Mustafa Khattab – Showing Off

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The importance of Islam is highlighted, including the use of Allah's name for moral advice and the need for individuals to show their sincerity. The speakers stress the importance of small shiny things like small deeds and blending personal deeds with work deeds. The speaker also discusses various signs of Islam's acceptance, including the acceptance of signs that say the good deeds of the Prophet, the fear of Islam's acceptance of the caller's behavior, and the importance of intentions in one's decision to pursue Islam. The speaker also discusses the lack of sincerity and the importance of showing off one's true deeds.

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			I bear witness that there's none worthy of
		
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			our worship except Allah, and
		
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			I bear witness that Muhammad, salallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam, is the seal of the prophets and
		
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			the final messenger to all of humanity.
		
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			Whomever Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, guides, there is
		
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			none
		
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			to guide. And whomever Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			needs to go astray, there is none to
		
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			guide.
		
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			So one of the scholars, his name is
		
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			Abu Bakr Al Hayash, he said, Wallahi, Abu
		
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			Bakr Al Salih
		
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			never got ahead of us in terms of
		
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			Hassanat and in terms of his high status
		
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			in Jannah,
		
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			not because of his salah and his fasting
		
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			and his charity. No. He said he got
		
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			ahead of us because of the faith which
		
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			was engraved in his heart and because of
		
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			the sincerity
		
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			of his actions. This is why.
		
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			And Omar Ibn Khattab
		
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			used to make a lot of dua
		
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			and to say, oh, Allah,
		
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			purify
		
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			all of my deeds and make all of
		
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			them purely for your sake.
		
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			And no one, no human being should have
		
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			a share in my deeds. He means I'm
		
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			not doing this for any human
		
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			being. I'm doing it only purely for you,
		
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			So the scholars
		
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			define
		
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			sincerity in
		
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			in many different ways, but one of the
		
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			most,
		
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			reasonable definitions is to do things purely for
		
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			the sake of Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,
		
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			not for showing off. This is the mean.
		
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			So if you do something purely for the
		
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			sake of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala by purifying
		
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			your intentions,
		
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			then you will get the full reward.
		
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			But if you do it, just people will
		
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			say, then the prophet
		
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			says in the authentic hadith that not only
		
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			you will lose your reward, but you'll also
		
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			be punished
		
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			for sharing
		
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			people and associating people in their word. In
		
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			this authentic hadith
		
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			in Al Hakim, the Mustadrak, a man came
		
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			to the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, and
		
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			said, oh, prophet of Allah,
		
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			what if I do a good deed hoping
		
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			to get the reward from Allah and hoping
		
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			that people will say something nice about me?
		
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			So the prophet, salaam, said, you will get
		
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			nothing.
		
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			The man repeated the question, oh, prophet of
		
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			Allah, what if I do something good hoping
		
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			to get the reward and people will speak
		
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			highly of me? What do I get? The
		
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			prophet, salaam, said nothing.
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala accepts what is done
		
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			purely for his sake and not for people.
		
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			So this is the first Hadith.
		
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			And this also authentic hadith in Muslim Al
		
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			Uma Ahmed Al Tamili.
		
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			The prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says, what
		
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			I fear for you, my Ummah, is not
		
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			the dajjal. What I fear most for you
		
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			is not the dajjal,
		
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			but minor shirk.
		
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			So they said, what is minor shirk, You
		
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			Rasulullah? Because we know major shirk is to
		
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			associate
		
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			others in the worship of Allah. So he
		
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			said minor shirk is showing
		
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			off, associating
		
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			people in doing good deeds.
		
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			Then the prophet
		
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			said, on the day of judgment, when people
		
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			would come to get their rewards from Allah,
		
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			they would be told,
		
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			go to those to whom you used to
		
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			show off in the dunya and get your
		
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			reward for them. I have no reward for
		
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			you.
		
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			We did, so people will say, they said,
		
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			so you already got your reward. I got
		
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			no reward for you.
		
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			So this is the second Hadith.
		
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			So in this 3rd Hadid inside Muslim,
		
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			the 3 people that will be punished before
		
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			everybody else on the day of judgment, a
		
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			Shahid
		
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			and a scholar
		
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			and a generous person.
		
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			So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala asked the first
		
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			one. What did you do with the blessings
		
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			I gave you? So the first one will
		
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			say, I struggled in your way until I
		
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			feel, you know, dead. So Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala know you didn't do it for my
		
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			sake, but you did it so people will
		
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			say, oh, he is a brave guy.
		
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			Then the second person, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			will ask him, what did you do with
		
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			the knowledge I gave you? He will say,
		
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			oh, Allah, I taught it to people, and
		
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			I was teaching them Quran.
		
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			And,
		
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			I taught them everything I knew. So Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala was saying, no. You are
		
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			a light. You taught people not from a
		
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			safe, but you taught them so they will
		
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			say, oh, he is a scholar.
		
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			Then the 3rd person, Allah will ask him,
		
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			what did you do with the money I
		
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			gave you? He will say, oh, Allah. I
		
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			spent it in your way. I was putting
		
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			money here and there. So Allah will kind
		
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			of say, no. You're alive. You did it
		
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			so people will say, he is a generous
		
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			guy. You didn't do it purely for
		
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			my sake.
		
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			So the scholars say there are some signs
		
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			that if you find these signs, then you're
		
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			doing things purely for Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			So the signs are number 1, you always
		
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			belittle your good deeds. Every time you do
		
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			a salah, you blame yourself. I should have
		
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			I should have done better than this.
		
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			If you give a charity,
		
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			you should always blame yourself that I should
		
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			have given more than this.
		
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			So you always belittle
		
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			yourself, your good deeds, and you always motivate
		
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			yourself to do more.
		
