Khalid Latif – Imam Nawawis 40 Hadith for Modern Times #09

Khalid Latif
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The discussion of the 4th hadith collection highlights the importance of identifying the creator's image and image of himself in the media and the media's image of him. The afterlife is a process of transition from existence to the next stage of existence, and the day of judgment is a time for rest. valuing oneself is a removal of things in the internal and metaphysical self, and the removal of things in the external world is necessary to love oneself fully. A meeting with a black-romgage conversion community and a dinner for a convert community are also mentioned.
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So we are looking at the 4th hadith

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of the 40 hadith collection of Imam Nawawi.

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So if you wanna pull it up on

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a phone,

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laptop, whatever you might have,

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this is narrated by the companion, Abdullah ibn

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Masood

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Radialahu

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An,

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who we talked about last week

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a bit.

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And the hadith quite often is focused on

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concepts of embryology and fate.

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And so just while we're pulling it up,

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to recap, we started talking about it last

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week, and we got into a discussion on

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who Abdullah bin Masood is,

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companion of the prophet of God,

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He was one of the first people to

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convert to Islam in the Meccan society.

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He came from a low

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social class.

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He was black.

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He

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was amongst those who are deeply persecuted

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in the early period of the Meccan society.

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He was the first person to publicly recite

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Quran in Mecca, and he had volunteered to

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do it in front of the Kaaba.

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He recited Surat Al Rahman,

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and they just started beating him while he

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was reciting.

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And people asked him why would you do

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this, and he said I would do it

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again if I needed to.

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Physically, he had a very kinda small physical

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stature.

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He was skinny. He was small.

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There

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were people who would treat him poorly for

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all of these reasons. Right? If you come

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on Wednesday to the Sierra class that we

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do, and we talked about Meccan society,

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kinda how it's formulated,

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challenges in a very stratified society

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around race, class, gender,

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where lineage is very important,

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where

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you

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have no sense of accountability because the theology

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has no afterlife to it. So you just

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do whatever you want to if this is

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all that you got going on is in

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this world.

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And Abdul ibn Mas'ud, he's,

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like, in the midst of all of this.

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Right?

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We talked about also

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why it's important for us to recognize that

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the prophet, peace be upon him, had senior

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companions who were black.

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And quite often, we don't get taught this

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when we're learning the stories of the companions.

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Or even in relation to this hadith

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that's talking about

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phases of embryology, it's talking about other

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divine decree.

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You know, how does

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Abdul ibn Masood

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being

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a

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young man

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who converts to Islam early on,

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faces this persecution,

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has parents who are stricken by poverty,

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He

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himself is

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black,

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comes from low income background,

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and he's

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telling people this hadith

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that all of us are created from a

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similar beginning.

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And all of these things are decreed by

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God.

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Right? And what does this mean when we're

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feeding into it now? Recognition also

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of the person who's narrating

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the hadith and the words of the prophet

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of God and how it turns things upside

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down in a lot of different ways. Abdul

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Masud is no joke as a person. Right?

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He goes to Kufa.

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He is heavily influential

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of the development of the Hanafi school of

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thought. It's a major legal school,

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within the 4 legal schools of Sunni Islam.

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The prophet alaihi salam describes him as somebody

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that you should learn Quran from,

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you know, and he's a young black man

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who doesn't have a lot of money.

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And it's not taught to us always these

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things, then we can't, like, understand

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necessarily also certain things that are important

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in terms

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of where and how Islam teaches us to

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have reverence

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and deference to people of all backgrounds.

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Because, you know, my family is from the

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Indian subcontinent.

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There's a good chance if you are from

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Pakistan,

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in this room

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or like from that part of the world

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that you practice Hanafi fiqh, right?

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They're not teaching people that one of the

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influencers of Hanafi fic in the Indian subcontinent.

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They're not teaching us that

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it was heavily influenced by a young black

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man

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in Pakistan,

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like, you know, I can say it's because

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I'm Pakistani, right? But like, they live in

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this world where it's all about kinda skin

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whitening cream,

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the realities of being colonized,

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where you seek validation

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from whiteness and supremacist

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systems.

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There's

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these kind of consequences,

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you know. It permeates other cultures as well,

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but can you imagine how it would be

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different

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if in religious gatherings,

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people were teaching,

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like, these facets of religion also

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that are there. They're not made up, you

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know. Abu al ibn Musud, his students

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described him,

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as being somebody who wears hair and braids.

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Do you know what I mean? Right? When

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you try to

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conceptualize

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a companion of the prophet of God in

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your head, whatever you would think somebody who's

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living in Mecca

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or Medina looks like, does your mind conceptualize

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a black man with braids in his hair,

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you know?

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And he's one of the 4 people that

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the prophet said to learn Quran from.

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Someone lost their phone.

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Is anybody

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losing their phone?

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Zoya is calling you right now. Does this

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look familiar?

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Anybody? Yeah.

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Why is it there? Why is it there?

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It's found out there. It's found outside. Okay.

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Is it yours? Up here. Yeah.

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Sorry. I didn't pick up when she called.

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No. That's correct.

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Oh, great.

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Sorry about that. I'm glad we found it

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under the roof.

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So we wanna think about this

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because,

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Abdulayman, he doesn't also narrate thousands of hadith.

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He narrates,

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like, about 809100

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hadith. You know, Quran is something he's more

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associated with.

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And it's not that, like,

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the companions narrated every single thing that they

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heard from the like, each companion doesn't say,

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here's every single thing that I heard from

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the prophet of God. Do you know? So

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why are they continuing to pass on the

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things that they're passing on? It's not selective

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in those ways, but in being able to

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understand,

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like, as we read through the text of

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this, what are we extrapolating from it? Okay.

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So just so we get into it,

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I don't know what's wrong with me. I

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think I'm getting sick. So just so you

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know, if things come out and they don't

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sound like they make sense, just tell me.

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Because my head's getting a little stuffy right

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now. I think I just need to get

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some some, like, vitamin c. I was eating

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a lot of gross foods the last few

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days,

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and that's probably what it is. My body

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is reminding me I'm not 5 years old

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anymore.

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So can somebody read the hadith,

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in English or in Arabic? It's the 4th

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hadith, Imam Nawi's hadith

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in that collection.

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Does anyone have it?

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Hadith number 4. Right? These are by the

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final actions? Yep.

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On the authority of Allah in the Masjid,

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may Allah be pleased with

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him, who said the messenger of Allah, peace

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be upon him,

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and he is the truthful

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and the believed

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narrated to us.

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Rarely the creation of each one of you

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is brought together in his mother's womb

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for 40 days in the form of a

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drop,

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then he becomes a clot of blood for

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a light period,

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then a morsel

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of flesh

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for like, period.

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And then there is sent to him the

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angel

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who blows the breath of life

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into him

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and who is commended

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and who is commended

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with 4 matters

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to write down his trustence,

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his lifespan,

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his actions,

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and whether he will be happy or unhappy,

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whether or not he will enter paradise.

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By Allah, other than whom there is no

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deity,

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rarely one of you performs

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the actions of the people of paradise

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until

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there is but an arm's length

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between him and it.

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And that which has been written overtakes him

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and he

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and so he acts

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with actions of the people

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of the hellfire,

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and thus enters it. And rarely one of

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you performs

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the actions of the people of hellfire

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until there is but an arm's length

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between him and it,

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and that which

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has been written overtakes him.

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And so he acts with the actions

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of the people of paradise,

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and thus, he enters

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it. Bukhari Muslim.

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Great.

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Yeah. Does anybody wanna read the Arabic?

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Yeah. Go ahead.

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So just a couple of things, and as

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we go through this over the course of

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however many Mondays we stay with this text,

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like, you wanna try to memorize parts of

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the hadith.

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The prophet, alaihi, alaihi, sallam, is an amazing

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communicator.

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You know, his words are described as being

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in nature

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that they're not excessive or superfluous,

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but each word

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is something that has deep impact, concise statements.

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But also in many of these hadith,

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what we're learning is actually like the exact

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words that the prophet said. There's to this

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as well and just engaging the hadith, reading

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from the hadith.

