Mustafa Khattab – Muslim Manners 20 Generosity I Ramadan 2012

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the historical context of Allah's behavior during the first few weeks of his presidency, including his generosity towards his followers and his approach to small talk. He also talks about the importance of morality and the importance of smile and good manners. The transcript describes a scene where a guest arrives at a village to ask about the family, and the guest says he didn't have money and the family's house collapsed. The guest then shot the guest's dog and killed his friend.

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			So the last 10 days and 10 nights
		
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			of Ramadan will start tomorrow at sunset
		
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			and with the beginning of the night of
		
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			21st
		
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			of Ramadan.
		
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			20 days are gone. 1 third of the
		
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			month is left. So you still have a
		
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			chance inshallah to make up. Salaamu Ta'ajid will
		
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			be tomorrow night at 3 in the morning
		
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			and the ufana for
		
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			Thursday morning. Yes. Thursday morning at 3 AM
		
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			and the ufana for would be 10 minutes
		
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			after
		
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			So for the past few weeks, a few
		
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			days, we spoke about the verbal Ibadah like
		
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			recitation of the Quran
		
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			and and we also spoke about the physical
		
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			Ibadah like fasting,
		
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			salaab, and
		
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			so on and so forth.
		
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			And today and in the coming, couple of
		
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			days, inshaAllah, we'll be talking about the financial
		
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			So today inshallah, we'll talk about generosity and
		
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			generosity is one of the attributes of Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Salam
		
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			So the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam was
		
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			the most generous of all people as reported
		
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			in the hadith in Sahih al Bukhari. And
		
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			he was exceptionally
		
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			generous in the month of Ramadan.
		
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			So much so
		
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			as reported in Sahih al Bukhari that some
		
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			of the sahaba would ask for his
		
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			clothes and he would take off take off
		
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			his clothes and give it to them. So
		
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			some of the Sahaba would take his clothes
		
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			to be used as a shroud kafat for
		
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			them when they die, and would shroud them
		
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			in the clothes of the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam to be a shafa'ah for
		
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			them.
		
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			The companions of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam were the most generous after the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. And we don't have
		
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			enough time to give you stories of their
		
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			generosity towards Dawah and with the prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam and
		
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			helping Islam in the beginning.
		
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			Like the generosity of Abu Bakr Uthman Ali
		
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			and the rest of the Sahab
		
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			So generosity can be in your manners, the
		
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			way you treat people, your attitude, and your
		
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			behavior
		
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			and with your money.
		
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			The prophet says
		
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			that smiling in the face of your brother
		
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			is a charity. You don't have to pay
		
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			the money. You just smile and it's a
		
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			charity for you.
		
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			And charity with your money, financial
		
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			charity. And the first one is the moral
		
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			charity.
		
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			This beggar,
		
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			he needed some money so he knocked on
		
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			somebody's door and he said, please give me
		
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			some money. I'm hungry. They said, we got
		
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			no money. We don't have no food.
		
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			So he insisted, they kicked him out and
		
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			they pushed him in the street. So he
		
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			said if you guys don't have money at
		
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			least have some manners. Okay?
		
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			The way you talk to people at least
		
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			have some manners.
		
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			So Al Hadad appointed someone as a ruler,
		
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			a governor
		
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			for a faraway,
		
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			place like a city or village,
		
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			and that valley, this governor was away from
		
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			his family for a long time.
		
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			A guest came to him from his village
		
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			so that governor wanted to know about his
		
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			family, his wife and because he hasn't seen
		
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			them for a long time.
		
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			He started to eat and the guest was
		
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			sitting in front of him and he didn't
		
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			offer him no food. And the guest was
		
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			hungry.
		
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			So the governor says, how is my house
		
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			in the village back home? He said, Alhamdulillah
		
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			your house is good. How about my wife?
		
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			Alhamdulillah, fantastic.
		
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			How is my son? He is very good.
		
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			How is my daughter? Rasha Allah. It's everywhere,
		
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			all over the place. How is my cousin?
		
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			Masha Allah, very healthy.
		
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			Then the governor said, you guys take out
		
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			the food, I'm not eating.
		
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			And the guest was he didn't eat nothing.
		
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			So he said to the guest, please tell
		
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			me again, you know, how is my family
		
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			and everything because I was not paying attention
		
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			as I was eating. How is my dog?
		
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			So he said your dog died because he
		
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			was mad because he didn't eat nothing. He
		
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			said your dog died. So he said, how
		
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			did
		
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			how did my dog die? He said, he
		
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			choked on a bone from your camel.
		
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			He said,
		
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			did my camel die? He said, yes. Because
		
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			they overburdened
		
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			your camel, carrying stones to the grave of
		
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			your wife. He said, did my wife die?
		
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			Yes. Why? Because she cried. She broke her
		
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			heart crying over your son.
		
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			He said, did my son die? Yes. He
		
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			said, your house collapsed over him and he
		
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			died. The whole family died. The dog died,
		
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			your camel died. So he got his gun
		
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			to shoot him in the hand, so the
		
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			guest jumped out of the window. So this
		
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			is the story.