Majed Mahmoud – A Wretched Couple

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The UK discusses their upcoming session on " "forgotten women" and their success with their female "," emphasizing the importance of prioritizing things and not letting people do things too much. They also discuss the negative impact of COVID-19 on women, particularly on their health and economic status, and emphasize the need for a solution to the climate crisis. The speakers also mention a fundraiser for empowering women and children to live a rich and successful life. They end with a call to support the group and ask for support.

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			As we are officially in day number 20 of Ramadan 360 with a mother of attitude Institute, we have
jumped into our last 10 days of programming and of course the last 10 nights of Ramadan for some of
you in the UK and other corners of the world you guys are ahead of us mashallah you guys are already
into the night you're finishing it up. May Allah accept your ABA and your efforts may Allah multiply
your words and grant you the visitation or the or the honor of catching loads of leather. I mean, in
Charlotte today we are going to be having a really, really special program that hadn't been allowed.
We have Chef Majan that with one of our beloved instructors, he teaches a couple of really popular
		
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			classes with a mugger online on on site and he's going to be doing a new l night inshallah very
soon. Chef Majan insha Allah is going to be covering the topic a wretched couple with inserted
Mossad and it's going to be about Abu Lahab and his wife Inshallah, we also have a very special
program and presentation by our friends and our supporters at forgotten women who've been our UK
charity partner who've been supporting us consistently for the past couple of years with Ramadan
360. And they do such essential work forgotten women is a charity that's run by women for women.
It's a UK based organization that's dedicated to helping women in crisis and emergencies. The
		
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			charity was set up unfortunately, after witnessing firsthand the * for aid violations in the
manipulation of women and children in vulnerable situations. Alhamdulillah you guys did an amazing
job of supporting them earlier in the month when we did have them come on. And I asked and I and I
seek you guys personally as well that you please support them very very consistently and very
heavily today in sha Allah the link is the same maghrib.org forged sorry forgotten dot woman forward
slash on Maghrib I'll drop that here in sha Allah in the chat. And yes, rugged says it best chef
magic is one of our best and from that he also started off as a student he was one of our like
		
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			martial arts success stories, I guess you can say, of having gone through the amount of experience
and then having become an instructor. He's one of our most humble instructors mashallah and his
decorum and his style He's known for his art of manners class where he represents any teaches the
very topic that he covers. So inshallah we look forward to jumping into today's topic. It's a heavy
one, but I can't wait to cover it with you guys. And of course, we will have shaftments lean back
right after this session for our on reflect series. I know you guys are raring to go. People are
still rushing into the session, so I'll let you guys do that. But let's jump into today's session as
		
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			salam aleikum wa rahmatullah chef magic I see that you're here with us. How are you doing today? Why
don't you come sit down what I'm doing great handler thank you so much for hosting us. Of course
that hamdulillah it's such an honor to have you back Schiff and we always look forward to whenever
you're presenting and hamdulillah so I can't wait to jump in today's topic any quick advice before
because I know UK folks are mashallah it's 10pm for them so they're trying to make the most of their
time here they're trying to get some extra Ivanka in by joining Ramadan 360 Anything you can start
us off with insha Allah for in terms of the last 10 nights of Ramadan Yes, how does how to kick it
		
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			off in the right foot inshallah.
		
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			In first of all said, I want to come to all of us Zakon will look at for joining us. And I really
liked that vibe of the fact that it seems when sister Hafsa was introducing you guys, there's a lot
of people that are showing up day after day, which is very nice. So I really appreciate that and you
guys are awesome superstars. And for those who are here just today you're also superstar May Allah
reward you in terms of some Naseeha in especially our brothers and sisters from the UK, Malaysia,
etc.
		
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			Just starting with the right intention, right, starting with the right intention is key. And one of
the things we want to avoid a little bit not that I'm saying your actions are not accepted. I'm just
saying be careful with being numb with the things that we do, right? It's like a machine like
taraweeh I shot this this and that. Tried to put a little bit of thought put a little bit of energy
into answering while you're going through this very important job which is to take that reward to
another level. You know, as our teachers they teach us when someone would like to serve their
parents, right? Give them a cup of water would Allah reward me if I did not think it's for Allah
		
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			sake, will Allah reward me for that cup of water? Yes, you will be inshallah because of out of
goodwill. But if you're able to think of Allah subhanaw taala then your reward goes a little bit up
a notch. Now it's out of goodwill in addition is for the sake of Allah subhana wa Tada that's
something started to keep in mind Make sure number two is to prioritize things. Sometimes I mess
this up a little bit in Ramadan. You know, I'm like, Oh, let me go fix the bathroom magic the whole
month of Ramadan. Now I'm gonna fix it in the last 10 nights or handleless what happens right?
Forgive me because that was a true story. I just did it today and I'm like, What am I doing? I could
		
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			have waited till after Ramadan. Right now it's all good right trying to fix my car now so I think
she finds effect sometimes kicks in so everything will be fine in sha Allah if you wait just for one
more week. Just one more week inshallah and everything will be fine with me Eliza panel data or 10
days. Yes, vacuuming. vacuuming the house. I don't
		
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			About her maybe vacuuming the house. You should do right? Because it's 10 days.
		
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			But just the timing it was like the session isn't thing I was like, you know, let me just pull it
out really, let's just get this done.
		
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			Picking picking this time is about more valuable than other times. So prioritizing and during
excellent excellent. You know in just one last thing about vacuuming that's what I kind of did right
now cleaning up I'm like, why am I cleaning up so much right now? It's just like you tried to
justify why you're not doing well magic you know what I mean? That a matassa May Allah forgive us
and I'm grateful for this session because you guys are going to be rewarded in sha Allah because of
encouraging the instructors to show up I want you all to know that this is very honest feedback.
Your attendance plays a significant role in the Speaker's performance and excitement such as Zack
		
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			will love here on May Allah accept from all of us here have allowed me fantastic.
		
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			Alright shall let you go straight into the session. Listen in line, we have limited time I want to
make sure that people can benefit as much as possible inshallah. So in sum, all right. Bismillah or
Soto salam ala Rasulillah ala alihi wa sahbihi wa salam ala Disraeli, Saudi yesterday Emery. What
Hello Lourdes Emily Stanny of Cocconi we begin by saying Name of Allah subhanho wa taala. We ask
Allah always and forever Yeah, Allah send your peace and your blessings upon your beloved Prophet
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
		
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			Okay, what do we have tonight? Someone was asking long time ago in the chat, what Surah are we
talking about? I will not tell you about surah number. I'm going to ask you a question. Who is the
worst couple ever existed on Earth? Can you imagine how bad that is the worst husband, the worst
wife. And this comes to show you something. compatibility is not always a positive thing.
		
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			Because they weren't compatible, like but there's just so evil. And they were so great together.
Right? But it does not make them a successful family. SubhanAllah. So yes, we want to be compatible
upon the truth. We want to be compatible with focusing on Allah's pleasure. And this is the type of
unity that we want because sometimes people have events. Let's just all be united, I have no problem
being united this united on what? United on what so as long as we are united on something that which
is the truth, this is what matters the most. So ask Allah to unite us all upon the truth and
monopolize I mean, it was so interesting. Yes, it is about to happen his wife on Jamil now I will
		
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			happen his wife and the surah comes what numbers sort of 111 Right? Now when you wanna stretch a
little bit, you know, like Ebola haps face la la la la la la is only one Allah right, one guy. So
this is surah number 111. Now, what's so interesting is that one of the worst couples of the entire
time of Croatia, longtime to Ireland, they are related blood related to the best couples on Earth.
Hamza Salman Khadija, and this is quite an eye opening honestly, like you know, within the same
family of the best couple and the worst couple. So may Allah bless us and forgive us and greatest
patience towards our family members, yada Bananaman. Now a quick background as well, who is I will
		
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			have Abu Lahab is one of four uncles of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. So let's see in the
chat, who are the prophets uncles listening now, I thought it might be differences of opinion about
extended extended relatives. Okay, so Abba Father was one at best fantastic and we'll find about
best Hamza and who's number four was number four.
		
