Khalid Latif – Perfecting Your Prayer Essentials of Salah (Hanafi) #04

Khalid Latif
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The speakers emphasize the importance of seasonality and the Islam practice in Easter, highlighting the need to learn to apply Iran's Hajj practice and share practices in community. They also emphasize the importance of fasting during busy seasons, fulfilling obligations, and finding good things in life. The transformation of the process of nationalizing the process is centered in faith and a God-centric understanding, with a focus on reading the first four letters of the Pro confident statement and doing it on your own.
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Well, we're gonna take a pause on it.

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Not maybe entirely depending on how kind of

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the course of the session goes today,

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because I wanted us to focus on something

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that

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is relevant to prayer also.

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But in particular,

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seasonally,

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we're in a time of the calendar year,

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where people go to make the pilgrimage to

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Mecca. The major pilgrimage is called the Hajj.

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And Sunni Islam

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is one of the 5 pillars of Islam.

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It's considered an obligation,

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and there's gonna be a lot of different

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things relevant to

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this time of the year.

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Here's a major holiday that'll happen next week.

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There's some other

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very,

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specific practices, etcetera.

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So if you are coming to the class

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around Ramadan time, and we talked about the

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holiday that took place after Ramadan,

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So I wanted to give a overview of

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it in that regard as well.

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And then we'll go

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into some of the Arabic letters again, and

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people have been practicing that.

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So we can start,

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moving forward on just, like, the reading

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and writing capacity.

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And then at the end, if there's time,

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we'll jump back into Fatiha.

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So the Islamic calendar,

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is

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a little bit different from the Gregorian calendar.

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If I also sound

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more monotonous than I usually do,

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it's because I just got off of a

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plane. I was in Portland yesterday and flew

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out this morning

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at around 6 o'clock in the morning,

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and then landed in JFK.

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And if you ever come from JFK back

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to Manhattan in the middle of the day,

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it's not the most fun thing to do

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in the world.

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So that's kinda where I'm at right now.

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So I apologize for that.

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The month on the Islamic calendar that we're

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in is called Dhul Hijjah

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And it's the last

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month on the Islamic

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calendar.

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The next month, to give you an idea

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that we'll talk about also in the coming

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weeks, is called Muharram.

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This is the 1st month on the Islamic

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calendar.

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So we're looking at the last month on

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the calendar.

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So I

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go, did you just wake up? Yeah. You

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look like you're so peaceful over there. I

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don't want to disturb

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Yeah. I was waiting for class.

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Great.

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So this is the last month on the

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Islamic calendar.

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And

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in

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this month,

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especially in the 1st

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3rd of the month, there's a lot that

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goes into

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particular practices,

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rituals,

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rights.

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The most

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kind of well known one

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is what's called in Arabic

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Hajj

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And this is essentially a pilgrimage to Mecca,

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that Muslims are required

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to do at least once in their life.

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Is they have the means to do so.

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And the means to do so

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is not just limited to financial means, but

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also

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capacity.

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Say I'm the caretaker

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of,

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you know, a sick parent,

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and I have the money to go for

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Hajj, but there'd be nobody to look after

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my

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sick mother or sick father if I was

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to go. Right? I have a baby that

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isn't

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able to go, a newborn. Right? I'm a

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recently,

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you know,

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pregnant woman who just delivered. There's a lot

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of scenarios

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that means can kind of extend

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beyond

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just, financial capacity, but financial capacity

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is a part of it.

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And one of the things that's gonna come

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up in the course of a lot of

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this is gonna be how

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a lot of these rituals in the month

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of Dhul Hijjah

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revolve around the idea

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of

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sacrifice.

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Has anybody ever seen pictures of Hajj?

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Right? You see, like, the Kaaba and Mecca.

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People are kind of dressed in very similar

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clothing, etcetera.

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So people have been leaving

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for the Hajj pilgrimage

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from about a week ago, if not longer.

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Some people from different parts of the world

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will go, like, multiple weeks in advance, even

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months in advance. But what's happening is millions

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of people from all over the world,

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they're converging on the city of Mecca,

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and so just logistically, it necessitates

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people

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arriving,

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as well as departing

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in a systematic way,

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cause there's no way that everybody could land

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on the same day. Right? Let alone thinking

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about just the traffic flow of individuals getting

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to hotels, getting to different areas. It's a

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really beautiful

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experience.

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Maybe

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in a couple weeks, we can look at

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pictures and things.

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The AV in both of these rooms is

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getting redone right now.

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Otherwise, we'd show you a bunch of stuff

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around it. But it's one of the main

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rituals within Islam, like you have to do

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Hajj if you have the capacity or the

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means to do so.

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I went in 2,005

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for the first time. I was 22 years

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old.

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And in 2019, I went for a second

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time where we took a group of people

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from the Islamic Center,

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and then COVID hit.

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And then last year, the Saudi government changed

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the rules

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in terms of groups being able to go

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from the United States and Canada,

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they essentially nationalize the entire process,

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and

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people now have to go through the Saudi

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Ministry of Hajj

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in order to

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apply

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and perform and get selected for the Hajj.

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And we'll talk about all of that, But

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Hudge is one of the things.

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None of us are on Hudge right now,

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right? We're all here. So we don't have

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to go into in too much detail.

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It's not one of those things that you

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have to know

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the how to's

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unless you're actually doing it, right? That's the

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way

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Islam

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functions

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on a practice level. So, you know, whether

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you're exploring Islam, you're a recent convert to

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Islam, you,

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you know, are born into it and you're

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trying to reconnect to different levels,

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things are not obligatory

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upon you. So it's an obligation

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to go,

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if you have the means to go, but

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you're not obligated

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to know how to do it

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unless you're going to do it. Does that

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make sense?

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And if you're never in the category of

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people who are required to go, so you

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just never have the financial means or capacity

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to go, then you're not obligated to know

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something

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just because it's an obligation.

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You're obligated to know it if it's obligatory

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upon you.

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Do you see the difference?

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Right? And why that's important is because you

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might meet Muslims,

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right? Who they were born into Islam or

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even if they're converted to Islam

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and they're gonna just start piling information,

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you know, like do's and don'ts,

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this and that. It might not all be

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applicable

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or relevant

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in the kind of stage that you're in

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right now. So just because it's the time

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of Hajj,

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doesn't mean that you're supposed to just learn

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everything around

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Hajj as a requirement.

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And that there's somehow inadequacy or deficiency in

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your practice

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if you don't know the rulings relevant to

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something,

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because that's not how Islam functions on a

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practice level. You're only required to know it

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when it becomes required for you to actually

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perform it.

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Does that make sense?

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Yeah?

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Okay.

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So

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what is gonna come from here also are

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a few other things that I'm gonna write.

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There's a holiday that's going to come.

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It's called Eid al Adha and

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a part of this holiday

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has a practice that's called the Udhia.

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Some people will also call this Korbani.

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After Ramadan, we have a holiday that's called

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the Eid al Fitr.

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Right?

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And some of you were here when we

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celebrated it.

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Eid al Adha and Eid al Fitr

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are both holidays

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that are celebrated

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after

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a period of time in which

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people who are Muslim

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engage in a lot

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of,

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deep religious practice. So Eid ul Fitr is

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a holiday that comes after a month of

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fasting,

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Right? And within that, people are giving charity,

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people are standing into the night in prayer,

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and at the culmination of it, there's going

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to be

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this holiday that takes place.

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And similar to Eid ul Adha,

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at Eid ul Fitr, you have

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the charity that's given

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that serves two roles, right? It's called the

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Zakatul Fitr

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that serves as a remedy for any deficiencies

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in your practice in Ramadan,

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but also as a mechanism through which those

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who don't have so much, they're now given

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financial capacity to also celebrate the holiday,

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right?

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The

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has that same concept and

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is on the 10th day

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of Dhul

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Hijjah.

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And the month of Dhul Hijjah started

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on Monday.

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So today is the 3rd day of Dhul

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Hijjah.

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How it's relevant or similar to Ramadan

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in some capacity,

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is that the entire first 10 days of

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this month of Dhul Hijjah

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are days that

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are considered to be deeply auspicious

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and sacred.

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So there's a chapter

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in the Quran is called,

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the dawn.

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And in that,

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Allah takes oath

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by

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these 10 days.

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Right? In Islam as a religion,

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individual

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is only allowed to swear by God if

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they swear by anything.

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But God is the creator of all things,

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is able

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to take oath by his creation,

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and what

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the commentators

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of the Quran says that when God has

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taken an oath

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by something in his creation, he's giving an

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indication

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that it's something that's really important.

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And there's a lot of meanings and lessons

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that are drawn

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from the oaths

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in relation to the chapter that follows it.

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There's usually a commonality that's there.

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So in this chapter, this called Al Fajr,

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The second thing that God takes oath by,

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that Allah takes oath by, he says,

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and Ashar

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by 10 nights. And what they say is

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that those 10 nights are in reference to

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these first 10 days of Dhur Hijjah.

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And

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they're said to be the 10 days that

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are the most sacred days.

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And good actions,

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doing good works

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are more emphasized to be done in these

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10 days.

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So the same way Ramadan

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has 30 days

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of fasting

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that's obligatory

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for people who have the capacity to fast.

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It's got charities that are recommended, that are

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obligated,

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unique prayers that are recommended,

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all of those things. And at the culmination

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of it, you have this holiday.

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Within

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these days of Dhul Hijjah, you have 9

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days that

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also have recommended

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practices to them.

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And at the end of those 9 days,

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there's this holiday

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that brings in

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that social cohesion practice the way in Ramadan

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you give a charity at the end of

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the month so that people in need can

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celebrate. And

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the end of these 10 days following the

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Eid prayer,

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there's this thing that's called the Udhiya Durkurbani.

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That's a ritual sacrifice,

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in commemoration

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of the Abrahamic narrative

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where the prophet Abraham, peace be upon him,

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is commanded to

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sacrifice his son. In the Islamic

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narrative,

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it's his son Ishmael.

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Ishmael

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in the Judeo Christian narrative,

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it's said to be is hawk Isaac.

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But it's a very similar narrative.

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There are differences in it that we could

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talk about, but

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the is a commemoration of that. That Abraham

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is asked to or commanded to sacrifice his

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son.

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And in this ultimate sense of sacrifice

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where he moves forward to do it,

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Allah sends

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a ram down

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in place of his son, and then the

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ram is sacrificed.

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And so what Muslims do around the world

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is they perform this Udhiya,

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and they distribute the meat

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to people in need,

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so that they're able to have access to

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that. One share of a Udhiya,

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you know, it depends.

