Mohamad Baajour – Mind your Own Business

Mohamad Baajour
Share Page

AI: Summary ©

The transcript describes the culture of Muslims who celebrate Rosol on the day of the Rosol holiday, including the use of Hasith to indicate one's good Islam and the potential for problems in the community and society. The dean and leftman go hand in hand with the person watching them, while the bankruptcy leaves everything. The speakers also discuss signs of success and failure for Muslims, including being a good Muslim and a true believer. The importance of focusing on one's actions and not worrying about what doesn't concern them is emphasized, along with a woman who wants to stay in her current job.

AI: Summary ©

00:00:00 --> 00:00:00
			If you noticed,
		
00:00:02 --> 00:00:05
			most of us and most of Muslims in general
		
00:00:08 --> 00:00:09
			they concentrate a lot
		
00:00:11 --> 00:00:12
			on the rituals
		
00:00:15 --> 00:00:18
			any when it comes to the Salat and masjid, nothing will stop them
		
00:00:20 --> 00:00:28
			when it comes to their cat to their ombre to their hedge, you know to the soda caught fasting,
nothing will stop them.
		
00:00:29 --> 00:00:34
			But when it comes to the o'clock, sometimes zero and sometimes negative
		
00:00:38 --> 00:00:39
			most of the concentration
		
00:00:40 --> 00:00:46
			is on the fourth which is we have to but what we are missing is that
		
00:00:47 --> 00:00:50
			they go hand in hand.
		
00:00:51 --> 00:00:59
			The dean and the left they go hand in hand for you. What's the de Lille? There are many in the Quran
and the Sunnah
		
00:01:00 --> 00:01:14
			in the Quran, Allah subhanho wa Taala when he was describing the true believers, the successful
believers What did he say? If let me know meno
		
00:01:16 --> 00:02:14
			successful are the believers and then he Subhana mentioned few characteristics of these successful
believers. The first one a levena whom the salah T him ha she own they have crucial and there's a
lot which is a bother right it's a one of the solid well levena Whom I need love we more on and
second one is staying away from vain talk which is left so we have Dean we have felt a bad o'clock
when Lady you know whom Lusaka Tifa goon and they give that as a cat for again while letting her
home leave for routine him feeling and then the one who protect their chastity. They lower their
gaze they stay away from haram Dean o'clock Dean o'clock hand in hand and Rasul Allah, Islam and the
		
00:02:14 --> 00:02:17
			Hadith, the very famous Hadith who is the bankrupt?
		
00:02:18 --> 00:02:54
			He's asking the Sahaba who is the bankrupt? They said, The Rasul Allah the one who is broke, he has
no money, said no, the bankrupt is the one Listen, how did the Hadith start? The bankrupt is the one
who comes on the Day of Judgment with Salatu was cm was Saba caught. He's doing everything and if
you stop right here, that includes us all. But he cursed this one. He took the money of that one, he
beat that one. He transgressed the rights of someone. So look at this, his akhlaq ruined all his a
bad debt.
		
00:02:55 --> 00:02:57
			Okay, that was just an introduction.
		
00:02:59 --> 00:03:24
			One of the greatest scholars Imam, Abu Omar bin, a Salah. He said, All the o'clock in our deen
rotate around for Hadith. What does that mean? If I want to apply I want to have great o'clock. I
have to apply these four Hadith in my life, I would have great luck. Number one, he said
		
00:03:26 --> 00:03:26
			that
		
00:03:28 --> 00:03:46
			don't get angry the Hadith. Second, the hadith of mankind. Allah he will young fella called Chiron
Alia smoked. whosoever believes in Allah on the Day of Judgment. Let him say good to speak good or
be quiet. Third, he said mankind, the third Hadith
		
00:03:47 --> 00:03:52
			mankind. The third hadith is our Hadith today which we were discussing mean Hosni
		
00:03:54 --> 00:04:18
			Deen Ilmar when Hasni Islam in Turku melayani One of the signs that you are a good Muslim is that
you leave What does not concern you and the fourth Hadith to be a true believer, love to your
brother, what you love to yourself, those four Hadith if we apply them, then you are a person with a
great Islam with a great o'clock. Let's take the one
		
00:04:19 --> 00:04:46
			the one I want to discuss today, which is one of the signs that you are a great not a good Muslim,
because Islam isn't the best one of the signs that you are a great Muslim is that you leave What
does not concern you. You leave What does not concern you? I'll give you some examples. So how many
years you've been married five years Oh, Mashallah. How many children?
		
00:04:47 --> 00:04:50
			Nothing yet. No children five years.
		
00:04:52 --> 00:04:56
			No children for five years. Wow. Is everything okay?
		