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Some of the etiquettes of it similar to,

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you know, how we're taught chronologically

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to not be raising our voices in the

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presence of the prophet of God. Right? That

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we want to be in a place as

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hadith are narrated and read. We're just giving

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our attentiveness to them. You know, the way

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that you would kinda conceptualize or envision

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that the messenger is actually standing in front

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of you saying these things. What kind of

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deference would you be engaged in or kinda

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and you're listening to this. Right? So it's

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not just hearing,

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but actual active listening in that capacity.

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So today, we wanna kinda think about this

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hadith,

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pass the part

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where,

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Abdul ibn Mas'ud, he describes the prophet as

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being Sadiq and Masduk.

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Right? The trustworthy one and the one who

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is trusted.

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So he spoke truth and people believed

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him, you know, and these are not, like,

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small things.

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Right? We talked about this a lot in

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terms of character last week and even in

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reference to the world that surround us. Like,

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literally, all day, we're bombarded by lies

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constantly. Like, everybody's lying. You know? It's like

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the point. We're like, I don't even know

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who to believe anymore and how much that

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creates chaos inside that you walk into a

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space and

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it can be physical or virtual, and it's

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I don't know if these people who

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I don't know if these people who,

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you know, are my friends, quote unquote, are

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my followers

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for these things

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that I, like, can trust them in what

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I'm about to say. What if I say

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this and somebody does this? What if I

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say that? You can imagine

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that people just found

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a sense of rest

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in the presence of the messenger of God,

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alaihis salam.

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Right? That they knew he was attentive,

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he was listening,

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but he wasn't just someone who spoke truth

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with his words.

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His actions, his demeanor

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were reflective of what it was that he

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was espousing.

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Do you know?

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You know, the Quran asked, why do you

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say that which you don't do? There's no

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application

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of this. Right? And if you came on

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Wednesday

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to the Sierra class, we're talking about the

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prophet as a business person,

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and,

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oh, thanks, man. Why is everybody being so

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nice? Do I look miserable right now? Is

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that is that what it is? Yeah.

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Is that closer?

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You you're in a place where, you know,

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we talked about last week in our class,

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which isn't happening this Wednesday, by the way.

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The building's gonna be closed. They changed the

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days that the building is open on Friday

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after we met last Wednesday.

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So

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this is the they're locking the building on

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Wednesday. Everybody's getting the day off at the

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university.

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But we talked about him being a business

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person and shifting into an entrepreneurial pursuit,

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and, you know, there's nothing without meaning in

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Allah's plan. So why is the prophet being

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sent to Sham to do these trade routes

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and all of these other things? And people

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gave a lot of different answers that were

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all amazing. But we said too,

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when he became the prophet at 40 years

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of age, he lived for 40 years, and

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he didn't, like, just live in his house

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in Mecca, but he went to the Banusad.

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He went to Medina. He went to Sham.

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He went to all these people. He had

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business transactions with individuals.

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It wasn't that he was an unknown person,

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he's the grandson of Abdul Motalib,

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Like people know him and his lineage

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and nobody

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from his

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adversaries

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to even just like acquaintances

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could come and say, this man ever did

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anything dishonest.

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They couldn't say, in any of these interactions,

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you shouldn't believe he's a prophet

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because he did this one thing this one

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time.

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His honesty just permeated

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his

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character, his decisions,

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his interactions.

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It's crazy.

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Like, how

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remarkable

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this is

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and how it is manifest in one person

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just especially if you deal with people. Right?

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I sit with people all the time who

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tell me stuff about their life. You know?

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And

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there's a lot of, like, terrible human beings

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in the world. Right? May Allah protect us

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from them and protect us from ever becoming

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them. Do you know? And you gotta be

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wary of these things because the minute you

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start to tell yourself

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that I'm not capable of doing something, that's

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where Shaitan's got you. You know? The prophet

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was

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a Sadiq.

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He was the trustworthy one.

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Masduk,

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he was they believed him, like people trusted

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him. You know? May Allah make us like

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this. So this is what Abdul ibn Masood

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is

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before he gets into the text of it.

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We talked about it briefly last week. If

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you missed it, you can find it on

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the podcast. So we wanna get into the

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actual,

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now kinda text of the Hadith, the mutton

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of the Hadith, where the onset

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is talking about things that are relevant to

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these characteristics of truthfulness and trustworthiness

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because

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this initial part of the hadith is a

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firmic, Quranic revelation

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that also speaks about embryology

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at a time where people don't have any

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insight on how embryology functions.

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So the

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idea is that

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it's just true because God and his messenger

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said it's true.

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We're gonna talk about that in a little

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bit, but I want us to talk first

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about other elements of things that go on.

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And what's happening here beyond the science of

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it is giving us an understanding

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of how every single person that comes into

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existence

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enters into

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a worldly sphere of life.

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Do you know?

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In order for us to understand this, we

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gotta understand what's happening prior to, as well

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as what's coming thereafter.

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So

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what is happening at a 120

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days in this hadith?

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The soul is being breathed into the fetus.

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Where is this soul before this?

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Where is it?

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With a love. But where? Like, where is

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this soul?

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Yeah.

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Like, in this

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the the soul word. Like Yeah. Right? The

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abode of the,

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like all the souls, the individual

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that you have, it didn't come into existence

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at the moment it's introduced into the fetus.

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Right? It existed prior to,

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and this is just this introduction into the

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world.

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So every soul exists

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prior

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to entrance into this world. This is what

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our

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theology teaches us

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that we are created beings.

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And so first phase of existence,

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if we had a whiteboard here, I would

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write on it, but I'm not getting up

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because I'm tired.

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So think about my table

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as, like, the lifespan

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of your soul. You know? It's great that

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we have this date and these cups of

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stuff now because I could use them.

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So say up until this mic

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is

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the existence

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of

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your soul

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prior to entering the womb. The abode of

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the.

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This is where your soul is prior to.

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Every soul is there. Right?

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Is a chronic verse.

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All of the progeny of Adam is gathered

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together.

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Am I not your lord? Allah asks everyone.

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The verse says,

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that, yes, we bear witness to this. This

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is the covenant.

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Now

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you have interactions with people. This is why,

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like, we're taught, for example, if you just

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vibe really well with somebody in this world,

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there's a good chance your souls were close

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to each other when you're here in the

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abode of the Adwa. Do you know what

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I mean?

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If you also do not get along so

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well do you guys get along really well?

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You just gave each other a pow? Yeah.

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Amazing. Great.

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So if you don't like like, someone's just

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annoying to you, which is a thing. You

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don't have to like everyone to respect them.

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Means all of the children of Adam are

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dignified.

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I can respect you and still find you

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to be irritating.

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Right? I don't find any of you irritating.

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You're all great.

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You don't have to like me to respect

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me,

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but

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by virtue of what we're talking about right

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now,

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if you don't really get along with somebody

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you've never met, and you're like, I don't

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they're annoying to me. I don't really like

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them so much. The same way, you just

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click with somebody, and there's a chance your

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souls were close to each other. You're also

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in a place where you might have not

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had that kind of proximity,

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but there was distance that was there. You

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just didn't get along so well with somebody.

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Do you know? So you're going from the

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abode of the,

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and now what the hadith is saying is

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you go from there

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and you're

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in the womb.

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This is a state of existence,

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the ra'am.

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The hadith uses the word batan,

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which means belly

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in Arabic. Right? It's the same thing. Right?

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The womb is not in your mother's hand.

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It's in her stomach. Do you know?

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So the soul comes into the button,

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the rahem.

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The rahem, it has the same root as

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rahma,

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mercy, compassion.

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Right? And this is the idea. Right? If

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you've ever just thought about the way a

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woman gets pregnant I don't know if anybody

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thinks I don't think about. I don't sit

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at home and think about how women get

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pregnant in that way. Right? But what's happening

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when someone gets pregnant? Like, their stomach gets

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bigger. Right? So the Rahem is giving this

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illustration

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that mercy is meant to be expansive, not

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restrictive.

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As the fetus grows,

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so to the womb grows. The Rahim as

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an extension of Ar Rahman,

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it's giving us this idea

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that mercy and compassion

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kind of extends with life. It's not meant

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to be restrictive.

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Do you see what I mean? So you're

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in the womb,

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right, for however many weeks, months.

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9 months is like the general,

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some people less, some people more,

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But the soul is breathed

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in. That's his interjection into the womb.

