Maryam Amir – Ghirah support vs control

			There's a difference between the
concept of Rey being used to
		

			support, protect, uplift women in
men's lives, and women feel like
		

			these men have got my back, versus
using the concept to justify
		

			controlling women. Alma radila, an
who was the ruler of the Muslims
		

			at the time when he was married to
Attika bint Zaid rodi la Juan ha
		

			she put in her marriage contract
as Ibn Hazel espadani mentions
		

			that he cannot prevent her from
going to the masjid. She would go
		

			to the masjid. And Ibn Al asked
her, Why do you go out? And you
		

			know that Amar hates it and he's
jealous. And she responded, what's
		

			stopping him from banning me? And
he responded to her. What's
		

			stopping him is a statement of the
Prophet, peace be upon him. Do not
		

			prevent the maid servants of God
from the houses of God. So ayatika
		

			kept going, because despite armors
jealousy, he recognized that her
		

			rights in Islam overruled his
personal preference. He was in the
		

			masjid when he was stabbed, which
eventually led to his death.
		

			Rodilo Ho Anhu and ati guilloha.
Anho was in the masjid when the
		

			stabbing took place. You could say
that she might have been so
		

			overwhelmed with guilt or regret
that she was in a place where she
		

			knew her husband didn't support
and love for her to be when he was
		

			murdered,
		

			but when she got remarried later
on to azube rodi Aloha anhu, she
		

			still put in her marriage contract
to him that he cannot prevent her
		

			from going to the masjid for her,
the Masjid was mentioned in
		

			hundreds of narrations of woman
companions who Were with the
		

			Prophet Muhammad. Peace be upon
him. The Masjid was a place that
		

			they actively sought out, and they
clung onto Alma adiloha anhu was
		

			the example of a man who took
Islam to be his compass. It wasn't
		

			his jealousy, it wasn't his
personal feelings over how women
		

			should be. It was his religion.