Naima B. Robert – TMC E4 Clip Who Benefits from Polygamy The Husband’s Perspective
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The speaker discusses the benefits of working in a family and how it benefits the personal and social experiences of the family. They also talk about the importance of learning from the past and being a value-added person. The speaker emphasizes the need for a culture of value and personalized values to achieve success in life.
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This dive right into it. Okay, because I know that people who are
here
of course, they're gonna be looking at you guys thinking, Oh
wow, this is goals, right? Because Masha Allah, or some people are
like, Oh, worst nightmare. Oh my goodness, if my man did ever I
don't know, it couldn't be me. So
I would love to hear from each one of you. For the people who are the
for the viewers, for the listeners, from your vantage point
in this dynamic, what have you experienced as the benefits of
this family that you have built?
I guess we can start with with with that one, the head of the
family I guess coaching her there, what would you say, have been the
benefits of polygyny for you? Well, first, it has to be a caveat
to because for your viewers, and everybody who's watching, you have
to recognize we are in our what I call the Chapter 11
Chapter 11. So we wouldn't be having this conversation chapter
1234, and five.
So it looks good now because we put in the work. So we do have to
make that caveat. Because if this goes, then you have to recognize
there's a whole period of time and you know, when you're writing a
book or seeing a good movie or something, there's the ups, the
downs, the pitfalls, the plot the triumphs and the tragedies that go
along with it. Okay, so with that being said, when it comes to the
benefits of political benefits of Disney are massively asking me as
an individual, one is that it requires that a man become more,
okay, you have to be above average, or at least strive to
once if you had that ambition to become more, alright, if you feel
you got your goal, you made it and that's it. And that's you have
nowhere to go from there, but down more so as a man that says, I want
to expand my family, because my philosophy, I got the Hadith of
the Prophet, the Center
for my life philosophy. And he said, he talked about paraphrasing
in English, there are three things that bother you. Basically, after
you die, your book is those three things that can still benefit you
after death. Alright, go see the righteous children in the keyboard
is being righteous children embrace me. So I wanted to anchor
that in for future generations that I wouldn't meet until the
show, I don't want
someone to
want to change our names did change our lives, we want to
change future generations. So that's one way then of course, the
soft majority are beneficial knowledge leave. So that's how I
live. So one of the things is that is allowed me to become more of
the man expand my family to be able to teach them things that I
never knew, versus giving them the things, the material things.
So
hold on a second, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, boy. Let's have
that again. Let's say it again, for the other people in the back.
Just drop that one more time. I love that, please, please share
that. Again. It requires me to give them the things that I never
knew.
Versus teaching them the things I never knew versus giving them the
things of the material thing. And I never had. So that's what
actually changes generations by being able to change that mindset
and give them something better, which is the sound which is sweet.
We all three of us came from corporatism. So we understand the
stage and the smell and the build of it, to get this Deen of Islam,
but it's so sweet. So we wanted to make sure we had that. And I
wanted to make sure it goes through for next generations. And
we're polygyny, he can do that, because we have a bigger family
emergency a bigger leader. And you know, that's some of the basic
benefits right there, but also as a man that feels one of the most
natural forms of marriage. Okay, so, you know, you're not in
knowing the history. I mean, Dr. Nancy Cartwright wrote a book
called public baths. And she talked about the transition to
come how monogamy is put out for and it's only been for the last
couple of centuries. So being when I talk about It's an ancient
solution to a modern day problem. It really is because as a man, you
know, there are things that we do, and we're different from what. So
looking at our own history of being providers and protectors and
being also served personal power, what I call the three P's. It's
inherent upon us. If you want to strive to become a bigger man, you
better and lead a society that requires you to become a man of
value, who lives by your values that requires you to do King
stuff, you know, even if it's only one home because you still have to
answer to you know, that's some of the benefits I see from there.
Just on a lower level.
That's a pretty high low level.