Mohamad Baajour – JAR #81 I Am The Standard

Mohamad Baajour
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The importance of acceptance and manners in Islam is highlighted, as it is crucial for gaining acceptance and being allowed to enter Jannah. The speaker also emphasizes the need for acceptance and acceptance in order to be allowed to enter Jannah, as it is crucial for personal and family behavior. The importance of manners, including being generous, respecting others' privacy, and holding hands is also discussed.

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			the Quran
		
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			Salam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh let's learn hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah
Allama lymphoma and founder one fan of Mr. Olympia Anna Elman. Yeah camera. I mean, we ask Allah
azza wa jal teachers would benefit us, benefit us from what he told us and increase us in knowledge.
I mean, you're obliged. I mean,
		
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			My dearly beloved, respected brothers and sisters
		
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			are sort of lost Allah Allahu Allahu wa sallam told us and the Hadith in Sahih Muslim, he said
		
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			whomsoever desires to be rescued from the hellfire and enter Jannah
		
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			that includes every single one of us. Yeah, Rasul Allah, I am one of these people, what should I do?
Whosoever desires to be rescued from the hellfire and enter Jannah should do things
		
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			should die in a state of complete belief in Allah and the Day of Judgment. That's number one. And
number two, should treat others the way he wishes to be treated.
		
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			Both of them combined,
		
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			will make us qualify to enter Jannah.
		
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			Number one is my relationship with my Creator, believe in Allah and the Day of Judgment. Second, is
my relationship with the creation, treat others the way you would love to be treated,
		
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			both go hand in hand, in our dean, manners, morality, and a bad that go hand in hand, if I do one
without the other. That's not good at all. It has to be both. In this hadith, we have Iman in Allah
and the Last Day and you know the rest of their kind of the Eman and treatment to others. It has to
be both in order to be permitted to Jana.
		
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			I will give you a hadith of one without the other or I will give you two Hadith that one of them is
doing one and not doing the other. And other one the same thing. I showed the Allah on her, she came
through so Allah salAllahu Salam, and she said, Yeah, this will Allah even should die and he used to
provide food to others. And he used to be very hospitable any he is a very generous person.
		
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			Will any of that benefit him on the day of judgment? Because he died as a non Muslim
		
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			Rasul Allah say salam said no.
		
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			It will not benefit him because he never said Not even once. A bit fiddly hottie a T Yama Deen ya
Allah forgive my sins on the Day of Resurrection. So this is a person who has great luck by being
extremely generous, but he had no Eman, zero.
		
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			On the other hand, a man came through solos and Solomon said, Yeah, rasool Allah. I know if a woman
that she prays to 100 Every night, she fasts very often, but
		
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			she harms her neighbors with her tongue. So this woman had the religious part covered, but the
murders is not covered. What was the answer for salatu salam here for now she is in the hellfire. My
brothers and sisters. She prays treasured, and she fasts the optional fast, Allahu Akbar. So the
point I'm trying to make is that we need both as Muslims we need Eman Deen, and we need manners in
order to be saved on the Day of Judgment.
		
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			Now,
		
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			what is the problem?
		
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			If I see a guy driving very slow, I say skies so slow. And if I see guy driving very fast, this guy
is very fast. I am the standard.
		
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			I am the standard.
		
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			My spending is perfect. Anyone who spends more than me is extravagant
		
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			Anyone that spends less than me is stingy. I am the standard
		
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			anyone that handles tough situations like me, he's the best. Anyone who goes beyond that he's
reckless. And anyone who goes less than that is a coward.
		
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			I am the standard
		
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			and that also this mentality exceeds to go to religious matters.
		
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			Anyone who is as religious as me is a great Muslim. Anyone who does more than me is an extremist.
And anyone who does less than me is heedless. I have the standard.
		
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			This is our problem that every single one of us thinks that he or she are the standard.
		
