Mohammad Elshinawy – God Is Good AllahS Name Al-Barr

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The transcript describes Jesus's concept of goodness and generosity, using examples and phrases like "
" and "
" as examples." It also discusses the history of Islam, including the story of the Prophet Alayshi, who gave a sermon to a woman who was supposedly killed by a woman who was supposedly a victim of abuse. The segment emphasizes the importance of acknowledging one's mistake and apologizing for it, as it is crucial for one to achieve their potential.

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			Brothers and sisters, after praising Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala, the glorified and exalted and testify
		
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			to his unique oneness and to Muhammad sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam being his final prophet and
		
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			messenger, and after welcoming you all to the
		
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			house of Allah azza wa jal, the mighty,
		
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			the majestic, and reminding myself and you with
		
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			our ultimate duty and purpose in life, the
		
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			taqwa of Allah, to be conscious of Him.
		
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			Brothers and sisters, yesterday afternoon, as I was
		
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			studying along with my students the name of
		
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			Allah al-Barr, a name of Allah we
		
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			find in the Qur'an, one of his
		
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			beautiful names.
		
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			I was hit with a very heavy feeling
		
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			of deja vu, you know that notion of
		
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			like, I've been here before.
		
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			I reflected on the fact that every time
		
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			I come back to studying this name, al
		
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			-Barr, I have this deep wish inside me
		
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			that more Muslims knew what it meant.
		
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			And so inshallah, after today's khutbah, a few
		
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			more Muslims will know what it means.
		
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			What is al-Barr?
		
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			Al-Barr is most loosely translated or commonly
		
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			translated as the most kind.
		
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			And it is really one of the names
		
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			of Allah, and they all point to each
		
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			other in different ways, right, that reminds us
		
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			of his gentleness, reminds us of his generosity,
		
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			reminds us of his protectiveness, reminds us of
		
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			his kindness.
		
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			It is really about that notion that people
		
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			often say, even in English, that God is
		
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			good.
		
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			Like the epitome of goodness, the ultimate goodness,
		
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			overwhelming kindness and goodness is what Allah is
		
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			all about.
		
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			The name of al-Barr encapsulates all of
		
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			those meanings.
		
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			But to deepen our appreciation of where it
		
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			comes from, the Arabs use the word Barr
		
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			or Barari to refer to deserts, open lands.
		
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			So you say, I was in the town,
		
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			town is congested, I went out to the
		
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			Barr, I went out to the desert.
		
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			So something that is vast, right?
		
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			The vastness of Allah's goodness should come to
		
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			mind with the name al-Barr.
		
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			And also, the Arabs use the term Barr,
		
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			just the word Barr, the noun, in reference
		
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			to the shore, like the land meaning we're
		
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			out of the sea.
		
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			We're out of the dangerous, turbulent, topsy-turvy,
		
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			unstable sea.
		
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			Even the Qur'an says, فَلَمَّا نَجَّاهُمْ إِلَى
		
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			الْبَرِّ إِذَا هُمْ يُشْرِكُونَ Their lives are on
		
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			the line, they're screaming in desperation because they're
		
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			going through a storm at sea.
		
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			Then Allah brings them to the Barr.
		
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			And so it is about stability, this term,
		
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			and it is about vastness.
		
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			Now you bring that to Allah عز و
		
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			جل.
		
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			He chose the name al-Barr for Himself
		
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			so that we will have a placeholder, if
		
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			you will.
		
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			A representation in one of these beautiful names,
		
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			in our heart, a representation of how vast
		
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			His goodness is, unimaginably wide, boundless.
		
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			And how consistent, how stable His goodness is,
		
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			His kindness is, His generosity is.
		
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			This is why Imam al-Qurtubi رحمه الله,
		
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			when he was explaining Allah's name al-Barr,
		
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			he says it means that He is the
		
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			one whose kindness is not interrupted by the
		
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			corruptness of His slaves.
		
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			No matter how they treat Him, He treats
		
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			them differently.
		
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			And this is throughout the Qur'an.
		
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			Allah عز و جل says, وَلَوْ يُؤَخِذُ اللَّهُ
		
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			النَّاسَ بِمَا كَسَبُوا مَا تَرَكَ عَلَى ظَهْرِهَا مِن
		
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			دَابَّةٍ وَلَكِن يُؤَخِرُهُمْ إِلَى أَجَلٍ مُسَمَّةٍ If Allah
		
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			were to hold people accountable for what they've
		
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			done, their misdeeds, their misconduct, He would not
		
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			have left a living being left on earth.
		
