Naima B. Robert – Discover the Book Within Challenge Day 1 Training

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The next five days will be an award-winning book challenges where participants will be interviewed and asked questions about their writing and message. The challenges will involve learning about the book, writing, and promoting it in the world. The importance of preserving and creating a legacy for people with a passion for their story is emphasized. The speaker emphasizes the importance of writing and being a part of one's legacy, and offers advice on how to create a story. The importance of recording live events and getting out of comfort zone is also emphasized. The speaker encourages attendees to leave comments and share their experiences, and mentions a new assignment for the challenge and prizes for those who participate.

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			Welcome.
		
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			Welcome.
		
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			Oh, oh, so welcome to Discover the Book
		
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			Within,
		
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			a 5 day challenge with me, your sister,
		
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			Naima b Robert.
		
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			And I just wanna say, alhamdulillah.
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			I always say alhamdulillah at the start of
		
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			every gathering where, you know, we're hoping for
		
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			khair, hoping for good to come out of
		
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			it because it really is a privilege to
		
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			be in this place. And if you're joining
		
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			me,
		
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			know that you've been chosen. There are some
		
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			people who intended to watch this, intended to
		
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			sign up for this, intended to be a
		
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			part of this, and it was not written
		
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			for them. And there are others who didn't
		
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			even know about this until just now, and
		
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			here they are watching it. And if that's
		
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			you, alhamdulillah,
		
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			I'm so so pleased to have you with
		
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			me.
		
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			This is our 1st day of training, and
		
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			I'm so excited to jump in with you
		
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			because
		
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			day 1
		
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			we're kicking off
		
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			over the next 5 days.
		
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			My goal is to rock your world.
		
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			Quite frankly,
		
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			my goal is to shift your
		
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			thinking to help you to dig deep to
		
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			discover the book within
		
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			to find out what is it that story,
		
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			that message, that knowledge that you're carrying inside
		
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			you that deserves to be put into a
		
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			book and put out into the world. And
		
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			in order for us to do that, over
		
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			the next 5 days, we're going to be
		
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			examining
		
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			who you are,
		
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			what your message is,
		
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			what a book is, what yours could be,
		
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			and we're gonna do a lot of shifting
		
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			of beliefs, dealing with those fears, those limiting
		
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			beliefs, you know, really getting ourselves out of
		
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			the comfort zone and starting to see what
		
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			is possible for you. And then we're gonna
		
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			shift into logistical gear. We're gonna get really
		
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			practical. And
		
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			if you stick with me by the you
		
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			know, before these 5 days,
		
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			by the end of it, you are going
		
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			to have clarity about who you are and
		
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			what your message is,
		
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			clarity about the kind of book that you
		
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			could be writing and what that will look
		
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			like. You may even have a book title
		
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			and a book cover and a list of
		
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			contents and a firm and solid way forward
		
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			for you to see this book come to
		
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			life within the next 6 months inshallah. That's
		
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			my goal for you. That's what I have
		
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			pledged to do is to love on you
		
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			guys,
		
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			to serve you guys, my whole team and
		
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			I. That's what we're gonna be doing for
		
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			the next 5 days inshallah. So
		
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			make sure that you
		
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			play full out. Make sure that you show
		
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			up. Make sure that you attend the trainings.
		
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			If you can attend live,
		
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			so much the better.
		
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			If you don't manage to catch the live,
		
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			catch the replay.
		
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			Do the assignments.
		
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			Myself, coach Hind,
		
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			sister Shazia, sister Zubaida, sister Mariam,
		
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			from my team, we're all here to help
		
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			you.
		
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			We're all here
		
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			to
		
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			support you and give you anything that you
		
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			need, anything that you're missing, anything that you're
		
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			concerned about.
		
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			One of our team will be in touch
		
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			with you, Insha'Allah, and so make the most
		
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			of the support.
		
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			Your coach
		
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			So I wanna take a moment now to
		
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			really ask you
		
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			why
		
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			you are here.
		
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			What made you
		
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			sign up for this challenge?
		
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			What made you decide
		
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			to
		
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			show up
		
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			to, you know, to take the to take
		
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			the action? And I always think about this
		
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			because you obviously saw something somewhere. Maybe you
		
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			got an email. Maybe you saw an Instagram
		
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			post. Maybe it was on Facebook. Maybe someone
		
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			that you respect shared the link.
		
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			You read you went on to the page.
		
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			You read the page, you signed up,
		
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			you click the link, and you're here.
		
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			Why are you here?
		
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			Is it that you are one of those
		
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			people who
		
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			is trying to write a book right now?
		
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			Is it that you've been wanting to write
		
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			a book but you don't know how to
		
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			get started?
		
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			Is it that you've been trying to write
		
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			a book for years and you're just not
		
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			making that progress?
		
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			Is it that you just like the idea
		
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			of potentially writing a book, or are you
		
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			just here for the curiosity, you know, just
		
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			to see what it is that we've got
		
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			going on?
		
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			I would like you to just take a
		
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			moment now to think about why you came
		
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			here.
		
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			And just let me know in the
		
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			chat. Let me know in the comments
		
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			what is that brought you here. I'm really,
		
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			really curious to know, and I I will
		
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			be reading everybody's responses.
		
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			So while you take a moment to do
		
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			that, I'm gonna just introduce myself. For those
		
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			of you who don't know me,
		
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			my name is Naima b Robert, and I'm
		
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			an award winning author of over 30 books,
		
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			almost 30 books, for children,
		
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			teens, and adults
		
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			in different
		
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			I've written memoir. I've written self help. I've
		
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			written an anthology. I've published 2 anthologies.
		
