Mustafa Khattab – Tafsir Sura Yusuf 7 Part 3

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The speaker discusses the prevalence of women being rape in the US and describes the physical appearance of women. They also mention a woman who was harassed by her brother-in-law and sister, and how her clothing was seen by the Muslims. The speaker also talks about a woman who was punished by her brother-in-law and her sister, and how her clothing was seen by the Muslims.

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			So I think I shared
		
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			the some numbers with you before
		
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			that the,
		
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			the numbers of
		
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			women were raped in the U. S.
		
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			It's very staggering. I don't know about the
		
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			figures in Canada.
		
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			So they say
		
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			a woman is raped in the U. S.
		
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			Every 2 minutes somewhere in the U. S.
		
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			Every 2 minutes. Most of the time, like,
		
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			65% of the time, it is by someone
		
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			that the lady knows.
		
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			Like her brother-in-law,
		
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			her father-in-law,
		
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			sister, someone that the person knows. Why? Because
		
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			they sit together in the house,
		
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			you know, masha'Allah,
		
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			no hijab,
		
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			shorts,
		
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			tights, and all that stuff. So this is
		
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			when the shaitan comes in. And you give
		
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			if you put khamr in the equation,
		
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			liquor and alcohol,
		
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			Khalas.
		
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			Yeah. Yes. Actually, I think, you know, this
		
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			video about the lady, the hijab. Yeah. She
		
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			was wearing a very plain hijab. Right? Yeah.
		
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			But I met, like, yesterday my mom, she
		
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			went my mom. Okay. She went out with
		
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			her friend to FreshCo.
		
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			And a Libyan guy came up to my
		
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			mom and her friend and said, you guys
		
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			are Muslim.
		
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			I swear I'm
		
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			and she swore my dad got so angry.
		
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			He's strong. He's just appreciating the name of
		
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			Allah. You
		
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			You know what? Shit. I don't care, like,
		
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			how how even even today, like, the hijab
		
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			at Brock University, even the girls get harassed.
		
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			Like, sometimes they send the NSA and they
		
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			say, like, how they get harassed.
		
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			But on the I think because the hijab
		
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			she's wearing though, it's very plain and black.
		
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			Sorry.
		
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			In some cases,
		
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			the hijab,
		
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			is very attractive.
		
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			On some women, they look more beautiful than
		
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			hijab. Some of the sisters, they wear the
		
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			hijabs, you know, with
		
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			color. It's very attractive. You can spot them
		
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			from a mile away. Right? Because And then
		
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			the other girls. Yeah.
		
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			And the jeans and the tights and the
		
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			little hijab. Right? And the second mother.
		
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			The alien
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			I wanna say my I I wanna expand
		
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			my comment. I don't I'm not blaming the
		
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			woman at all, but I'm saying, like, the
		
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			society that we live in today, that's just
		
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			how bad it's bad. Like, even if you
		
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			cover up, even if you cover up, you
		
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			still get her up. Sorry. The blessing from
		
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			the mess you? Well,
		
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			human beings
		
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			this is the thing about human beings. Some
		
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			people they follow, some people don't.
		
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			And in some cases, know how matter how
		
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			matter the sister covers up and she's decent
		
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			stuff.
		
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			Somebody was sick even
		
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			in the Surah Al Ahab, the Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala is telling the wives of the
		
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			prophet
		
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			that maybe we'll come across someone who has
		
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			sickness in their heart and they will and
		
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			these are the wives of the prophet.
		
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			Right? And they know that they are not
		
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			allowed to marry the wives of the prophet,
		
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			but still
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is giving them precautions
		
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			like
		
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			Allah is keeping away the
		
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			causes of evil from the family of the
		
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			prophet. So
		
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			all of this is to protect the Muslim
		
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			sisters
		
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			from doing something Haram and the brothers also
		
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			from coming close to this.
		