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			Will have fantastic May Allah bless you, Bill and Zack along here. So these four now check this out.
Okay, can you guys do this right split at the hands like that. So the two are disbelievers and two
are believers. Right so the two that died so far only did
		
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			so the two that died as disbelievers was who was
		
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			Apple pilot it and I will have a date as kuffaar and then Hamza and Ally bass they believed in the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Alright, so what's the story that why was the sort of reveal
Can you imagine this is like the surah is cursing a man and the man has been cursed at the Prophet
Muhammad SAW Allison's uncle. So let's see, what's the reason why was this reveal? What's the story
behind this Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he received revelation at the age of 40 years
old. But before I go to the 40 years old, I want to go the age of 35 Can I do that age of 35 age of
35 before he received prophethood, he was assigned okay by the will of Allah subhanaw taala Allah
		
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			Kadar of Allah that He was the one to determine who places the black stone people had their swords
ready. People were willing to kill one another as to who will place the Bloodstone when the
renovation of the cabinet took place. So they said the one who will walk from this door will be the
one who judges will be the
		
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			Family that puts the Blackstone everybody's waiting. Everybody's waiting and excited hoping this man
that will walk in will be from their family who will have the prestige to put the Blackstone, lo and
behold the one who comes is none other than Mohamed Salah Lonnie was a saddle. I mean, so all of
them which is pretty unique. They said, I mean the trustworthy has come, they're all happy. He is
the most deserving human to put the Blackstone he was the superstar of course Mohamed Salah Salem
was the superstar, of course, that the young man on the rise type of thing that will eventually take
over all of Christ and to an extent of that leadership. He came then he was such a genius, Eileen,
		
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			your Salatu was Salam that he found a way not just for him to put it, but to all tribes to put it
and they mentioned that he saved the Mecca from bloodshed. Why am I referencing this? Because
imagine how his family felt I will have is his immediate uncle. So he loves his nephew, not just
that ready for this, to have Abu Lahab boys were engaged to to have Mohamed Salah instead of his
daughters Subhanallah like that's how close they were. That's how much Ebola respected loved Mohamed
Salatu was Salam. Now at the age of 14, he received revelation everything's a bit calm. Why? Because
for the first three years now remember some numbers. From the age of 14 to 43. The Dow was private,
		
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			the data was selected. The data was undercover. So there's no public call to Allah just yet. Now I
will have did he know I assume you know, you would imagine that. Yes, he heard and it's very
possible some narrations but not authentic. From my understanding. They do suggest that the province
of Allah awesome spoke with his family. He spoke to them in an enclosed setting, but nothing really
worked out and of the few people from the Prophets immediate family that accepted Islam. Who were
they besides his wife and kids, immediate family? What do you think immediate blood family of the
Prophet that accepted Islam right from the beginning, a fantastic ally of the law has been excellent
		
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			in it which is a little bit sad. Why? Because he has a lot of family members and only it brought the
Allahu Allah and he was the first young man to ever accept Islam. Not just that one time check this
out, right? This is authentic hadith. One time one of the people that eventually became Muslim many,
many years later, he came early Islam, early Islam he went to Mecca, and he was doing some business.
His business partner was a lab best profits uncle who was not Muslim yet. So this man says, when I
came to Mecca, I saw a man stand right in front of the cabinet. Next to him is a young man or young
boy like a teenager or younger. And behind the two is a older lady like a respected lady. So he said
		
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			I asked a lot best Yeah, but who are these people? What are they doing? He said, As for the one
who's standing the taller person or the one on the left is my nephew, Mohamed Salah Salem. And the
one next to him is I live in Thailand, and the one behind them. That lady is Khadija venti hoId. And
my nephew claims check this out guys check this out. My nephew claims and my best is talking to his
business partner. He says that he is a Prophet he sees it receives revelation, not just that I know
sounds crazy. But he says his religion will take over the whole Arabian Peninsula. I'm just saying
what he said I'm just conveying the message. So this man who heard this, he said I never really took
		
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			it so serious and I moved on. Eventually, decades and perhaps know about a decade later or so he
became Muslim. So he said, Man, I wish if I accepted Islam at that moment, I would have been one of
the first people that one of the first time ever even says I think he's the fourth person to accept
Islam Subhanallah so it is something to appreciate how Muslim was doing his Dawa and also an aside
point, you and I being grateful that Allah chose to be Muslim while I be grateful. Can you imagine
your own nephew? To be the Prophet Muhammad has a lamp and you don't believe in him. So you have a
lie everyone here in sha Allah has with the Prophet wished for his uncle to have. So we have at that
		
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			time the necessary to handle all those with Hamdulillah you know, Allah has made it easy for us and
we ask Allah to make us die upon such a blessing. So eventually at the age of 43, Allah reveals a
verse what and then I share article Acrovyn now convey go public about the Dawa. No more private
undercovers selected or whatever proper word you wish to use. So what does he do Ali's Auto Salon he
goes all the way up to Witch Mountain or San Martin called. He goes like downtown Metka them
		
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			ultimus call Jebin close suffer fantastic because Japan has suffered. So when you went to Japan to
suffer, he said yes, Abba ha like Mayday, mayday, urgent call, urgent call. So everybody came the
Hadith says every single person in Mecca showed up. And the ones that cannot make it, what did they
do? They sent a representative on their behalf. So what does that mean? There's not a single citizen
of Makkah, who will not have access to what the prophet is about the same Homosassa. And before we
even continue, the fact that everyone showed up, shows you the prophets level, he didn't say
anything. He just said, I have an important announcement. I have an important announcement. That's
		
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			all what he said. And everybody showed up. Why? Because they know a 43 year old three year old,
wonderful human being. Muhammad Hassan said, I will not waste our time. He is a greatest man in
Maccha. Let's see what he has to say. Bismillah Yeah, Mohammed, what do you have to tell us? So
Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he's a genius. Look how he sets up the the events. He says to
them, if I would tell you, behind this mountain, there's an army coming to attack you. Would you
believe me?
		
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			Now, before I tell you what they said, what the prophet is asking is completely illogical.
Completely doesn't make any sense. Why? for three reasons. Number one, if there's an army really
coming, we would have seen the army. The mountain is not so big to cover the horizon. We're not
blind, like there's an army with seeds. So the problem is that there's an army hiding behind the
mountain. That number two is that if we cannot see it, at minimum, we'll see the dust the side
effects of the army coming and that too is not present. Worst case scenario, worst case scenario, we
would have heard at least what? Rumors, rumors, oh, we heard someone is coming. So none of these
		
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			three are applicable. And he asked him a question. So would you believe me if I tell you there's an
enemy behind the mountain and army coming? So what do they say maj or rob Malaika. Caliban caught on
Mohamed we never in our lives. Noticed you lie once Allahu Akbar. Another authentic narration
someone said to the Prophet, you always said the truth. So they all agree, open up any book of
Sierra, not a single citizen of Maccha not say what oh, no, I don't think so. Didn't even doubt him.
They all said yes, for sure. There will be an army, even though it's against our logic, but your
level of truthfulness is beyond our logic. Hola. Hola. Okay, so then he said the following now who
		
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			was also standing there, Abu Lahab, who also agreed the Prophet never lies Abdullah. So then the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says basically that was a question Would you believe me if I'm
if an army comes, but now the affirmation and the Absolute Truth is the fact I am warning you Yes,
but not have an army. I am warning you of a punishment that is coming your way. If we do not obey
Allah subhana wa Tada.
		
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			So logically, if you believe in the first one, you will believe in the second one. So right then and
there, what did I will have saying that I will have say, oh, you're a liar. Law? No way. Because if
Abu Lahab said, You're a liar, Ebola will look like a fool. Because Apple will have just said you
never lie. So either I will have was wrong in the first one or the second one, but I will I will
never be right in both of them. So instead of saying you're a liar, he said to him, you're a loser.
You're a difference. He didn't say you're a liar. You're a loser. And you had a jamatkhana tab and
luck is this why you gather dust you wasted our time. So then the province of Allahu Allah He was
		
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			sent on to share with you something before Ebola hub spoke. The prophet sent ya Sophia, the prophets
uncle. Yeah, Fatima, the prophets daughter. So and so he called everyone everyone. Save yourself
from hellfire. I cannot save you, your faulty mother daughter of Muhammad asked me whatever you want
from my money. I'll give you everything I have within the dunya but I cannot save you from the
afterlife from the Astra. So then he said at the end of the day, many people do not know this line.
At the end of the day, we will always be family. This is sutra him. This is ties of kinship. So
remember that we're always family at the end of the day. Now right after he said that Ebola who his
		
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			family. He cursed him back. He says you're a loser. You wasted our time. To show you the Prophet did
not break that line that we're always family. He did not curse him back. He did not embarrass him.
		
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			He did not degrade his own blood uncle who embarrass the Prophet in a way in front of everybody. So
I said, Let he really live by that line, we will always be family, Allahu Akbar. So I asked Allah to
allow you and I to be like that, right? Because Ibrahim did it to his dad. We're always family. His
dad spoke bad about him. He respected his dad. Now I will have the uncle of prophets. I seldom spoke
bad about him. Then the Prophet did not reply back. Did not say you're the loser. He did not say
well, you just don't make sense. Uncle. You just said I never lie. So now you tell me I'm a loser.
Why did he not tell me I'm a liar now because you can't say I'm a liar, Uncle, you know why? Because
		
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			you're the loser. SubhanAllah. He could have said all of that, but he didn't know what it was.
		
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			But now who who will respond?
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala will respond. And this is this is quite terrifying. Like, can you imagine no
one who will defend the prophet is not Abu Bakr, not their alma, not there is not an attorney, not
Prophet Adam, not prophet nor not Prophet there isn't a prophet Musa, not Angel Jibreel not Angel
mica is not an angel. It's often not the carriers of the throne, but the one who will respond and
defend is Allah Jalla Jalla himself. Why?
		