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From this,

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you have now,

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like, a time in dunya.

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Right? Let's say, here is dunya, the cup

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of water.

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Dunya is going to have phases of existence.

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None of us in the room right now

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are babies.

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Right? Are any of you babies?

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No. You're not. Right?

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All of you exist right now in the

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materialistic

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world. Okay? If the water is too transparent

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to see, let's say the date

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is Dunya.

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Okay? Can everybody see what I'm doing here,

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or is this camera in the way? Yeah?

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Good. The date is dunya.

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The starting point is when you're a baby.

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The end point is when you're an elder.

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While we are here,

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there's still souls that are here.

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Right?

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Because if a baby is born a week

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from now, it's got the soul in the

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fetus.

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If a baby is born a year from

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now, that fetus doesn't exist abnormally

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longer than the typical fetus,

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so that soul is still over here.

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Right?

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It didn't stop existing. The abode of the

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after you were breathed into the fetus,

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but those souls are still there. The idea

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is to think bigger than yourself

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because there are tons of souls that still

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haven't come into the womb yet, let alone

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here.

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Some people, they're gonna get to

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infancy,

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and that's gonna be the the extent of

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their life in this world. Some people are

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going to get to

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being

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children,

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adolescents,

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teenagers,

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young adults,

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adulthood,

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or being like

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really old,

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but death

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is the mechanism

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of transition

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from this existence to the next.

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So you go from here

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by being blown into here,

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and then mothers

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give birth into here,

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and then death

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is a means to something. It's not an

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ends. And what it's a means to is

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going to be what is this next phase

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of existence, which is the barzakh,

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the intermediary

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realm.

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This is the grave. May Allah grant us

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ease in the grave and grant our loved

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ones. We're in the grave ease.

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But this is the next phase of existence.

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It's a place that is impacted by how

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you live in this world.

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So for people who did good in this

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world,

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their time in the grave

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is something that's also easy, place of illumination,

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whatever else. When the soul is removed from

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the body,

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that's what's happening. The angel of death is

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coming. This is what this hadith talks about

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in terms of fate and decree.

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So you're not in a state where that

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pulling is done with ease.

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There's some

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challenge there for some. For others, it's a

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little bit more facilitated.

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But when everybody is buried, the ground essentially

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squeezes the person.

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Right?

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And you're in the grave.

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People who are good people, they say

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the grave is a, you know, price

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where it's restful,

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the equivalent of, like, a newlywed couple

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sleeping on their 1st night as husband and

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wife. The rest in the grave is like

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the way that they would rest, you know.

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For people who did not live well, it's

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a place of agitation,

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a place of difficulty. Right? May Allah make

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it a place of light for us. But

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this is another phase of existence. We could

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talk about all these things in detail. We're

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not going to because that's not the point

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of this halakah. But just for us to

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understand conceptually,

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this hadith, you can't understand it in a

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vacuum fully because it's giving us insight into

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certain things. From the Barzakh now, there's resurrection,

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and you have now a day of judgment.

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This day of judgment,

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everybody

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is there as well. So why it takes

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so long? Right? Because all of us think

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about how many people in New York City

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there are right now on the street.

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This is like a an iota of the

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number of people that exist. So why is

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the day of judgment so long? Because there's

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so many people that everybody is taking into

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account

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for everything,

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like all of the stuff that they have,

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all the stuff that they did, all the

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stuff that they didn't do, but they could

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have done. Like, all of it is in

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the prism of judgment.

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So this is going to be

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where people are resurrected

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from their graves, and they are resurrected on

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the day of judgment. The day of judgment

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is just that. It's a day of judgment.

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There's nothing else that it is. You are

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judged based off of your actions

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in this world.

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Right?

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And then from there,

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you have the rest of the table

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until that wall,

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as far as you can go, that's eternal

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existence.

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We are created beings,

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but we were made for eternal existence.

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So you want to visualize as best as

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you can.

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Right?

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How much is this

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in comparison to everything else?

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It's nothing

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in comparison to everything else.

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But the trick that we fall into

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is not only

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is it

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unnecessarily

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magnified,

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it's seen as the only thing.

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This

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is just a drop in the bucket in

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terms of what eternal existence means.

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So don't live just for this,

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and understand how it's related

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to everything that comes

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prior to and after the fact.

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If we were to start adopting characteristics

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now

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relevant to the frames of existence

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that our souls go through,

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the abode of the Arwa,

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this is where you are in the beginning.

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It's your creating point.

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The Rahim, it's an abode of mercy.

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The first place Allah puts you before you

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leave from the place of the souls

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is a

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home of mercy,

00:28:41 --> 00:28:42

the Rahim.

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He's looking for reasons for you to succeed.

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You're in dunya for a little bit of

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time.

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Dunya

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is the place of decision making and actions.

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You cannot

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act in the womb.

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You cannot take actions in the abode of

00:29:02 --> 00:29:03

the.

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You can only act and choose choices

00:29:06 --> 00:29:07

in dunya.

00:29:08 --> 00:29:10

You get into the barzakh,

00:29:10 --> 00:29:12

the intermediary realm,

00:29:13 --> 00:29:15

you can't do anything there. It's a place

00:29:15 --> 00:29:17

of rest, a place of slumber. Look at

00:29:17 --> 00:29:20

how exhausting the world is. Right? May Allah

00:29:20 --> 00:29:21

grant us ease.

00:29:26 --> 00:29:28

As the Quran says. Right?

00:29:28 --> 00:29:31

That after you have exhausted yourself,

00:29:31 --> 00:29:33

like, then you, like, put in the work.

00:29:33 --> 00:29:34

You know what I mean? Right?

00:29:35 --> 00:29:36

You wanna get to a place

00:29:37 --> 00:29:39

where it's a place of actual

00:29:39 --> 00:29:40

restful slumber

00:29:41 --> 00:29:44

based off of what's happening here, but that's

00:29:44 --> 00:29:46

what this is. It's a place of rest.

00:29:47 --> 00:29:48

Like, you can't do anything there.

00:29:49 --> 00:29:51

The place that you can do stuff is

00:29:51 --> 00:29:52

here in the dunya.

00:29:53 --> 00:29:56

You cannot do anything after you leave dunya.

00:29:56 --> 00:29:58

No more choices. No more actions.

00:29:58 --> 00:30:01

The people in Dunya can do for you.

00:30:01 --> 00:30:03

That's why we are described

00:30:03 --> 00:30:06

as one of the things that benefits the

00:30:06 --> 00:30:07

deceased after they leave.

00:30:08 --> 00:30:11

Knowledge that they pass on, an ongoing charity,

00:30:12 --> 00:30:14

and a believing child that prays for them.

00:30:14 --> 00:30:18

Right? So you have impact on what happens

00:30:18 --> 00:30:19

thereafter

00:30:19 --> 00:30:21

for yourself as well as for others.

00:30:22 --> 00:30:24

None of you play for my great grandparents.

00:30:25 --> 00:30:27

That doesn't mean you're bad people, but why

00:30:27 --> 00:30:28

in your consciousness

00:30:28 --> 00:30:30

would you be thinking about my ancestors?

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There's only certain people's names that you know

00:30:34 --> 00:30:35

that exist.

00:30:36 --> 00:30:38

If you're not making to offer them, who's

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making to offer them?

00:30:41 --> 00:30:42

And if you don't have a reason to

00:30:42 --> 00:30:44

get up to pray for yourself,

00:30:44 --> 00:30:46

you're not getting up to pray for the

00:30:46 --> 00:30:49

people that struggled for you and sacrificed for

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you, so you could be sitting with a

00:30:51 --> 00:30:54

multimillion dollar view in the middle of Manhattan.

00:30:55 --> 00:30:55

Like,

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that's what it is.

00:30:58 --> 00:31:00

You get to the day of judgment.

00:31:01 --> 00:31:02

The day of judgment

00:31:02 --> 00:31:04

is about accountability.

00:31:05 --> 00:31:07

Also not a place where you can take

00:31:07 --> 00:31:07

actions.

00:31:09 --> 00:31:11

So you can't say to Allah, let me

00:31:11 --> 00:31:13

go back and pray a couple of extra

00:31:13 --> 00:31:14

rakaz that I missed.

