Nouman Ali Khan – Are Good Men Always Meant for Good Women Q&A

Nouman Ali Khan
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The speaker discusses the concept of "good men" and "good women" as defining qualities. They use the examples of the Quran to explain the concept and encourage listeners to sign up for a YouTube video to learn more. The video is a step-by-step guide to help students become better Muslims.
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Good people are supposed to end up with good people. That's how

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things should be. And now Allah by saying these rules that I have

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given you is to help make that a reality.

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Um, so, so basically, our house, I was having a debate with one of my

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friends, and the point that we were making, or the point that he

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was, the point I was making is that good men are for good women,

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and good women are for good men, and vice versa. So he his point

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was to me that, okay, if Allah says this in the Quran, why is it

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so that, realistically, is a bit subjective. But he was saying that

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all the people that he knows in his life where the men are great,

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but the women are horrible, right? So, for example, if an atheist was

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to say the same thing, then what would you say to day, theus? Or,

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very cool, what's your question? What's your name and jihad? Nice

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name, okay,

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okay, my politically incorrect friend, jihad.

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If I say I'll give you an example. Imagine you teach at kindergarten,

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okay, and you put a jar of candy over here,

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and then you tell students, this candy is for the students who

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finish their aside the paper they're all filling in the colors.

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Whoever finishes coloring, they get this candy, right? So this jar

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is for the students who finish. Is

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it possible that a student who didn't finish goes, runs over and

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grabs it, and then

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somebody else comes along. But the truth is, this jar was for the

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students who finished. How can someone grab it?

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Right? Allah says, good men are for good women. Filthy men are for

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filthy women, and vice versa. What's he actually saying good men

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are supposed to be for good women and filthy are supposed to be with

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filthy. He's not saying they are. As a matter of fact, if that was

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the case, why would lupi married to his wife?

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Why would Why would firam be married Asia?

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We don't have to go up nowadays, you find bad couples. There's bad

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couples in the Quran, bro,

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lots of bad couples in the Quran. Why would that happen? Will it

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happen? Allah is saying good people are supposed to end up with

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good people. That's how things should be. And now Allah is saying

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these rules that I have given you is to help make that a reality.

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That's what Allah is saying. He's not saying good men always end up

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with good women and bad men always end up with bad women. Lots of bad

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men end up with very good women, and lots of good men end up with

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very bad women, and the other way around. I hope you guys enjoyed

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