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			Because Ebola had caused big damage. And the answer has to be equal and more than the damage will
have caused. Ebola what he did is that he was the first one to open the door of insulting the
Prophet ourselves. You will not find the prophet ever, ever been insulted before that day. Some
people knew there's Islam some people know of the doubt. Some people heard of that call in the
mountain but no one ever insulted the Prophet and his own blood family member was unfortunately the
first one to stop the fraud. The first one to curse him was Ebola, and he deserves a response to
that wickedness. Why? Because everyone that insults the Prophet till this day, the one who will
		
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			perhaps be held accountable for it is I will have so I want you to imagine Allah subhanaw taala
reveals some verses to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, but the verses do not just talk
about Abu Lahab it also talks about Abu Lahab his wife why what happened let me tell you what
happened.
		
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			On Sol Sol Allah Allah Azza wa sallam one time authentic hadith he was sitting next to him about the
Serbian next to the tab after this public announcement. And then the wife of Ebola, she was so
angry, and she got a massive rock. And she was heading towards the prophets of Allah. He was selling
them. But she was not able to see the Prophet. Why did she have an issue with her sight? No, she
sees pretty well. But Allah blinded her from seeing the prophet Isaiah, who was next to the Prophet
will focus on them. So she went to a book and she said, Where is your friend and she had a big
rucksack? Where's your friend? Where's your friend on smash this rock on his head? Where is he at?
		
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			Now because he was confused, he's like, it is anything amazing. The prom is like, right? Like, what
to the Queen is your friend? She then she told him I heard that your friend spoke bad about me and
my husband. Ah, is that true? Is it true? Then a kiss of death? Or the Ronnie says, My Prophet
doesn't say you know any vulgar language does not curse your your husband? Obviously not the prophet
is Allah Who sent that and you know the insult to our will have right. So she said if I some are
smashed in with this head, then she left so bookless addicted jasola. Like, how could she not see
you? Like what was that? So basically, it was Allah's protection. And now I want you to imagine,
		
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			Allah reveals the full Surah of and method 111 And it also applies to all Allahu alayhi wa sallam. I
know some people get shocked when they hear the following, but this is an ayah in the Quran.
		
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			Allah says, Without account well Ali Baba will occur when if Muhammad wa sallam were to invent
altar, edit the Quran
		
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			that has an admin who believes in Allah says we will capture him some Mala cotta, and I mean, who
was in the New World shock, his neck will cut this off. We will cut the prophets neck This is an
operon warning the Prophet and threatening the prophets, that if he were to make stuff up in the
religion of Allah and the Prophet would never do something like that, but the warning is to the
Prophet, then imagine you and I imagine us right if this is the prophets penalty if he were to do
something like that, why am I saying this? Because Allah revealed the surah have a message and the
Prophet without a doubt. This is having that now he has said that but yeah, the IB there have been
		
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			whatever he has to say my uncle basically the uncle is going to be cursed.
		
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			He's gonna go to hellfire. And I want you to imagine he will not hide the idea because it's my job
to convey regardless of how heavy and painful it might be to me or to my family, it is an Amana. So
imagine he stands from the cabin as an example, Allahu Akbar, at the mine people hear the prophets
re citation because something very known about the prophets I learned is that he used to read Quran
in public by the way most Sahaba did not do that. It was the Prophet SAW Salem, you would read the
Quran in public. That's why Amara Delano in one narration that is sound he heard the Prophet read
the Quran in front of the camera so he was public. Allahu Akbar. But yet the law had been WhatsApp
		
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			Can you imagine the people who my God have to just hear this Come come come come Ma. And whom who am
I in number one? May the curse be on Abu Lahab my other now angle man who am I'm Kassab. His money
will not benefit him what just happened here? Who can help me out?
		
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			I am number two, Allah saying his money is not going to benefit him. Why is he saying that?
		
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			Why is money not going to benefit him? What do you think? He was rich? Yes, he was actually pretty
rich. He was very rich. Okay, fantastic. Because he was proud of his money because that was his
priority. Nice. Does Allah fantastic. You're there and as that is the closest? Okay. Alia? Ah, go
ahead.
		
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			All right, go ahead. And yeah.
		
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			Like, at the end of the day, on the Day of Judgment, money doesn't matter. It's just your good
deeds. Fantastic idea, excellent Dr. His money will not benefit him. So you know what happened
earlier? A lot exposed that reason why I will have did not accept if you want to quite well, how
come I will have never never became Muslim. We know it Allah said Your money will not benefit you
because he thought I will have thought If I accept him as a prophet. That means there's no idol
worshipping, which is our main source of income when people come from out of Mecca to buy and sell,
and I'm a businessman. I don't want to lose no customers. How do you Mohammed, you stay on your own
		
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			though deep inside, I know you're a prophet, but I'm not going to jeopardize my business. So his
business and money is the reason why he rejected as one of the core purposes. So Allah is exposing
this. Now this will come as a shock to him to Ebola as How did he know? How did he know that money
was my thing was in my mind, the business etc. So man, other than that, no matter what Marchesa then
Allah says, saya salah, now Iran, he will go to *, what can I help now on that lab? That type of
flame lab is that flame of the fire? And look how amazing Allah puts it. His name is Abu Lahab and
the type of fire is lab because something to match him. Why is the law why is he known as Ebola one
		
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			of the reasons in about the description of his body is that he was very handsome and he had some
redness on his cheeks Subhanallah you know people like after a very hot shower, very red cheeks.
That was something natural. He had people put makeup for this thing, right? No, he hadn't natural he
was so rich, so handsome, so influential. And that love that brightness. No, you're gonna go to *
with that fire. There's so bright that will burn your brightness, Allahu Akbar.
		
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			This line not on that Allah. Not just that one Morocco and his wife, her mela tell help up. She will
carry these rocks and his fire stones and punishment why? Remember the rock that she carried? That
rock that she wants to smash the Prophet with? You will not just carry one rock but multiple rocks
were in the hellfire and she will not even see Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam Fiji the hair around her
neck is what hablo mean message is a rope of fire that shocks her and burns her. Now another thing
here. She's also obsessed about jewelry. Right? It's all about the jewelry, the necklaces that
diamonds I don't want my husband to listen to know Mohamed because I want those brand name purses,
		
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			brand name shoes, this car this vehicle. So they were on the same page. But on the wrong page. Right
May Allah forgive us yada Bill Alameen. So here Allah sent these ayat to defend the Prophet
sallallahu sallam, and look how insulted Abu Lahab is. So much so that even the youngest Muslims,
even the ones that know little Quran, this is one of the sources they know till this day, they
understand that yet the Latin word, right for that one curse. So one of the things we want
		
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			to take from here is that we need to be inspired by the Soron. Brother inspired What do you mean
inspired? How can I be inspired, be inspired by the fact that if you start something that is good,
every single one that follows you will be rewarded Subhanallah so I pray to Allah that every single
thing we're doing with our mantrip, sister have some May Allah grant or Jana and the whole team you
guys heard the introduction. We had the fact one night we had the Quran program, Ramadan, 360, all
these things going on. I asked Allah to make all of this on the scale of deeds of Sheikh Mohammed
Sharif Rahim Allah, right, the founder of Al Maghrib Subhan Allah. Now this is a tear, there's
		
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			another layer, what's the other layer? Sister Hafsa? How is she now part of this? Because we opened
the zoom session. She opened the gyms I was waiting in the lobby, you're all in the lobby?
Subhanallah right. So her opening it may Allah make all of us who benefit in your skill of good
deeds Subhanallah so on and so forth, all of you that showed up. May Allah grant you all jendela
Malala mean? So look towards establishing something that is no that is within the realm and accept
the exit acceptability of Islam. May Allah grant us wisdom. Now, that's the joy that I wanted to
share with you, but also the fear, which is what if we start something that is wrong? We don't just
		
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			are held accountable for what we did. Every single one that imitates us, does, what we do will also
be on the scale of that individual that started the bad habit. I'll give you a quick example. Rasul
allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam says an authentic hadith. Never is the murder on Earth. Can you
imagine how many people are killed on earth like unjustly? Like, oppressively so viciously like
that? Anyone who was ever killed will be on the scale of who the sins? Who? Who will take the sins
of every murder? Yes, the one who killed his brother, the two the worst of the two sons of Adam
money center. SubhanAllah. So that's something to be very careful about. So may Allah grant us
		
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			wisdom and jamnalal. But I mean, it is 533 I can open up the floor for any questions or any comments
or any concerns. Now when you read it, you read it with pride. But yeah, the Aveda had in one tab,
with the color, that tab at the end is called color by the way, it's very powerful. Make sure it
says essentially, maybe we can talk about that more in sha Allah, Allah grant the origin Bismillah.
And we know that I mean, just like have a left arrow shift. Actually, before we jump into questions,
I just want to check. We did have a really important presentation today. And I'll give people a
chance inshallah maybe to take their questions here in the chat, so that we can take them in order
		
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			until afterwards, but I do want to give some time to some of our partners with this Ramadan, we've
been partnering with three organizations that have done an amazing job we've done actually, this is
the second or third row, you're in a row with them. And one of our beloved organizations is
forgotten woman in the UK. And their appeal is really close to my heart, especially because this is
one of the most kind of vulnerable groups that we have forgotten women and children and some of the
poorest countries in the Muslim world. And they're going to share a little bit more we had a
humblebee honor of being joined by Sathya, Sajid and the beginning of Ramadan and it's a great honor
		
