Khalid Latif – Imam Nawawis 40 Hadith for Modern Times #09

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The discussion of the 4th hadith collection highlights the importance of identifying the creator's image and image of himself in the media and the media's image of him. The afterlife is a process of transition from existence to the next stage of existence, and the day of judgment is a time for rest. valuing oneself is a removal of things in the internal and metaphysical self, and the removal of things in the external world is necessary to love oneself fully. A meeting with a black-romgage conversion community and a dinner for a convert community are also mentioned.

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			So we are looking at the 4th hadith
		
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			of the 40 hadith collection of Imam Nawawi.
		
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			So if you wanna pull it up on
		
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			a phone,
		
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			laptop, whatever you might have,
		
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			this is narrated by the companion, Abdullah ibn
		
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			Masood
		
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			Radialahu
		
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			An,
		
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			who we talked about last week
		
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			a bit.
		
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			And the hadith quite often is focused on
		
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			concepts of embryology and fate.
		
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			And so just while we're pulling it up,
		
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			to recap, we started talking about it last
		
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			week, and we got into a discussion on
		
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			who Abdullah bin Masood is,
		
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			companion of the prophet of God,
		
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			He was one of the first people to
		
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			convert to Islam in the Meccan society.
		
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			He came from a low
		
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			social class.
		
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			He was black.
		
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			He
		
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			was amongst those who are deeply persecuted
		
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			in the early period of the Meccan society.
		
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			He was the first person to publicly recite
		
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			Quran in Mecca, and he had volunteered to
		
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			do it in front of the Kaaba.
		
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			He recited Surat Al Rahman,
		
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			and they just started beating him while he
		
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			was reciting.
		
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			And people asked him why would you do
		
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			this, and he said I would do it
		
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			again if I needed to.
		
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			Physically, he had a very kinda small physical
		
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			stature.
		
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			He was skinny. He was small.
		
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			There
		
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			were people who would treat him poorly for
		
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			all of these reasons. Right? If you come
		
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			on Wednesday to the Sierra class that we
		
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			do, and we talked about Meccan society,
		
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			kinda how it's formulated,
		
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			challenges in a very stratified society
		
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			around race, class, gender,
		
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			where lineage is very important,
		
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			where
		
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			you
		
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			have no sense of accountability because the theology
		
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			has no afterlife to it. So you just
		
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			do whatever you want to if this is
		
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			all that you got going on is in
		
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			this world.
		
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			And Abdul ibn Mas'ud, he's,
		
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			like, in the midst of all of this.
		
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			Right?
		
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			We talked about also
		
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			why it's important for us to recognize that
		
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			the prophet, peace be upon him, had senior
		
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			companions who were black.
		
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			And quite often, we don't get taught this
		
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			when we're learning the stories of the companions.
		
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			Or even in relation to this hadith
		
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			that's talking about
		
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			phases of embryology, it's talking about other
		
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			divine decree.
		
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			You know, how does
		
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			Abdul ibn Masood
		
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			being
		
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			a
		
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			young man
		
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			who converts to Islam early on,
		
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			faces this persecution,
		
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			has parents who are stricken by poverty,
		
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			He
		
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			himself is
		
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			black,
		
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			comes from low income background,
		
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			and he's
		
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			telling people this hadith
		
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			that all of us are created from a
		
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			similar beginning.
		
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			And all of these things are decreed by
		
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			God.
		
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			Right? And what does this mean when we're
		
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			feeding into it now? Recognition also
		
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			of the person who's narrating
		
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			the hadith and the words of the prophet
		
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			of God and how it turns things upside
		
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			down in a lot of different ways. Abdul
		
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			Masud is no joke as a person. Right?
		
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			He goes to Kufa.
		
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			He is heavily influential
		
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			of the development of the Hanafi school of
		
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			thought. It's a major legal school,
		
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			within the 4 legal schools of Sunni Islam.
		
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			The prophet alaihi salam describes him as somebody
		
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			that you should learn Quran from,
		
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			you know, and he's a young black man
		
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			who doesn't have a lot of money.
		
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			And it's not taught to us always these
		
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			things, then we can't, like, understand
		
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			necessarily also certain things that are important
		
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			in terms
		
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			of where and how Islam teaches us to
		
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			have reverence
		
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			and deference to people of all backgrounds.
		
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			Because, you know, my family is from the
		
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			Indian subcontinent.
		
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			There's a good chance if you are from
		
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			Pakistan,
		
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			in this room
		
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			or like from that part of the world
		
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			that you practice Hanafi fiqh, right?
		
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			They're not teaching people that one of the
		
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			influencers of Hanafi fic in the Indian subcontinent.
		
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			They're not teaching us that
		
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			it was heavily influenced by a young black
		
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			man
		
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			in Pakistan,
		
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			like, you know, I can say it's because
		
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			I'm Pakistani, right? But like, they live in
		
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			this world where it's all about kinda skin
		
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			whitening cream,
		
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			the realities of being colonized,
		
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			where you seek validation
		
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			from whiteness and supremacist
		
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			systems.
		
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			There's
		
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			these kind of consequences,
		
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			you know. It permeates other cultures as well,
		
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			but can you imagine how it would be
		
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			different
		
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			if in religious gatherings,
		
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			people were teaching,
		
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			like, these facets of religion also
		
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			that are there. They're not made up, you
		
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			know. Abu al ibn Musud, his students
		
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			described him,
		
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			as being somebody who wears hair and braids.
		
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			Do you know what I mean? Right? When
		
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			you try to
		
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			conceptualize
		
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			a companion of the prophet of God in
		
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			your head, whatever you would think somebody who's
		
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			living in Mecca
		
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			or Medina looks like, does your mind conceptualize
		
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			a black man with braids in his hair,
		
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			you know?
		
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			And he's one of the 4 people that
		
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			the prophet said to learn Quran from.
		
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			Someone lost their phone.
		
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			Is anybody
		
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			losing their phone?
		
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			Zoya is calling you right now. Does this
		
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			look familiar?
		
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			Anybody? Yeah.
		
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			Why is it there? Why is it there?
		
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			It's found out there. It's found outside. Okay.
		
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			Is it yours? Up here. Yeah.
		
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			Sorry. I didn't pick up when she called.
		
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			No. That's correct.
		
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			Oh, great.
		
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			Sorry about that. I'm glad we found it
		
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			under the roof.
		
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			So we wanna think about this
		
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			because,
		
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			Abdulayman, he doesn't also narrate thousands of hadith.
		
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			He narrates,
		
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			like, about 809100
		
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			hadith. You know, Quran is something he's more
		
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			associated with.
		
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			And it's not that, like,
		
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			the companions narrated every single thing that they
		
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			heard from the like, each companion doesn't say,
		
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			here's every single thing that I heard from
		
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			the prophet of God. Do you know? So
		
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			why are they continuing to pass on the
		
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			things that they're passing on? It's not selective
		
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			in those ways, but in being able to
		
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			understand,
		
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			like, as we read through the text of
		
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			this, what are we extrapolating from it? Okay.
		
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			So just so we get into it,
		
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			I don't know what's wrong with me. I
		
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			think I'm getting sick. So just so you
		
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			know, if things come out and they don't
		
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			sound like they make sense, just tell me.
		
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			Because my head's getting a little stuffy right
		
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			now. I think I just need to get
		
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			some some, like, vitamin c. I was eating
		
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			a lot of gross foods the last few
		
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			days,
		
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			and that's probably what it is. My body
		
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			is reminding me I'm not 5 years old
		
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			anymore.
		
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			So can somebody read the hadith,
		
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			in English or in Arabic? It's the 4th
		
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			hadith, Imam Nawi's hadith
		
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			in that collection.
		
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			Does anyone have it?
		
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			Hadith number 4. Right? These are by the
		
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			final actions? Yep.
		
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			On the authority of Allah in the Masjid,
		
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			may Allah be pleased with
		
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			him, who said the messenger of Allah, peace
		
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			be upon him,
		
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			and he is the truthful
		
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			and the believed
		
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			narrated to us.
		
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			Rarely the creation of each one of you
		
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			is brought together in his mother's womb
		
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			for 40 days in the form of a
		
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			drop,
		
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			then he becomes a clot of blood for
		
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			a light period,
		
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			then a morsel
		
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			of flesh
		
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			for like, period.
		
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			And then there is sent to him the
		
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			angel
		
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			who blows the breath of life
		
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			into him
		
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			and who is commended
		
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			and who is commended
		
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			with 4 matters
		
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			to write down his trustence,
		
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			his lifespan,
		
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			his actions,
		
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			and whether he will be happy or unhappy,
		
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			whether or not he will enter paradise.
		
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			By Allah, other than whom there is no
		
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			deity,
		
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			rarely one of you performs
		
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			the actions of the people of paradise
		
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			until
		
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			there is but an arm's length
		
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			between him and it.
		
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			And that which has been written overtakes him
		
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			and he
		
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			and so he acts
		
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			with actions of the people
		
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			of the hellfire,
		
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			and thus enters it. And rarely one of
		
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			you performs
		
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			the actions of the people of hellfire
		
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			until there is but an arm's length
		
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			between him and it,
		
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			and that which
		
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			has been written overtakes him.
		
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			And so he acts with the actions
		
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			of the people of paradise,
		
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			and thus, he enters
		
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			it. Bukhari Muslim.
		
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			Great.
		
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			Yeah. Does anybody wanna read the Arabic?
		
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			Yeah. Go ahead.
		
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			So just a couple of things, and as
		
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			we go through this over the course of
		
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			however many Mondays we stay with this text,
		
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			like, you wanna try to memorize parts of
		
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			the hadith.
		
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			The prophet, alaihi, alaihi, sallam, is an amazing
		
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			communicator.
		
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			You know, his words are described as being
		
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			in nature
		
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			that they're not excessive or superfluous,
		
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			but each word
		
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			is something that has deep impact, concise statements.
		
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			But also in many of these hadith,
		
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			what we're learning is actually like the exact
		
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			words that the prophet said. There's to this
		
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			as well and just engaging the hadith, reading
		
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			from the hadith.
		
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			Some of the etiquettes of it similar to,
		
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			you know, how we're taught chronologically
		
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			to not be raising our voices in the
		
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			presence of the prophet of God. Right? That
		
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			we want to be in a place as
		
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			hadith are narrated and read. We're just giving
		
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			our attentiveness to them. You know, the way
		
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			that you would kinda conceptualize or envision
		
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			that the messenger is actually standing in front
		
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			of you saying these things. What kind of
		
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			deference would you be engaged in or kinda
		
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			and you're listening to this. Right? So it's
		
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			not just hearing,
		
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			but actual active listening in that capacity.
		
