Mustafa Khattab – Funeral Etiquettes
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The speaker discusses the "ENTablement of Sh everywhere" series, which focuses on the "ENTablement of JamQuad and the "ENTablement of Sh everywhere." The series discusses the "ENTablement of Sh everywhere" concept, including funeral arrangements, praying, and the importance of waiting before hitting a deceased. The speaker also mentions a "ENTablement of Sh everywhere" story about a woman who lost her husband due to a divorce, and the importance of not wearing makeup and going to work in the farm to show sadness.
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Janazah, and we spoke about what happens
when someone dies, what happens if we die
today, what what would happen in the next
life, and what would happen to the family.
And, today, in shulah, the second and the
last part of this series, we'll talk about
the ada of Jamazah. What happens in the
Jamazah when we do this funeral,
in the masjid, or what happens in the
house, and what happens in the graveyard?
And number 2, what about giving? Can they
pray the funeral of prayer, and can they
follow the janassah and go to the graveyard
with the janassah? And they can go to
the graves generally
to make and so on and so forth
to pray for the deceased? And one of
us giving them the shahada saying, let them
the love of the deceased in the grave
and walking on the graves.
And what's the woman who lost her husband
due after the
So on the first one, which is related
to delaying the funeral, the burial,
of course, Islamic, you have to they try
to lay unless there's a reason to delay.
Say, for example, someone died in an accident,
is a good person, then you are sending
him to general, 1st class. So take him
right away. But if he is a miserable
soul, then it's something evil that you put
off your shoulder. You remove him from your
shoulder. So do it right away unless there
is a reason to delay.
So do it right
away unless there is a reason to delay.
So this is the first point. The second
point, which is related to women praying salaf
al janaz,
like coming and praying the funeral prayer and
Islam are
the same. Acts of worship are the same
for men and women.
Care of the funeral. But if women come
and they pray in the bible, of course,
they have the right to pray. And at
the top of the cross offering, the women,
pray in their mouths look for the deceased
just like the men. So there's no difference
between the 2.
Yeah, there is there is a difference among
scholars. The majority of them, they say
that women shouldn't go with this funeral because
it doesn't fit them as gentle
like this picture, like this picture. Like this
picture. Like this. Like a.
And he said, one of them fell down
because she lost her consciousness. She was devastated.
The the brother said, well, it was like
a zoo in the graveyard. It was like
a zoo. He said, you know what? I'm
not gonna go again
out. This is the acceptable opinion of Allah,
blah, blah, blah.
The third one,
The last point is for someone who lost
her husband
or a lady who was divorced. Especially the
lady who lost her husband.
Is 4 months 10 days. And she go
out.
Well, the scholar said it is very important
in in this period, the waiting period, before
she can hit somebody else after 4 months
and 10 days to show sorrow
and sadness for the passing of her husband.
She shouldn't be dressed in colorful clothes and
put makeup and walk in the
who come
and stay with her because she feels lonely
on her passing with her husband. She can
visit her family if there's a need. She
can go to shopping
or go to work with the school. If
there is a need, if there's no one
who provides for the lady and she has
to work,
then she can't go out. Otherwise, she has
to stay in the house
and she have she has also to sleep
in her house at night. She shouldn't sleep
outside based on authentic Hadith. There's also another
Hadith from Jair Al Nabi that we're good
with this inshallah. It's a Ayatul Hadith
that her aunt, she
was divorced 3 times. So the divorce was
finalized.
So
she went to her farm to work, take
care of her palm trees. So I realized
that her saw her going to the farm
and work in the end of the waiting
period.
And he said, what's wrong with you? You
go in the end of the farm. What
is this?