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			I've written fiction. I've written written nonfiction. I've
		
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			written children's picture books. I've written young adult
		
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			novels, all sorts. I've been
		
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			also founding editor of Sisters Magazine, and
		
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			we ran that for good and managed to
		
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			launch the careers of dozens of, you know,
		
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			Muslim writers who are out there in the
		
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			world today. And then since 2018,
		
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			I've been a book coach,
		
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			and I founded Muslim writers in 2018.
		
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			And now I help my team and I,
		
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			we help women
		
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			with a story, a message, or knowledge to
		
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			share. We help them to write their books,
		
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			to publish their books, and to launch them
		
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			out into the world.
		
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			We have helped almost 50 sisters become published
		
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			authors, and I'm just gonna put it out
		
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			there. Full disclosure.
		
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			I set myself a huge
		
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			goal, and I set our team a huge
		
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			goal of helping to create 222
		
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			Muslim authors
		
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			by the end of this year.
		
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			Crazy numbers. Right? But the reason that I
		
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			did that is because
		
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			I want us to make a real difference.
		
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			It's one thing for me to write my
		
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			books and have different publishers and have my
		
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			book translated and, you know, win awards and,
		
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			you know, go and visit schools and speak
		
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			at, you know, blah blah blah
		
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			and to build a career as an author.
		
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			And that's a beautiful and amazing thing When
		
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			people read your book,
		
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			are touched by your book, and to Pamela,
		
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			their lives are changed by your books,
		
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			This is a huge part of what I
		
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			pray will be
		
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			for
		
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			me and for my family.
		
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			So that
		
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			pushes me
		
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			in my
		
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			there's more
		
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			there's more to this than just my own
		
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			personal success.
		
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			I want to see other sisters winning too.
		
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			I want to see other sisters
		
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			experiencing what I've experienced,
		
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			the power of
		
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			doing the work to get you your book
		
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			out there, the transformation that you go through
		
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			in
		
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			that process,
		
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			and then
		
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			that you
		
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			sister-in-law because I've committed myself
		
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			to helping
		
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			make that happen.
		
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			So here,
		
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			these are some of my books. You may
		
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			be familiar with some of them. Just let
		
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			me know in the chat if you know
		
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			any of these books, if you've read any
		
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			of them, if you have any favorites. As
		
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			you can see, you know, there's also different
		
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			genres there, different age groups, etcetera. Alhamdulillahabbalahalameen.
		
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			I'm grateful.
		
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			Sharing
		
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			the writing experience, the publishing experience,
		
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			the networks that Allah
		
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			has blessed me with in order to help
		
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			more women thrive,
		
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			to help
		
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			more sisters
		
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			thrive, to help more sisters achieve their dreams,
		
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			and to help more sisters
		
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			to build a legacy for themselves and their
		
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			families.
		
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			So what I know about you is that
		
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			you
		
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			have something
		
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			somebody else need.
		
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			You may believe
		
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			not. Right? But this is this is this
		
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			is my this is what I this is
		
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			my premise. This is
		
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			that every single one of you has
		
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			a story,
		
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			a story that has relevance
		
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			to people other than just yourself,
		
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			a story that resonates with others,
		
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			and that is of benefit to others. I
		
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			believe there are some of you who have
		
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			a message,
		
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			a message that the world needs, that is
		
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			needed by people out there,
		
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			that I believe that some of you, most
		
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			of you probably have knowledge
		
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			that other people don't have. You have expertise
		
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			that other people don't have.
		
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			And so I know that you have something
		
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			special within you because
		
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			as we go through this journey of life,
		
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			Allah
		
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			puts us into certain situations,
		
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			he tests us with certain
		
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			situations,
		
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			and through those tests,
		
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			They're like little
		
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			taken
		
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			and in the
		
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			and the voice, they are into bubbles.
		
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			With
		
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			your
		
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			experience
		
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			Yes. So it has given you
		
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			these
		
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			pearls of wisdom.
		
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			Right? And so right now,
		
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			those pearls are
		
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			are in here. Right? They're in here.
		
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			You kind of know what's there. You know,
		
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			if you rummage around, you'll be able to
		
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			find them. But what would happen if you
		
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			try to take all those pearls of wisdom
		
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			and hand them to somebody else? Whether that
		
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			person is your child or your loved ones
		
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			or your colleagues or your clients or your
		
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			local community or the whole world. Right?
		
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			How easy would it be for you to
		
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			gather up, firstly, all of those pearls in
		
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			your hands,
		
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			and how likely are you to be able
		
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			to hold them all in your hands without
		
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			dropping any
		
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			and then give them to somebody else
		
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			for them to hold and for them not
		
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			to draw any. What do you think? What's
		
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			the likelihood of them dropping those pearls? What's
		
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			the likelihood of you dropping those pearls?
		
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			Super likely, right?
		
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			Because at the end of the day, you
		
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			know, what we are
		
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			all of us
		
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			through just day to day, as the years
		
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			go by, these pearls of wisdom, these lessons
		
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			that we're learning, if we don't capture them,
		
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			they are literally being scattered. They're being scattered
		
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			never to be found.
		
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			And when you hand them to somebody in
		
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			that form, that person very rarely can hold
		
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			on to all of them, and they end
		
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			up being scattered too. So what I how
		
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			I typify it is when you have these
		
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			pearls of wisdom
		
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			and you string them into a necklace
		
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			or like a set of beads,
		
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			Now
		
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			you've taken the time
		
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			to
		
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			gather all pearls
		
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			and arrange them on the string
		
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			and then put a clasp on it, close-up
		
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			the clasp. Now when you give those pearls,
		
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			you can give them to somebody, and that
		
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			person can hold them in their hand. They're
		
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			not gonna drop them. They're gonna wear them.
		