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			So today, we wanna kinda think about this
		
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			hadith,
		
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			pass the part
		
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			where,
		
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			Abdul ibn Mas'ud, he describes the prophet as
		
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			being Sadiq and Masduk.
		
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			Right? The trustworthy one and the one who
		
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			is trusted.
		
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			So he spoke truth and people believed
		
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			him, you know, and these are not, like,
		
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			small things.
		
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			Right? We talked about this a lot in
		
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			terms of character last week and even in
		
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			reference to the world that surround us. Like,
		
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			literally, all day, we're bombarded by lies
		
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			constantly. Like, everybody's lying. You know? It's like
		
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			the point. We're like, I don't even know
		
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			who to believe anymore and how much that
		
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			creates chaos inside that you walk into a
		
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			space and
		
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			it can be physical or virtual, and it's
		
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			I don't know if these people who
		
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			I don't know if these people who,
		
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			you know, are my friends, quote unquote, are
		
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			my followers
		
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			for these things
		
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			that I, like, can trust them in what
		
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			I'm about to say. What if I say
		
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			this and somebody does this? What if I
		
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			say that? You can imagine
		
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			that people just found
		
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			a sense of rest
		
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			in the presence of the messenger of God,
		
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			alaihis salam.
		
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			Right? That they knew he was attentive,
		
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			he was listening,
		
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			but he wasn't just someone who spoke truth
		
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			with his words.
		
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			His actions, his demeanor
		
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			were reflective of what it was that he
		
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			was espousing.
		
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			Do you know?
		
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			You know, the Quran asked, why do you
		
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			say that which you don't do? There's no
		
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			application
		
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			of this. Right? And if you came on
		
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			Wednesday
		
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			to the Sierra class, we're talking about the
		
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			prophet as a business person,
		
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			and,
		
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			oh, thanks, man. Why is everybody being so
		
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			nice? Do I look miserable right now? Is
		
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			that is that what it is? Yeah.
		
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			Is that closer?
		
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			You you're in a place where, you know,
		
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			we talked about last week in our class,
		
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			which isn't happening this Wednesday, by the way.
		
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			The building's gonna be closed. They changed the
		
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			days that the building is open on Friday
		
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			after we met last Wednesday.
		
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			So
		
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			this is the they're locking the building on
		
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			Wednesday. Everybody's getting the day off at the
		
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			university.
		
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			But we talked about him being a business
		
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			person and shifting into an entrepreneurial pursuit,
		
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			and, you know, there's nothing without meaning in
		
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			Allah's plan. So why is the prophet being
		
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			sent to Sham to do these trade routes
		
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			and all of these other things? And people
		
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			gave a lot of different answers that were
		
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			all amazing. But we said too,
		
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			when he became the prophet at 40 years
		
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			of age, he lived for 40 years, and
		
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			he didn't, like, just live in his house
		
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			in Mecca, but he went to the Banusad.
		
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			He went to Medina. He went to Sham.
		
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			He went to all these people. He had
		
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			business transactions with individuals.
		
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			It wasn't that he was an unknown person,
		
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			he's the grandson of Abdul Motalib,
		
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			Like people know him and his lineage
		
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			and nobody
		
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			from his
		
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			adversaries
		
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			to even just like acquaintances
		
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			could come and say, this man ever did
		
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			anything dishonest.
		
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			They couldn't say, in any of these interactions,
		
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			you shouldn't believe he's a prophet
		
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			because he did this one thing this one
		
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			time.
		
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			His honesty just permeated
		
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			his
		
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			character, his decisions,
		
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			his interactions.
		
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			It's crazy.
		
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			Like, how
		
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			remarkable
		
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			this is
		
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			and how it is manifest in one person
		
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			just especially if you deal with people. Right?
		
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			I sit with people all the time who
		
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			tell me stuff about their life. You know?
		
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			And
		
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			there's a lot of, like, terrible human beings
		
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			in the world. Right? May Allah protect us
		
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			from them and protect us from ever becoming
		
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			them. Do you know? And you gotta be
		
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			wary of these things because the minute you
		
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			start to tell yourself
		
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			that I'm not capable of doing something, that's
		
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			where Shaitan's got you. You know? The prophet
		
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			was
		
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			a Sadiq.
		
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			He was the trustworthy one.
		
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			Masduk,
		
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			he was they believed him, like people trusted
		
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			him. You know? May Allah make us like
		
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			this. So this is what Abdul ibn Masood
		
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			is
		
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			before he gets into the text of it.
		
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			We talked about it briefly last week. If
		
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			you missed it, you can find it on
		
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			the podcast. So we wanna get into the
		
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			actual,
		
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			now kinda text of the Hadith, the mutton
		
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			of the Hadith, where the onset
		
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			is talking about things that are relevant to
		
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			these characteristics of truthfulness and trustworthiness
		
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			because
		
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			this initial part of the hadith is a
		
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			firmic, Quranic revelation
		
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			that also speaks about embryology
		
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			at a time where people don't have any
		
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			insight on how embryology functions.
		
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			So the
		
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			idea is that
		
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			it's just true because God and his messenger
		
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			said it's true.
		
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			We're gonna talk about that in a little
		
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			bit, but I want us to talk first
		
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			about other elements of things that go on.
		
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			And what's happening here beyond the science of
		
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			it is giving us an understanding
		
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			of how every single person that comes into
		
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			existence
		
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			enters into
		
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			a worldly sphere of life.
		
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			Do you know?
		
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			In order for us to understand this, we
		
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			gotta understand what's happening prior to, as well
		
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			as what's coming thereafter.
		
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			So
		
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			what is happening at a 120
		
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			days in this hadith?
		
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			The soul is being breathed into the fetus.
		
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			Where is this soul before this?
		
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			Where is it?
		
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			With a love. But where? Like, where is
		
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			this soul?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Like, in this
		
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			the the soul word. Like Yeah. Right? The
		
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			abode of the,
		
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			like all the souls, the individual
		
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			that you have, it didn't come into existence
		
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			at the moment it's introduced into the fetus.
		
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			Right? It existed prior to,
		
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			and this is just this introduction into the
		
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			world.
		
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			So every soul exists
		
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			prior
		
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			to entrance into this world. This is what
		
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			our
		
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			theology teaches us
		
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			that we are created beings.
		
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			And so first phase of existence,
		
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			if we had a whiteboard here, I would
		
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			write on it, but I'm not getting up
		
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			because I'm tired.
		
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			So think about my table
		
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			as, like, the lifespan
		
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			of your soul. You know? It's great that
		
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			we have this date and these cups of
		
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			stuff now because I could use them.
		
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			So say up until this mic
		
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			is
		
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			the existence
		
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			of
		
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			your soul
		
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			prior to entering the womb. The abode of
		
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			the.
		
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			This is where your soul is prior to.
		
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			Every soul is there. Right?
		
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			Is a chronic verse.
		
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			All of the progeny of Adam is gathered
		
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			together.
		
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			Am I not your lord? Allah asks everyone.
		
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			The verse says,
		
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			that, yes, we bear witness to this. This
		
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			is the covenant.
		
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			Now
		
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			you have interactions with people. This is why,
		
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			like, we're taught, for example, if you just
		
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			vibe really well with somebody in this world,
		
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			there's a good chance your souls were close
		
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			to each other when you're here in the
		
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			abode of the Adwa. Do you know what
		
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			I mean?
		
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			If you also do not get along so
		
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			well do you guys get along really well?
		
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			You just gave each other a pow? Yeah.
		
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			Amazing. Great.
		
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			So if you don't like like, someone's just
		
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			annoying to you, which is a thing. You
		
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			don't have to like everyone to respect them.
		
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			Means all of the children of Adam are
		
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			dignified.
		
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			I can respect you and still find you
		
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			to be irritating.
		
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			Right? I don't find any of you irritating.
		
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			You're all great.
		
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			You don't have to like me to respect
		
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			me,
		
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			but
		
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			by virtue of what we're talking about right
		
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			now,
		
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			if you don't really get along with somebody
		
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			you've never met, and you're like, I don't
		
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			they're annoying to me. I don't really like
		
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			them so much. The same way, you just
		
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			click with somebody, and there's a chance your
		
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			souls were close to each other. You're also
		
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			in a place where you might have not
		
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			had that kind of proximity,
		
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			but there was distance that was there. You
		
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			just didn't get along so well with somebody.
		
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			Do you know? So you're going from the
		
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			abode of the,
		
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			and now what the hadith is saying is
		
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			you go from there
		
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			and you're
		
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			in the womb.
		
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			This is a state of existence,
		
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			the ra'am.
		
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			The hadith uses the word batan,
		
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			which means belly
		
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			in Arabic. Right? It's the same thing. Right?
		
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			The womb is not in your mother's hand.
		
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			It's in her stomach. Do you know?
		
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			So the soul comes into the button,
		
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			the rahem.
		
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			The rahem, it has the same root as
		
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			rahma,
		
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			mercy, compassion.
		
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			Right? And this is the idea. Right? If
		
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			you've ever just thought about the way a
		
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			woman gets pregnant I don't know if anybody
		
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			thinks I don't think about. I don't sit
		
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			at home and think about how women get
		
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			pregnant in that way. Right? But what's happening
		
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			when someone gets pregnant? Like, their stomach gets
		
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			bigger. Right? So the Rahem is giving this
		
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			illustration
		
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			that mercy is meant to be expansive, not
		
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			restrictive.
		
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			As the fetus grows,
		
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			so to the womb grows. The Rahim as
		
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			an extension of Ar Rahman,
		
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			it's giving us this idea
		
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			that mercy and compassion
		
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			kind of extends with life. It's not meant
		
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			to be restrictive.
		
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			Do you see what I mean? So you're
		
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			in the womb,
		
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			right, for however many weeks, months.
		
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			9 months is like the general,
		
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			some people less, some people more,
		
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			But the soul is breathed
		
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			in. That's his interjection into the womb.
		
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			From this,
		
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			you have now,
		
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			like, a time in dunya.
		
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			Right? Let's say, here is dunya, the cup
		
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			of water.
		
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			Dunya is going to have phases of existence.
		
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			None of us in the room right now
		
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			are babies.
		
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			Right? Are any of you babies?
		
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			No. You're not. Right?
		
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			All of you exist right now in the
		
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			materialistic
		
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			world. Okay? If the water is too transparent
		
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			to see, let's say the date
		
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			is Dunya.
		
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			Okay? Can everybody see what I'm doing here,
		
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			or is this camera in the way? Yeah?
		
