Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari – A’isha (Ra) – Beloved of the Beloved of Allah

			Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
		

			hamdulillah
		

			wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah who are early he was a woman vada
		

			Allahumma alumna in pharaoh now when foreign IV Magnum Tina was in Ireland and Subhanak Allahumma.
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			spected Sisters Brothers.
		

			The theme for this session, as you all know, is Mother of the Believers, the Omaha to remote meaning
the wives of the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa early he was happy he was salam.
		

			In the short and brief time that we have before us, I want to talk about one of the greatest wives
of say you do not Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		

			I don't want to go through her life
		

			in a chronological order, but it's just to learn from certain aspects of her life and learn from her
example, and implement the qualities that we find in the life of none other than the Yoda. Aisha
acidic or the Allahu anha, the beloved wife of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. She was
one of the great,
		

			greatest one of the greatest women of Islam, and the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam loved her
dearly. And one of the greatest reasons or sorry, one of the reasons of her greatness, if you look
deeply
		

			see the artery Sharabi Allahu anha,
		

			whom will mean the Mother of the Believers as Siddiqa that truthful?
		

			Our Isha sadaqa been to be Becca, acidic Radi Allahu Allah, the daughter of old Bukhara, severe.
		

			One of the reasons for her greatness was
		

			that she had a very good Islamic upbringing. She was brought up in the life in the household of Abu
Bakr, Siddiq Radi Allahu Anhu.
		

			Her father was Abu Bakr, whose name was
		

			Abdullah has been a vehicle halfa
		

			and his title cornea as I said, we're gonna sit deep. And her mother Omoro man, Radi Allahu anha
alberca Siddiq, Radi Allahu Anhu he was called a CD the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gave
him this title of a CD. He was the truthful and also because of the fact that he believed in the
messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam without any hesitation, specially when the messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam informed his companions about the His ascension is Surah Al Miraj. obika
Siddiqui Allahu Anhu said that, if this is exactly to what the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
said then I am the first one to believe in this and he was a woman that colorful Islam one of the
		

			earliest Muslims the first person who embraced Islam obika Cydia Claudio Allahu Anhu was a very
close companion of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam a trusted a trusted companion, a close
friend. Sedona Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says in one Hadith, logon to Muttahida and
hollyland Let the hearth to Abubaker kalila. If I was to make a Helene, that's a specific term which
means a very dear close friend Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says that he never made
anyone Halal in this world. But if he wants to make anyone Helene, it would have been a walk around
the city across the Allahu Anhu. He devoted his whole life to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
		

			sallam, his sacrifice sacrificed his wealth and his whole life to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, and say the Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also said that you know I have paid the
debt of everyone except our brokenness and Nicola the Allahu Anhu and he used to make dua and
supplicate that Oh Allah, I have not been able to pay the debt of a worker. You are the only one who
enabled be able to pay his debt and please pay his debts off in the orchestra. So obika Sydney
Opera, the Allahu Anhu was a very close, trusted friend of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, and as I said her mother or shout out the Allahu unhas mother, Omoro man,
		

			mint Romania. She embraced Islam as well very early on in her life and
		

			messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says in one Hadith mon sobre to a young Laura Illa Emirati
Minal Jannetty. For young Rita OMA Roma. Anyone who wants to see a woman of paradise look at Omar oh
man, these were the parents and this household and we need to set an example. Parents have a great
say in how the children grow up and what they become in their later life. See the Aisha Radi Allahu
anha. She herself says lamb up in about a year in Oahu, Maria de Nanea de la, about a year since I
reached an age of understanding, since I reached the age of an age of understanding, I have never
seen in my parents except that they were practicing religion in law, oh my god nanny been so parents
		

			need to set the examples. They need to have good friends. Parents need to have good friends, good
friends, children, look at the companions of the parents. The whole should be filled with iman with
faith with the love of Allah subhanho wa Taala the love of messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and
seriously brothers and sisters. When we look at the majority of the great personalities of Islam, in
history, pick up any any individual majority of them, you will find that they had a greater beer at
home. Their parents were great as well. Their parents were great. Many scholars see earlier on in
our history, many great Xu Maha detune the folk Aha, the jurist the great aroma, they all as you see
		