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			to have you Baxter Saudia. So does that qualify for being with us and for partnering with us once
again, and inshallah pass over the stage as Santa Monica what happens the left wanting Sonoma
rubrica to and does not want to hear about having me again, and for interrupting to do great, great
sessions for Hanlon, allowing us to have this small amount of time in Sharla, to be a voice for
those who don't have a voice in short allowed were they in front of us, we would definitely use one
and it's our job each other my job to try and give you their story in sha Allah so that you hear
what's going on in their lives and that we can respond in Charlotte in kind. Now last time I was
		
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			here it was with Saturday me as a session and we did an amazing amazing around fundraising my shot I
love the hearts was so responsive. So again, I pray that Allah grants me the right words, but also
that he opens the hearts and he unlocks the hearts in sha Allah. But as you listen in sha Allah that
there is a response in kind mean,
		
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			we're going to be doing the same fundraiser because the need is so great. And the fundraiser is for
the widows and the children in Afghanistan. Unfortunately, many of you may be aware, if you're new
to the sessions, then inshallah we'll recap. The situation environment is very, very bad. It's
horrendous panela the economic fallout of the invasion, the US invasion, leaving and leaving a big
vacuum, a power vacuum, then the Taliban came in. And as a result, the international forces actually
froze their assets, their foreign assets. And so the country has been in economic freefall for over
over almost two years. Now we're coming up to and as a result, people have lost jobs. They've also
		
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			endured a famine, they've gone through COVID They're going to
		
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			through a lot of the fallout of COVID, economically as well, and it resulted with people's Panama
giving everything that they caught selling everything that they had over 95% of the country became
food insecure, overnights panela. And as a result, there were women and children who they'd already
lost their partners find Hassan country that's been under occupation for almost over 40 years, a lot
of the men have actually perished through this conflict. And so there are a lot of women, widows,
they're single women raising children. And in that vulnerability, in the actual moment of
vulnerability, they are being exploited the women and the children. And if it's not the woman's
		
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			hand, and the biller having to sell her own body or her organs, then she's having to make the choice
of whether to sell one of her children in order to keep the rest of her family alive. That's how
desperate they are for food. And so we've got to move in a charity that has been set up by women for
women, they tried to break that cycle of poverty and to protect women and children from that
additional exploitation, they're already vulnerable, they've lost everything. But what forgotten
women want to do is try their very best to give that woman the one thing that she has, which is her
dignity, let her keep that and have the dignity to raise her children, as she should, should be able
		
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			to, without needing to beg without being dependent and rely upon anyone else. So forgotten, women
are an amazing charity, I work for many, many charities, and I'm really, really happy to support
this this organization, especially because of what they're trying to do. They're not trying to be
the biggest and the best and reach the most people, they just want to be the one that offers the
safest solutions in sha Allah. And for me, this is an intelligence solution as well, we all work
very, very hard for our money, we really do work hard for our money. And so as the donor, we should
be looking to see how do I make my money, this money that I've just spent raised, have worked all
		
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			month for how do I make it go as far as possible, so that it has a long lasting impact, and that's
Inshallah, what we're going to be sharing with you today in China. The project that we're doing with
forgotten women is actually a project where, rather than just giving this widow and her children, a
food pack, or sponsoring one child in her family for years at a time, until the child reaches 18,
what we want to do is actually empower the woman herself, give her a business, a livelihood, that
she can then run either through the males in her family if she has a brother or eldest son, or we'll
give her a business she can run from within the home. But we will work around the social, the social
		
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			customs and the sensitivities. And we're able to then lift that woman completely out of poverty.
Within months, she's raising enough money to cover her rent her food, and her children's clothing,
their medical bills, the children that have to go into school, that's a must. That's a condition
that we put on the family that they must enroll their children to back into medicine and school. So
their children have to then go and pursue education and again, lift themselves out of poverty. But
finally, we really, really believe that this is the solution for not that they stay rely upon us,
but that we go back to them and we say we're going to take you by the hand, we're going to give you
		
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			something that's going to lift you completely out of poverty and inshallah you yourself are going to
raise your child and you're not going to have to sell your body to do so you're not going to have to
sell your organs to do so you're not going to have to drink your children to sleep because you can't
hear the bear to hear them crying anymore. And you're definitely not going to have to sell your
children to to do this plan. And this is actually happening right now on the ground in Afghanistan.
I don't know whether we've got time to do the video have sad, but we want to just quickly put the
ask then inshallah for people to donate, I'm gonna just try and push as much as possible to donate
		
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			Inshallah, you're probably wondering, okay, I hear this solution, I understand the situation, how do
we give, the way you can give is by making a one off payment of 1000 pounds, or any amount
contributing to that. But 1000 plan is what it's going to cost to literally lift a woman out of
poverty in advance. And this is a widowed woman, she's lost her husband, she's lost everything in
the economic fallout of what's happened recently. And subhanAllah, she's already given all of her
white goods, her gold, anything that she had of value is already gone. They're nourishing themselves
on still bread. If they have that. That's not food. That's not what we should be allowing and
		
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			accepting for our families in Afghanistan right now. But what we can do is we can actually lift
these people up completely, giving them that one off payment of 1000 pounds means for the rest of
her life, she's settled for their livelihood, and she and her family can continue to support
themselves. I really hope and pray that you understand that we're offering you a solution as well.
So you don't have to support though they are normally we would offer you are offered sponsored.
She's a widow, she's got a child, they sponsor the orphan, but it works. She has several children.
Rather than sponsoring several children. We're saying, let's take the woman and empower her. And
		
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			then she can look after her entire family in sha Allah, and she'll have that dignity inshallah to be
able to look after her children without at all leaving any leaving anything to the vulnerabilities
of other people to exploit in sha Allah. We don't want anyone to exploit these women we want them to
be empowered, is 1000 pounds to help them if you'd like to rather but rather than to give a Valders
maybe that's a lot for you give any amount you wish to to that amount.
		
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			And inshallah it will all come together and we'll be able to just as 1000 pounds of collected will
be able to keep on empowering and lifting more and more women out of poverty in Afghanistan. The
other alternatives if you want to feed people were in the month of Ramadan, these people are opening
their first Subhanallah with stale bread and hoping and praying that people will come forward and
give them food, you could be that person and you could be the person who delivers them with a food
pass as part of that and that food parcel when it when they receive it, it's coming up and actually
the team are in Afghanistan right now. So they will deliver it if the money comes in number deliver
		
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			it right now. Because they're on the other side of the world already, they can purchase the
supplies, they need to make sure it's delivered. But they can do that. And that means for actual eat
itself for the rest of Ramadan and eat, those people are going to have food, they're going to have
food on their tables, not still bread, actual food inshallah. So you can take the option of either
giving a 50 pound food pack, which will give them food for about five to six weeks, or you can
actually do something a lot more long lasting, making your money work harder, where you want to give
once and that's it, hello, that sister is helped properly, and she no longer needs to rely on
		
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			anyone, not me, not you, not anyone else. Only Allah Subhana Allah Who sends the customers to her in
sha Allah, to lift yourself out of poverty, that her children can go to integration, and they can
have any any needs met, whether it's new clothing, whether it's equipment, whether it's any medical
cares, Pamela, all of that mess man. The situation it was that I can't tell you how bad it is.
Unfortunately, we can't capture a lot of this on camera, you've got women who cannot tell you on
camera that they've they've actually sold their bodies, or that they've had to sell their children,
it's just too painful for them. So inshallah I hope and pray that you can get behind this appeal,
		
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			and really understand that we're really trying our best not only to work hard for our sisters there,
but also to work hard for you as the donors, the people who work so hard, you also have a Yasaka and
is eligible can go so far, if you make the right choices in investing in solutions that don't just
last for a month or two months, but actually last a lifetime in sha Allah. So with that said, I'm
going to leave it and hand it over to him so inshallah I hope you shall know that you all donate
deeply the last 10 Days Are Here this is possibly an odd night could be little to give in the hopes
of seeking a little calorie shot Alas, I would like to live with regard to
		
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			it can Western and when I have mental I have indicated a desire Kamala Harris at the eyes of Hannah,
this, this appeal is very, very close to my heart and there's nothing you can give more to somebody
of value than a feeling of safety and security. And for someone to be so low at the at the complete
bottom point of their life where they have no choice but to either sell their own body, or to sell
the child that they gave birth to is such a difficult, it's hard to even imagine that. So the link
is that forgotten woman.org forward slash on Maghrib. I know you guys give very, very generously
last time, don't think about the amount do as much as you humanly can. I know. The best sadaqa
		
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			jariya is of course the instant income that that's that's how you just mentioned that allows them to
take themselves and give give themselves ownership over their own lives and support their families
for years to come. Try to give that we learned from this talk just now that you want to avoid doing
any bad that would carry forward you want to replace that inshallah with good that would carry for
for years and years to come. So consider that or whatever might you can give, but just get in sha
Allah. I know this is it's an emotional time or it's an emotional thing to experience or think about
I'm so grateful for forgotten woman for starting this initiative and for allowing us to be a part of
		