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			Like if every time someone messed up, the
		
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			lightning bolt came immediately.
		
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			There'd be nobody left.
		
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			But the fact that He defers people, He
		
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			gives a grace period, He doesn't treat them
		
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			immediately.
		
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			The way they treat Him, it's because He's
		
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			al-Barr.
		
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			That's who He is سبحانه وتعالى.
		
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			He defers them.
		
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			He defers His anger.
		
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			He allows for U-turns.
		
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			You're going in opposite direction.
		
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			For 20, 30, 40, you still can make
		
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			a U-turn on the path of Allah
		
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			عَزَّ وَجَلَّ.
		
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			Because why?
		
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			Because He's al-Barr.
		
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			Or even Ibrahim عليه السلام.
		
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			You know when he placed his wife and
		
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			his newborn child in the barren desert, He
		
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			said اِجْعَلْ هَذَا بَلَدًا آمِنًا Oh Allah, make
		
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			this a safe place for them.
		
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			It's the wilderness, right?
		
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			وَارْزُقْ أَهْلَهُ مِنَ الثَّمَرَاتِ Make this a safe
		
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			land and provide its people, whoever happens to
		
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			take up residence here, provide them منَ الثَّمَرَاتِ
		
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			from the produce, the vegetation, the means of
		
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			life and sustenance.
		
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			مَنْ آمَنَ مِنْهُمْ بِاللَّهِ وَالْيَوْمِ الْآخِرِ Provide them,
		
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			whomever of them believes in you and in
		
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			the last day.
		
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			So Allah عزَّ وَجَلَّ responds to Ibrahim عليه
		
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			السلام and He says what?
		
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			قَالَ وَمَنْ كَفَرُ And those who disbelieve.
		
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			Not just those of them who believe I'm
		
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			going to provide.
		
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			And those who disbelieve, meaning I will also
		
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			provide for them, even if they refuse to
		
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			recognize me, they refuse to accept me, refuse
		
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			to submit to me, refuse to admit that
		
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			I exist, I'm still going to provide for
		
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			them.
		
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			I'm still going to grant them health and
		
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			shelter and food and water.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because he's Al-Barr, consistent in his kindness,
		
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			stable, vast, open-ended in his grace or
		
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			his graciousness.
		
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			سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى And it's not just disbelievers who
		
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			reject him, it's also disobedient people who don't
		
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			comply with him, the non-compliant, the sinful
		
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			being that many times the believer finds himself
		
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			in that state.
		
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			You know one person, very eloquently, brilliantly, when
		
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			he's capturing this concept, he says, think about
		
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			it, you know that moment when you close
		
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			the door behind yourself to commit that sin?
		
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			And he saw you, he didn't hear about
		
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			this, he saw you himself committing that sin.
		
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			And not just that he see you, he
		
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			saw your heart non-caring about what he
		
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			thought, because the door was not for him,
		
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			the door was for the people.
		
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			So he saw that you cared more about
		
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			your image in front of people and had
		
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			no care of him.
		
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			In that whole moment, you know what he
		
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			did?
		
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			He kept oxygen flowing under that door, so
		
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			that you would suffocate, so that you would
		
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			not suffocate until you repented, to give you
		
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			a few more chances, few more days, weeks,
		
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			months or years.
		
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			That's al-barr, subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			You know, it is even mentioned, reported from
		
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			some of the historians, they pass on the
		
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			story about Musa alayhi salam, they say that
		
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			one time he brought all the people out
		
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			to the desert to make a collective dua
		
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			out of desperation, supplicating to Allah to give
		
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			them rain, because they're all going to die.
		
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			And they're making dua and they're pleading, and
		
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			Allah reveals to Musa alayhi salam, and he
		
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			gathers the people and gives them a sermon,
		
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			and he says, Allah has revealed to me
		
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			that there is someone amongst you that has
		
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			been defying him for 40 years straight, and
		
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			so long as he remains in our midst,
		
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			Allah will never give us rain.
		
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			So whoever you are, whatever you've done, no
		
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			matter how many crimes you've been committing, let
		
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			this be your one good deed, right?
		
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			Let the one crime you don't commit be
		
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			the crime of getting us all killed.
		
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			Just leave.
		
