Nouman Ali Khan – Marriage Careers & Dealing With Societal Pressure – Q&A
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The speaker discusses how people are stressed to get married and become desperate, causing problems such as negative behavior and negative consequences. The speaker suggests that people should not make decisions about their future and that they should focus on making decisions about their life. The speaker also mentions that people may receive punishment for their actions, but it is not their responsibility to do so.
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but when you start thinking my life is
ruined if I don't get married or if
you know and then you start to keep
becoming desperate then you're going to make a
desperate decision and that decision will create even
bigger problems any
questions anybody mashallah thank you for coming everyone
yes of course you
know Allah says we created the human being
in difficulty so your difficulties were designed for
you my difficulties were designed for me right
and Allah would not give us those if
we didn't if we we couldn't handle it
so the question isn't how to deal with
it it's how do you how do you
do the right thing even when you're under
pressure and like that you know for example
you said the pressure to get married okay
well that pressure actually if you look at
it in the grand scheme of things is
meaningless is meaningless why because when the right
person you have to get married to will
come along then you'll get married if not
it's okay alhamdulillah but when you start thinking
my life is ruined if I don't get
married or if you know and then you
started becoming desperate then you're going to make
a desperate decision and that decision will create
even bigger problems right so you just have
to trust in the rizq of Allah and
not live not not get anxiety over one
thing that is not happening or another thing
that is not happening just do the right
thing Allah will make open doors Allah will
open doors but you know sometimes people say
oh you're getting old so you have to
get married this proposal came like but he
doesn't have one eye why should I get
no but it's better than nothing and but
but that's not your choice you shouldn't make
a choice because of desperation you know we'll
talk about that that's coming that one's coming
yeah I'll talk about that inshallah everything
is everything is a test in this life
no no no like you know like Yusuf
is in jail I'm sorry Yusuf is in
jail is that a punishment no Ibrahim is
kicked out of his house he does but
he for special things like Allah for example
mentions people who humiliate others or spread rumors
about others that they get cursed in this
life and the next life for example so
there are some things Allah mentions that they
might get punished in this life for but
generally speaking things we go through are not
punishments they're just trials yeah hey everyone you
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