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			Good. The date is dunya.
		
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			The starting point is when you're a baby.
		
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			The end point is when you're an elder.
		
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			While we are here,
		
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			there's still souls that are here.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Because if a baby is born a week
		
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			from now, it's got the soul in the
		
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			fetus.
		
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			If a baby is born a year from
		
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			now, that fetus doesn't exist abnormally
		
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			longer than the typical fetus,
		
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			so that soul is still over here.
		
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			Right?
		
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			It didn't stop existing. The abode of the
		
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			after you were breathed into the fetus,
		
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			but those souls are still there. The idea
		
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			is to think bigger than yourself
		
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			because there are tons of souls that still
		
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			haven't come into the womb yet, let alone
		
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			here.
		
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			Some people, they're gonna get to
		
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			infancy,
		
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			and that's gonna be the the extent of
		
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			their life in this world. Some people are
		
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			going to get to
		
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			being
		
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			children,
		
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			adolescents,
		
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			teenagers,
		
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			young adults,
		
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			adulthood,
		
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			or being like
		
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			really old,
		
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			but death
		
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			is the mechanism
		
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			of transition
		
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			from this existence to the next.
		
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			So you go from here
		
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			by being blown into here,
		
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			and then mothers
		
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			give birth into here,
		
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			and then death
		
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			is a means to something. It's not an
		
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			ends. And what it's a means to is
		
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			going to be what is this next phase
		
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			of existence, which is the barzakh,
		
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			the intermediary
		
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			realm.
		
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			This is the grave. May Allah grant us
		
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			ease in the grave and grant our loved
		
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			ones. We're in the grave ease.
		
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			But this is the next phase of existence.
		
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			It's a place that is impacted by how
		
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			you live in this world.
		
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			So for people who did good in this
		
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			world,
		
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			their time in the grave
		
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			is something that's also easy, place of illumination,
		
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			whatever else. When the soul is removed from
		
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			the body,
		
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			that's what's happening. The angel of death is
		
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			coming. This is what this hadith talks about
		
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			in terms of fate and decree.
		
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			So you're not in a state where that
		
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			pulling is done with ease.
		
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			There's some
		
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			challenge there for some. For others, it's a
		
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			little bit more facilitated.
		
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			But when everybody is buried, the ground essentially
		
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			squeezes the person.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And you're in the grave.
		
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			People who are good people, they say
		
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			the grave is a, you know, price
		
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			where it's restful,
		
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			the equivalent of, like, a newlywed couple
		
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			sleeping on their 1st night as husband and
		
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			wife. The rest in the grave is like
		
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			the way that they would rest, you know.
		
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			For people who did not live well, it's
		
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			a place of agitation,
		
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			a place of difficulty. Right? May Allah make
		
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			it a place of light for us. But
		
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			this is another phase of existence. We could
		
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			talk about all these things in detail. We're
		
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			not going to because that's not the point
		
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			of this halakah. But just for us to
		
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			understand conceptually,
		
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			this hadith, you can't understand it in a
		
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			vacuum fully because it's giving us insight into
		
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			certain things. From the Barzakh now, there's resurrection,
		
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			and you have now a day of judgment.
		
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			This day of judgment,
		
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			everybody
		
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			is there as well. So why it takes
		
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			so long? Right? Because all of us think
		
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			about how many people in New York City
		
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			there are right now on the street.
		
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			This is like a an iota of the
		
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			number of people that exist. So why is
		
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			the day of judgment so long? Because there's
		
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			so many people that everybody is taking into
		
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			account
		
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			for everything,
		
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			like all of the stuff that they have,
		
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			all the stuff that they did, all the
		
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			stuff that they didn't do, but they could
		
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			have done. Like, all of it is in
		
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			the prism of judgment.
		
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			So this is going to be
		
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			where people are resurrected
		
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			from their graves, and they are resurrected on
		
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			the day of judgment. The day of judgment
		
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			is just that. It's a day of judgment.
		
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			There's nothing else that it is. You are
		
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			judged based off of your actions
		
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			in this world.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And then from there,
		
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			you have the rest of the table
		
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			until that wall,
		
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			as far as you can go, that's eternal
		
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			existence.
		
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			We are created beings,
		
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			but we were made for eternal existence.
		
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			So you want to visualize as best as
		
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			you can.
		
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			Right?
		
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			How much is this
		
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			in comparison to everything else?
		
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			It's nothing
		
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			in comparison to everything else.
		
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			But the trick that we fall into
		
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			is not only
		
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			is it
		
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			unnecessarily
		
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			magnified,
		
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			it's seen as the only thing.
		
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			This
		
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			is just a drop in the bucket in
		
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			terms of what eternal existence means.
		
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			So don't live just for this,
		
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			and understand how it's related
		
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			to everything that comes
		
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			prior to and after the fact.
		
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			If we were to start adopting characteristics
		
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			now
		
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			relevant to the frames of existence
		
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			that our souls go through,
		
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			the abode of the Arwa,
		
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			this is where you are in the beginning.
		
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			It's your creating point.
		
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			The Rahim, it's an abode of mercy.
		
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			The first place Allah puts you before you
		
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			leave from the place of the souls
		
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			is a
		
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			home of mercy,
		
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			the Rahim.
		
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			He's looking for reasons for you to succeed.
		
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			You're in dunya for a little bit of
		
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			time.
		
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			Dunya
		
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			is the place of decision making and actions.
		
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			You cannot
		
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			act in the womb.
		
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			You cannot take actions in the abode of
		
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			the.
		
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			You can only act and choose choices
		
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			in dunya.
		
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			You get into the barzakh,
		
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			the intermediary realm,
		
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			you can't do anything there. It's a place
		
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			of rest, a place of slumber. Look at
		
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			how exhausting the world is. Right? May Allah
		
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			grant us ease.
		
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			As the Quran says. Right?
		
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			That after you have exhausted yourself,
		
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			like, then you, like, put in the work.
		
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			You know what I mean? Right?
		
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			You wanna get to a place
		
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			where it's a place of actual
		
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			restful slumber
		
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			based off of what's happening here, but that's
		
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			what this is. It's a place of rest.
		
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			Like, you can't do anything there.
		
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			The place that you can do stuff is
		
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			here in the dunya.
		
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			You cannot do anything after you leave dunya.
		
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			No more choices. No more actions.
		
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			The people in Dunya can do for you.
		
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			That's why we are described
		
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			as one of the things that benefits the
		
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			deceased after they leave.
		
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			Knowledge that they pass on, an ongoing charity,
		
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			and a believing child that prays for them.
		
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			Right? So you have impact on what happens
		
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			thereafter
		
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			for yourself as well as for others.
		
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			None of you play for my great grandparents.
		
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			That doesn't mean you're bad people, but why
		
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			in your consciousness
		
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			would you be thinking about my ancestors?
		
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			There's only certain people's names that you know
		
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			that exist.
		
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			If you're not making to offer them, who's
		
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			making to offer them?
		
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			And if you don't have a reason to
		
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			get up to pray for yourself,
		
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			you're not getting up to pray for the
		
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			people that struggled for you and sacrificed for
		
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			you, so you could be sitting with a
		
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			multimillion dollar view in the middle of Manhattan.
		
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			Like,
		
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			that's what it is.
		
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			You get to the day of judgment.
		
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			The day of judgment
		
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			is about accountability.
		
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			Also not a place where you can take
		
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			actions.
		
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			So you can't say to Allah, let me
		
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			go back and pray a couple of extra
		
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			rakaz that I missed.
		
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			Let me go give that charity that I
		
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			should've given.
		
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			Let me go seek forgiveness from the one
		
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			that I wronged. Let me go apologize for
		
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			the lies that I told, the gossiping that
		
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			I engaged in. Let me go try to
		
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			fix the messes that I make or engage
		
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			in acts of kindness and beauty. Just give
		
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			me a little bit more time. There's people
		
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			who are going to come on the day
		
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			of judgment. Forget about having books that are
		
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			filled with all kinds of challenging things or
		
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			whatever else. The angels are gonna come to
		
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			them,
		
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			and their books are gonna have nothing in
		
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			it.
		
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			And they're gonna say to them, how long
		
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			did you live in this world?
		
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			And in that moment, they're gonna be, like,
		
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			looking in their books and saying, maybe a
		
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			day, maybe half a day,
		
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			because they did nothing.
		
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			It wasn't even that they did wrong
		
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			or right
		
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			in a they did nothing with their time.
		
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			There's nothing written in the book,
		
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			and then you can't do anything when you're
		
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			on the day of judgment.
		
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			That's just when you're taking into account for
		
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			what you did. It's not the place of
		
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			doing. The place of doing is here where
		
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			we're at right now.
		
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			And then after that is eternal existence. May
		
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			Allah make us people of Jannah.
		
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			The whole idea
		
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			when you are here
		
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			is to not live
		
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			in pursuit
		
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			of Jannah
		
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			or to live in avoidance of Jahannam.
		
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			The whole idea when you're here is to
		
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			just live in pursuit of the pleasure of
		
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			the divine.
		
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			And then Allah in his infinite wisdom is
		
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			gonna decide where we end up.
		
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			But if you live for Jannah
		
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			or you live in avoidance of Jahannam,
		
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			that's not the same as living
		
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			to build a relationship with the creator of
		
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			jannah and jahannam, which can do nothing to
		
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			you other than what Allah wills for it
		
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			to do.
		
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			So I want you to think for a
		
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			minute as we're looking at this hadith about
		
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			its relevance to us, because we'll talk about
		
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			it in terms of the thick of abortion
		
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			and, like, medicinal practices and whatever else.
		
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			But
		
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			for all of us, we gotta understand this
		
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			foundational part.
		
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			You are not the body
		
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			that exists in this worldly existence.
		
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			You are the soul that was breathed into
		
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			the womb
		
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			that came from the abode of the souls,
		
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			that is now traversing this worldly plane with
		
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			this vessel that is physical,
		
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			that is going to return back to the
		
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			earth that it came from, and then the
		
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			movement forward is going to continue to be
		
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			of the souls.
		
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			So here is where we want to think
		
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			that Allah
		
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			took us in our celestial state and breathe
		
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			us. We have been breathed
		
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			into the womb in a physical state. So
		
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			there's a relationship now between what is physical
		
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			and metaphysical
		
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			at the very onset of our creation,
		
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			where we now have movement forward,
		
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			what do we do with these
		
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			souls that we have?
		
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			How much of the day, the week?
		
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			All of you are created from a common
		
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			beginning.
		
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			You go 40 days here to 40 days
		
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			here to 40 days here, and then the
		
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			soul comes in. That's you.
		