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If you could slaughter a camel, you could

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slaughter a cow, you could slaughter a goat

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or a ram or a lamb or a

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sheep,

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right? In that order of like what is

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best

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to what is like least meritorious,

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not kind of hierarchically, but why a camel

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was better at quote unquote is because the

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most expensive and it produces the most meat,

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right? And then you trickle it down to

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the last animal which is a sheep. The

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sheep is much smaller than a camel. Do

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you know? But more or less, what you're

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gonna find on average is that when somebody

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does this,

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it's gonna help feed up to 5 to

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10 families.

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I've done a lot of work

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in refugee camps and conflict zones. Some of

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you have probably seen photos when I've come

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back from trips. I was just in Turkey

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and you know, the devastation there and all

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these kinds of things.

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I went to Myanmar twice,

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once right after Idil Adha

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in 2018,

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and once right before Eid al Adha in

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2019.

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If you're not familiar with the situation Myanmar,

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they experiencing genocide

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there. Right? The Rohingya community

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is being targeted

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and

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go into, you know, stories in detail. But,

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the second time I went, I met a

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woman

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who to not give too much,

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at this time,

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and I might talk about her on Friday

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at our Friday sermon.

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But she asked me to pray with her,

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and we prayed for her husband who she

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witnessed

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soldiers kill

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in front of her along with one of

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her children

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before they assaulted her. And we prayed for

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her 2 remaining children, 1 years old and

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3 years old, that she walked for 20

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days with

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fleeing soldiers who chased her through the hills

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of her country.

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And we prayed for

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her countrymen who she said the pathways that

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she walked on were just littered with the

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corpses of people who were Rohingya.

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Right? We prayed for

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people who when she got to Bangladesh where

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the refugee camps were set up,

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gathered money together

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because when you're a refugee in this camp,

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you're essentially

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entitled to a free tent and housing,

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and an official who is at the gate

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didn't let this woman and her children in,

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who had walked for 20 days fleeing violence,

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unless they paid her Paid him,

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800 taqa, which is like the equivalent of

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8 American dollars.

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She doesn't have anything. She's fleeing violence, and

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so she stayed in a dilapidated

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school,

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under the rain, all alone. And the villagers

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who didn't have so much gathered their money

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together so that she could pay this man

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his bribe to get

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a tent

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that was supposed to be hers for free

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to begin with.

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And she said let's pray for these people

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who gave me the money even when they

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didn't have anything.

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And then we prayed for people,

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she said specifically,

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always let people know who have contributed,

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volunteered, helped support,

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but let us remember that we're not forgotten,

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The people would notice what we're going through.

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We made a special prayer for them.

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And at the end of it, I asked

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her, is there anything you would like?

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Like anything I could help you with?

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And she said,

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we've been eating the same rice every day,

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3 times a day for the last 10

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months.

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And e this coming. This holiday is coming.

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And she said, all I wanna do is

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give my kids something different to eat.

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Maybe give them some meat.

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And every part of me was about to

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be like, I'm gonna bring you anything you

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want.

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And one of the relief agencies I was

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with pulled me outside and they said,

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don't promise her anything

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because we don't know if we're gonna even

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have something to give to her.

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People back home, they might not do what

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they're supposed

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to do. You get what I mean?

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So there's real tangible people on the other

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end of this. Right?

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And what Islam is a tradition

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seeks to inculcate within the individual practitioner

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is that

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the world is much bigger than you.

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Where and how all of this is rooted

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in idea of sacrifice

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is that it's not about it being a

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matter of convenience,

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right? People will literally have nothing to eat

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or their life is set up very differently.

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The entire Hajj journey for example,

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which a lot of Muslims don't really do

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in its own accord

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is not meant to

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be something that is when

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you have a matter of convenience. You're retired.

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It's when you have the means to do

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so.

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2 of my friends

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who,

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I think CBS or NBC did

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a story on.

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One played for the Kansas City Chiefs, the

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other played for the Vikings.

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Khamsin Hussain Abdullah, they're NFL players, right? People

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watch football.

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They play in the NFL.

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And I don't know if any of you

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ever played sports in your life. Right? And

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when you're a little kid, you know, if

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you thought you were really good and everyone

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who played sports one day said,

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my dream is to play professionally. They actually

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were playing

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professional football

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in the National Football League

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for really good teams. The Vikings and the

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Chiefs.

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Right? Hussein Abdullah,

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you could look him up on YouTube. He

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has a crazy

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pick 6 interception that he runs back for

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a touchdown.

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They're both really great guys.

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They made the difficult

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decision. It wasn't easy

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to take an entire season off

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so that they could fulfill the Hajj.

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And when you play at that level,

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you risk the idea

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is that

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if you take the year off, somebody might

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not invite you back. They were good enough

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to play in the league,

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but they're not like

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the best of the best in that sense,

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right? Like Michael Jordan,

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he can leave the bulls and go play

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baseball

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for a year and a half, and people

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will say, oh, he just took an 18

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month vacation, and then they're gonna bring him

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back to play. Right? That's not how it

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works for most people.

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These guys went

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knowing what they potentially were sacrificing.

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When they came back,

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Hussein

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got a contract offer,

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Hamza did

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not.

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But the whole idea is that you're doing

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it in the frame of sacrifice.

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Right? Abraham is willing to literally sacrifice his

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kid.

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When you go for Hajj,

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you see people like this. When I went

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in 2,005,

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there's millions of people pre COVID going for

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Hajj.

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And the way that

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they

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are

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moving is like literally on top of each

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other. People are very close to one another.

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And if you've ever seen

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what's called the Kaaba,

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the black cube

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that is in Mecca,

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Part of the ritual is that you're

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walking around it in circles. It's called Tawaf

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in Arabic. We'll talk about in a little

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bit.

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When you have millions of people doing this,

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everyone's on top of each other. And from

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where I was standing,

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I could see gaps

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in the holes in the in the tawaf.

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It didn't make any sense to me. And

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when I got closer to where the gaps

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were, they weren't actually gaps,

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but there were women who were performing

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the toawaf

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who didn't have the capacity to stand.

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So they were doing it crawling on their

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knees.

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And not only were they crawling on their

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knees, they had their infant children strapped to

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their backs as they were doing it because

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they literally packed up everything

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to make a once in a lifetime journey

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that is the Hajj.

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They're not coming from the middle of Manhattan.

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They're coming from other countries in different parts

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of the world,

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but they recognize

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what it means to do it once you

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have the means to do so. Do you

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get what I mean?

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And the notion within this isn't

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about

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anything other than how am I getting closer

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to God to it?

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In the Quran when this is described, right?

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So in Arabic,

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the word Udhiya

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comes from the word Duha. This is another

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chapter in the Quran.

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It says by

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the morning light. So why this Udhiya, this

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sacrifice is called this, is because you do

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this in the morning time, right after the

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Eid prayer.

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Korbani

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is also Arabic, it's got cognates in Urdu

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and Hindi,

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it's got the word Kareeb in it.

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Right? So the idea is that through this,

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you're getting closer to God, right? That's what

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Kareeb means, right? If I said that, you

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know,

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this is close to me, right? I'd use

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that word like an actual proximity.

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Do you know what I'm saying? Right? So

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that's what the base of this is, but

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it's being done in a place where

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there's kind of a a sense of it's

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not about, like, the ease and convenience of

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it. Do you know?

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And it's embedded in the Abraham narrative within

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the Islamic tradition

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that the prophet Abraham,

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he gets visions

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that are repetitive

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of this.

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And his son, Ishmael,

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in the Islamic tradition now comes and asks

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him, what's going on with you?

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And the prophet Abraham tells him what's happening

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and he doesn't know what to do. There's

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a sense of kinda, you know,

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what direction do I go in? He loves

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his son.

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And his son is the one that says

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to him, if God is telling you to

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do something, then you should do

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it. And it gives him that affirmation

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that he needs,

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and this is where then the ram is

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sent down.

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What the Quran says about this as a

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practice

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is that it's not a practice that's about

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the slaughter,

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right? It's a means to give people in

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need

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like

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food. That's like a primary goal.

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There's also understanding that the companions of the

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prophet, they would keep some for themselves.

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They would give some to their neighbors whether

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their neighbors were Muslim or not.

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There was a companion by the name of

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Abdullah bin Amr bin Al As when he

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would go to the person that was carving

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up the meat, he would say break it

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into thirds,

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and the 1st third he would say give

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it to my Jewish neighbor.

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But

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here, a big part of it still though

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is to give it to people who don't

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have anything,

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right?

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And so in that sense of an Abrahamic

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narrative,

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it's built upon this idea

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of that kind of struggle.

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Like, that's what the Hajj is. It's not,

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hey, everything else is done. I raised my

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kids, I retired,

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and now I'm gonna go because I got

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nothing else to do.

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But it's in the sense of, hey,

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what really am I choosing between here?

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And what's gonna demonstrate

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a choice that is in the direction of

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what God is asking me to do

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versus what it is that I just feel

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or I think I should do. Right?

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That's why the chapter of the Quran that

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we've been memorizing and looking at Surafatih is

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important to understand

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because

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it's really easy to get lost

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when you haven't consciously formulated an understanding of

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who God is to you fundamentally

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or who is

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God telling us he is through the Quran

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and through the prophetic tradition?

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Then it can just be about do's and

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don'ts, rights and wrongs. And what the Quran

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says

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is that the sacrifice has nothing to do

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with the actual animal

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in terms of God, because God is the

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creator of the animal to begin with. Right?

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Just like it says in the chapter we

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were looking at the last few weeks, that

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we're memorizing for the necessary actions of our

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prayer, Alhamdulillahi

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rabbilahalameen,

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that God is the Lord of all of

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the worlds. Right?

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So what the Quran says is that it's

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not like the flesh of this animal, the

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blood of this animal, any of that stuff

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that's going to God.

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But what the verse says is that it's

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about the taqwa, the piety of the person.

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That their consciousness,

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their awareness

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that is essentially a mindfulness rooted in an

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ethical imperative

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is not morally relative, but it's relative to

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a God centricity.

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Right? God is asking me to do it.

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That's why I'm gonna get it done. And

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the two things go hand in hand. Do

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you know? Whether we think about

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women like the woman I told you about,

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the Rohingya refugee,

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who, like, literally, like, what is her life?

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What has she witnessed and seen?

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And this isn't somebody who's trying to manipulate

00:27:47 --> 00:27:49

something. She fled genocide

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and she's sitting in a tent that isn't

00:27:52 --> 00:27:54

even bigger than the corner of that room

00:27:55 --> 00:27:56

with her 2 remaining children.