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			Spare us.
		
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			And nobody leaves.
		
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			Everyone's wondering, who's it going to be?
		
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			Nobody leaves.
		
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			And then after some time, they receive rain.
		
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			So Musa alayhi salam says, Ya Allah, I
		
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			don't get it.
		
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			No one left.
		
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			He said, He repented to me, O Musa.
		
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			And because of his repentance and his sincerity,
		
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			I granted you all rain.
		
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			So Musa alayhi salam said, This is amazing.
		
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			Ya Allah, let me see this righteous servant
		
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			of yours.
		
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			All of us were saved because of his
		
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			righteousness.
		
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			His transformation.
		
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			He said to him, O Musa, for 40
		
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			years he defied me with his sinful behavior
		
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			and I didn't expose him.
		
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			The day he gets it all forgiven, I'm
		
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			going to expose him?
		
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			No, you can't find out who he is.
		
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			Because he's al-Barr, Subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			And so, what happens now?
		
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			How do we check how much of that
		
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			name we've internalized?
		
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			The reality of Allah being al-Barr.
		
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			And al-Barr being Allah, right?
		
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			Always and forever.
		
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			The first thing you need to do is
		
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			to never stop asking him.
		
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			Sometimes we forget, right?
		
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			No, you need to remember that Allah is
		
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			as he is because that's who he is,
		
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			has nothing to do with me.
		
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			Whether I realize it or not, he's always
		
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			been giving.
		
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			So I should never stop asking him to
		
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			give me.
		
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			It's not like, Oh, is Allah going to
		
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			give me?
		
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			He's already giving you.
		
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			You know, as they say, the human being
		
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			gets and forgets and Allah gives and forgives.
		
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			He's al-Barr.
		
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			Ask.
		
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			Keep asking.
		
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			And know that just because I forgot or
		
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			I don't know how to identify how he's
		
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			giving me or going to give me doesn't
		
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			mean he's not giving me.
		
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			You know, the Prophet ﷺ said that when
		
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			the believer makes dua, invokes Allah, so long
		
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			as it does not involve sinfulness or the
		
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			breaking of family ties, right?
		
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			Allah always gives them in one of three
		
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			ways.
		
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			One of them is he gives you what
		
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			you asked for immediately.
		
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			Meaning in this life, because this whole life
		
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			is immediate and short-lived.
		
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			Or he reserves it for something better.
		
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			On the Day of Judgment, you're going to
		
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			see I didn't get this so I could
		
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			get that.
		
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			That's why I didn't give it to you.
		
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			And you're going to be so happy that
		
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			Allah didn't give you what you asked for
		
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			in the way you asked for it in
		
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			the shallow, short-lived worldly life because he
		
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			just gave you a superior alternative.
		
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			Or the third way, the hadith says, or
		
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			Allah offsets something negative, some adversity you're going
		
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			to face, some misfortune you're going to face.
		
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			Your dua gets accepted in the form of
		
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			it offsetting in the skies the fate.
		
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			A fateful event that was on its way
		
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			down in the near future.
		
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			He's always giving, Subhanahu wa ta'ala.
		
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			And sometimes we don't forget that Allah is
		
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			giving.
		
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			Sometimes we forget that it's about his generosity,
		
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			not about my piety.
		
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			You know I committed a lot of mistakes.
		
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			I'm too shy to ask Allah.
		
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			Who else are you going to ask?
		
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			You're not going to ask Allah.
		
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			Do you have alternatives?
		
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			You think Allah only gives the righteous?
		
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			Of course the more righteous you are, the
		
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			more rightly guided your dua is for sure.
		
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			But no one has any other option.
		
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			So for you to make dua to Allah
		
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			after you've repented from the sin is a
		
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			great act of righteousness.
		
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			That I recognize that you are who you
		
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			are.
		
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			You're not held back or you don't withhold
		
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			simply because of my mess-ups.
		
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			It's not about me.
		
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			You know, think of Sulaiman Alayhis Salaam.
		
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			Though this is not an example of someone
		
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			being corrupt.
		
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			Audhu Billah.
		
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			But Sulaiman Alayhis Salaam, there's a verse in
		
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			Surah Saad, so powerful.
		
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			It says, We put Sulaiman through a difficult
		
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			trial.
		
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			And we cast upon his chair, his throne,
		
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			a corpse, a half body.
		
