Musleh Khan – Life #13 The older I become, the weaker my Emaan

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The speaker discusses the benefits of aging to gain more experience and knowledge. They explain that aging is a sign of gradually but surely closer to death, and that older individuals should be at least at least getting stronger and closer to Allah. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of reaffirming one's faith and trusting oneself to achieve progress.

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			The older I get, the weaker my iman.
		
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			How come?
		
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			Do
		
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			Do you find yourself
		
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			sometimes
		
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			as you age in life,
		
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			you would assume that your faith will become
		
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			stronger?
		
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			You would gain more experience, more knowledge, you
		
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			would learn more about life and understand your
		
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			priority is I need to get closer to
		
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			my creator.
		
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			And aging is a sign that gradually but
		
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			surely we are getting close to our death.
		
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			So all of these things are signs
		
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			that your iman should be at least getting
		
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			stronger and closer to Allah.
		
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			But that's not the case
		
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			for a lot of Muslims.
		
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			Instead, the complete opposite happens.
		
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			As they get older,
		
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			thinking that our iman would also grow with
		
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			us but instead it becomes weaker.
		
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			And some have even lost
		
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			their faith as they got older.
		
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			How does this happen? Here is one point
		
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			that I want you to think about from
		
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			Surat Al Kaif.
		
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			This is an ayah in reference to the
		
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			young men that were in that cave and
		
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			they stayed there for 100 of years.
		
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			Allah
		
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			describes one important
		
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			quality they all shared.
		
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			Allah
		
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			says
		
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			This group, Allah says
		
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			we wrapped their hearts.
		
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			We enveloped their hearts
		
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			that when they stood they prayed and made
		
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			dua
		
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			to our
		
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			Master.
		
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			He is the Master of the heavens and
		
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			earth.
		
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			We're not going to associate
		
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			or call upon
		
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			any other deity
		
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			except
		
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			the one true deity of Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			If you pause here, what is the real
		
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			message in this ayah?
		
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			Allah preserved
		
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			and protected
		
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			their belief system
		
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			between them and Allah.
		
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			Think about that.
		
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			When was the last time
		
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			that you put yourself through a spiritual
		
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			exercise whether it mean
		
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			studying or learning or
		
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			understanding
		
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			and spending some alone time reflecting,
		
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			praying tahajjud,
		
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			really isolating yourself from all of your responsibilities
		
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			and the things you're involved with in this
		
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			world, and just spending some
		
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			alone time with you and Allah.
		
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			And you did this
		
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			with the intention,
		
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			I just want to reaffirm
		
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			my faith.
		
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			That's the message of this ayim.
		
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			These brothers, these young men
		
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			reaffirm
		
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			their belief in Allah as they continue to
		
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			age and grow older. Remember,
		
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			300 plus years they're in this cave,
		
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			So they definitely age from the time they
		
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			went in, from the time they came out
		
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			until their death.
		
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			But in the midst of all of that,
		
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			this dua
		
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			came towards
		
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			closer to the end of their life.
		
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			And that's really interesting
		
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			that Allah would highlight they wrapped their hearts
		
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			with this belief system,
		
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			they continued
		
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			to reaffirm that there was only one deity
		
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			worthy of worship.
		
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			How does this translate today?
		
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			This day and age, what does this area
		
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			look like?
		
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			This is the time brothers and sisters.
		
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			If you find yourself
		
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			your iman is getting weaker,
		
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			it should be much easier for you to
		
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			point at and figure out where the source
		
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			of that weakness is coming from.
		
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			Because with age is wisdom.
		
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			You understand
		
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			yourself.
		
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			You know yourself more now than ever before.
		
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			Nobody is going to advise you or help
		
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			you through this more than you.
		
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			Because you've gone through the experience. You've gone
		
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			through the years. You understand
		
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			the things that affect you and the things
		
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			that don't. It's just a matter of you
		
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			don't take it for granted but just pause
		
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			and just think what is it that's causing
		
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			me to lose my faith or to cause
		
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			my faith to become weaker and weaker?
		
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			For a lot of us it's just distractions.
		
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			As we get older we might just,
		
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			as we get older these distractions just have
		
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			a bigger effect on us. So you point
		
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			out what are those things that distract your
		
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			life and you try to sift them out
		
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			as much as possible. This could literally
		
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			be anything,
		
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			but in the midst of all of that
		
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			you try your very best just to keep
		
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			reaffirming your faith. Oh Allah,
		
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			you are the one true deity worthy of
		
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			worship. You start to build your life with
		
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			repetition,
		
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			the qar and the tasbih of Allah. Things
		
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			like
		
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			You're constantly
		
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			reaffirming and repeating these phrases.
		
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			As we get older
		
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			our memory starts to go.
		
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			Certain things you take for granted you can
		
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			suddenly forget, or you'll have to sit there
		
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			and think for a few seconds. All of
		
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			that is okay as long as you're paying
		
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			attention.
		
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			So my brothers and sisters,
		
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			reaffirming
		
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			your tawhid,
		
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			your belief system with Allah can surely,
		
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			by Allah's promise, cure this weakness
		
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			and put you back on track on a
		
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			track of progression
		
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			and a track in which your iman becomes
		
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			stronger. And of course the ultimate goal just
		
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			being closer to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. May
		
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			Allah
		
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			make it easy for you and for me.