			they have their parents always call us. I mean, there are always exceptions, of course, but you find
on many instances and on many occasions that the parents are such that they are great themselves and
young people you know young children if they are brought up in this kind of environment where they
see their parents, that they are frequenting the masjid, they don't have bad habits. They don't lie.
They don't they don't have bad qualities in them. They have good noble qualities. And the house is
filled with Eema with faith that the child sees the Father frequenting the masjid the mother going
to the masjid, they are reciting Quran they are waking up for Salah to the Hijri that night but
		

			young lady when Ramadan comes, people are worshipping Allah subhanaw taala. I mean, you see you
small children, they'll imitate the parents. Yeah, if you have children, you know, if you are
offering prayers at home, you will have a two year old baby three year old baby doing ruku and
sujood. And like I haven't nephew, every time you know when his parents, they offer prayers. He goes
down in sujood and Riku and loves raising the finger you know, shahada shadow Allah, Allah loves
doing that. They learn from a young age, and we really need to set this example the house should be
filled. Give them time, give them time.
		

			Our children need our time. Parents need to give time to children. One of the greatest thing that
one of the unfortunate things sorry, that's happening today in our communities that parents don't
have time. Parents do not have time the father or the mother. They don't have time for their
children. And then afterwards when they leave the path of Islam, we complain our children have left
the path of Islam. And then what happens please make dua Asha, please do this is probably a black
magic or someone has done this and somebody is seriously in England we have a big problem. Every
problem I just gave a talk a few days ago, and the talk was about black magic. Every problem.
		

			Everyone says it's black magic. Anything wrong at home. It's black magics vanilla, but that's what
people do. People People look for excuses for I alumina Illa NAFSA. Don't blame anyone except your
own self. You have to dedicate time give our children time, and give them a good Islamic upbringing.
We look at the Irish allottee Allahu anha. She was brought up in this house filled with eemaan With
faith with with the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam frequenting the house Subhanallah just
imagine and this is why we see sometimes young children who grow up to be great people from a young
age they witness shoe and order ma frequenting the houses come into the houses seriously. I'm
		

			nothing of course I'm just a student of knowledge but my household as well personal example. since I
can remember three four years of age five years of age. We had numerous shoe hanger Alama from
various parts of the world frequenting. I can remember that when I was about six years of age I you
know the Imam of haram in Makkah, who's still alive Shahab De La Vina Seville, he came down and I
sat in his lap and he kissed me on my forehead and I used to play with his scarf and his beard, and
many other shoes. I remember from the art world from the subcontinent from different parts of the
world frequenting our house. This has an impact it directs your life. You know which direction to go
		

			to, from a young age because children pick up things Irish has to do karate Allah Who and have
picked up many things from her parents, and many colleges, the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam
would come to her to her house, and she inherited these qualities
		

			She inherited these colleges from so you don't know Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, she
inherited the quality of suburb of patience of sacrifice of selflessness from her parents. She
inherited the quality, the greatest quality Subhanallah she inherited the quality of extreme and
utter and full and total devotion to Allah and his messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, She
sacrificed her life and the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married her Of course, as you
know, and
		

			and he used to love her extremely the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam used to love her after
see the Hadith era, the Allahu anha she was the most beloved wife of the messenger sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam, and and why did he love her? Not just because she shows a virgin and she was pretty and
you know, not because of that. The messenger sallallahu alayhi wa aalihi wa sahbihi wa sallam
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. He loved our Aisha Radi Allahu anha. Why because of these
qualities, these inherent qualities of summer of sacrifice of total devotion, of truthfulness, of
arugula Hora suta, love of Allah and His Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam generosity. She was
		

			extremely generous. And because Allah loved her Zahra Subhan Allah, Allah loved her. There was an
incident where
		