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			They're gonna wrap them around their wrist. Right?
		
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			They're gonna wear them as a necklace.
		
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			Those pearls have now been preserved. They're not
		
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			going to be scattered and lost the way
		
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			they would be if they were not tied
		
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			on that string.
		
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			And
		
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			this is how it is with you the
		
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			those the gold from your story, those pearls
		
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			of wisdom as from your story,
		
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			you know, the the the nuggets from your
		
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			message,
		
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			the the the the the the nuts and
		
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			bolts of your knowledge.
		
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			Writing it down,
		
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			putting it in a form that can be
		
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			digested by someone else,
		
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			is preserving
		
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			it
		
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			for others
		
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			and for future generations.
		
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			So it's like having
		
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			an heirloom, having, you know, something that others
		
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			will inherit from you. And that's one of
		
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			the reasons why I'm so passionate about this
		
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			because I don't want our stories to be
		
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			lost.
		
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			We
		
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			lost so many of our stories already, and
		
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			we continue to lose stories every day. Many
		
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			of us, if we don't preserve our knowledge,
		
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			there is nothing else out there.
		
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			You know? Our market is not saturated
		
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			with, you know, people reaching out to help
		
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			other sisters like us, like you, like you,
		
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			like you,
		
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			with their expertise and with their knowledge. So
		
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			everybody ends up having to figure it out
		
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			for themselves when they didn't need to do
		
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			that. They could have learned from you. They
		
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			could have learned from you, sis. They could
		
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			have learned from you.
		
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			So that's one of the reasons that I'm
		
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			doing this is because
		
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			I know
		
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			even if you don't,
		
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			I know that you have something to offer,
		
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			someone else out there.
		
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			And what I believe
		
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			is that
		
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			Allah
		
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			brought
		
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			me
		
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			and that you have something in you
		
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			that is needed out in the world. And
		
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			that if you decide and you make the
		
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			decision to invest the resources, the energy, the
		
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			time
		
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			to bring this book out into the world,
		
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			This can be a part of your enduring
		
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			legacy, part of the impact you have in
		
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			the world, and inshallah inshallah count as sadaqa
		
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			jariyah.
		
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			And that's what I want for every single
		
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			one of you who signed up for this
		
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			challenge.
		
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			Some shape or form,
		
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			whether you do it with me in my
		
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			program or you do it somewhere else,
		
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			I would love it if by the end
		
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			of these 5 days,
		
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			you have recognized
		
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			the value in your story, your message, or
		
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			your knowledge. You've understood
		
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			how
		
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			possible it is to actually record it all
		
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			and put it into some kind of book,
		
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			and you now know that it's it's doable
		
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			to put this out into the world and
		
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			that they it's worth doing. Right?
		
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			Especially if you've got that intention and you're
		
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			able to do this, faisa billi Allah, for
		
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			the sake of Allah in order to gain
		
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			not just your dunya but your aqira,
		
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			then then my work is done. Then I
		
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			was a good coach for the week, and
		
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			I gave you guys what you came for,
		
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			Insha'Allah. Right? So let's have a look at
		
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			this diagram now. This is how I break
		
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			down the way in which a book becomes
		
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			a legacy. Right?
		
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			Your book is the thing that is going
		
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			to endure after you're gone. It is a
		
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			faithful record of your story, your message, or
		
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			your knowledge. It's not filtered through other people's
		
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			lenses. It's not kind of subject to someone's
		
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			memory. It is a faithful
		
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			documentation
		
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			of your message.
		
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			So the way in which a book now
		
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			becomes legacy, which is a step up from
		
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			just being a book, is when the messenger,
		
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			and that's you,
		
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			and the message, which is the story, the
		
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			message of the knowledge,
		
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			and the platform, the
		
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			audience,
		
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			when they
		
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			overlap,
		
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			their
		
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			is where this is created.
		
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			I'll give you an example
		
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			of a client of mine, Sisafara Duwale. And
		
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			you're gonna meet her later on this week,
		
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			inshallah. Think I've got a picture of her
		
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			in these slides. Right? But Sisafara
		
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			battled with, infertility for many years,
		
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			and her and her husband have been navigating
		
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			a journey with infertility
		
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			for about 13 years.
		
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			That was her test.
		
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			I haven't gone through that test. Maybe
		
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			you Right?
		
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			She and her husband
		
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			and she navigated through that as best as
		
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			she could
		
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			with nobody helping her really with, you know,
		
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			no no,
		
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			no guidance. She just she had to make
		
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			her way through this test, like we most
		
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			of us do.
		
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			But then
		
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			somehow, somewhere,
		
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			Allah inspired
		
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			her with
		
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			the notion of helping
		
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			others
		
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			through her story, through her message,
		
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			with the idea of benefiting
		
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			other people,
		
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			other sisters, other families
		
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			by what she had gone through. So she
		
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			came to us. She joined our program. When
		
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			she came, she said, help me write this
		
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			book. So we helped her write the book,
		
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			Alhamdulillah.
		
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			The book was picked up by a publisher.
		
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			It's due to be published next month,
		
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			and that book has been written for Muslim
		
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			women all over the world.
		
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			And
		
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			so Farah is the messenger.
		
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			How to navigate
		
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			infertility
		
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			and
		
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			thrive in your marriage is the message. And
		
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			now that she's published that book
		
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			for
		
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			the women, that's her audience.
		