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I'm gonna ask her what do you want.

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She's still thinking about somebody else. I just

00:28:01 --> 00:28:03

want my kids to eat something other than

00:28:03 --> 00:28:05

this rice that we've been eating for the

00:28:05 --> 00:28:07

last almost year of our lives. Right?

00:28:08 --> 00:28:10

And it can't be

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that we get to a place where this

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is not a religion that's about egocentricity.

00:28:16 --> 00:28:18

So it's telling you think bigger than yourselves

00:28:18 --> 00:28:21

even if empathy is the only thing

00:28:21 --> 00:28:24

that you can use because there's no way

00:28:24 --> 00:28:27

you can relate experientially to what somebody is

00:28:27 --> 00:28:29

going through that has survived genocide unless you

00:28:29 --> 00:28:31

are a genocide survivor yourself.

00:28:32 --> 00:28:34

And that there's a person on the other

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end that's gonna actually benefit from this. And

00:28:37 --> 00:28:38

a lot of Islamic ritual

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is rooted in this idea that it's not

00:28:41 --> 00:28:43

just about me. It's about so much bigger

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than me. Does that make sense?

00:28:46 --> 00:28:48

Yeah. So what's gonna happen

00:28:49 --> 00:28:51

on the 10th day of Dhul Hijjah

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is

00:28:52 --> 00:28:54

people who are not on Hajj,

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they're going to similar to after Ramadan.

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There's going to be a unique prayer that

00:29:01 --> 00:29:03

has a sermon attached to it.

00:29:03 --> 00:29:05

The prayer precedes the sermon,

00:29:06 --> 00:29:09

and these are days that you'll see a

00:29:09 --> 00:29:10

lot of people

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engaged in the recitation

00:29:13 --> 00:29:16

of Takabir saying, Allahu Akbar.

00:29:16 --> 00:29:17

You know,

00:29:17 --> 00:29:19

Tahmid saying, Alhamdulillah.

00:29:19 --> 00:29:22

Right? Like the first word of Surah Fatiha.

00:29:22 --> 00:29:24

But the idea is that their days of

00:29:24 --> 00:29:25

glorifying God

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and connecting to God, days of remembrance of

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God.

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It's a holiday,

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so

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where and how, like we would love for

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you all to join us here.

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And you can come on Wednesday.

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We'll start at like 8 o'clock in Washington

00:29:43 --> 00:29:45

Square Park. How many of you were here

00:29:45 --> 00:29:45

with us

00:29:46 --> 00:29:49

or went to any Eid gathering after Ramadan?

00:29:50 --> 00:29:52

Not even just in New York, like anywhere

00:29:52 --> 00:29:53

in the world.

00:29:54 --> 00:29:56

Yeah. Great. Right. So it's similar.

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Right? Like conceptually, it's going to be very

00:30:00 --> 00:30:00

similar.

00:30:00 --> 00:30:03

You're going to wear like nice clothes.

00:30:03 --> 00:30:04

Do you know?

00:30:05 --> 00:30:07

Be in a place where you go for

00:30:07 --> 00:30:07

prayers,

00:30:08 --> 00:30:08

like,

00:30:09 --> 00:30:11

hang out with friends, loved ones.

00:30:12 --> 00:30:15

People will celebrate it culturally in different ways

00:30:16 --> 00:30:18

and it's very beautiful

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like our gathering here because our community is

00:30:21 --> 00:30:23

so diverse. You just see people come

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in everything that makes them uniquely who it

00:30:26 --> 00:30:27

is that they are.

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We'll have a brunch afterwards and then bunch

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of other programs that'll happen.

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But it's a day to like give gifts,

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to just be with friends and others,

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and that's the 10th

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of Dhul Hijjah,

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Eid Al Adha.

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Any questions on that

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before we kind of go into a couple

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of other things?

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I like them.

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So the day before it so for us,

00:31:03 --> 00:31:05

this is next Wednesday.

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So the day before it

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is called

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the day

00:31:17 --> 00:31:18

of

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Arafa.

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And this is the 9th

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of Dhul Hijjah.

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This is a clarification point on the Ud

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here.

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You don't have to, like, slaughter the animal

00:31:36 --> 00:31:37

yourself.

00:31:37 --> 00:31:39

Right? And it's important to know, I think

00:31:39 --> 00:31:40

I might have said this to you all

00:31:40 --> 00:31:42

but maybe to reiterate it, we had a

00:31:42 --> 00:31:44

young woman in our community who was a

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

new convert. She had converted

00:31:46 --> 00:31:49

shortly before Eid al Adha. It's her first

00:31:49 --> 00:31:50

holiday as a Muslim

00:31:50 --> 00:31:53

and she was super excited talking to me.

00:31:53 --> 00:31:54

I'm gonna celebrate

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with my bosom brothers and sisters, etcetera etcetera.

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And then I saw her like a week

00:32:00 --> 00:32:02

later, and she looked really sad, and I

00:32:02 --> 00:32:03

said, what's going on? She said, I looked

00:32:03 --> 00:32:06

up how we celebrate this holiday, and it

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

said that I gotta sacrifice a goat, and

00:32:08 --> 00:32:09

she said, I don't even know where to

00:32:09 --> 00:32:11

buy a goat, and do I kill this

00:32:11 --> 00:32:12

thing in my apartment?

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

And she said, I live in a studio,

00:32:14 --> 00:32:15

like, what am I gonna do?

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18

I was like, no, man. Don't don't buy

00:32:18 --> 00:32:19

it. Don't

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if anyone tells you, they'll sell you a

00:32:21 --> 00:32:23

goat. It's the last person you should talk

00:32:23 --> 00:32:23

to in your life.

00:32:24 --> 00:32:27

But don't kill anything in your apartment. Also,

00:32:27 --> 00:32:29

you can just have

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like, you can pay to have this done.

00:32:32 --> 00:32:34

It doesn't have to be done in a

00:32:34 --> 00:32:34

locale.

00:32:36 --> 00:32:37

It can be done anywhere.

00:32:38 --> 00:32:40

We're running a campaign online

00:32:40 --> 00:32:42

that I think tomorrow we'll send out an

00:32:42 --> 00:32:43

email about.

00:32:44 --> 00:32:46

We're doing a toy drive also. There's a

00:32:46 --> 00:32:47

nurse in our community

00:32:47 --> 00:32:49

who some years ago started,

00:32:50 --> 00:32:52

something that she calls caregiver.

00:32:53 --> 00:32:54

Means, good

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in Arabic

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and in other languages.

00:32:58 --> 00:32:59

So as a nurse, she sees a lot

00:32:59 --> 00:33:01

of different people who are in positions of

00:33:01 --> 00:33:04

need. So in Ramadan, her month of fasting,

00:33:05 --> 00:33:06

she started a program

00:33:07 --> 00:33:07

to bring

00:33:08 --> 00:33:10

meals for people to break their fast and

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

the meal before they start their fast, who

00:33:12 --> 00:33:15

are in the hospital with like terminally ill

00:33:15 --> 00:33:15

children.

00:33:15 --> 00:33:18

You know, because they're still fasting, right?

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20

And for this Eve,

00:33:20 --> 00:33:23

she started to bring toys to children who

00:33:23 --> 00:33:24

are hospitalized

00:33:24 --> 00:33:25

because they're still

00:33:25 --> 00:33:27

celebrating a holiday.

00:33:27 --> 00:33:29

And since she started, this is the 8th

00:33:29 --> 00:33:32

year they're doing it. They now do these

00:33:32 --> 00:33:33

toy drives,

00:33:33 --> 00:33:35

in 25 states in the country.

00:33:36 --> 00:33:37

It's really remarkable,

00:33:38 --> 00:33:39

and I think tonight,

00:33:39 --> 00:33:41

there'll be an email going out

00:33:42 --> 00:33:45

about the toy drive and tomorrow about the.

00:33:46 --> 00:33:46

The,

00:33:47 --> 00:33:49

like, you could do for

00:33:50 --> 00:33:51

$75

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depending on what country you do it in.

00:33:53 --> 00:33:56

And the more expensive ones are $350.

00:33:58 --> 00:34:01

Not because of just like the animal but

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

the country that they're in. Right? So

00:34:04 --> 00:34:04

for example,

00:34:05 --> 00:34:07

I think in Mali, it'll be $75.

00:34:08 --> 00:34:10

But if you were to do I think

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

in Syria, it's $350.

00:34:12 --> 00:34:13

Right? Because

00:34:13 --> 00:34:15

Syria is just a big mess politically,

00:34:17 --> 00:34:19

you know, socially, and may God make things

00:34:19 --> 00:34:20

easy for them there.

00:34:21 --> 00:34:21

But,

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

you don't have to go buy an animal

00:34:23 --> 00:34:25

and kill it. Right? Well, this is so

00:34:25 --> 00:34:27

we're all on the same page.

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30

Don't do that. If you want to go

00:34:30 --> 00:34:31

perform the slaughtering,

00:34:32 --> 00:34:34

which is something that you can do, what

00:34:34 --> 00:34:36

a person would do is after the day

00:34:36 --> 00:34:36

of Eid,

00:34:37 --> 00:34:38

after the Eid prayer,

00:34:38 --> 00:34:41

they would go to like a farm,

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

and there's places you can do that

00:34:44 --> 00:34:46

in upstate New York, in Trenton, New Jersey,

00:34:46 --> 00:34:47

in Philadelphia.

00:34:48 --> 00:34:49

I've done it before.

00:34:50 --> 00:34:52

The first time I did it, I was

00:34:52 --> 00:34:53

I think 18 or 19.

00:34:54 --> 00:34:56

I went with my brother and my dad,

00:34:57 --> 00:34:57

and

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

the animal,

00:35:02 --> 00:35:03

like,

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

you know, started to kick me and I

00:35:05 --> 00:35:07

said, this is not gonna really be fun

00:35:07 --> 00:35:10

at all. So, yeah, it's what you would

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

expect it to be if you were trying

00:35:12 --> 00:35:13

to slaughter an animal.

00:35:14 --> 00:35:16

So if that's not your thing, then probably

00:35:16 --> 00:35:17

don't do that.

00:35:18 --> 00:35:20

But you should try to do this.

00:35:22 --> 00:35:24

There are some opinions that say it's an

00:35:24 --> 00:35:24

obligation

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

to do And the Hanafi School, which is

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

the school we've been looking at for the

00:35:29 --> 00:35:31

prayer, they say it's a Wajib, like it's

00:35:31 --> 00:35:34

something that's lesser than a Fardhan obligation,

00:35:34 --> 00:35:35

but more than

00:35:36 --> 00:35:36

a

00:35:37 --> 00:35:37

emphatic

00:35:38 --> 00:35:38

recommendation,

00:35:39 --> 00:35:39

a.

