Nouman Ali Khan – Falling Into Darkness on Judgment Day

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The "hasn't been met" situation is a result of people not living their dreams and not doing what they wanted to do. The "hasn't been met" situation is a result of people not having faith and being unable to see the next step. The "hasn't been met" situation is a result of people not having light and not being able to see the next step. The "hasn't been met" situation is a result of people not having faith and being unable to see the next step. The "hasn't been met" situation is a result of people not having light and not being able to see the next step. The "hasn't been met" situation is a result of people not having faith and being unable to see the next step. The "hasn't been met" situation is a result of people not having light and not being able to see the next step. The "hasn't been met" situation is a result of people not having faith and being unable to see

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			How does someone end up taking the most
		
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			priceless treasure that they can have in this
		
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			life, our faith, and end up squandering it
		
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			and losing it? You kept putting yourselves in
		
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			situations
		
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			where your faith gets tested.
		
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			Try to understand what that means. You kept
		
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			putting yourself in environments where you knew it
		
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			was bad for you, but you said, No,
		
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			I can handle it. I got this. I
		
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			got this.
		
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			You kept surrounding yourselves with friends that would
		
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			do bad things, say bad things,
		
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			see bad things, go to bad places, but
		
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			you said, I'm not like them, I'm just
		
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			trying to help them.
		
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			The intention of today's Khubba is to actually
		
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			share with you part of just one ayah
		
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			that belongs to Surat Al Khadeed.
		
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			But in order to share some lessons from
		
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			this ayah with you, I'd like to, you
		
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			know, give you some context.
		
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			This ayah belongs to the very middle of
		
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			Surat Al Khadeed. And in the very middle
		
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			of Surat Al Khadeed, Allah paints a scene
		
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			of judgment day.
		
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			Judgment day is something that Allah talks about
		
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			in many places in the Quran. And usually
		
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			when He talks about it, He talks about
		
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			people that are heading towards Jannah, the believers,
		
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			And people that are heading towards the hellfire,
		
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			the disbelievers.
		
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			But this passage in particular is unique because
		
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			Allah instead of comparing believers to disbelievers,
		
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			He compares believers to hypocrites. Allahumma lataja alaminhum.
		
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			May Allah not make us from them. But
		
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			Allah instead of comparing those who have faith
		
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			as opposed to those who have no faith,
		
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			is actually comparing people who have faith as
		
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			opposed to people who thought they have faith,
		
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			or pretended to have faith, or their faith
		
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			was there but is of no value to
		
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			Allah on the day of judgment. This is
		
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			the munafiq. May Allah not make us from
		
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			them. But this this is why this passage
		
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			is of particular importance
		
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			because it tells us many things about how
		
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			not to end up on that in that
		
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			scene on judgment day.
		
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			To summarize what's going on in this passage,
		
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			Allah says that on the day of judgment
		
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			believers
		
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			when they
		
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			stand, the Prophet will be able to see
		
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			them.
		
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			Meaning
		
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			The Messenger can see the entire ummah, and
		
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			will not be believing men and women.
		
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			Their light is going to be coming out
		
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			from right in front of them and from
		
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			their right.
		
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			What that means is, we have light coming
		
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			from our hearts, from our chest, and we
		
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			have lights coming out of our hands.
		
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			Why is that important? Because your iman and
		
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			my iman, if it's sincere. If my faith
		
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			is sincere to Allah, and my belief was
		
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			strong, it actually turns into light on judgment
		
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			day.
		
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			And what I that faith made me act
		
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			in a certain way. Those actions that I
		
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			took turn into light on judgment day, the
		
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			actions of my hand.
		
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			So you have 2 torches
		
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			on judgment day. The day of judgment is
		
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			dark. It's this long walk to jannah,
		
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			and you're gonna need light to get there.
		
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			Some people are going to have exhaustive light.
		
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			Their light is so stretched that the Prophet
		
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			would describe that it could go from one
		
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			city to another.
		
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			It's that big of a light.
		
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			Other people have such weak light, they still
		
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			have it, but it's so weak, they can
		
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			barely see the next step that they're taking.
		
