Mohammad Elshinawy – Having Humility
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The speakers discuss the importance of worship and sharing pride among believers, as well as the success of Islam as a source of pride. They also touch on the importance of humility and finding one's own values to stay true to oneself. The speakers emphasize the need for people to recognize their weaknesses and not try to be perfect. They also discuss the importance of learning and being true to oneself, as well as finding one's best position.
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all, praise and glory belongs to Allah, we thank you and we seek His help and his guidance and his pleasure and his forgiveness. And we seek the protection of Allah from the evil whispers of our souls and the evil consequences of our actions. For a number of other guides, no one can lead astray and remember, our love chooses to demonstrate no one can guide and we testify that no one is worthy of our worship with a lot alone without any partners at the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was indeed His Prophet and his servant, that is messenger. And the truth is the words the words of Allah in the midst of dialogues, as soon as the example of the Messenger of Allah Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and the most dangerous of mentors, the new the added mentors to the deen for everything you add to this perfect and complete way of life is perfect religion is leading us straight away from the straight path that only leads to the fire.
I remind myself and my brothers and sisters at the onset of this football, the tough love a lot of so generally the fear of online the obedience of Allah as it is, is the right and not die exist in a state of complete and total surrender to Allah state of Islam.
Then to proceed, I do not know
of any quality, that would make a person raised higher in the sight of Allah, or in the sight of the people, or more beloved to Allah, or more beloved to the people than the quality of humbleness, the quality of humility, this quality of tomato.
And that's why when Alonzo Jenner was explaining what his most cherished slaves
are attributed with what they are like what their qualities are, he began this very quality. And he said to Hannah hautala, worry,
Manny Levine, I am
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and the slaves of the Most Merciful.
Man, these are a special class of the believers, a very special type of people. A list of their qualities exist there at the end of time you go back to the child one study it and make a checklist for yourself. But just this one is where we will stop. This afternoon child law soldier. He said some kind of what the either and the slaves of the Most Merciful,
who walk on the earth gently.
And when the ignorant address them meaning with ignorance with foolishness. They say a word of peace, they are afraid.
First of all, he says sukanta was the slaves of the Most Merciful. So he attributed these special slaves to himself. And that is an honor, because we are all the slaves of Allah.
But these are very special
group of slaves is the sleeves have a lot. So just the same way all the houses of our loved ones when you say the house of Allah, you automatically initially mean the gamma, that's a very special house is attributed to it as an honoring for it. And that's why he said
either in Las
Vegas, all the acts of worship are one thing, but fasting is mine. I mean, it's a very special act of worship. Whereas in reality all the worship is for a large village It is called a law for to the Sharif it's attributed to a love for honoring. So I love these sleeves. His sleeves is very special, very cherished sleeves. And when he calls them slaves, that's an honoring.
In and of itself, that means he has exempted from them
and deem them worthy to be slaves. And he accepted their sale. And he purchase, what is the sale in the purchase in the law store? I mean, I'm fulfilling one, why don't we get into that one Gentlemen, I wasn't
lot has purchased from the believer in their lives and their wealth in exchange so that for them will be paradise. So he says, These are my slaves. These are the very special slaves of mine, who did it right, who actually truly genuinely gave of themselves they sold me sincerely their lives and their wealth, and they really have submitted and so I've accepted there said, it was true, it was honest. And notice, he said to Panama,
the rock man, the slaves of Allah, what he used, his name
is Allah. But he didn't say the slaves of Allah here, he says, the slaves of the Most Merciful because these very special slaves have a very special additional share of his of His mercy in this world and in the Hereafter, they are guiding and make the right decisions in this world, even if others are more intelligent than them as a share of His mercy. And you find that many times that a person could have the sharpest intellect and the soundest intuition.
But he can't get things sometimes at someone so much simpler minded than he can get these a share of mercy here as a free embleton an extra share of His mercy in the hereafter.