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			You're the soul.
		
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			You're not the lump of flesh alone
		
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			that is cultivated
		
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			in the womb.
		
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			Then you move forward now in this existence,
		
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			having a worldly experience
		
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			as a celestial created
		
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			entity.
		
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			Where does it get lost in the mix?
		
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			The focus now that is purely on the
		
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			physical
		
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			rather than the metaphysical,
		
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			and it's not an either or, but it's
		
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			a both end.
		
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			The Hadith is telling us through the prism
		
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			of embryology,
		
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			you have parts that are physical
		
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			and you have parts that are metaphysical.
		
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			What gets in the way
		
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			of recognizing the synergy
		
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			as well as the individual
		
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			understanding
		
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			of the presence of the
		
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			that is there.
		
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			That all of us are made in this
		
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			way,
		
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			but all of us don't necessarily remember it.
		
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			Does this make sense?
		
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			So I like you to do,
		
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			I'll take a pause, return to the person's
		
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			next to you. What are you taking away
		
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			from this so far? What is it bringing
		
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			up for you in the course of this
		
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			conversation,
		
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			some of the takeaways,
		
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			and then we'll come back and discuss and
		
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			kind of move forward. But go ahead.
		
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			Have a night shift up to head off
		
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			to the hospital. Oh, good
		
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			night.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So what are some of the things we're
		
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			discussing?
		
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			What's coming up for people?
		
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			Yeah. Go ahead, Rilla.
		
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			I was thinking, like, how we're just so
		
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			focused
		
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			in materialistic
		
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			things in the world.
		
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			I wouldn't
		
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			specifically call, like, education and
		
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			career
		
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			as materialistic, but still it is materialistic
		
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			because,
		
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			it takes away
		
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			the thought of, like, why we're brought into
		
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			this world
		
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			and, like, the purpose that we are in
		
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			this world, which is to serve humanity and
		
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			do good to other people. For example, we
		
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			were just discussing
		
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			how
		
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			it was something really horrible and was,
		
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			for us to wake up, like, 42 days
		
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			ago.
		
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			But because we were so focused in our
		
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			materialistic
		
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			values, being an education player or other things,
		
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			that we didn't pay attention
		
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			to what's happening in the rest of the
		
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			world. And in 75 years of occupation, not
		
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			just
		
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			42
		
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			days because we are so focused in, like,
		
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			materialistic
		
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			things in the world. Forget about the soul
		
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			and the purpose of.
		
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			But how do you forget about like, it's
		
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			a part of you. Do you get what
		
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			I mean? Like, if you don't think about
		
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			the little pinky toe on your foot,
		
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			it doesn't mean you're not utilizing it or
		
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			it's not there. Do you get what I'm
		
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			saying?
		
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			Like, parts of it like, I was talking
		
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			to my kids the other day,
		
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			and I was trying to I was trying
		
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			to convince my children to let me shave
		
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			their eyebrows off of their face. And they
		
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			said, well, Baba, no. And I was like,
		
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			what do you even use them for? When
		
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			do you ever think about them? They're like,
		
00:43:03 --> 00:43:05
			no, Baba. Like, could you shave your eyebrows?
		
00:43:05 --> 00:43:07
			And I'm like, no. Like, I I'm not
		
00:43:07 --> 00:43:08
			going to. I'm gonna shave yours off.
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:11
			But, like, there's parts of you that just
		
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			because you don't think about them,
		
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			doesn't mean
		
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			that they're not, like, still present
		
00:43:18 --> 00:43:20
			or that you wouldn't
		
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			do anything
		
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			to, like,
		
00:43:23 --> 00:43:24
			let them go. Right?
		
00:43:25 --> 00:43:27
			Like, what do you use, like, all of
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:29
			the toes on your feet for?
		
00:43:30 --> 00:43:32
			But if I said I'll give you a
		
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			$1,000
		
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			to
		
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			give me one of your pinky toes,
		
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			none of you would do it. You know?
		
00:43:38 --> 00:43:40
			The nails on your feet, what do you
		
00:43:40 --> 00:43:42
			use them for? Do you know what I
		
00:43:42 --> 00:43:46
			mean? Right? Realistically speaking, there's things that you
		
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			don't even know why they're there.
		
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			But
		
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			the idea that I would let go of
		
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			any part of my physical self
		
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			is like, how is that even possible?
		
00:43:59 --> 00:44:01
			If you're not engaging
		
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			your,
		
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			it doesn't mean that it's not a part
		
00:44:05 --> 00:44:06
			of you still.
		
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			Right?
		
00:44:07 --> 00:44:10
			It's the very thing that's, like, the essential
		
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			life component.
		
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			The
		
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			is not something
		
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			that we're given so much detail on. Do
		
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			you get what I mean?
		
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			But it is the distinguishing
		
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			variable
		
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			between the body that has life and the
		
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			body that has no life.
		
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			Because when you move
		
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			from dunya
		
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			to barzakh,
		
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			the material world to the intermediary realm,
		
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			Death is the process of what? The soul
		
00:44:39 --> 00:44:41
			being removed from the body.
		
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			So
		
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			if this thing is so important,
		
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			why is it not being paid attention to?
		
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			You know what I mean?
		
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			And the way that I'm built
		
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			is not necessarily
		
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			that Yeah. Like, even if I'm not thinking
		
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			about the toes on my feet, if I
		
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			didn't have any of them, my balance would
		
00:45:03 --> 00:45:05
			get thrown off. The way that I walk
		
00:45:05 --> 00:45:06
			would get screwed up. Do you know what
		
00:45:06 --> 00:45:07
			I mean?
		
00:45:08 --> 00:45:09
			But
		
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			can you actually
		
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			live in the world
		
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			just as a physical
		
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			body?
		
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			And, yeah, like, you can.
		
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			You can live in a world
		
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			that even though the ruah is there,
		
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			you are not engaging it or taking care
		
00:45:30 --> 00:45:30
			of it
		
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			or cultivating it in any capacity.
		
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			The nuffs can be what defines decisions. The
		
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			heart doesn't have to.
		
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			And so you get to a place where
		
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			what I eat is just about the physicality.
		
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			How I dress is just about the physicality.
		
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			How I sleep is just about the physicality.
		
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			Whether I pray or not is just about
		
00:45:54 --> 00:45:54
			the physical,
		
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			the relationships that I have or I don't
		
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			have. All of these things is just about
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:01
			what is outward, what is outward, what is
		
00:46:01 --> 00:46:04
			outward. This is what we talk about quite
		
00:46:04 --> 00:46:04
			often,
		
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			praying with your body versus praying with your
		
00:46:07 --> 00:46:07
			heart,
		
00:46:07 --> 00:46:10
			praying versus praying to God. Right? And what
		
00:46:10 --> 00:46:12
			are you praying to God with? It's not
		
00:46:12 --> 00:46:15
			just the presence of your physical body,
		
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			but all of these things aligned in the
		
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			ways that they need to be aligned.
		
00:46:20 --> 00:46:20
			You know?
		
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			So can you have just a purely
		
00:46:25 --> 00:46:25
			physical
		
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			living in this world without engaging
		
00:46:30 --> 00:46:30
			the metaphysical?
		
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			Like, yeah, you could live overtly just as
		
00:46:35 --> 00:46:35
			a body
		
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			as if you didn't have this soul inside
		
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			of you.
		
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			You get what I mean? Does this make
		
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			sense?
		
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			Other thoughts, what else came up for people
		
00:46:45 --> 00:46:46
			as we were talking?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Yeah. So why the hadith on intentions is
		
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			the first hadith in the book?
		
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			Do you know? You don't, like, memorize hadith
		
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			just at random,
		
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			but you also see there's a order to
		
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			why they're placing these things in the chapters
		
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			that they do and why certain chapters precede
		
00:47:37 --> 00:47:38
			other chapters.
		
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			You're on a journey, like, as a spirit.
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:42
			It's going
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:44
			to eternal existence.
		
00:47:45 --> 00:47:46
			So intentionality
		
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			can have
		
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			multiplicity
		
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			to it, but a part of it has
		
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			to also be in a place where, like,
		
00:47:52 --> 00:47:55
			hey. Like, there's a destination ahead that's an
		
00:47:55 --> 00:47:58
			ultimate destination, and all of the stuff is
		
00:47:58 --> 00:48:00
			gonna get left behind. Do you know what
		
00:48:00 --> 00:48:02
			I mean? I'm not taking my jacket with
		
00:48:02 --> 00:48:04
			me to the day of judgment. Do you
		
00:48:04 --> 00:48:06
			know what I'm saying? Like, I'm not.
		
00:48:06 --> 00:48:07
			Do you know?
		
00:48:08 --> 00:48:10
			It's got a utility to it. Functionally, it's
		
00:48:10 --> 00:48:11
			something that's there.
		
00:48:13 --> 00:48:15
			And where and how you're in certain places
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:17
			that, like, if you fundamentally
		
00:48:17 --> 00:48:19
			just get everything you want
		
00:48:19 --> 00:48:21
			in the world, then what do you need
		
00:48:21 --> 00:48:22
			Jenna for?
		
00:48:24 --> 00:48:26
			But the roadway to get
		
00:48:27 --> 00:48:29
			the back to where it came from.
		
00:48:29 --> 00:48:31
			So where the Quran speaks about the Warithun,
		
00:48:32 --> 00:48:33
			Right? The inheritors.
		
00:48:34 --> 00:48:36
			What are they? They're the inheritors of Jannah.
		
00:48:36 --> 00:48:38
			May Allah make us from amongst them. Like,
		
00:48:38 --> 00:48:40
			the whole idea is you're trying to go
		
00:48:40 --> 00:48:40
			back
		
00:48:41 --> 00:48:43
			home, like, where you came from. Do you
		
00:48:43 --> 00:48:46
			know? Right? So the roadblocks they're gonna come
		
00:48:46 --> 00:48:48
			in the way are gonna be the nature
		
00:48:48 --> 00:48:50
			of this, of what we know of it,
		
00:48:50 --> 00:48:52
			is sometimes about denial
		
00:48:52 --> 00:48:54
			of the things that make it just a
		
00:48:54 --> 00:48:55
			bodily experience.
		
00:48:56 --> 00:48:58
			Because the nuffs is lazy and it's not
		
00:48:58 --> 00:49:01
			generous and it's not charitable and doesn't want
		
00:49:01 --> 00:49:02
			you to apologize.
		
00:49:02 --> 00:49:04
			It doesn't want you to struggle. Do you
		
00:49:04 --> 00:49:05
			know what I mean?
		
