Mirza Yawar Baig – Akhlaaq before Ibaadah

Mirza Yawar Baig
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The speaker discusses their personal approach to Islam and their social life, including a disturbing incident where a man named J causes people to ask one question to ask another if they have a problem. They also discuss the importance of following the logic of Allah's advice and practicing them in a way that is meant to be practiced. The transcript also touches on the use of logic and the influence of Islam on one's behavior.

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			You know, many people come to me asking
		
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			questions about Islam,
		
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			And they have been asking me now for
		
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			over 20 years.
		
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			But one interesting thing
		
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			is almost everything,
		
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			every question, almost not not all, almost every
		
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			question has to do with some
		
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			issue, some.
		
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			So my standard answer, I tell them I'm
		
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			not a. I don't give.
		
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			So I say, ask once to ask once.
		
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			So I send them to the.
		
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			Allah is witness till today.
		
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			Almost nobody came to me to say,
		
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			I think there is something wrong with my
		
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			heart.
		
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			How do I
		
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			clean my heart?
		
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			I hate people.
		
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			I am greedy.
		
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			I have.
		
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			I am jealous of people.
		
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			I don't like to see somebody else doing
		
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			well.
		
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			I find that even though I know
		
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			including I know the I know the
		
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			about the problem of of backbiting.
		
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			But I find that my whole social life
		
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			is only this.
		
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			Talk about this one. Talk about that one.
		
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			Talk about that one.
		
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			How can I cure this? What shall I
		
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			do? Nobody.
		
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			So my conclusion is that we are living
		
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			in a society which is comprised of Awliya
		
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			Allah.
		
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			Who have achieved.
		
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			They don't need it.
		
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			Nobody comes to ask, for example,
		
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			that I pray 2 rakat of salah,
		
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			but from the time I make
		
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			to the time I say
		
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			my attention
		
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			will not stay on Allah
		
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			The whole time my mind is
		
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			growing the world.
		
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			What shall I do? How to cure this?
		
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			Nobody asks.
		
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			But what is
		
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			Allah saying?
		
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			Allah said the believers have succeeded. Who are
		
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			they? They are those who have concentration
		
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			in their prayer.
		
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			Allah did not say they are those who
		
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			know
		
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			the Hanafi, Maliki,
		
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			Shafi'i,
		
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			you know, humbly position on sighting of the
		
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			moon.
		
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			The successful believers are those who know.
		
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			Right?
		
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			This matala, that matala, this thing. No. Allah
		
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			said those who have concentration
		
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			in their prayer, they're standing before Allah and
		
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			they are aware that they're standing before Allah.
		
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			They're not standing before Allah as if they're
		
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			standing before anybody else.
		
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			Allah did not tell us to bring our
		
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			body and place it here, and the mind
		
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			and the heart can be anywhere. No.
		
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			Nobody has.
		
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			Because we have
		
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			unfortunately
		
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			put ourselves into this
		
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			very this shaitan has convinced us that
		
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			knowledge
		
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			and being deindar
		
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			and being,
		
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			you know, religious consists of
		
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			this accumulation of random bits and pieces and
		
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			that. So we listen to this video, that
		
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			video,
		
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			this,
		
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			TikTok, that TikTok, and we feel, oh,
		
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			I'm all there.
		
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			Now let me give you an example from
		
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			the seerah.
		
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			When our mother
		
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			when Rasool
		
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			first received Raheem, when he first received the
		
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			revelation in the Gaar of Hera, in the
		
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			cave of Hera. That we all know the
		
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			story.
		
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			He saw Jibreel alaihi salam. Jibreel alaihi salam
		
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			hugged him. He said,
		
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			a kola.
		
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			Read. He said, I am not
		
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			I cannot read. And this happened in the
		
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			whole incident.
		
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			And he came imagine what must be his
		
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			state. Right? This is a human being.
		
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			The first time he's seeing I mean, he
		
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			saw Jibid alaihis salam twice before that, but
		
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			that was, you know, like like he he
		
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			said I saw him sitting on a throne
		
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			and his wings stretched from the east to
		
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			the west, the entire horizon.
		
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			Now that
		
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			being comes and he has this very close
		
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			encounter
		
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			with another extraterrestrial
		
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			being.
		
