Nadim Bashir – Conversations In The Quran #8 Conversations

Nadim Bashir
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The transcript discusses the importance of sh mattered learning and the importance of consulting with the right people when making a decision. The Queen has a desire to have a large throne and worship the sun, and gives a letter to her people to encourage them to come to her presence. The importance of sh mattered learning is discussed, as well as the importance of consulting with the right people and applying critical thinking to apply negative advice. The speaker also emphasizes the need to apply justice and not bring negative advice to individuals.
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Today, inshallah,

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as you know that every Monday night we

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cover a conversation, a story from the Quran.

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Today's story, inshallah, comes from Surah Namal,

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which is the ant. But it's not a

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story about the ant, but it's a story

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about Sulaiman alayhis salam.

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And this is a story about Sulaiman alayhis

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salam. And as we all know that, you

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know, he used to assemble all his animals

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and so forth, and he had a very

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special bear bird that is mentioned in the

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Quran by name. Its name is hudhud, as

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we all know.

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But in this story, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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talks about a conversation that takes place between

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him, the bird, and not only that, but

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the queen at that time, as some refer

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to as queen Sheba or the queen of

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Saba and so forth, but she has this

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conversation with her people. And then not only

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that, but Suleyman alaihis salam is having a

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conversation with his people. And then at the

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end, there's a conversation between Suleyman alaihis salam

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and herself.

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So Hudhud, as he as we all know

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that he would often go out to explore.

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And one time he was not there, Suleyman

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inquired about him, and he brought the news

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to Suleyman

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that I came across. The reason I was

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not there present when you wanted me to

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be there is because I came across a

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certain nation.

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And what Hudhud began to describe,

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he said that there were two distinctions about

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these people. Number 1 is

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that these were people who had a very

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beautiful throne. The queen over there, she had

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a very beautiful throne. And number 2 is

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that these people, they used to worship the

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sun. Now, first of all, let's take even

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a step back and ask, you know, many

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people they ask is that what is the

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story of this queen and how did she

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come into power?

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Now, of course, when it comes to history,

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there's always gonna be theories out there, and

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there's no Hadith of Rasulullah

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alaihi wa sallam,

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you know, pinpointing

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exactly how did this woman come in a

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position of power.

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However, in books such as Al Bidaya wani

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Haya of ibn Kathir Rahmatullahalaihi,

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he states And once again, this is just

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a theory out there that she had a

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Her father was the ultimately the king of

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that area.

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But he did not leave behind any sons,

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and the only one he left behind

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was one daughter.

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Now often, generally speaking, the sons would someone

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Someone from amongst the sons would become a

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king, would become the next ruler in line.

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Because he did not leave any sons, it

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is mentioned that there was another person who

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began to assume responsibility,

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another male figure. Perhaps in the family, or

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someone who was very close to that king

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who began to assume that responsibility.

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Because she felt Now once again, this is

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mentioned that because she felt that she should

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have been the one in power,

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so therefore she married this man, and hence

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she became the queen of this man who

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was the king. Later on, now some books

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of history mentioned that he died a natural

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death or some books of history mentioned

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that she planned and plotted to get this

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man killed, and she killed this man. And

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hence, when he was removed from the picture,

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she was the one who came in the

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position of power. Once again, it's just a

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theory out there that's mentioned in some books

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of history. So now, this woman is there,

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she worships the sun, her and her entire

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nation, they worship the sun, and they have

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a very beautiful throne. Now when Hudhud brought

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this news to Sulaiman

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interestingly,

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Sulaiman

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responded

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to these two claims. The very first thing

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he said was, Allah yasjudoolillahi

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ladi yukrijul kaba a fisamaawati

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wal audi wa ya'alawmatuqfoonawmatu'alilun.

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He's talking about that if they have such

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a big throne,

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then they are deserving and they should be

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worshiping Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. Why? Because Allah

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Subhanahu wa ta'ala Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala.

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Why?

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Because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has a knowledge

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of what is apparent and what is not

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apparent, what is visible and what is invisible.

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So that is the very first thing. Because

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Hudhud is saying it from the perspective

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that if they have a huge, magnificent,

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and very beautiful throne, that means they have

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a lot of money.

