Mufti Menk – The right way to get a Divorce

			Allah subhanaw taala gives us guidance and the Holy Quran and save him secondary maruf in Audacity
mbsfn. We do understand him secondary model that is one year together but we hardly see the 300
Hassan Allah, people divorcing in a very in a way that pleases Allah. So what is the right way to
get a divorce? And what is the best methodology that pleases Allah according to the Quran? So
divorce is not recommended in any and every scenario. But when the relationship has become toxic,
and as a last resort, it's permissible in Islam. It's not frowned upon. So people say no, you know,
how could you divorce actually, we could divorce if that is the last resort, we could actually
		

			divorce and go through it, but what we need to know is be respectable, responsible, it is not the
end of the world, you are not the first person to divorce and you will not be the last one. If you
have children, there is a very big act of worship that you are going to need to engage in, known as
allowing the other spouse, whether it is custody or access of the children, without hindrance with a
good heart. Both sides need to have a good heart. Sometimes we learn from some non Muslims, where
they are more respectful after a divorce, then Muslims, Muslims become so ugly, that it can break a
community sometimes, because maybe a chef's daughter married another chef's son, and if they
		

			divorced, the two chefs stopped speaking I just an example. And that shouldn't be because divorce is
not the end of the world. If you look at the Sahaba of the Allahu Anhu. When they went through
divorce, they were so respectful. They were very respectful even in divorce. We need to also be
cognizant of the Quranic injunction at the SRI Han basin when you are releasing someone do it with
goodness. And bear in mind, you know, you were intimate together you You came together with the name
of Allah with the witnesses in the planet in the way that Allah has asked you to. So how can you
just release someone kick them and try and harm them after that divorce? Let them have a good life.
		

			Allah will provide this one and this one like Allah subhanho wa Taala says, we're in yet a Farakka
ugni LA who couldn't learn mincer it that when they do separate and divorce Allah will provide both
of them from his father and his broad you know gift.
		

			It doesn't mean because you're divorced. It's the most people after they've divorced they find
another spouse who's better than the previous one. But again, it's it's an effort and dedication.
Don't give up keep looking keep hunting, keep checking, keep trying and no problem Allah will grant
you a regular fee.