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			it. It's an honor to have you guys back for the last 10 Nights. Once again, it's forgotten that
woman.org For slash on Maghrib in sha Allah and does that compare to those who've been consistently
supporting and coming together as a community to help these women out of poverty? May Allah accept
from you directly on her study? It's been an honor to have you back in Sharla and to kind of pull
ourselves back in sha Allah but inshallah we'll keep reminding you guys the link is in the
description and on YouTube and Facebook you guys can find it there it's pinned up there you guys
have it here on on on zoom as well and with that we'll just take a couple of minutes we have wishek
		
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			Magic Zack Mukesh, if you've been patiently waiting with us to take any questions that you guys have
on today's topic on the story of Ebola and his wife and if there's anything that you guys want
clarity on that was addressed inshallah today or anything that you want in a modern context that's
related to the topic, please feel free to drop those questions there in the chat inshallah. So we'll
just love a wait until I see any questions. Shift any final points as well when people are just
typing up in Sharla? Before we close, just give me 30 seconds if you don't mind, because I actually
clicked on the link and inspired by what the sister said. So I'm finishing up my donation in sha
		
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			Allah, Kamala Harris Schiff and there's you can donate in different currencies as well like there's
no words. So you guys are welcome to Inshallah, donate if you're Canada, US, etc. And just shift
that's a reminder whenever you hear it, you I say click open it make that intention and don't let
you never know you close your laptop and you never come back to it. So I've had a lot that this is
the last time you leave your house. So make that intention of everyone just open up that link and
then inshallah finish that exactly, roofie That's correct. That's the best way inshallah to do it.
So I'll let the chef finish up and that will hopefully for those who've already donated
		
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			Good are those who are just typing up your questions in sha Allah in ham that's a very cheeky
question that you've asked there
		
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			because yes and hamdulillah chef Magid is touring mashallah a lot of a lot of places on site and
London Manchester and Bradford Yes. Bradford first Manchester second and in London okay I'm mixing
them up now is doing a tour mashallah of the UK in a month or so Sharif Subhan Allah is coming up
		
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			the second weekend of June inshallah which is June nine, Bradford, sha Allah. It will be an hour
night
		
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			story of Prophet Yunus on Instagram.
		
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			Then
		
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			June 10, it will be in Manchester the story of Prophet Ibrahim I sent devotion and then June 11 will
be a new seminar a new one day seminar regarding parish nations which Subhanallah was a class jam
has refused to teach long time ago I thought is a big shoes to fill. But I look forward to it. It
will be the stories of prophets sila prophethood and prophets right and they were the one of the
most reference prophets ever in the Quran for us to relate to Subhanallah so this will be on Sunday
evening that's fantastic but we got more coming you know if you're in Houston
		
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			Houston may 20 inshallah devotion Yeah, we're getting busy with a model I'm kind of more loyal yes
and I'm the Lulu for that. You can see you're in high dimension and yes, Atlanta is finally back in
the map as well. So if you want to imagine this in a in a city New Year look out in sha Allah will
be constantly uploading new dates there's much there's so many classes coming up but especially in
the UK, he was actually in London that's why it was mixed up you just did like art of manners. And
now you're touring Birmingham Manchester and Bradford so make sure you guys sign up and get your
tickets inshallah ahead of time for that. I saw comments but I saw I didn't see any on topic
		
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			questions I don't think let me just make sure if I didn't miss anything shift if you see anything,
let me know in sha Allah
		
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			just people raving at hamdulillah about the class Oh sh messages asked it Abdullah have have
children if yes, were they like their parents. I'm not sure if they were like their parents. But he
had two boys that were engaged to two daughters of the Prophet SAW Salem. And when this happened,
and Samantha Bucha Debbie lab and everything he forced his two sons to end the engagement and
marriage to the prophets daughters. So it was a very, very painful moment in the front awesomes life
very difficult on the his two daughters.
		
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			Especially that obviously there was no approval from both sides. Did they accept Islam? Not that I'm
aware of. Allahu Taala and maybe yes, maybe no, I'm not sure.
		
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			But I think those are the ones that we had topic Michelle there's a lot of compliments coming in
chat for your green colored shirt as well shift their minds colors agenda. So Miller would do and
everyone who is present does acknowledge her for being here for this 20th day of Ramadan. 360 and
for starting off our last 10 nights here with us chef magic It's always an honor we look forward to
catching you on site in Sharla online every excuse that we have in Charlotte to get you in a
program. Zack mobile here thank you so much Have a wonderful night and remember, anytime you make
the offer someone the angels tell you and you too right and the angels dua is accepted in sha Allah
		
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			all the introduction is for you not to forget us in your dog. All right, so I love to zero when you
will be the winner inshallah. And Sister Sadie I thank you so much for the work that you do. Just
like a love hate on. We were honored to have your organization in London as well handler and we
appreciate you and may Allah bless you and reward you for all the people that you benefits. Thank
you so much. Um, I mean chef, I just wanted to say I brought my nephew to the course with me, he's
15 years old. And mashallah, he can't sit still in any kind of academic circle for long, but he sat
through the course for six hours every single day. really attentive and as soon as we left. And we
		
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			drove from London all the way to Preston, which is the Manchester so four hour drive. I took him for
the weekend. I'm trying to get him into this Islamophobia inshallah and he's enjoying it so much.
He's really finding an interest. And the whole way home, he was smiling, he was making liquor and he
was like, No, I led this in the course today. So you that was a transformative cause my shoulders
are gonna pick up to you and for the work that you do to everything that a mother do. And I really
encourage anyone who has youngsters in your families to bring them along. It's not just about adults
to bring the youngsters along and lead by example bring them with you so that you can share that
		
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			circle of knowledge with them. And there'll be inspired so many young people were engaged in
mashallah you kept them entertained all the way through, but in a way that they were learning as
well. So wonderful, a beacon to everything that you did. Thank you so much. It's like well, thank
you so much. Appreciate that, too.
		
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			smell. Does that Kamala fair? That's once again chef. Imagine that move with us for the number 20 of
Ramadan. 360. Does that qualify for being with us check magic for now as Salaam Alaikum
Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
		
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			And of course for those of you guys on from Bradford, Birmingham, Manchester, Atlanta, Texas
everywhere, make sure you do go to mcgriff.org to to look for his classes. It's under the onsite tab
in shot a lot. I know we get we get good and then we get bad with our timing sometimes that handler
that was very beneficial time that was mentioned. I'm sure he's going to forgive us for eating,
getting a little bit into his car and reflect time today. I see that you're with a chef and it's a
pleasure to have you back as salaam alaikum wa Rahmatullah. How are you doing today? What it comes
down to LA? You guys can't see my camera, right. I was trying to get you going on? You saw me for a
		
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			second. I saw I see camera on. But I don't see you on my screen. something tricky is happening here.
Okay, it's working one minute.
		
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			In that manner him? No.
		
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			I see. Tabia actually on my screen. Okay, let's give me one second. I don't know what is going on
with the camcorders. You are giving us that that tech s log out and log back in again. So usually
that's that's a solution with Zoom. In the meantime, guys, well,
		
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			let me just do that. Let me just log back and log back in. Sounds good. Sounds good. Well, we're
having a bit of a pause in the program, everyone to just take a second as Jeff imagined did
mashallah and inspired us to do just as we were editing, please just take a second to click on the
link forgotten woman.org For slash a mugger. And just make take a second to make that donation. I
think I don't know if you guys were here for when I shared something really small. When the last
time forgotten woman had appeal. I also wanted to just check the link was working and make a small
donation. And I was like, You know what, there's a number that I had, in my mind, I was like, let me
		
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			just make that number. And it was a little bit more than I was comfortable with at the time. But I
was like, you know, I thought it so I'm going to do it. So I clicked and I did it. And then
Subhanallah just literally less than 24 hours later, not even 12 hours later, that morning, I
received a refund from an airline that I had been chasing for three years to the date. I check the
date later, march 28 or something it was like March the end of March 2021 or 22 madness like
beginning of COVID that they had not been refunding me I'd been chasing them I gave up I was like
you know what, I just can't this money is theirs now and then they just dropped into my account
		
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			Subhanallah so I didn't have to call them up I didn't have to do anything. So whenever you give a
lot of returns that to you and this is something where you know if you were ever in this position
and now the law protects all of us, you would want the people to turn the entire earth around to
make sure that you've never had to experience the suffering that these women experience. So please
make sure that you click that link you give and may Allah replace it with so much better. I mean, I
see that Sheikh Mohammed is back with us. So Bismillah let's give that another go in sha Allah
Schiff Are you here with us? I am sorry I want to know why did you miss this and I'm gonna come with
		
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			a lot lovely to have you back chef I hope that you have a chance to benefit from the talk I hope
that you got your travel was smooth and you're back in Atlanta it looks like a hamlet enough I am
yes I'm back in my den. I'm filming this visiting you in shall actually Atlanta folks are finally
getting their first class post COVID When is that? That is Matt Are you going to tell me in the chat
right now because my memory is horrible but August very soon after Ramadan actually inshallah it's
in May I will drop the link there if you're from Atlanta or if you're in neighboring areas make sure
you visit and shift hopefully we get a chance to have your presence there in Charlotte as well yeah
		
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			I'm Sharla let me know and I'll I'm I'm I'm trying as much as possible to be in Atlantean
		
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			you're doing your best you're appreciated
		
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			glasses are right here somebody's like where's the glasses right here? You know, just I decided to
not wear them right now. All right Smilla
		
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			let's jump into the talk of have like 25 or 35 minutes left inshallah and yes, the class in Atlanta
on May 5. Don't forget it guys. Make sure you 50 Masha Allah, all of you should come out in Atlanta.
And hopefully I'll drop in and we'll see.
		
