Mustafa Khattab – Muslim Manners 2 Fast & Furious Ramadan 2012

So, last night we started the first qara'awiyah

and after the, salah, the first qara'awiyah we

had. So this brother came up to me

and he said, how many days are left

for the Eid?

What are you talking about? I was just

talking about sub patients in the in the

day.

So the prophet sallallahu

alaihi

wa sallam said in the Usid al Hadith

that the best gift you can have in

this life is patience.

The best gift you can have in this

life is patience.

Most of the time we have problems because

there's no patience in in the house

Divorces happen because of

anger. No patience.

Crimes happen because of impatience.

And this is the reason the prophet sallallahu

alaihi wa sallam is telling us patience is

the best gift you can have in life.

Most of the time, we have problems

while we're fasting because,

those who eat every day,

for example, they have, like, they eat 3

to 4 times in the breakfast,

4 or 5 times in the lunch,

6, 7 times in the dinner. So something

is missing in their life. If they don't

eat for 20 hours something bad is, you

know, is going on.

And they say

a hungry man is an angry man. If

you don't eat, big problem.

Also, those who smoke,

if they don't smoke for 20 hours in

the day of Ramadan, they go mad. Furious.

Have you heard of the movie Fast and

Furious?

Have you heard of this movie?

When you are when you fast,

you become furious. Fast and furious. This is

the reason.

And problems happen because of this.

So if you have an anger problem,

then there are you have several options. Number

1, you take anger management courses

or you take some shots

okay

or you can listen to the advice of

the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam and the

prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says in the

authentic hadith and bukhari and Muslim

when someone of you is passing in Ramadan

let them not act violently or indecently and

if someone reviles them or tries to,

to people them or fight with them, let

them say

I'm fasting twice

and we usually say this before we snap

on someone I'm fasting I'm fasting before you

punch them in the face

so we actually apply the Hadith

in the wrong way

I'm gonna conclude with this story

about impatience and anger in Ramadan.

This man is talking to his wife, so

she showed him the bills, the water bill

and the power bill, so he got so

mad, steam was coming out of his head.

So he said something to his wife or

he did something that she didn't like. She

was offended.

The whole day, she was asking for an

apology and and and he refused because of

the arrogance and the evil.

Late at night after Taraweeh,

he felt sorry for his wife. He wrote

a note and he left it next to

his wife that said, I'm sorry. He didn't

say it, and he wrote it. The next

day, he had to wake up at 5

to catch the the plane to go to

Toronto, so he begged his wife. Please, honey,

wake me up at 5 or if I

don't wake up at 5, I'll lose my

flight and they will fire me. She said,

okay, honey, no problem, you know.

Sure enough, he didn't wake up at 5,

he woke up at 11.

Close to both. Okay? He looks for he

looks for his wife everywhere in the house,

in the kitchen, in the basement, nowhere to

be found. She ran away with the kids.

But he noticed a piece of paper next

to his head that says, hey, honey, wake

up, it's 5.

He should have said sorry. Okay?

And the winner for today is brother Ahmad

al Hussain. So the answer for last night

is chapter 81 verse 18. Where is Ahmad

al Hussain?

Here.

No. 6000? 6000.

6000?

6000. 6000? 6000. 6000. 6000. 6000. 6000.

Yes. Alhamdulillah.

Can somebody give it to him?

Yes.

Al Quran peace. Al Quran peace. Alhamdulillah.

6,200

So all the Qur'an is revealed in Makkah

Madina. One single verse is revealed to the

Prophet

inside the Qur'an. You know the answer, email

me before tomorrowas@[email protected].