Mansoor Danish – Overcoming the Fear of Going Blank During Public Speaking

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The speaker discusses the fear of forgetting in public speaking and how to overcome it through strategic rehearsal. They explain that memorizing a speech is crucial to building on the knowledge of the topic and creating a memorable presentation. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of doing a lot of rehearsal at home and practicing on keywords to maintain audience engagement.

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			Hi, everyone. I hope all of you are
		
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			keeping well. In today's video, we'll be talking
		
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			about glossophobia, the fear of public speaking. We
		
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			look at some of the concerns and problems
		
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			that we face while addressing a large audience.
		
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			We'll also try and look at some strategies
		
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			to deal with them. First up,
		
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			the fear of forgetting in front of a
		
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			large audience. It's a common concern which makes
		
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			us all freeze in front of a large
		
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			audience. What if I forget in the middle
		
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			of my speech?
		
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			You may have memorized your speech very well,
		
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			but the moment you see a large audience
		
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			in front of you, the thought keeps coming
		
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			in your mind, what if I forget in
		
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			front of this large audience? This large audience
		
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			is going to judge me. And that fear
		
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			of being judged often makes us freeze in
		
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			front of an audience. The mind goes completely
		
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			blank. Have you ever encountered a situation like
		
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			this where you went completely blank? If yes,
		
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			please share what your thoughts were and how
		
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			did you overcome those situation.
		
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			Let me share with you how we can
		
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			overcome this situation in a more strategic manner.
		
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			1st and foremost, I'm not in the favor
		
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			of memorizing the speech. You must never try
		
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			to memorize your speech. You must be familiar
		
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			with the topic that you're going to address.
		
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			And if you are familiar with the topic,
		
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			you really don't need to memorize a speech.
		
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			Instead, what you need to do is you
		
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			need to have your points ready. For example,
		
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			for this particular video that we're making, I
		
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			have my points in front of me. All
		
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			I have to do is I need to
		
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			glance and have a look at my point,
		
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			and I can continue my speech. I can
		
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			continue my presentation.
		
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			The moment we memorize a speech, we are
		
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			always trying to recall what is going to
		
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			come next and so that we can present
		
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			it in front of an audience. The moment
		
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			you miss one queue in the middle, you
		
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			go blank. You don't know how to proceed.
		
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			However, if you have your points in front
		
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			of you, you can build on the points
		
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			based on the knowledge that you have on
		
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			the subject. So it's extremely critical that you
		
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			speak on a matter where you have good
		
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			knowledge,
		
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			you familiarize yourself with the topic, you keep
		
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			your points handy, and there's absolutely nothing wrong
		
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			if you pick up your points and have
		
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			a quick look at them while you're making
		
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			your presentation.
		
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			Whatever you do, do it with dignity
		
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			so that you don't feel awkward about it,
		
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			and nor does your audience feel that you're
		
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			trying to,
		
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			recall things that you've forgotten and you're nervous
		
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			about it, you're anxious about it. You have
		
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			to remain calm. That's point number 1. Point
		
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			number 2, it's extremely important again that you
		
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			do a lot of rehearsal at home before
		
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			you make your final presentation.
		
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			We often underplay this. We feel that we
		
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			know the content. We know the topic. I
		
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			can go ahead and make my performance,
		
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			deliver my speed.
		
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			Anyone and everyone who has to make a
		
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			presentation
		
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			must do some performance rehearsal at home. Make
		
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			a presentation in front of the mirror. See
		
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			where you're going wrong. See how your body
		
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			language is coming along. See how your voice
		
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			modulation is coming along. Sometimes you might have
		
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			to rehearse and practice on modulating on keywords
		
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			in order to ensure that your audience remains
		
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			gripped and remains with you during your presentation.
		
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			All of this will be discussed with you
		
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			in the next few videos which we'll be
		
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			making on public speaking. Please remember to like
		
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			this video, share this video, and subscribe to
		
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			my channel. Thank you so much for watching
		
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			this video.