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			You know, we'll I'll see you all over there in Sharla. Super excited. I'm so glad this is coming
back this as a matter of tours, because because like for three years, it was just like a complete
loner like, and we thought it's gone. Like it's not going to come back. But you know, subhanAllah
people are people are really looking forward to these things.
		
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			And hamdulillah just just before I began just an answer to somebody asked this question, you know
about the sons of Abu Lahab. So I will have had five or six children and two of them. Two sons. One
of them was actually married to overconsume, the daughter of provinces seven but the marriage was
not consummated, and he divorced her. He never ended up accepting Islam his name was taper. He was
one of the ones that promises eliminate the DA against that Allahu Malaika your bureau table Allah
Allah Almighty Kavita be to have a Bucha * in all of these and then
		
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			are Taiba who was once upon a time and son
		
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			In life, nobody says hello I'm actually really was disrespectful for Prophet sallallahu Sallam so
prophets Allah, Allah made a dua against him. And he said Allahumma Selita Lee he killed them in
Kill abiquo Allah let a dog from your end come and take care of his affairs. So what happened with
him was that he was he escaped at the time of Fatima and he moved all the way to someplace called
zurka in the sham area it says sham I don't know which exact country that areas or part belongs in
today. I don't remember off top my head. And he was in a group of people and they were sleeping and
		
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			a leopard.
		
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			By the way there leopards found in the Arabian Peninsula till today. So a leopard came and amongst
all the people that were sleeping, he came in he just grabbed him and took him and devoured him
alive in front of everybody else. And as he was being eaten alive by the leopards and narratives,
they said that the DUA he said, had Mohammed This is the daughter of Hamlet that has come true as he
was dying and being eaten by the leopard. The other son was Autobot and the robot ended up becoming
a muslim so he did accept Islam at the hands of Nabi SallAllahu sallam, and you know and he was with
Prophet at toward the end after Fatima and stuff he ended up accepting Islam. That was the answer
		
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			somebody asked so I thought just provide that information to whoever asked I didn't see the chat so
		
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			Alright, let's begin inshallah. Bismillah
		
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			All right, where is my church?
		
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			All right. Let's bring up people Bismillah who wants to come and start reciting this word this surah
everybody should be able to like actually get 100 Hands up this is like a sort of everybody can
recite let's see want to put up your hands you want to come and recite and let's do that. Somebody
that hasn't recited so bring someone that has not recited Yes, it could just be me for some reason I
see Wikipedia for it with that even Abby Lahab are really
		
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			at excellence I see the Quran. Okay, can everyone just confirm that they see Quran or Wikipedia?
		
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			Let me just see. Try again.
		
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			Okay, the cell we see wiki I think it might just be the window. I've through three monitors. There
we go. Very
		
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			similar, but so who's gonna come bring somebody who hasn't recited?
		
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			Let's see, we got six people with their hands up. My memory is not the best. Let me see if I could
find. I see. I mean, that looks like a new name. Bismillah. I mean, go right ahead. Let's go. I
mean, Salam aleikum, WA to live wabarakatuh widely considered working to level tattoo. Go for it,
brother.
		
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			This means your man you're watching.
		
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			screen moves.
		
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			Okay, can you guys see it? Yep. The birdie or the dealer. Have you met up? Man? I wanna Oh man. Oh,
who am I? Kasaa saya Slann out on that and I have one more or two who have a little hotter. Fiji de
haben me method Jamil. MashAllah vertical feet? That's amazing.
		
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			Where did you learn to recite?
		
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			Go ahead speak.
		
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			Where did you learn to recite?
		
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			I did I mostly learned from listening to other spiders. Mashallah, mashallah amazing martial? That's
amazing progress. If you just learned just through listening, that is just amazing. Progress mellows
bless you. So I wanted to touch on today, the surah. I'm sure that the she covered the context and
why this was revealed. We're going to look at the verses. But before we go into that, let's go in
understand this a little bit. And I'll go through that same book that we've been going through.
Oops, why is this thing getting stuck? Alright, here we go. So this surah has multiple names, right?
Number one, it's called surah. Al Masjid. Okay, Alma said number two, it is also called su rock
		
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			that, okay, it's called Suraj. Tibet. Next name is Seurat IV Lahab. The surah is also called salt IV
lab. And last name for the surah is Surah Tibet, Jada IV lab. These are the four different names
that have been mentioned in Tafseer books about the surah the surah is obviously in it really it was
really in Makkah, you know the context and practices Salam invited everybody he went up on the
mountain. He said, If I tell you about this thing, and he said that been Lexa in the home that you
know me, he said that to prophets of Salaam and this surah was revealed the main method of the
surah. The main purpose of the surah is that it doesn't matter if you who you are related to it
		
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			doesn't matter who you're you know,
		
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			Who what type of connections you have? What type of network you have those connections those
fraternities don't really help when it comes to to Allah subhanaw taala and you believe in him. So
over here, either men fat in this world Johanna Alko for a builder. If a person is not a believer
and you don't believe in Allah subhanaw taala those connections that you have, oh, I am a son of
this and I am a daughter of that. Those things don't really matter.
		
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			Even the son of Nabil new new Haile Salam, right, he said to Allah subhanaw taala in the Bunnymen
alley, my son is from my family. So Allah subhanaw taala, he responded back to him and he said in
the holidays, I mean, and he's not from your family.
		
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			He may have a a genetic connection to you, but he's not your family. In the Huambo, don't label
solid. He has an animal, his armor or label solder that he is not a person who has pious deeds. So
your armor your good deeds become the source of your true connections in dystonia. And Athena, you
can have those genetic connections, you know, biological connections, but the real connection is
your animal in your silo, how many good deeds that's the real connection at the end of the day.
Okay. Now, we'll read quickly about what this is sort of talk about, again, the summary of what it
mentions over here for those that are Arabs, they can read this, but it is basically the surah is
		
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			all about how Abu Lahab was destroyed, and the entire conversation about that destruction. There's a
lot of lessons for us over here in the Surah and we'll get into that over here together. So first,
that but Jada? Why is Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			Referring to to both hands of Abu Lahab
		
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			question for people.
		
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			What Why refer both hands? I mean, what's the purpose of mentioning both hands? Okay. Your good
deeds become true source of accurate knowingness, okay, what's the purpose of using both hands? Why
not but instead of yada, but yet Avira hub.
		
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			Okay, beautiful. So beautiful. Somebody said livelihood beautiful. So it is referring to that
anything so when we say I did this with my both hands? You could have also done that thing with your
one hand but an English language really say it's metaphoric right? Yeah, I did this was sometimes
people say in Arabic language li l
		
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			li yet fill Masjid. I have a hand in this Masjid. Right? What does that mean? You even chop off your
hand and put into Masjid it's like you were involved in this semester so it is talking about that
but yeah da Vila heavy water that wherever his hands get involved in whichever things that he gets
involved in whatever he does.
		
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			There is going to be nothing but destruction for this person. Okay, that's one meaning the second
meeting the Arabs when they say yada yada but the medina Id come what you have presented to in front
of you be Id come in front of your hands Maka dama tree light so whenever Allah uses the word ad it
means whatever that person's eye where are your hands when you put your hands forward? Right
whenever you put your hands over here when he's standing here whatever is in front of you. So yet
ordain in Arabic language is the indication of that person's existence so I this is my existence and
whatever is in front so tough but yeah da being that whatever is in front of Abu Lahab that is going
		
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			to come his hands ie the existence of Abu Lahab and whatever is going to come in front of him what
dub and Allah is like and that that is coming is an absolute destruction. This is a second meaning
which is sometimes not translated or lost because we don't you know, go into different translations
of Arabic language. Next
		
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			Next question, what was the real name of Abu Lahab?
		
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			Something
		
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			just a hint
		
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			Karim Abdullah Rosa good. Why not use the word of De La Rosa.
		
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			And why use Abu Lahab
		
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			I mean, in the entire Quran, Allah uses actual names Why use a Buddha
		
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			why not use Abdullah resides more more you know, why use especially when we say I will fool and the
Arabs in there you know, you can give me a one in this if you know this, whenever we say Abu Abu
Abdullah, Abu you know ohms on Aisha, it is a source of the cornea is a source of what respect so
hey, that we give respect for why is Allah giving Abu Lahab respect in the Quran and not using his
name
		
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			to this
		
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			Questions of pondering because we always read these things. We don't believe in idols, okay?
		
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			So in the entire Quran, how would we search this? How would we find this answer? We would look at
the word ABD. Okay, we would look at the word ad.
		
