Mubeen Kamani – Successful Are the Believers

Mubeen Kamani
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The importance of understanding success and finding a connection to one's wealth and family is emphasized. The deception of success is dangerous and can lead to negative outcomes, and success in the d point is measured by working on one's belief. concentration is key in achieving success, and individuals should focus on their belief and not just negative thoughts. The speaker emphasizes the importance of knowing one's power and strength, measuring success by their belief in Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, and registering for the Grand Contest.
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Assalamu

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alaikum.

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Allahu Akbar.

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Allahu

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Akbar,

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We start out by praising Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, the one who is worthy of all

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of our praise and our gratitude is Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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who guides us to the path which is

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pleasing to us which is pleasing to him.

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We then send peace and blessings to the

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prophet

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the one that was sent as a mercy

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to mankind as a mercy to the world,

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who taught us how to worship Allah

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and how to interact with one another. We

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then send peace and blessing upon the companions

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of Rasoolallah

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and his family members, those who helped him

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aided him, umabah thereafter.

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In our life, when we look at

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success,

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and we try to gauge,

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am I successful? And this is a very

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difficult question because

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the answer is tough.

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And it's tough for a few reasons. Number

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1,

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the gauging metrics

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of success

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sometimes is incorrect.

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And number 2, the answer itself is a

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tough pill to swallow.

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Usually, when we think about success, 2 things

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come to mind. And number 1 is, of

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course, wealth.

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How much money do I have?

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For the past 30 years of my life,

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the past 40, 50 years of my life,

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if I were to put a price tag

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on it, what would that price tag look

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like?

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A $400,000

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house,

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a $50,000

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car,

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maybe

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a few 1,000 in my bank account. Is

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that the value of my life?

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And now this becomes

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a constant chase where

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to increase the value of your life, you

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you chase after wealth.

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I have, the more justification

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of my success

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I can present to myself.

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And then number 2, the second way that

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we gauge success is through our relationships,

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our children,

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our family,

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and relationships

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not just by blood, but even relationships

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of our friends and the people that

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I influence or I interact with.

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People that follow me.

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We look at the number of followers you

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have on social media, and people actually present

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this. I have

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this many followers.

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This is who I am, and this shows

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you the success level that I'm at.

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But the difficult part about these two things,

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, when he talks about

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wealth and he talks about your relationships,

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his language for these two things are not

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of success.

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Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala when he talks about

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these two things, the language is a little

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bit different, and he describes them with 2

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different words.

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He says,

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your wealth

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and your children.

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They

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are of

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this dunya.

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They beautify this dunya. They make this place

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more enjoyable.

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Another place in the Quran, Allah subhanahu refers

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to them and he says that they are

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a test.

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Sometimes the test can be good and sometimes

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the test can be bad, but he mentioned

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that both of these,

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your wealth and your relationships,

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your family,

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There are a zina and as well as

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they are a test from Allah subhanahu wa

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ta'ala. And if we dive into this a

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little bit further,

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the word zina where something is beautiful. They

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beautify our, you know, you have a nice

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house. You have a nice car. You have

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money.

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This can make life comfortable. And number 1,

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acknowledging

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the beauty of this thing. You see something

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beautiful, and immediately you say,

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You acknowledge beauty.

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But the

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the weird thing of beauty is that beauty

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can be

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a deception.

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Because

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as we all know, beauty doesn't last.

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Something that's beautiful today,

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tomorrow it loses beauty, and it's gone.

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There's a narration that talks about the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam's mother as she's passing

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away, and the final word that she gives

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to him. And she says to him that

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every new thing

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becomes old.

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Everything that has beauty,

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solely solely

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it weathers away.

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A car that used to be in a

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showroom today, today they won't even

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put it into a junkyard.

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You know what? Give it for free. There's

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no value to it.

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A person that was strong yesterday, today they're

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weak.

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A person that was extremely beautiful yesterday, today

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that beauty is gone. And what we learn

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is this clothes that we bought for a

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100 of dollars,

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today they're worth nothing.

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And that's where you understand that beauty the

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deception is beauty is that we think that

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beauty will last, and that's why Allah Subhanahu

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Wa'ala doesn't put success

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in line with

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beauty. Why? Because beauty will leave.

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The second weird thing about beauty or the

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second deception of beauty

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is something that may seem beautiful to you.

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In reality,

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might be harmful to you.

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A person looks at their relationships that they

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have,

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a relationship with their spouse,

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and their spouse,

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again, the beauty that they bring into

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your life,

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it can be unmatched.

