Nouman Ali Khan – Advice to New Du’aat – Q&A

Nouman Ali Khan
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The speaker discusses the importance of learning from multiple sources and being aware of one's limits. They also advise against being in a bubble of people who are similar to one another and encourage students to engage in learning. The speaker emphasizes the need to be a part of a larger community and offers resources for learning the Quran.

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			Been,
		
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			listening to your, like,
		
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			from the beginning of my Islam journey,
		
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			and I have a few questions, like, 2
		
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			questions. Okay. I'm gonna try to keep it
		
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			short. First off, I'm a Daia as well,
		
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			and I'm I have a team here. I
		
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			give, lessons.
		
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			I just repeat what I learned from my
		
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			teachers.
		
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			And I wanna ask you, like, you're, for
		
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			example, a role model to me. I live
		
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			in role. Allah, may Allah bless you. And
		
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			I wanna ask you, like, if you have
		
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			advice
		
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			on this journey,
		
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			like, which mistakes should Adaiyah avoid if you
		
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			wanna be successful?
		
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			Like, what are the things
		
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			you would avoid if you have started new
		
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			again?
		
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			I would have spent a lot more time
		
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			on learning. Yeah.
		
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			Like, I would have so that that would
		
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			be probably the 1 of the big ones.
		
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			Oh, well. And,
		
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			I would have
		
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			I would've appreciated the value of
		
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			collaborative learning.
		
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			What that means is
		
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			when I learn something from a teacher,
		
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			I learn it. III,
		
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			learn it to the best of my ability,
		
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			but I do my own research and my
		
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			own investigating and my own asking questions. And
		
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			then sometimes I end up finding that what
		
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			my teacher shared with me, I'm not so
		
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			convinced of it.
		
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			So I need to learn from multiple sources
		
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			before I am at because that when I'm
		
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			when I'm gonna share something with someone,
		
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			I have to be I can't just rely
		
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			on 1 person.
		
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			I need to be able to say I
		
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			did justice
		
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			to my
		
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			examination before
		
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			I talked about something. Wow. There are surahs
		
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			in the Quran right now that I don't
		
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			talk about
		
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			because I haven't done my work. Subhanallah.
		
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			I've studied them. I've I've studied the tafsir,
		
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			but that's not enough work.
		
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			So, like, my biggest advice would be knowing
		
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			limits.
		
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			That would be 1.
		
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			Another advice would probably be
		
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			the du'aat
		
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			end up in a circle of people
		
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			that are similar minded
		
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			to them
		
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			or are in the similar space. Mhmm.
		
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			And the more they do that, the more
		
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			they start getting cut off from the rest
		
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			of society. Yeah. Because they're in their own
		
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			little bubble. It's become their own the Islamic
		
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			world. Their own little Islamic world.
		
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			And
		
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			the more you do that, the more it's
		
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			hard it's harder for you to understand
		
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			what people outside that world feel, what they
		
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			go through, what they experience.
		
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			You can't
		
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			genuinely talk to someone if you don't understand
		
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			them.
		
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			Sometimes end up becoming more distant from their
		
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			own family, from their own parents, from their
		
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			because they don't see the religion the same
		
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			way. I think
		
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			if if someone's gonna be in this space,
		
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			they should actually engage the most difficult
		
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			family
		
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			more
		
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			and understand that perspective more. I mean, because
		
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			that's what the Sahaba had to go through.
		
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			Not to give dawah to them, but to
		
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			but to not distance yourself
		
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			from them. Yep. That would be,
		
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			I wish I didn't do I wish I
		
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			did that so then. It's fun. Yeah.
		
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			It's hard sometimes to keep that balance Yeah.
		
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			Because Yeah. On the 1 side, you wanna
		
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			be successful, and on the other side, you
		
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			have
		
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			responsibilities for family as well. And Yeah. Yeah.
		
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			Okay. Thank you so much.
		
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			It was very nice to meet you. May
		
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			Allah bless you, and inshallah, we'll see you
		
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			again.
		
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