			I mean why Allah loved her, Allah subhanho wa Taala chose see you that you should only Allah who can
have for the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. If you know the messenger SallAllahu sallam,
there's a hadith in which he mentioned that he saw even before he was married, he saw a dream in
which he saw Jabra Italia Salatu was Salam. And he lifted the veil and in the Hadith, he saw Arshad
the Allahu anha and Jibreel the angel Jibreel peace be upon him said to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam, her the he xojo Touka for dunya will occur. This is your life. This is your wife in this
life, as well as in the hereafter. So he Allah chosen for the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		

			This was a marriage made in heaven, literally speaking, he was made in heaven. Allah, you know made
this marriage happen of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and I shall read the Allahu anha.
So the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam loved her dearly, why because she she gave preference
to
		

			preference to the ACA over the dunya you know the famous incident regarding which there are verses
in the Quran, when some of the wives because of extreme poverty and you know, going through a credit
crunch or financial crisis, many of the wives they ask for an increase in the nataka in expenditure.
So, the messenger SallAllahu annual verses were revealed and the messenger SallAllahu wasallam
addressed all his wives and he said,
		

			Yeah, you have Nebby only as logic Allah says to the messenger, O Prophet only as virginica in
container to regional higher to dunya was INETA Fatah arlena vumatel Hakuna what was guna Soran
Jamila, when can tuna to didn't Allah Azza wa rasuluh Adara Akira for in Allah who are dead in
masina team and couldn't earlier on Halima Oh, a wives if you prefer if you want in continue to
regional higher to dunya if you want the life of this world, then have it you know Tarina you can
you can have the life of this world but then you can't stay with me. This is why the messenger
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to all his wives who Matera Hakuna will also read Quran surah hon
		

			Jamila, I will
		

			leave all of you I will set you free all of you in a nice way. There's no hard feelings as normally
divorce should be. And then he said wine continue to didna la hora Sula, but if you want Allah and
His Messenger, when continue to written Allahu wa Hara, and you want the real life, the eternal life
life of the hereafter, then you need to struggle in this life, this that you need to sacrifice, you
have to give a bit of sacrifice for in Allah who are dealing with Center team and going around Alima
because Allah has verily
		

			gathered great reward and stored great reward and prepared great reward for the Center for the good
duel doers in the orchestra.
		

			The messenger SallAllahu wasallam first went to Arusha Radi Allahu anha and informed her of this and
said, You know what, don't make your decision go and ask your parents first. And then come back with
with the decision do you want to stay with me? Or you don't want to? She said Yeah, Rasul Allah. Is
this something I need to ask my parents about? Without our charity of course.
		

			Hola, hola. Sula, and I prefer to give preference to Allah and His messenger and after over this
life, but she said you know what? Please don't really my answer to the otherwise if you if you go if
they ask you what I said, because she loved the messenger. So Allahu Allah is so much that she
wanted him for herself completely. So she was hope
		

			mean that they will say something else so he leaves all of them. But that's natural no problem of
course. So, the message is that Allah when you say look, I won't tell them but if they do ask me
then you know, I will have to tell them the truth I have been sent to make ease. So anyway, all the
wives chose Allah and His messenger and Ankara. But this shows that they gave preference to
sacrifice and poverty. They lived a life of poverty are Aisha Radi Allahu Allah despite being
married to the most prominent figure, seriously, listen to this. The most prominent figure like
nowadays, you know, many people want to marry you know, prominent figures, yet because of the wealth
		

			because of the riches in many
		

			instances. So, he was the most prominent figure yet despite that, the leader of the Muslims, the
leader of the Muslims,
		

			and the leader of Medina and the Rasul of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, despite that she lived
a life of extreme poverty. And she underwent hunger and thirst to the point that there's a hadith
where she says that three months would pass by and we would not have anything to eat at home except
date and water. Subhan Allah, just imagine living in the house of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, because the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he preferred poverty, over riches
overreaches, and he was poor by choice, remember who it was not enforced upon him. Allah subhanho wa
taala, sent to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam if you want to, we will make the whole two
		

