Maryam Lemu – GET MARRIED FOR THE RIGHT REASON

Maryam Lemu
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The speaker advises the customer to get married for the right reasons, not just because they are older or because their biological clock is ticking. The advice is to get married for the right reasons, not just because they are single or because they want to live a better life. The advice is to trust in the future and not rush into the decision, as it is an important decision and may require wealth or a better marriage.

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			The first advice I will give you is
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			to get married for the right reasons, not
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			due to pressure.
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			Sometimes we end up telling ourselves or we
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			listen to folks who tell us that we've
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			reached a certain age or our biological clock
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			is ticking.
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			Our friends, our siblings, our mates and our
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			age are all married and we wonder what's
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			wrong with us. Now you are not them
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			and every story is different. This is not
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			a competition
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			and it's not about them, it's about you.
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			They may be miserable
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			while they are married yet you may be
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			single and actually at peace.
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			This is real life. Marriage can make or
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			break you. You have to realize this is
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			an important decision. You cannot rush into it
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			and you can't just settle.
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			There are many more reasons why folks get
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			married. For some, it's because of wealth. Yeah.
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			They want to be comfortable. They want to
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			live the good life.
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			They want to belong to a certain social
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			class.
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			But all the money in the world cannot
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			buy you happiness, cannot buy you peace of
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			mind or contentment.
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			You may want wealth now. You want to
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			live the good life now and be very
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			comfortable. But trust me, someday,
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			years from now, you're gonna want something deeper,
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			something more, something richer, and more meaningful, which
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			money cannot provide.