Mustafa Khattab – Next Life 18 Getting Ready

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The importance of preparing for life is emphasized, especially during important events like the Message of the Year. The speaker gives a list of 10 things to work on before the event, including health, wealth, and retirement. The speaker also advises not to memorize the Quran and learns about individuality. The importance of purifying one's individuality is emphasized, and the speaker uses various examples to remind viewers to avoid knocking on doors.

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			So, last time I tried to answer this
		
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			question, what happens if if I die today?
		
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			And I said,
		
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			not much really. Yes. A few people will
		
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			be mad that you left this world, and
		
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			maybe more people will be happy that you
		
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			left,
		
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			and,
		
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			they will be excited,
		
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			specially your boss, as I said they will
		
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			hire someone who will do double the work,
		
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			will get half the pay, and your boss
		
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			will be saying You Allah, I wish you'd
		
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			taken, 2 10 years ago.
		
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			So,
		
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			and I said don't worry about your family,
		
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			they will enjoy your wealth, and don't worry
		
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			about the sun, the moons, and the stars,
		
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			they're not going to fall down from the
		
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			sky, nothing will happen.
		
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			If something of that sort were to happen,
		
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			it would have happened when the prophet passed
		
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			away. But nothing happened. Life goes on.
		
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			So
		
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			one of the reasons why it is called
		
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			because the arzat are given on that night,
		
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			they're written down, and because
		
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			the is written.
		
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			So, one of the, meanings of is
		
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			that the arzah are written on that night,
		
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			and the are also written. So Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala will write for you on that
		
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			night how much you will make in this
		
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			year, and whether or not you are going
		
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			to make it till next Laylatul Qadr. And
		
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			the walamah says some of us, some of
		
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			us here,
		
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			it is written for them
		
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			Last year, 2016,
		
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			that they are not going to make it
		
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			till Laila Al Qadr, 2017.
		
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			And some of them could be around us
		
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			here. Maybe me, maybe you, maybe some of
		
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			the sisters in the back, we never know.
		
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			It has already been written.
		
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			The ruling has already been made. The word
		
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			is out to American mouth to take someone's
		
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			soul before next Ramadan.
		
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			But we don't know.
		
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			So as I said,
		
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			The smart, intelligent Muslim is the one who
		
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			always prepares for this day.
		
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			Whether it is time to, to go today,
		
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			tomorrow, next month, you are always ready to
		
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			go.
		
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			So whenever you see a you should always
		
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			ask yourself, am I next?
		
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			So
		
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			what I'm going to say, when you see
		
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			Ajanaza,
		
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			just like the angel of death
		
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			skipped you to take someone else, maybe the
		
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			day will come when they skip someone else
		
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			to take you. So you have to be
		
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			ready every time you see a sign,
		
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			you see a janazah, should always keep in
		
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			your mind, maybe I'm next. And this should
		
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			always be a reminder
		
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			that I should clean the mess, I should
		
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			make tawba and get ready to meet Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala anytime.
		
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			So the question is always,
		
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			am I ready to go or not? And
		
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			if I leave now, you know, if I
		
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			take a breath and I don't release it,
		
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			and I meet Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,
		
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			am I ready to give some answers to
		
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			some of the bad things that I do,
		
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			and so on and so forth. So I
		
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			have to be ready to meet Allah
		
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			at all times. So I put together a
		
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			list of 10 things that we should always
		
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			work on before this day comes.
		
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			So the prophet
		
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			told Abdullah N Abbas, take advantage of 5
		
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			things before the coming of 5 things. Take
		
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			advantage of your youth before you become old,
		
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			and your health before you fall sick, when
		
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			you are rich before you become poor,
		
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			and when you are afraid before you get
		
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			busy, and your life before you die.
		
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			So always take advantage
		
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			of your health and your life and wealth,
		
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			because sometimes
		
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			the time will come, you wish to do
		
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			certain things you are not able to.
		