00:31:14 --> 00:31:16

Let me go give that charity that I

00:31:16 --> 00:31:17

should've given.

00:31:17 --> 00:31:19

Let me go seek forgiveness from the one

00:31:19 --> 00:31:22

that I wronged. Let me go apologize for

00:31:22 --> 00:31:24

the lies that I told, the gossiping that

00:31:24 --> 00:31:27

I engaged in. Let me go try to

00:31:27 --> 00:31:29

fix the messes that I make or engage

00:31:29 --> 00:31:31

in acts of kindness and beauty. Just give

00:31:31 --> 00:31:34

me a little bit more time. There's people

00:31:34 --> 00:31:35

who are going to come on the day

00:31:35 --> 00:31:38

of judgment. Forget about having books that are

00:31:38 --> 00:31:40

filled with all kinds of challenging things or

00:31:40 --> 00:31:43

whatever else. The angels are gonna come to

00:31:43 --> 00:31:43

them,

00:31:44 --> 00:31:46

and their books are gonna have nothing in

00:31:46 --> 00:31:46

it.

00:31:47 --> 00:31:48

And they're gonna say to them, how long

00:31:48 --> 00:31:50

did you live in this world?

00:31:51 --> 00:31:53

And in that moment, they're gonna be, like,

00:31:53 --> 00:31:55

looking in their books and saying, maybe a

00:31:55 --> 00:31:57

day, maybe half a day,

00:31:57 --> 00:31:59

because they did nothing.

00:31:59 --> 00:32:01

It wasn't even that they did wrong

00:32:01 --> 00:32:03

or right

00:32:03 --> 00:32:06

in a they did nothing with their time.

00:32:06 --> 00:32:08

There's nothing written in the book,

00:32:09 --> 00:32:11

and then you can't do anything when you're

00:32:11 --> 00:32:12

on the day of judgment.

00:32:13 --> 00:32:15

That's just when you're taking into account for

00:32:15 --> 00:32:17

what you did. It's not the place of

00:32:17 --> 00:32:20

doing. The place of doing is here where

00:32:20 --> 00:32:21

we're at right now.

00:32:22 --> 00:32:25

And then after that is eternal existence. May

00:32:25 --> 00:32:26

Allah make us people of Jannah.

00:32:27 --> 00:32:28

The whole idea

00:32:29 --> 00:32:30

when you are here

00:32:30 --> 00:32:32

is to not live

00:32:32 --> 00:32:33

in pursuit

00:32:34 --> 00:32:34

of Jannah

00:32:35 --> 00:32:38

or to live in avoidance of Jahannam.

00:32:39 --> 00:32:41

The whole idea when you're here is to

00:32:41 --> 00:32:44

just live in pursuit of the pleasure of

00:32:44 --> 00:32:44

the divine.

00:32:45 --> 00:32:48

And then Allah in his infinite wisdom is

00:32:48 --> 00:32:49

gonna decide where we end up.

00:32:51 --> 00:32:53

But if you live for Jannah

00:32:53 --> 00:32:55

or you live in avoidance of Jahannam,

00:32:56 --> 00:32:58

that's not the same as living

00:32:58 --> 00:33:00

to build a relationship with the creator of

00:33:00 --> 00:33:03

jannah and jahannam, which can do nothing to

00:33:03 --> 00:33:05

you other than what Allah wills for it

00:33:05 --> 00:33:06

to do.

00:33:08 --> 00:33:09

So I want you to think for a

00:33:09 --> 00:33:11

minute as we're looking at this hadith about

00:33:11 --> 00:33:14

its relevance to us, because we'll talk about

00:33:14 --> 00:33:17

it in terms of the thick of abortion

00:33:17 --> 00:33:20

and, like, medicinal practices and whatever else.

00:33:20 --> 00:33:21

But

00:33:22 --> 00:33:24

for all of us, we gotta understand this

00:33:24 --> 00:33:25

foundational part.

00:33:26 --> 00:33:27

You are not the body

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30

that exists in this worldly existence.

00:33:31 --> 00:33:33

You are the soul that was breathed into

00:33:33 --> 00:33:34

the womb

00:33:34 --> 00:33:37

that came from the abode of the souls,

00:33:37 --> 00:33:40

that is now traversing this worldly plane with

00:33:40 --> 00:33:42

this vessel that is physical,

00:33:43 --> 00:33:44

that is going to return back to the

00:33:44 --> 00:33:47

earth that it came from, and then the

00:33:47 --> 00:33:50

movement forward is going to continue to be

00:33:50 --> 00:33:51

of the souls.

00:33:52 --> 00:33:54

So here is where we want to think

00:33:54 --> 00:33:55

that Allah

00:33:56 --> 00:33:59

took us in our celestial state and breathe

00:33:59 --> 00:34:01

us. We have been breathed

00:34:01 --> 00:34:05

into the womb in a physical state. So

00:34:05 --> 00:34:08

there's a relationship now between what is physical

00:34:08 --> 00:34:09

and metaphysical

00:34:09 --> 00:34:11

at the very onset of our creation,

00:34:12 --> 00:34:14

where we now have movement forward,

00:34:15 --> 00:34:17

what do we do with these

00:34:19 --> 00:34:20

souls that we have?

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

How much of the day, the week?

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

All of you are created from a common

00:34:26 --> 00:34:26

beginning.

00:34:27 --> 00:34:29

You go 40 days here to 40 days

00:34:29 --> 00:34:31

here to 40 days here, and then the

00:34:31 --> 00:34:33

soul comes in. That's you.

00:34:34 --> 00:34:35

You're the soul.

00:34:36 --> 00:34:38

You're not the lump of flesh alone

00:34:38 --> 00:34:39

that is cultivated

00:34:40 --> 00:34:41

in the womb.

00:34:43 --> 00:34:45

Then you move forward now in this existence,

00:34:46 --> 00:34:47

having a worldly experience

00:34:48 --> 00:34:50

as a celestial created

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

entity.

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

Where does it get lost in the mix?

00:34:56 --> 00:34:58

The focus now that is purely on the

00:34:58 --> 00:34:59

physical

00:35:00 --> 00:35:01

rather than the metaphysical,

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

and it's not an either or, but it's

00:35:03 --> 00:35:04

a both end.

00:35:05 --> 00:35:07

The Hadith is telling us through the prism

00:35:07 --> 00:35:08

of embryology,

00:35:08 --> 00:35:10

you have parts that are physical

00:35:10 --> 00:35:12

and you have parts that are metaphysical.

00:35:14 --> 00:35:15

What gets in the way

00:35:16 --> 00:35:18

of recognizing the synergy

00:35:19 --> 00:35:20

as well as the individual

00:35:20 --> 00:35:21

understanding

00:35:22 --> 00:35:23

of the presence of the

00:35:23 --> 00:35:24

that is there.

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

That all of us are made in this

00:35:27 --> 00:35:27

way,

00:35:28 --> 00:35:30

but all of us don't necessarily remember it.

00:35:30 --> 00:35:31

Does this make sense?

00:35:32 --> 00:35:33

So I like you to do,

00:35:33 --> 00:35:36

I'll take a pause, return to the person's

00:35:36 --> 00:35:37

next to you. What are you taking away

00:35:37 --> 00:35:39

from this so far? What is it bringing

00:35:39 --> 00:35:41

up for you in the course of this

00:35:41 --> 00:35:41

conversation,

00:35:42 --> 00:35:43

some of the takeaways,

00:35:43 --> 00:35:45

and then we'll come back and discuss and

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

kind of move forward. But go ahead.

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

Have a night shift up to head off

00:37:21 --> 00:37:23

to the hospital. Oh, good

00:37:23 --> 00:37:23

night.

00:41:13 --> 00:41:13

Okay.

00:41:14 --> 00:41:15

So what are some of the things we're

00:41:15 --> 00:41:16

discussing?

00:41:16 --> 00:41:18

What's coming up for people?

00:41:26 --> 00:41:27

Yeah. Go ahead, Rilla.

00:41:28 --> 00:41:31

I was thinking, like, how we're just so

00:41:31 --> 00:41:32

focused

00:41:32 --> 00:41:33

in materialistic

00:41:34 --> 00:41:35

things in the world.