00:49:05 --> 00:49:08
			So sometimes you gotta push and not formulate
		
00:49:08 --> 00:49:09
			against things
		
00:49:09 --> 00:49:10
			that
		
00:49:11 --> 00:49:13
			are rooted in what the first part of
		
00:49:13 --> 00:49:14
			the hadith is saying. Right?
		
00:49:15 --> 00:49:15
			That
		
00:49:17 --> 00:49:19
			he is the trustworthy one and the one
		
00:49:19 --> 00:49:21
			that is trusted. He's a representative
		
00:49:21 --> 00:49:22
			of the divine
		
00:49:22 --> 00:49:25
			and that whatever this book says, even if
		
00:49:25 --> 00:49:26
			it's talking about embryology
		
00:49:26 --> 00:49:29
			14 centuries ago, you don't have to understand
		
00:49:29 --> 00:49:31
			it in order for it to be true.
		
00:49:31 --> 00:49:33
			It doesn't need for you to believe it
		
00:49:33 --> 00:49:35
			in order for it to be valid, but
		
00:49:35 --> 00:49:37
			it's in your benefit to actually believe it.
		
00:49:37 --> 00:49:39
			Not what you think is best, what Allah
		
00:49:39 --> 00:49:40
			thinks is best.
		
00:49:41 --> 00:49:43
			And what does your spirit have to say
		
00:49:43 --> 00:49:44
			about it, not just your body?
		
00:49:45 --> 00:49:48
			What does your metaphysical have to say about
		
00:49:48 --> 00:49:49
			it, not just the physical?
		
00:49:50 --> 00:49:52
			Do you make sense? Yeah. Other thoughts, what
		
00:49:52 --> 00:49:54
			else is coming up for people as we
		
00:49:54 --> 00:49:56
			discuss some of this? What did you talk
		
00:49:56 --> 00:49:57
			about?
		
00:50:01 --> 00:50:02
			Yeah.
		
00:50:10 --> 00:50:13
			When you're making a worldly decision for, like,
		
00:50:13 --> 00:50:16
			a short term pleasure, it's good to have
		
00:50:16 --> 00:50:17
			the the context and framework of,
		
00:50:19 --> 00:50:19
			is it worth
		
00:50:20 --> 00:50:22
			the the pain in the afterlife for the
		
00:50:22 --> 00:50:23
			short term pleasure
		
00:50:24 --> 00:50:25
			in the in the world?
		
00:50:26 --> 00:50:26
			Yeah.
		
00:50:28 --> 00:50:30
			Ali right, the cousin of the prophet, alayhis
		
00:50:30 --> 00:50:30
			salam,
		
00:50:31 --> 00:50:33
			he says, right, your souls,
		
00:50:33 --> 00:50:36
			your hearts, your souls, they're worth only the
		
00:50:36 --> 00:50:38
			price of paradise.
		
00:50:38 --> 00:50:40
			So sell them only for that price.
		
00:50:40 --> 00:50:41
			Do you know?
		
00:50:41 --> 00:50:42
			Right? Like,
		
00:50:43 --> 00:50:46
			don't sell the most important treasure
		
00:50:46 --> 00:50:49
			that's within you for some paltry sum of
		
00:50:49 --> 00:50:51
			dunya. You can't even take it with you.
		
00:50:51 --> 00:50:53
			You know what I mean? You can't.
		
00:50:54 --> 00:50:55
			This is what people tried to do
		
00:50:56 --> 00:50:56
			historically.
		
00:50:57 --> 00:50:59
			Not only did people bury all their stuff
		
00:50:59 --> 00:51:02
			with them, they tried to bury their people
		
00:51:02 --> 00:51:03
			with them also,
		
00:51:03 --> 00:51:05
			servants, spouses, etcetera.
		
00:51:05 --> 00:51:07
			What ended up happening? A bunch of white
		
00:51:07 --> 00:51:10
			people looted them and took from their tombs
		
00:51:10 --> 00:51:11
			and put in museums
		
00:51:12 --> 00:51:14
			in their own countries, so the people in
		
00:51:14 --> 00:51:15
			their own countries still don't get to have
		
00:51:15 --> 00:51:18
			their stuff. Right? You go all over Europe.
		
00:51:18 --> 00:51:20
			You go all over United States. There's a
		
00:51:20 --> 00:51:21
			bunch of things that we just took from
		
00:51:21 --> 00:51:24
			other people that didn't belong to us, but
		
00:51:24 --> 00:51:26
			they didn't take it either then. If it's
		
00:51:26 --> 00:51:27
			sitting in the museum,
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:30
			it didn't get with them to the barzakh.
		
00:51:30 --> 00:51:31
			Right?
		
00:51:31 --> 00:51:33
			Like, what is there with them? Which is
		
00:51:33 --> 00:51:36
			where the Hadith ends. It talks about actions
		
00:51:36 --> 00:51:37
			and deeds.
		
00:51:37 --> 00:51:39
			That's the only thing you're taking with you.
		
00:51:40 --> 00:51:43
			Deeds, actions, what you did, what you prevented
		
00:51:43 --> 00:51:45
			yourself from doing versus what you could have
		
00:51:45 --> 00:51:47
			done, but you still didn't do it.
		
00:51:47 --> 00:51:50
			And if there's not a focal point that
		
00:51:50 --> 00:51:54
			says that this little part of existence that's
		
00:51:54 --> 00:51:55
			dunya
		
00:51:55 --> 00:51:57
			cannot be like the ends, but I see
		
00:51:57 --> 00:51:59
			it as a means to something.
		
00:52:00 --> 00:52:02
			Then the paradigm through which you engage worldly
		
00:52:02 --> 00:52:03
			existence
		
00:52:03 --> 00:52:05
			is going to be quite limited
		
00:52:05 --> 00:52:08
			if it's only seen as what are the
		
00:52:08 --> 00:52:11
			potentials here. Because struggle here
		
00:52:11 --> 00:52:12
			translates into
		
00:52:13 --> 00:52:16
			increase there. And struggle here is temporary,
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:18
			increase there is forever.
		
00:52:20 --> 00:52:22
			So it's not worth it to me that
		
00:52:22 --> 00:52:24
			you and I were gonna hang out till
		
00:52:24 --> 00:52:26
			3 o'clock in the morning if that means
		
00:52:26 --> 00:52:28
			that I'm gonna sleep through Fudger.
		
00:52:32 --> 00:52:33
			Because missing Fudger
		
00:52:34 --> 00:52:37
			is something that's for my soul, a deterrent
		
00:52:38 --> 00:52:39
			towards
		
00:52:40 --> 00:52:40
			vision
		
00:52:41 --> 00:52:43
			of what is coming forward. Do you get
		
00:52:43 --> 00:52:44
			what I mean?
		
00:52:44 --> 00:52:46
			Well, I like you to do for just
		
00:52:46 --> 00:52:48
			a few minutes is turn to the persons
		
00:52:48 --> 00:52:51
			next to you and don't have, like, a
		
00:52:51 --> 00:52:52
			right or wrong conversation.
		
00:52:53 --> 00:52:55
			Don't speak only if you feel like you're
		
00:52:55 --> 00:52:58
			saying what's most correct, but let yourself just
		
00:52:58 --> 00:52:59
			deepen and explore
		
00:52:59 --> 00:53:01
			into the actual discussion.
		
00:53:02 --> 00:53:04
			How do you take care of your ruler?
		
00:53:06 --> 00:53:07
			Like, you specifically,
		
00:53:08 --> 00:53:10
			how does one take care of it?
		
00:53:10 --> 00:53:13
			And what are things that are, like, damaging
		
00:53:13 --> 00:53:14
			the
		
00:53:15 --> 00:53:16
			or your metaphysical
		
00:53:16 --> 00:53:17
			state. Right?
		
00:53:18 --> 00:53:21
			Your heart, your soul, like the combination of
		
00:53:21 --> 00:53:21
			these things.
		
00:53:22 --> 00:53:24
			What are the things that are good for
		
00:53:24 --> 00:53:26
			it? What are the things that are not
		
00:53:26 --> 00:53:28
			good for it? How does one take care
		
00:53:28 --> 00:53:29
			of it? If my 8 year old was
		
00:53:29 --> 00:53:30
			here today
		
00:53:31 --> 00:53:33
			and was like, hey, man.
		
00:53:33 --> 00:53:35
			Like, I don't know what my dad's talking
		
00:53:35 --> 00:53:37
			about. He's trying to get me to shave
		
00:53:37 --> 00:53:39
			my eyebrows off my face. Right? What kind
		
00:53:39 --> 00:53:41
			of man do I live with in my
		
00:53:41 --> 00:53:43
			house? You know? Can you tell me what
		
00:53:43 --> 00:53:45
			this thing is, this soul, and how do
		
00:53:45 --> 00:53:47
			I take care of it? Right?
		
00:53:48 --> 00:53:49
			And if all you get when you're at
		
00:53:49 --> 00:53:51
			a younger stage of life
		
00:53:51 --> 00:53:54
			is also all you get when you engage
		
00:53:55 --> 00:53:55
			religion,
		
00:53:56 --> 00:53:58
			and it's just the do's and don'ts and
		
00:53:58 --> 00:53:58
			the mechanics,
		
00:53:59 --> 00:54:00
			the postures of prayer,
		
00:54:01 --> 00:54:03
			the recitation of Quran,
		
00:54:03 --> 00:54:05
			the how to's of fasting,
		
00:54:05 --> 00:54:08
			they're still only limited to the externals.
		
00:54:09 --> 00:54:11
			Right? It doesn't mean that there's not a
		
00:54:11 --> 00:54:14
			relationship there. The hadith is teaching us about
		
00:54:15 --> 00:54:16
			the onset
		
00:54:16 --> 00:54:19
			of a synergy between physical and metaphysical.
		
00:54:20 --> 00:54:22
			So you gotta start to delve into
		
00:54:22 --> 00:54:24
			how does this metaphysical
		
00:54:25 --> 00:54:25
			work?
		
00:54:26 --> 00:54:27
			What do I do?
		
00:54:28 --> 00:54:28
			Not
		
00:54:29 --> 00:54:29
			like theoretically,
		
00:54:30 --> 00:54:32
			but what are things one can do
		
00:54:33 --> 00:54:35
			to take care of their inner self? The
		
00:54:35 --> 00:54:37
			question makes sense? So in the course of
		
00:54:37 --> 00:54:40
			my day, my week, my month, like, what
		
00:54:40 --> 00:54:41
			are things that are going to bring
		
00:54:42 --> 00:54:43
			that kind of luminosity
		
00:54:44 --> 00:54:44
			inwardly
		
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			It's going to provide care to my inner
		
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			self.
		
