allah to intervene and Allah
		
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			to take part in what it is that
		
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			you're doing. Just like Allah wanted Himself
		
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			to invite you, Himself to His path. Now
		
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			you're asking inviting Allah Himself
		
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			to come to your aid, and it's as
		
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			if Allah is saying, and there's nobody in
		
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			the end who responds to you except me
		
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			anyway.
		
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			There's nobody else. In reality, Al Haqq here
		
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			referring to reality. In the end, nobody responds
		
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			to your call except Allah.
		
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			And those who they call other than Allah,
		
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			they cannot even begin to respond to them
		
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			with anything.
		
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			They have no ability to respond.
		
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			Now the analogy. Now the the parable that
		
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			Allah gives.
		
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			Like the one who has
		
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			his hands open, stretched out,
		
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			to reach to the water,
		
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			to reach water that it can come to
		
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			his mouth,
		
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			but it will never reach it.
		
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			It will he'll never reach it. Now this
		
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			image can be understood multiple ways. So let's
		
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			go through these multiple ways. We'll start with
		
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			an image that Ali
		
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			painted. The painting
		
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			Ali painted with his words describing this ayah.
		
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			Imagine somebody at the mouth of a well.
		
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			The water is deep inside, you're at the
		
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			top of the well,
		
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			and there's no rope or bucket or nothing.
		
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			Right? And you really need the water. You're
		
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			traveling in the desert, you're dying of thirst,
		
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			you got to the tip of this well,
		
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			you need the water. So you just kind
		
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			of lean over
		
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			and are trying
		
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			trying to get to the water.
		
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			You're like, I think I felt something.
		
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			And it was because it it's too far,
		
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			bro.
		
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			It's too far.
		
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			Right? So that's one image. Like, those who
		
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			call on other than Allah are engaged in
		
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			something as silly as the guy who's leaning
		
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			over in a well, trying to reach the
		
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			water with his arms, and the water is
		
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			way down there. Like, if you if you
		
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			actually actually think about that, it's the image
		
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			of somebody acting really stupid.
		
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			That's that's what the image is.
		
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			You know?
		
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			And then another way to understand this imagery
		
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			is a mirage like in Surat An Nur.
		
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			Somebody's traveling in the desert, they think it's
		
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			water,
		
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			And they just stick they stick their hand
		
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			in the sand.
		
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			Right?
		
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			As it's not there
		
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			because it's a it's an illusion.
		
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			And you're you're looking at that and say,
		
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			how stupid is this guy?
		
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			And then another the third way you can
		
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			think about this is somebody who even does
		
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			reach the water but when they reach the
		
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			water,
		
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			they keep their palm open. If you want
		
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			to drink water, you do this.
		
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			You make a cup out of your hand,
		
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			you close your fist a little bit, right?
		
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			You close your palm a little bit. But
		
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			imagine somebody
		
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			who's it keeps slipping out.
		
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			He's never gonna reach it. He's not gonna
		
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			reach his mouth.
		
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			This is the example of someone who asks
		
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			other than Allah, who doesn't
		
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			ask rooted in
		
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			They keep asking for things and running into
		
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			desperation. The image captures stupidity.
		
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			It captures desperation.
		
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			Somebody who's desperate, somebody who's who's acting ridiculous.
		
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			They don't even they don't they're and they're
		
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			doing something
		
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			that no sensible person would would do,
		
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			but they're doing it anyway. They don't even
		
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			know why they're doing it, like no reasonable
		
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			person would do this.
		
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			You'd have to have lost your mind to
		
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			be able to do something like that. And
		
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			so he says,
		
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			And the call of the call of just
		
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			believers,
		
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			it doesn't fall anywhere except in complete waste.
		
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			It goes into complete ruin.
		
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			We have to learn to make dua to
		
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			Allah purposefully.
		
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			We have to acknowledge
		
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			first.
		
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			And then based on that,
		
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			we make our duas.
		
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			Now let's look at
		
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			the duas in the Quran. Look, I have
		
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			duas to Allah. I I make dua to
		
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			Allah for my family, my parents,
		
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			you know, my spouse, my children,
		
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			etcetera. I make dua for, you know, for
		
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			myself,
		
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			you know, I have different kinds of duas
		
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			I make to Allah. And then there are
		
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			duas that Allah has always have taught us
		
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			in the Quran.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Because it's as if you know if you
		
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			look at the story of Adam he
		
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			was sent down to earth he was really
		
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			ashamed about what happened
		
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			He was so ashamed he didn't even have
		
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			the words.
		