Whatever, man and the sleeves of the Most Merciful
and lesbian, I am sure of the homeowner who walk on this earth gently. Why do these special sleeves walk on the earth gently? That's their first qualities, humility of theirs. That's the first thing that can be recognized about them. Why do they walk on the earth gently, they walk on the earth gently because they know their place. The sleeves a lot, they understand that full well, they're never negligent of that. They know that they are here, as property of Allah, in the property of Allah temporarily, as guests, and they are shy and they are on edge just like a guest. When you enter somebody's house, you know it's not your place. You're worried to look into the wrong
direction of the room, or you're worried to sit in a bad angle or be compromising to perhaps the the makeup of the house or you see something you're not supposed to see, you would just pick up anything and you're waiting for someone to tell you go right ahead, Mr. Miller, what you're against is not to replace
the slaves. All right, men walk on this earth gently because they understand that this is not my place. This is not for me. So they're shy under a law surgeon. And they're surrendering to a lot of articles either, and they await his command or in are only exemplified by his instructions, as he said, as diligent. And
indeed, belonging to him is the creation and the command, meaning he made it all so the commands regarding it also belongs to him.
So there's never a moment when you're dealing with something other than create. So there's never a moment where you have your own choice to call the shots and command how things are supposed to be. This is where the meaning of the tails belongs to him is the creation of the command, if not best.
For men birth, the machine failure.
So whomever finds anything left over for him after this, let him take
the creation belongs to him. And the command belongs to him and he made it all and he controls it all what's left
a battle behind internalize that concept. And thus they walk on this earth
gently. And that, by the way, brings to mind a very important, often ignored aspect of humbleness humble is not just to put your head down an actor humble and shy. No, no, no. Humble is the number one quality of humble, you're humble under love. You're truly humble. And that's why you do what he says at all times. It's fake humility. You're tricking yourself or trying to trick those around you and you act like you're humble, but you don't comply with his rules. This is delusion.
And also, they walk on this earth gently because they know they're pleased. We said that and because they know their size. They don't walk on this earth something as if they're so big and bad and they own it right. As he said some kind of data will attempt to fill out the amount of data in a canal
and don't walk away.
This earth heartily arrogantly with pride, because you will not puncture the earth unless I stop stomping, I'm gonna put a hole in the ground. And you will never reach the mountains in height, you know your size. That's why you walk upon this earth humbled.
And that's why when the low tide and the Battle of bush was because he wanted to draw attention to himself, he tied a red
cloth on his head. And he began to walk with pride
in front of the machine again, because he was carrying the sort of the problem for the love audios, and I'm back today.
And so the profits of a model I think,
you will love was that he left he had a loader. This is a type of working that Allah hates to work with pride. Allah hates this type of work, except in the likes of these circumstances. Why? Because this is not arrogance. This is him spiking those that came out challenging the rest of the drama muscle of
religion. But normally this is a disgusting work that I love despises.
So the person who walks on this earth gently because he knows his place is a guess. And he knows his size he's nobody will either fall Baba noona Otto Salama and on the ignorant address them, they say a word of peace. They don't get involved in such foolishness. They don't feel like they always have to
show that they're superior to others and respond to an insult to the greater insult and constantly get into debates and fight and prove themselves No.
Because the one that is truly humbled in front of Allah subhanho wa Taala will be humbled in front of his creation.
Because part of the reason why we get involved in these silly scuffles throughout our lives, they take different forms, but they're the same as a two year old and a 75 year old, because we're each trying to prove that we're somebody and that we are superior, and that no one has the right to think they can get over on us. Whereas in reality, the person who knows online is humble below a lot of zildjian knows that there's no virtue in him. For sure, you are happy that Allah has guided me to pray, and others have been free. And I was guiding you to be in tomorrow and others haven't attended jumaane. But you see that as a gift from Allah, you don't see that you own this goodness, It all
belongs to Allah. And so no one
walks out of their house with that humility at heart, except that you'll feel like everybody's better than them.
I would say I would not leave my home and see a Muslim, except that I would believe that he has one virtue or another over me. I see a Muslim who's older than me. He's done more good deeds have longer life. I see a Muslim as younger than me. They committed listens than me in their lives and their lives are shorter. I see a new Muslim, a convert. man he knows so much less, but he acts on such a greater percentage of his knowledge than I do.
I see Alicia that is knowledgeable. supanova invested his life and how I did it. This is how he sees the world around you. And that's why when the ignorant speak, and they insult them.
They don't feel it's so necessary to prove that there's somebody they prefer that Allah knows who they are, and they move from our mouths conceal their faults
and will not have a personal just to study the humility of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, things would become clean.
Sit on the ground like everybody else. As
the person the prophet SAW, Selim would walk around and he was allowed to be unsought, the children among the outside is not something normal that society but he had nothing to prove some of audio said he would go greet the little children, normally a leader, right would not do that he has to show his strength and show his manliness and the wife is not going to walk in the streets. They would say that he would be taken by the slave girls and grab his hand and take him into any street in Medina because she knew he would let her fall in love. And he was sending them an ad that says how do we not know that he hates it, that we stand for we would stand for him when he entered but he
hated that.
