Maryam Amir – Did women companions participate in society

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The speaker discusses how women should not take the exception to the rule of women, but also mentions instances where women made men laugh with their response. They also discuss how women made men laugh with their response to a woman in public, and how women should not be caught in the act of being outdoors. The speaker also talks about how women made men laugh with their response to a woman in public, and how they should not be caught in the act of being outdoors.

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			I keep hearing people say that the
woman companions were not actively
		
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			involved in society, and that the
few examples who were were
		
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			anomalies, and that women today
should not take the exception as
		
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			the rule. But what about um sulei
rodi Allahu anha, when on the day
		
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			of hunayn, she took out a dagger,
and the Prophet, peace be upon
		
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			him, asked her about it, and she
made him laugh with his response.
		
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			Was she an exception to the rule
of woman, not being actively
		
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			engaged in society, invisibly
present in public? What about a
		
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			Mother of the Believers who, in
istijla, made Ethiop with the
		
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			Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon
him, and without pads, tampons,
		
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			menstrual cups, she put a tray
underneath her in the masjid to
		
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			catch the blood at a time when
there was no partition between men
		
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			and women. Was she an exception to
the rule? What about when Zainab,
		
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			the wife of ibn Masud, a scholar
amongst the Companions, asked him
		
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			to ask the Prophet Muhammad, peace
be upon him, a question on her
		
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			behalf. And Ibn mesud responded to
her by saying, Why don't you ask
		
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			him yourself, sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, Was she an exception to
		
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			the rule? Was his answer
encouraging an exception to that
		
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			rule? What about when Asmaa
narrates hearing and the message
		
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			of the Prophet? Sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam from the Prophet, peace
		
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			be upon him. What happens in the
grave? And then all the Companions
		
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			got really loud, and she couldn't
hear the end of what he said,
		
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			sallAllahu, alayhi wa sallam. So
she turned to the man in front of
		
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			her and she said, may Allah bless
you. And she asked him to fill her
		
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			in on what she missed was that
interaction an anomaly in the time
		
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			of the Prophet. Peace be upon him.
Many of us have heard the
		
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			statement of Aisha radiAllahu
anha, who praised the woman of the
		
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			Ansar because their shyness did
not keep them from asking
		
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			questions. But do you know why she
made this statement? Because Asmaa
		
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			bin Sheik went to the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and
		
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			asked about how to purify herself
after *. She didn't ask
		
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			a man to go ask the Prophet, peace
be upon him. That question on her
		
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			behalf and all of us now this
whole Ummah has benefited from her
		
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			asking that question, Was she an
anomaly to women being actively
		
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			present and visible in society?
Ibn abisily mentioned seeing
		
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			samura Binu Haik actively, loudly,
visibly, forcefully calling people
		
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			to good and forbidding evil. Imam
Al tabarani talks about this
		
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			incident and says that it's not
permissible for anyone to take
		
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			culture and place it over Islamic
law, to take a path of
		
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			cautiousness and expect other
people to be cautious. Why do you
		
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			think we have the rulings of hijab
and how to interact with one
		
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			another? The example of even one
of these women is greater than all
		
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			of us combined, and she would be
enough of an example for us. When
		
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			people make this statement, ask
for receipt.