Mohamad Baajour – Sickness series #10 Reward of visiting the Sick
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The importance of visiting sick individuals in Islam is discussed, including the need for special care when sick individuals are present and advice on what to do. Visiting nonimmigrant individuals is also emphasized, as there is a disturbing hadith from a woman claiming to have killed a Muslim man. Visiting someone in a nonimmigrant cemetery is also discussed, with advice given on burying someone in a nonimmigrant cemetery and avoiding leaving them alone. Visiting someone in a nonimmigrant cemetery is also emphasized, as there is no "has philosophy" in Islam.
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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah who are going to get
smaller hamdulillah salatu salam ala Rasulillah
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Ask Allah subhanaw taala
teach us would benefit us benefit us from what you told us and increase us in knowledge.
We ask Allah subhanaw taala to make us from the people who listen and apply Allah Masha Allah and many istemi oh no cola fair to be honest. I mean you're blind me
hamdulillah al Amin,
we get to chapter four.
And chapter is titled is obligations
toward the sick? What are
the obligations that we have when one of us gets sick?
What does What rights does he or she have
to the rest of the Muslims
first,
the first slide they have as a visiting
visiting the Sikh
is a mutual right
among the Muslims.
It bring
to the heart of the Sikh hope in Allah azza wa jal
it also provides a chance for the Muslim to increase in their hasnat to increase in their good deeds.
We all know the Hadith that said that the rights of a Muslim on his Muslim brother are five
but there's another narration that says it's six and there is no relation that says seven
we all know the fight right? Who's gonna name the fight?
You know, the rights for the Muslim and a Muslim?
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was the first one
replying the salam, second look
at you.
The first slide of the Muslim is when he says salam alaikum is his right for you to reply when you consider the second is when he sneezes and says Alhamdulillah you tell them your Hungama Third, when he gets sick you visit fourth Taha
when he dies, you go to his Janessa and when he invites you, you accept the invitation. These are the five you know there's a hadith that says seven that he said 600 or the six one
excellent. If he asked you for advice,
you give them an advice and
anybody knows the seventh one a little bit hard
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muscle muscle.
If he is oppressed, you support him if he is oppressed, you support so one of these slides as we have seen and we keep in mind what are we using the word rights
this is a right Yanni.
When you go visit your brother in the hospital, you're not doing him a favor.
It says right.
But of course, as a father dying are filthy fire
the fire. That means if one of the
few brothers of the community went and visited, it will the obligation will drop from the rest of the of the community. But if none of the community went, we are all sinners
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there are cases where the visit is more
necessary than others.
For example,
when the sick person
As a close relative
my dad used to visit my father, when he's sick
is way much heavier than my dad used to visit my brother in the masjid, right.
This is my father, my son, my mother, my aunt, these people, the closer they are to you, the obligation becomes more to visit second Subhanallah when he is or she is a close neighbor.
Remember how can Jarrah, the neighbor has rights, when there's a close neighbor, Allah commands the Muslim to take special care of their close neighbors.
And that isn't certainly sad when a Muslim is sick, the neighbors should be the first to know about it and should be willing and ready to provide any help needed.
Third, is when the person himself that is sick, need special care.
The sickness is so heavy or so made him so helpless that he needs extra care then the visiting him is not just like this thing anybody who had a maybe severe headache or had a flu or you know, this is really becomes more necessity to go and visit and offer your help because he's in need of that help. Now.
visiting the sick is highly rewardable act in Islam.
So now the chef mentioned few Hadith even though usually we take one Hadith or two, but I'm going to mention them all in order for me and you Wallahi not to miss any opportunity when we hear someone who's sick.
immediately run and rush because now Holly Esther will let you know Jana Moon will Latina lionmoon Maybe there was one or two a hadith you've never heard of. But after this, me and you have no more excuses. Ready. The first one is amazing. Subhan Allah is Hadith, the sheikh start with this hadith that if I could see you having the Adam in Allah to Allah Cuyamaca Yama, Allah will say on the Day of Judgment you have to Adam married to phantom Calderoni
call Arabic Eva odogwu one terrible al Amin call the AMA Alinta and the Abdi Funan. Murray the Phenom told me I didn't
tell that was your attorney and Subhan Allah. Allah would say on the Day of Resurrection, oh son of Adam, I was sick but you did not visit me. They said how would I visit you and you are a bill adenine. He says so and so.
