Muhammad Al Durrah – Be Ready for the Coming Future! Isha Khatira

Muhammad Al Durrah
Share Page

AI: Summary ©

Buqah Al Khayf recounts his son's death, which was a sad incident, and mentions that the Shariah Council will cover the expenses of the grave. He later talks about his son's death, which was a sad incident, and how he had a family visit with a woman who was not Muslim. He also talks about his son's death, which was a sad incident, and how he was instructed to write a piece of paper in the presence of the church. He reminds people of the expiration of the church's rule on their property and the importance of forgiveness, and offers advice on forgiveness.

AI: Summary ©

00:00:00 --> 00:00:02
			Sabah Al Khayf. Good morning.
		
00:00:05 --> 00:00:06
			Someone entered to his friend,
		
00:00:08 --> 00:00:10
			and he said to him Sabah Al Khayf
		
00:00:10 --> 00:00:11
			after he said, Salaam Alaikum.
		
00:00:12 --> 00:00:13
			He said, Are you joking?
		
00:00:15 --> 00:00:16
			Then he responded,
		
00:00:17 --> 00:00:18
			as soon as I saw your face,
		
00:00:19 --> 00:00:20
			I thought it's morning.
		
00:00:54 --> 00:00:56
			Muqatil ibn Sulaiman,
		
00:00:57 --> 00:00:58
			one of the Mufasirreen
		
00:00:59 --> 00:01:00
			and one of the scholars
		
00:01:00 --> 00:01:01
			of Tabi'in,
		
00:01:02 --> 00:01:05
			he went to Abu Ja'far al Mansur, the
		
00:01:05 --> 00:01:07
			2nd Khalifa in the Abbasid time.
		
00:01:08 --> 00:01:09
			And
		
00:01:09 --> 00:01:11
			Abu Ja'far asked him
		
00:01:11 --> 00:01:13
			to give him maww'eha,
		
00:01:13 --> 00:01:15
			to remind him.
		
00:01:19 --> 00:01:20
			By the way, Muqatal
		
00:01:22 --> 00:01:23
			is from Afghanistan,
		
00:01:25 --> 00:01:27
			from a city called Balkh,
		
00:01:28 --> 00:01:28
			Al Balqi,
		
00:01:29 --> 00:01:29
			Rahimahullah.
		
00:01:31 --> 00:01:32
			Sadia Amir al Mu'mineen,
		
00:01:32 --> 00:01:34
			you want me to advise you.
		
00:01:35 --> 00:01:37
			From what I heard
		
00:01:38 --> 00:01:39
			or from what I saw,
		
00:01:40 --> 00:01:41
			which one is stronger, Ashabab?
		
00:01:43 --> 00:01:44
			Something you you saw.
		
00:01:45 --> 00:01:47
			He said, from what you saw,
		
00:02:05 --> 00:02:06
			Under him
		
00:02:06 --> 00:02:08
			was the biggest empire
		
00:02:08 --> 00:02:09
			at that time,
		
00:02:10 --> 00:02:10
			Radiallahu
		
00:02:11 --> 00:02:11
			Anhu Ardha
		
00:02:12 --> 00:02:15
			said, and he left 11 kids
		
00:02:16 --> 00:02:17
			with
		
00:02:17 --> 00:02:19
			only 18 dinars.
		
00:02:20 --> 00:02:23
			Imagine the khalifa of that huge empire.
		
00:02:24 --> 00:02:27
			He left only 18 dinars for his kids.
		
00:02:27 --> 00:02:29
			And they asked him before he passed away,
		
00:02:30 --> 00:02:32
			why don't you leave money for your kids?
		
00:02:32 --> 00:02:34
			He said, I left for them at Taqwa.
		
00:02:40 --> 00:02:41
			So he said,
		
00:02:42 --> 00:02:42
			they spent
		
00:02:43 --> 00:02:45
			5 dinars for the kiffin
		
00:02:46 --> 00:02:48
			and 4 dinars for the qadr, for the
		
00:02:48 --> 00:02:49
			grave.
		
00:02:49 --> 00:02:51
			And how much left the Ashabab?
		
00:02:53 --> 00:02:53
			9.
		
00:02:54 --> 00:02:55
			9 for 11 kids.
		
00:02:57 --> 00:02:58
			On the other hand,
		
00:02:58 --> 00:02:59
			Hisham
		
00:02:59 --> 00:03:01
			ibn Abdul Malik also was a Khalifa,
		
00:03:03 --> 00:03:04
			and he left 11 kids.
		
00:03:06 --> 00:03:08
			And for each one of his kids,
		
00:03:09 --> 00:03:09
			1,000,000.
		
00:03:13 --> 00:03:14
			Then they listen.
		
00:03:17 --> 00:03:18
			By Allah.
		
