Mirza Yawar Baig – Istighfaar and Tawba

Mirza Yawar Baig
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The speakers discuss the importance of printing and editing a book of deeds to ensure it is legitimate and accurate. They advise against sharing false deeds and not talking about it, and emphasize the importance of forgiveness and providing relief and support to people who experience difficult struggles. They stress the need for forgiveness in a systematic way and emphasize the importance of providing relief and support to people who experience difficult struggles.
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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious,

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the Most Merciful.

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All praise is due to Allah, Lord of

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the worlds.

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And peace and blessings be upon the most

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honoured of Prophets and Messengers, Muhammad, the Messenger

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of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him

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and his family and his companions.

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My brothers and sisters, Alhamdulillah, the other day

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I mentioned to you in the Khatira, I

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said, think of, I said to you and

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I said to myself that we are all

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authors.

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We are all authors.

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We are the authors of our own books

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of deeds.

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And on the Day of Judgement, these books

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of deeds will be published.

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And what is in that book of deeds

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is what we put there.

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So, therefore, it is very important for us

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to ensure that we, before the book is

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published, that the book is edited and cleaned

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up and proofread, like we do with any

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properly authored book.

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You don't just write something and send it

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to the publisher, and the publisher also doesn't

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just publish it without checking, without editing, without

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proofreading, right?

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Everyone takes time and trouble behind it.

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And that's why publishers charge you an arm

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and a leg for their fees, because they

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make your book worthy of being published.

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People have wonderful ideas and they like to

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write wonderful things, Alhamdulillah, but when it comes

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to publishing, their manuscripts are sometimes nightmares, because

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of various reasons, people don't have enough command

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of the language, and so on and so

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forth, and mistakes.

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But if you get a good publisher, this

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is where a good publisher is so useful,

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a good editor is so useful, because then

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they are able to make that book into

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something which people would like to read.

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And so also our books of deeds, to

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make them presentable, meaning to ensure that there

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is nothing, no disobedience of Allah in it,

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that it is something which is free from

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all evil, is our responsibility.

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It's our book of deeds, Allah swt opened

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and left the door of editing open until

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we die, so let us make sure that

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we do that editing and clean up our

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act.

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Now, for that, here is what I suggest

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we do.

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Think of one, and do this one by

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one, think of one thing that you did,

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one evil thing, and then ask Allah swt

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to forgive us, forgive you for that evil

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thing.

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You don't have to tell anybody, you should

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not tell anybody.

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Nawiz Hasan said, don't publicise your sins.

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If you did something wrong and Allah swt

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hid it, people don't know, leave it like

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that.

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Don't tell anyone about it.

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Don't even do, like there's this tendency in

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many of the Dawahs, many of the people

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who preach Islam, where they, actually they seem

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to take a lot of delight in talking

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about how evil and how bad they used

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to be.

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And you say, you know, I was doing

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this and I was doing that, and I

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was on drugs and I was on this

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and that and what not, and today, see,

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I'm much better.

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Now, that's a very, very big trap because,

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first of all, you are describing all kinds

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of stuff that you used to do.

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Second thing is that, almost by human nature,

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when you describe these things and then you

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talk about how you came out of it,

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it creates arrogance.

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You feel that you've done a great thing,

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although it was only the grace of Allah

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that Allah swt changed you from where you

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were to where you are today.

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So, don't say all that.

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Just tell people some good stuff about how

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to obey Allah, how to deal with that

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in today's world, so that it becomes easy

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to do that, and so forth.

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So, don't talk about evils.

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But think about that evil and make istighfar.

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That's what I want to say to you,

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which is, think of one evil thing that

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you did and beg Allah swt to forgive

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you for it.

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So, one of the best ways is to

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say, I

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seek the forgiveness of Allah swt jalla jalaluhu,

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whom there is none worthy of worship except

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Him, the Living, Al-Hayyul Qayyum, the Living

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and the Eternal, wa atoo ilayh, and I

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repent to Him, I turn towards Him.

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So, astaghfarullah wa atoo ilayh.

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There is istighfar and tawbah.

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These are two words, specific individual words in

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the Quran.

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Istighfar means to seek forgiveness, it means to

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apologise, to say, I'm sorry.

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And tawbah means to turn towards Allah, meaning

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that we leave whatever that we were doing

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and we never do it again.

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The condition of istighfar and tawbah, before that,

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so istighfar is one word, Allah swt said,

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fastaghfiru, thumma tubu ilayh, seek forgiveness.

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Alhamdulillah.

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Allah said, seek forgiveness, ask Allah to forgive

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you, thumma tubu ilayh, and then turn towards

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Allah swt.

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So, istighfar and tawbah.

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Fastaghfiru, thumma tubu ilayh.

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So, two different words, but when only one

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of them is used, when somebody says, make

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istighfar, tawbah, or turning towards Allah, is implied.

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Because there is no istighfar without tawbah.

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You can't say, I apologise, I repent to

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Allah, and then deliberately do the same thing

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again.

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So, when istighfar is mentioned, tawbah is implied.

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When tawbah is mentioned, istighfar is implied, because

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if you say, I turn towards Allah, it

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means that you repented and you sought forgiveness.