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

And then others would say it's just recommended

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

to do. Yeah.

00:35:45 --> 00:35:45

So,

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

is it something

00:35:48 --> 00:35:50

dua or swel you have to say before

00:35:50 --> 00:35:52

you're doing that? Before you do the slaughter?

00:35:52 --> 00:35:54

Yeah. Yeah. So what happens,

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

the Islamic slaughtering practice,

00:35:57 --> 00:35:58

is called the Dibha.

00:35:59 --> 00:36:01

Right? It also say the Bija.

00:36:01 --> 00:36:03

Like, everyone in New York knows the word

00:36:03 --> 00:36:06

halal because there's street carts, sometimes 2 of

00:36:06 --> 00:36:09

them on every corner, Let alone one on

00:36:09 --> 00:36:10

every corner.

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

And so there's different opinions on what constitutes

00:36:14 --> 00:36:15

Halal

00:36:15 --> 00:36:16

food.

00:36:16 --> 00:36:18

Pork is categorically prohibited,

00:36:19 --> 00:36:22

and byproducts of pork are categorically prohibited.

00:36:22 --> 00:36:26

Alcohol, for example, also is categorically prohibited.

00:36:27 --> 00:36:29

You would have, like, the carcass of an

00:36:29 --> 00:36:32

animal, you couldn't eat, other things like that.

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

But in terms of the slaughtering process,

00:36:38 --> 00:36:41

what the Quranic verse says is to not

00:36:41 --> 00:36:41

eat other

00:36:42 --> 00:36:43

do not eat,

00:36:44 --> 00:36:46

of the thing. Essentially, what it says is

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

that it's had other than the name of

00:36:48 --> 00:36:50

God proclaimed over it.

00:36:50 --> 00:36:51

Right? And so

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

the method of the slaughter

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

is done by hand

00:36:56 --> 00:36:57

with a sharpened blade,

00:36:59 --> 00:36:59

and,

00:37:00 --> 00:37:03

it cuts across either at a horizontal,

00:37:03 --> 00:37:05

some people would say a vertical suffices,

00:37:05 --> 00:37:08

but goes across forming arteries in the jugular

00:37:09 --> 00:37:12

that yields immediate cessation of feeling. Right? It's

00:37:12 --> 00:37:13

a very

00:37:13 --> 00:37:15

kinda humane practice

00:37:15 --> 00:37:17

of the practice of a slaughter.

00:37:18 --> 00:37:20

And at the time of the slaughter,

00:37:21 --> 00:37:24

the prayer that is uttered says, Bismillah Allahu

00:37:24 --> 00:37:25

Akbar.

00:37:25 --> 00:37:27

It doesn't say Bismillahir

00:37:27 --> 00:37:28

Rahmanir Rahim,

00:37:29 --> 00:37:30

right, which is the Basmala,

00:37:30 --> 00:37:32

and we read the verse in Fatiha Ar

00:37:32 --> 00:37:33

Rahmanir

00:37:34 --> 00:37:37

because you're still like slaughtering an animal. Right?

00:37:37 --> 00:37:39

And so you could see what the challenge

00:37:39 --> 00:37:41

would be that when you're taking an animal's

00:37:41 --> 00:37:44

life, that you would also be invoking God

00:37:44 --> 00:37:46

from the standpoint of mercy and compassion.

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

So you're in the name of God, God

00:37:49 --> 00:37:51

is most great, it goes at the jugular,

00:37:52 --> 00:37:54

and that's kind of the prayer and the

00:37:54 --> 00:37:57

method of doing it. When you're slaughtering an

00:37:57 --> 00:37:57

animal,

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

it's not meant to be slaughtered in front

00:38:00 --> 00:38:01

of other animals.

00:38:02 --> 00:38:05

There's a lot of understanding that the animal

00:38:05 --> 00:38:07

has a right over you.

00:38:07 --> 00:38:10

It's treated with care. It's treated with dignity.

00:38:10 --> 00:38:13

This is also supposed to not be an

00:38:13 --> 00:38:15

animal that has any defects to it in

00:38:15 --> 00:38:16

particular

00:38:16 --> 00:38:18

that you wouldn't slaughter an animal that you

00:38:18 --> 00:38:20

wouldn't eat yourself when you're giving it to

00:38:20 --> 00:38:22

someone in need. Right? So if an animal

00:38:22 --> 00:38:24

doesn't have a hoof for example,

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

it's got some kind of challenge or issue.

00:38:27 --> 00:38:29

It's supposed to be like the best

00:38:30 --> 00:38:33

kinda well aged, you know, kinda

00:38:33 --> 00:38:36

animal when it's being done for the for

00:38:36 --> 00:38:37

the in

00:38:37 --> 00:38:38

particular.

00:38:41 --> 00:38:41

And,

00:38:42 --> 00:38:44

yeah, I mean, so essentially, that's what it

00:38:44 --> 00:38:45

is.

00:38:51 --> 00:38:53

Yeah. It's supposed to have the intention

00:38:53 --> 00:38:56

of the person's name along with it. Yeah.

00:38:56 --> 00:38:58

There's some concessions that are made when you're

00:38:58 --> 00:39:02

thinking about this now globally happening with 2,000,000,000

00:39:02 --> 00:39:03

people.

00:39:03 --> 00:39:05

If, you know, a percentage of them are

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

engaged in it because they have the financial

00:39:07 --> 00:39:10

means to do it, as well as, you

00:39:10 --> 00:39:13

know, 1,000,000 on Hajj that are doing this.

00:39:13 --> 00:39:16

But it should be done with the name

00:39:16 --> 00:39:18

of the person involved,

00:39:18 --> 00:39:22

when you're doing the slaughtering itself. Yeah. But

00:39:22 --> 00:39:24

when you pay to have it done online,

00:39:24 --> 00:39:26

you're gonna give your name, etcetera.

00:39:26 --> 00:39:28

And this is where the different opinions are

00:39:28 --> 00:39:31

that each person who has the financial means

00:39:31 --> 00:39:32

would do it individually for themselves,

00:39:34 --> 00:39:34

or,

00:39:35 --> 00:39:37

you know, you could do one on behalf

00:39:37 --> 00:39:39

of an entire family or entire household.

00:39:39 --> 00:39:40

Right?

00:39:41 --> 00:39:43

And there's kinda evidences for both. So there's

00:39:43 --> 00:39:46

a prophetic narration where the prophet says, if

00:39:46 --> 00:39:48

you didn't do the Udhiya, like, you're not

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

intending to do it, don't even come to,

00:39:50 --> 00:39:52

like, the Eid prayer. There's a hadith that

00:39:52 --> 00:39:54

says. Right? And it doesn't mean, like, you

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

shouldn't come to the Eid prayer, but it's

00:39:56 --> 00:39:57

highlighting the significance

00:39:58 --> 00:39:59

of it. Right? That

00:40:01 --> 00:40:03

this is something you should do. But the

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

prophet also finished in the Eid prayer, and

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

there was was 2 animals brought to him

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

that he slaughtered,

00:40:09 --> 00:40:12

and he did one on behalf of himself

00:40:12 --> 00:40:15

and one on behalf of all those who

00:40:15 --> 00:40:16

didn't have the means to do it themselves.

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

And so people say,

00:40:18 --> 00:40:20

from that, you could do something with the

00:40:20 --> 00:40:20

intention

00:40:21 --> 00:40:23

of doing it for more than one person.

00:40:23 --> 00:40:25

You know, you do it for your family.

00:40:25 --> 00:40:28

But like you wanna give something. Right? These

00:40:28 --> 00:40:29

two things go hand in hand,

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

and it's to me like a very beautiful

00:40:32 --> 00:40:34

part of Islam that when I was looking

00:40:35 --> 00:40:37

at trying to understand religion for myself

00:40:37 --> 00:40:40

and looking at various religious communities, spiritual traditions.

00:40:41 --> 00:40:44

The idea of like social equity in Islam

00:40:44 --> 00:40:45

was really powerful.

00:40:46 --> 00:40:48

And you don't have like holidays

00:40:49 --> 00:40:51

without they're being built into the holiday.

00:40:52 --> 00:40:54

A practice that says, make sure everybody gets

00:40:54 --> 00:40:56

to celebrate the holiday. Right? It's not just

00:40:56 --> 00:40:58

about you, it's about everybody involved.

00:40:59 --> 00:40:59

Right?

00:41:00 --> 00:41:00

Okay.

00:41:01 --> 00:41:03

So the day before Eid is called the

00:41:03 --> 00:41:04

day of Arafa.

00:41:05 --> 00:41:07

This is the 9th of Dhul Hijjah. So

00:41:07 --> 00:41:10

for us, this is gonna be next Tuesday

00:41:10 --> 00:41:10

this year.

00:41:11 --> 00:41:13

It's not always on a Tuesday or a

00:41:13 --> 00:41:16

Wednesday. It's just this year. This will be

00:41:16 --> 00:41:17

Tuesday next week

00:41:17 --> 00:41:20

and Wednesday next week. Right?

00:41:20 --> 00:41:21

The day of Arafah

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is said to be the most auspicious

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day in the Muslim calendar.

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On Hajj, what's happening is that all of

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the Hajj pilgrims,

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they're standing at a place called the plain

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of Adafah.

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And what they do

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is they'll pray the 2 middle prayers of

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the day, Lohr and Asr together.

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And then they just find a spot on

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this plane and all they do is they

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make Dua, they pray to God, they supplicate

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to God.

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It's called the Arafa.

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In Arabic,

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there are different ways to say the word

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no.

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Right? So knowledge,

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concrete knowledge

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is called the elim

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in Arabic.

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Right? So if I say

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2 plus 2 equals 4,

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you might know that concretely. Right? Let's not

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use all of you. Let's use my 7

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year old. I go to my 7 year

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old, hey man, do you understand

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that 2 times 2 equals 4? And you

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say, yes, Baba. Like I know 2 times

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2 equals 4.

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And if I say

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and that's elam, that's knowledge.

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And if I say, show me you understand

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it.

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Like show me you comprehend it.

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And if he can show me, he comprehends

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it, and he has comprehension

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and understanding,

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that's called Fehm.

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It's different from Elim. Like you could know

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something, but they had no idea like what

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it is. Right? Do you know what I

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mean? But if you get it, that's called

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Fahm.

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There's a verse in the Quran

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that says, oh mankind,

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we made you from a male and a

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female into nations and tribes so that you

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might know one another.