And you know another beautiful aspect to realize from his life regarding humility, that humility is not just being kind to those lesser than you younger than you know, not just that. Kindness also entails you'll see the clear in his life and he just said, tolerating the cruelty of others.
That's that is of humility that is a part and parcel of a humble versus
look at how many of us, we've ruined our own communities. We've ruined our own households because of the arrogance that no
One can cross me, no one can disrespect me, no one can argue with me.
Many of us we have a problem with leadership.
And many times we are leaders and we don't understand what it means take advice from others, all humility, even in the household.
When the husband is not seen as the leader of the house as the kind of aliquoted, this is an issue of humility with the wife. And when the husband sees his leadership and could use it for an abusive leadership, there's also a problem of arrogance in him. When each person thinks Nothing can be ignored, we have to stop and criticize about everything that happens wrong, not with anything slide. He told us.
Last
minute, but no believing man into believing woman,
meaning
in carry heavy.
I mean, if he hates one of her qualities, he'll be pleased with another, meaning stop focusing on the wrong he says if he thinks you have your flaws, too. So allow others to have flaws. Nobody's perfect. That perception and everyone has to be perfect the same way I'm perfect. This one destroys Java seven, it's a beautiful discussion on revenge.
And he says the most disgraceful person is the person who holds grudges all the time and always feels like he has to avenge those that have wronged him. But if you would just realize that every difficulty in his life, including those that actually wronged you, you are oppressed. Yes, even those that actually wronged us because of your sins, you will visit yourself when seeking forgiveness, instead of always avenging those that have wronged you. And this is the mentality of the wise believer. So part of humility is to be tolerant with those that's wrong with you.
So how do we get to this humility, perhaps for the rest of the homeschooling methods?
The first thing that can benefit your child to bring you to that humility is to learn what is at stake.
With regards to humility or arrogance, what do you get out of being humble?
The greatest of its fruits obviously, surely, is the love of muscle kind of
as a legitimate gelato. He says so bad omen, you
bring a bunch of people that he loves them.
That's the greatest attainment anyone can attain in this world and the next, we live our lives and invest our efforts and worry so much.
It's all over, it's finished. We've said this many times, because the profits
alone will never throw someone who loves in the fire.
So going back to the ions alone, bring about the people that he loves them and they love him of their qualities. Unless isn't that I
mean, they are humbled with the believers.
They are humbled with the believers. And so understand as well that the greatest thing you can bring forward on the Day of Judgment is this humility. You're here after your judgment is at stake, contingent upon this humility of yours to a lot to his creation.
As a law, so just sit down, fill up
the NLL you'll be doing our new one out of the whatever said that this is the man of the year after we have appointed a lot of it to those that do not wish to be elevated in the land. Nothing wrong with being elevated. But the moment you start wishing for it, then the disaster has arrived. That is the beginning of your end. Except for losses Origen wishes to rescue with his rescue with his mercy geladeira
disease
when he became a police officer,
he was so worried to distinguish himself above the others and did many amazing things in his life and his biographies enough testimony of his humility.
Just one image he was married to.
For example,
She was the daughter of the American one
and her two brothers.
And now her husband
can imagine kind of upbringing this girl head as soon as he took the time to listen. I cannot promise I will give you your rights. And I cannot care for you at the expense of the rest of the Muslims. So if you wish I divorced you now
and she chose to be patient and get the share of her husband's are over and my love is no mercy upon her. He said to her then you cannot be this
English from the Muslims, you take off all your jewelry now and put it in the Muslim Treasury.
And she did.
And as he was dying a whole lot after living this life of humility, his family and his children around him, he told everybody to leave to get out. So his wives and his family, they walk out on the street behind the door of the city. And they said, We heard him saying as he laid on his deathbed,
more heaven behind the Hebrew, one come to these beautiful faces. Lee said you will do in similar journeys are not the faces of humans or jinn, meaning the ancients.