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			So Imam Abdullah is secondary. He said a
		
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			beautiful statement in this regard. He said,
		
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			a sin
		
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			that humbles you
		
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			and brings you back to Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala is much better than a good deed
		
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			that makes you arrogant.
		
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			And this is a very profound statement.
		
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			Number 2, the second sign of this insert
		
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			of your good deeds
		
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			is every time you do a good deed,
		
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			you are afraid that Allah will never accept
		
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			from you, so you always try to purify
		
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			your intention.
		
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			So the prophet says in authentically
		
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			that
		
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			when this ayah was revealed, those who give
		
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			or make good deeds and their hearts are
		
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			shaking with fear,
		
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			Aisha says, O Prophet of Allah,
		
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			is this
		
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			ayah talking about
		
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			those who commit adultery, those who drink, and
		
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			those who steal? So the prophet
		
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			said, no. The ayah talks about those who
		
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			fast, They give sadaqah, and they make Hajj,
		
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			and they pray all the time in the
		
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			masjid, but they are afraid that Allah will
		
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			not accept from them because of their intentions.
		
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			So they always try to purify their intentions.
		
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			And then
		
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			So the third sign is that you do
		
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			something purely for the sake of Allah.
		
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			Regardless of what people will say about you.
		
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			You don't care if you if they say
		
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			you are a generous guy because he gives
		
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			sadaqah or not. You don't care if they
		
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			say you are a good guy because if
		
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			because you come to the salah or the
		
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			time or not. What people say doesn't mean
		
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			anything to you. You only do it purely
		
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			for the sake of Allah.
		
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			We conclude with this.
		
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			The prophet talks
		
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			about those who do good deeds purely for
		
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			the sake of Allah, and the people say
		
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			good things about them. Not because they wanted
		
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			to, but because people
		
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			say this about them anyway. They didn't request,
		
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			praise from anyone. So this man came to
		
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			the prophet and says,
		
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			what if I do something purely for the
		
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			sake of Allah and people say good things
		
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			about me? So the prophet says, this is
		
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			a good sign that
		
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			Allah is accepting from you, and he is
		
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			giving you the reward in Azra and in
		
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			Duniya. That's Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			We'll just give a a few examples about
		
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			sincerity and the lack of sincerity, then we'll
		
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			conclude with this, inshallah. Number 1, sometimes we
		
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			we sat with, some people. I'm not talking
		
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			about any particular person.
		
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			And there's a guy who doesn't pray at
		
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			all.
		
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			And if somebody or the group goes to
		
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			pray, he goes with them. Not because he
		
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			wants to, but because he's afraid that he
		
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			will say he's not a good guy. But
		
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			if these people were not there, he would
		
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			never pray.
		
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			So this is not sincere.
		
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			I remember a long time ago,
		
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			Also, there's this example of this guy,
		
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			all of a sudden, he started to come
		
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			to all the salawat, Mashallah, and pray. And
		
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			I'm not talking about him. So he was
		
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			coming all the time to the salah, and
		
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			I said, you know, why do you come
		
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			to the masjid and pray, alhamdulillah, before you
		
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			you never showed your face in the place.
		
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			Why? So he said, because I love the
		
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			Masjid so much, I love the imam, okay,
		
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			blah blah, all that stuff.
		
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			Then later in the story, I realized he
		
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			was coming to the Masjid because there is
		
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			a sister who comes to the Masjid and
		
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			prays all the time, and he wanted to
		
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			propose.
		
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			So for her family to accept him, he
		
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			had to come to the masjid, so they
		
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			will say, hey, yeah. He goes to the
		
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			masjid. He must be a good guy. So
		
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			that was not done purely.
		
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			Also, politicians back home,
		
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			in the parliament or the ministers and that
		
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			stuff.
		
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			So
		
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			if if you decide for, you know, elections,
		
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			you see them all the time in the
		
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			masjid, shaking people's hands and hugging them and
		
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			kissing them and crying in the salah, giving
		
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			charity and all that stuff.
		
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			But after the elections, after they went,
		
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			So,
		
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			I've seen some weddings, and I'm not talking
		
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			by the way, I'm not talking about Edmonton.
		
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			I've been to many places, and I'm invited
		
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			to weddings, and I see
		
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			people wasting food, and they are wasting money
		
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			for no reason.
		
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			And the women, they are not, you know,
		
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			decently dressed, and when I enter the room,
		
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			they start to cover themselves, and when I
		
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			start to leave, they start to take off
		
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			with clothes.
		
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			Are you doing this for the Sheikh? You
		
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			should do it for for for Sabir ibn,
		
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			not for me. I don't have Zaynel, I
		
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			don't have Himfahr. I'm nobody.
		
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			Then after they do this, a few weeks
		
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			later, they call me again, what?
		
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			There is a divorce.
		
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			There is no
		
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			sincerity.
		
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			So
		
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			there was this,
		
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			funeral and this brother, he made a big
		
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			Walima and invited everyone. And I'm not trying
		
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			to criticize anyone, by the way. But it
		
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			is an obligation on me to give Nasiyyah
		
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			to people.
		
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			So there was this big on the funeral
		
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			day and also on the 3rd day, and
		
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			the brother spent about 3,000 to $5,000
		
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			and I told him,
		
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			and may Allah have mercy on you. Why
		
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			did you do this? You should have given
		
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			the money to the graveyard a salakahjariyah or
		
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			to a masjid salakahjariyah.
		
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			He said, wallahi, I didn't want to make
		
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			food, all that food for people, but I
		
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			was afraid that people would say, oh, he
		
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			doesn't like his mother because his mother passed
		
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			away. So I said, you're doing it for
		
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			the people, not