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			And I gave the story before,
		
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			So,
		
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			we had a great halakah after Fajr in
		
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			one of the masajid, and this old gentleman,
		
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			he,
		
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			he would read Quran with us every day,
		
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			and at some point he would cry.
		
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			And I would say, okay, why are you
		
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			crying now?
		
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			He would say, well, I've always and now
		
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			I regret not memorizing the Quran when I
		
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			was young. When I was 15, 18, 20,
		
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			I was running around far and, you you
		
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			know, east and west, north and south, and
		
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			it never came to my mind that I
		
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			should sit down and memorize Quran. Now I'm
		
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			almost 70 years old, I memorize a surah,
		
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			next day I forget everything.
		
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			So I tried to, Yani
		
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			comfort him and say, well you don't have
		
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			to memorize it now if it is difficult
		
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			for you. You can read tafsir, you can
		
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			read whatever, you know, knowledge of the Quran,
		
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			it is not a must in this case.
		
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			So this brother, he was my assistant at
		
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			Rasheed al Rashid in Edmonton. He was 86
		
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			years old from Ethiopia.
		
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			His Arabic was excellent, and his Quran was
		
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			was excellent. He was Hafiz of Quran.
		
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			So, for those of you who have been
		
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			to Edmonton before, when Ramadan comes in the
		
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			summertime, it's a disaster.
		
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			Right? The day is very long, the night
		
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			is very short. So I would come for
		
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			a fashion, I'm very tired,
		
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			and he would see my eyes red, and
		
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			I just got a couple of hours sleep
		
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			in Ramadan, and he would tell me, okay,
		
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			what's wrong with you? And I tell him,
		
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			well I I didn't get enough sleep man.
		
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			I'm going nuts, you know, I didn't get
		
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			enough sleep. And I would say, well,
		
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			take it easy,
		
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			this is the time to work,
		
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			inshallah when you die, I got some good
		
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			news for you, you will be sleeping for
		
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			1000 of years. Okay? So this is the
		
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			time to work.
		
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			So, now is the time to work, and
		
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			you can relax later when we move to,
		
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			to the next life.
		
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			Taman, if you want to travel the world,
		
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			while they're young, this is the time.
		
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			Once you get married,
		
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			you'll be going nuts,
		
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			and when you have kids, you'll pull your
		
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			hair off, you know, and you're not going
		
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			to have time. And when you reach a
		
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			certain age, you're going to start have medical
		
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			problems, your back problems, you'll be seeing a
		
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			doctor every day, every day for something different,
		
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			your back, your knees, your eyes, your ears,
		
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			your teeth, something else will come up. But
		
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			when you are young,
		
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			this is the time to learn something new.
		
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			And how it is.
		
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			Allah
		
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			Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala
		
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			So as soon as that the law says,
		
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			those who think of death and the next
		
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			life and standing before Allah for judgment. Maqamal
		
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			rabbi, You al Qiyam, Adam Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala Al Khisab. Then they will, you know,
		
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			fix their life, they will mend their ways,
		
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			then Jannah would be, you know, the destination.
		
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			But those who do otherwise,
		
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			then their destination would be, totally different.
		
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			So someone
		
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			from the
		
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			after the time of the Tabernaum,
		
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			what he did basically to remind himself of
		
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			Acha,
		
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			he dug a grave in his in his
		
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			bedroom.
		
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			And I'm telling the brothers don't do it
		
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			in your house now because if you live
		
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			in an apartment building and you dig a
		
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			grave in your bedroom, you're gonna reach your,
		
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			your neighbor. So don't do it. Okay?
		
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			So what he would do every time he
		
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			feels distracted from Allah, like he doesn't pray
		
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			on time,
		
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			he does something wrong, he would sit in
		
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			the grave, and his family, they would put
		
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			there is a big lid,
		
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			heavy, so they would close behind after him,
		
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			and he would sit for 1 hour, 2
		
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			hours, and he will question himself. Why did
		
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			you do this man? What is the point?
		
