Naima B. Robert – Advice to Muslims Reflecting on the passing of Muhammad al Shareef of @TheDiscoverULife

Naima B. Robert
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The speakers discuss their jealousy of Islam's impact on their lives and their legacy, expressing their desire to be connected with their brother and rewarded for their actions. They give tests of life and give people the means to be successful. They also remind people of their mistake and give tests of their life to show their value.
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Assalamu

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Alaikum everyone.

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Welcome, welcome to another

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motivational and mindset session. It is Sunday.

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It is Sunday.

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It is Sunday.

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For those of us who have been blessed

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to see this day,

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I wanna ask every single one of you

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to say and

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remember the favour of your Lord upon you.

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This is going to be inshallah a short

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reminder

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for those of you who are in my

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programme,

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the release writing programme. It's a 90 day

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programme where we help sisters take their story,

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idea or message

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and put it out into a book so

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it can go out into the world to

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do what it is meant to do and

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that is change lives inshallah.

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So today I come to you. You guys

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over there as well. Just wanna share this

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message with you because

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this week

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we lost

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a giant.

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Another one.

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In our call last week, if you remember,

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I spoke to your brother Ismael Beaumont,

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and we took

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a lesson a lesson from his passing.

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And

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wow. Wow. Wow.

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Here we are again a week later

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taking a lesson from the passing of yet

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another one of this Ummah's gifts.

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We're talking about Sheikh Mohammed Sharif,

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founder of Almagrib

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and founder of

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so many

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transformational

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programs.

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I mentioned this on my Instagram post. I,

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I've never attended Al Maghrib. I know of

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it, of course, and I know how many

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people who've been through the Al Maghrib courses,

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who've taught in Almagrib. I'm aware of, you

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know, the impact of that program. But the

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people I know,

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the people in the coaching space, in the

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Muslim personal development space and the Muslim online

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entrepreneurial

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space

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who went through his niche hero program, who

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got their, their beginnings in the niche hero

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program,

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who got their their their so many of

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our clients, so many of my colleagues who

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did visionaire,

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uplevel their dua

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and are today

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giants because of his message.

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When Allah

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wants to bless the Ummah,

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how does he do it?

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He does it through the people that he

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selects,

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right?

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And that's why I always say to you

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ladies that it's not about you.

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It's not about you. To those of you

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who are, you know, questioning yourselves about am

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I good enough? You know, what right do

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I have to say this, to do this,

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to to write this book, to to make

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this speech, to make this show. Who am

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I? Who am I? Who am I? It's

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not about you.

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It was never about you.

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Allah

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will benefit the people through whom he chooses.

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And if he chooses, you know that that

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is his it is his hak to choose

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you, and it is from his Hikma to

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choose you.

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And when I I am still I've never

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even got to speak to a brother. I

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was speaking with my colleague, Wuna Mohammed, who,

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you know, worked with him over the years.

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And I said, you know, I never met,

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you know, Mohammed al Sharif. I I would

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love to to be con you know, connected

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with him and do some work together. And

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he said,

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yeah. He's out there. I think he was

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in Dubai. He's out in the Middle East

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and, you know, kind of keeps himself to

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himself. But I said, you know, try hook

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us up. Let's see if we can do

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something good for the oh my inshallah.

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And of course, you know, it was not

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meant to be.

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But when I reflect

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on the

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impact

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of his

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relatively

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short life,

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I weep for us. I weep for myself.

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I weep for every one of us.

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I'm jealous.

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I'm

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jealous.

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Allah knows I'm jealous.

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That he was given the opportunity to impact

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so many lives.

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I ask myself,

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what am I doing?

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What am I putting forth for akhirah? Will

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I have

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people?

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1,000,

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Tens of thousands? 100 of thousands of people

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making dua for me when I'm gone?

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Will my children make dua for me when

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I'm gone? None of

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this is guaranteed. So yes, I'm jealous. I'm

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jealous of his impact. I'm jealous of his

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legacy in the very best way.

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This is a way that we should be

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jealous.