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And the knowing that it talks about

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is rooted in this kind of knowing. It

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says

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Right? So you can hear the same letters.

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Right?

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That's an intimate knowing.

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It's an

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experiential knowledge.

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It's an acquaintanceship.

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And the day of Arafah

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is

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essentially about

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a Islamic

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concept that's called, Ma'arifah.

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That's like a knowing of God, but an

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intimate knowing of God. Do you know what

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I mean?

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And on the day of Adafah, it's just

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you standing talking to God.

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Like the way you would talk to somebody

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for hours.

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You know, if you've ever had that kind

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of relationship with anybody, and all you wanna

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do is just talk to them. You're just

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standing and you're just talking to God

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engaged, and there's millions of people.

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We're gonna be there on the plane of

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out of, they're just pouring their hearts out

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on everything

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that is going on inside of them.

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So

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what we would do

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who are not on Hajj

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is it's a day that is highly recommended

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to fast.

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So if you have the physical capacity to

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fast,

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then you should fast on the day of

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Arafah.

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So if you're adult, meaning post pubescent,

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you're Muslim, you're sane, it's not an obligation.

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And the same

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rules apply,

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A

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menstruating woman would not fast

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just like she wouldn't fast in Ramadan.

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If you're ill, you're sick, whether that's kind

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of chronic or something that is just kind

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of momentary,

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you know, you wouldn't do that.

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But

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the rest of us would be fasting, right?

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If you're also a little kid, right? You

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don't have fast. You know what I mean?

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And the fast is the same, you should

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take a meal before

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the time of fudger,

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pre dawn meal.

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If you don't take that meal, it doesn't

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mean that you did something wrong. You could

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still fast.

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We're gonna have a meal

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to break fast on here,

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on that Tuesday night that you all should

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come to.

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And prior to, at like 6 or 6:30,

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we'll have

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like a talk, but also we'll get people

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together and make like a communal dua, communal

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prayer.

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Because that's like what out of us about.

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It's a day that is the day that

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is, like, very recommended to also

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just do what's called du'a, like engage in

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supplication.

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Doesn't have to be in Arabic, can mean

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any language. This is you talking to God

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and anybody can do it. Right? Regardless, you

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don't need to have wudu, you don't have

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to be like sitting in a mosque, you

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don't have to be a quote unquote religious

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figure.

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Everybody

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is entitled to talk to God.

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The day of Arafah is the most important

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day

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on the Islamic calendar

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that you want to,

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make a note of it

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and kind of engage it in that way.

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Yeah.

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So I was gonna ask you. You said

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the out of so like you said, when

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people suffocate,

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you're getting to know God. Right? So

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I'm trying to understand, like, you know, the

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relationship of, like, me talking to God and

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that somehow I'm getting to know God through

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that.

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So could you, like, explain that?

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Because if you're gonna ask of anybody, like,

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who else would you ask of? Do you

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know? So if you said to me, like,

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Khaled, can I have something from you? I

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like you. I'll be like, yeah. Sure. Here

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you go, man. Right? But there's an understanding

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that you might ask of me something because

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we've known each other for so long that

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you might not ask of somebody else sitting

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in the room that you've never met before.

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Simply off of the variable

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of like intimacy.

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Right? Not just awareness

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because each one of us knows that the

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rest of us is sitting in this room.

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Do you know what I mean? Right? You

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all have

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consciousness of that.

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But there's not an intimate understanding

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that would allow for me to engage you

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in that way.

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And on the day of Arafah, what's happening

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is we're just working our way backwards through

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the days and I'll tell you what's happening

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with the other parts for people who are

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on Hajj.

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All these people will have been in Mecca

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for some time.

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They'll Some of them have performed a smaller

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pilgrimage during that time is called the Umrah.

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They're getting acquainted and leaving like the remnants

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of the rest of things that are worldly,

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and it's allowing for like a more focused

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standpoint.

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So in Ramadan, for example, at the end

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of the month, you remember we talked about

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a night that was called Laylatul Qadr, the

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night of power, the night of destiny.

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All these other spiritual vehicles arguably are getting

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you ready

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for these last 10 nights of Ramadan. The

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fast isn't about an empty stomach, it's about

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a full heart, right? You're nourishing

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like celestial parts of yourself.

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Gaining in awareness and consciousness,

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you know? And you can see beyond the

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physicality of it, people start to have a

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transformative

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understanding of themselves

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and are able to do different things that

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they can't do during the rest of the

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year.

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Or not that they can't do, but they're

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not necessarily

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aware that they are able to do it.

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It's the same idea. You're building up to

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this day of out of.

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Right? There's 9 days

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before the day of

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Eid. And so it's not in a vacuum.

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Other things are happening at that time. And

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now you're in this place that has a

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lot

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of blessing to it.

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Everybody around you is doing the same thing.

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This is why the fasting in these 9

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days of Dhur Hijjah are a little tougher

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than in Ramadan

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because in Ramadan,

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1, like all the people in a non

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Muslim world in New York City, like, everybody

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knows this Ramadan for the most part. Do

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you know what I mean? Most people are

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gonna have no idea. They're like, you're fasting

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again? What's wrong with you? Like, you don't

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fast now, you fast in Ramadan.

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Right? So it just creates different challenges.

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But now, when you're on the plane of

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Arafah, you're also dressed like everybody else.

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Like everybody's there for the same purpose.

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Right? It's creating like a group

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kinda cohesiveness that also just yields a different

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type of focus and attentiveness.

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Do you get what I mean? And that's

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where now the opportunity

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for you to not

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like build intimacy,

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but to recognize

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what was always there to begin with. Right?

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The Muslim poet, Rumi, he says,

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your goal is to not seek out love,

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to seek out beauty.

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Your goal is to simply find

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all those things that you have built within

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yourself

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that

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make it hard for you to see it.

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You know? Because like Allah is always there

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to begin with. What gets in the way?

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Do you know what I mean? And in

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that place, on the day of Adafah,

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the

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pilgrims,

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it's just that much more apparent.

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Right? It's undeniable.

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You see?

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And when you go and you experience it,

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it's one of those things that you have

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to, like, go through in order to understand.

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Do you know?

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To that to that extent. But for us

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here, it's a fasting day. So you should

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try to fast on that day.

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The Udhiya

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is performed

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after the Eid prayer on 10th

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and and can also be done on the

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11th 12th of the Hejia.

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And some people would even allow for it

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to be done on 13th.

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You can pay to have it done before,

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which you should,

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but say you missed it or you forgot,

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you should still try to give

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on one of these other days because it'll

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still be distributed to people. Right? Arguably

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through 13th.

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So this is the 9th of Lulhijah.

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And then what happens for the rest of

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us,

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you're gonna have

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from the first

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till the 8th

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of the Lhijjah

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are these remaining

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kinda

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meritorious

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blessed days.

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Right? If you have the ability to fast,

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like it's recommended to fast. It's a recommendation.

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It's not an obligation.

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You give

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acts of charity.

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You're helping people. Volunteerism.

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These days to do good things.

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The assumption embedded within this,

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is that there are days to do good

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things.

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So by principle of logic,

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it's also days that you don't want to

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do things that are not good.

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Especially on the day of Arafa,

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as well as on the day of 8th.

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The minimum understanding of things is like you

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wanna fulfill your obligations.

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And for some people, it's a little bit

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tougher than others. Right? But these are not

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days that you want to like miss

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your 5 daily prayers. These are not days

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that you want to willfully engage

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in gossiping or backbiting. It's not days to

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like lie and cheat

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and do things that are

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all year round problematic,

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but you're creating a consciousness

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like a certain sense of awareness to yourself.

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So how did they do this on Hajj?

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Is everybody okay so far? I know I'm

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saying a lot of different things.

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Any questions?

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Yeah. Nobody can be tired

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because I just flew from Portland, Oregon to

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be here, and none of you came from

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Oregon.

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Went on the crazy plane ride that I

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just went

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Did you find a good halal restaurant over

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there? Oh, man. I was so tired.

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As you know, because like, I don't know

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if it's gonna be. I'm old, but

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I I so I'll give you an example.

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Right? I went to Portland,

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and I left my house yesterday.

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My flight was at 6 something in the

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morning, you know?

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And

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I flew

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and I've didn't really like realize. I had

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a layover in Salt Lake City

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for 2 hours and then got to Portland.

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And then when I got to Portland, even

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though I left my house at 6, and

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I've been on Blaine for now 8 or

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9 hours to get there, It was still

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only like 11 o'clock in the morning in

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Portland. Right?

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And then sunset is much later than here.

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So when I left from here, I was

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like, oh, I'll just fast,

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you know. But

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with a combination of everything,

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I would have broken my fast past midnight

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in New York City. Do you know? Plus,

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like, the combination of, like, flights and dehydration

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and whatever else.

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And I'm an idiot. Right? So I don't

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really always take good care of myself. So

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I hadn't really planned in advance. Had I

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thought about it more so,

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I would have probably, like, done more in

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terms of just drinking,

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like, water

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before

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dawn, etcetera.

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So I didn't fast yesterday. Right?

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It's not a problem. That's why I'm saying,

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like, there's situations that might come up. You

00:54:24 --> 00:54:25

don't wanna

00:54:26 --> 00:54:28

get so kind of embedded in the idea

00:54:28 --> 00:54:30

that if it's not done, it's the worst

00:54:30 --> 00:54:31

thing in the world.

00:54:31 --> 00:54:33

It's still just a recommended fast. And even

00:54:33 --> 00:54:34

in Ramadan,

00:54:34 --> 00:54:36

when you're traveling, it's one of the things

00:54:36 --> 00:54:38

that if you can fast, you should.

00:54:39 --> 00:54:42

But if you're not able to, traveling becomes

00:54:42 --> 00:54:44

like a reason for an exemption to it.

00:54:44 --> 00:54:46

Does that make sense? Yeah. So

00:54:47 --> 00:54:50

really quickly, what I'm gonna run you through

00:54:50 --> 00:54:52

is what would happen for the people who

00:54:52 --> 00:54:52

are on Hajj.

00:54:53 --> 00:54:55

So on the 8th of Dhul Hijjah,

00:55:00 --> 00:55:02

what's happening is

00:55:02 --> 00:55:04

all of the pilgrims,

00:55:04 --> 00:55:07

they go to a place called Mina.

00:55:08 --> 00:55:10

So prior to it, you have Muslims from

00:55:10 --> 00:55:13

all over the world who are coming and

00:55:13 --> 00:55:14

like literally

00:55:14 --> 00:55:16

taking everything. When I went

00:55:17 --> 00:55:19

for Umrah, Umrah is a smaller pilgrimage. It

00:55:19 --> 00:55:21

could be done in like 3 days. The

00:55:21 --> 00:55:23

Hajj is done over multiple days.