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			So there are people with different capacities of
		
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			light, and they are now making their way,
		
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			and Allah has congratulated them because they at
		
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			least have light as opposed to people who
		
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			have no light. They don't have any chance
		
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			of getting to Jannah.
		
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			They can't see a path.
		
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			And so Allah says, (QS.
		
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			3) Congratulations to all of you of gardens
		
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			at the bottoms of which rivers are flowing,
		
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			it's right ahead of you. Keep walking, keep
		
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			going, keep going.
		
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			But then in the next ayah, Allah describes
		
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			a group of people that also get up
		
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			on judgment day,
		
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			and they notice they have no light, and
		
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			they're in the middle of the dark.
		
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			And they see far ahead, and they see,
		
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			you know, if you can imagine this scene,
		
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			there's complete pitch black darkness,
		
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			and there's a group of people that seem
		
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			to have some torches with them. You don't
		
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			even see them. You just see some lights
		
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			flickering.
		
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			So you realize, I need to I better
		
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			catch up with them because those lights are
		
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			getting dimmer.
		
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			So these hypocrites wake up in this dark
		
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			scene
		
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			on judgment day, and they try to run
		
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			and catch up to the believers
		
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			because they have no light of their own.
		
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			They wake up and they're in shock that
		
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			they have nothing that can aid them. So,
		
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			The day on which hypocritical men and women
		
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			are going to say to those who believed,
		
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			wait for Us, hold on, look back towards
		
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			Us, we could get some of Your light.
		
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			Ikhtibas literally means, you know, in old days
		
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			you have these torches with fires on top,
		
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			and you can take your wood, and you
		
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			can kinda light up your own torch. So
		
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			they figured we can go borrow some of
		
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			your light, it won't take anything away from
		
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			yours.
		
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			Hold on a second, help us out here.
		
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			And then a voice is heard,
		
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			Go back behind yourselves, go turn back.
		
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			Find some light.
		
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			We're not gonna help.
		
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			A day of judgment the day of judgment
		
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			is the day on which a mother doesn't
		
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			care about her child. The
		
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			the day on which, you know, father and
		
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			son, and brother and sister, this is all
		
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			these relationship
		
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			All relationships are cut.
		
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			So who's gonna care about who? I just
		
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			need to get to my jannah, mind your
		
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			own business. I'm not even turning back. Go
		
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			back and find some light yourself. And the
		
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			idea of going back actually is sarcasm also.
		
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			Go back to this world. Cause on judgement
		
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			day, you if you don't come on judgement
		
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			day with light, you can't get any. The
		
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			only way to gain that light was in
		
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			this world.
		
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			So now they still try to catch up
		
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			because they don't wanna hear it. Right? So
		
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			they're still trying to catch up. And as
		
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			they get closer and closer to the believers,
		
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			A massive gigantic wall
		
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			is dropped between them,
		
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			which happens to have a door. And the
		
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			door, inshallah, will maybe some other time we'll
		
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			talk about. But Allah says, A massive giant
		
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			wall is dropped between these 2 groups. So
		
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			even if they were gonna try to catch
		
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			up, now they can't.
		
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			As the wall is dropped, Allah says,
		
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			The side they can no longer see. The
		
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			hidden side of it. That's got mercy, and
		
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			love, and care in it.
		
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			And right behind it,
		
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			approaching them, right approaching them is punishment. So
		
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			not only were they in the dark, now
		
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			there's a massive wall, you got nowhere to
		
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			go, and when you look back there's punishment
		
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			coming at you. They're about to be crushed.
		
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			So these hypocrites, may Allah not make us
		
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			from them, become desperate.
		
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			So they call out and they say,
		
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			Didn't We used to be with You?
		
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			Weren't We with You? So they're asking for
		
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			the people of the other side.
		
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			Apparently, the door can be opened from the
		
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			other side. Open up guys. Come on. We
		
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			used to be with You. And so a
		
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			desperate call is made.
		
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			This is important before we go any further.
		
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			This is actually the reason I chose these
		
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			ayat for today's Khutba. This wording.
		
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			Weren't we with you?
		