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			That's her.
		
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			And at the heart of those 3 is
		
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			a lay.
		
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			This is her father, Khajaria, Insha'Allah.
		
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			This is how she will impact lives, one
		
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			of the ways. But this is an amazing
		
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			way for her to impact lives. Because imagine
		
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			the 100,000 100 of 1000 of Muslim women
		
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			out there who are dealing with
		
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			this, who have never read a book on
		
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			it, have never heard the topic discussed, live
		
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			in communities where it's completely taboo,
		
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			where there is nobody to help them.
		
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			Allah
		
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			chose sister Farah to be a vessel,
		
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			to be a vessel
		
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			for his Rahmah.
		
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			And whenever I'm coaching my clients
		
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			any one of you, my clients, you know
		
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			you've heard me saying this before. It's not
		
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			about you, sis.
		
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			Everyone who's listening now
		
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			you feel that, you know, you're thinking of
		
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			your story, you're thinking of your message, but
		
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			you have to
		
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			to make this clear. If
		
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			not about
		
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			you, sis,
		
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			even no place here.
		
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			If what you are
		
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			planning to put out into the world is
		
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			khair,
		
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			then you are merely a vessel.
		
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			Allah
		
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			has decided to bless people,
		
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			whoever they are, with this khair, and he's
		
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			chosen and honored you
		
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			to be the vessel for that. Allahu Akbar.
		
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			Allahu Akbar. Seriously.
		
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			Like, I can't
		
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			I cannot overstate
		
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			the value
		
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			of this
		
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			because
		
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			you and I are going about our ordinary
		
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			lives. Trust me. I'm going about my ordinary
		
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			life, going through my trials, going through my
		
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			triumphs, doing crazy stuff. And in the meantime,
		
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			my sisters are reading show up. My sisters
		
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			are reading from my sisters' lips. They're being
		
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			comforted. They're being inspired. They're being motivated. They're
		
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			being helped.
		
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			I will only know the impact of that
		
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			on Yomul Qiyamah. I will never know
		
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			how much khair has been done,
		
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			how much benefit there has been
		
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			until Allah shows me on the last day.
		
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			And it's the same with every one of
		
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			you. So I'm I I I don't I
		
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			can never overstate this.
		
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			This is
		
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			legacy work.
		
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			This is akhira work.
		
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			And I think that when you think of
		
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			yourself as a vessel, when you
		
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			recognize and realize that, actually,
		
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			if I do write this book and, you
		
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			know, that I get the outcome
		
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			and people benefit from it, Allah was just
		
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			using me to benefit the people. Allah
		
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			what an honor
		
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			to be used by Allah
		
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			as a vessel to help the people,
		
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			you know, as an as a vessel for
		
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			his rahma, as a vessel for guidance, as
		
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			a vessel for comfort, as a vessel for
		
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			reminders, whatever is. So when we cover ourselves
		
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			as a vessel, and Shahla deals with a
		
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			lot of the
		
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			the negative thoughts that we may be entertaining,
		
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			the ego stuff.
		
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			Why me?
		
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			Who do I think I am to write
		
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			a book? What may you know, that that
		
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			little mean verb voice that you have in
		
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			your head. What makes you think you're so
		
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			special that you write a book? What makes
		
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			you think you have anything to say? Who
		
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			said anyone's gonna
		
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			people don't buy it? What if people criticize
		
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			it? What if it's not perfect? All of
		
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			that stuff,
		
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			it gets thrown in the bin when you
		
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			realize that
		
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			I'm just a vessel.
		
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			I'm just a vessel for whatever it is
		
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			that Allah
		
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			wants the people to have.
		
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			And all I need to do is make
		
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			intention,
		
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			get out of my own way,
		
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			and let Allah
		
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			take the lead. Right?
		
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			So I want you to clock that because
		
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			it's important.
		
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			Right. So now
		
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			let's do a bit of triage. Let's see
		
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			what people are carrying right now.
		
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			So how do you know if you have
		
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			a story worth telling? I'm gonna tell you.
		
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			So I hope you guys are taking notes.
		
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			How you know you have a story worth
		
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			telling. Now the story can be
		
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			an incident,
		
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			a chapter of your life, or
		
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			your whole life. A lot of people when
		
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			they think, oh, a story to tell, they
		
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			think it's an autobiography. Right? That that they
		
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			have to tell their whole life story. I
		
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			hate to break it to you, but most
		
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			people do not care about your whole life
		
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			story, unless it's, like, for your family, for
		
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			your children,
		
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			for future generations, in which case you're more
		
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			than welcome to tell your whole life story.
		
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			But let's look at you as having a
		
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			story, whether it's an incident that you went
		
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			through,
		
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			a chapter of your life, a certain portion
		
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			of your life, or your whole life story.
		
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			How to know if that story is worth
		
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			telling? Because obviously every one of us has
		
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			got tons of stories. We could tell stories
		
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			all year.
		
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			How do we know if that story is
		
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			worth telling
		
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			and worth putting into a book?
		
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			The first way is to ask yourself,
		
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			does my story have relevance
		
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			outside of just me? Does it does it
		
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			have does it is it relevant to anyone
		
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			aside
		
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			from
		
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			just
		
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			me?
		
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			That could mean your family.
		
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			It could mean, you know, your your people.
		
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			It could mean your community. It could mean
		
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			society as a whole. It could mean, you
		
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			know, people in your profession. It could mean
		
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			people who've been through the same situation as
		
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			you. Does your story have relevance to anyone
		
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			aside from yourself? And
		
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			do the themes of your story
		
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			and those pearls from your story
		
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			resonate
		
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			with others
		
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			apart from yourself?
		
