Mustafa Khattab – Stop Whining Do Something

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the importance of whining and blaming people for mistakes, and gives examples of the stories of Muhammad, Ass schedules, and Uthmanivative Affan. They emphasize the importance of trusting Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and doing one's best to succeed.

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			Let there be light. Can we turn the
		
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			lights? Thank you. Oh, no. Thank you. JazakAllah.
		
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			So,
		
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			Today,
		
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			So I will talk today about
		
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			I remember last week we spoke about whining
		
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			and complaining and blaming everyone for your mistakes.
		
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			So, this ayah in Surah Yusuf, it's actually
		
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			a part of an ayah in Surah Yusuf.
		
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			No one loses hope in the mercy of
		
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			Allah
		
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			except people with no faith.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So you can whine all you want. You
		
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			can complain about everything.
		
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			I failed because of my parents. I broke
		
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			my arm because of my teacher.
		
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			All these things. You can blame everyone for
		
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			your mistakes.
		
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			You can whine all the time.
		
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			I mentioned last time that there is an
		
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			ayah in Surah Ibrahim,
		
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			laiin shakartum lazid and nakumalayin kafartum in nadhabilashadid,
		
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			which basically translates to,
		
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			gonna take the artistic license to,
		
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			make it relatable to you. If you whine,
		
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			Allah will give you more to whine about.
		
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			If you thank, He will give you more
		
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			to thank for. Right?
		
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			So
		
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			whining and losing hope and blaming people. Every
		
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			time you come across a a problem or
		
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			a difficulty in life.
		
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			So look at the example of Muhammad, sala
		
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			alayhi.
		
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			He was doing Dawah all the time to
		
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			the people of Makkah and the different tribes.
		
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			And very few people believed,
		
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			like the slaves and the poor people.
		
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			But many rich people,
		
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			they turned their back on Islam, and they
		
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			were actually trying to kill the prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam and abuse the first laborers
		
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			and so on and so forth. But the
		
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			prophet never gave up on them.
		
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			He was always making dua to them. To
		
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			the point where
		
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			after the people of Taif abused the prophet
		
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			and they injured him, and the people of
		
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			Mecca were, you know, attacking him all the
		
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			time.
		
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			And he was asked, if you want, we
		
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			can just crush him and Khalas finished. And
		
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			the prophet
		
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			said, no. Maybe Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will
		
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			guide them to Islam and their children would
		
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			be Muslim. Right? So he never gave up
		
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			on them, and eventually
		
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			most
		
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			of the people of Makkah, 99%
		
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			of them became Muslim during the time of
		
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			the prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam, and he didn't
		
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			force anyone to become Muslim.
		
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			Look at the story of Yusuf alayhi wa
		
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			sallam, his brothers, his own brothers.
		
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			They tried to kill him, and he was
		
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			sold. He became a slave just because of
		
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			them.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And
		
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			what I like
		
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			about the story of Yusuf and, Musa alaihis
		
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			salam, there are so many things in in
		
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			common between the story of Musa alaihis salam
		
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			and Yusuf alaihis salam, but if you look
		
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			at the story of Musa alaihis salam, he
		
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			had one brother,
		
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			His name was Harun,
		
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			and he supported him all the way.
		
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			And Yusuf alaihis salam had 11 brothers.
		
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			10 of them gave him a hard time.
		
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			They tried to kill him. He was sold
		
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			into slavery because of the so the numbers
		
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			don't really matter. But again in the story
		
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			of Yusuf alaihis salam, he was sold into
		
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			slavery,
		
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			his own brothers betrayed him, they stabbed him
		
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			in the back, and and they almost killed
		
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			him.
		
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			And and he landed in jail because of
		
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			what they did to him a long time
		
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			ago, but he never lost hope.
		
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			He was hopeful that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			will help him and will guide him in
		
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			in this difficult time, and he became the
		
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			Aziz of Egypt. Right?
		
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			Look at the example of
		
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			Uthman ibn Affan and Abdul Uthman ibn Naww,
		
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			for example.
		
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			Basically they were millionaires in Mecca. They were
		
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			business people,
		
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			but when they made hijra because of all
		
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			the abuse and all the persecution in Mecca,
		
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			what they did, they left Mecca and they
		
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			made hijra to
		
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			Madinah.
		
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			They didn't have any money with them. They
		
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			started from the scratch again,
		
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			and they didn't accept donations
		
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			from anyone in Madinah. They just said, dunlunya
		
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			al suk, like in the story of Abdul
		
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			Umar ibn Naw, show me where the market
		
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			is.
		
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			And he started to do business, he started
		
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			from the scratch, and within a few years
		
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			he became a millionaire again.
		
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			Why? Because he didn't lose hope,
		
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			and he didn't sit in the streets asking
		
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			people for money. You know, it is easy
		
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			to,
		
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			to lose hope when you are in a
		
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			difficulty. Some people take their own lives when
		
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			they are in a difficulty or a hardship.
		
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			They fail an exam, they jump off a
		
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			bridge.
		
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			You know, they, they, they don't get a
		
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			job, or they get laid off, or their
		
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			car breaks down, they shoot themselves in the
		
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			hip. People do this all the time. Right?
		
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			Because
		
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			they lose hope in the mercy of Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. The last story for today.
		
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			The last story for today. I've been talking
		
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			for the last few days to a brother
		
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			from the US.
		
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			His name is Nadir,
		
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			a Palestinian.
		
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			He was raised in the US.
		
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			So base he was born basically, he was,
		
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			legally
		
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			blind. He can't see.
		
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			His wife accepted Islam 12 years ago.
		
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			She's an American, she accepted Islam, and she's
		
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			also blind.
		
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			And
		
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			when she accepted Islam and it was, you
		
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			know, when they get married,
		
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			they were looking for any material on Islam
		
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			for blind people, like the braille thing, you
		
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			know.
		
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			They couldn't find anything.
		
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			Back then 12 years ago, there was not
		
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			a single translation of the Quran, for example,
		
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			in English. His wife couldn't read Arabic, you
		
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			know, his wife only speaks English. They couldn't
		
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			find any single translation of the Quran. So
		
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			what has he done?
		
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			Did he just, sit and cry in his
		
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			room or no. He decided to do something
		
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			about it. Now he is working on
		
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			a translation of the Quran in English in
		
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			braille
		
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			for the blind.
		
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			And what he is doing basically, he's going
		
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			around
		
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			raising funds
		
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			to make thousands of copies available for Muslims
		
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			and non Muslims for free.
		
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			So not only he's benefiting himself and his
		
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			wife, he's also providing the Quran
		
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			for thousands of people in the US for
		
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			free. Raising funds,
		
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			teaching people about Islam,
		
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			despite of his disability or his ability,
		
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			but he decided to make a difference. He
		
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			decided to do something about it. And the
		
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			reason why we are talking
		
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			is because he inshaAllah is going to turn
		
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			the clear Quran into braille
		
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			for blind people to be able to read
		
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			the Quran.
		
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			So the point is never lose hope in
		
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			the mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Stand
		
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			up. Put your trust in Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala and do your best,
		
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			and inshallah, one of those days you will
		
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			succeed, but never lose hope. This is the
		
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			message for today. We'll see you tomorrow inshallah,
		
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			jazakAllah. Assalamu alaykum.