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			Because he was proud because there's his respect became punishment. Okay, but that's a good point.
That's a really good point of FIFA. His respect became punishment. Yeah, that's a really good point.
A FIFA can you bring her up want to talk to her? A FIFA, if you're here, raise your hands. It
doesn't matter if you're
		
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			there. That's a really good point. I Sharla. So tell us more. Why do you come down to LA? I mean, a
lot of a sudden you I send them ala Nabina. Muhammad, I mean
		
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			that, although he has his two hands, everything, he acquired everything he had, but it is from Allah
that Allah provided those things for him.
		
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			Okay, and he, he became ungrateful. Okay. So it became ungrateful. And it I think it's a way of, you
know, like, it's like a warning, I think because he was still alive. When the sewer was built. If
Allah wanted, he could have abrogated it or something. Like yeah, time and it's a form it's a form
of disrespect for him, right. It's a form of disrespect sometimes how, you know, a person is being
persecuted or they're being you know, sentenced. And in that sentencing, they come and they say,
general so and so is going to be court martialed with so much. So it's a sentence in that
sentencing. They intentionally refer to that person's rank and status within the Army to let others
		
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			know that don't be like him. Right? Don't be like this person. That's number one. So it is like a
subtle insult while you're still putting that you're putting that person on the pedestrian but then
disrespecting him right. That's number one. The second reason for that? Let's hear from bahaya
money's behind who needs
		
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			I'm sorry as * am I
		
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			I didn't I wasn't falling now. I was I had put my hands up just no right. No problem. No problem.
No. When you fall in I cannot answer.
		
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			I cannot answer to those questions. No problem. No problem. We understand. The Bellagio problem,
chakra. Okay, so if you look up the word in the Quran, if you go and you search the word out in the
Quran,
		
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			if Allah had mentioned a la Rosa,
		
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			then the entire the it becomes completely antithetical to the entire existence of Quran Quran is so
hate. Because then Allah is like the slave of Allah Rosa, which is the name of one of their gods. So
that's the second reason why the Almighty said that Abdullah Rosa mentioning that would have
affirmed a subtle level of shit that, you know, Allah affirmed the servant of Allah Rosa. So that's
the third reason, second reason, the third reason was, and this is the most powerful reason, and I
asked a lot, that I'm able to explain this, because when I read it, I was just sitting there, I'm
like, how am I going to express like, because in Arabic, it sounds so amazing. And I was like,
		
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			sitting there, I'm like, How do I spin this in English, so that we can all understand it. So, so,
you know, so this, this requires a little bit of understanding. So was a Bula Hubbs name Abu Lahab
before the Surah or after the surah?
		
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			Before Okay, beautiful. So before he was known as Abu Lahab before, and why was known as Abu Lahab.
Before because of what, because of the redness that was in his cheek and he was an exceptionally
handsome and beautiful person. Right? Like as as you know, the Instagram world would say he was a 10
out of 10, right, like, like Instagram world like so, he was a lead from all angles from money from
power from, from every single aspect, he was a 10 out of 10. Right so and he looked handsome and he
had power and all of this.
		
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			Now, this is where the amorphous sirloin and the people who pondered upon that they said something
so beautiful, they said, and this tells you the father of Allah, that long before the surah was
revealed, Allah inspired the people
		
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			within that society, to name this person, Abu Lahab which means, you know, the father of amber or
somebody who looks like you know, orangish reddish Amber, and that name became synonymous to him and
became famous, but only Allah knew that in the future
		
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			Future that name is also going to be part of a surah, which that name will also hold true that you
are the one who is being punished because Abu Lahab the one who was sentenced to fire or the one who
belongs to to, you know,
		
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			like a trade off Amber's. So over here both names, in one part was true in one element of his life
that the beauty and it reflected that but it also was that Allah inspired people to call him and
imagine that you generally the Arabs would never call people with with objects, they would always
called people with Ebola Akbar, the son of Ebola and Ebola and at the sons, they were always
referred to sons, but he was never referred to his sons, despite having sons, powerful sons, none of
the Croatia result of calling him with his son's name, rather, he was always called Abu Lahab. And
this is how the color of Allah subhanaw taala works in his mysterious ways that people Allah will
		
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			inspire people, right with a certain name because Allah knew that in the future, that name is going
to be used for this surah number three, the third point that we want to take away from here is Abu
Lahab had a very simple way out and I'm sure the channel size managers would have mentioned that he
could have come out and said, Amen La Ilaha illa Allah and the entire discussion would have been
over, but rather Subhanallah his reaction to the sorrows were completely opposite to that. Okay,
next part, my elder Now Andrew Maluku waymarker sub so over here, this man
		
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			in the Arabic language mark and have this is this just a
		
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			side but I think some sometimes it's nice to understand this.
		
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			How many different meanings of Mark and be there?
		
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			Six mark and have six meanings in Arabic language? Okay. Okay. Mark can have six means beautiful. So
can we bring up Sierra? She said six let's let's let's see if she remembers all these six.
		
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			Sierra or era Syrah No.
		
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			i By the end of Ramadan, 360. We gotta learn how to sit instead.
		
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			I don't know.
		
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			Okay, okay. This is different theater is
		
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			Syrah okay. Okay, Syrah so tell me the six
		
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			see if
		
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			it's okay. If one of them isn't No. Okay. Enough. Yeah. Okay. Another one is like
		
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			which, like, What? What?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			One is like
		
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			I love it.
		
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			I love it. So much
		
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			that I live in that which okay, then you have
		
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			I don't I don't. So
		
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			most
		
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			questioning you've got the negative you've got
		
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			a showplace?
		
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			No, no. So then you have a dad job. You have my dad job ma Svara how patient are you on that? Okay,
as a surprise, right. And then and then you have the last one, which is Nokia and Nokia. So there
are two there is negation and there is a lot of fear. Sorry, my word fear. Good luck. Allah had a
verb the place that place which the police had now over here in this entire surah Allah has used all
of the types of months
		
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			that's the whole point of this exercise. Okay, most of those so for example, this man and now he now
he our the amount of negation, okay, ma Zina, okay I didn't who it did not avail him okay.
		
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			You can also have a questioning mouth and I know what will avail him model who his man miles an hour
you know what will make him available his money right? So all of these different masks can come in
in different meanings. I don't want to confuse you in those many people are going to walk away with
like, oh my god, there's like 10 different versions of the video that I will have you but I'm done
with Arabic today, sir. alikoum I'm leaving. Right. So so the point is this map in there in the
tafsir books has two different meanings. This Ma has two different meanings. Mark I said what he
earned and maca sub that which he earned. I eat it was a consequence of something. So Marchesa what
		
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			his money earned. Ma Elena and who Maluku that his money did not avail him. That's one meaning. What
did his money avail him? That's a second meaning what Mark is up and what is his money? What, what
that money earned. So there are two meanings over here.
		
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			What did
		
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			his money will him that's one meaning his money did not avail him that's a second meaning all of
those meanings will come mashallah somebody came up with the entire I liked that so, who's this
person?
		
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			It's their idea to mashallah Jimmy and they even brought those show up they even brought those
things exactly the and stuff which are in excess you know Tanzeem and Xactly there but again there's
not a grammar class though please don't leave anyone we're not going into grammar because usually
the grammar begins like us like I am just about to exit gate so Allah is saying my whole mind who am
I said that neither did his money benefit him neither what his attorney brought to him say US law
the word say US law is very powerful because diocesan right you'll see loan to reach
		
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			and what is the connection between he will be burned and reaching? Because saosin That person is
going to read somewhere is generally used salsa is over here used in terms of burning what is the
connection?
		
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			What is the connection between reaching and burning
		
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			okay
		
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			to want to bring up if you want to raise your hands come up.
		
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			Okay, I see a couple of hands make sure you lower your hands if it was for previous response that
you had them raised. Otherwise, let's show that Alia go right ahead.
		
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			I'll repeat the question again unless ALLAH is asking from burning, I'll repeat the question. So So
yes, still that person is going to reach you know, for example, say Mata Yasin era when is the
airplane going to arrive?
		
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			That rude word is the same as Gessler to burn and what seems to be the connection between them
		
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			beautiful, somebody said that. So yes, that IE he his final destination he will be taken to that
destination and he will arrive there only to get burned over there.
		
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			And Allah protect us from that. So yes, Allah ie he will be taken from where he is. And there's an
imagery over here that he will be taken while still and he would reach that place is that he will
also be burned in that nah run, he'll be burned with fire that Allah had. This is really interesting
because Allah called him Abu Lahab and his cornea was Abu Lahab and Allah used his name his name
very similar to like the the punishment that he will be given is very similar to the type of name He
has because in Jahannam you know the real amount they have described that there's more than 70 The
we know seven more than 70 Plus types of punishments that we have documented proof from so he had
		
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			these some will be done this way some will have this some will have that all different types of
punishment, but his punishment is going to be something very similar. Did Did he mentioned did chef
magic mentioned about his
		
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			one which day his punishment is going to be reduced
		
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			Okay, so there is a day on so let's see if you guys can figure it out. So Abu Lahab
		
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			there is a day somebody said it already Mashallah. MashAllah you guys have like really nice like, I
love this kind of like, you know, I don't even need like a you know, everyone knows it like,
mashallah Monday. So whoever said Monday, come on up and tell me why on Monday.
		