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			Is this something that has
		
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			resonance with others?
		
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			Is there something that others can take from
		
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			your story?
		
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			So that's a question that you need to
		
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			answer for yourself.
		
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			I would argue that any story
		
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			that you have, that you could tell
		
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			in which you learned something, in which you
		
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			grew, in which you changed somehow
		
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			in a good way
		
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			is a story worth telling
		
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			as a story that has relevance to others
		
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			and that resonates with others. But that's that's
		
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			how you
		
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			know if your story is worth telling. Right?
		
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			Does it have relevance for others, and will
		
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			the message of your story and the the
		
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			themes of your story, do they resonate
		
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			with anyone aside from yourself?
		
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			So it's not a very high bar. Right?
		
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			It does is it relevant? Does it resonate?
		
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			That's it. Okay? And then we will deal
		
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			with the the the nuts and bolts of
		
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			it later.
		
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			Next question.
		
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			Do you have a message?
		
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			How do you know if you have a
		
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			message to share? Right?
		
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			Have a message to share is
		
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			is there anything
		
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			that you
		
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			value,
		
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			that you hold dear,
		
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			that you stand for,
		
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			that you wish more people knew,
		
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			that you wish people
		
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			something that you're passionate about,
		
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			something that you currently talk about, something that,
		
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			you know, and and something that you work
		
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			towards.
		
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			If the answer to any of those is
		
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			yes, then I would say you have a
		
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			message to share, something that you stand for.
		
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			And, again,
		
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			whether the
		
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			message is for your children
		
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			and
		
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			community
		
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			and
		
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			which
		
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			is
		
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			an important
		
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			and, is something you're passionate about and
		
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			is pleasing to Allah, obviously,
		
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			then I would say you tick a yes.
		
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			Yeah? You get to say, yes, I have
		
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			a message. Right? So hopefully that's good. Let
		
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			me know in the chat.
		
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			Do you think you more have a story
		
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			to tell or do you think you more
		
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			have a message that you want to share?
		
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			And then here, do you have expertise?
		
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			And how to know if you have expertise
		
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			that's worth sharing is
		
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			have you
		
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			done anything better than anyone else? Have you
		
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			achieved anything
		
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			better or faster than anybody else? Have you
		
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			figured something out that a lot of people
		
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			struggle with? Have you made a success of
		
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			something
		
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			that many people fail at? Have you reached
		
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			the top in any
		
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			in anything? Do you teach?
		
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			Do you train?
		
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			Do you have a system
		
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			that you use with your clients,
		
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			right, or with, you know, the people that
		
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			you work with or in your organization?
		
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			Because if your answer to any of those
		
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			is yes,
		
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			then I would say that you have expertise
		
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			that's worth sharing. And for those of you
		
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			who are thinking to yourself, yes, but I'm
		
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			not the expert. The expert is so and
		
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			so. Why would someone listen to me? Here
		
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			is what I have for you.
		
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			You will always
		
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			be 5, 10, 15 steps ahead of another
		
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			sister, ahead of somebody else. And sometimes those
		
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			people who are 5, 10, 15 steps behind
		
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			you would prefer to learn from you than
		
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			that expert that you think everybody wants to
		
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			learn
		
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			from. Maybe they resonate with you. Maybe they
		
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			feel there's a shared identity
		
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			or
		
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			experiences, and she looks at you and she's
		
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			like, no. No. No.
		
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			I I see what's possible through her. I
		
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			want to use her method because she gets
		
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			me for whatever reason.
		
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			So that's something to think about when you're
		
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			asking
		
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			yourself, you know, do I really have expertise
		
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			to share?
		
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			Have you figured something out that other people
		
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			haven't figured out? If so,
		
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			you need to have some knowledge or expertise
		
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			that could be earned with Cadaver
		
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			right now.
		
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			Okay. So
		
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			put in the chat whether you're more
		
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			think you're carrying a story or thinking you
		
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			have a message that you wanna share or
		
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			that you have expertise that other people need.
		
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			Right? Put them in the chat for me
		
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			in the comments. Next. Why
		
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			do we write?
		
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			So I want to go through the reasons
		
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			that many of our clients,
		
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			come come to us,
		
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			and the kind of things that they say
		
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			to us, the kind of things that sisters
		
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			that I've been speaking to over the past
		
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			few years
		
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			say. And you can choose any one of
		
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			them, like, any any of them that resonate
		
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			with you. Okay? So let's get started with
		
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			this first one here, which is
		
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			some
		
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			sisters
		
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			some people in general, but let's talk about
		
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			sisters for now because that's who we work
		
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			with.
		
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			So some sisters will come to us because
		
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			they want to write
		
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			in order to reflect, to process, and heal.
		
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			Maybe they've been through some trauma,
		
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			maybe they've had some experiences in life, and
		
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			they want to and they've been carrying the
		
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			story
		
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			for years, decades,
		
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			and they want to unburden themselves. They want
		
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			to get it off their chest. They want
		
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			to empty it from their head so that
		
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			they can
		
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			process what happened and heal from what happened.
		
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			Sometimes
		
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			and many times, these sisters are not motivated
		
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			by publishing.
		
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			It's not really about what other people will
		
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			say, or other people will read, or whether
		
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			people will buy it, or even getting it
		
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			out there.
		
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			They just want support with the process of
		
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			writing out their story, telling their story, speaking
		
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			their truth, some of them for the first
		
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			time.
		
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			So if you think that's you,
		
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			put a heel in the chat. Yeah. Put
		
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			a heel in the comments if you think
		
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			that that that sounds like
		
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			you. Right.
		