00:41:35 --> 00:41:36

I wouldn't

00:41:36 --> 00:41:39

specifically call, like, education and

00:41:39 --> 00:41:40

career

00:41:40 --> 00:41:43

as materialistic, but still it is materialistic

00:41:43 --> 00:41:44

because,

00:41:45 --> 00:41:46

it takes away

00:41:47 --> 00:41:49

the thought of, like, why we're brought into

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

this world

00:41:51 --> 00:41:52

and, like, the purpose that we are in

00:41:52 --> 00:41:55

this world, which is to serve humanity and

00:41:55 --> 00:41:58

do good to other people. For example, we

00:41:58 --> 00:41:59

were just discussing

00:42:00 --> 00:42:00

how

00:42:01 --> 00:42:03

it was something really horrible and was,

00:42:04 --> 00:42:06

for us to wake up, like, 42 days

00:42:06 --> 00:42:07

ago.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

But because we were so focused in our

00:42:10 --> 00:42:10

materialistic

00:42:11 --> 00:42:14

values, being an education player or other things,

00:42:15 --> 00:42:17

that we didn't pay attention

00:42:18 --> 00:42:20

to what's happening in the rest of the

00:42:20 --> 00:42:22

world. And in 75 years of occupation, not

00:42:22 --> 00:42:23

just

00:42:23 --> 00:42:24

42

00:42:25 --> 00:42:28

days because we are so focused in, like,

00:42:28 --> 00:42:28

materialistic

00:42:28 --> 00:42:31

things in the world. Forget about the soul

00:42:31 --> 00:42:32

and the purpose of.

00:42:34 --> 00:42:36

But how do you forget about like, it's

00:42:36 --> 00:42:37

a part of you. Do you get what

00:42:37 --> 00:42:40

I mean? Like, if you don't think about

00:42:40 --> 00:42:42

the little pinky toe on your foot,

00:42:43 --> 00:42:45

it doesn't mean you're not utilizing it or

00:42:45 --> 00:42:47

it's not there. Do you get what I'm

00:42:47 --> 00:42:47

saying?

00:42:48 --> 00:42:49

Like, parts of it like, I was talking

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

to my kids the other day,

00:42:51 --> 00:42:54

and I was trying to I was trying

00:42:54 --> 00:42:56

to convince my children to let me shave

00:42:56 --> 00:42:58

their eyebrows off of their face. And they

00:42:58 --> 00:42:59

said, well, Baba, no. And I was like,

00:42:59 --> 00:43:01

what do you even use them for? When

00:43:01 --> 00:43:03

do you ever think about them? They're like,

00:43:03 --> 00:43:05

no, Baba. Like, could you shave your eyebrows?

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

And I'm like, no. Like, I I'm not

00:43:07 --> 00:43:08

going to. I'm gonna shave yours off.

00:43:09 --> 00:43:11

But, like, there's parts of you that just

00:43:11 --> 00:43:13

because you don't think about them,

00:43:14 --> 00:43:15

doesn't mean

00:43:16 --> 00:43:18

that they're not, like, still present

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

or that you wouldn't

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

do anything

00:43:22 --> 00:43:23

to, like,

00:43:23 --> 00:43:24

let them go. Right?

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

Like, what do you use, like, all of

00:43:27 --> 00:43:29

the toes on your feet for?

00:43:30 --> 00:43:32

But if I said I'll give you a

00:43:32 --> 00:43:32

$1,000

00:43:33 --> 00:43:33

to

00:43:34 --> 00:43:36

give me one of your pinky toes,

00:43:36 --> 00:43:38

none of you would do it. You know?

00:43:38 --> 00:43:40

The nails on your feet, what do you

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42

use them for? Do you know what I

00:43:42 --> 00:43:46

mean? Right? Realistically speaking, there's things that you

00:43:46 --> 00:43:48

don't even know why they're there.

00:43:49 --> 00:43:49

But

00:43:50 --> 00:43:52

the idea that I would let go of

00:43:52 --> 00:43:54

any part of my physical self

00:43:55 --> 00:43:57

is like, how is that even possible?

00:43:59 --> 00:44:01

If you're not engaging

00:44:01 --> 00:44:02

your,

00:44:03 --> 00:44:05

it doesn't mean that it's not a part

00:44:05 --> 00:44:06

of you still.

00:44:07 --> 00:44:07

Right?

00:44:07 --> 00:44:10

It's the very thing that's, like, the essential

00:44:10 --> 00:44:11

life component.

00:44:13 --> 00:44:14

The

00:44:14 --> 00:44:15

is not something

00:44:15 --> 00:44:18

that we're given so much detail on. Do

00:44:18 --> 00:44:19

you get what I mean?

00:44:20 --> 00:44:22

But it is the distinguishing

00:44:23 --> 00:44:23

variable

00:44:24 --> 00:44:26

between the body that has life and the

00:44:26 --> 00:44:28

body that has no life.

00:44:28 --> 00:44:29

Because when you move

00:44:30 --> 00:44:31

from dunya

00:44:31 --> 00:44:32

to barzakh,

00:44:32 --> 00:44:35

the material world to the intermediary realm,

00:44:36 --> 00:44:39

Death is the process of what? The soul

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

being removed from the body.

00:44:42 --> 00:44:43

So

00:44:44 --> 00:44:46

if this thing is so important,

00:44:47 --> 00:44:50

why is it not being paid attention to?

00:44:51 --> 00:44:51

You know what I mean?

00:44:52 --> 00:44:53

And the way that I'm built

00:44:54 --> 00:44:55

is not necessarily

00:44:56 --> 00:44:59

that Yeah. Like, even if I'm not thinking

00:44:59 --> 00:45:01

about the toes on my feet, if I

00:45:01 --> 00:45:03

didn't have any of them, my balance would

00:45:03 --> 00:45:05

get thrown off. The way that I walk

00:45:05 --> 00:45:06

would get screwed up. Do you know what

00:45:06 --> 00:45:07

I mean?

00:45:08 --> 00:45:09

But

00:45:09 --> 00:45:10

can you actually

00:45:11 --> 00:45:12

live in the world

00:45:13 --> 00:45:15

just as a physical

00:45:15 --> 00:45:16

body?

00:45:19 --> 00:45:21

And, yeah, like, you can.

00:45:22 --> 00:45:23

You can live in a world

00:45:23 --> 00:45:26

that even though the ruah is there,

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

you are not engaging it or taking care

00:45:30 --> 00:45:30

of it

00:45:31 --> 00:45:34

or cultivating it in any capacity.

00:45:35 --> 00:45:38

The nuffs can be what defines decisions. The

00:45:38 --> 00:45:40

heart doesn't have to.

00:45:41 --> 00:45:43

And so you get to a place where

00:45:43 --> 00:45:45

what I eat is just about the physicality.

00:45:46 --> 00:45:48

How I dress is just about the physicality.

00:45:49 --> 00:45:51

How I sleep is just about the physicality.

00:45:51 --> 00:45:54

Whether I pray or not is just about

00:45:54 --> 00:45:54

the physical,

00:45:55 --> 00:45:57

the relationships that I have or I don't

00:45:57 --> 00:45:59

have. All of these things is just about

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

what is outward, what is outward, what is

00:46:01 --> 00:46:04

outward. This is what we talk about quite

00:46:04 --> 00:46:04

often,

00:46:05 --> 00:46:07

praying with your body versus praying with your

00:46:07 --> 00:46:07

heart,

00:46:07 --> 00:46:10

praying versus praying to God. Right? And what

00:46:10 --> 00:46:12

are you praying to God with? It's not

00:46:12 --> 00:46:15

just the presence of your physical body,

00:46:15 --> 00:46:18

but all of these things aligned in the

00:46:18 --> 00:46:19

ways that they need to be aligned.

00:46:20 --> 00:46:20

You know?

00:46:21 --> 00:46:24

So can you have just a purely

00:46:25 --> 00:46:25

physical

00:46:26 --> 00:46:29

living in this world without engaging

00:46:30 --> 00:46:30

the metaphysical?

00:46:32 --> 00:46:35

Like, yeah, you could live overtly just as

00:46:35 --> 00:46:35

a body

00:46:36 --> 00:46:38

as if you didn't have this soul inside

00:46:38 --> 00:46:39

of you.