And then he recited the verse of Allah subhanho wa Taala. till after Machado levena direito narrow one Phil said, well, Optimus routine, this is the home of the Hereafter, we granted to those that do not wish to be elevated on this earth, nor seek any corruption they're in. And the end is for the people of piety, and the soul returned to its lords. Those were his last words. So understand that you rationalize at stake, the opposite has an opposite ending. He told us a lot wiser on the Day of Judgment, the arrogance will be resurrected, like the dollar like the ends, you have to be academic and the people will be stomping them with their feet, you can imagine they thought they were so big,
so I love resurrected them the size of ads on the Day of Judgment, and the Panic of the gathering the Panic of the resurrection, people are stomping on them stepping on them,
in the midst of the crowds, and he told us a little while while he was in them, that being guided to the gates of Paradise and entering requires that you have no arrogance whatsoever in your heart. And he said lead from Jonathan McAfee unbeknownst to me, Kip. No one wants your paradise as long as there's an atom suite or an en suite is the more correct translation, the and the smallest speck of arrogance and there are they don't interfere with this, and will lie a lot knows best about the hereafter. But almost every single time you see a person being misguided, you can almost always recognizing them. shades of arrogance, as he said, so a lot more often that same arrogance to reject
the truth, and to belittle the people. You see people nowadays left and right. I've seen in my life. And I say this many a times waves of people dozens enter Islam. And I've seen dozens leave Islam.
What is the factor that recognizes you all of these, the person that becomes Muslim, you can almost recognize immediately why he accepted Islam. He's humble. He considers other prisoners to say if it's true, I'm willing to follow it, I'm not going to be better than my opinion regardless No. And those that left from day one, even in the silliest of conversations, they refuse to ever admit to being wrong. They refuse to admit it, someone's more knowledgeable than them, someone's more guided in them. Even on the intellectual level. At times you find people that claim
to be the heroes of the brand, and they're the only ones that really understand the Quran. And all these scholars were a bunch of pushovers on this end. And at the end of that dark road, they disbelieve in the poor and the one that brought the poor and some of
these are true stories, not something I've read in books. Because of what because of this arrogance has spewed out of their hearts and spoken on their tongues.
avani narrates the Hadith of
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said to me
in jiaxing, how can I be a developer, there is no human being.
Except that on his head, there is a rain with the reins of the horse in the hands of an angel
for in our green
bar hacker metric, and if this person is humble,
is told to the angel with the rings now Don't
let him go. When you pull the reins what happens or stops or slows down?
Waiting who wants a cup of tea?
And when he is arrogant, he becomes prideful. He allows the prize enter his heart that's it. Don't tell me knowledge will tell me otherwise regardless of who you are. Once you become arrogant, insulted the angel list the Raiders, you know, when the rains are pulled, the horse doesn't go anymore. Likewise, a person cannot proceed as the scholar said on his journey to our loved ones. There's arrogance inside.
And then some installers said when you continue to pull up your remains arrogant for too long and doesn't catch himself fast enough. The horse's head actually moves up, right I mean, you can't even see the path anymore. So you begin seeing the truth, the beginning of your arrogance, but being able to follow it
Can't get yourself to follow it. And at the end of the day that arrogance lingers and you don't wash it out fast, you can't even see the path anymore.
And that's what
he said.
Whoever Allah has tested, with desires, we all fall into desires, we get we commit sins, He says, be hopeful for such a person.
But whenever Allah tries with arrogance, there is not much hope for this person. He said, because Adam and Eve disobeyed Allah because of shadow because of an arrogance because of a desire. And he came back where it shavon This will be a lot because of arrogance, I'm better than him I made from and he's made from, right fire and mud, and shavonne this will be not not because of arrogance, and he never came back.
And also of the fruits that you need to know about this humility is that humility raises you in this world as well. Those that wish to be celebrated in this world are despised and hated in the hearts. And those that admire them, respect them externally for a moment in front of them, whereas in reality, they could hate them, or could be afraid of them or envious of them and just want to share what they have. And that's it's
the only way up is down.
He says
that he loves
when I said I love why we did the Ashwini laryssa look at the equation. He said no wealth ever decreases because of giving the only way to get us to give
and Allah never sees a sleeve lower himself humbled himself. Except that a lot of racism and I love this nothing crease anyone for forgiveness except in honoring can't forgive him. I can't just let that slide. The more you forgive, the more you are honored.
Anyway,
psycho silymarin.
So the first step on route to instilling the humility inside you this greatest qualities is to know its fruits and know that stick in this world and the next. The second is to constantly be critical of yourself to constantly check on yourself and to audit yourself and to interrogate yourself. How do I feel? Why do I feel this way? Is this a correct feeling to have?