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			But as I said at the beginning, this
		
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			is the natural inclination that we as human
		
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			beings,
		
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			we're attracted to women
		
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			and women are attracted to men. This is
		
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			the I mean, this is the human nature.
		
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			Otherwise,
		
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			if Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala didn't put this
		
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			thing inside us, this in instinct,
		
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			then the human,
		
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			the human race will be instinct
		
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			in only 1 generation. Like, the men are
		
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			there, the sisters are there, nobody's getting married,
		
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			nobody cares.
		
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			Come on. Tell us. Situation that we need
		
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			to be misled.
		
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			Abdullah Abu Dhabi,
		
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			there was a fight between the Muslims and
		
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			Arun, the Romans.
		
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			And the Muslims were winning. Although they were
		
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			outnumbered
		
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			by the Romans, so the king
		
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			wanted to know why Muslims are winning. So
		
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			he said, if you catch a woman, if
		
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			you take a sorry. If you take a
		
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			Muslim captive, bring him to me. So they
		
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			brought him Abdullah ibn Muadaffa Sahami, you are
		
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			the Sahabi
		
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			and some of the Muslim moon, and they
		
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			brought him to him.
		
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			So he said, okay, I'm gonna offer you
		
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			money
		
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			and, you know, you just join me or
		
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			stay with me. He refused.
		
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			He kept him in a room and
		
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			he he sent him, they say in the
		
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			hadith, the most beautiful woman, she went there
		
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			and she, you know,
		
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			she took off the clothes and all these
		
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			things in the story.
		
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			So he closed his eyes and he started
		
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			to cry and and he said, maaadallah. The
		
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			same thing that Yusuf alaihis salam said. Eventually,
		
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			the lady started to knock at the door
		
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			and said, okay. He is not a man.
		
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			He's a stone. Like, you know, I'm walking
		
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			in the street with my clothes on and
		
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			the people run after me. Here I, you
		
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			know, I'm like this, and he doesn't even
		
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			look at me. What kind of man is
		
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			this?
		
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			So eventually,
		
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			he offered
		
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			he said, I'm gonna kill you. He said,
		
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			well,
		
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			Abdullah ibn Mustafa said he started to cry.
		
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			So he said, why are you crying? He
		
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			said, because you're going to kill me one
		
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			time. I wanted to die, like, a 1000
		
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			times.
		
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			So
		
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			eventually, he said, okay. I'm gonna let you
		
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			go on one condition
		
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			that you kiss my head.
		
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			I said, Khallas, I will kiss your head,
		
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			but you let me and all the Muslims
		
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			go. He said, no, you only. He said,
		
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			no. All of them. Either I go and
		
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			all of them with me or I'm not
		
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			leaving. I'm not leaving my friends here. So
		
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			he kissed his head and they left when
		
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			they went to Umar Radiallahu Anhu and he
		
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			took all of them with him.
		
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			So
		
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			some of the Sahaba blamed him and said,
		
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			how can you kiss the head of a
		
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			Kafir?
		
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			So Umar Radhi Allah Anhu said, he is
		
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			a good woman. He did this to save
		
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			the Muslims.
		
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			No harm done. Right? Maybe he didn't kiss
		
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			his head. He just kissed in the air.
		
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			He didn't touch it. Whatever. It doesn't matter.
		
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			That he said, Omar Al the land, he
		
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			said,
		
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			He said, it's an obligation on every Muslim
		
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			here to kiss the head of Abdullah Al
		
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			the Afghan. And all of them, they stood
		
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			and they kiss this head for saving
		
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			all the Sahaba.
		
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			We'll continue,
		
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			next time inshallah.
		
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			Ayat 24.
		
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			Any questions?
		
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			Can we turn off the camera?
		
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			Yeah. Nasir. Nasir, camera. Bye bye. Okay. And
		
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			you want me I can give you the
		
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			camera.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			One question.
		
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			Okay. Whatever someone