Musleh Khan – The Salaam

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The importance of learning to use the setup in the salon and not say a greeting is emphasized, as it is important for establishing healthy relationships and maintaining a strong personal connection. It is recommended to start with one another and not use the setup, as it can eliminate pride and arrogance. It is also emphasized to find the right person to say a setup to and offer advice on how to do so. The importance of teaching children to respect and value their own individuals is also emphasized. The segment ends with a brief advertisement for a video about a salon.

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			Bismillah al Rahman al Rahim
		
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			al hamdu Lillah Hina monastery, you know who want to stop Pharaoh when our rosabella Himanshu renam
fusina woman's a tiara Medina, mi de la fere down will the letter or mejor gleam Fedor her Deanna
watershed one Illa Illa la hora de hula Sheree Keller wash. Mohammed and Abu Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa early he was Herbie a woman's energy a woman standing beside Nettie de la yo Medina,
buried for takala a u haul
		
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			marranos to pan on Ouattara Phaeton z Yeah, yo holla Xena and taco la hopko to quality, wala Mouton.
Illa one to remove some of our brothers and sisters.
		
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			Once there was a time when Allah subhanho wa Taala told Adam it he said I'm gonna
		
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			go to the angels and say to them, Paul Salah menorah
		
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			and so the etymology he said, um, he went to the angels and he said to them as a comb, and Allah
subhanho wa Taala told him listen to the response fest smack, which means also to memorize that
response. And so the response of the mela aka the angels, they said to him, Wiley como, salaam,
water, metal LA. And then Allah subhanho wa Taala said to Adam, that is going to be the greeting for
you. The greeting for your progeny, your children and for all of mankind. You will the first matter
the first thing that Allah subhanho wa Taala taught Adam was that he is the greeting of Islam. And
Allah azza wa jal tells us in order to know for either the whole tubu 10 whenever you enter a home,
		
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			listen to the word gluten gluten is Nikita. It is a non definitive word. This means that Ally's
syllogism is saying whenever you enter any home, no matter whose home it is, for suddenly more Allah
and foresee calm, give Sam to yourself. In other words, even if you enter a home and there is no one
in it, the least you should do is still say Salaam to the angels that may be present in that home.
Then Allah azza wa jal describes this to hear this greeting. To hear Tim Miller in dilemma. It is a
greeting from Allah zoa Jenna more Baraka, 10 tayyiba, it is a greeting that is blessing it is a
greeting that is praised by Allah. So imagine you Hello, Baba. We are now at the doors of shuttle
		
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			Ramadan. And one of the things that you and I can do to prepare for such a month is to refine your
etiquettes refine your manners. One of the easiest ways to do so is to perfect the setup. The
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam once told the companions
		
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			f shoes, spread the Salam amongst you. And then he continued and said what total mo Param and also
feed the people around you will suddenly or ham and also keep strong ties and relationship amongst
you will suddenly one na Sunni m pray, especially whilst the people are sleeping, tend to hold on
Jen Nutter be set up as a result you will enter the paradise within peace. Do you notice brothers
and sisters? The first thing the prophets a lot he was sending them tells the sahabas is to spread
that to here amongst you. And as a result, eventually it will lead you to gentlemen
		
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			and brothers and sisters in this short presentation we want to go through some of the
		
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			some of the scenarios and rulings of the different circumstances that you and I we face when it
comes to giving the Sadam a woman a u haul.
		
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			realized brothers and sisters, that it is most highly recommended.
		
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			That you start the salon with one another. Now this is of the most preferred opinion amongst the
majority of scholars. Even though there is a minority of scholars that say it is wedge IP to start
the to hear amongst you. But there is the problem with this opinion it's difficult to implement. Can
you imagine walking outside the masjid and every single person that you see every single person you
meet, it is wise for you to say a setup to them, it is very difficult to implement. This is why
majority of scholars they say it is highly recommended that you should try your best to start the
salon with anyone you see. However, it is one jibba that a person must respond to the setup. It is
		
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			wedge there is no difference of opinion in this and the evidence that Allah so Allah says in Surah
Nisa, you're number 86 what either who eat on beat to hear whenever a greeting comes to you for how
you will be accent I mean, how old would do her The least you should do is one of two things. Now
listen to that wording of the A is really interesting. The first thing Allah zoa just says he
doesn't say respond, but he actually says to respond with something better than what the greeting
was in the first place. So if somebody comes to you and says a Salah more alikoum then you are
encouraged to respond with Wiley Cuomo, soda water matola something that is better than the actual
		
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			greeting itself than the continuous and this is the second option. And there is a reason why Allah
azza wa jal put it at the end of the A, and he says, Oh to do her, the least you should do is
respond with something equal to the actual greeting. That's the least you should do. Here. Allah
azza wa jal encourages us to try to do what is better men who have done the things that are better
amongst us so that we can build an etiquette build a brotherhood so that we can build a relationship
amongst each other. Once there was a time that had ethos Sahih and authentic Hades the Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells us that Ted Hulu, Jenna hacked to me No, no one will ever enter
		