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			Corpse, a deformed baby, a miscarriage essentially.
		
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			And he returned to Allah in that moment.
		
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			There is a story behind this.
		
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			The Prophet Alayhis Salaam mentioned that Sulaiman Alayhis
		
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			Salaam one time, in Surah Al-Bukhari, he
		
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			vowed to Allah that I am going to
		
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			produce 100 sons.
		
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			All of them will become knights, horsemen, like
		
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			warriors in the path of Allah.
		
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			To spread Allah's goodness and Allah's justice, right?
		
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			And so someone said to him, say Inshallah.
		
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			He didn't say Inshallah.
		
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			Of course, this is a prophet.
		
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			He was not being stubborn.
		
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			He just forgot.
		
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			He got busy with the kingdom.
		
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			And so he didn't say Inshallah.
		
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			So Allah only granted him one son that
		
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			did not come full term.
		
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			It was a stillbirth.
		
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			And maybe because he's the king, the son
		
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			of the king gets honored in a symbolic
		
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			way.
		
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			They put him on the throne.
		
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			Here is your heir to the throne would
		
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			have been, right?
		
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			So the verse says, we tested Sulaiman by
		
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			granting him this event in his life.
		
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			And so he returned back to us and
		
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			he said what?
		
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			Here is what I want.
		
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			قَالَ رَبِّ اغْفِرْ لِي وَهَبْ لِي مُلْكًا لَا
		
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			يَبَغِي لِي أَحَدٍ مِّن بَعْدٍ He said, Oh
		
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			Allah, forgive me.
		
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			I messed up.
		
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			He reviewed about what happened here, right?
		
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			I messed up by not saying Inshallah.
		
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			Of course, this is not a mess up.
		
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			This is human.
		
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			Forgetting is not a sin.
		
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			But from his great humility, his great piety,
		
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			he considered it a sin.
		
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			He said, Oh Allah, forgive me.
		
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			And grant me a kingdom that no one
		
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			after me will ever have.
		
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			You have to capture what's happening here.
		
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			I messed up and in the same breath,
		
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			can I have something amazing?
		
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			This is the believer, right?
		
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			He doesn't, don't ever get, sort of feel
		
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			the sense of I'm unworthy to ask Allah.
		
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			Sulaiman is apologizing and aspiring from Allah in
		
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			the same breath.
		
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			وَهَبْ لِي مُلْكًا لَا يَنْبَأْ Give me a
		
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			kingdom you've never given and will never give
		
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			anybody.
		
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			Bigger than my dad's kingdom.
		
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			Dawood, right?
		
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			Bigger than everyone.
		
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			Then he says, إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ الْوَهَّابُ Because you
		
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			are the gift giver.
		
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			No one gives gifts but you.
		
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			Everything is from you anyway.
		
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			That's the recognition.
		
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			Who made my mother's hug warm?
		
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			You did.
		
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			I'm not numb to that.
		
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			Do I have anything except that it's from
		
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			Allah?
		
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			No, I don't.
		
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			Has he ever stopped giving?
		
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			No.
		
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			He is Al-Barr.
		
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			The vastly, consistently kind.
		
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			عَزَّ وَجَلَّ سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى Always and forever.
		
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			أَقُولُ قَوْلِ هَذَا وَاسْتَغْفِرُ اللَّهَ الْعَظِيمَ لِي وَلَكُمْ
		
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			Brothers and sisters.
		
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			Another important sign that you've internalized Allah's name
		
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			Al-Barr is that you commit your life
		
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			to Birr.
		
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			Birr is righteousness.
		
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			Loosely translated it's the righteousness.
		
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			But Birr now that you know what Al
		
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			-Barr means, right?
		
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			It means that you be consistently righteous.
		
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			You be comprehensively righteous.
		
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			Not selectively.
		
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			Not stop and go.
		
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			The Quran says that.
		
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			لَيْسَ الْبِرَّ أَنْ تُوَلُّوا وَجُوهَكُمْ قَبْلَ الْمَشْرِقِ وَالْمَغْرِبِ
		
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			Birr is not that you just simply face
		
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			east or face west meaning just the right
		
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			Qibla in the ritual act.
		
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			No.
		
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			But Birr, Allah says in the ayah.
		
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			It's called the most comprehensive ayah in the
		
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			Quran.
		
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			Birr is that you believe in Allah and
		
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			the last day and the angels and the
		
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			scriptures and the messengers.
		
