Nouman Ali Khan – Are Good Men Always Meant for Good Women Q&A

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			Good people are supposed to end up
with good people. That's how
		

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			things should be. And now Allah by
saying these rules that I have
		

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			given you is to help make that a
reality.
		

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			Um, so, so basically, our house, I
was having a debate with one of my
		

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			friends, and the point that we
were making, or the point that he
		

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			was, the point I was making is
that good men are for good women,
		

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			and good women are for good men,
and vice versa. So he his point
		

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			was to me that, okay, if Allah
says this in the Quran, why is it
		

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			so that, realistically, is a bit
subjective. But he was saying that
		

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			all the people that he knows in
his life where the men are great,
		

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			but the women are horrible, right?
So, for example, if an atheist was
		

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			to say the same thing, then what
would you say to day, theus? Or,
		

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			very cool, what's your question?
What's your name and jihad? Nice
		

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			name, okay,
		

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			okay, my politically incorrect
friend, jihad.
		

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			If I say I'll give you an example.
Imagine you teach at kindergarten,
		

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			okay, and you put a jar of candy
over here,
		

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			and then you tell students, this
candy is for the students who
		

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			finish their aside the paper
they're all filling in the colors.
		

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			Whoever finishes coloring, they
get this candy, right? So this jar
		

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			is for the students who finish. Is
		

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			it possible that a student who
didn't finish goes, runs over and
		

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			grabs it, and then
		

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			somebody else comes along. But the
truth is, this jar was for the
		

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			students who finished. How can
someone grab it?
		

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			Right? Allah says, good men are
for good women. Filthy men are for
		

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			filthy women, and vice versa.
What's he actually saying good men
		

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			are supposed to be for good women
and filthy are supposed to be with
		

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			filthy. He's not saying they are.
As a matter of fact, if that was
		

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			the case, why would lupi married
to his wife?
		

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			Why would Why would firam be
married Asia?
		

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			We don't have to go up nowadays,
you find bad couples. There's bad
		

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			couples in the Quran, bro,
		

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			lots of bad couples in the Quran.
Why would that happen? Will it
		

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			happen? Allah is saying good
people are supposed to end up with
		

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			good people. That's how things
should be. And now Allah is saying
		

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			these rules that I have given you
is to help make that a reality.
		

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			That's what Allah is saying. He's
not saying good men always end up
		

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			with good women and bad men always
end up with bad women. Lots of bad
		

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			men end up with very good women,
and lots of good men end up with
		

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			very bad women, and the other way
around. I hope you guys enjoyed
		

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