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A righteous spouse can either lift you up

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in the eyes of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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encourage you, and that's why the prophet he

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describes

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your relationship with your spouse marriage as half

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of your iman.

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But that same marriage

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and that same spouse

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can then

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be the means of your downfall as well.

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The wealth that can beautify your dunya, it

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can destroy your dunya.

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So you have this deception that something may

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look beautiful and may look attracting,

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but when you get to it, it may

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When you come close, it is the opposite.

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It's dangerous for you.

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For example, in this dunya, you get like

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animals and frogs that look so beautiful, but

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if you were to touch it, the venom

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is to kill you.

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And so every beautiful thing isn't necessarily

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beneficial,

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and that's what Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'am describing

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your wealth

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and your relationship that, yes. They may be

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beautiful, but

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you have to learn to maneuver through it.

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Why? Because

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it can be harmful.

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And the second word that Allah Subhana uses,

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fitna. He

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says that this is a test. And the

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test of wealth and children, the test of

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wealth and relationships

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more than just children, but relationships

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and fame

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is that a person is tested with it

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and a person is tested without it.

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When Allah

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gives you wealth and then when Allah gives

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you fame, it's a test of how you

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maneuver and what it does to your relationship

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with Allah

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So many times we see people that

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are

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connected to Allah, but then money comes into

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their life, and that person changes.

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You see people that were really good people,

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but then when money comes into your life,

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they change.

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When fame comes into their life,

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this person was a very friendly person that

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gave everybody time. But now that this person

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has some fame,

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they can't make time for people.

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But then you flip that over, Allah Subhana

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also test a person that he doesn't give

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it to.

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Somebody that doesn't have wealth, that person is

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tested as well.

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A person that doesn't have fame, that person

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is tested.

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And the test is that the absence or

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the presence of these 2, how does it

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affect your relationship with Allah

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The increase of wealth

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and the increase of fame doesn't have an

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effect on your relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala.

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And the reality is,

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sometimes with our relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, we're like a little toddler.

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Asks me for something, and

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I give it to him, he responds back

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by saying, you're the best in the world.

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And if I don't give it to him,

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he runs through his mother.

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And I look at that

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mindset of a little child, and I think

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to myself, this is the same mindset that

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I have with Allah

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That when Allah gives me something,

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my relationship increases my

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my strength of my relationship increase Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala. And when Allah doesn't give it

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to me, I turn to other means.

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My wealth,

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my family, I turn to other means to

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gain that same thing.

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That verily the believers are successful.

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And this part right here, this ayah, this

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first ayah,

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before we go into the description, and today

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we're only gonna touch on one of these

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points.

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But the first part where Allah says,

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number 1, to be truly successful in this

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dunya,

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it has to start from here.

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It has to start with your belief in

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Allah

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Now belief in Allah is not just

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That gets you into the gates,

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but then working on that iman,

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working on that belief

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is the next step.

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And we learned that the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam so many times, he says that

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a person that doesn't do this, they're not

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a true believer. And a person that does

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this, they're not a true believer. And the

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question is, does this person lead the folds

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of Islam? The answer is no, but their

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iman is still weak.

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Rasool

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Allah says You are not a believer until

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you love for your brother or you love

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for yourself. Meaning that your iman,

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it needs to be worked on. So Allah

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says, you are not a believer until you

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do not subdue your desires to what I

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have brought.

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What I have given you the Quran and

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the Hadith until you do not subdue your

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desire to that, your iman is still incomplete.

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It requires

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some work. Here Allah

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says, The truly successful people are the people

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that believe remember this belief will have levels.

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And as

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you work on that belief, and as you

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work on that iman, you begin to climb

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the ladder of success.

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And then Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala in the

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next verse, he talks about

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how to gain that success.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,

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those believers

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that when they pray,

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when they stand in front of Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala, they have.

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They they have concentration.

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A person said that the concept of Khushu

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and Sala is something new.

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I don't understand it. It's

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it's foreign concept

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that to concentrate and to be present like

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that. And I said that the answer was

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actually the opposite. Was taught to us from

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day 1.

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When

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you

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walked

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into 1st grade, when you walked into kindergarten,

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the teacher said to you, give me your

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undivided

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attention.

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She asked for Khushu.

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When you sat behind the wheel with your

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father for the first time driving and you

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put that key in, and your father said,

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better concentrate.

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Focus.

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He was asking for

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When you're at home with your spouse and

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your spouse says, can you please put the

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phone away and talk with me? Concentrate. She's

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asking for

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So the concept of is it's not nothing

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new,

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but in every aspect of our life. And

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the beautiful part about is that

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wherever you bring it, it will only beautify

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the action. Of course,

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is at a different level, but in everything

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that you do, it will beautify the concentration

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that you put in, the undivided

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attention that you give. An example of this

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is, tonight, when you go home, you may

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spend an hour with your children.