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			My brothers and sisters
		
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			sometimes what I consider my standard today,
		
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			three weeks ago was a different standard. One year ago, it was a different standard. For example,
three weeks ago I used to pray only for
		
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			no sunnah. And I used to I used to look at the people who praying sunnah as they are this is too
much why they're doing this for there's enough. Now I start praying Sunnah the people who pray
suddenly became now what's wrong with them. So I am not the standard and you are not the standard.
Let's look at the real standard and that is only one Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he is
the standard.
		
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			My brothers and sisters leave the creation to the Creator. Let him judge them. Let ALLAH SubhanA wa
Tada judge them. Let me and you concentrate on ourselves and try our best to improve our morality as
close as possible to the best man ever created. Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, his
character and social interaction are a prime example for Muslims till the Day of Judgment. Three men
came to shadow the Allahu. And they asked her about the acts of worship of Rasulullah sallallahu
wasallam.
		
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			So they kind of belittle them.
		
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			So she told Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So the first man said,
		
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			I pray all night and I do not sleep. rustlers I said, I pray and I sleep. The other guy, he said, I
stay away from women, other ones any woman to bother me, so I do not get married. He say I love
women and I get married.
		
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			The other said I fast every single day, as well. As I said, I fast and I break my fast and I am the
best of you. And whosoever stay away from my sunnah is not from us. So Subhan Allah, we have the
misconception that the more complicated I make my life, the more religious I am. That's not true.
		
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			The best of mankind is to fast and break his fast is to preach he should and he used to sleep and
used to have time for his family time for everything. That is the standard Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam told us that I was sent he said I was sent to perfect good manners.
		
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			My brothers and sisters, if we concentrate
		
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			and focus on improving our manners, Allah you'll see a huge change
		
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			in your life.
		
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			I will end this by reminding myself and reminding you of some of the virtues of having good manners.
		
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			One of the Sahaba said we were sitting around the sword allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam worker and
know who Allah roussin a tire as if there are birds on our heads. You know, imagine there's a bird
on your head. You don't want to move in order for the bird to fly, but to fly, right? So this is the
term used in Arabic to show that you are full concentration. So he said we were sitting as if there
are birds on our head, and none of us was saying the word and then some headwinds came. A Sahaba
used to be very happy when the bad ones come because the bad ones are blunt. They asked a lot of
questions and the soft
		
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			I've always shy used to spectra solos I sell them a lot and they did not like to ask too many
questions. So the Bedouins came and asked the question. They said, Yeah rasool Allah, who is the
most beloved the a bad servants to Allah azza wa jal, he said, the ones with the best of manners.
		
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			The ones with the best of manners are among the most beloved to Allah. In another Hadith Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, the closest to me on the day of judgment, and the most beloved to
me, are the ones with the best of manners. The most thing that lead people to Jannah great manners,
the heaviest thing in the scale. Good manners, Allahu Akbar. My brothers and sisters, most beloved
to Allah, most beloved Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam guarantee you Jana heaviest in the
scale and so much more. So last SLM, said, the one with good manners will be rewarded just like a
person who fasts or they end up on night and prayer. Allahu Akbar. So my brothers and sisters, just
		
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			like we concentrate, and we focus on our a bite that we make sure is our salad on time. We make sure
that we respect and honor our parents and every other a bad similarly, we should have a lot of
concentration on our o'clock. What is good manners. In the Mobarak Rahim Allah summarized good
manners in three things. He said Buster Lodge, cheerful face,
		
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			second, Bezaleel maruf, doing good, being kind, being loving, being courteous, spending on others,
visiting each other, keeping the ties of kinship or everything good goes under this. And the third
one, holding, withholding evil,
		
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			withholding evil, not to backbite not to lie not to cheat, not to say any profanity and all that
stuff. All these three things are good manners. The dua for that is Allahumma Kyma has sent a
healthy for her sin Hello Loki, Ya Allah, just like you perfected my creation, perfect my manners. I
ask Allah to bless you and bless me and everyone who's watching us. I ask Allah azza wa jal to make
our last deeds or besties our last words that Allah Allah Allah, I love you all for the sake of
Allah Subhana Allah Vionic Masha Allah Allah Allah and the stuff you want to tell Golic
		
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			the lobby was he on meaning