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So, when one is said, both are implied,

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but if you want to talk about these

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two separate things individually, then you would use

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both of these words in their context.

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So, here we are saying, astaghfirullahil lazee, I

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repent to, I seek forgiveness from, al-lazee,

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the one, la ilaha illa hu, other than

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whom there is no one worthy of worship,

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huwal hayyul qayyum, and he is the living

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and the established, the eternal, wa'atubu ilayh,

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and I turn towards him, and I seek

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his forgiveness, I sought his forgiveness, I turn

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towards him, meaning I am leaving my disobedience,

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and I am turning towards Allah, meaning I

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am now henceforth going to be obedient to

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Allah.

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So, the condition of tawbah is istighfar, is

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to genuine regret, seek the forgiveness of Allah,

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and then never repeat that sin again.

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Now, you might say, well, you know, I

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have no intention of repeating it, I never

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do it deliberately, but sometimes I forget, or

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sometimes whatever happens, right?

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So, then what should I do?

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Then make istighfar again.

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But obviously, don't make a habit of it,

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don't say that, you know, deliberately, I made

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tawbah, okay, let me do it again, I'll

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make tawbah again, no.

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That would be playing games with Allah, which

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is highly reprehensible, and opens you, and me,

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and the person doing it, to real trouble.

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Because, remember, when you are seeking forgiveness, Allah

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swt promised to forgive, but Allah is not

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compelled to forgive.

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Right?

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Allah is not in your control.

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So, if somebody says, I sought forgiveness, okay,

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sure, so you did, but you didn't get

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it.

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You're still going to the fire.

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This is possible, Allah swt can do this.

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I'm not saying He will, inshallah, He will

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not.

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And for sincerely repenting, Allah swt promised to

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forgive.

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So, we expect Allah swt's promise, we look

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forward to that promise, but for the sincere

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one.

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Tawbah, who makes istighfar sincerely, not somebody who's

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playing games.

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So, we ask Allah to forgive.

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So, make this sincere forgiveness, and seek forgiveness

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from Allah swt.

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Now, the benefit of this is, the Prophet

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said in the Hadith in Abu Dawud, if

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anyone, the meaning of that, if anyone constantly

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seeks pardon from Allah, means he makes this

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istighfar, and I would recommend, say astaghfirullahilladhi laa

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ilaaha illaah, wa laa kayyuhu wa tuhbili, at

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least 100 times every day.

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Make this into a routine azkar.

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Now, again, when I say 100 times, don't

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make it into a mechanical, mindless thing, astaghfirullah,

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astaghfirullah, no.

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Sincerely repent to Allah swt.

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Sincerely ask Allah swt's forgiveness.

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And do that 100 times every day.

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The Prophet said in this Hadith in Abu

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Dawud, the meaning of that, whoever, if anyone

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constantly seeks pardon from Allah swt, and this

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is sincerely seeking pardon, meaning not going back

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to those sins, Allah will appoint for him

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a way out of every distress.

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Allah will appoint for him a way out

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of every distress, and a relief from every

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anxiety, and will provide sustenance for him from

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where he does not expect.

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So, three things.

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One, Allah will appoint a way out for

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him out of every distress, every difficulty, and

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he will provide sustenance, he will provide relief

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from every anxiety, and will provide sustenance for

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him from where he leasts or does not

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expect it.

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In the Hadith in Musnad Imam Ahmad, Sahih

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Hadith, Ibn Abbas reported that the Prophet said,

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whoever increases his istighfar, prayers for forgiveness, Allah

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will grant him relief from every worry, a

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way out from every hardship, and provide for

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him in ways he does not expect.

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So, this is very important for us to

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do.

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And of course, we have the ayat of

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Surah At-Talaq, which says the same thing.

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Allah swt said, وَمَن يَتَّقِ اللَّهَ يَجْعَلْ لَهُ

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مَخْرَجًا وَيَرْزُقُهُ مِنْ حَيْثُ لَا يَهْتَسِبْ وَمَن يَتَوَكَّلْ

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عَلَى اللَّهِ فَهُوَ هَزْبُهُ So, Allah swt is

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saying that the one who has taqwa, Allah

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swt will extract him from every difficulty, and

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He will provide him from sources that he

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could not imagine, and the one who has

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tawakkul on Allah, who trusts in Allah completely,

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Allah swt will become sufficient for him.

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I imagine this is the beauty of the

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generosity of Allah.

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Allah does not even say specifically, I will

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give him this or that, Allah says, I

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will be sufficient for him.

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Whatever he needs, sufficiency of Allah, that Allah

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swt is sufficient for us, is sufficiency in

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the dunya and akhira.

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And sufficiency in the dunya is freedom from

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all difficulties.

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And sufficiency in the akhira is Jannatul Fardos,

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Inshallah.

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We ask Allah swt for this.

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Please make dua, I make dua for you

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and me.

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I'm here in Atlanta, Masjid Hamza, and we

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are starting the Sirah Solution Workshop in a

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few minutes.

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We ask Allah swt to put khair and

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barakah in this and to fill our hearts

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with hubb and love of Allah swt Himself,

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and of Rasulullah s.a.w. and make

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this a means of khair and barakah and

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beauty for all of us, Inshallah.

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