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			Other sisters come in because they want to
		
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			write to inspire others with their life story
		
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			and their experiences.
		
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			These are the pearl stringers.
		
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			Yeah? These are the ones who are wanting
		
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			to gather all those pearls together
		
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			and string them into something
		
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			really beautiful
		
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			so that the people can bend. If you
		
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			are thinking that your life story could be
		
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			an inspiration
		
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			for others, then put inspire
		
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			in the comments.
		
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			Some sisters come because they want to write
		
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			a book that will help and guide others.
		
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			Going back to the example of sister Farah,
		
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			that was her intention.
		
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			She had been through something. She had figured
		
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			it out,
		
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			wanted to give others
		
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			basically game. Right? How to also figure it
		
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			out, how to also get through this. So
		
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			if that's you,
		
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			put guide in the chat.
		
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			Right? This is for ladies out there who
		
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			have expertise, for example.
		
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			Alright? Potentially, those coaches out there,
		
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			this could be you.
		
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			Also, from my coaches out there, this also
		
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			could be you. Sometimes the coaches come in
		
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			and, they want they have a life story
		
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			they wanna share. At the times, it's more
		
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			to help and guide others. And then there
		
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			are those sisters who come because they want
		
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			to write a book to spread a message
		
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			or champion a cause. And those are my
		
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			clients who
		
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			have very strongly held beliefs
		
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			about certain things or they see things happening
		
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			in society and they're concerned about them, and
		
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			they want to start a conversation,
		
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			And they want,
		
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			the community, their community, the community to start
		
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			talking about certain things, to start facing.
		
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			Right? They want to speak on behalf
		
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			of voices that are not being heard. Want
		
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			to make a case
		
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			that team. Okay?
		
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			Organizations, sisters who have founded charities or founded
		
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			organizations, that's you.
		
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			Right? And anybody else who feels strongly as
		
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			well. I remember one of our clients came
		
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			in,
		
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			and she is writing well, she's finished writing,
		
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			actually. She's writing a book about,
		
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			just examining the way the relations between Muslim
		
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			men and women have been damaged over the
		
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			past few, you know, decades.
		
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			And, you know, she wants to to to
		
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			to be a part of the solution for
		
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			that. So she came and she wrote a
		
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			book with us.
		
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			And our sisters come because they wanna book
		
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			to share their expertise.
		
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			So if you figured something out
		
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			and you want to share it with others,
		
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			this is this this could be one of
		
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			the reasons why you're writing a book. Reminds
		
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			me of our sister Feroza Osman
		
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			who had been working in * education
		
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			in Muslim schools and Masajid
		
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			and youth groups in in Canada for many
		
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			years,
		
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			and she'd noticed that Muslim parents were really
		
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			struggling with this new society that we live
		
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			in and were not able to speak to
		
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			their children about sexual relationships, etcetera. And she
		
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			obviously does that for a living.
		
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			So she wrote a book so she could
		
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			share her expertise on this area, and has
		
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			done very, very well because it's a very
		
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			much needed book.
		
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			Then
		
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			some of you want to build your
		
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			brand to expand your business and attract new
		
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			clients.
		
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			Got several sisters in the program right now
		
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			who are writing books in their area of
		
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			professional expertise,
		
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			and they would like
		
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			to help others beyond just the book. So
		
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			if they have coaching services, if they have
		
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			consulting,
		
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			if they run workshops,
		
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			then this book is a way for them
		
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			to serve more people and also bring
		
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			people into their
		
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			professional
		
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			funnel.
		
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			Funnel.
		
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			Establish your authority
		
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			credibility. And in fact, one of us at
		
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			the moment is writing a book.
		
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			She's been through a very,
		
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			very unique test with her son,
		
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			that brought her and her husband and her
		
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			son sort of into contact with this this
		
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			the the justice system, and they had to
		
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			kind of battle with the justice system. And
		
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			she's been at the forefront of conversations about
		
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			new ways of caring for young people with
		
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			addiction, etcetera, etcetera.
		
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			So because she's already in that space,
		
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			she now wants to tell their story, make
		
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			it official,
		
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			and establish herself as an authority in this
		
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			area so that she can go on to
		
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			open the door to other opportunities
		
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			to be invited to speak because when you've
		
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			written a book, people start to take you
		
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			a lot more seriously. Right? Because now you've
		
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			kind of put you've raised your
		
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			head above the pulpit,
		
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			and you've put in the time. You've invested
		
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			the time, the energy, the resources
		
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			to actually write a book.
		
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			Trust me, it changes the way people see
		
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			you, and for good reason. It's not just
		
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			a vanity thing. You know, you have decided
		
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			to show up in a way that most
		
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			people don't.
		
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			So it does make people take you more
		
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			seriously and open the door to other experiences.
		
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			However,
		
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			no matter one which of these
		
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			resonated with you,
		
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			I know that the majority of my clients
		
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			and certainly our best clients,
		
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			and I suspect that with every one of
		
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			you,
		
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			that the big why,
		
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			the reason that we write, is to create
		
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			and leave a legacy.
		
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			There is a feeling that Allah
		
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			has
		
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			blessed us with certain things,
		
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			put us in certain situations,
		
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			allowed us to rise or learn
		
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			due to certain circumstances,
		
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			and it's almost like an obligation
		
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			to help someone else with that,
		
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			to
		
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			offer what we've learned to others so others
		
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			can share
		
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			the benefit of what we have have been
		
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			through. Right?
		
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			So others can benefit from our journey.
		