00:03:19 --> 00:03:21
			That I saw in one day,
		
00:03:22 --> 00:03:23
			one of after years,
		
00:03:24 --> 00:03:26
			one of the kids of Umar ibn Abdul
		
00:03:26 --> 00:03:27
			Aziz
		
00:03:27 --> 00:03:28
			giving 100
		
00:03:29 --> 00:03:31
			horses for the sake of Allah.
		
00:03:34 --> 00:03:36
			And one of the children, one of the
		
00:03:36 --> 00:03:40
			kids of Hisham ibn Abdul Marek asking people
		
00:03:40 --> 00:03:41
			to give him sadaqah in the street.
		
00:03:42 --> 00:03:43
			May Allah
		
00:03:43 --> 00:03:45
			bless and protect all of our kids.
		
00:03:46 --> 00:03:47
			Now, you Shabab,
		
00:03:47 --> 00:03:49
			you want me to tell you something from
		
00:03:49 --> 00:03:51
			what I heard or from what I saw?
		
00:03:52 --> 00:03:54
			From what I saw.
		
00:03:55 --> 00:03:55
			One day,
		
00:03:57 --> 00:04:00
			someone, long time ago, came to US. I
		
00:04:00 --> 00:04:02
			don't want to mention the exact name, but
		
00:04:02 --> 00:04:03
			let's say Mohammed.
		
00:04:04 --> 00:04:06
			And he got to know a lady who
		
00:04:06 --> 00:04:07
			is not Muslim,
		
00:04:08 --> 00:04:10
			and he decided to choose her as a
		
00:04:10 --> 00:04:12
			wife. She is Christian,
		
00:04:13 --> 00:04:15
			but he was too busy with the dunya,
		
00:04:16 --> 00:04:18
			trying to make sure that his kids will
		
00:04:18 --> 00:04:18
			be
		
00:04:19 --> 00:04:20
			rich, will have money.
		
00:04:21 --> 00:04:24
			And the lady was so busy with the
		
00:04:24 --> 00:04:24
			kids.
		
00:04:25 --> 00:04:27
			Allah blessed him with Abdullah
		
00:04:28 --> 00:04:28
			Fatima,
		
00:04:29 --> 00:04:31
			Amira, you know, 4 kids.
		
00:04:32 --> 00:04:34
			After years, he got sick,
		
00:04:35 --> 00:04:37
			and his brother decided to go and to
		
00:04:37 --> 00:04:38
			visit him.
		
00:04:39 --> 00:04:40
			The wife
		
00:04:43 --> 00:04:45
			did not give a chance for the brother
		
00:04:45 --> 00:04:47
			to visit his own brother.
		
00:04:48 --> 00:04:49
			And, subhanallah,
		
00:04:50 --> 00:04:50
			this
		
00:04:51 --> 00:04:52
			this brother passed away.
		
00:04:54 --> 00:04:55
			When we heard that he passed away,
		
00:04:56 --> 00:04:59
			we went there, and we tried our best
		
00:04:59 --> 00:05:02
			to convince the lady, because his brother told
		
00:05:02 --> 00:05:03
			us, if you don't go to take my
		
00:05:03 --> 00:05:06
			brother to the Masjid, they will take him
		
00:05:06 --> 00:05:07
			to somewhere else.
		
00:05:08 --> 00:05:11
			We tried our best to convince the lady
		
00:05:11 --> 00:05:13
			to give us the chance
		
00:05:13 --> 00:05:15
			to give him his right as Muslim.
		
00:05:17 --> 00:05:19
			She said, you know what? Since you came,
		
00:05:20 --> 00:05:21
			I will honor your visit,
		
00:05:22 --> 00:05:24
			and I have I will have a meeting
		
00:05:24 --> 00:05:25
			with my family,
		
00:05:25 --> 00:05:28
			with my kids. Tomorrow, we will give you
		
00:05:28 --> 00:05:29
			the answer.
		
00:05:30 --> 00:05:32
			That was on Wednesday.
		
00:05:33 --> 00:05:34
			Thursday,
		
00:05:36 --> 00:05:37
			I did not receive any news.
		
00:05:38 --> 00:05:39
			I called
		
00:05:39 --> 00:05:40
			the number of
		
00:05:41 --> 00:05:42
			the
		
00:05:42 --> 00:05:42
			daughter
		
00:05:43 --> 00:05:46
			who was, you know, knowledgeable person.
		
00:05:46 --> 00:05:48
			Assalamu alaikum,
		
00:05:48 --> 00:05:51
			sister Mariam. I don't wanna say the mentions
		
00:05:51 --> 00:05:52
			in the name, so you wanna mix it.
		