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			So he comes home to his wife. He
		
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			is terrified. He says,
		
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			cover me up, power me up. He's shivering
		
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			as if he has eye fever.
		
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			And he says, I fear that I will
		
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			be destroyed.
		
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			What does she tell him?
		
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			She tells him no.
		
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			She said you will not be destroyed. Allah
		
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			by Allah, Allah will never disgrace you.
		
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			Allah will never disgrace you. She just received
		
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			this as good tidings, as good news.
		
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			By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you
		
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			and then see what she says. Why does
		
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			she say that? She's giving you reasons.
		
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			She's not saying because I love you. No.
		
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			Reasons. What are the reasons?
		
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			Does she say because you pray so much,
		
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			because you make so much of zikr, because
		
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			you go and sit in the cave in
		
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			for 3 weeks, 2, 4 weeks, what not?
		
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			Because you have a topia on your head,
		
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			because your beard is long.
		
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			Is she saying that? No.
		
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			What is she saying? Reason. What is the
		
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			reason? Why is she saying? And with some
		
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			complete certainty
		
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			by Allah.
		
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			Allah will not displace you. Why?
		
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			She says because you keep good relations with
		
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			your kith and kin.
		
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			Because you
		
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			keep good relations with your family.
		
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			Because you speak the truth.
		
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			Because you help the poor and the destitute,
		
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			and because you entertain
		
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			your guests
		
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			generously,
		
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			and because you assist those
		
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			who are stricken
		
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			with calamities.
		
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			What is she talking about?
		
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			Is she talking about or
		
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			is she talking about?
		
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			Is she talking about worship?
		
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			Or is she talking about his manners and
		
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			his culture
		
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			and his treatment of people and his behavior?
		
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			Which one?
		
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			What about the one who had knowledge?
		
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			There was one who had
		
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			so much knowledge
		
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			that Allah
		
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			elevated him to a level where he was
		
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			now with the malaika, with the angels.
		
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			But he was not from the angels.
		
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			He was from
		
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			another form.
		
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			Terrestrial form. Allah
		
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			elevated him to the level where he was
		
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			now among the angels.
		
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			He knew Allah
		
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			He could see Allah
		
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			He was in the presence of Allah
		
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			He talked to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala talked to him.
		
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			But this knowledge,
		
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			what did it do for him?
		
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			This knowledge took him into the hellfire forever
		
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			and ever.
		
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			Because
		
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			there was no there was no
		
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			there was no
		
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			understanding, there was no
		
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			in the Kalb. There was no understanding of
		
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			the glory and majesty of Allah.
		
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			There was no obedience to Allah
		
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			So when Allah said to him, make sajdah
		
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			to
		
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			Adam,
		
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			he countered it with logic.
		
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			Now think about that. That logic is logical.
		
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			He's saying, why should I bow to anyone
		
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			other than you?
		
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			I believe I'm talking about shaitar, about Satan.
		
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			Did he refuse to did he did he
		
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			did he refuse to make sense of Allah?
		
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			No.
		
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			May Allah protect us. We don't we do
		
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			this. We live salah.
		
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			This salah,
		
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			which is so important
		
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			that it stops the tawaf of the Kaaba
		
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			5 times a day every day.
		
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			The salah which stops the tawaf of the
		
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			Kaaba, not with 5 times a day.
		
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			This cannot stop us from our healings.
		
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			My work is more important. My meeting is
		
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			more important.
		
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			My game I am watching, that is more
		
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			important.
		
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			Yeah. Sure.
		
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			Iblis did not refuse to do sujood to
		
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			Allah.
		
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			He says to Allah, the effect of which
		
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			he says, this instruction is illogical. You are
		
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			telling me to make salza to something else,
		
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			to a creature.
		
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			And then
		
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			I
		
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			am better than him.
		
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			You can you made me from fire. You
		
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			made him from clay. So his logic that
		
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			fire is superior to clay. Is it superior?
		
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			Is it even is there even a comparison?
		
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			You light a fire. You throw sand on
		
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			it. What happens? Fire dies.
		
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			Using of logic
		
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			where obedience should have been there.
		
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			You tell me, you are telling me. I
		
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			am when I am doing sujood to Adam,
		
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			effectively, what am I doing? I am doing
		
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			sajdah to Allah.
		
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			Not to other.
		