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			And so that becomes a part of our
		
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			impact in the world,
		
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			part of what we leave behind,
		
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			and what we call, of course, sadaqa jaria,
		
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			which is a continuous
		
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			charity, a charity that continues even after you're
		
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			gone. These are some of our wonderful ladies
		
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			who have created legacies with us. You may
		
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			be familiar with their faces. That's Amina Uddin
		
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			there
		
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			who
		
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			wrote a memoir of her late father,
		
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			and she wrote it primarily
		
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			for his grandchildren who would never really know
		
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			his story.
		
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			And I want to challenge everybody who's here
		
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			and just ask
		
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			you, how many of you have ever thought
		
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			of writing your family story
		
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			or even just collecting the quotes? You know,
		
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			the things that your father and your mother
		
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			always say,
		
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			the things that your grandfather and your grandmother
		
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			always say, or the stories that they always
		
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			tell. How many of you have ever thought
		
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			that
		
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			once that
		
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			their stories die with them,
		
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			and your children will probably never hear those
		
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			stories. So there's
		
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			a now where the children don't know really
		
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			where they came from, have no understanding of
		
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			their history, their family history.
		
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			And I say this because, again, I want
		
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			you to
		
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			be thinking about this this whole story, message,
		
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			knowledge, this book. I I want to I
		
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			want to open your mind to what that
		
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			could look like and what that could mean.
		
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			So
		
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			that's
		
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			the challenge.
		
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			I wanna ask you now to see if
		
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			anybody
		
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			decides by
		
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			I'm going to parent
		
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			interview
		
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			and I'm gonna it's a beautiful book, and
		
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			it's gift,
		
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			and everyone in the family is gonna get
		
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			one,
		
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			and that will be my impact. That will
		
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			be my legacy. I wanna see who's gonna
		
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			do that. Anyway, that's Sami Noidine over there,
		
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			and that's sister
		
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			Farah
		
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			who I mentioned earlier,
		
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			who has now
		
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			of
		
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			women to to
		
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			to survive infertility.
		
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			And she is probably the first and so
		
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			far the only sister who has published a
		
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			book like this. And so you can imagine
		
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			what her book will
		
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			mean for all those sisters who had nothing
		
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			up until now,
		
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			who had
		
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			nobody who looked like them talking
		
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			about this issue from
		
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			this viewpoint. Right?
		
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			So big, big legacy there.
		
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			Big, big legacy. And, again,
		
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			we go back to this diagram.
		
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			And as I
		
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			when the messenger and the message of audience
		
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			along, that's legacy.
		
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			So I'm just gonna give you the 2
		
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			statistics to show you what legacy can look
		
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			like in a ways because Tamina Udi now,
		
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			she is a legacy maker for her family.
		
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			And, of course, lots of other people have
		
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			read and loved the book,
		
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			but her primary audience was always her family
		
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			and the grandchildren, specifically.
		
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			And so now the family
		
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			has
		
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			a piece of history
		
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			preserved.
		
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			How amazing is that,
		
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			And how many of us can say that?
		
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			I know I can't say that. That
		
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			just saying.
		
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			So on the one hand, you've got Sameena
		
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			Uddin who has created legacy within her own
		
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			family,
		
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			something that will be passed down down the
		
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			generations
		
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			after
		
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			my
		
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			is passed and returned to her lord, the
		
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			great grandchildren.
		
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			Right?
		
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			How cool is that? So we need to
		
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			get with this program, guys, because you know
		
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			communities, we don't write down.
		
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			We came from oral traditions,
		
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			and we don't write stuff down. So, anyway,
		
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			I'm just saying it. Just like, you know,
		
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			planting seeds.
		
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			And then on the other hand, you have
		
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			sister Farah, whose method is probably more
		
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			impact
		
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			with her message,
		
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			and that's her legacy.
		
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			And I'm sure that anybody any one of
		
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			us can say that whether the beneficiaries
		
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			of your message
		
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			are your family, your children, and your children's
		
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			children,
		
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			or
		
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			100 and thousands
		
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			of women
		
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			around the world,
		
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			you can say that it's worth it. Right?
		
00:40:14 --> 00:40:16
			Right? I hope so. I'm banking on it.
		
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			So
		
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			this again
		
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			is what we want.
		
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			We want the message, the messenger, and the
		
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			audience
		
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			to line up inshallah.
		
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			And so my question to you
		
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			from this training,
		
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			what we shared today,
		
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			what resonate
		
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			most with you? Let me know in the
		
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			comment
		
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			what resonated the most with you. I want
		
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			to know. I'm gonna be reading all the
		
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			comments. We wanna see what came up and
		
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			whether you picked up what I was putting
		
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			down because today's assignment
		
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			is is a fun one. Alright? Very fun
		
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			assignment inshallah. All you need
		
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			is make sure that you have recorded that
		
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			live
		
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			in the group.
		
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			Whether it's a video and you post,
		
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			or you go live in the group and,
		
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			you know, when you create a post, one
		
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			of the options is to go live. The
		
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			reason I ask you to go live is
		
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			because I know you don't want to. I
		
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			know you don't want to. I know that
		
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			you're scared. I know that you feel self
		
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			conscious. I know that you're uncomfortable with it.
		
00:41:18 --> 00:41:20
			Is why I'm asking you to do it.
		
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			Because if I can get you out of
		
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			your comfort zone now and get you in
		
00:41:25 --> 00:41:28
			the stretch zone, then I know you're going
		
00:41:28 --> 00:41:30
			to get so much more out of these
		
00:41:30 --> 00:41:33
			next well, now for days. Right? You're gonna
		
00:41:33 --> 00:41:35
			get so much more out of these 5
		
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			days if you can get out of the
		
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			comfort zone now. So the first thing is
		
00:41:40 --> 00:41:41
			to go live in the group.
		