00:05:53 --> 00:05:53
			Mariam,
		
00:05:54 --> 00:05:55
			I know you love your dad
		
00:05:56 --> 00:05:57
			and you want to honor him.
		
00:05:58 --> 00:06:00
			Please give us the chance
		
00:06:00 --> 00:06:03
			to, you know, do the process in the
		
00:06:03 --> 00:06:04
			Islamic way.
		
00:06:04 --> 00:06:06
			And if you think about the money,
		
00:06:06 --> 00:06:09
			the Islamic Shariah Council will cover all of
		
00:06:09 --> 00:06:11
			the expenses for the grave.
		
00:06:12 --> 00:06:14
			I left the message for this sister,
		
00:06:16 --> 00:06:18
			and she responded to the phone of the
		
00:06:18 --> 00:06:19
			masjid.
		
00:06:20 --> 00:06:21
			She left the message,
		
00:06:22 --> 00:06:24
			you we decided
		
00:06:24 --> 00:06:27
			to take our father to the church,
		
00:06:28 --> 00:06:30
			and we will put him in the grave
		
00:06:30 --> 00:06:32
			of the Christian, you know, cemetery.
		
00:06:33 --> 00:06:34
			You are not allowed
		
00:06:35 --> 00:06:37
			to come close to our property
		
00:06:38 --> 00:06:39
			or our family,
		
00:06:40 --> 00:06:40
			period.
		
00:06:41 --> 00:06:43
			Allah yashabab. The day of Jum'ah, I was
		
00:06:43 --> 00:06:44
			giving the Khutba,
		
00:06:45 --> 00:06:46
			and the brother, Muhammad,
		
00:06:48 --> 00:06:49
			was in the church.
		
00:06:50 --> 00:06:52
			Masa. What we learn from this?
		
00:06:53 --> 00:06:53
			1st,
		
00:06:54 --> 00:06:55
			don't let your desire
		
00:06:57 --> 00:07:00
			to guide you to an end like this.
		
00:07:04 --> 00:07:06
			If you already have a wife
		
00:07:07 --> 00:07:08
			who is not Muslim,
		
00:07:08 --> 00:07:09
			Muslima,
		
00:07:10 --> 00:07:12
			write a piece of paper for us, for
		
00:07:12 --> 00:07:13
			the masjid,
		
00:07:13 --> 00:07:14
			and, you know,
		
00:07:15 --> 00:07:17
			tell them that you have the,
		
00:07:17 --> 00:07:19
			you know, give the right for the Muslim
		
00:07:19 --> 00:07:22
			community to take you to the masjid to
		
00:07:22 --> 00:07:23
			pray for your salat al janaazah.
		
00:07:24 --> 00:07:26
			Because we called CAIR at that time, they
		
00:07:26 --> 00:07:28
			said we cannot do anything if he did
		
00:07:28 --> 00:07:29
			not leave the wasi'yah.
		
00:07:30 --> 00:07:32
			So for those who already
		
00:07:32 --> 00:07:34
			have this relationship,
		
00:07:34 --> 00:07:36
			make sure to write in the wasi'yah
		
00:07:36 --> 00:07:37
			that you want
		
00:07:38 --> 00:07:40
			yourself to be with the Muslims, insha Allahu
		
00:07:40 --> 00:07:42
			Ta'ala. 2nd thing,
		
00:07:43 --> 00:07:44
			for our young brothers,
		
00:07:46 --> 00:07:47
			also the sisters, subhanAllah,
		
00:07:48 --> 00:07:48
			who are
		
00:07:49 --> 00:07:50
			ready for marriage,
		
00:07:51 --> 00:07:53
			but they can't because we made
		
00:07:54 --> 00:07:54
			Zawad
		
00:07:55 --> 00:07:56
			hard on them.
		
00:07:57 --> 00:07:59
			If I ask the brothers here, because some
		
00:07:59 --> 00:08:01
			of the brothers they leave because they don't
		
00:08:01 --> 00:08:02
			wanna be embarrassed,
		
00:08:03 --> 00:08:05
			If I ask how many of our young
		
00:08:05 --> 00:08:06
			brothers
		
00:08:06 --> 00:08:07
			who are
		
00:08:08 --> 00:08:11
			ready for zawad, for marriage, but they cannot
		
00:08:11 --> 00:08:13
			because of the chains
		
00:08:13 --> 00:08:14
			of our culture?
		
00:08:15 --> 00:08:16
			A lot.
		
00:08:16 --> 00:08:17
			If I ask them
		
00:08:19 --> 00:08:21
			to raise their hands, we will be surprised.
		
00:08:21 --> 00:08:23
			Why don't we make the zawaj easy?
		
00:08:24 --> 00:08:26
			The doors of Haram are open,
		
00:08:27 --> 00:08:28
			and we will be asked in front of
		
00:08:28 --> 00:08:30
			Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, about this.
		