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			For designer, I see Farzana inside. Ah,
		
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			okay, let's any one of those. Let's go.
		
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			On, let's hear from you.
		
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			Yes, I want you
		
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			to understand that Sam was born. And then it was the day when he would not have allowed one of his
servants or I think there was a way but the way he voted Yeah, she converted. Yeah. And he allowed
her like, making gestures with his fingers, that you're allowed to go and feed her. So last along
with your milk. And more importantly, he showed, and this is a point I think I want us all to
understand. So Abu Lahab will have a reduction on his job every Monday. Yeah, and he would be
allowed to drink some water as well. I read to some I don't know about that there. I mean, there's a
lot of extra stuff that was added. I don't know if that was from the Hadith. But Allah I'm not sure
		
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			whether it's authentic but I read it somewhere that he allowed to wear drink some water and a
reduction in his punishment. Yeah, so the question here is why was this production not because he
allowed swaybar to breastfeed Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam, but there was something else
		
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			because like he was the uncle for some lessons Allah man he felt some sympathy at that.
		
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			And for his nephew, sympathy or happiness,
		
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			happiness as well and sympathy as well. So it mentions that he became so happy that out of his
happiness he freed that slave.
		
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			That you know, he was so happy that when the news arrives, let go, you're free, out of that
happiness. So the Allama they said the Farhat eg that because he heard the news about the verse of
Prophet sallallahu Sallam and he showed momentary happiness on that day that he was born and upon
the news of his birth, Allah subhanaw taala is going to reduce the adverb on him for every Monday.
Then for you and I, we need to ask this question that do you even feel the happiness that we belong
to the amount of Nabi Muhammad Salah seldom do we feel that momentary joy for a second, you know,
that irrespective of that debate that people have between you know, whether you should celebrate
		
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			molars or not, that's irrespective debate, the debate is, do me as an individual do I feel that
momentary happiness when the month of raviolo will come that do I feel happy that Rasul Allah was
born, because the greatest blessing on the OMA of Muhammad as an ummah, what is the greatest
neuroma? Some other scholars say, it is the birth of Nabi Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam for us. Because
without that Norma all the other bounties don't have Islam would not have come. So his birth is the
greatest neuroma for this Oma. So we all ought to show this momentary happiness towards the
Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wasallam. And over here, every Monday and this is a connection to this
		
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			thing that he will be burned and he will have a punishment of blazing fire. But on that day on every
Monday that will be reduced, due to the momentary happiness that he showed towards the Rasul Allah
says, Allah may Allah subhanaw taala, grant us all a heart filled with the love of Nabi Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, then comes the story of his wife.
		
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			And this is an interesting part. And before we get into that, sometimes, and oftentimes, a person
may decide that I want to go or an individual may decide that I want to go left, and that is the
wrong decision to make.
		
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			But if you don't have a spouse that can counter your wrong decision, and bring you back to the
center, then it becomes very difficult and very scary, because that couple can end up becoming a
really big issue for themselves and their akhira, but also a bigger nuisance for the community and
the society. And we see this time and again, this is not just a Bula hub. And you know, I'm
jameelah. You know, I'm Jamie and not these two, but it was also
		
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			you see this through out. You see this sometimes in mass murderers that they're, you know, you'll
have like somebody within the spouse that was complacent. They knew all along that their husband or
their wife was doing something, they were complacent. And they were okay with it. They, they allowed
it. And this is a very important lesson for all of us. Again, marriage is a very hot topic,
everybody wants to get married and this whole thing, but in this thing, the question you need to ask
and you ought to ask beyond any other questions, I know that we are living in this, this world,
which is super driven by physical appearances. And I see this time and again, see this time and
		
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			again, where you will have a brother, you know, he may not score 10 as a physical experience,
appearance, he may be like seven or six, whatever, depending on the standards. But the brother will
have everything else in the category that provinces set them told us to check that he has a good
Hello, and good Dean. But then oh, no, but he doesn't fit that category. He does not the upper
echelon of you know, what a man is supposed to be. And the same thing goes for the brothers brother
will come and describe to me literally on this weekend trip, some brother came to me and said chef,
want to get married. I said, mashallah, what's the type of wife you're looking for? And they're
		
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			like, oh, yeah, we're looking for what? Chef? I'm very simple person. Okay, I'm very simple person.
I am looking for a woman that's maybe five foot nine, five foot 10 You know, she's got to be slim
build, you know, preferably blue or green eyes. If not, then I'm okay. I'll be humble. I will take
brown light brown eyes to I'm listening. And the guy's like, and then and what else as like Yeah.
And you know, I want that she's like this and then she starts describing at the end of it. I was
like, heavy.
		
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			You know, you'll get that in Jannah and sha Allah, not in this world because with all this physical
characteristics, and you want all of these, I mean, it is possible. I'm not saying it's not. But we
got to get realistic about these things man like and that's why many of us were not getting married.
We all know this, you know, in the chat, you know, you know this. You are people that are 25. There
are 2025 2627 28 sisters, brothers
		
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			And what ends up happening is if we're not making the right decisions, and the decision of our
marriage is supposed to be on the look and team characteristics, and then what we see in our Willa
hubs situation is when the DIS the marriage was on any other reasons. So there was a marriage for a
tribal reason, there was a marriage for a business reason, there was marriage for money, whatever
marriage could be for many other reasons, right? If other reasons are at play, then that group,
		
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			that couple, the chances of them being on there on behalf and remaining on top is very little,
sadly. So again, I hope that Allah subhanaw taala grants, all of you that are not married, you know,
spouses that are highest virtuous, that respect you and those that are married that Allah subhanaw
taala. flourish, your Eman but this is a true story that how a man and his woman she supported the
man in that truck tyranny and now both ended up in hellfire.
		
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			And this is a really sad lesson from us. So over here Allah says one or two who and his woman or his
wife, Amal Atoll, hubbub, subhanAllah, she is the one that you know there's two meanings one, that
she was inflaming the fire of emotions in this dunya that's one meaning. And the second meaning over
here is on the Day of Judgment, she will be tasked with the task of burning fire for his own for her
own husband and may Allah protect us from that. Fiji the ha habido member said and in her neck, ie
she's going to be punished in a manner that she's going to have a palm fiber mess it is a very harsh
rope like if you hold on to it and if it slips if you're holding like you're doing a tug of war and
		
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			if you're holding on to it and slips your hands it will it will you will have literally burned marks
and you will have to put cream on or something right so yeah, like a jute rope. So So you have that.
And basically Allah is saying that you know that is wrapped around her neck indication of one. Some
of the older mothers say that habit with acid is the indication that her knifes controlled her
		
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			in Ramadan is a great time for us to tie and untie that, that knot around. The second is
		
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			it the second meaning of that is it's a color that is burning around the neck. The third meaning is
that it's a form of shackling, so she would be shackled on the day of judgment and the rope would be
what will allow her to go all the way to Abu Lahab to to inflame the fire. And and also the other
other the other reason some some people they say is that, you know, she was very proud of herself.
She was very proud she was a woman that was full of pride and sometimes to to control that person's
plight pride Allah subhanaw taala will punish either punishment of the people who have arrogance is
very similar to punishment who committed Zima Zina it's a punishment of a similar category, the
		
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			punishment who used to talk a lot, their mouths are going to be ripped open from the side. So a law
punishes people based on their internal states. And this is a punishment very indicative of her
arrogance. And she used to believe that she's the most beautiful person she'll only give birth to
all of those things are being played with this statement. One minute or two hammer that'll help the
woman she is his wife and becoming the carrier of the word cgdi Hablo Ma said that in her neck is
the rope that is made of palm fibers or a color of fire may Allah subhanaw taala protect every
single one of us from from entering in hellfire and may Allah make us all from Allah homematic Could
		
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			it have been Amina nor Allah free us from hellfire? And as I mentioned before, this means that Allah
frees your name removes it from the list of hellfire. So may Allah make us from those
		
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			who have been removed from the list of hellfire and placed on the list of of Jannah in sha Allah may
Allah bless you all dark Lo Fi calm and I give it back to
		
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			have sown Sharma
		
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			I mean just like Kamala Harris she made that was incredibly beneficial honestly, it's really it's
It's insane how many practical lessons we can derive from what we do not want to you know, embody in
this couple of Subhanallah such as I love her great reflections really good martial engagement in
the chat you guys are getting better and a little scary fast mashallah, with their responses, keep
it up, keep that energy going for the last 10 days. Make sure that you guys are attending live this
is where people tend to drop off this is where people tend to get busy and like oh, I'm too sleepy
I'm gonna catch up I'm gonna nap during this time before so we're sorry Athar, but try to make that
		
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			time to to join us live in sha Allah I'm not going to inshallah take any more time I just want to
make sure that you guys as you're leaving Inshallah, just focus on the one thing that we were
focusing on today's do support the Forgotten woman appeal if you guys are having any issue