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In their response, this is why Sulaiman alayhi

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wasalam is saying, if they have all these

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riches of this dunya, they should be worshiping

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Allah

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The second claim or the second thing that

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Hudhud said was that,

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they worship the sun. Okay. They worship the

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sun. And to that also Ibrahim Soma

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said that first of all, Allah's throne is

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bigger than her throne. Allah hula illaillahu rabbullahashiladim

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and Allah yasrudoolillahi

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ladi yukujal khaba This this ayah, he's saying

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that anyone, if there's anyone who's to be

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worshiped, it is only Allah

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not the sun. Now, Ibrahim I mean, sorry.

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Sulaiman

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is now saying that, I'm gonna send her

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a letter. Let's see what her response is.

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When he sent the letter to the Queen,

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Hudhud took this letter, when she received it,

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she called all her people around her ministers,

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her close confidantes,

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and said that,

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I have received a letter from Sulaiman.

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Okay. I've received a letter from Suriman

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and

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Suriman

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He began the letter by calling her to

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Allah

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by writing, BismillahirRahmanu

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Raheem. And ibn Kathirahmatullahi

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a'layhi he says interestingly

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that it was because Suleiman

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was a very first Prophet that calling someone

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to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala he wrote, BismillahirRahmanu

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Raheem. And as a result, this became the

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nature of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam that whenever

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he would write a letter to any rulers

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or kings, he would always begin with, Bismillahir

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Rahmanir Raheem. So he learned this from Sallam

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alaihi sallam as Ibn Kathir Rahmatullahi

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mentions.

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Now, at that time, she asked her people

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that what should we do?

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At that time, there was one person who

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gave this suggestion

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that And Sulaiman

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basically wrote this letter to her and he

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said,

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Allataaloo alaihiya means, do not put yourself above

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me. Meaning that, listen Read this letter I

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have sent you. Don't be arrogant about it.

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Don't think that you're above me and so

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forth. Just take it and read it with

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an open

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heart, and come to me. Now come to

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me as a Muslim. No. Come to me

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in submission.

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Then Allah

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says that she consulted.

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1 of them said, that, nahnuuluqooatinwaulubaasin

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shadeed

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That, you know, queen, why do we have

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to listen? We are very powerful.

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We are very mighty. We look at our

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throne, look at the things that we do,

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look at our infrastructure and so forth. We

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are an advanced nation.

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Why should we become intimidated

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by anyone like this? Now, of course, the

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queen could have just taken his advice

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and move forward, but she said, Give me

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another advice, I need to think about this

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very thoroughly.

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So she came with the suggestion or the

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conclusion

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that in history,

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whenever there is a king, whenever there's a

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king, and he is a tyrannical king, what

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their nature is that they go, they conquer

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lands, they kill

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people, and they imprison people and so forth.

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I want to know, is this person, Soleiman

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alayhi wasalam, like that kind of king, or

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is he another kind of person? Mean that

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he might be even a Prophet, He might

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be a genuine person.

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So what did she do?

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She

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sent many gifts to Sulaiman

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Now when these gifts were brought to Sulaiman

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Sulaiman he said, Why are you sending me

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all these gifts? I don't want these gifts.

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I'm not interested in your gifts. The only

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thing I'm interested in is you coming to

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Islam. Now there's a lot of things to

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be learned from all this, but I'm just

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quickly going through the story first. So then,

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Sulaiman alaihi wasalam he returned all the gifts.

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When the gifts were returned to the queen,

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at that time, she realized

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that perhaps this man is a genuine man.

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He's not after my riches. He's not after

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my gifts and so forth. And not only

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that, but Sulaiman

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this time, when he sent the gifts back

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to the Queen, he sent a strong message.

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He sent a stern message

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that you are to be I'm asking you

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to come here. Otherwise, when we come, we

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can come your way, and there could be

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some

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challenges, there could be some issues. So I'm

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demanding that you come this way, you come

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to me. Now she came with everyone. She

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He received the news. Surima

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received the news that she and her entire

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entourage,

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they're coming towards his way. So he came

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to one of his jinns, and he asked,

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you know, once again he had, you know,

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he had people in front of him, he

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had jinns in front of him, and he

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made this claim, or he made this, this

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demand,

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that which of you

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can bring the throne of Bilqis

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here in my presence?

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Now there was 1 jinn. 1 jinn said

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I mean, this his name was Efreet.

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And this Efreet, if you notice, Allah says,

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Meaning that there are a lot of jinn

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over there, but this Efreet jinn had the

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physical capacity because not all jinns are alike.

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Not all jinns are alike.

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This has to be a very strong jinn.

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This strong ifrit jinn said,

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I will bring it to you before you

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even get it from your place.