00:55:26 --> 00:55:28

My friends and I went about

00:55:29 --> 00:55:30

in June of last year.

00:55:31 --> 00:55:33

And Hajj is

00:55:33 --> 00:55:36

last year was 11 days later

00:55:36 --> 00:55:37

than what it is now.

00:55:38 --> 00:55:40

Does that make sense? So it's 11 days

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42

earlier every year. So you can do the

00:55:42 --> 00:55:44

math. Right? It would have been in July.

00:55:44 --> 00:55:47

So we're there late May, early June, and

00:55:47 --> 00:55:50

we walked into the mosque, and there is,

00:55:50 --> 00:55:51

some Indonesian

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

people in the mosque, and they had asked

00:55:54 --> 00:55:56

us, you know, where are we from? We

00:55:56 --> 00:55:57

said, we're from America.

00:55:58 --> 00:55:59

They said, oh, how was it for you

00:55:59 --> 00:56:01

getting here? And we said it was super

00:56:01 --> 00:56:04

easy. You know, we filled out forms online,

00:56:04 --> 00:56:07

got our visa, health insurance, all this kind

00:56:07 --> 00:56:07

of stuff,

00:56:08 --> 00:56:10

booked our own hotels. It took us like

00:56:10 --> 00:56:10

20 minutes.

00:56:11 --> 00:56:13

Then we said to this elderly Indonesian man,

00:56:13 --> 00:56:14

how is it for you?

00:56:15 --> 00:56:17

And he said, it was so easy. He

00:56:17 --> 00:56:20

said, I applied 11 years ago for the

00:56:20 --> 00:56:22

lottery to go for Hajj.

00:56:22 --> 00:56:24

And this year my name actually came up.

00:56:25 --> 00:56:25

Right?

00:56:26 --> 00:56:27

And

00:56:27 --> 00:56:29

for the purpose of what we're talking about,

00:56:29 --> 00:56:30

it was

00:56:31 --> 00:56:32

a month

00:56:32 --> 00:56:34

and a half before this.

00:56:35 --> 00:56:37

That he had gotten there to be ready

00:56:37 --> 00:56:37

for this.

00:56:38 --> 00:56:38

You see?

00:56:39 --> 00:56:41

That's when people start to come

00:56:41 --> 00:56:42

to get ready

00:56:43 --> 00:56:44

for what's gonna be taking place

00:56:45 --> 00:56:47

4 or 5 weeks later. You know, 6

00:56:47 --> 00:56:50

weeks later. Right? As soon as you have

00:56:50 --> 00:56:53

the means, means very much what that means.

00:56:53 --> 00:56:54

Does that make sense?

00:56:55 --> 00:56:56

So they're all coming,

00:56:57 --> 00:56:59

they've come from everywhere, they're getting settled in.

00:57:00 --> 00:57:01

And then on the 8th of the

00:57:02 --> 00:57:04

which for us is gonna be Monday next

00:57:04 --> 00:57:05

week,

00:57:06 --> 00:57:09

people start to go and settle into Mina.

00:57:10 --> 00:57:12

Mina is like this tent city

00:57:13 --> 00:57:13

that

00:57:14 --> 00:57:16

if you walk through it, it's really remarkable

00:57:17 --> 00:57:18

as people settle in.

00:57:19 --> 00:57:19

Especially

00:57:20 --> 00:57:21

after the day of Eid, which I'll talk

00:57:21 --> 00:57:23

about when we get to the 10th of

00:57:23 --> 00:57:23

the Uzza.

00:57:24 --> 00:57:25

But all they're gonna do on that first

00:57:25 --> 00:57:26

day is

00:57:27 --> 00:57:29

just pray their prayers in the tent.

00:57:29 --> 00:57:32

There's a lot of time that you now

00:57:32 --> 00:57:33

are more conscious of when you're on this

00:57:33 --> 00:57:34

journey.

00:57:35 --> 00:57:37

One, because of the sheer number of people.

00:57:37 --> 00:57:39

If you're in a bus or you're walking

00:57:39 --> 00:57:40

on foot,

00:57:40 --> 00:57:43

everything just takes hours to do even short

00:57:43 --> 00:57:43

distances

00:57:44 --> 00:57:45

because there's so many people.

00:57:47 --> 00:57:49

People typically in MENA

00:57:49 --> 00:57:50

will

00:57:50 --> 00:57:51

be

00:57:51 --> 00:57:54

with other friends, family members, people of their

00:57:54 --> 00:57:55

own country.

00:57:55 --> 00:57:57

The way that the tent city is built

00:57:58 --> 00:57:59

is based off the country you get your

00:57:59 --> 00:58:00

visa from.

00:58:00 --> 00:58:02

There'll be people who are giving like talks,

00:58:03 --> 00:58:04

religious guidance,

00:58:04 --> 00:58:06

you know, these kinds of things.

00:58:08 --> 00:58:11

And what happens in this is that

00:58:11 --> 00:58:12

people

00:58:13 --> 00:58:13

have,

00:58:14 --> 00:58:17

prior to, entered into what's called

00:58:18 --> 00:58:21

E Haram. It's got the words like the

00:58:21 --> 00:58:23

letters that are the same as Haram in

00:58:23 --> 00:58:24

it, right?

00:58:25 --> 00:58:28

If you've ever seen the pilgrims like pictures,

00:58:28 --> 00:58:30

men are all dressed in white like 2

00:58:30 --> 00:58:31

piece towels.

00:58:32 --> 00:58:35

Women, their ehram is their regular clothes but

00:58:35 --> 00:58:37

quite often they're also wearing like white or

00:58:37 --> 00:58:39

you know black but it's really whatever their

00:58:39 --> 00:58:41

clothes are. This essentially

00:58:41 --> 00:58:42

is

00:58:42 --> 00:58:45

not just clothing, but it's a state of

00:58:45 --> 00:58:46

being. It's a mindset.

00:58:47 --> 00:58:49

And what this means is that you're essentially

00:58:49 --> 00:58:52

entering into a state where what is permissible

00:58:52 --> 00:58:53

is now impermissible.

00:58:54 --> 00:58:56

So they're not

00:58:56 --> 00:58:58

cutting their nails. They're not

00:58:58 --> 00:59:01

like grooming themselves in any way. You

00:59:02 --> 00:59:02

can't

00:59:03 --> 00:59:06

consciously or unconsciously be like, you know, pulling

00:59:06 --> 00:59:09

on hair off of your face, taking eyebrows

00:59:09 --> 00:59:13

out, right? It's also a time when you're

00:59:13 --> 00:59:13

not wearing

00:59:14 --> 00:59:15

any scented deodorants,

00:59:15 --> 00:59:16

perfumes,

00:59:16 --> 00:59:17

soaps.

00:59:17 --> 00:59:19

You can take a shower in the sense

00:59:19 --> 00:59:20

of like water

00:59:21 --> 00:59:22

but no shampoos,

00:59:22 --> 00:59:24

nothing of that nature.

00:59:25 --> 00:59:26

And that's gonna last

00:59:26 --> 00:59:29

until after the sacrifice on the day of

00:59:29 --> 00:59:30

eve is done.

00:59:31 --> 00:59:33

So for a good two and a half

00:59:33 --> 00:59:33

days,

00:59:34 --> 00:59:35

people are in this state.

00:59:35 --> 00:59:38

It's also about being in a place where

00:59:38 --> 00:59:40

you're not yelling, fighting, getting frustrated.

00:59:41 --> 00:59:43

But the whole idea is that you are

00:59:43 --> 00:59:44

realizing

00:59:44 --> 00:59:46

that you are in control of you.

00:59:47 --> 00:59:50

So you are choosing your choices. It's not

00:59:50 --> 00:59:52

your emotions that are choosing your choices,

00:59:53 --> 00:59:54

Right? You are

00:59:54 --> 00:59:55

very purposely

00:59:56 --> 00:59:57

in a place of

00:59:58 --> 00:59:59

presence

01:00:02 --> 01:00:02

and awareness

01:00:03 --> 01:00:05

that the state brings you in.

01:00:07 --> 01:00:09

You don't do this, like, when you're not

01:00:09 --> 01:00:09

on a hudge.

01:00:10 --> 01:00:12

Does that make sense? So what people would

01:00:12 --> 01:00:15

do is prior into entering the state,

01:00:15 --> 01:00:16

there are,

01:00:18 --> 01:00:19

take like a shower in which you would

01:00:19 --> 01:00:21

use soap and all these kinds of things.

01:00:21 --> 01:00:24

Right? Put on perfumes and whatever else.

01:00:26 --> 01:00:26

Groom,

01:00:27 --> 01:00:27

get ready,

01:00:28 --> 01:00:31

you know, because you're now dressing essentially to

01:00:31 --> 01:00:32

be with God.

01:00:32 --> 01:00:34

Right? And so you want to get yourself

01:00:34 --> 01:00:36

as ready as best as you can. But

01:00:36 --> 01:00:38

once you're in this state,

01:00:38 --> 01:00:40

like, you're in this for a few days

01:00:40 --> 01:00:43

on Hajj. On the Umrah, you're in it

01:00:43 --> 01:00:45

just for the duration of the umrah.

01:00:46 --> 01:00:48

Yeah. Go ahead. Sorry. When I did umrah

01:00:48 --> 01:00:50

last year in December, they said you can

01:00:50 --> 01:00:51

use

01:00:57 --> 01:00:59

You can use unscented things.

01:00:59 --> 01:01:01

Yeah. And if you find stuff that's unscented,

01:01:02 --> 01:01:02

that's fine.

01:01:03 --> 01:01:05

But you can't use things with scent on

01:01:05 --> 01:01:06

them. Right?

01:01:06 --> 01:01:09

But the idea is that what's permissible is

01:01:09 --> 01:01:11

being made impermissible. So normally,

01:01:11 --> 01:01:14

you could use these things but in this

01:01:14 --> 01:01:15

state, you can't.

01:01:15 --> 01:01:17

On the 8th of Lo Dejejo when you're

01:01:17 --> 01:01:18

going in Mina,

01:01:19 --> 01:01:21

people are in this state now. And what

01:01:21 --> 01:01:23

they're doing in Mina is they're praying their

01:01:23 --> 01:01:24

prayers. They're kinda getting acclimated

01:01:25 --> 01:01:26

to it.