00:08:31 --> 00:08:33
			And this is not giving the shabaab
		
00:08:33 --> 00:08:35
			the right to go
		
00:08:35 --> 00:08:37
			in the haram doors.
		
00:08:37 --> 00:08:39
			So we have to try our best
		
00:08:40 --> 00:08:42
			to fear Allah and to make it easy.
		
00:08:42 --> 00:08:44
			And I would like to end with this
		
00:08:44 --> 00:08:44
			hadith,
		
00:08:58 --> 00:09:00
			Would you like me to tell you about
		
00:09:00 --> 00:09:03
			the evil people or the worst people? They
		
00:09:03 --> 00:09:04
			said, yes, You Rasool Allah, if you want
		
00:09:04 --> 00:09:06
			to. He said, This
		
00:09:08 --> 00:09:09
			brother
		
00:09:09 --> 00:09:12
			decided to establish his business
		
00:09:13 --> 00:09:15
			in a village far away from the Muslim
		
00:09:15 --> 00:09:16
			community.
		
00:09:17 --> 00:09:20
			So there's no Masjid, no Quran, no halaqa,
		
00:09:20 --> 00:09:22
			no brothers, no sisters, Sarawans, and this is
		
00:09:22 --> 00:09:23
			one of the results.
		
00:09:25 --> 00:09:27
			The one who goes by himself
		
00:09:27 --> 00:09:28
			alone,
		
00:09:28 --> 00:09:31
			away from the Muslim community, from the jama'ah.
		
00:09:35 --> 00:09:37
			Means he is so harsh.
		
00:09:37 --> 00:09:41
			Could be harsh to toward his family, his
		
00:09:41 --> 00:09:42
			people, his workers,
		
00:09:42 --> 00:09:45
			and Yama Urufdha, the stingy person,
		
00:09:46 --> 00:09:47
			Al Baqil.
		
00:09:47 --> 00:09:48
			Then he said,
		
00:09:51 --> 00:09:52
			would you like me to tell you about
		
00:09:52 --> 00:09:54
			worse than that? He said, yes, You Rasool
		
00:09:54 --> 00:09:56
			Allah, if you want
		
00:09:59 --> 00:09:59
			to.
		
00:10:02 --> 00:10:04
			The one who hates people,
		
00:10:04 --> 00:10:07
			and people hate him. May Allah subhanahu wa
		
00:10:07 --> 00:10:10
			ta'ala put, you know, his love in our
		
00:10:10 --> 00:10:10
			hearts.
		
00:10:13 --> 00:10:15
			We should love each other for the sake
		
00:10:15 --> 00:10:15
			of Allah,
		
00:10:16 --> 00:10:18
			to avoid this, you know, kind of people.
		
00:10:18 --> 00:10:19
			Then he says,
		
00:10:23 --> 00:10:25
			He said, would you like me to tell
		
00:10:25 --> 00:10:28
			you worse than that? He said, he said,
		
00:10:32 --> 00:10:33
			means
		
00:10:34 --> 00:10:37
			if you see someone is, you know, drowning
		
00:10:38 --> 00:10:39
			and you don't care,
		
00:10:40 --> 00:10:42
			And this person could be a family member,
		
00:10:42 --> 00:10:43
			could be a brother who is in need
		
00:10:43 --> 00:10:46
			for your help, could be in the business
		
00:10:46 --> 00:10:49
			wide, in the education wide, in the akhlaq,
		
00:10:49 --> 00:10:51
			in the deen, in any matter. If you
		
00:10:51 --> 00:10:53
			have a chance to save someone,
		
00:10:57 --> 00:10:57
			May Allah
		
00:10:58 --> 00:11:00
			give us the help all. And he says,
		
00:11:05 --> 00:11:07
			If someone goes to him and say, Yaqi,
		
00:11:07 --> 00:11:10
			I'm sorry. It could be, as I said,
		
00:11:10 --> 00:11:11
			between the family.
		
00:11:11 --> 00:11:14
			A wife may ask her husband to forgive
		
00:11:14 --> 00:11:16
			her, and he does not care. He closed
		
00:11:16 --> 00:11:18
			all of the doors. A father
		
00:11:18 --> 00:11:20
			who may receive the apology from his son
		
00:11:20 --> 00:11:23
			or daughter says, no way. Because of what
		
00:11:23 --> 00:11:25
			you did, I will not forgive you ever.
		
00:11:25 --> 00:11:26
			SubhanAllah.
		
00:11:26 --> 00:11:28
			We have to forgive each other.
		
00:11:29 --> 00:11:31
			For that, we will gain the forgiveness of
		
00:11:31 --> 00:11:31
			Allah.