Is this worth causing me to feel like this certain amount of knowledge he blasts your question, has your heart changed check.
Driving this kind of car do I feel better just because I'm writing a new new car that Why?
You don't
know for this other book?
The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Man so Bravo. And it's a message that a lot of regional affiliates about what my father
whoever is pleased that men stands for him in salutation, because everyone gets up, then lets him reserve a seat in the fire.
Check. Am I happy? When everyone gets up for me? Not to me to open the door to me. No, he gets up for salutations. Does that leads me?
Is that arrogance? Very well good.
And terribly. How do you find out when someone doesn't get a free? Are you angry? Ask yourself that would mean that I am
you know,
one or she or one of the greatest lover of Islam who governed the Muslim Ummah, at a time when the woman was much wider than I would have would have ever imagined. And even wider than the times of the early Muslims will have. Because he came at a later time.
He was going around the Capitol one time.
And one of the scholars of Islam called out to him by his first name is used to people saying Oh,
the leader of the believers giving them these prestigious titles. You saying oh how old or how old? So he turned around and he he's not used to this? And then he told them are you upset? I call someone bigger than you but his name
meaning a lot of soldiers, I say Oh Allah I'm not gonna say well how to
ask does that make you feel different when someone doesn't call you mister so and so or president of this or doctor of that or engineer here or doesn't give you the most beloved title
Does that bother you feel like you're not complete without that?
Do you want to be elevated in the lens? And even on the setup of Florida, the example that comes to mind, he used to sit there and blame himself and see is to help her out and sit there after the ordeal when you became so famous. You're famous now. You're famous now? Why not? Yes, I'm famous. No, you're famous media. How in the world? Are you going to stay sincere? After you've tasted fame? How in the world are you going to prevent the arrogance from your heart when everybody's talking about you? They used to consider this a tragedy nothing accomplishments.
And the last.
The third and last I mentioned here in the hotel, though there are many
is for a person to practice humility.
Looking around, for example, he goes to a man that is definitely lesser than him.
Even according to some scholars who said he was a prophet Musa alayhis salaam is from the five greatest messengers.
But still he went to him and he said to him, and Debbie Rocha, Allah and to eliminate mini Metro linked OSHA,
shall I not follow you practice it up, put yourself in that position, do something you don't normally do to break your ego a little bit? Shall I not follow you so that you may teach me a bit of when you have a lot of bit of what you have been taught? of goodness?
Can you imagine? So the man is told by the hoods with the Hopi bird, how to be man and
I have come across the knowledge that you have not come across I know something you don't know. You're wrong, Mr. Shear, right? How does it make you feel? So they were it was a prophet and a king, either of them would have been enough. He's a prophet who was the king, and I've heard him I know something you don't know. You're wrong.
Like once you do that to yourself, don't always discipline. We're not calling people to be disrespectful to others. But if someone were disrespectful to you, and this obeyed our love regarding you still don't all for you, not for them for you. Let it go once the first time is gonna be very hard. Then the second time, let it go. And the third time that it's easy practicing this. Practicing. This is a great, great, great mechanism to instill this humility inside you. And obviously reflecting on the end and thinking about who you are, will give you what we said at the onset of the book of knowing your place and knowing your size. Think about it. Think about who you
are. You're a nobody. I'm an old one. If you think about like the radar that happens or the sonar you see on ships, or on TV or bikes, you were like a little bleep a light that came out on the radar. You're gonna be gone in a second. That's it. Think about yourself in the history of humanity. What are we? How long do we live? How big are we who's gonna mention it after we're gone?
who talks about Elvis anymore? who talks about Michael Jackson anymore? He was the king of pop. He just died very recently. He's gone there's somebody new on the block someone using on every level except the ones that their hearts are connected with alone the reputation showers down from the skies. Aside from that, who are we candidate enough?
When we created them for what they know, you know where you came from, you came out of your father's private party out of your mother's private party, what are you
so reflecting on that and number and helps you understand who Allah is and helps you understand who you are and helps you put everything in perspective so reflection on that is also the greatest mechanisms to instill this humility in US male masajid grandmas hearts that are humble and because those that surrender to Him at all times and are humble of his creation and never belittle the people and never reject the truth and we are lost so did not make us blind to our flaws of love them I mean, more so it didn't make our external actions as good as those internal and make our hearts better than the people know and forgive for us or the people don't know about us and make us better
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