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Okay. I will bring it to you before

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you even get it from your place.

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Then he said, I need something that's more

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quicker. You see, Sou'ma

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he was not playing games. He was he

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wanted something, he was demanding it. So the

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Quran says,

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I will bring it to you

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before you even blink your eye. And at

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that time, the throne was brought to Surah

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Alaihi Wasallam Now when the throne was brought

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to Surah Alaihi Wasallam, she's still on her

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way coming. She's still coming on her way.

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And then he told his people that, what

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I want you to do is that I

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want you to make some subtle changes.

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I want you to make some subtle changes

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to her throne. I want to see, does

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she recognize, is this her throne or not?

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So when she came, when she came,

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when she came,

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Sulliman brought her forward,

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and he said, and it's mentioned,

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That when she came, she looked at the

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throne. And she was looking at it very

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closely, very intently,

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because she realized that there is something about

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this throne that really just, you know, it's

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You know, it screams at her, you know.

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Meaning that, she realized that there's something very

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similar about this throne with her throne. Not

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realizing that this is exactly her throne. And

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not only that, but the Quran even says,

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It was said to her that, is this

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yours? Like, this has to be very similar

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to yours.

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And then, even though she looked at it,

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and she says, this is very similar to

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my throne. She still did not convert to

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Islam right away. Then, Sulaiman

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invited her into his palace.

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And when she walked inside the palace,

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it is mentioned

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that, when she came inside the palace,

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When she walked inside the palace of Sulaiman

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alaihis salam,

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she saw that What she saw was like,

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it was almost like an aquarium. You go

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to many places today, they You know, you

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could sit be sitting in a restaurant, and

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there's an aquarium around you. You go to

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places, you could be sitting under an aquarium.

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So likewise, what she saw underneath her was

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like an aquarium.

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It was all glass floor, something that was

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very,

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very unusual at that time. So, she saw

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this glass floor, and because of that she

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thought, she did not know it was glass,

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she thought it was actual water. That's how

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clear the glass was. So she picked up

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her, her dress or whatever she was wearing,

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she picked it up a little, and she

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tried to walk on it thinking that it

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was water. When she took her first step,

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she realized that it was glass.

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And that is when she realized

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that this throne,

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and this palace

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is far beyond what she has. She began

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to realize that what she had, even though

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she had a great throne,

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but that throne compared to this is insignificant.

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And that is when she realized

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that this man is the Prophet of Allah

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because Sumehat alayhi salaam had already introduced himself

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that he is the Prophet of Allah. But

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then when she saw this, and she went

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through this experience,

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that is when she took her shahada and

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she converted to Islam, and she declared Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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as her Rab, as her ilah.

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And at that time everyone in her qawm,

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in her nation, they also accepted Islam. Now,

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the question is, what are some of the

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things to be learned? Because there are some

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very powerful lessons to be learned in this.

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The very first thing that we learn in

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this story is,

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pay attention to what Hudhud said. Hudhud

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said that these people, they worship the sun.

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Okay? And he says that

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Shaitaan has made their actions beautiful to them.

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By the way, this is one of the

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oldest tricks of shaitan in his book.

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Anytime he wants to make you feel complacent,

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anytime he wants to make you feel good

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that you're doing something that is right, he's

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gonna beautify it. And that is why there

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are a lot of people who are doing

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good things. You might find someone who is,

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mashallah, very particular in their salat. They might

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be very particular in their in their Quran,

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in their dhikr. But subhanallah, their akhlaq is

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absolutely terrible.

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Do you find people like this? I You

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come across them like this at all times.

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There are some people whose akhlaq is extraordinary,

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but then their salat is weak, their Quran

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is weak. They don't ever pray. They don't

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ever do the dhikr of Allah

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What shaitaan does

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is that shaitan will come to that kind

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of person and say, You don't pray. That's

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fine. But look at your akhlaq.

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Your akhlaq is exemplary. Your akhlaq is like

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the akhlaq of Rasulahu alaihi wa sallam You

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are doing something that most of the ummah

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is not doing. So let go. No problem,

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you let go of salat. No problem, you

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let go of going to the masjid. No

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problem, you let go of your dhikr and

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so forth. But this akhlaq, it's amazing.

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Now once again, you see what shaitaan has

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done.

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Shaitan has taken one good thing that they

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have done, and he's magnifying it that a

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person realizes or a person says that, You

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know what? Even if I let go of

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the other aspects of my faith, my deen,

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and my religion, it is no problem because

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whatever good I'm doing, shaitan has magnified it.