00:04:59 --> 00:05:00
			Then the
		
00:05:00 --> 00:05:05
			Son had a baby so mashallah you had a baby and so what did your husband get you because you had a
boy
		
00:05:06 --> 00:05:07
			like nothing?
		
00:05:09 --> 00:05:13
			Well, how much do you make brother? How much they paying you
		
00:05:14 --> 00:05:16
			$1,000 a week, that's it.
		
00:05:17 --> 00:05:19
			So and so's making more.
		
00:05:21 --> 00:05:32
			And so on. So on. How long did your son how long hasn't been visiting you? When is the last time
your daughter visited you? What are you two three weeks? That's it
		
00:05:33 --> 00:05:43
			kids these days. So after this poison that is thrown Wallahi many times fights at home happen
divorce take places
		
00:05:45 --> 00:05:52
			relationship or cut because you are interfering in marriage that does not concern you does not
concern you.
		
00:05:54 --> 00:06:14
			And also as I said, I've looked at this hadith mineros nee Islam if you are a true believer, you
leave What does not concern you. Let's read the Hadith in a different way. That means from my good
Islam is to focus and concentrate on what concerns me right
		
00:06:16 --> 00:06:35
			what concerns me my my Salaat my my mouth I'm going to die I'm going to concentrate and focus on my
agenda on my man on my family on my job on what I'm consider what to think what I will be questioned
about this is what I'm gonna have to concentrate on and this will show how great is my Islam
		
00:06:41 --> 00:06:51
			now being concerned with what being concentrating on what does not concern you. Number one, you're
not obeying Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
00:06:52 --> 00:06:57
			Number two, you're creating a lot of problems in the community and the society. Number three
		
00:06:59 --> 00:07:07
			men Terrica Mala Mala Mala Mia took malaria and he says mama Allah you're the whomsoever does not,
		
00:07:09 --> 00:07:15
			or whoever interfere on what does not concern him, he will hear what does not please Him.
		
00:07:17 --> 00:07:25
			And fourth, has said something profound. He said, minallah Matt, Rod law handle ABD
		
00:07:26 --> 00:07:31
			and ye should widow female Jani. One of the signs that Allah turned away from you
		
00:07:32 --> 00:08:02
			is that you are always concentrating on what does not concern you. Finally, very important point
because something might be misunderstood. This might lead people to think to stop ordering good and
forbidding evil, right? This person is smoking this person is lying. This person is cheating. This
person is doing this. No, no, no, no. I want to stay this does not concern me know. When it comes to
ordering good and forbidding evil. It's
		
00:08:03 --> 00:08:47
			worship. Walter coming. Come on Mattoon, yet Drona ill Hagar Morona Bill maruf when Hona anil
munkar. Like the automat said if there was a sixth rockin in Islam, it would have been ordering good
and forbidding evil. So if I see something wrong, I do not say that does not concern me that my son
does not pray. I do not say that does not concern me that my daughter does not wear the hijab. I do
not say that it does not concern me that all my brothers are dealing with riba. No, no, I have to
say something. I have to do something, especially if the people are very close to us. So may Allah
subhanaw taala make us from the people who always are working to manage and balance between the
		
00:08:47 --> 00:09:01
			o'clock and the dean. And just remember something Subhanallah what do the rest of us I seldom say
when someone come and approach you to marry your daughter. Did he say if someone comes with Dean
give him your daughter?
		
00:09:02 --> 00:09:04
			Did he say that? What did he say?
		
00:09:06 --> 00:09:08
			If someone comes with Dean
		
00:09:09 --> 00:09:11
			and o'clock both
		
00:09:12 --> 00:09:20
			give him your daughter. So if this guy prays five times a day half a zoo, Quran half his Bukhari
half his Muslim half is everything.
		
00:09:22 --> 00:09:41
			But he lies and cheats and he's very stingy and and you cannot trust him and he never keep his
promises. What what did the beam why are these a badass prescribed? Why is the solid prescribe? Why
is the fasting prescribed so we can get hungry? All these bad that are prescribed to make us better
people?
		
00:09:43 --> 00:09:56
			May Allah make us better than what people think of us? May Allah subhanaw taala make our last deeds
or the best deeds and may Allah azza wa jal make our last words in Allah Zakon lock out Subhana
Colombo handshake that should allow him to and that's the federal cabinet
		
00:09:58 --> 00:09:59
			by the law
		
00:10:00 --> 00:10:00
			am
		
00:10:03 --> 00:10:27
			a levena woofie Asana de force your own well levena umani love we weren't born. Well levena Zakka
differ you alone. Wallasey now home only 4g him have you hone in
		
00:10:30 --> 00:10:31
			as Why do you
		
00:10:33 --> 00:10:40
			get a man in home while you rumor? umezu me