01:01:27 --> 01:01:29

Then, what happens on 9th

01:01:29 --> 01:01:30

of the Lhijah

01:01:31 --> 01:01:32

is you go

01:01:33 --> 01:01:34

to Arafa.

01:01:36 --> 01:01:38

So following the Fajr prayer

01:01:39 --> 01:01:40

of 9th in Mina,

01:01:41 --> 01:01:43

people set out to the plain of Arafa

01:01:44 --> 01:01:46

and they're gonna pray, Dohar and Asr there.

01:01:47 --> 01:01:48

And then from there,

01:01:49 --> 01:01:49

after,

01:01:51 --> 01:01:53

they're gonna go to a place called

01:01:57 --> 01:01:58

Musdalifa,

01:01:59 --> 01:02:02

the Haggis, the pilgrims, they sleep there overnight.

01:02:03 --> 01:02:05

And they're gathering stones

01:02:06 --> 01:02:07

because one of the rituals that they're gonna

01:02:07 --> 01:02:08

have

01:02:08 --> 01:02:11

in the Abrahamic narrative, right? When the prophet

01:02:11 --> 01:02:11

Abraham

01:02:11 --> 01:02:13

is going to

01:02:13 --> 01:02:16

now slaughter to sacrifice his son

01:02:16 --> 01:02:18

in the Abrahamic narrative.

01:02:18 --> 01:02:21

Shaitan, the devil comes to stop him 3

01:02:21 --> 01:02:24

times. In each time, prophet Abraham throws stones

01:02:24 --> 01:02:25

at him. Right? And the idea

01:02:26 --> 01:02:29

for us to replicate these acts, we're replicating

01:02:29 --> 01:02:30

the acts of Abraham,

01:02:31 --> 01:02:33

his son Ishmael, his wife Hagar,

01:02:35 --> 01:02:37

and embodying those,

01:02:37 --> 01:02:39

through the rights of the Hajj. And so

01:02:39 --> 01:02:40

in Muzdalifa,

01:02:41 --> 01:02:43

you just sleep there and you're also gathering

01:02:43 --> 01:02:45

the stones that you're gonna throw

01:02:45 --> 01:02:48

at these structures that are meant to be

01:02:48 --> 01:02:48

representative

01:02:49 --> 01:02:50

of Shaytan.

01:02:54 --> 01:02:54

Then

01:02:55 --> 01:02:56

from there,

01:02:56 --> 01:02:57

on 10th,

01:02:58 --> 01:02:59

after Fudger,

01:03:00 --> 01:03:01

you're going back to Mina.

01:03:03 --> 01:03:05

You're gonna have like everything we talked about

01:03:05 --> 01:03:07

because the 10th is the day of Eid

01:03:07 --> 01:03:09

also for the Hajjis,

01:03:10 --> 01:03:11

And after

01:03:11 --> 01:03:14

they have, like, slaughtered their animals,

01:03:16 --> 01:03:18

they can shave their they for men, they

01:03:18 --> 01:03:20

would shave their heads. When we would cut

01:03:20 --> 01:03:22

a portion of their hair, you can now

01:03:22 --> 01:03:24

remove a part of your ehram. So you

01:03:24 --> 01:03:26

can put back on your regular clothes.

01:03:26 --> 01:03:27

And what's

01:03:27 --> 01:03:28

really remarkable

01:03:28 --> 01:03:29

is at that point,

01:03:30 --> 01:03:32

when you walk through Mina, this tent city,

01:03:32 --> 01:03:34

it's like very Lord of the Rings esque.

01:03:35 --> 01:03:36

You know, it's like tents are built

01:03:37 --> 01:03:38

just in

01:03:38 --> 01:03:40

1,000. They're built into the mountains.

01:03:41 --> 01:03:43

But as you walk through the tent city,

01:03:43 --> 01:03:45

because it's divided by the country you get

01:03:45 --> 01:03:48

your visa from, you see just how deep

01:03:48 --> 01:03:49

Islam is as a religion.

01:03:50 --> 01:03:52

Because you're in the tents where people are

01:03:52 --> 01:03:54

from the gulf, and men are dressed in

01:03:54 --> 01:03:56

like white robes, women in black, just being

01:03:56 --> 01:03:57

Arabic,

01:03:57 --> 01:04:00

you know, grilled meats, whatever. You go to

01:04:00 --> 01:04:03

the Indonesian, Malaysian tents, there's more color to

01:04:03 --> 01:04:04

their clothes,

01:04:04 --> 01:04:05

language is different,

01:04:05 --> 01:04:08

different spices to the foods, Indian subcontinent,

01:04:09 --> 01:04:09

you know,

01:04:10 --> 01:04:12

the shirts go beneath the knees and not

01:04:12 --> 01:04:14

all the way to the ankles, and there's

01:04:14 --> 01:04:16

more spice and different languages.

01:04:17 --> 01:04:19

African tense, there's a lot of purples and

01:04:19 --> 01:04:20

golds and vibrancy,

01:04:21 --> 01:04:24

also unique languages and foods, and you can

01:04:24 --> 01:04:26

apply pretty much to every country in the

01:04:26 --> 01:04:28

world because there's Muslims in every country in

01:04:28 --> 01:04:30

the world. And as you walk through these

01:04:30 --> 01:04:33

tents, you see that Islam in China looks

01:04:33 --> 01:04:34

Chinese, and Islam

01:04:34 --> 01:04:38

in Sudan looks Sudanese, and Islam in,

01:04:38 --> 01:04:39

you know,

01:04:39 --> 01:04:43

every place like embodies the culture in which

01:04:43 --> 01:04:44

it's attached to.

01:04:45 --> 01:04:47

And what happens for us is we get

01:04:47 --> 01:04:49

people from all of those tents in our

01:04:49 --> 01:04:49

tents,

01:04:50 --> 01:04:52

right? Because America is not

01:04:52 --> 01:04:54

a homogeneous Muslim community.

01:04:55 --> 01:04:58

Black, white, brown, immigrant, indigenous,

01:04:58 --> 01:05:00

converts, children of converts,

01:05:00 --> 01:05:03

people of every class, race, ethnicity.

01:05:04 --> 01:05:06

And when all those people go back to

01:05:06 --> 01:05:07

their countries where they have to figure out

01:05:07 --> 01:05:09

how to make it work and they're very

01:05:09 --> 01:05:09

similar

01:05:10 --> 01:05:11

in those outward senses,

01:05:12 --> 01:05:13

We come here and we have to make

01:05:13 --> 01:05:15

it work and we're all very different.

01:05:15 --> 01:05:18

But you can just see how beautifully deep

01:05:18 --> 01:05:20

Islam is as a religion

01:05:20 --> 01:05:23

walking through this tent. And if you've ever

01:05:23 --> 01:05:26

read, like, the autobiography of Malcolm x, you've

01:05:26 --> 01:05:28

not read it, you've watched, like, the movie

01:05:28 --> 01:05:30

with Denzel Washington.

01:05:30 --> 01:05:32

This is what he's talking about.

01:05:33 --> 01:05:34

Right? He gets to

01:05:34 --> 01:05:35

Mecca,

01:05:35 --> 01:05:37

and he says, I've never seen this in

01:05:37 --> 01:05:38

my life before.

01:05:39 --> 01:05:41

It's not something that he's ever experienced,

01:05:42 --> 01:05:44

especially in a way where there's collegiality

01:05:45 --> 01:05:46

amongst people of difference.

01:05:47 --> 01:05:49

You know, there's a certain connecting point

01:05:50 --> 01:05:51

because what's happening

01:05:51 --> 01:05:54

is not an erasure of identity, but an

01:05:54 --> 01:05:56

embracement of identity.

01:05:56 --> 01:05:58

And the connection is rooted

01:05:58 --> 01:06:00

in this shared aspect of faith.

01:06:02 --> 01:06:04

That God is the creator of all of

01:06:04 --> 01:06:07

us. And when there's a God centric understanding

01:06:08 --> 01:06:10

that we exist in a sphere of interdependence,

01:06:11 --> 01:06:13

and so on that 10th day, there's a

01:06:13 --> 01:06:16

partial removal of the e Haram, and you

01:06:16 --> 01:06:20

just see how beautifully deep Islam is experientially.

01:06:21 --> 01:06:21

You know?

01:06:22 --> 01:06:25

And you're seeing it having experienced this too.

01:06:25 --> 01:06:27

Do you know what I mean? So think

01:06:27 --> 01:06:29

about, like, how different the world is when

01:06:29 --> 01:06:30

you go on vacation,

01:06:30 --> 01:06:32

and you've rested and you're away from like,

01:06:32 --> 01:06:34

annoying people at work and annoying people in

01:06:34 --> 01:06:37

family and annoying people that surround you. Everything

01:06:37 --> 01:06:39

just feels nice and you can like, oh,

01:06:39 --> 01:06:41

the bird sounds so nice as opposed to

01:06:41 --> 01:06:44

like, shut up bird. I need to sleep.

01:06:44 --> 01:06:44

Right?

01:06:45 --> 01:06:47

So it has transformative

01:06:47 --> 01:06:48

experience

01:06:49 --> 01:06:51

inside of you. So you're going through a

01:06:51 --> 01:06:52

spiritually transformational

01:06:52 --> 01:06:53

experience,

01:06:53 --> 01:06:55

and it's not that you get to a

01:06:55 --> 01:06:56

place where

01:06:57 --> 01:07:00

you're seeing something you haven't seen before. Sometimes

01:07:00 --> 01:07:02

that is, but you're seeing it differently. Right?

01:07:02 --> 01:07:04

It means something different to you. Do you

01:07:04 --> 01:07:05

get what I mean?

01:07:06 --> 01:07:08

From here, you're gonna have, like, remaining rituals,

01:07:09 --> 01:07:11

11th and 12th,

01:07:12 --> 01:07:15

13th where people will still stay stationed in

01:07:15 --> 01:07:15

Mina,

01:07:16 --> 01:07:18

and then that wraps up the Hajj.

01:07:20 --> 01:07:20

And,

01:07:21 --> 01:07:22

it's a lot of time

01:07:22 --> 01:07:23

where you're

01:07:24 --> 01:07:26

not just, you know,

01:07:26 --> 01:07:29

kinda taking clothes and, like, medicines, but what

01:07:29 --> 01:07:30

they say,

01:07:31 --> 01:07:33

very consistently regardless of what part of the

01:07:33 --> 01:07:35

world you're coming from, you gotta pack a

01:07:35 --> 01:07:36

lot of patients with you,

01:07:37 --> 01:07:39

because it's just gonna take a while to,

01:07:39 --> 01:07:42

like, get certain things done. It's not complicated

01:07:42 --> 01:07:45

to do. Right? It's an act that every

01:07:45 --> 01:07:47

Muslim has to do if they have the

01:07:47 --> 01:07:48

means to do it.