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You understand? And this is one of the

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greatest pitfalls for a Muslim.

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Our deen is very clear. We have to

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do everything in our deen. Yes, we're weak.

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I, I, I understand we're weak. We're not

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gonna be extraordinary. We're not gonna be exemplary

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in all aspects of our deen. We might

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be praying salat. There might be some weakness

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in our salat. We may have akhlaq. There

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might be some weakness in our akhlaq. We

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might be reading Quran. There might be some

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weakness in there. No problem. We all are

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trying to grow every single day. But if

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I'm leaving out a very important aspect of

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my deen,

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and shaitan is gonna come to me and

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say, It's no problem. You're leaving out this.

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There's so many millions of people who don't

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do what you're doing. You are better and

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superior than everyone else. Then this is, Zayana

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lahu shaytan wa aamalahu.

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You understand? So that is why it is

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extremely important. And, you know, let me give

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you

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I don't I mean, this may seem I

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don't want to come off like, you know,

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attacking 1 group of people, but, you know,

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subhanAllah, even a lot of times when I

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go to many places, like for example, MSAs

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and so forth, a lot of times you

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see Muslim youth, mashallah, they're trying to do

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a lot of good work at the schools,

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and the high school level, at the university

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level. They're trying to do a lot of

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good things, but a lot of times you

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will see that they began to cross the

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lines.

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They're trying to do good Islamic work. They're

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trying to revive some Islam in that university.

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Sometimes they're trying to give dawah. It's all

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great, but sometimes

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they will also do things that are not

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within the line of Sharia.

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And this is where Shaytan comes to them.

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And once again, there's so many other people

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and so many different aspects that Shaytan can

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come to many people and say, you're doing

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some good things. It's better. It's no problem.

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No. If we have a weakness, it's our

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responsibility to overcome that weakness.

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2nd thing another thing that we learned from

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this story, which is very important,

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which is a very big issue in this

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day and age, you look at Saliman

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She is sending all these gifts.

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Okay. She's sending all these gifts to her,

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to him. And what is he doing?

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He is fulfilling

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his prophetic responsibility

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of calling people to Allah

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That's his responsibility, right? Yes or no? Calling

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people to Allah is Suleiman's responsibility, right? Yes

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or no?

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Yes or no? Okay. So he's fulfilling his

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responsibility.

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At the same time, he's making it very

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clear to her, I'm not interested in you.

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I'm not interested in what you have. All

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I'm interested is, I want you to come

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into Islam.

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Now let me be very blunt when I

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say these kind of things, and I'm sorry

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if I have to be straightforward about these

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kind of things because in this day and

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age, there are a lot of people who

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sugarcoat many things. I'm not a person who

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sugarcoat things. Okay. I'm very straightforward about these

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kind of things.

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Even in this day and age,

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you know how many

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Muslim men

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or Muslim women,

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they will start giving dawah to someone.

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Okay? They will find Let's say a Muslim

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young man. There's a woman at college

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or university,

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they meet each other, she begins to take

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an interest in Islam.

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Okay?

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Usually, a lot of times, I will ask

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that young man

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that, what is your reason of giving her

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a dawah?

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Okay?

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And a lot of times

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Okay? A lot of times, the answer is,

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I'm hoping she becomes a Muslim, so I

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can marry her.

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Okay?

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I'm hoping she becomes a Muslim, so I

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can marry her. Or, the other way around

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too. Some Muslim, young woman, meets a man,

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and he becomes a Muslim. First of all,

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is that,

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we have to understand. What we learned from

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the story of Sulaiman alaihis salam is, we

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cannot be interested whether we get married to

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them or not. If I give someone dawah,

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I give someone dawah because I want them

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to become a Muslim.

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Not because If marriage is one of the

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objectives, that could be a secondary objective.

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The first objective is what? I want them

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to become a Muslim

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because it's my role and my responsibility

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as a Muslim to call other people to

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala That should be our

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objective. You know why? Because I can tell

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you this, there are many times where you

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will have Muslim men

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converting a woman to Islam, and then marrying

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her, and then there is a fallout. There's

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a fallout, and you know what happens to

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that woman? The very first thing that happens

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when she gets a divorce, she gives up

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her deen, she gives up her Islam.