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			The idea is that these people on judgement
		
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			day that are standing on the wrong side
		
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			of the wall,
		
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			that are in desperate situation, that have no
		
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			light of themselves,
		
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			actually assumed that they belonged among the believing
		
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			community. They were very confident about that. So
		
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			much so that they're citing it even on
		
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			judgment day, We used to be among you.
		
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			We prayed with you, we did business with
		
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			you, we were friends with you, we were
		
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			family with you, we were cousins with you,
		
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			we went to the same college, university. We're
		
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			we're all the same, guys.
		
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			How are we separated today? Why is this
		
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			separation happening today?
		
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			And from the other side, this time, now
		
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			that they feel safe. You know once the
		
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			wall is dropped,
		
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			not only do these people get overly terrified,
		
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			the people on the other side feel far
		
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			more secure. So they're not in a rush
		
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			anymore cause now it's totally safe.
		
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			So now they take their time
		
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			and actually answer them and say, Well, here's
		
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			why you're not with us today.
		
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			Here's why you're not with us today.
		
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			You know the first thing the people of
		
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			heaven told
		
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			them was you have to go get some
		
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			of your own light. Find
		
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			some light on your own. Go back and
		
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			get it. Apparently you don't have any light.
		
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			And then they're in shock, We used to
		
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			be with you, we should've had light just
		
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			like you have light
		
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			so now the people of Jannah are going
		
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			to describe
		
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			how these people who used to have light
		
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			they used to have light, they used to
		
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			have faith how did they lose it?
		
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			How did they end up bankrupt on judgment
		
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			day? And this ayah is particularly profound because
		
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			then it will give us an insight into
		
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			how does someone lose their iman.
		
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			How does someone end up taking the most
		
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			priceless treasure that they can have in this
		
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			life, our our faith, And end up squandering
		
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			it and losing
		
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			it. There's a it doesn't happen overnight. It
		
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			doesn't just you don't just lose your iman.
		
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			It's a process. And that process has been
		
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			described in these timeless words.
		
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			Of course you used to be with us.
		
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			Walakin nakum fatantum anfusakum.
		
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			However, you put yourselves I'll do a rough
		
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			translation first, then I'll explain. Number 1, you
		
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			put yourselves in fitna, you put yourselves in
		
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			trial.
		
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			Fatana in Arabic actually means to put something
		
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			to the test. Fatana is also used when
		
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			you when you test the purity of gold,
		
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			and you melt it, and impurities come out
		
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			like it gold doesn't go through an easy
		
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			test, it goes through a painful burning test.
		
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			The idea
		
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			of there are many lessons associated with it,
		
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			but for the purposes of this khutbah, I'll
		
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			highlight one of them. You kept putting yourselves
		
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			in situations
		
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			where your faith gets tested.
		
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			Try to understand what that means. You kept
		
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			putting yourself in environments where you knew it
		
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			was bad for you, but you said, No.
		
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			I can handle it. I got this. I
		
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			got this.
		
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			You kept surrounding yourselves with friends that would
		
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			do bad things, say bad things, see bad
		
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			things, go to bad places, but you said,
		
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			I'm not like them, I'm just trying to
		
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			help them. And you kept going back into
		
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			those environments.
		
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			You kept getting into gatherings, and places, and
		
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			situations.
		
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			You put you kept putting yourselves in those
		
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			places
		
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			assuming that it will not have any effect
		
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			on you. It'll affect everyone else, so it
		
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			won't affect you.
		
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			You know the first step wasn't that these
		
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			people just became disbelievers, it was actually bad
		
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			company.
		
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			They put themselves in questionable circumstances.
		
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			And they assume that it's not going to
		
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			have an effect. You know, when you are
		
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			you know, I'll give you a silly example
		
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			but it'll get the point across. If people
		
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			do a lot of cooking at home, especially
		
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			if you're a desi household. You do a
		
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			lot of cooking at home, the home smells
		
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			like a lot of masala.
		
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			But if you live there, you don't smell
		
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			it. When somebody else walks in, especially if
		
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			an Arab walks into your house, they feel
		
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			like they're in some contaminated zone. It hits
		
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			them really hard. But a couple of hours
		
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			later, they're like, it's just oxygen now. You
		
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			understand?
		