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Tonight when you go home you may spend

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an hour with your children,

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but the hour with your children

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will vary based off of your.

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If the whole time your mind is preoccupied

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with something else, and you're thinking about something

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else, it's like a person that's standing in

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front

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of Allah but the mind is somewhere else.

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That bond that you build with your child

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will still be, you know, unfortunately

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weak. But if that same amount of time

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you drop everything and you give your concentration

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to your child,

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it's like when we pick up our children,

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we ask the same

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meaningless questions. How was how was your day?

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Good. What do you learn? Stuff. You make

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any friends? No. Okay. Here

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now. So you're in the you're in that

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moment, but you're not in that moment. You're

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doing it. You left work to come pick

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up your child. You drove. You stood in

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that pickup line, but you're not actually doing

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it. So you're in that

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You stood in that pickup line, but you're

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not actually doing it.

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Similarly,

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right now in this masjid,

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we have 3 to 400 people in.

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But the reality is not everybody is gonna

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leave those doors with the same experience.

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The experience that you have will be based

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upon

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one of the factors will be

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your.

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That when we pray salah,

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after we say,

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people will leave here with a different experience.

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You will see one person whose iman and

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whose experience will be,

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you know, elevated.

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Coming to Ramadan,

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couple of months away,

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you will see people that Ramzan will completely

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drink, completely squeeze their heart,

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and they will have a different effect.

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You will pray tarawi next to somebody, but

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that person will be completely vibing in the

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tarawi and the recitation,

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and you're thinking, is it how many records

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is this? Is this are we done yet?

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How long how much longer? Can we get

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the fast reciter?

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So you're doing the same act,

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but the level of concentration

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is what changes

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success and the meaning

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behind the act. And that's what

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is. Is

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a factor of 3 different things.

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To be present

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mind, body, and soul. The absence of any

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of these three things,

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meaning that Khushu

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is not there. Now

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So what if Khooshu is on there? Allah

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in the Quran says,

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may the people who pray be cursed.

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Their mind is somewhere else. They're neglectful. Imagine

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your child talking to you, but the whole

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time they're

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not even looking at you. They're playing their

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fortnite. They're playing their video game, and you

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would say, Britta, focus.

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Have some respect.

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I'm talking to you.

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And similarly,

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while we are

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standing in front of Allah SubhanAllah and Allah

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SubhanAllah is actually talking to us.

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And one of these prophets salallahu alayhi wa

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sallam says, when you recite the verses of

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Surah Fatihah and you say, alhamdulillahirabbalahalim Allah subhanahu

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alhamdulillahirabbalahalim Allah subhanahu alhamdulillahalim, Allah subhanahu

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alhamdulillahalim,

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Allah subhanahu alhamdulillahalim,

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my servant has praised me. And when you

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say,

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he says,

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When you say,

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That

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my servant has glorified me. My servant has

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understood who I am. And when you say,

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He says,

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and give my servant whatever he asks us

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for, and we say

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to the end of the day.

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So you're having a conversation with Allah

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and the way that you would feel disrespected

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if your child was playing Fortnite, in your

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mind, you're actually playing the game of life

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while you're standing in front of Allah

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And this is why 3 things has to

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present.

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Number 1,

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your mind,

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everything else is out.

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Now when

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you pray, you pray peacefully and calmly. A

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person comes into the message of the prophet

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and he prays salah and the prophet says

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go back and pray

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again. It happens 3 times and then

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says calm

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down.

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Don't pray like the chicken that's pecking up

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down up down up down. You're not gonna

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get the real essence of salah. A salah

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like that is actually

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a check mark. I've completed my salah. And

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unfortunately, there are many of us that are

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very punctual in their salah, but for them

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their salah is just a check mark. It's

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a habit.

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And they asked the question that, wait, salah

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is supposed to be this really powerful thing

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that it doesn't help Allah. It's supposed to

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help me. Why? Because Allah

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is a samad. He is independent of my

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worship. If salah is supposed to help me,

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why is it that I pray salah but

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nothing happens?

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The super effective salah, where is it?

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Where where Allah subhanahu wa'ala says

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That salah is supposed to stop me from

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immoral things, but then I can't stop looking

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at immoral things.

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Salah is supposed to stop me from sinning,

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but I'm not I can't quit sinning.

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Maybe something's wrong with Salah.