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			We can talk about this for a few
		
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			minutes, then we'll come back and discuss. Go
		
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			ahead.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So what are some of the ways like,
		
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			how do you how does somebody take care
		
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			of their inner self?
		
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			The physical, the metaphysical
		
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			has this connection.
		
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			We live in a world that teaches us
		
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			to look at ourselves and not for ourselves.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And quite often, the identity variables that we
		
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			have
		
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			are attached now to things that are just
		
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			outward and external alone.
		
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			So how do we start to shift to
		
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			seeing the importance of both of these fears
		
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			as it permeates every part of our religious
		
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			tradition?
		
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			Do you know? Like bringing presence to
		
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			our inner components of prayer, of charity, of
		
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			fasting, of pilgrimage,
		
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			you know, being able to connect at the
		
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			level of spirits and souls. Right?
		
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			So we're not just
		
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			sharing sociological
		
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			characteristics,
		
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			common culture, common race, common ethnicity,
		
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			but we're connected at the level of hearts,
		
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			like inwardly.
		
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			So what what can one do to take
		
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			care of their inner self?
		
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			What do we talk about? Yeah.
		
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			So we mentioned,
		
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			I mentioned that I I
		
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			follow yesterday
		
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			that spoke about, how Musa
		
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			meet
		
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			And
		
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			the
		
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			portion the person who spoke said that,
		
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			being in the state of fasting
		
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			helped him elevate from the
		
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			literally, like, the weight of food.
		
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			Not having that helped him
		
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			elevate himself
		
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			to, like, have been to speak with Allah.
		
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			So I guess fasting is a way to,
		
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			like,
		
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			purify your soul,
		
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			but also engaging in Quran in the sun
		
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			as that
		
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			used to engage to. And one of them
		
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			is people going to sleep, which is you
		
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			mentioned,
		
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			and it's one of the that can prevent
		
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			you from being tortured there.
		
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			So that and praying more and,
		
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			like, engaging with your religion, not just
		
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			in the forest, but also in the sunnaps.
		
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			Yeah. Amazing. Like, think about,
		
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			for many of us,
		
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			what life is like in Ramadan
		
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			versus outside of Ramadan.
		
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			But conceptually, what's going on there?
		
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			You know, what's being lifted in terms of
		
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			veils of perception
		
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			through not just, like,
		
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			the emptying of the stomach, but the filling
		
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			of a heart.
		
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			Right? So you're nourishing other parts of yourself
		
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			and cultivating a relationship with those things.
		
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			These exercises, again,
		
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			don't need our presence to help, you know.
		
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			So somebody can become physically strong
		
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			by working
		
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			as, like, a woodsman their whole life. They're
		
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			not purposely going to a gym for an
		
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			hour, but they're chopping wood, and they're carrying
		
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			wood,
		
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			and they're selling wood, and moving wood. It's
		
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			gonna make them hard in their, like, muscles
		
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			and whatever else. Do you know? Like, it
		
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			brings that fortitude and toughness. Do you get
		
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			what I mean? Right? So if you said
		
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			to someone, like, hey, do you exercise? They'll
		
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			be like, no, I don't exercise. Right? But
		
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			they're not saying, I chop wood for 8
		
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			hours a day. You know what I mean?
		
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			It's the same way. You can experience,
		
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			like, the practice in Ramadan.
		
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			It doesn't mean you have to be consciously
		
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			aware of what it's doing or understand in
		
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			order to gain from it. Do you know?
		
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			As well as these other practices that are
		
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			there. Right? If you bring presence to it,
		
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			it then now affords the question,
		
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			why would you stop
		
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			after it's done?
		
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			Like, why did you stop reading Quran when
		
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			Ramadan was done? Why did you stop fasting
		
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			when Ramadan was done? Why did you stop
		
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			giving in charity? Why did you stop coming
		
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			to pray together in congregation?
		
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			Do you know what I mean? It's not
		
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			to knock anybody, but to ask those questions.
		
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			What's the trade off, especially in relation to
		
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			what we're talking about here? What else? Like,
		
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			what else are things we discussed? Yeah.
		
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			Conscientious about what you consume and not just
		
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			food dietary neutral. So what you listen to
		
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			and what you view.
		
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			So, like, an example for me, I was
		
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			really bad with reality TV, and then I've
		
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			given that up with from Lula. But it's
		
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			important to replace that with something
		
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			good for your soul too. So, like, listening
		
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			to, I believe, this podcast could
		
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			Amazing. Yeah. Consumption. Go ahead.
		
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			Great. Reflection
		
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			is really important. Right? Imam Al Haddad,
		
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			says
		
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			that reflection is the lamp of the heart.
		
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			When it departs from it, there's no light
		
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			in it. Do you know? What else? Yeah.
		
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			I think being at peace and being satisfied
		
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			and grateful for what you have,
		
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			especially in the age of social media where
		
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			there's a lot being thrown at us in
		
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			terms of, like, the 8
		
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			ones. So just being grateful for, like, the
		
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			bare minimum,
		
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			which I think,
		
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			we are in, like, the recent times
		
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			because we have seen other people suffer through
		
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			it, like clean water,
		
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			shelter, and food, which other people don't have.
		
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			So just being grateful for, like,
		
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			the basic
		
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			necessities of life and having the walk of
		
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			Yeah. 100%.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And in the reflection periods, you asked the
		
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			question of how much is enough?
		
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			Like, how much do I need? Do you
		
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			know?
		
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			And it it all becomes attached to each
		
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			other.
		
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			Can we understand the connection between
		
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			the physical and the metaphysical?
		
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			You know? You don't exist in 2 places
		
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			simultaneously.
		
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			And when you go home at night, you
		
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			don't, like, unzip your body off of your
		
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			soul and then hang it up in the
		
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			closet,
		
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			but there's a connection point in terms of
		
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			worldly existence
		
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			between these two things. They
		
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			coexist simultaneously.
		
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			Do you get what I mean? Does that
		
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			make sense?
		
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			So why don't we do it?
		
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			Like, what gets in the way?
		
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			What's, like, the barrier of kinda
		
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			engagement
		
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			of both facets?
		
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			Because it's not either or. Right? We're not
		
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			a people who are just meant
		
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			to read Quran all day to the detriment
		
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			of worldly responsibilities
		
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			and physical
		
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			nature. Right? Like, there's hadith where the prophet
		
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			essentially speaks about,
		
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			dislike for the portly scholar,
		
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			you know. Like, how can you be
		
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			an alum
		
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			of Islam,
		
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			like a a scholar of Islam
		
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			and, you know, be portly. It's not like
		
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			your physical body
		
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			is what's being questioned here, but somebody who
		
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			is purposefully,
		
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			like, eating to a point of satiation,
		
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			not taking care of their physical wellness,
		
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			and they claim knowledge of the religion.
		
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			Do you see what I mean? Like, the
		
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			body is the vessel of the soul,
		
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			so it has to be something
		
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			that you are honoring
		
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			as well through your recognition of how you
		
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			kinda traverse this worldly plane. Do you know?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Yeah. And there's multiple answers. Right? And they're
		
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			gonna be individualized.
		
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			Do you know? Been thinking about this again
		
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			in this way,
		
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			what kind of experience am I having right
		
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			now
		
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			in this world?
		
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			And am I having just simply like a
		
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			bodily experience, a physical experience?
		
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			Am I also having a metaphysical
		
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			experience?
		
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			Do you know what I mean? And what
		
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			are the things that engage the different parts
		
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			of what make me
		
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			what I am?
		
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			And how are the two things connected to
		
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			each other? So the Hadith is giving us
		
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			indication
		
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			to the remarkable nature of scientific
		
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			kinda insight from the Quran and the Hadith,
		
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			at times when people did not think about
		
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			these things. But its individual relevancy back to
		
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			me
		
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			is that, hey,
		
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			like,
		
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			all of us as humans, were made in
		
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			this way in our worldly existence.
		
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			There's the physical body
		
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			and then there's the soul breathed in at
		
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			a 120 days
		
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			of the fetus
		
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			existence.
		
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			So why is this hadith mentioning this thing?
		
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			And it's not just in terms of
		
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			when does, like, life begin and theological debates,
		
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			and what does abortion mean, and when is
		
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			it allowed, and when is it not.
		
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			But it's also telling me what are the
		
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			foundational
		
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			building blocks of me as a person.
		
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			Does anywhere in the Quran or the Hadid
		
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			say when you hit a certain age, your
		
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			soul departs, but your body still moves?
		
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			No. Right?
		
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			Like, you are in this place where these
		
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			things
		
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			necessitate
		
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			coexistence
		
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			in order for the body to actually have
		
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			life to it.
		
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			And if at any point in time, the
		
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			soul is removed from the body,
		
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			the body is just a shell.
		
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			So it's not the
		
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			primary
		
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			and this is where the shift comes in
		
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			that the focus only becomes on the primary
		
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			being the body,
		
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			but it's not.
		
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			It's a part of it, but it's not
		
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			the whole thing.
		
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			And if anything,
		
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			what's moving forward
		
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			is going to be the not
		
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			the not the.
		
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			So why am I spending so much time
		
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			fussing over just what is external alone,
		
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			let alone even thinking about how it relates,
		
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			and all these other things that are heightened
		
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			in terms of just inward
		
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			self development,
		
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			you know, and thinking about what else exists
		
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			within me. It's not just
		
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			the and the and the,
		
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			but inside of you are all of your
		
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			memories,
		
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			all of the experiences you've had, all of
		
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			the feelings that you have. Right? Do you
		
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			feel better when you're sad alone or when
		
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			you're sad with somebody else
		
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			who's there to support you when you're sad?
		
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			Do you feel a little bit better when
		
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			you let out certain things rather than holding
		
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			them all inside of you? You start to
		
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			learn about the nature of the self through
		
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			the self, and you start to think too
		
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			also what does it mean to be a
		
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			supporter of somebody else. Right? Anybody can pontificate
		
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			to people. Do you know? But the prophet
		
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			didn't talk so much.
		
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			So what was he bringing out with people?
		
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			He was helping them to recognize
		
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			what they had as inward beauty.
		
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			Even the man who's narrating the Hadith,
		
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			Abdul ibn Mas'ud,
		
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			the young black man who's poor, who is
		
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			physically skinny and small in stature,
		
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			People would laugh at him. Right? We said
		
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			this hadith last time that he was climbing,
		
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			getting something from a tree, and the wind
		
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			blew, and it lifted up his garments so
		
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			you could see his legs, and people were
		
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			laughing at his legs, at how skinny they
		
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			were. And the prophet
		
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			asked them, like, what are you laughing at?
		