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			And you spend of the wealth that you
		
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			love.
		
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			That's what the verse says.
		
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			On your relatives and on the needy and
		
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			on the orphan.
		
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			And you are patient through adversity and through
		
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			poverty and through suffering.
		
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			And you are truthful in speech.
		
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			The verse ends by saying أُولَٰئِكَ الَّذِينَ صَدَقُوا
		
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			These are those who are truthful in their
		
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			commitment to Allah.
		
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			Commitment to Al-Barr, Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.
		
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			And so while we can never be consistent
		
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			in a perfect way only Allah is perfect.
		
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			We earn His love by trying to be
		
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			a reflection of that beautiful divine quality.
		
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			And the Quran also uses the term Birr
		
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			in a very foundational act of righteousness.
		
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			That by itself needs to be comprehensive.
		
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			Brother, please turn off your phone.
		
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			بِرُ الْوَلِدَيْنَ The Quran calls the treatment we
		
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			should have towards parents, Birr.
		
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			Not just kindness.
		
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			Not just obedience.
		
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			Birr.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because it's expensive.
		
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			It needs to be vast.
		
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			Right?
		
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			It goes down to even regulating the sounds
		
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			you make in their presence.
		
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			Right?
		
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			وَلَا تَقُلْ لَهُمَا أُفْ Don't even say to
		
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			them, that's Uff.
		
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			Don't blow out expressing your irritation.
		
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			So whether you're young or you're old, whether
		
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			you're irritated or you're not, if you're a
		
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			person of Birr, it will show up with
		
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			parents very evidently.
		
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			That's why even the Prophets of Allah, you
		
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			look at Yahya Alayhi Salam and then you
		
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			look at Isa Alayhi Salam.
		
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			Both in Surah Maryam, Allah had them declare
		
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			with Isa, with Jesus peace be upon him,
		
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			from the cradle in a miraculous way of
		
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			the many things he could have said, Allah
		
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			made it so that one of them be
		
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			وَبَرًّا بِوَالِدَتِ Allah has made me a person
		
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			of Birr with my mother.
		
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			Of course with both parents but he only
		
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			had a mother.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So this is why he said mother.
		
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			Birr though, with my mother.
		
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			What is Birr with your mother mean?
		
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			The other half of the ayah explains it.
		
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			وَلَمْ يَجْعَلْنِي جَبَّارًّا شَقِيًّا By not making me
		
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			someone that is a miserable tyrant.
		
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			Tyrants are not just heads of states that
		
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			are ruthless.
		
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			There could be a tiny tyrant inside all
		
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			of us that we allow to come out
		
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			with our parents.
		
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			What do you think of a tyrant?
		
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			The stereotype of a tyrant.
		
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			Someone that does not respond unless they're begged,
		
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			right?
		
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			At the feet of the tyrant, begging the
		
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			tyrant, repeating yourself that he spare you, right?
		
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			That he have some compassion towards you.
		
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			Do you make your parents repeat themselves?
		
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			You have a semblance of tyranny in you.
		
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			Or think of the image of a tyrant
		
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			that is just lounging around all the time
		
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			doesn't serve, only gets served.
		
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			Do you serve your parents or not?
		
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			Do you sit while they stand or not?
		
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			That's what the tyrants do.
		
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			You know the Prophet ﷺ with his followers,
		
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			when they stood as he was seated, he
		
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			said, careful, you almost did with me like
		
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			the Persians and the Romans do with their
		
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			emperors, that they stand around while their emperors
		
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			get to sit.
		
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			Don't do that with me.
		
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			Likewise with your parents.
		
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			Be like Yusuf ﷺ.
		
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			He was no tyrant.
		
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			رفع أبويه على العرش He lifted his parents
		
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			up on the throne with him during the
		
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			reunion.
		
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			You don't just stay sitting on a chair
		
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			or a couch or your corporate desk when
		
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			your parents walk in.
		
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			You get up and you put them in
		
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			your seat or else this is not birr.
		
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			You see how wide-ranging birr is?
		
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			This is why it was used with parents
		
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			because there is a spectrum that you have
		
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			to account for.
		
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			So may Allah عز و جل help us
		
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			better internalize this great name and albeit in
		
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			our imperfect human forms, be a perfect reflection
		
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			of it as best as we possibly can.
		
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			Allahumma ameen.
		
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			Ameen.