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Maybe all of this is made up, but

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the reality is the blame is to put

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on upon ourselves

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that you're actually reading it wrong. Now, again,

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reading it wrong, someone might say, well, am

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I supposed to put my hands here or

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after Rakul, am I supposed to raise my

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hands? And we go into these small arguments

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of raising your hand. Is that important? Do

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you do this or do you do this

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or do you do this?

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Don't worry about that.

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Worry about this.

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Worry about where is your heart in that

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moment. Where are your thoughts in that moment?

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Is your body in

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peace in that moment?

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Your body and peace, it's like a person

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who's talking to you, but all the whole

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time they're fidgety.

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They had that fidget spinner, or they're playing

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with their fingers, or they're fixing their hijab

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constantly. And you're like, you don't want to

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just calm down.

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Focus.

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And this is the same thing that Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is asking us.

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And Rasool Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wa Salam.

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In one hadees, he makes mention

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that a person that prays salah, but there's

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absence of hushu.

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That person truly hasn't prayed salah.

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Their salah is still incomplete.

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But now we look at why is

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obtaining who show so difficult.

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I try

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the reality is every single person that prays

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salah, they want to benefit from

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it. Nobody comes into salah and say, you

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know what, I actually don't want to benefit.

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We all want to benefit from salah. And

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as much as we try to take out

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all the thoughts from our mind,

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as much we try to focus, it's actually

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difficult.

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But the reality is, it was never meant

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to be easy.

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Because when difficult things, when you put yourself

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through difficult tasks,

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that's when you come out stronger on the

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other side.

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If you put yourself through easy tasks, let's

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say for example, if you were to go

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home and you were to sit down with

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your child who's in 5th grade, and you

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were to do math with them, but the

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math that you do with them is 1st

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grade math, then what growth would it be?

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But if you were to put them through

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like Russian math or 5th, 6th, 7th grade

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math, and now what they come out with

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is a stronger approach.

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So when you go through that salah

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and you're struggling with your and the reason

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for that struggle

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is the promise of shaitan made to Allah

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That I will come to them from every

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direction.

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I will come from them from ahead of

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them, from behind them, from the right of

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them, from the left of them. And very

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few of them will be able to keep

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themselves safe.

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The one that whispers in the heart and

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those whispers when you're in salah, those whispers

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kick in.

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But there's a reason for that.

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Why is it that in salah is when

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shaitan goes full,

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you

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know, pedal to the metal?

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And the answer to that is, this is

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where you're getting closer to Allah

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and he doesn't want that. Pray it correctly,

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then this will stop you from immoral acts.

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This will stop you from sinning. This will

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build God consciousness in you,

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which will lead to success

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Where Allah Subhanahu wa'ala says,

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And that's the opposite of what Shaitan wants.

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So to summarize today's qibba,

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we look at success

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through the lens of wealth and relationships.

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But Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says these are

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zina of this dunya and they're a fitna.

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They will make your dunya

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seem better, but that beauty is a deception.

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It can be a deception.

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And that fitna that fitna

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is a test.

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A test for the person who has it

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and the person that doesn't have it. Now,

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in this verse, actually Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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says,

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it's a zina of this world, not a

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zina of the hereafter.

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It will make this world seem better,

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but not necessarily will it benefit you in

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the hereafter. It has the potential.

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Your wealth and your children, they have the

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potential to make your hereafter

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seem better as well. Right way,

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by spending your wealth in the correct manner.

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But Allah SWANAWA talks about success. He says,

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number 1, for success, you have to believe

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in Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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But there are different levels of that belief

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in Allah.

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And the first condition the law puts on

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the number one thing, if you want success,

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then bring in your

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salah. Stop

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multitasking.

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Anything

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that we do, we multitask. Even when you're

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watching a

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when you're watching

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a movie or watching TV,

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you ask yourself do I multitask at that

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time as well?

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I saw somebody

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watching something on TV with a tablet and

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checking their social media,

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and now what you're left with a jack

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of all trades

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by master of none.

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You ask this person what's happening there? What's

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happening there? What's happening there? You know, I'm

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not really

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sure. But that's the way that we've actually,

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unfortunately,

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trained our brains to be over assimilated.

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We're just doing one thing at a time,

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seems very difficult.

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It seems boring.

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So standing in front of Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is talking

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back to us,

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It's towards

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the reason for that and that reason is

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Chetan, because Chetan understands the value of this

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a lot and the benefit that you will

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take away from it.

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And like we said,

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everybody praise.

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But what they take away from that prayer

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is different based off the presence of their

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mind, body, and soul.

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Brothers and sisters,

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in the back, we have a table,

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to help you register to vote if you

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are a resident here.

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You know, your voice matters.