was sick and we did not visit him and if you have visited him, you would have found me there
can Allah subhanaw taala saved in a different way to show us how important it is to visit the sick
if you visited visited him or her you would have found me there Subhanallah
second Hadith in the Muslim either either AHA Hill Muslim let me as well fee horror Fattal Jana hut urologia
when a Muslim visits the Sikh Muslim Brother, he is enjoying the fruits of Jannah until he leaves
and this one is
my favorite man, Mr. Eden harbor look at this word called Rama
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whosoever visit a sick person, he walks through the mercy and when he sits there visiting the sick near the sick person, he is submerged in the Mercy of Allah azza wa jal you know submerge from the word submarine. He is. Yeah, any
drowning in the Rama of Allah. Allahu Akbar. So Yanni, what does that mean? And if Allah subhanaw taala takes my soul over there. I am already drowning with Rama and Rama is the only source intergender Allahu Akbar.
Look at this measure.
And by the way, when if I hear the measure of something I did not know about and when I hear about it, I start getting excited to do it. That's a sign of Eman. Don't think oh, I was so selfish before. No, no, no. We are here to accumulate as much as that as possible. Right? So I know now Allahu Akbar. Look at this jewel that have been wasting, like when abnormal or the Allah
One and Homer when he found out about the two carat Janessa but he say
how many calories we have wasted when he heard that if you go to the burial, you get two key right and each key rod as the mountain of Arden has an AD.
He said oh how many calories we have wasted. So similarly when we hear these, we say subhanallah how many has said that we have wasted
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when a Muslim visitors sick brother, he walks through the fruits of Jannah until he sits and when he sits he is encompassed of Rama in the Wrath of Allah azza wa jal if he visits him in the morning 70,000 Angels make dua for him until the evening and if he visits him in the evening 70,000 Angels will make dua for him till the morning
three or one
Allah and this situation
I have to have a connection with the hospital
I have to bribe somebody in the hospital Habibi, please. You hear him Hamid Mohammed Mahmoud Abdullah Manuel call me.
I remember in New York when we hear something like this we get very excited the first week so we don't know anybody who's sick so we used to go to the hospital and information i She tells me who's What's your name, the name of your
patient. I tell her like I forgot, but I know his last name is Khan with Han you can never go wrong.
You will always find the time.
One time I was surprised to find the guy and his gun Allah from Guyana and South America there's a fan also. So always you find them 100
You'll find somebody or just say Muhammad Ahmed also you can never lose with Muhammad and then we will give you the room whether you know the brother or not this is not about someone that you know this is about a Muslim Subhanallah go yeah, just take a you feel sometimes which is supposed to be always you feel like you need some asset. This Malaysia gala last
time
either either Rajan or this hadith. I'm just not starting because of the time I'm not starting called Rasulullah Salah and I'm giving you the Senate. But as you all know that oh this hadith are 100% authentic. Either either Rasul Allah alZahra call Allah ma Jota either cryptobiotic tiptoe. Tautog Adam shack, whatever. Watermans Meenal Jana
Allah when a man visit his Muslim brother, whether sick or well in this situation, Allah would say, Good Are you and good as you're walking a place is already secured for you in general.
Subhan Allah, Allah Miranda Minami horrible enemy and we and then the sheikh mentioned the hadith of Abu Bakr when the resource Isilon s who woke up today in the morning, who was fasting and who have visited the Sikh and Abubaker have combined all four right And subhanAllah masala Salam, he said, Never would these qualities be fulfilled by one man in one day, except he will enter Jannah now
the show one too few
too few topics before
we go to the other main topic, which is
can we visit people or Muslims of the opposite gender?
Can I visit the sister in the hospital or can a sister visit me in the hospital? Sure, yes, you yes or no.
Chakras. Ahmed said no.
