Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari – Living a Balanced Life

			swindler Munna Rahim.
		

			hamdulillah hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala alihi wa
sahbihi wa Colima via whom BSN de Allahumma alumna and founder one find out. I was in
		

			subhanak aloha Marina Marina Illa Marlin tena,
		

			Hakim aloha Marina, Congress alternativa Marina bata bata, Marisa finished Inaba, Hobart
		

			especially his brothers and sisters Selma aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
		

			It's an honor and a privilege to be here again,
		

			at this Islamic center of Oshawa,
		

			I was here last year as well, I don't know if some of you remember.
		

			Same time, November when we came for the same stage to bliss. Sorry, paradise conference.
		

			I've been to that conference as well before. This is actually my 16th I was talking to my son
actually remembers this. This is my 16th visit to Toronto, from 2000 and 716. So every time it
counts, it goes you're going this is your 16th time to Toronto. So take me one time I said
inshallah, just get a bit older, that you can come with me.
		

			So it's, it's an honor and it's really privileged to come here Toronto is a very beautiful city,
Mashallah Muslims, generally here, it's always pleasant to meet the Muslims. People have a lot of
zeal, a lot of desire to learn about Islam very interested, Mashallah. The topics that are chosen,
or the various programs or the various massages are pertinent and important topics, which deal with
day to day life. And this is what I like, because the topics that we talk about, are not just
topics, which are,
		

			which are also important, but it's not just dealing with you know, topics like repentance and Toba
and death, we talk about topics that deal with our day to day life. So like tomorrow's workshop, as
Madonna, Shakira just introduced, it's a very important workshop. I'm not here to advertise the
workshop. But if you haven't already registered, and maybe you should. It's an important topic. This
is my third time for the mosquito broker Pro, a program on
		

			the taboo word that people don't like to talk about, which is divorce.
		

			So the title I gave, I said,
		

			dealing with divorce and the fear of divorce and the rules of divorce and separation, but then they
said to me that people actually don't like this, you know, people won't come because because I think
I don't want to divorce but that's the reason why you want to come to a program like this because
you want to avoid divorce. And we have to take the reality because we have divorces in our
communities. And it's not a drama and it's not simple. That's not my topic. Don't worry, I'm coming
to your topic. But it's not it's it's a reality. And we have to deal with it, and that's why it's
protecting the relationship. And then I'm going through inshallah 10 to 12 different reasons of
		

			marital conflict. Why do we have problems in marriage? So marriage sometimes young people think it's
all hunky dory lovey dovey honeymoon, bedroom holiday, you know, we'll go here and there and then
we'll all be living happily ever after. And that's inshallah we will be but it's not what you
thinking. It's happily ever after that there are problems along the way. How do you deal with those
problems? And what are those reasons that actually break down marriages. So we're going to go
through all of those steps and then the rules of divorce and separation. Today's topic is also a
very important topic.
		

			Maintaining a balanced life, which is also a topic that deals with our day to day life. It's a
practical topic, is our title, maintaining how to live a balanced life?
		

			When we talk about how to live a balanced life, and I saw the flyer and there was some questions,
such as, how do I take time out to look after my parents? How do I take time out to look after my
children? How do I act upon deed? How do I do my studies? How do I do business? How do I study at
the University and also read the Quran? Should I offer 510 prayers and Shall I dedicate myself to
Islam or shall I study medicine?
		

			What should I do?