Nadim Bashir – The Smiles and Tears of Prophet Muhammad #17 – Where are the children of Ja’far RA

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The speaker discusses the emotional impact of the Prophet's visit to Abyssinia and the emotional impact of the recent death of three members of his community. He emphasizes the need for emotional intelligence and community support to address the emotional struggles of people in their families. The speaker also mentions the importance of being present for others and being there for others.

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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato. Bismillah R Rahman Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen
wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah him Hamid while he was rbh married, and my brother Welcome to
another segment of the smiles in the tears of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam and today I want
to share with you a very emotional story that took place in the life of the Prophet salallahu Alaihe
Salam and, in essence, what we see from the story is that how much Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he
cared for his Sahaba and how much he cared for their families. See, one thing is that the Prophet
Salam, yes, he will use the help and the support of the Sahaba but he will also look after them he
		
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			would go there was always a time of the day that he would go and visit his community members. There
were people in his community who cannot come to the masjid the prophet would go and visit them. You
had people who were considered as you know, they had disabilities. And that person would go and
visit their families and we Subhanallah as a community we need to really revive this in our life to
go and look after our for our family members and our community members. Today I want to share with
you a story of Jaffa Airbnb thought he is one of the cousins of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi, wa
salam, And subhanAllah one thing that we learned is that Jaffa Viola and he was also one of one the
		
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			very first one the very first people who was also sent to Abyssinia if you remember, back in the
Sierra, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in the early days, when the Muslims would face or they were
facing heavy persecution, or religious persecution. Then the Prophet saw some he permitted a group
and a handful of Sahaba men and women to go in migrate to Abbey SR and reside over there. If we
remember the person who represented the Muslim Muslims were was Jaffa Viola and he was living there
in Abyssinia with his wife USMA. And they live there for around 12 years. They live there for a good
amount of time. And over there, they had three children, three sons. Now the time has come back that
		
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			they come all the way back to Medina and they're residing in Medina and then you have the Battle of
motel that takes place in the Battle of Malta quickly. The Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam here
not necessarily participate in that expedition, but he gave a a prediction and he basically said
that I am assigning zeta in the Hadith to be the leader. And if he passes away, then Jennifer will
be the person who will be the commander in chief. And if he passes away, then Abdullah even under
the law, how will the Allah tonight he'll be the commander in chief, And subhanAllah we see that in
this battle. What happened was that all three of these people they passed away, all three of them,
		
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			they passed away. And when the Prophet SAW Selim Subhan, Allah when he found out that all three of
them had passed away, of course, he you know, he was so much filled with sorrow, but Subhanallah
what's so beautiful about the story is this. You have Zaidan Hadith, and we all know who's even
Hadith that is, he is the adopted son of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and we know that
how much the province some is already feeling that grief in the sorrow in a pain, that he just lost
someone who was so close to him. I mean, we remember that we know the story of saving hydro, the
hola tion we know how close he is to those who also salam. But despite the fact that he is so much
		
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			in pain, he still does not forget his Sahaba and their families. And what he did was that he went to
the house of Jaffa or the EULA on his wife a smile. She opened the door and she she led the province
on come in, and the province awesome said that, where are the children of Jaffa, Viola Quran and the
children Jaffa were brought. And the Prophet saw some he's sitting down and these kids, they're
sitting in his lap. I mean, think about the pulse on how he's connecting with these children. He's
sitting there sitting in his lap, and he's his eyes are filled with tears and a smile at that time.
She says that oh prophet of Allah, what has happened to Jaffa? And she said that Jennifer has passed
		
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			away. And the children they say Abdullah, one of the children of jofra Athan, he says, I remember
that time that my mother she screamed out of pain. And at that time the Prophet SAW he said, The O
USMA. Did not see anything that is considered as a negative, but rather have patients Allah subhanho
wa Taala and she began to cry and other women they came and they consoled her. But what we learned
from this is
		
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			First of all, just how much of the problem he was a human and how much he had this emotional
intelligence, how much he cared for people and their families. Today Subhanallah brothers and
sisters, no matter what pain that we're going through, we saw the problem someone is going through
the pain of losing Zaid already, but despite that he still does not forget the other families in
Medina. And that's what we need to become like. We need to be there that no matter what pain we're
going through, no matter what situation we're going through, always be there for others. And
Wallahi. If you're there for others, and you care for others, then Allah subhanho wa Taala He will
		
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			take care of your affairs. We learned from this more than anything else, the emotional intelligence
of Ross law Salem, and how much he cared for his community members and his founding members. I ask
Allah subhanho wa Taala to give us that same a HELOC May Allah Subhana Allah grant us the same
emotional intelligence of Rasulullah sallallahu it was sending out a little bit out of me and Zach
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