The answer is yes. The answer is yes, it is allowed to visit. Of course, if you can avoid if you can. Be sure that there is no fitna. There will be no fitna, you're allowed to visit and the shed gave Hadith the Sahaba visited the sick individuals from the opposite gender. For example, He gave a mother that visited the sick man from the unsolved I Aisha reported that during Janelia Medina used to have a disease every time somebody come to Medina he will get that disease Subhanallah in the area. Anyone who entered so when Roscoe Salah migrated to Abu Bakar ambulance fell sick she
visited them and said oh Father, how do you feel an OB Lal? How do you feel? You know a father we know but Bilal is not a stranger. So, whenever Buck has fever escalated, he would used to, you know, say every person rises in the morning among his family, and this is closer to him than his shoe ties Subhanallah so it is allowed. If there is no fitna, you can go and visit the people from the other gender respectfully, you lower your gaze and make sure that the person is with with the hijab, she has them. There's no hula. So very important, you're not alone with her in the room or she's not alone with you in the room. And that's very important. One of them is there. There's another people
in the room then it's allowed to visit people from the other gender. Are we allowed to visit non Muslims when they are sick?
Yes, I should share
Sure.
Especially enabled type let's see what the chef said. We saw that the CEO of epic said let's see what the real chef says.
It is permissible to visit non Muslim Sikh individual if no violations of Islam are expected during the visit. Furthermore, it is recommended to visit them if they are neighbors check my book was exactly on the head
it is okay to visit them for just non Muslim but it is recommended was the hub if he's also a non Muslim and the neighbor and non Muslim and the neighbor it is Mr. hub to go and and visit them and what's the deal
so as I said when he visited the the Jewish kid right and what he said and Alhamdulillah ality uncut the whole minute now, when he fishing the boy asked his father if he can become Muslim, and he approved and he said to follow up with as soon as I said and said, and then at the end of suicide and said Alhamdulillah who saved him from the hellfire? Is it okay to visit people with contagious diseases?
No, it's not allowed. Because keep in mind the dean is to protect your health and your body. Once one is not required to visit those with contagious diseases, rather one is instructed to avoid them.
It would be sufficient to inquire about them from their relatives with a via telephone text anything okay? But to go visit them and taking the risk of you getting sick, and maybe bringing the sickness to your family? No, this is not Islam. We'll never order you to do something that will bring you harm is clear. Okay.
We have a few minutes Inshallah, what are some of the etiquettes now we know the reward of the
visiting the sick, what are some of the etiquettes when I go to visit somebody? This is extremely important. Jaquan so let me your ears and lend me your heart so he can really know everything about our deen not just Salat and cm everything about our deen, we should note.
First you visit at convenient times. Okay, for example, the family you call the family and the family said you know what
we would rather if you could come from 10 to 12 than to one don't go to and then go at nine. This is a time for the family to accept the visiting people. So respect that go ahead. And suitable time that is convenient for the sick second. This is a very very important Jaquan keep the visit very short.
Very short. You keep the visit very short summary current law and we'll continue about the details. How are you how's everything mashallah, you do the DA and you do all that stuff. But if you need anything, please let me know. Just
keep us in your cinema like
two three minutes, tops. Okay, of course if it's a relative, and, and if the person needs you to be there. And he is feeling so good with your presence. No, this is a different story. I'm talking about a person who is in pain and you coming to visit him, make it quick. But if something is really enjoy, Allahu Akbar, you are visiting me and he is like so bored and he saw you and he was so happy. Now that person has a different situation. Go and keep it the longer you make him happy. The more that rewarding. Is it clear? Okay.
The frequency of visits, how much how many times should I visit the person let's say someone's in the hospital 234 weeks. The frequency of sick visit should be regulated by the sick person's situation. It depends on the situation, but it should normally be infrequent. However, if the sick person needs frequent help from
The visitor then it is recommended that you visit frequently. So we as mature adults, we should know if the person every time I come I feel like he needed my help to take him to the bathroom to do this to do that then Sharla Tara should make it frequent sometimes yeah one Allah is sometimes you know, this happened
I would say probably three weeks ago, maybe a month a month ago that even
I got a phone call
a brother May Allah guide us and guide all the Muslims.