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			So Allah says,
		
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			like Allah gave him brought him into contact
		
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			with words,
		
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			because he didn't even know what words to
		
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			use. And then Allah taught him the words
		
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			to say, and then Allah accepted his Tawba.
		
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			Right?
		
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			In that sense, when Allah says you
		
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			about the Quran, Allah teaches you what you
		
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			couldn't have known yourself.
		
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			Allah teaches you what you could not have
		
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			known yourself.
		
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			What Allah is also teaching us is these
		
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			the duas that Allah has given us in
		
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			the Quran. The things that prophets ask for
		
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			that by extension we ask for. Or the
		
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			things like for example
		
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			That there is wisdom in those prayers.
		
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			You're asking you're you're asking Allah for something
		
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			so smart
		
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			that it's actually endorsed by Allah Himself.
		
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			It's as if Allah who made me
		
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			and made you, who knows us better than
		
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			we know ourselves, like he asks,
		
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			doesn't he know who he created? Then now
		
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			that he knows who he created, he says,
		
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			by the way,
		
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			here's what you should ask for yourself.
		
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			Here's what you should ask for yourself. Like
		
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			just put that in perspective. Here's what something
		
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			I want to ask, and here's Allah recommending,
		
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			by the way, if it was me, here's
		
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			what I would ask.
		
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			Put this in another analogous perspective.
		
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			You have something you want to eat and
		
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			then your trainer or your nutritionist or whoever
		
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			tells you, here's what I recommend you should
		
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			eat.
		
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			You wanna take some medicine? Your doctor tells
		
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			you, hey, by the way, here's the prescription
		
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			that you should be following.
		
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			You wanna sign the contract for a real
		
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			estate deal or whatever yourself? Your lawyer says,
		
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			here's what I recommend. Who you're gonna
		
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			trust? Yourself? No. No. No. I just I
		
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			got this.
		
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			No. You're gonna take the lawyer's word serious,
		
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			the doctor seriously,
		
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			the trainer serious. You take all these people
		
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			serious because they know better,
		
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			They know
		
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			better. We If one acknowledges Allah knows me
		
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			better than I know myself,
		
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			then what I should be asking for myself,
		
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			there has to be a level of acknowledgement
		
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			and humility in me that says,
		
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			I need to ask Allah what he recommended
		
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			I ask him.
		
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			That's I need to give myself to that.
		
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			And then other things that I want to
		
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			ask will come under its shade.
		
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			In fact, I would even argue the dua
		
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			that Allah has the other that Allah has
		
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			taught us in the Quran. The different dua's
		
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			Allah has taught us in the Quran they
		
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			are
		
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			so encompassing and they're so complete
		
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			that anything you would have asked for is
		
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			covered anyway
		
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			Like there's nothing you could have come up
		
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			with that you would have asked for that
		
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			isn't already
		
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			incorporated in the perfect
		
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			requests
		
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			that Allah taught us to make in His
		
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			book.
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			And then now compare that to the Dua'ul
		
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			Kafir. Who are the kafireen calling to? The
		
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			dua'ul kafirim now has two meanings. By the
		
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			way, notice the word was used for Allah
		
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			and there's 2 words for in Arabic, and
		
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			and Allah separated His Word
		
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			from the
		
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			at the end He didn't say
		
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			He said
		
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			He said, distinguishing the 2 as if they
		
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			are 2 completely different things.
		
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			Like even verbally they're not given the same
		
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			word even though they're synonymous in some sense.
		
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			They're separated. But even
		
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			is 2 things. It's what the asks for
		
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			is gone to waste And what they're asking
		
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			you for is just waste. They're also calling
		
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			you to something.
		
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			The leader also call like Allah is calling
		
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			to something, the kafir is also calling to
		
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			something.
		
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			They're also inviting to something and Allah is
		
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			saying when they ask
		
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			to their false gods or each other, it
		
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			goes to waste and whatever they're calling you
		
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			to is nothing but going to waste.
		
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			I'm really excited that we've made this much
		
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			progress in our, our journey through the parables.
		
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			Tomorrow is actually one of my probably favorite
		
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			parables in the Quran, inshallah, also from Surah
		
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			Rad. So those of you who can make
		
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			it tomorrow, I know I know a lot
		
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			of you came out tonight, Friday Friday night
		
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			Islamic fever, I get it. But,
		
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			if you can make it tomorrow, Insha Allah,
		
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			please do try and make it tomorrow because
		
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			that tomorrow night's a special
		
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			parable
		
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			that's also, part of Suratul Ra. So I'll
		
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			conclude with that today.
		
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