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			Put those fears to rest and go live
		
00:41:45 --> 00:41:47
			in the group. And the second thing is
		
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			we'll be dropping a video
		
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			later on today
		
00:41:50 --> 00:41:50
			in
		
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			Facebook group. So that video is a guided
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:54
			visualization,
		
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			and your assignment is to go
		
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			watch the video,
		
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			do a visualization,
		
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			and comment with
		
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			well, the the post is there. It will
		
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			tell you I want to see what you
		
00:42:06 --> 00:42:07
			saw in the visualization,
		
00:42:08 --> 00:42:11
			who was there, and how it felt. I'm
		
00:42:11 --> 00:42:13
			not telling you anything more about the visualization
		
00:42:13 --> 00:42:15
			because you have to watch the video. I
		
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			walked you through the entire process in the
		
00:42:17 --> 00:42:19
			video, so not to worry. But,
		
00:42:20 --> 00:42:21
			there are prizes
		
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			for those of you who do your assignments
		
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			and want and and show up, because my
		
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			goal for you is that you get your
		
00:42:27 --> 00:42:28
			outcome,
		
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			and you will only get your outcome if
		
00:42:30 --> 00:42:32
			you play full out. So that is it
		
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			for me. This was a replay of day
		
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			1.
		
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			I hope that
		
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			I hope you enjoyed it, and I pray,
		
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			be'in Allah, that Allah
		
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			makes this a source of khair for you,
		
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			everyone in the challenge.
		
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			And every one of you, remember,
		
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			we've had,
		
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			over 4,000 sisters register for this challenge,
		
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			and I pledge to serve 10,000 sisters during
		
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			the time that our challenge is open and
		
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			that the group is open. And so for
		
00:43:01 --> 00:43:03
			us to be able to do that, all
		
00:43:03 --> 00:43:06
			that is required is for you to invite
		
00:43:06 --> 00:43:07
			2 sisters
		
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			to join in the Facebook group. That's
		
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			it. If you're in the Facebook group right
		
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			now, if you benefited from this training, if
		
00:43:14 --> 00:43:16
			you love the community that we have so
		
00:43:16 --> 00:43:17
			far,
		
00:43:17 --> 00:43:18
			invite 2 people.
		
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			Tell them, I attended the training today. It
		
00:43:22 --> 00:43:23
			was great. I think you really like it.
		
00:43:23 --> 00:43:25
			Come and do it with me. 2 people.
		
00:43:25 --> 00:43:27
			Every one of you, just to invite just
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:28
			2 people.
		
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			We will have 10,000 sisters in this group.
		
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			And for me,
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:35
			if even half,
		
00:43:35 --> 00:43:38
			if even a third of you get that
		
00:43:38 --> 00:43:39
			breakthrough
		
00:43:40 --> 00:43:41
			and you're able to recognize
		
00:43:42 --> 00:43:43
			those pearls
		
00:43:44 --> 00:43:47
			and understand the process of stringing the pearls
		
00:43:47 --> 00:43:47
			and
		
00:43:48 --> 00:43:51
			take the next step to actually creating
		
00:43:51 --> 00:43:53
			that necklace so that you can gift it
		
00:43:53 --> 00:43:56
			into the world. Whether you decide to do
		
00:43:56 --> 00:43:58
			it with me and my team or you
		
00:43:58 --> 00:43:59
			do it with someone else,
		
00:44:00 --> 00:44:01
			if you get
		
00:44:01 --> 00:44:02
			that outcome,
		
00:44:02 --> 00:44:04
			my work is done.
		
00:44:04 --> 00:44:07
			I'm your coach for these 5 days.
		
00:44:08 --> 00:44:10
			I'm here to help. I'm here to tay
		
00:44:10 --> 00:44:12
			train. I'm here to support. I'm here to
		
00:44:12 --> 00:44:15
			chew. I'm here to get you that outcome.
		
00:44:15 --> 00:44:16
			I pray
		
00:44:17 --> 00:44:17
			that Allah
		
00:44:18 --> 00:44:19
			gives you your breakthrough,
		
00:44:20 --> 00:44:23
			gives you what you need, and allows you
		
00:44:23 --> 00:44:25
			to move forward upon khair.
		
00:44:25 --> 00:44:27
			And, of course, if you
		
00:44:27 --> 00:44:28
			do it with us,
		
00:44:29 --> 00:44:31
			we're here. We're ready to serve you. But
		
00:44:31 --> 00:44:32
			regardless,
		
00:44:32 --> 00:44:34
			the goal is a breakthrough.
		
00:44:35 --> 00:44:37
			I Wait to read all your comments.
		
00:44:37 --> 00:44:39
			I can't wait to see all the new
		
00:44:39 --> 00:44:41
			people that you invite to join us, and
		
00:44:41 --> 00:44:45
			let's keep it going in the Facebook group,
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:47
			and make sure you do your assignment later
		
00:44:47 --> 00:44:49
			on. K. I will be checking,
		
00:44:49 --> 00:44:51
			and my team and I, we are looking
		
00:44:51 --> 00:44:53
			out for those of you who are showing
		
00:44:53 --> 00:44:54
			up. We have some nice prizes,
		
00:44:55 --> 00:44:56
			So please, you know,
		
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			play full out this whole week. And that
		
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			is the end of this for me. That's
		
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			your sister signing out. I will see you
		
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			tomorrow, Insha'Allah.