Nouman Ali Khan – Amazed By The Quran – End The Blame Game

			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. everyone welcome to amaze by the Khurana series in which I
like sharing with you things I find amazing about the Koran today. A phrase that the brothers of use
have mentioned what Kunal mean by the he Coleman slowly him, after you throw, throw him into a well
or kill him even
		

			after that, you'll have the exclusive attention of your father. And then, you know, some time pass
passes, and you will be good people. But the economy Mr. Lee comments on these people have in their
mind that they are bad NIV they're not saying they're good people, because they're saying we're
going to become good afterwards. So yes, I have a problem. But the reason for my problem is that one
over there, and once he's out of the picture, then I can actually be a good person again, there are
people in this world who deny that they're bad at all, like Shabbat has beautified their deeds to
them, and they think that they're doing great, you know, they're there. Well, homea Sabina and Noemi
		

			have seen una Sona. They assume that they've done great work. But then there are people who actually
know that they're wrong. They know they're messed up. But they won't acknowledge that it's
themselves that has to change, they'll blame some outside factor or usually some other person and
say, so long as that person's in my life, or so long as that person is doing this, this and this, I
have to continue to be, you know, a terrible human being. And once I can get rid of them, or cause
them harm, or do you know, in this case, even kill them or remove them entirely. Until I do that I
have no way of becoming a good person. In other words, your goodness is now entirely dependent on
		

			another. This is the biggest lie a person can tell themselves that you hide your problems, your own
flaws and character, and you've masked them as somebody else's, you know, somebody else's The reason
nobody else is the reason for the way you are you are you have the ability to change. And you can't
blame anybody else. Otherwise, there's no difference between you and us as brothers. You hope to
become a better person, but you know, how can you You're still with this, this person over here, or
they're still in us because of my dad. It's because of my mom. It's because of my brother. It's
because of my wife. It's because of my husband.
		

			None of that should matter. None of that shows some of the greatest prophets were married to some of
the most terrible women in the world.
		

			And they were the greatest people. Some of the greatest prophets had terrible children.
		

			Some some prophets had terrible parents, that they didn't say, Well, I had a tough upbringing. And I
was gonna say I had a tough upbringing. What do you want me to do? He's not gonna do that. So patola
we cannot hide behind other people for our own flaws and character. Yes, they impact us. Yes, they
emotionally scarred us. But you know what, this is a disease and we have to we have to learn to
stand for ourselves. This is something Allah teaches us in his book. But in Santa Ana de basura lol
camara de la This is what I want to leave you with your human being is actually in best view of his
own self. identity. He suggests even only on himself, meaning you cannot see anything more clearly
		

			than you can see yourself. Even if you come up with excuses. You deep down inside, you know and I
know May Allah make us of people who don't hide behind excuses and don't put our problems and our
flaws as the responsibility of other people burdening them with it may allow them to help us fix
ourselves to the best of our ability and better our relationships with people all around us.
barakallahu li walakum salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
		

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