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The strength that we have,

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if you look at Jumasa La at ICF,

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we are one of the very few masjids

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that have 3 Jumasa La's. And the reason

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is that there's just so many people. All

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3 of the salah's have looked back. They

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have people all the way to the back,

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which means the Muslims have numbers.

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And with numbers comes strength.

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With numbers comes power.

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But that power and strength can only be

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useful

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if you actually utilize it, and utilizing utilizing

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that power and that number

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is through our voice.

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So, we have a table out in the

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back. Again, I highly encourage everybody. I, myself,

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I have registered to vote, and so I

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do plan to vote because,

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this plays a, you know

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it makes a difference. Recently,

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the

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Frisco City Council

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allowed us, or you know,

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welcomed us to come and present our stories

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of our relatives

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in Palestine, in

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Gaza. But the reason why they allowed that,

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the reason why that they entertained that, the

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reason why they gave us that stand because

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they understand

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that the Muslim vote matters.

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1000 of Muslims in this city, and the

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Muslim vote has power to it. But that

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power is only if you utilize it.

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It's like you have a very powerful weapon,

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but you don't use it.

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The prophet

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says that

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du'a is a weapon. Salah is a weapon.

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You can gain a lot from it, but

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if you don't use it, it's a waste.

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So I highly rec highly encourage everybody on

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your way out. Please take some time out

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and vote Allah Subhanahu in the Quran. He

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tells us and orders that.

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Oh, Allah,

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we ask for infinite mercy. Oh, Allah, we

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ask you have mercy upon our brother and

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sister in Gaza. Oh, Allah,

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we ask that you fix their matters, oh,

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Allah, Subhanahu wa ta'ala. Don't let Ramzan come

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that they're in the same situation. Oh, Allah,

00:32:45 --> 00:32:46

Allah before you give them the month of

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mercy, oh Allah, we ask that you have

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mercy upon them before that and that you

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remove this difficulty before that. Oh Allah

00:32:52 --> 00:32:54

they have no door to turn to except

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your door. Oh Allah

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they have no one to ask

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from except from you. Oh Allah we ask

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that you grant them success. Oh, Allah Subhanahu

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wa'ala, we ask that you grant them ease.

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Oh, Allah Subhanahu wa'ala, we

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ask that you'd open the eyes of the

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Muslim Ummah towards what happened what's happening in

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Palestine. Oh, Allah. Let the Muslim countries speak

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up and put an end to this. Oh,

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Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala. We ask that you

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you protect us here in America. Oh, Allah,

00:33:20 --> 00:33:21

subhanahu wa ta'ala. We ask that you give

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unity amongst our community. Oh, Allah, subhanahu wa

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ta'ala. We ask that you guide our youth.

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Oh, Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala. We ask for

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actions that bring us close to you. Oh,

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. We seek protection from

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actions that gain us your your anger or

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that you're upset with us. Oh, Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala. We ask for jannah. Oh, Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala be pleased with us. Oh,

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Allah be pleased with us. Oh, Allah be

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pleased with us.

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Allah

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Akbar.

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Sami Allah,

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Huniman Hamida.

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Assalamu

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alaikum

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Welcome, ladies and sisters. Couple quick announcements as

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you're headed out. Just to let you know

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that we have an annual Grand competition. If

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you'd like more details on the guidelines and

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prizes, you can go to the website at

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go.friscomustad.orgforward/qc.

00:40:15 --> 00:40:18

We got various committee volunteer positions, 18 and

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up, that are currently open at ICF. Interested

00:40:20 --> 00:40:21

in volunteering for the must did, you can

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do that at friscomustid.org/volunteer

00:40:24 --> 00:40:25

to learn more and apply.

00:40:26 --> 00:40:29

The best of Egypt is a comprehensive tour

00:40:29 --> 00:40:31

with, of Egypt with Sheikh Salah from May

00:40:31 --> 00:40:33

25th to June 4th. If you'd like to

00:40:33 --> 00:40:34

learn more and register for that tour, you

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

can do that at go.friscomoshta.orgforward/Egypt

00:40:38 --> 00:40:38

tour.

00:40:39 --> 00:40:41

If you have not received your tax receipts

00:40:41 --> 00:40:44

for ICF donations in 2023, please reach out

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to the finance team at [email protected].

00:40:47 --> 00:40:49

And lastly, today is the last day for

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voter registration between, before the March 5th primaries.

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A voter registration booth is available at the,

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back of the lobby. After Jummah's law, you

00:40:56 --> 00:40:58

can check out your registration status or register

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to vote.

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Everybody.

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Okay.

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