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As a Muslim, how do you talk about
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* and intimacy during courtship with the person
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you want to get married to?
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Well, you don't.
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Keep those things until after you get married,
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because you have the rest of your life
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to discuss it, talk about your likes, your
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dislikes, your fantasies, and then you explore and
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bring them to life.
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You see, my father during courtship warned me
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about something.
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He said, during courtship, do not let shaitan
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be the third in the room.
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And unfortunately, during those moments, because obviously you
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can't ask such questions if there's a third
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party, shaitan is the third in the room,
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and he's just waiting to get to work.
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He is waiting to plant seeds of lust
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in your mind and that eagerness to say,
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oh, maybe we let's start practicals before we
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tie the knot.
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So be very careful in the kind of
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topics you discuss, especially because at that moment
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of courtship, you're both in love, you're both
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eager to be together and be united as
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a couple and explore, right?
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So wait, press pause, hold on until you
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get married, and then you start having those
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kind of discussions.