He married a non Muslim and he has a daughter from her. And of course the daughter is a Muslim but unfortunately since the father was not practicing she was not practicing either
the mother died she's not Muslim she's a non Muslim she was she was buried with
non Muslims in their cemetery
after a short period of time the father died the Muslim brother now the daughter does not practice
they called me their family from overseas to please you know
any help them wash the body and pray on the body and all that Muslim funeral Yeah.
So we got in touch for the record. I called brother was brother he was heroes. He left on spring.
So I called him he was in Pakistan then I caught up with Riyadh was in touch with her.
She said
my father he asked to be buried next to my mother
and I have to fulfill his wish
my sister
please I know we have to fulfill the overseer of the Muslim but if there were three is against the Sharia will fulfill it. No. And we all know that burying a Muslim in a non Muslim cemetery especially when there is a Muslim cemetery available and that cemetery that they want to she wants to be he wants to be buried in is four and a half hours away. I could not even find people to go wash in that store you're talking about nine hours just driving
the point why am I mentioning this the point is that there are some times people who are maybe that Islam is weak and they're under hospital and if you come and they see the you show them how how much Islam put emphasis on this visit they might start thinking they might start thinking about their Deen but like this will lie this is probably your Allah don't make me die in this manner. Allah when if I die and Sharla my family will do everything right but if they don't make sure I'm buried in the right way and according to the Sunlen Sharma and I'll make sure the same thing to happen to you. Allah I tried so much with the sister but she insisted no way you know how the numbness and take
there was so yeah, oh, this is my father's wish and my wish and I wish him I was shocked.
But shows wish, I wish and this is the wish that Subhanallah anyway, so visiting the people you never know what that what does that visit to one time he visited the brother in New York on my Allah He was so happy. He was so happy that he started crying. He started crying and we all started crying so goodbye nobody visited me I'm here for 15 days nobody knocked my door and we did not know Him we did the whole thing
the country school so we went there and Subhanallah he was so happy so happy.
Very happy. Well I every once in a while if you if you don't know let's assume that I was visiting.
Talk you and I got sick and I don't know anybody there and all of a sudden I see some Muslim brothers coming and visiting. How happy would I feel?
You just came just just because you're Muslim. Allahu Akbar any it's this is Islam This is
so
not too frequent unless it's needed. Say when you are in the presence of the sick person say good things why? Cholera Salas Hasulam either hydrothermal Marine, I will make it for Kulu Hayyan for in Al Mala, you Amina taco Don't
be very careful
when you visit when you're in the presence of a sick person, or when you are in the presence of a person that is dying, make sure you always say good things because the angels are saying and mean to everything you say
okay,
now the DUA This is the first most important thing when you visit the sick. So you walked in Serravalle commerical salaam la barakato you praise the sick mashallah, you look good hamdulillah
I mean,
you're good, Mashallah. And then you say, one of those, one of the, is Allahumma, robinus. Enabled. That's what she and the Shafi last year, in that she felt like she lay your body to succumb. This is maybe a little bit hard, but the other one is
that's
the whole
and all you have to know is the whole in sha Allah I think you know it, you know, in sha Allah right? So that's the hood in sha Allah, three words. That's the whole Insha Allah, what does that mean? It means no harm will befall upon you. May this sickness be the whole purify you from your sins in sha Allah, Allah as well. sha Allah this, the sickness will purify you from from your from your sins. And the other one is
listen to this Subhanallah ma'am in Muslim, if he this is, this is your clean in watashi wa salam says Amen. And what he says, ma'am, in Muslim year old Muslim and Farrakhan said Mr. Rutte
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when someone visits a sick person, in His presence, he says seven times as an Allah, Allah then that I've been out of should I leave? And yes, FIAC I ask Allah subhanaw taala that I've been Arusha them, and he is not going to cure you to give you Shiva except if he was
ill Shafia
except he will get sick unless Allah, the end of the Hadith Cadabra agile unless it was decreed that this is his sickness to death. Other than that, the DUA also said and said, you said it seven times with your cane in sha Allah to Allah, the person will be killed. Who's going to say that as Allah then
rub blush Ravi,
Ravi, are Belarusian IV and yes fear if it's a woman as of Allah the blouse Rahim and
Kassala just add the customer. And yes, fear KI KI at the end, okay.
