Mufti Menk – When I Was Three Years Old

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The speaker describes a situation where their mother used to tell them to walk around the compound and apologizes for their mistakes. They describe their mother as a rough looking man and mention a situation where their child was confrontational and confrontational.

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			Know, when I was little, my mom used
		
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			to say that when I was 3 years
		
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			old, I used to walk around the whole
		
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			compound. My dad was imam in the masjid,
		
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			and I was, mashallah, this I'm talking about
		
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			the early seventies, the mid seventies, inshallah.
		
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			Somebody here actually knew my date of birth,
		
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			subhanallah.
		
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			Now there's a there's a there's a boy
		
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			here,
		
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			and he just says,
		
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			I was born on the same day as
		
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			you. And he was right. Subhanallah. Masha Allah.
		
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			Masha Allah. Well done.
		
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			Inshallah, you'll be better than I am, you
		
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			know. But
		
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			my mother used to say,
		
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			or my mother told me that when you
		
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			were little, 3 years old, you used to
		
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			go around walking the whole compound. Anyone you
		
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			say, salaam alaikum, salaam alaikum, salaam. Until one
		
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			of her friends came home to complain, your
		
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			son,
		
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			little boy walking all around the compound greeting,
		
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			assalamu alaikum, assalamu alaikum, assalamu alaikum, assalamu alaikum,
		
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			assalamu alaikum. He's forcing us to greet back
		
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			and so on. My mother says, it's okay,
		
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			tolerate him. Masha Allah.
		
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			That was me.
		
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			And I think to myself, I wonder why
		
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			I used to do that. Probably was just
		
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			impressed.
		
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			Can you imagine a little boy walking around?
		
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			So I I when I looked at that
		
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			aunt, may Allah
		
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			give a a good life, she's still alive.
		
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			I wanted to tell
		
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			her, instead of going to my mother and
		
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			telling her, oh, so cute. You went to
		
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			complain. Can you imagine? Allahu Akbar. I must
		
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			have been quite a rough looking guy then,
		
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			man.