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So the reason why this is happening is

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because the niyyah,

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Inna mal aamalu bi niyyah, the niyyah was

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corrupt to begin with. The niyyah was, I'm

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making her a Muslim so I can get

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married to her. You understand? When the niyyah

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is corrupt,

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the outcome is going to be corrupt also.

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So that is why it's very important. If

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I want anyone to become a Muslim, I

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want them to become a Muslim because that's

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my Muslim Fareedah. That is my Islamic

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responsibility

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to give people dawah and to bring them

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to Islam. And if there's any secondary

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objectives,

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that is secondary. But primary is calling people

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to Allah

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Another thing that we learned from this story

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is, look at this woman. She's not even

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a Muslim, but look at her ability to

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consult with others. This is something that is

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often lost.

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She is the leader, just like we find

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in the sila of the Prophet He is

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the leader, but he would always consult with

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others. And not only that, but in her

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story, when you had one of those people

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who were giving her a consultation,

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or was giving her a counsel, and he

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said, We don't need to go and, you

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know, succumb to them, we don't need to

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go and, you know, and talk to them.

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We are the ones who are more powerful

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and so forth. He was taking the more

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violent approach.

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Did she listen to him right away? No.

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She thought about it, she took the more

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rational approach.

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Likewise, in our life, even if I consult

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with 10 people,

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there might be 1 or 2 people here

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and there who are gonna give us the

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wrong advice, who are gonna give us the

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wrong counsel. And it's our responsibility

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when we consult with others, first of all

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is, we have to consult with the right

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people. If it's a medical issue, I'm gonna

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go to a doctor. If it's a religious

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issue, I'll go to the imam. If it's

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something related to my career, you're not gonna

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come to me. You're gonna go to someone,

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like if you're in the IT, you're gonna

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go to someone who's in IT.

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First of all, is we need to know

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who to consult with. That's number 1. But

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number 2 is, even when we consult, it

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doesn't mean that they give you, you know,

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they give you some advice or they give

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you a suggestion

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or recommendation

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and khalas you take it and you move

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forward. No. We have to apply some critical

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thinking at times to see, is this does

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this make sense or not? And especially,

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especially

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Listen to this very carefully.

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When it comes to marriages and relationships

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Okay? When it comes to marriage and relationship,

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and you need advice and so forth, and

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you need people to come and give you

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a suggestion,

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I say this with a very clean heart.

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Okay?

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You have to make sure you go to

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people who are not biased.

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You have to make sure you go to

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people who are not biased.

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There are issues peep people have in their

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marriages. You know who they go to? They

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go to their parents. You know what the

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parents do a lot of times? Instead of

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making the situation better, they make the situation

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worse.

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See, when you go to someone who's gonna

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be biased, any person,

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any person, if they see their daughter going

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through a difficult time of their marriage, naturally,

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because of their love, they're always gonna take

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the side of their daughter.

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They're always gonna take the side of their

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daughter. And naturally, if it's your son who's

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married, and who's going through a difficult time

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in their marriage, and they come to you,

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obviously you're gonna take their side.

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Although, make it very clear. In the Quran,

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the Quran makes it very clear, there still

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has to be justice. Even if your

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son or your daughter-in-law or your daughter or

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son-in-law is coming to you, you need to

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apply justice. We all should be applying justice.

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But you see the point I'm trying to

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make is, we have to make sure that

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even if I go to someone and get

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advice from someone, I need to get advice

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from someone who is going to give me

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proper who's going to give me a proper

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recommendation.

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And the last thing is

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that we understand

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that from this story,

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that Suriman

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at the end of all this,

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at the end of all this,

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once again, he was not after what she

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had. This is something very important that today,

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he wanted to

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extend extend the awwah to her, not because

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of what she had. This is very important.

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When someone comes to us and they want

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to build a relationship with us, it should

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be only and only for the sake of

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Allah

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Because

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they are a Muslim. I am a Muslim.

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That is it. I don't need to keep

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a relationship with anyone because of what they

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have. That is when we have problems in

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our society,

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our families.

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Because today our friendships are insincere.

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Our relationships are insincere. Whenever we do anything,

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we invite someone, it's insincere. So when everything

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is being done insincerely,

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then the results are gonna be terrible. The

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results are not gonna be productive and that

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relationship will become even worse. So these are

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few things inshallah that we learned from the

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story of Suri Alaihi Salam. I ask Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala to make us amongst those

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who can understand from the story, apply the

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teaching of the story, and may Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala give us the ability to take

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a lesson from all these stories of the

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Quran.

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