Raising the hope of the sick, the sick are usually weak and tired. You emotionally
raise their hopes and you tell them You look good. And all that good stuff you mentioned praise them.
When Omar was stabbed and began to quickly approach death, he worried about his faith and fears Allah's punishment Ahmad but Ibis came to him and said, Yeah Ameerul Momineen Do not be worried about anything. You accompanied Rasul Allah in a good way, when he departed, he was pleased with you, you will then accompany Abu Bakr Radi Allahu anhu, in a good way. And when he departed, he was pleased with you, you will then treated their companions in a good way. If you depart from them now they are all pleased with you. Allahu Akbar. Can you imagine you hear this entire era factor of suicide?
And you will amaze me with everybody. So he's lucky, you know, the sick person, especially if it was a very severe sickness. They would love to hear something like this. They would love to hear another one is
amber glass. When his father was dying, he came to me he said, Oh, my father, didn't Rasool was salam give you such and such glad tidings and such and such glad tidings. They reminded him and made them feel feel better.
When our best visited Aisha, when she was on her deathbed, he said, How do you feel? She answered, well, if I only have tequila.
I said, Well, if I only have Taqwa
he said, you are then well, in sha Allah, you are the wife of us, Allah Islam. He did not marry a virgin except you. And Allah declared your innocence from the heavens. You say these things to the person. You will from the people of Fraser, you will from the people your half of the Quran, you can you try to come up with things that he usually used to do in his life to remind him okay, and we don't see any
good any reason not to say these things. When the person is sick. I will finish with this insha Allah.
It will kill him. He said, bringing joy to a sick person's soul, and reassuring his heart has an amazing effect in curing him or reducing his ailment. Subhanallah another thing the last thing is when they visit a sick person, one should display kindness and care in various ways. One should sit close to the sick person and talk to him
In a low and quiet, quiet voice,
showing mercy giving kind advice,
giving gifts. And now when you go to visit somebody, it's very nice to take a gift with you, you know, some try to take with you a gift that is beneficial gift gift that the sick person will benefit from, or via when, you know, we used to have a package for the sick. And in that package, there was husband Muslim, in a fortress of the Muslim, that small book, the person is sitting in bed. And of course the best thing is Quran. But you know, to read some dua all the time, with his spare time Allahu Akbar. And when we take them flowers, flowers are nice and cake is good. chocolate is delicious. I love chocolate. But you know a book that will benefit the people. It's something
that will benefit them will remind them of Allah azza wa jal, you are investing in him and in your Acura also SubhanAllah. So the very something very simple the book is to $3 Maybe you put it together with another, another book or another maybe
author or anything to give the brother that is that is sick.
A sick person is in a serious situation of affliction. However, by no means can we rely.
Okay, this is something we'll discuss next week in childbirth. So
there is a brother who comes here, every fresher brother doctor
from Egypt who just moved here, maybe I would say probably five, six months ago. And he informed me that
his father is very, very sick and is having an operation.
Parkland Hospital, anybody knows Parkland Hospital? Yeah, I didn't get the information yet. But I will have it tomorrow. And probably maybe tomorrow after I might head and visit him in sha Allah. If anybody would like to go to me after God, please let me know in sha Allah. And if you know any sick person we should have, we should have you know,
someone or who works at a hospital or anything to inform us all the time you have one especially after hearing all this reward and how much it's beneficial to us and to the sick people. We should always be informed if anybody gets sick in the community to go and and visit them. So please after you hear all this today, and if you haven't heard the imam or anybody announcing that there's a sick person, please, please Jaquan just like you would love people to visit you. Also sad to rush to visit to visit others and Sharma now give us Chifa on May Allah subhanaw taala gives you fat to all the Muslims all over the world in sha Allah. Allah most remarkable and I'm one of the Muslim in LA
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