00:46:39 --> 00:46:41

You get what I mean? Does this make

00:46:41 --> 00:46:41

sense?

00:46:42 --> 00:46:45

Other thoughts, what else came up for people

00:46:45 --> 00:46:46

as we were talking?

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47

Yeah.

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22

Yeah. So why the hadith on intentions is

00:47:22 --> 00:47:23

the first hadith in the book?

00:47:24 --> 00:47:26

Do you know? You don't, like, memorize hadith

00:47:28 --> 00:47:29

just at random,

00:47:29 --> 00:47:31

but you also see there's a order to

00:47:31 --> 00:47:34

why they're placing these things in the chapters

00:47:34 --> 00:47:37

that they do and why certain chapters precede

00:47:37 --> 00:47:38

other chapters.

00:47:38 --> 00:47:41

You're on a journey, like, as a spirit.

00:47:41 --> 00:47:42

It's going

00:47:43 --> 00:47:44

to eternal existence.

00:47:45 --> 00:47:46

So intentionality

00:47:46 --> 00:47:47

can have

00:47:47 --> 00:47:48

multiplicity

00:47:48 --> 00:47:50

to it, but a part of it has

00:47:50 --> 00:47:52

to also be in a place where, like,

00:47:52 --> 00:47:55

hey. Like, there's a destination ahead that's an

00:47:55 --> 00:47:58

ultimate destination, and all of the stuff is

00:47:58 --> 00:48:00

gonna get left behind. Do you know what

00:48:00 --> 00:48:02

I mean? I'm not taking my jacket with

00:48:02 --> 00:48:04

me to the day of judgment. Do you

00:48:04 --> 00:48:06

know what I'm saying? Like, I'm not.

00:48:06 --> 00:48:07

Do you know?

00:48:08 --> 00:48:10

It's got a utility to it. Functionally, it's

00:48:10 --> 00:48:11

something that's there.

00:48:13 --> 00:48:15

And where and how you're in certain places

00:48:15 --> 00:48:17

that, like, if you fundamentally

00:48:17 --> 00:48:19

just get everything you want

00:48:19 --> 00:48:21

in the world, then what do you need

00:48:21 --> 00:48:22

Jenna for?

00:48:24 --> 00:48:26

But the roadway to get

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

the back to where it came from.

00:48:29 --> 00:48:31

So where the Quran speaks about the Warithun,

00:48:32 --> 00:48:33

Right? The inheritors.

00:48:34 --> 00:48:36

What are they? They're the inheritors of Jannah.

00:48:36 --> 00:48:38

May Allah make us from amongst them. Like,

00:48:38 --> 00:48:40

the whole idea is you're trying to go

00:48:40 --> 00:48:40

back

00:48:41 --> 00:48:43

home, like, where you came from. Do you

00:48:43 --> 00:48:46

know? Right? So the roadblocks they're gonna come

00:48:46 --> 00:48:48

in the way are gonna be the nature

00:48:48 --> 00:48:50

of this, of what we know of it,

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

is sometimes about denial

00:48:52 --> 00:48:54

of the things that make it just a

00:48:54 --> 00:48:55

bodily experience.

00:48:56 --> 00:48:58

Because the nuffs is lazy and it's not

00:48:58 --> 00:49:01

generous and it's not charitable and doesn't want

00:49:01 --> 00:49:02

you to apologize.

00:49:02 --> 00:49:04

It doesn't want you to struggle. Do you

00:49:04 --> 00:49:05

know what I mean?

00:49:05 --> 00:49:08

So sometimes you gotta push and not formulate

00:49:08 --> 00:49:09

against things

00:49:09 --> 00:49:10

that

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

are rooted in what the first part of

00:49:13 --> 00:49:14

the hadith is saying. Right?

00:49:15 --> 00:49:15

That

00:49:17 --> 00:49:19

he is the trustworthy one and the one

00:49:19 --> 00:49:21

that is trusted. He's a representative

00:49:21 --> 00:49:22

of the divine

00:49:22 --> 00:49:25

and that whatever this book says, even if

00:49:25 --> 00:49:26

it's talking about embryology

00:49:26 --> 00:49:29

14 centuries ago, you don't have to understand

00:49:29 --> 00:49:31

it in order for it to be true.

00:49:31 --> 00:49:33

It doesn't need for you to believe it

00:49:33 --> 00:49:35

in order for it to be valid, but

00:49:35 --> 00:49:37

it's in your benefit to actually believe it.

00:49:37 --> 00:49:39

Not what you think is best, what Allah

00:49:39 --> 00:49:40

thinks is best.

00:49:41 --> 00:49:43

And what does your spirit have to say

00:49:43 --> 00:49:44

about it, not just your body?

00:49:45 --> 00:49:48

What does your metaphysical have to say about

00:49:48 --> 00:49:49

it, not just the physical?

00:49:50 --> 00:49:52

Do you make sense? Yeah. Other thoughts, what

00:49:52 --> 00:49:54

else is coming up for people as we

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

discuss some of this? What did you talk

00:49:56 --> 00:49:57

about?

00:50:01 --> 00:50:02

Yeah.

00:50:10 --> 00:50:13

When you're making a worldly decision for, like,

00:50:13 --> 00:50:16

a short term pleasure, it's good to have

00:50:16 --> 00:50:17

the the context and framework of,

00:50:19 --> 00:50:19

is it worth

00:50:20 --> 00:50:22

the the pain in the afterlife for the

00:50:22 --> 00:50:23

short term pleasure

00:50:24 --> 00:50:25

in the in the world?

00:50:26 --> 00:50:26

Yeah.

00:50:28 --> 00:50:30

Ali right, the cousin of the prophet, alayhis

00:50:30 --> 00:50:30

salam,

00:50:31 --> 00:50:33

he says, right, your souls,

00:50:33 --> 00:50:36

your hearts, your souls, they're worth only the

00:50:36 --> 00:50:38

price of paradise.

00:50:38 --> 00:50:40

So sell them only for that price.

00:50:40 --> 00:50:41

Do you know?

00:50:41 --> 00:50:42

Right? Like,

00:50:43 --> 00:50:46

don't sell the most important treasure

00:50:46 --> 00:50:49

that's within you for some paltry sum of

00:50:49 --> 00:50:51

dunya. You can't even take it with you.

00:50:51 --> 00:50:53

You know what I mean? You can't.

00:50:54 --> 00:50:55

This is what people tried to do

00:50:56 --> 00:50:56

historically.

00:50:57 --> 00:50:59

Not only did people bury all their stuff

00:50:59 --> 00:51:02

with them, they tried to bury their people

00:51:02 --> 00:51:03

with them also,

00:51:03 --> 00:51:05

servants, spouses, etcetera.

00:51:05 --> 00:51:07

What ended up happening? A bunch of white

00:51:07 --> 00:51:10

people looted them and took from their tombs

00:51:10 --> 00:51:11

and put in museums

00:51:12 --> 00:51:14

in their own countries, so the people in

00:51:14 --> 00:51:15

their own countries still don't get to have

00:51:15 --> 00:51:18

their stuff. Right? You go all over Europe.

00:51:18 --> 00:51:20

You go all over United States. There's a

00:51:20 --> 00:51:21

bunch of things that we just took from

00:51:21 --> 00:51:24

other people that didn't belong to us, but

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

they didn't take it either then. If it's

00:51:26 --> 00:51:27

sitting in the museum,

00:51:27 --> 00:51:30

it didn't get with them to the barzakh.

00:51:30 --> 00:51:31

Right?

00:51:31 --> 00:51:33

Like, what is there with them? Which is

00:51:33 --> 00:51:36

where the Hadith ends. It talks about actions

00:51:36 --> 00:51:37

and deeds.

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

That's the only thing you're taking with you.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:43

Deeds, actions, what you did, what you prevented

00:51:43 --> 00:51:45

yourself from doing versus what you could have

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

done, but you still didn't do it.

00:51:47 --> 00:51:50

And if there's not a focal point that

00:51:50 --> 00:51:54

says that this little part of existence that's

00:51:54 --> 00:51:55

dunya

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57

cannot be like the ends, but I see

00:51:57 --> 00:51:59

it as a means to something.