			mountains of our herd and transfer them into golden give it to you, you can have the riches of the
world. But he chose poverty, over wealth and riches, he'll like to live a life of poverty, of
humility, of humbleness, and he made sure that he his wives as well have this quality within them.
And he so this this is the type of life Irish doesn't do karate Allah Allah lived and this in this
there's a lesson as well for our sisters, that yes, of course. We need to make ends meet. But you
know, if there's if there's a struggle in life, then remember this life is short and brief. Remember
the hardships and the poverty? The Companions Radi Allahu Anhu I'm the messenger sallallahu alayhi
		

			wa sallam, the wives of the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam went through the Messenger of
Allah why do you send them said used to love our inshallah the Allahu Allah has so much he said falu
are Isha Allah Nisa II got formerly a 3d artist at the time this is in the area of normal Buhari,
the preference for the virtue of our Isha over and above all the women is like the virtue of a food
called fried, above all other types of food. I don't know if you guys know what three days but 3d is
like you know, when you have a bit of curry and you take a bit of Chowpatty into pieces and you eat
it.
		

			The messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam preferred ferried all above all different types of food.
And the reason was because that eat was considered to be a complete type of meal. And hence the
resemblance that are Aisha Radi Allahu anha. She was an example. She was an example of what a Muslim
woman should be like seriously. Now messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. There are many, many, you
know other instances that show that His love and His affection for our Chateau de la junta and also
one very important area of her life that we need to learn from ALLAH SubhanA wa Dyana blessed her
with great insight, great intelligence, eloquence she had she had an extremely sharp and strong
		

			memory. And she surpassed and excelled and
		

			went ahead of most of the companions, men and women included seriously, men and women male Sahaba
and the female Sahara Pradhan Allah here at image Marine. She surpassed many companions in
scholarship in intelligence in learning Shimadzu hurry, there's a great hack this ATAR bury him I
was Zuhdi he says no Jumia primo nurse equally him well as Raji Nabi SallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam
for curnutt Arusha was the was the art home element. If you want to gather on one side, the
knowledge the scholarship, the understanding of all the people including the all the wives of the
messenger, sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and on one side you put the knowledge of Arusha, her
		

			knowledge would excel and supersede their knowledge in sunnah telemovie. Abu Musa Ashanti Ravi
Allahu Anhu the great companion, he says, What are the Allahu Anhu mashallah Alena as herbal
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam Hadith to our Isha Illa Arjuna into her Minho element
		

			We never will be stuck with a hadith when we do not understand something in a hadith of Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we would go to artigianale Allahu anha and we would find by had some
knowledge regarding that hadith she would make things easy for us all who have been Zubayr Radi
Allahu anhu, the nephew of Arusha, so DECA and a student of Arusha so these are the Allahu anha says
Moto E to our hidden Bill Qurani what have you forgotten? What are we learning? What are we fixing?
What are we sharing? Bala? Between me and what are the Hadith in Arab? What an SOP mean? Arusha? I
don't know anyone who is more knowledgeable than Irish or the Allahu Anhu in regards to the
		

			knowledge of the Quran, regarding the knowledge of Hadith regarding the knowledge of the lawful and
unlawful in regards to the knowledge of fic in regards to the knowledge of
		

			poetry, SHA in regards to the knowledge of medicine, in regards to the knowledge of the theory, the
history of the Arabs, and the history of the unsub the lineage of the Arabs. I don't know anyone who
has more knowledge than Irish on the Allahu anha. In these matters, she used to be from the
Mujahideen Sahaba she used to give fatwa in a time of war in the time of Abu Bakr and Omar Radi
Allahu anha she used to be moved here. Seriously you can have you know, like yesterday somebody
asked me a sister. Can women be moved here? I said of course I shall have the Allahu Mourinho was a
greatest moved here. We need we need female with tears in his time and seriously sisters have a lot
		

