Maryam Lemu – WHAT CAN YOU LIVE WITH AND WHAT CAN YOU NOT LIVE WITH

30 August 2024

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The speaker advises the customer to not ignore warning signs that come up during marriage, as they will make changes to their relationship. The speaker also suggests that the customer should address these warning signs to avoid irritating them and avoid feeling uncomfortable at the marriage.

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There are so many things that you're gonna

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find out after you get married but it's

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so important you don't see certain things that

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are irritating you now and believe that they're

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gonna get better after the marriage. So if

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there are things you do not like now,

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make sure you address them until you have

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completely seen it resolved

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to your satisfaction.

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Otherwise, my best advice to you is just

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walk away.

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Do not ignore warning signs either.

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I often say warning signs are Allah speaking

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to us and telling us to beware.

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If you notice things such as a hot

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temper,

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mood swings, aggression,

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maybe not taking their prayers seriously, if that's

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something that's important to you, or some sort

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of fanatical

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ideologies.

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If you notice anything that makes you even

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slightly uncomfortable,

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do not ignore it. Address your concerns

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before the marriage.

"I really think this is one of the greatest causes one could support"

Mufti Ismail Menk