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02

Then the paradigm through which you engage worldly

00:52:02 --> 00:52:03

existence

00:52:03 --> 00:52:05

is going to be quite limited

00:52:05 --> 00:52:08

if it's only seen as what are the

00:52:08 --> 00:52:11

potentials here. Because struggle here

00:52:11 --> 00:52:12

translates into

00:52:13 --> 00:52:16

increase there. And struggle here is temporary,

00:52:16 --> 00:52:18

increase there is forever.

00:52:20 --> 00:52:22

So it's not worth it to me that

00:52:22 --> 00:52:24

you and I were gonna hang out till

00:52:24 --> 00:52:26

3 o'clock in the morning if that means

00:52:26 --> 00:52:28

that I'm gonna sleep through Fudger.

00:52:32 --> 00:52:33

Because missing Fudger

00:52:34 --> 00:52:37

is something that's for my soul, a deterrent

00:52:38 --> 00:52:39

towards

00:52:40 --> 00:52:40

vision

00:52:41 --> 00:52:43

of what is coming forward. Do you get

00:52:43 --> 00:52:44

what I mean?

00:52:44 --> 00:52:46

Well, I like you to do for just

00:52:46 --> 00:52:48

a few minutes is turn to the persons

00:52:48 --> 00:52:51

next to you and don't have, like, a

00:52:51 --> 00:52:52

right or wrong conversation.

00:52:53 --> 00:52:55

Don't speak only if you feel like you're

00:52:55 --> 00:52:58

saying what's most correct, but let yourself just

00:52:58 --> 00:52:59

deepen and explore

00:52:59 --> 00:53:01

into the actual discussion.

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

How do you take care of your ruler?

00:53:06 --> 00:53:07

Like, you specifically,

00:53:08 --> 00:53:10

how does one take care of it?

00:53:10 --> 00:53:13

And what are things that are, like, damaging

00:53:13 --> 00:53:14

the

00:53:15 --> 00:53:16

or your metaphysical

00:53:16 --> 00:53:17

state. Right?

00:53:18 --> 00:53:21

Your heart, your soul, like the combination of

00:53:21 --> 00:53:21

these things.

00:53:22 --> 00:53:24

What are the things that are good for

00:53:24 --> 00:53:26

it? What are the things that are not

00:53:26 --> 00:53:28

good for it? How does one take care

00:53:28 --> 00:53:29

of it? If my 8 year old was

00:53:29 --> 00:53:30

here today

00:53:31 --> 00:53:33

and was like, hey, man.

00:53:33 --> 00:53:35

Like, I don't know what my dad's talking

00:53:35 --> 00:53:37

about. He's trying to get me to shave

00:53:37 --> 00:53:39

my eyebrows off my face. Right? What kind

00:53:39 --> 00:53:41

of man do I live with in my

00:53:41 --> 00:53:43

house? You know? Can you tell me what

00:53:43 --> 00:53:45

this thing is, this soul, and how do

00:53:45 --> 00:53:47

I take care of it? Right?

00:53:48 --> 00:53:49

And if all you get when you're at

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

a younger stage of life

00:53:51 --> 00:53:54

is also all you get when you engage

00:53:55 --> 00:53:55

religion,

00:53:56 --> 00:53:58

and it's just the do's and don'ts and

00:53:58 --> 00:53:58

the mechanics,

00:53:59 --> 00:54:00

the postures of prayer,

00:54:01 --> 00:54:03

the recitation of Quran,

00:54:03 --> 00:54:05

the how to's of fasting,

00:54:05 --> 00:54:08

they're still only limited to the externals.

00:54:09 --> 00:54:11

Right? It doesn't mean that there's not a

00:54:11 --> 00:54:14

relationship there. The hadith is teaching us about

00:54:15 --> 00:54:16

the onset

00:54:16 --> 00:54:19

of a synergy between physical and metaphysical.

00:54:20 --> 00:54:22

So you gotta start to delve into

00:54:22 --> 00:54:24

how does this metaphysical

00:54:25 --> 00:54:25

work?

00:54:26 --> 00:54:27

What do I do?

00:54:28 --> 00:54:28

Not

00:54:29 --> 00:54:29

like theoretically,

00:54:30 --> 00:54:32

but what are things one can do

00:54:33 --> 00:54:35

to take care of their inner self? The

00:54:35 --> 00:54:37

question makes sense? So in the course of

00:54:37 --> 00:54:40

my day, my week, my month, like, what

00:54:40 --> 00:54:41

are things that are going to bring

00:54:42 --> 00:54:43

that kind of luminosity

00:54:44 --> 00:54:44

inwardly

00:54:44 --> 00:54:47

It's going to provide care to my inner

00:54:47 --> 00:54:47

self.

00:54:48 --> 00:54:49

We can talk about this for a few

00:54:49 --> 00:54:52

minutes, then we'll come back and discuss. Go

00:54:52 --> 00:54:52

ahead.

01:03:16 --> 01:03:17

Okay.

01:03:17 --> 01:03:20

So what are some of the ways like,

01:03:21 --> 01:03:23

how do you how does somebody take care

01:03:23 --> 01:03:24

of their inner self?

01:03:25 --> 01:03:26

The physical, the metaphysical

01:03:27 --> 01:03:28

has this connection.

01:03:29 --> 01:03:30

We live in a world that teaches us

01:03:30 --> 01:03:33

to look at ourselves and not for ourselves.

01:03:33 --> 01:03:33

Right?

01:03:34 --> 01:03:37

And quite often, the identity variables that we

01:03:37 --> 01:03:37

have

01:03:38 --> 01:03:40

are attached now to things that are just

01:03:40 --> 01:03:42

outward and external alone.

01:03:42 --> 01:03:44

So how do we start to shift to

01:03:44 --> 01:03:46

seeing the importance of both of these fears

01:03:46 --> 01:03:48

as it permeates every part of our religious

01:03:48 --> 01:03:49

tradition?

01:03:49 --> 01:03:52

Do you know? Like bringing presence to

01:03:52 --> 01:03:56

our inner components of prayer, of charity, of

01:03:56 --> 01:03:57

fasting, of pilgrimage,

01:03:58 --> 01:03:59

you know, being able to connect at the

01:03:59 --> 01:04:01

level of spirits and souls. Right?

01:04:02 --> 01:04:03

So we're not just

01:04:04 --> 01:04:05

sharing sociological

01:04:05 --> 01:04:05

characteristics,

01:04:06 --> 01:04:09

common culture, common race, common ethnicity,

01:04:09 --> 01:04:11

but we're connected at the level of hearts,

01:04:11 --> 01:04:12

like inwardly.

01:04:13 --> 01:04:15

So what what can one do to take

01:04:15 --> 01:04:16

care of their inner self?

01:04:17 --> 01:04:18

What do we talk about? Yeah.

01:04:19 --> 01:04:20

So we mentioned,

01:04:21 --> 01:04:23

I mentioned that I I

01:04:23 --> 01:04:24

follow yesterday

01:04:25 --> 01:04:28

that spoke about, how Musa

01:04:28 --> 01:04:29

meet

01:04:38 --> 01:04:38

And

01:04:39 --> 01:04:40

the

01:04:40 --> 01:04:43

portion the person who spoke said that,

01:04:45 --> 01:04:47

being in the state of fasting

01:04:48 --> 01:04:50

helped him elevate from the

01:04:50 --> 01:04:52

literally, like, the weight of food.

01:04:54 --> 01:04:56

Not having that helped him

01:04:56 --> 01:04:58

elevate himself

01:04:58 --> 01:05:01

to, like, have been to speak with Allah.

01:05:01 --> 01:05:04

So I guess fasting is a way to,

01:05:04 --> 01:05:04

like,

01:05:05 --> 01:05:06

purify your soul,

01:05:07 --> 01:05:10

but also engaging in Quran in the sun

01:05:10 --> 01:05:11

as that

01:05:13 --> 01:05:15

used to engage to. And one of them

01:05:16 --> 01:05:19

is people going to sleep, which is you

01:05:19 --> 01:05:19

mentioned,

01:05:20 --> 01:05:22

and it's one of the that can prevent

01:05:22 --> 01:05:24

you from being tortured there.

01:05:25 --> 01:05:27

So that and praying more and,

01:05:28 --> 01:05:30

like, engaging with your religion, not just

01:05:31 --> 01:05:33

in the forest, but also in the sunnaps.