			of talent and they have this zeal I don't know how it is here but in the UK you know when we
whenever we have events and causes we see normally cross the country sisters you see more you know
mashallah having this the zeal to come and learn. We have a course for like two days, three days a
week, we'll have like 200 Brothers, but it'll be 400 Sisters, we always have more sisters. They have
this this zeal to learn so excelling knowledge, and this is the Sunnah of Arusha, the Allahu anha,
even medicine she knew she had extreme amount of knowledge in regards to medicine. She also pointed
out to make mistakes of many companions are the Allahu Anhu. She was eloquent Kenneth fussy Hassan
		

			eloquence. She used to be a very good public speaker. So usually it's documented in the books. She
gave a hoot about once in amongst 1000s of companions Radi Allahu Anhu. She used to know poetry. She
used to love poetry. She memorized like many, many aside and lines of poetry from Jerry Lee from the
days of ignorance and earlier on. So she was
		

			very knowledgeable and had a very sharp memory and very intelligent another great quality of hers
was honesty. And this is why she is called a Siddiqa. Honesty, she was truthful, whatever is here,
it's on the mouth. She never has to be cunning or sly or anything like that. She was very to the
point nice, pleasant, but to the point and honest, her student one of her students, she had many,
many students and many companions, great companions, males, however, the Allahu Anhu would come and
learn from her one of the companions or one of the students, masu who is a tabby Nora companion. He
says, Whenever he relates a Hadith from her whenever he relates a Hadith from her we find this in
		

			books or Hadith, her Hadith in Bukhari sahih of Imam Al Bukhari and Sahih Muslim and elsewhere in
many books of Hadith. Whenever he relates a Hadith from her, he doesn't just say Asha will not mean
the Mother of the Believers. He says, Every time and each time had the 30 or so deeper to even to
sit deep Habiba to Habibollah and mobile to him in focus. So my word, I have been informed by the
Siddiqa the truthful, the daughter of acidic the truthful Habiba to Habibollah the beloved of the
Beloved of Allah Allahu Bara. TermInfo is somewhat the one who's
		

			from the heavens, whom Allah subhanaw taala considered to be innocent and you know, the whole
episode and the event regarding which Allah has mentioned the Quran, she was extremely humble, never
arrogant, should we she would weep greatly in her later latter part of her life because of certain
errors of judgment that she considered she made. She made it was clear that when I pass away, please
don't bury me in the Rohde where the messenger sallallahu alayhi salam is buried because I made many
mistakes and I don't feel right that I should be buried there. I'm a very sinful person bury me in
the genital Bukhari. She was humble she had extreme intelligence and extreme amount of knowledge yet
		

			mutawa they are humble, great o'clock and character she had she never used to back by it. It's
documented. Rarely will she back by never backed by she was generous. Once 100,000 dinar came to her
she gave it away in charity before before the night. She was a great worship of Allah subhanaw taala
spending her night in a yarmulke hatred Salah she used to wake up at night with the messenger
Salallahu Alaihe Salam and later on in her life as well. She used to worship Allah she used to
constantly fast and these are the kinds of examples brothers and sisters we need to take specially
the sisters from the great
		

			It woman Arusha Radi Allahu Allah. dedicate your life to Islam dedicate your life to Allah subhana
wa Tada dedicate your life to the messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and learn from some of the
examples of these great OMA hurtle. Momineen or the Allahu Anhu not only with this inshallah and I
pray to Allah Subhana Allah that Allah subhanaw taala bless all of you and bless me in sha Allah and
accept your endeavors for coming here and that we learn and we implement my time is up but it's very
important that we implement you know when we come to these kinds of events the most important thing
is that when we go back we shouldn't this is just a means to an end. This is just a means and and is
		

			that when we take go back from here, we take lessons and we implement those lessons and messages in
our life inshallah Hudak already heard our stuff Roma was on Allahu wa salam ala Sayyidina Muhammad
right. It was Sunday Sunday was salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.