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			And they say we're laughing at his legs.
		
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			Right? Because they're so skinny. And the prophet
		
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			says that
		
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			his legs are going to weigh heavier on
		
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			the scales on the day of judgement
		
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			than than the mountains of Uhud.
		
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			You know.
		
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			Like,
		
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			there's
		
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			a recognition
		
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			that what ennobles him is not what
		
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			worldly societally
		
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			perspective
		
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			is ennobling.
		
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			So who cares if Meccan society
		
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			is treating
		
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			poor people a certain way, black people a
		
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			certain way, etcetera.
		
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			Not a way that we're indifferent towards it,
		
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			but this man's elevation
		
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			is coming
		
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			from the fact that
		
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			he is just inwardly strong,
		
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			and all of those things are what make
		
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			him good and beautiful.
		
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			Not because society
		
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			is the judge of what's good and beautiful,
		
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			but Allah in his wisdom is what the
		
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			hadith is.
		
01:17:00 --> 01:17:01
			Allah in his wisdom
		
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			is decreeing certain things for us. Do you
		
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			see what I mean?
		
01:17:05 --> 01:17:08
			So the way that you were built is
		
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			that you have the
		
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			physical
		
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			and then you have the metaphysical,
		
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			and those two things have to be understood.
		
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			The dunya
		
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			is going to make you think only about
		
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			the physical,
		
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			even in relation to your feelings
		
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			that are inward
		
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			and expressed outward,
		
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			is going to teach you to only engage
		
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			what you feel
		
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			through
		
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			external mechanisms.
		
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			Numb the pain.
		
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			Desensitize
		
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			the pain.
		
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			Be in a place where outward
		
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			mechanisms
		
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			help you deal with inward agitation.
		
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			Smoke this, drink this, watch this, consume this,
		
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			listen to this,
		
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			wear this,
		
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			dress like this,
		
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			eat this,
		
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			drink this.
		
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			This is temporary. It's band aids.
		
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			Right? Because to apply something physical
		
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			to something metaphysical
		
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			that's hurting,
		
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			it's not gonna can you put a Band
		
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			Aid on your soul?
		
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			Do you know what I mean?
		
01:18:11 --> 01:18:12
			Right?
		
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			Can I put a band aid on my
		
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			spiritual heart?
		
01:18:15 --> 01:18:18
			No. You gotta look for things that are
		
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			also
		
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			metaphysical
		
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			in their nature
		
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			that allow for there to be a sense
		
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			of holistically
		
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			who it is that we are.
		
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			So you can read this hadith and be
		
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			in awe that the prophet, expounding upon Quranic
		
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			verse, is talking to us about the stages
		
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			of embryology
		
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			and the growth of the fetus. It's remarkable.
		
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			Do you know what I mean? That's not
		
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			something we should undermine,
		
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			but we don't want that to be the
		
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			only takeaway.
		
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			And at this juncture in our collective
		
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			lives individually,
		
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			you gotta be in a place where you
		
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			have recognition
		
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			of the phases of existence
		
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			in a way that's not just remotely memorized,
		
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			but it informs decisions.
		
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			It plays a role in determining choices
		
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			because where this hadith is gonna end, that
		
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			we'll talk about next time, is gonna be
		
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			about actions
		
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			and deeds.
		
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			Right?
		
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			You live a life that's the life of
		
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			the people of paradise, and at the end
		
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			of it, it's turned away. Right?
		
01:19:22 --> 01:19:25
			Same thing. The opposite is true because it's
		
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			all about actions and deeds.
		
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			How many actions do you undertake
		
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			for the sake of what is outward and
		
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			what is physical
		
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			versus how many are you undertaking for the
		
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			sake of what is inward and what is
		
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			metaphysical.
		
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			Do you get what I mean? Does that
		
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			make sense?
		
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			And then the trick is when you can
		
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			get the inside right, the outside looks so
		
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			different.
		
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			So you don't wanna just find beauty in
		
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			everyone around you,
		
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			but you learn to find beauty in yourself.
		
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			It's not just about having love for others,
		
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			but you also understand the biggest block to
		
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			loving others is that you don't love yourself
		
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			fully.
		
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			And what you need to be able to
		
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			be able to love yourself fully is a
		
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			removal of the things that are layered now
		
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			on the inner self, not on the outer
		
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			self. Outwardly, we all look the way we
		
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			look. That's why some of these things are
		
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			invisible,
		
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			but they're still present. Like, people don't pay
		
01:20:24 --> 01:20:26
			attention to you when you're sad. They're not
		
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			stopping on the street saying, like, are you
		
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			okay? When you're feeling miserable.
		
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			Entire experiences are erased. You know?
		
01:20:34 --> 01:20:36
			Because they're only looking at you from physical
		
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			eyes, not metaphysical eyes.
		
01:20:39 --> 01:20:42
			There's so many hadith where the companions
		
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			are looking agitated
		
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			and the prophet, even before they ask something,
		
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			he's like, what's on your minds?
		
01:20:48 --> 01:20:51
			Because he knows what his people are going
		
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			through. He's connected at a different level. Do
		
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			you know what I mean? So it's not
		
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			just like anxiety
		
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			that's telling me I need to talk to
		
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			you right now, like, tell me what's bothering
		
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			you, but love,
		
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			and it just comes across different.
		
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			Do you know? Because you can't give somebody
		
01:21:07 --> 01:21:09
			something you don't possess in the 1st place,
		
01:21:09 --> 01:21:11
			and you can only give to them what
		
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			you do have in the 1st place. So
		
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			what, like, if we open up your heart
		
01:21:14 --> 01:21:17
			right now, your spiritual heart, what would we
		
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			find inside of it?
		
01:21:20 --> 01:21:23
			In terms of virtue, in terms of vices,
		
01:21:23 --> 01:21:25
			in terms of things that are values and
		
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			things of beauty and things that are like
		
01:21:27 --> 01:21:30
			diseases of the heart. Right? It's not like
		
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			a,
		
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			a thing that we have like, everybody makes
		
01:21:34 --> 01:21:36
			mistakes, and there's stuff that's inside of us
		
01:21:36 --> 01:21:38
			that we didn't put inside of us, but
		
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			it's still there.
		
01:21:39 --> 01:21:42
			So at some juncture, I'd like just figure
		
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			out what are the building blocks of me
		
01:21:44 --> 01:21:47
			and think out, okay, like, well, maybe some
		
01:21:47 --> 01:21:49
			of this sits there cause I'm not actually
		
01:21:49 --> 01:21:51
			looking at this
		
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			through the prism of
		
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			this part of me is actually an important
		
01:21:55 --> 01:21:58
			part of me that existed well before the
		
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			physical part of me existed and is going
		
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			to continue to exist after this entire world
		
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			and everything in it is gone.
		
01:22:05 --> 01:22:08
			Right? That soul, like, still exists. You're created
		
01:22:08 --> 01:22:11
			as a being, but you're created for eternal
		
01:22:11 --> 01:22:12
			existence.
		
01:22:12 --> 01:22:14
			Does does that make sense?
		
01:22:14 --> 01:22:16
			Do you get what I mean? Right? And
		
01:22:16 --> 01:22:18
			what does it look like there? Like, I
		
01:22:18 --> 01:22:20
			don't know, you know, like, we're in our
		
01:22:20 --> 01:22:22
			prime state of existence when we're in Jannah,
		
01:22:22 --> 01:22:24
			may Allah make us people of Jannah. I
		
01:22:24 --> 01:22:26
			told this to people last year, but there's
		
01:22:26 --> 01:22:28
			a brother who's a convert in our community.
		
01:22:28 --> 01:22:31
			They say you're, like, 33, 35 years old
		
01:22:32 --> 01:22:34
			in Jannah. Right? Lunar years, you know.
		
01:22:35 --> 01:22:38
			And he had just turned that age,
		
01:22:38 --> 01:22:40
			and he was like, man, I gotta lose
		
01:22:40 --> 01:22:41
			a lot of weight. I was like, why
		
01:22:41 --> 01:22:42
			he gotta lose a lot of weight? He's
		
01:22:42 --> 01:22:44
			like, because I don't wanna be fat in
		
01:22:44 --> 01:22:45
			Jenna. And I said, what are you talking
		
01:22:45 --> 01:22:47
			about? He's like, well, aren't you gonna be
		
01:22:47 --> 01:22:49
			who you are when you're 33 in Jenna?
		
01:22:49 --> 01:22:50
			I was like, no. That's not what it
		
01:22:50 --> 01:22:53
			means. Like, it's not like the state that
		
01:22:53 --> 01:22:55
			you're in. It's just talking about primacy, like,
		
01:22:55 --> 01:22:57
			when you're, like, kind of at your best.
		
01:22:57 --> 01:22:59
			And he was like, great. Because I'm like
		
01:22:59 --> 01:23:01
			fat right now, and I don't wanna be
		
01:23:01 --> 01:23:03
			fat forever. I was like, good, man. Allah
		
01:23:03 --> 01:23:04
			will make us all pew I would rather
		
01:23:04 --> 01:23:06
			be a fat man in heaven
		
01:23:06 --> 01:23:09
			than, like, a well put together man in
		
01:23:09 --> 01:23:10
			*. Do you know? And that's what you
		
01:23:10 --> 01:23:13
			gotta really think about. Right? Like like, fundamentally,
		
01:23:14 --> 01:23:15
			this is what you have to think about.
		
01:23:15 --> 01:23:16
			Do you know?
		
01:23:16 --> 01:23:19
			How much of dunya is going to be
		
01:23:19 --> 01:23:22
			enough to give up, like, bliss and akhira?
		
01:23:23 --> 01:23:26
			So why why are you giving in
		
01:23:27 --> 01:23:27
			to emotional
		
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			angst
		
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			that validates you talking to people poorly
		
01:23:33 --> 01:23:36
			that makes it seem like it's okay to
		
01:23:36 --> 01:23:37
			gossip about someone.
		
01:23:37 --> 01:23:39
			These are stupid reasons
		
01:23:40 --> 01:23:41
			to bring,
		
01:23:41 --> 01:23:43
			like, detriment to you in the world beyond
		
01:23:43 --> 01:23:45
			this one. Do you know what I mean?
		
01:23:45 --> 01:23:46
			It's, like,
		
01:23:46 --> 01:23:48
			dumb. Do you know? Not that, like, any
		
01:23:48 --> 01:23:50
			Haram makes sense to do
		
01:23:50 --> 01:23:51
			in that sense.
		
