Mansoor Danish – Overcoming the Fear of Going Blank During Public Speaking

Mansoor Danish
AI: Summary © The speaker discusses the fear of forgetting in public speaking and how to overcome it through strategic rehearsal. They explain that memorizing a speech is crucial to building on the knowledge of the topic and creating a memorable presentation. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of doing a lot of rehearsal at home and practicing on keywords to maintain audience engagement.
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Hi, everyone. I hope all of you are

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keeping well. In today's video, we'll be talking

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about glossophobia, the fear of public speaking. We

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look at some of the concerns and problems

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that we face while addressing a large audience.

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We'll also try and look at some strategies

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to deal with them. First up,

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the fear of forgetting in front of a

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large audience. It's a common concern which makes

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us all freeze in front of a large

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audience. What if I forget in the middle

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of my speech?

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You may have memorized your speech very well,

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but the moment you see a large audience

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in front of you, the thought keeps coming

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in your mind, what if I forget in

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front of this large audience? This large audience

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is going to judge me. And that fear

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of being judged often makes us freeze in

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front of an audience. The mind goes completely

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blank. Have you ever encountered a situation like

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this where you went completely blank? If yes,

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please share what your thoughts were and how

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did you overcome those situation.

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Let me share with you how we can

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overcome this situation in a more strategic manner.

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1st and foremost, I'm not in the favor

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of memorizing the speech. You must never try

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to memorize your speech. You must be familiar

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with the topic that you're going to address.

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And if you are familiar with the topic,

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you really don't need to memorize a speech.

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Instead, what you need to do is you

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need to have your points ready. For example,

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for this particular video that we're making, I

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have my points in front of me. All

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I have to do is I need to

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glance and have a look at my point,

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and I can continue my speech. I can

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continue my presentation.

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The moment we memorize a speech, we are

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always trying to recall what is going to

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come next and so that we can present

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it in front of an audience. The moment

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you miss one queue in the middle, you

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go blank. You don't know how to proceed.

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However, if you have your points in front

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of you, you can build on the points

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based on the knowledge that you have on

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the subject. So it's extremely critical that you

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speak on a matter where you have good

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knowledge,

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you familiarize yourself with the topic, you keep

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your points handy, and there's absolutely nothing wrong

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if you pick up your points and have

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a quick look at them while you're making

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your presentation.

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Whatever you do, do it with dignity

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so that you don't feel awkward about it,

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and nor does your audience feel that you're

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trying to,

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recall things that you've forgotten and you're nervous

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about it, you're anxious about it. You have

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to remain calm. That's point number 1. Point

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number 2, it's extremely important again that you

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do a lot of rehearsal at home before

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you make your final presentation.

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We often underplay this. We feel that we

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know the content. We know the topic. I

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can go ahead and make my performance,

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deliver my speed.

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Anyone and everyone who has to make a

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presentation

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must do some performance rehearsal at home. Make

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a presentation in front of the mirror. See

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where you're going wrong. See how your body

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language is coming along. See how your voice

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modulation is coming along. Sometimes you might have

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to rehearse and practice on modulating on keywords

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in order to ensure that your audience remains

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gripped and remains with you during your presentation.

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All of this will be discussed with you

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in the next few videos which we'll be

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making on public speaking. Please remember to like

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this video, share this video, and subscribe to

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my channel. Thank you so much for watching

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this video.

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