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			You have to purify your niyyah. If you
		
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			took something from someone, gave it back. If
		
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			you delay salah, pray on time, and so
		
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			on and so forth. Fajalay yuhasi bonafso. And
		
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			he told his family,
		
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			you know, every time, I'm gonna sit there
		
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			for 1 hour, so keep the keep count
		
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			of the time,
		
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			if I go there 11, it is 12,
		
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			open the door for me, I'm gonna come
		
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			out. Okay.
		
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			This is what he used to do all
		
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			the time. Until one day,
		
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			his wife went to the, store.
		
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			Walmart, FreshCo, something. So they went out for
		
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			the flea market.
		
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			Big problem.
		
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			He was sitting there for 10 hours, they
		
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			forgot him,
		
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			because they went shopping with the kids, so
		
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			they totally forgot about him. They had lunch
		
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			outside, they went to the movies, they totally
		
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			forgot about him.
		
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			So he was sitting there for an hour
		
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			and 2, your has opened up Sahih, why
		
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			did you do this, why did you do
		
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			that? And read Qur'an and cried.
		
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			And he started to knock on the door,
		
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			nothing. Like before, when his wife and the
		
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			kids were at home, he would hear some
		
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			noise, someone crying, the kids playing, and so
		
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			on and so forth, but this ain't nothing.
		
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			Total silence.
		
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			So he assumed
		
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			he was doomed. He assumed he died actually.
		
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			Right? So he started to cry and at
		
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			for 10 hours he was looking around, where
		
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			is the angels are gonna come from? You
		
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			know, he was looking right and left, and
		
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			he was terrified.
		
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			And and, kiyama,
		
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			and judgment, all these things came to his
		
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			his mind at this point.
		
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			Finally,
		
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			Maghrib ur Hashatan, the kids came back,
		
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			he said, subhanAllah, the malaykah are coming to
		
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			take me. Now is my time to stand
		
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			for judgment. And they opened the door frame,
		
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			surprised, we forgot you.
		
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			So he said,
		
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			Rabir Jaroon ilaali Ahmadu salihafimatarak.
		
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			He said, You foola, he told himself,
		
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			You are crying for someone to open the
		
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			door for you,
		
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			finally they open for you. The day will
		
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			come when will you keep knocking and no
		
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			one will open for you. Today you were
		
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			lucky, so, try to do
		
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			the right thing.
		
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			Don't die
		
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			unless you have husnu vaan, you have good
		
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			thoughts of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, that He
		
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			will forgive you and and give you Jannah.
		
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			So you should have always these thoughts about
		
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			Allah
		
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			Yes, we're human beings, we make mistakes all
		
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			the time,
		
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			but
		
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			the mercy of Allah
		
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			is greater than our sins,
		
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			and the mercy of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			and and His grace are bigger than anything
		
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			in this world. Even if we fall short,
		
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			if we make mistakes, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			will cover us with His mercy.
		
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			So there is this hadith, some question the
		
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			authenticity, some say it's good, some say it's
		
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			weak. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			will shower people with his rahmah and forgiveness
		
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			on the day of judgement. So much so,
		
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			that Shaitan will have some hopes,
		
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			because he has seen Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			giving rahmah and mafala to everyone on the
		
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			day of judgement. Even Shaitan himself will say,
		
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			well
		
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			I think Allah will forgive me or something.
		
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			Like because he's giving forgiving everyone, so he
		
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			will have some hopes that Allah will forgive
		
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			him. But again,
		
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			yes the mercy of Allah is great, but
		
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			the mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is
		
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			hoping for those who work towards
		
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			him. Even if they fall short, they stumble
		
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			on small sins, eventually Allah
		
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			will forgive them. But in any case, we
		
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			would have,
		
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			Yari,
		
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			personal fundayb Allah
		
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			that he will forgive us and give Jannah,
		
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			and unite us with the sahabah, with the
		
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			prophets,
		
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			and with the righteous.