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			the paradise unless they truly believe what to me no had to hibou none of you will actually believe
unless you be establish love amongst yourself. I will do look kumada Shay in either five to move on
to habit two, shouldn't I not tell you of something that if you do it you will create a love and
relationship amongst you. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells us f Shu Salam bainer
calm, spread the Salam amongst you. And so brothers and sisters, again in this head Ethan, one of
the ways that you perfect your belief, and as the result of perfecting your belief, you will
establish love amongst each other as a result of establishing love amongst each other. As a result
		
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			you will enter Jen Nabhi is the law eater either from the cam from the different scenarios when it
comes to this item, it is also permissible to do the minimum which is to say amongst each other
setup. And then you can also respond wasallam and we find this in the area in solitude. When the
angels they came to Ebrahim it you set up his Dahal, awani for called husana. When they entered upon
Ibrahim they said to him Salama, and then Ibrahim for Karla Sodom, and Abraham also replied with the
same thing as Salim now even though this is permissible scholars, they still encourage that you
should go beyond that. And the least that you should do is say a Sarah Marley come once a man came
		
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			to rasulillah he's a la hora de he was a lemma for Paul a Salam or Aleikum for a while in Kumasi,
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam responded to this man and he said why de como Salaam? And
then he said, I shall 10 meaning 10 rewards. A second man came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam and said I said I'm already cool aleikum wa rahmatullah the prophets I send them responds and
he says why they call Masada warahmatullah then he says, Are you Sharon 20
		
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			20 blessings are there. A third man he comes and says As salam or Alaykum warahmatullahi
wabarakatuh. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam responds with the exact same greeting and says,
Salah soon 30 blessings. And so brothers and sisters from this Hadeeth you see that the minimum The
least you should try to encourage yourself to do is say a setup more Aleykum from the icon from the
other scenarios in when it relates to the two here is that the two here is not restricted to people
that you know, but also you are encouraged to say that to hear to people that you don't even know
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells us f Xu Salam Allah men out of one Muslim tardif
		
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			spread the to hear amongst the people that you know, and even the people that you don't know. And
this is why in another Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam tells us that this is
actually one of the signs of the Day of Judgment. People are going to walk around amongst each other
and they're only going to say a salam wa Alaykum to somebody that they know to somebody that they're
acquainted with. And so brothers and sisters hold on to the to hear, because it is utter he Amina in
de la MOBA, Rakuten tayyiba it is a Salaam, a greeting that Allah azza wa jal himself legislated.
sedam Pola mirabell Rahim This is a Salaam that is a statement from Allah subhanahu Ouattara from
		
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			the cam from the rulings from the scenarios when it comes to the salon is that the Sanam? The
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gives us a hierarchy that you and I we can follow. And he
mentions three groups, three categories of people in a Hadith, and he tells us part of Salah lohani,
he was selling you suddenly more raw keep an mashi the person who is writing an animal, so the
person who is driving a car, they should be the one that should begin to hear a greeting for the
people that are walking. The wisdom behind this is to eliminate the slightest amount of pride and
arrogance that may be fall in the heart of that individual for them not to think that just because
		
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			they are driving just because they are riding just because they have been elevated that they are
somewhat better or more beloved than the people who are walking so to eliminate that the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said they are the ones that should start off the greeting for the people
who are walking second category. The Prophet salaallah Haile he was suddenly says that the person
who is walking by should also give Salaam to the person who is sitting down third category where you
suddenly Masahiro Island Kabira that the young child, the children, you are the ones that should say
Salaam to the people that are older than you. And this is why brothers and sisters parents, you must
		
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			teach your children that part of the respect of the people that are older than them, that people
that have been living longer than them that people that have more experience that them parts of
respecting them is that you should send your children to go and give salam to the elderly go and
give Salaam to the people that are older than them. Brothers and sisters. We conclude the first part
of the hook bit here and inshallah we will continue with a few more rulings. A few more scenarios
that are mentioned in our Sumner regarding the salon, and we ask Allah Subhana who Ouattara to
indeed use the Tahira to prepare us for Sharon Ramadan, we ask Allah subhanho wa Taala to keep this
		
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			Sunnah strong in our lives strong in our Ummah strong in our relationship akoto matters Marilyn was
Sofitel Lucha de welcome. What is it? It must mean I'm in Cali them first of Pharaoh in
		
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			smilla Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala rasulillah sallallahu alayhi wa ala de he was a happy
woman while
		
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			brothers and sisters hand gestures when you're
		
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			walking outside and you raise your hand to somebody and you intend to say a settler morally come to
them. Does that solemn actually count brothers and sisters realize that it is Bill eg marriage it is
a unanimous consensus amongst the man that the hand gesture does not take the place of the to hear.
It does not take the place of the salon. So can you imagine if you're standing right in front of
somebody and you just wave your hand to them, this does not count as the salon. And in addition to
that, even if somebody were to respond, they hear the silent and they respond with a hand gesture
that the response in and of itself does not count as a response. So this is extremely important.