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			When you first put yourself in a bad
		
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			environment, you might feel it.
		
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			You might feel, This isn't good. This is
		
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			this gonna mess me up. I don't think
		
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			I should be here. Your heart will feel
		
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			uncomfortable.
		
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			But if you keep putting yourself in that
		
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			again,
		
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			guess what? It doesn't bother you anymore. Somebody
		
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			who smells, you know, stands next to a
		
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			smoker for the first time is coughing,
		
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			and their eyes are burning. But if they
		
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			start smoking themselves, a year later, that just
		
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			becomes their
		
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			oxygen. They can't even breathe normally without smoking.
		
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			It changes them all together.
		
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			The first problem was you put yourselves, you
		
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			surrounded yourselves in a bad environment.
		
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			What was the second problem?
		
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			The second problem was wa talabastum.
		
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			You kept procrastinating.
		
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			Now what does that mean? That means you
		
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			realized it's bad, and you also realized in
		
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			your own conscience I should change, but you
		
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			told yourself,
		
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			I'll change pretty soon, inshaAllah.
		
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			I'm gonna change. I know I have to
		
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			change. I know this is bad. Just one
		
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			more week, and I'm gonna be a different
		
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			person.
		
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			Man, just this semester I got these messed
		
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			up friends right now, and I can't really
		
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			make them upset, so I'm gonna keep hanging
		
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			out with them. But next semester I'm totally
		
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			doing a different schedule, I'm not gonna be
		
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			around these guys anymore.
		
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			But just let me just write out this
		
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			semester.
		
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			Just this one more month I'm doing this,
		
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			you know. Just this one more weekend, just
		
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			this one or two more party,
		
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			just 1 or 2 more drinks, that you
		
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			keep telling yourself just little bit more, little
		
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			bit more, little bit more, and then people
		
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			tell my my favorite one, Ramadan is right
		
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			around the corner.
		
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			It's just 10 more months, 11 more months.
		
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			You know.
		
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			Once I once Ramadan come, man, I'll be
		
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			totally different. I plan to go to Hajj.
		
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			Once I go to hajj, oh, you watch,
		
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			I'm gonna be a different person.
		
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			But until then, you know, just kinda just
		
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			make dua' for me.
		
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			You didn't wanna make a change today, right
		
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			now. You figured, you assumed, not only are
		
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			you putting yourselves in a bad environment,
		
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			you're not ready to make a transformation right
		
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			now. It's too much for you to be
		
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			asked.
		
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			You'd rather just stick it out. You'd rather
		
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			just enjoy a little bit more. This is
		
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			what But
		
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			you know what? And you assumed, by the
		
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			way, this this also has an assumption. The
		
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			first assumption was it doesn't affect you. It
		
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			doesn't have an impact on you, but it
		
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			does. Something really bad becomes normal to you
		
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			over time, you get desensitized.
		
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			What is the effect of of holding off,
		
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			and holding off, and holding off? Actually you
		
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			assume that you can put the brakes on
		
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			at any time,
		
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			and you can walk away from all of
		
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			it whenever you want. I'm not addicted.
		
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			I don't need this. I'm not hooked on
		
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			it. I could just walk away whenever I
		
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			feel like. The truth of it is that's
		
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			not the case. The longer you stay, the
		
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			more addicted you become, and the more completely
		
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			immersed. You're completely drowned. And you don't
		
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			even know what anymore what it is to
		
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			be outside of this environment. And then you
		
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			start telling yourself, it's too late for me.
		
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			And when that happens,
		
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			a guilt sets in. The guilt sets in
		
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			that I'm pretty messed up.
		
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			Man, I've been doing sins. I've been in
		
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			this bad environment.
		
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			I should have made tawba a long time
		
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			ago, but it's too late for me. And
		
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			that bad nobody likes to feel bad.
		
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			Nobody likes to feel guilty.
		
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			And then shaitaan comes and says, why do
		
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			you feel guilty?
		
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			You don't have to feel guilty.
		
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			The only thing that's making you feel guilty
		
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			is this Islam thing.
		