01:23:52 --> 01:23:53
			And a lot of people turn to Haram
		
01:23:54 --> 01:23:56
			in the absence of community support
		
01:23:56 --> 01:23:58
			and people, like, giving to them. Which other
		
01:23:58 --> 01:24:01
			things you wanna think about, we all have
		
01:24:01 --> 01:24:02
			a common beginning.
		
01:24:03 --> 01:24:05
			If you don't value your spirit,
		
01:24:06 --> 01:24:09
			you're definitely not gonna value somebody else's spirit,
		
01:24:09 --> 01:24:11
			and then you can only connect
		
01:24:11 --> 01:24:13
			at the level of a shared external.
		
01:24:14 --> 01:24:16
			It's not a sign of strength necessarily
		
01:24:17 --> 01:24:19
			that the only people you're ever comfortable around
		
01:24:20 --> 01:24:21
			are the people that are from the same
		
01:24:21 --> 01:24:24
			village of the same country that your family
		
01:24:24 --> 01:24:26
			came from, and you get thrown into a
		
01:24:26 --> 01:24:27
			conundrum
		
01:24:27 --> 01:24:29
			the minute you're around people that are different
		
01:24:29 --> 01:24:30
			from you,
		
01:24:31 --> 01:24:33
			or that you have to debase people
		
01:24:34 --> 01:24:36
			that come from different walks of life,
		
01:24:36 --> 01:24:39
			claim that they're lacking in comparison to you
		
01:24:40 --> 01:24:42
			is telling you something about the state of
		
01:24:42 --> 01:24:43
			your inside.
		
01:24:43 --> 01:24:45
			It's not strong, it's weak, insecure,
		
01:24:46 --> 01:24:48
			fragile at that point in time. Do you
		
01:24:48 --> 01:24:49
			know?
		
01:24:50 --> 01:24:53
			Okay. So let's do this.
		
01:24:54 --> 01:24:55
			We'll take a pause here.
		
01:24:57 --> 01:24:59
			People wanna take a quick few minutes and
		
01:24:59 --> 01:25:01
			just turn to the people next to you,
		
01:25:01 --> 01:25:03
			what are you taking away from the overall
		
01:25:03 --> 01:25:03
			conversation?
		
01:25:03 --> 01:25:05
			Just for 2, 3 minutes, and we'll come
		
01:25:05 --> 01:25:07
			back and discuss.
		
01:25:07 --> 01:25:09
			My mom is calling me, so that's why
		
01:25:09 --> 01:25:11
			we're gonna pause right now. Then we'll come
		
01:25:11 --> 01:25:12
			back and discuss.
		
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			Islamic Center.
		
01:26:09 --> 01:26:10
			Medium,
		
01:26:10 --> 01:26:11
			small, medium.
		
01:26:15 --> 01:26:15
			Medium.
		
01:26:23 --> 01:26:25
			It. But at the back of a kernel.
		
01:26:26 --> 01:26:27
			K.
		
01:26:58 --> 01:26:59
			Happen
		
01:27:26 --> 01:27:27
			Okay.
		
01:27:28 --> 01:27:30
			So just as we're wrapping up, what are
		
01:27:30 --> 01:27:32
			some of the takeaways from the conversation overall?
		
01:27:33 --> 01:27:36
			Anything coming up for people who are standing
		
01:27:36 --> 01:27:37
			out?
		
01:27:38 --> 01:27:39
			Yeah. I think,
		
01:27:40 --> 01:27:42
			the end of the last portion of the
		
01:27:42 --> 01:27:45
			hadith, I think I think I see that,
		
01:27:45 --> 01:27:47
			of course, prayer is our guard.
		
01:27:48 --> 01:27:48
			You know?
		
01:27:49 --> 01:27:50
			Prayer is our guard from,
		
01:27:52 --> 01:27:52
			reaching
		
01:27:53 --> 01:27:54
			Jahannam or *
		
01:27:54 --> 01:27:56
			Fire with as well where
		
01:27:57 --> 01:28:00
			it is our obligation to continue to
		
01:28:00 --> 01:28:01
			learn more
		
01:28:02 --> 01:28:03
			of the deed, making that connection,
		
01:28:04 --> 01:28:06
			especially with, you know, for me,
		
01:28:06 --> 01:28:07
			about
		
01:28:07 --> 01:28:09
			as well, you know, the soul and making
		
01:28:09 --> 01:28:12
			that connection between physical self and,
		
01:28:13 --> 01:28:14
			metaphysical
		
01:28:14 --> 01:28:17
			self and and the. You know? Just to
		
01:28:17 --> 01:28:18
			acknowledge that and help
		
01:28:19 --> 01:28:20
			individually
		
01:28:20 --> 01:28:22
			acknowledge that and help brothers and sisters even
		
01:28:22 --> 01:28:24
			at younger age as you mentioned is your
		
01:28:24 --> 01:28:25
			son,
		
01:28:26 --> 01:28:28
			For them to acknowledge that and give them
		
01:28:28 --> 01:28:30
			that spiritual growth is very important.
		
01:28:33 --> 01:28:36
			Yeah. Exactly. Okay. Other thoughts? Other things we're
		
01:28:36 --> 01:28:36
			taking away?
		
01:28:39 --> 01:28:41
			Because that's what we're sanctifying. Right? When we're
		
01:28:41 --> 01:28:43
			sanctifying human life.
		
01:28:44 --> 01:28:46
			When people put conditions on, we will only
		
01:28:46 --> 01:28:47
			sanctify
		
01:28:47 --> 01:28:50
			people of this skin color, people of this
		
01:28:50 --> 01:28:50
			complexion,
		
01:28:51 --> 01:28:52
			people of this country,
		
01:28:52 --> 01:28:54
			people of this background.
		
01:28:55 --> 01:28:56
			They're failing to recognize
		
01:28:56 --> 01:29:00
			we all have, like, this shared humanity
		
01:29:00 --> 01:29:02
			that's rooted in
		
01:29:03 --> 01:29:04
			this experience of
		
01:29:05 --> 01:29:06
			having these spirits.
		
01:29:06 --> 01:29:07
			Do you know?
		
01:29:08 --> 01:29:11
			And there's a dignity that's shared within this
		
01:29:12 --> 01:29:12
			experientially.
		
01:29:13 --> 01:29:15
			But if you don't ever think about those
		
01:29:15 --> 01:29:16
			parts of yourself,
		
01:29:16 --> 01:29:18
			you're not then thinking about these parts within
		
01:29:18 --> 01:29:21
			other people or honoring them through those ways
		
01:29:22 --> 01:29:24
			or recognizing it through that. Do you see?
		
01:29:25 --> 01:29:28
			Okay. So let's do this. We'll take a
		
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			pause here. Just a quick reminder,
		
01:29:30 --> 01:29:33
			doctor Ali Mermur will have his helika tomorrow,
		
01:29:33 --> 01:29:34
			Tuesday.
		
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			The building closes tomorrow at 8 PM,
		
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			and then it's gonna be closed Wednesday Thursday.
		
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			We're gonna be open for Jummah on Friday.
		
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			The building will be open from 12 to
		
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			4.
		
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			We'll have lunch after. We'll pray,
		
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			probably around, like, 3, 3:30,
		
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			and then ask people to kinda head out
		
01:29:53 --> 01:29:54
			of the space.
		
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			It'll close before mug group time. So just
		
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			keep that in mind.
		
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			If anyone's around on Friday,
		
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			it's just gonna be Khalid and I,
		
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			like, hear from our staff. So we can
		
01:30:04 --> 01:30:06
			come, help set up, help clean up, we'd
		
01:30:06 --> 01:30:08
			appreciate it. And also just be in the
		
01:30:08 --> 01:30:10
			space. Typically on holidays,
		
01:30:11 --> 01:30:12
			we get as many people as we do
		
01:30:12 --> 01:30:14
			during the rest of the,
		
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			you know, year,
		
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			because different people show up also.
		
01:30:19 --> 01:30:21
			You know, people are off from school, so
		
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			bring their children. Families will come.
		
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			People who are visiting the city, they've heard
		
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			about the IC.
		
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			Like, they'll come for Joma.
		
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			So it'd be amazing that when they come,
		
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			they have a great experience if it's, like,
		
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			one of their only times coming.
		
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			So as many of us can be around
		
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			to help and welcome people in, that would
		
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			be great.
		
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			And then after that, the building will be
		
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			closed through the weekend and resume on Monday.
		
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			As normal hours of operation.
		
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			We have registration open for our Umrah trip.
		
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			I know some of you are gonna be
		
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			joining us.
		
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			The rest of you are interested
		
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			or you know people who'll be interested. We're
		
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			gonna go from January 3rd to 12th.
		
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			We do 4 days in Medina and then
		
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			4 days in Mecca.
		
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			Just definitely try to come.
		
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			This year, we're trying to keep it a
		
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			little smaller than previous years. Last year, we
		
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			took 200 people, which is really nice, but
		
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			everyone didn't get to meet everyone else.
		
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			So I think we're limiting it
		
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			to 80 people
		
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			or so for this year,
		
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			just so we can kinda create more of
		
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			that cohesion in the group, which means also
		
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			we're not, like,
		
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			unlimited in seats.
		
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			So if you can apply sooner than later
		
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			or tell,
		
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			people that you know who might be interested
		
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			to apply,
		
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			just so we can kinda get it squared
		
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			away. We do a lot of prep sessions
		
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			in advance. There's a lot of guided tours
		
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			that we do.
		
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			We do halakas after Fajr, after Isha.
		
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			It's a little different from, like, what other
		
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			experiences
		
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			are like.
		
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			So recommend coming if you can or letting
		
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			people know to join as well.
		
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			And then next week, we'll have all of
		
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			our normal programs that we normally do,
		
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			plus some
		
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			one off programs that we're doing. We're gonna
		
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			be starting
		
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			again with our professional groups meeting.
		
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			So we have a meetup planned
		
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			in the 1st week of December.
		
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			I think we have something planned
		
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			for the IC Professionals group.
		
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			We're gonna have a black Muslim meetup in
		
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			addition
		
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			to our monthly Latino Muslim meetup.
		
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			We're gonna do a dinner for a convert
		
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			community.
		
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			So it'll be different things happening
		
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			that you could definitely avail yourselves of,
		
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			and we'll be advertising all of that, in
		
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			the coming week as well.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So we prayed Isha before we started,
		
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			just so people know. If you could help,
		
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			just put the chairs back,
		
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			and we'll see everyone
		
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			next Monday.