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Not this rubbish way that so many of

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us do. Not the hasad way. Right? Not

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the, oh, comparing ourselves to other people and

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finding ourselves wanting way. No.

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When you see the good that another

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Muslim is doing and has done It should

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inspire you to work harder.

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It should inspire you to be more sincere.

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It should inspire you to level up your

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legacy,

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to level up your impact, to level up

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your sincerity, to level up what you're putting

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out into this world. This place is a

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mess

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most of the time.

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This

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this dunya

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is a mess most of the time. And

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then you find

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the relief.

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After all the difficulty, you find the ease.

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You find the beautiful people,

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the beautiful souls,

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the beautiful programs, the beautiful community that make

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everything worthwhile.

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Allah

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has given us tests of this life,

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but he has also given us the means

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to be able to get through those tests.

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He has given us the light at the

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end of the tunnel.

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The dawn after the night.

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The silver lining on the clouds. He has

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given us that.

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Can we be that?

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Can we be that for each other?

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Can we be that ease for our families?

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Can we be that glimmer of hope for

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our communities? Can we be

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that inspiration for our generation? Can we be

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that?

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With Allah's permission, we can.

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But not if we keep making it about

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ourselves and our excuses.

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About ourselves and how we're not enough.

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The outcome is in the hands of Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala. It's not down to us.

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So many people

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have tried to do

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things right? Started a program, started a course,

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started a lecture series, written a book.

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This is the beautiful thing about the intentions

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being rewarded and us being rewarded simply for

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our intentions.

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Because when we intend to do something and

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then we do that thing, we are rewarded

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regardless of the outcome.

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What a mercy. Because the outcome is not

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in our hands. The mercy the outcome is

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in the hands of Allah.

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One of my clients here, Zaynab, is saying,

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the day after he died, I was making

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my dream duas, which she learned to do

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from him. And she realized that each time

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she makes those duas, he will get rewarded

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just like 100 and 1000 of his students.

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So you guys

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we

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are all his

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exactly.

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And so this is you know we're here

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to talk about writing a book.

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Every single one of you has a message

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that the world is crying out for. Whether

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it's 10, a 100, a 1000, 10000 people,

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a 1000000 people.

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Every one of you has something to offer,

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something to share, something important to give.

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Get it out now.

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I said it last week and I was

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reminded of this last week because of passing

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of our brother Ismail Balmah. May Allah have

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mercy on him. And here we are again

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another week and even bigger fat reminder slap

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in the face to say what are you

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waiting for?

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You think your life is gonna get a

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little bit easier, a little bit better, a

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little bit less hectic and you'll be able

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to finally do the things that you've been

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dying to do? It's not gonna

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happen. This dunya is go go go go.

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It's not gonna happen.

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You have to make it a non negotiable.

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Decide that enough is enough. I'm doing this

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now. Enough with the excuses. Enough with the

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self doubt. Enough with the rubbish talk, the

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negative talk, the limiting beliefs, the toxic friendships,

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the wasting time, the distraction, the

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beliefs, the toxic friendships, the wasting time, the

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distractions online, the comparison.

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Enough with that.

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Those things are the things that are holding

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you back from your greatness,

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from your leveling up.

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And every one of you is on your

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own path. Every single one of you is

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on your own path and your path has

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markers.

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Right? You are on that path. Maybe you're

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here.

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For your next level, it may be here.

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For another person's next level, it may be

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up there. Another person, their level may be

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higher than that. It doesn't matter

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because your job is to stay in your

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lane

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and do what you were put here to

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do in that lane.

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May Allah have mercy on us if we

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don't take the reminder from these people. There's

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the loss of these people. May Allah have

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mercy

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on

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us. And may Allah have mercy on

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those who have passed.

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May

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he send down Rahmah and comfort to their

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families and to all those who mourn their

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passing and may he allow allow us most

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importantly a good end.

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And may the people gather in Janaza

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for us and accept our efforts and accept

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our deeds. I mean, mean, that's all I

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wanna say. I'm

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out.

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