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			Islam says, this is haram, and that's haram,
		
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			and that's a sin, and that's a sin,
		
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			and you can't do this, and you can't
		
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			say that, and you can't go there. It
		
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			keeps Islam keeps making you feel bad, man.
		
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			I want you to feel good.
		
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			What how true is Islam anyway?
		
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			And now the thoughts start running in this
		
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			person's mind, a man or a woman.
		
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			Why am I even following Islam?
		
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			It seems like it just wants me not
		
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			to be happy.
		
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			I just wanna live my life, man. I
		
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			just wanna be free. I just wanna be
		
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			able to do what I want. I just
		
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			wanna be able to hang out with my
		
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			friends. I'm not so sure about the Quran
		
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			anyway. How do we even know there is
		
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			a God? How do we even know? What's
		
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			this hadith business? How do we even know
		
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			it's authentic? And so you have this young
		
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			man or woman,
		
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			this Zaynab, this Ali, this Fatima, this Abdullah,
		
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			this Kareem, these beautiful names, and now they're
		
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			starting to ask questions about I'm not so
		
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			sure about this Islam.
		
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			I don't know. I have doubts. I have
		
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			serious doubts. And these are not PhDs in
		
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			philosophy, nor do they have exhaustive education in
		
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			Islamic history where they studied it and they
		
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			started developing doubts. No, no, no. They were
		
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			in a bad environment, they didn't change themselves.
		
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			That is the process I've I've talked to
		
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			a 100 of these people that literally live
		
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			this ayah. They live this ayah. And then
		
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			they get to a point where they have
		
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			doubts.
		
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			But their doubts have nothing to do with
		
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			logic or reason. As a matter of fact,
		
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			when you answer one doubt, they go to
		
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			the next doubt. When you answer that one,
		
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			they go to the next one. When you
		
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			answer that one, you go to the next
		
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			one. Then you say, Hold on a second.
		
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			So how long ago did you start ending
		
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			up in questionable kinds of company, and then
		
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			the truth starts coming out?
		
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			The very next words are you fell into
		
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			doubt.
		
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			You started doubting.
		
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			You know what doubt will do? It'll let
		
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			you off the hook. You'll be able to
		
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			say to yourself, Well, it's not really
		
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			absolutely the truth anyway, so I shouldn't feel
		
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			bad that I don't follow it.
		
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			I shouldn't feel bad.
		
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			And now once those doubts settle in, and
		
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			you hide behind those doubts, and continue to
		
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			justify your life of procrastination and putting yourself
		
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			in fitna. Once you get to that point,
		
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			then 2 things are taken away from you.
		
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			The desire for jannah is taken away. The
		
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			desire for making Allah happy is taken away.
		
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			The desire to have that light that will
		
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			make you run and get to that destination,
		
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			you don't even have that in this world.
		
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			The person who desires to seek that success
		
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			with Allah, Allah will give them that in
		
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			this world. But that desire is gone now.
		
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			You have doubts about it, and the fear
		
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			of * is gone.
		
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			Those those two things are gone. Your fears
		
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			are gone, and your your your hopes and
		
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			aspirations in Allah and the akhirah are gone.
		
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			The afterlife is nothing to you. The afterlife
		
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			means nothing. If somebody even brings up heaven
		
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			and *, it's a joke to you.
		
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			Well, if you take away heaven and *,
		
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			if you take away the motivation to end
		
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			up in the reward of Allah, or get
		
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			away from the punishment of Allah on judgment
		
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			day, well the only motivation you're going to
		
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			have left are things that are left in
		
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			this world. Isn't it?
		
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			You have nothing left in the next life.
		
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			So the only thing to look forward to
		
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			are stuff that's left in this life.
		
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			And this life will be money,
		
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			it'll be fame, it'll be leisure, it'll be
		
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			pleasure.
		
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			You know, it'll be material things.
		
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			That's all you ever think about, that's all
		
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			you ever care about, that's all you ever
		
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			wanna know about, that's the only thing that
		
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			ever interests you, that's the only thing you
		
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			make efforts towards because you think all of
		
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			these things are going to bring you happiness.
		
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