01:07:49 --> 01:07:50

Things that everybody

01:07:51 --> 01:07:52

has to do

01:07:52 --> 01:07:54

or entitled to have access to

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tend to be very simple to do.

01:07:57 --> 01:07:59

Right? But like I said in the beginning

01:07:59 --> 01:08:00

of our class,

01:08:00 --> 01:08:03

you're not required to know how to do

01:08:03 --> 01:08:03

it

01:08:04 --> 01:08:04

until

01:08:05 --> 01:08:06

it's actually

01:08:06 --> 01:08:07

something that you're doing.

01:08:08 --> 01:08:11

So most people, they get very kinda anxious

01:08:12 --> 01:08:14

because they don't know how to do it

01:08:14 --> 01:08:16

unless they're doing it. Do you see what

01:08:16 --> 01:08:16

I mean?

01:08:17 --> 01:08:21

So our hope is that they're kinda going

01:08:21 --> 01:08:23

now back on the decision they made last

01:08:23 --> 01:08:25

year to nationalize the process.

01:08:25 --> 01:08:27

They're letting groups go again. So if that

01:08:27 --> 01:08:30

happens, you know, we'll start taking groups again.

01:08:31 --> 01:08:32

And then maybe we'll all be able to

01:08:32 --> 01:08:33

go together at some point.

01:08:34 --> 01:08:37

But this is kind of what's happening

01:08:37 --> 01:08:40

for the people who are there while we're

01:08:40 --> 01:08:40

here.

01:08:41 --> 01:08:41

Right?

01:08:43 --> 01:08:46

It's really, like, amazing experience to to go

01:08:46 --> 01:08:47

go through.

01:08:48 --> 01:08:48

Okay.

01:08:49 --> 01:08:50

Oh, man. 718.

01:08:55 --> 01:08:56

So quick recap,

01:08:56 --> 01:08:59

right? If you can fast these days, fast.

01:08:59 --> 01:09:01

If you can't, it's okay. The recommended days.

01:09:02 --> 01:09:04

But you wanna try your best. This is

01:09:04 --> 01:09:06

what Yeah. Go ahead. You fast on Arafat,

01:09:06 --> 01:09:08

does that clear your sins for a year?

01:09:09 --> 01:09:11

What the narration say is that the day

01:09:11 --> 01:09:12

of Arafat,

01:09:13 --> 01:09:16

it wipes out sins from the year prior

01:09:17 --> 01:09:18

as well as the year that's forthcoming.

01:09:19 --> 01:09:22

Right? These would constitute, like, minor sins.

01:09:23 --> 01:09:23

Right?

01:09:24 --> 01:09:26

But, like, anything that's getting wiped is good,

01:09:26 --> 01:09:27

you know?

01:09:28 --> 01:09:31

But that's what it is essentially. Right? And

01:09:31 --> 01:09:33

what is like the impact of that like

01:09:33 --> 01:09:34

literal

01:09:34 --> 01:09:36

kind of erasure from records,

01:09:37 --> 01:09:38

you know,

01:09:39 --> 01:09:40

Islamic tradition, theology,

01:09:41 --> 01:09:43

posits that there's 2 angels that sit on

01:09:43 --> 01:09:45

your shoulders, for example, at all times, writing

01:09:45 --> 01:09:48

down your deeds. Right? Good, bad, otherwise.

01:09:48 --> 01:09:49

And so

01:09:50 --> 01:09:51

the idea is that,

01:09:52 --> 01:09:54

from the Hadith, the prophet Muhammad, peace be

01:09:54 --> 01:09:56

upon him, says that on the day of

01:09:56 --> 01:09:59

Adafah, like, fasting Adafah wipes out

01:09:59 --> 01:10:02

the sins from the year prior as well

01:10:02 --> 01:10:03

as, like, forthcoming.

01:10:03 --> 01:10:03

Yeah.

01:10:04 --> 01:10:05

Any other questions? Yeah. You,

01:10:06 --> 01:10:08

you said a point earlier and, I

01:10:14 --> 01:10:16

Not in the Hanafi school. So in the

01:10:16 --> 01:10:16

Hanafi

01:10:17 --> 01:10:19

school, like, the spectrum that's there

01:10:20 --> 01:10:20

has

01:10:22 --> 01:10:23

on one end

01:10:24 --> 01:10:25

and haram on the other.

01:10:26 --> 01:10:29

And in the middle, it's muba, which means

01:10:29 --> 01:10:30

neutral.

01:10:30 --> 01:10:31

And then there's makru,

01:10:32 --> 01:10:33

which is disliked.

01:10:34 --> 01:10:36

And mustahab which is recommended.

01:10:37 --> 01:10:39

And the Hanafi school, this gets broken into

01:10:41 --> 01:10:41

Danzihi

01:10:43 --> 01:10:44

and Taherimi.

01:10:46 --> 01:10:47

And

01:10:47 --> 01:10:48

there

01:10:48 --> 01:10:51

is an added category here of wajib.

01:10:55 --> 01:10:56

And so for something to be far, their

01:10:56 --> 01:10:58

haram, it has to have

01:10:58 --> 01:11:00

definitive text and definitive meaning.

01:11:01 --> 01:11:03

And why in the Hanafi school they add

01:11:03 --> 01:11:06

these categories is because there's a hesitancy to

01:11:06 --> 01:11:08

say something is actually

01:11:08 --> 01:11:10

obligatory or prohibited

01:11:11 --> 01:11:12

unless it's, like, absolutely

01:11:13 --> 01:11:14

understood that way.

01:11:14 --> 01:11:15

So they

01:11:16 --> 01:11:16

put in

01:11:17 --> 01:11:18

and break

01:11:18 --> 01:11:20

into 2 categories.

01:11:21 --> 01:11:22

So

01:11:22 --> 01:11:25

is less obligatory than a but

01:11:26 --> 01:11:27

more so than

01:11:27 --> 01:11:28

something that's recommended

01:11:29 --> 01:11:31

or, you know, like a

01:11:31 --> 01:11:32

emphasized prophetic practice,

01:11:34 --> 01:11:35

where the text,

01:11:36 --> 01:11:37

the meaning

01:11:37 --> 01:11:39

can be somewhat probabilistic.

01:11:40 --> 01:11:41

Does that make sense?

01:11:42 --> 01:11:44

It only applies to the Hanafi School? In

01:11:44 --> 01:11:45

the Hanafi School, there's 7 categories

01:11:46 --> 01:11:48

that actions can be put in. In the

01:11:48 --> 01:11:49

other schools, there's 5.

01:11:50 --> 01:11:50

Yeah. So they

01:11:51 --> 01:11:52

would

01:11:52 --> 01:11:53

be here

01:11:54 --> 01:11:56

than that. And so

01:11:56 --> 01:11:58

the act of

01:12:00 --> 01:12:02

the is a recommended act in the other

01:12:02 --> 01:12:03

three schools.

01:12:03 --> 01:12:04

It's not a Wajib.

01:12:05 --> 01:12:05

Yeah.

01:12:06 --> 01:12:09

Okay. Yeah. Sorry. It doesn't maybe quick. So

01:12:09 --> 01:12:12

the Hajj itself is actually, like, 3 days

01:12:12 --> 01:12:15

technically? Or is it 5 days. 5, 6

01:12:15 --> 01:12:17

days. Yeah. But after 10th,

01:12:18 --> 01:12:20

you can change your clothes Okay. Into, like,

01:12:20 --> 01:12:25

regular clothes. You can start using, like, scented

01:12:25 --> 01:12:27

products again, these kinds of things. Yeah. But

01:12:27 --> 01:12:30

you're still on Hajj at that time.

01:12:30 --> 01:12:31

Yeah.

01:12:31 --> 01:12:33

So quick question. So why don't we go

01:12:33 --> 01:12:34

through Huddl,

01:12:35 --> 01:12:37

like, I guess, a week ago? Yeah. What's

01:12:37 --> 01:12:40

the minimum you can go, like, because of

01:12:40 --> 01:12:41

work and whatnot?

01:12:41 --> 01:12:43

What is there a minimum you can go?

01:12:43 --> 01:12:45

Is there, like, 5, 6 days? Like, logistically,

01:12:46 --> 01:12:48

what will the Saudi government allow for you

01:12:48 --> 01:12:49

to do?

01:12:50 --> 01:12:52

Yeah. I guess what's real. Yeah. What's realistic?

01:12:52 --> 01:12:54

I don't know. I know people who left

01:12:54 --> 01:12:56

today, this morning. Oh, nice.

01:12:57 --> 01:12:59

And they'll come back

01:13:00 --> 01:13:02

on 16th of the.

01:13:02 --> 01:13:03

Right?

01:13:03 --> 01:13:05

So, you know, when we were taking a

01:13:05 --> 01:13:06

trip,

01:13:07 --> 01:13:09

we had a package that was 11 days

01:13:09 --> 01:13:09

long,

01:13:10 --> 01:13:11

I think, but I don't know what it'll

01:13:11 --> 01:13:12

be going forward.

01:13:13 --> 01:13:16

Yeah. They're still trying to, like, work out

01:13:16 --> 01:13:17

the kinks on it and stuff.

01:13:18 --> 01:13:20

Did anybody practice the letters?

01:13:21 --> 01:13:22

The first four letters?

01:13:23 --> 01:13:24

Adafbatatha.

01:13:26 --> 01:13:27

Oh, man. I really wanted to.

01:13:29 --> 01:13:30

You really wanted to.

01:13:32 --> 01:13:33

What does that mean?

01:13:33 --> 01:13:34

Oh, god.

01:13:34 --> 01:13:37

I really wanna write these letters to them.

01:13:38 --> 01:13:38

Man,

01:13:39 --> 01:13:40

I just wanted to.

01:13:41 --> 01:13:44

So try to do it. Right? It's important

01:13:44 --> 01:13:46

because you don't wanna get caught

01:13:46 --> 01:13:49

in us like adding more to it.

01:13:50 --> 01:13:51

And it's

01:13:51 --> 01:13:52

really amazing

01:13:53 --> 01:13:54

when you're actually able to, at the end

01:13:54 --> 01:13:56

of it, go through the process of reading

01:13:56 --> 01:13:58

something on your own.

01:13:58 --> 01:14:01

So those first four letters, let's try to

01:14:01 --> 01:14:03

get those down, and then we'll add more

01:14:03 --> 01:14:04

to it next time.

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