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			Not to other. Did did the malaika worship
		
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			other? No. Aleks Aleks no. The malaika obeyed.
		
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			Look, what do you see in your heart?
		
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			He says,
		
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			do what you have been commanded to do.
		
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			Insha'Allah you will find, I will I will
		
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			have Sabar. I will be with the Sabar.
		
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			Did he say to him,
		
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			My father.
		
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			What kind of thing is this?
		
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			I'm a little kid.
		
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			You were never there from the beginning. Now
		
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			you come.
		
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			And the next thing you know, you want
		
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			to slaughter me. What what is this?
		
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			Where is the logic for this?
		
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			Does it make sense to you? Yeah, Abati.
		
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			Does it make sense to you?
		
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			No.
		
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			Do what you have been commanded.
		
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			Obedience.
		
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			What did Allah what did Rasool Rasool Rasool
		
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			the first thing when he went to Madi
		
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			Radi and the the beautiful Hadith in Ibrahim
		
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			are narrated by Abdullah bin Salam, the Jewish
		
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			rabbi who became Muslim.
		
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			He narrated the hadith of husband. Nabi Shah
		
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			Salam first came to Adena. He said people
		
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			all were were rejoicing and sowing and say
		
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			he has come. He has come and so
		
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			on. And he was giving them advice. And
		
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			first of all, Abdullah bin Salam said, I
		
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			looked at his face and I know that
		
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			this is not the face of a liar.
		
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			And Abdullah bin Salam is not simply saying
		
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			it. Abdullah bin Salam was trained in that.
		
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			As part of his training as a rabbi,
		
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			he was the senior most
		
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			the most respected rabbi of the Baran Adir,
		
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			who were
		
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			a group of Jews who were known for
		
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			their knowledge.
		
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			So he said, I saw his face. This
		
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			is not the face of a lion. And
		
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			then he says, see what he says and
		
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			see what he says.
		
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			It is narrated. He said, O people
		
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			spread salaam,
		
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			spread the greeting of peace.
		
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			Feed others.
		
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			Uphold the ties of kinship,
		
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			of relationship.
		
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			And then only then
		
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			pray in the night when people are sleeping
		
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			and you will enter Jannah
		
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			with Salah.
		
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			So even
		
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			in where he is talking about
		
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			prayer
		
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			that is coming at the end of spend
		
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			the whole day in being good to people.
		
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			Pray in the night. He's talking about the
		
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			Hajjuk.
		
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			Daytime, what must I do? Be good to
		
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			people.
		
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			Many of us live away from our parents.
		
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			My question is how many people
		
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			phone their parents and talk to them?
		
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			Them. Today, Allah believe me, this technology
		
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			will become witness against us.
		
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			Because nobody today can say
		
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			it cost too much. A telephone call from,
		
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			America to Somalia or to Pakistan or to
		
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			Syria or something cost so much money. No.
		
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			It's free.
		
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			On any chat or WhatsApp or Telegram on
		
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			this and that and the other, It is
		
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			free. Not only is it free, you can
		
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			do a video chat where your parents can
		
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			see you.
		
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			I know the situation of parents. There are
		
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			people who are who have money, who have
		
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			a house, who have a car, who have
		
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			a driver, who have a cook, who have
		
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			who have servants, everything else. They are simply
		
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			dying of loneliness.
		
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			Not because they have got anything wrong with
		
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			them. Not because they got no money. They
		
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			are they are they are begging for to
		
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			see their children.
		
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			Children don't care.
		
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			You ask the sir, No. No. I'm sending
		
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			money.
		
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			Of course, you're somebody, but is that enough?
		
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			No. I can't get leave. I can't go.
		
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			Okay. So you can't get leave. You can't
		
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			go. No problem. Phone.
		
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			Let your mother let your father see your
		
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			face.
		
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			So Nabi said, Spirit salah,
		
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			ties of kinship.
		
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			Right? Be good to people.
		
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			Feed people.
		
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			And then in the night,
		
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			stand before Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta.
		
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			And Allah will make your path to Jannah
		
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			easy. We ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta that
		
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			there is a rule to enable us to
		
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			understand this deen and to learn the priorities
		
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			of this deen and to learn to practice
		
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			this deen in the way that it is
		
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			meant to be practiced.
		
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			We ask Allah to be pleased with us
		
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			and never to be displeased.