01:05:34 --> 01:05:36

Yeah. Amazing. Like, think about,

01:05:36 --> 01:05:37

for many of us,

01:05:38 --> 01:05:39

what life is like in Ramadan

01:05:40 --> 01:05:41

versus outside of Ramadan.

01:05:42 --> 01:05:44

But conceptually, what's going on there?

01:05:45 --> 01:05:47

You know, what's being lifted in terms of

01:05:47 --> 01:05:48

veils of perception

01:05:49 --> 01:05:50

through not just, like,

01:05:51 --> 01:05:54

the emptying of the stomach, but the filling

01:05:54 --> 01:05:55

of a heart.

01:05:56 --> 01:05:59

Right? So you're nourishing other parts of yourself

01:05:59 --> 01:06:01

and cultivating a relationship with those things.

01:06:01 --> 01:06:03

These exercises, again,

01:06:03 --> 01:06:06

don't need our presence to help, you know.

01:06:06 --> 01:06:09

So somebody can become physically strong

01:06:10 --> 01:06:10

by working

01:06:11 --> 01:06:14

as, like, a woodsman their whole life. They're

01:06:14 --> 01:06:15

not purposely going to a gym for an

01:06:15 --> 01:06:18

hour, but they're chopping wood, and they're carrying

01:06:18 --> 01:06:19

wood,

01:06:19 --> 01:06:21

and they're selling wood, and moving wood. It's

01:06:21 --> 01:06:24

gonna make them hard in their, like, muscles

01:06:24 --> 01:06:26

and whatever else. Do you know? Like, it

01:06:26 --> 01:06:29

brings that fortitude and toughness. Do you get

01:06:29 --> 01:06:31

what I mean? Right? So if you said

01:06:31 --> 01:06:34

to someone, like, hey, do you exercise? They'll

01:06:34 --> 01:06:36

be like, no, I don't exercise. Right? But

01:06:36 --> 01:06:38

they're not saying, I chop wood for 8

01:06:38 --> 01:06:40

hours a day. You know what I mean?

01:06:40 --> 01:06:42

It's the same way. You can experience,

01:06:42 --> 01:06:44

like, the practice in Ramadan.

01:06:45 --> 01:06:46

It doesn't mean you have to be consciously

01:06:46 --> 01:06:49

aware of what it's doing or understand in

01:06:49 --> 01:06:51

order to gain from it. Do you know?

01:06:51 --> 01:06:53

As well as these other practices that are

01:06:53 --> 01:06:56

there. Right? If you bring presence to it,

01:06:57 --> 01:06:59

it then now affords the question,

01:07:00 --> 01:07:01

why would you stop

01:07:01 --> 01:07:02

after it's done?

01:07:03 --> 01:07:05

Like, why did you stop reading Quran when

01:07:05 --> 01:07:08

Ramadan was done? Why did you stop fasting

01:07:08 --> 01:07:10

when Ramadan was done? Why did you stop

01:07:10 --> 01:07:12

giving in charity? Why did you stop coming

01:07:12 --> 01:07:14

to pray together in congregation?

01:07:15 --> 01:07:16

Do you know what I mean? It's not

01:07:16 --> 01:07:19

to knock anybody, but to ask those questions.

01:07:19 --> 01:07:22

What's the trade off, especially in relation to

01:07:22 --> 01:07:24

what we're talking about here? What else? Like,

01:07:24 --> 01:07:26

what else are things we discussed? Yeah.

01:07:27 --> 01:07:30

Conscientious about what you consume and not just

01:07:30 --> 01:07:33

food dietary neutral. So what you listen to

01:07:33 --> 01:07:34

and what you view.

01:07:35 --> 01:07:37

So, like, an example for me, I was

01:07:37 --> 01:07:40

really bad with reality TV, and then I've

01:07:40 --> 01:07:42

given that up with from Lula. But it's

01:07:42 --> 01:07:44

important to replace that with something

01:07:45 --> 01:07:45

good for your soul too. So, like, listening

01:07:45 --> 01:07:46

to, I believe, this podcast could

01:07:52 --> 01:07:54

Amazing. Yeah. Consumption. Go ahead.

01:08:14 --> 01:08:15

Great. Reflection

01:08:15 --> 01:08:17

is really important. Right? Imam Al Haddad,

01:08:18 --> 01:08:18

says

01:08:19 --> 01:08:21

that reflection is the lamp of the heart.

01:08:21 --> 01:08:24

When it departs from it, there's no light

01:08:24 --> 01:08:27

in it. Do you know? What else? Yeah.

01:08:28 --> 01:08:30

I think being at peace and being satisfied

01:08:30 --> 01:08:32

and grateful for what you have,

01:08:32 --> 01:08:35

especially in the age of social media where

01:08:35 --> 01:08:37

there's a lot being thrown at us in

01:08:37 --> 01:08:38

terms of, like, the 8

01:08:38 --> 01:08:41

ones. So just being grateful for, like, the

01:08:41 --> 01:08:42

bare minimum,

01:08:42 --> 01:08:43

which I think,

01:08:45 --> 01:08:47

we are in, like, the recent times

01:08:48 --> 01:08:51

because we have seen other people suffer through

01:08:51 --> 01:08:53

it, like clean water,

01:08:53 --> 01:08:56

shelter, and food, which other people don't have.

01:08:56 --> 01:08:58

So just being grateful for, like,

01:08:59 --> 01:08:59

the basic

01:09:00 --> 01:09:02

necessities of life and having the walk of

01:09:03 --> 01:09:04

Yeah. 100%.

01:09:04 --> 01:09:05

Right?

01:09:05 --> 01:09:07

And in the reflection periods, you asked the

01:09:07 --> 01:09:10

question of how much is enough?

01:09:11 --> 01:09:13

Like, how much do I need? Do you

01:09:13 --> 01:09:13

know?

01:09:14 --> 01:09:16

And it it all becomes attached to each

01:09:16 --> 01:09:16

other.

01:09:17 --> 01:09:20

Can we understand the connection between

01:09:20 --> 01:09:21

the physical and the metaphysical?

01:09:23 --> 01:09:25

You know? You don't exist in 2 places

01:09:26 --> 01:09:26

simultaneously.

01:09:27 --> 01:09:29

And when you go home at night, you

01:09:29 --> 01:09:31

don't, like, unzip your body off of your

01:09:31 --> 01:09:33

soul and then hang it up in the

01:09:33 --> 01:09:33

closet,

01:09:34 --> 01:09:36

but there's a connection point in terms of

01:09:36 --> 01:09:37

worldly existence

01:09:37 --> 01:09:39

between these two things. They

01:09:40 --> 01:09:41

coexist simultaneously.

01:09:42 --> 01:09:44

Do you get what I mean? Does that

01:09:44 --> 01:09:44

make sense?

01:09:45 --> 01:09:47

So why don't we do it?

01:09:47 --> 01:09:49

Like, what gets in the way?

01:09:50 --> 01:09:52

What's, like, the barrier of kinda

01:09:53 --> 01:09:53

engagement

01:09:54 --> 01:09:56

of both facets?

01:09:56 --> 01:09:59

Because it's not either or. Right? We're not

01:09:59 --> 01:10:01

a people who are just meant

01:10:01 --> 01:10:04

to read Quran all day to the detriment

01:10:04 --> 01:10:05

of worldly responsibilities

01:10:07 --> 01:10:08

and physical

01:10:08 --> 01:10:11

nature. Right? Like, there's hadith where the prophet

01:10:13 --> 01:10:14

essentially speaks about,

01:10:16 --> 01:10:18

dislike for the portly scholar,

01:10:18 --> 01:10:20

you know. Like, how can you be

01:10:20 --> 01:10:21

an alum

01:10:22 --> 01:10:23

of Islam,

01:10:24 --> 01:10:26

like a a scholar of Islam

01:10:26 --> 01:10:29

and, you know, be portly. It's not like

01:10:29 --> 01:10:30

your physical body

01:10:30 --> 01:10:33

is what's being questioned here, but somebody who

01:10:33 --> 01:10:34

is purposefully,

01:10:34 --> 01:10:37

like, eating to a point of satiation,

01:10:37 --> 01:10:39

not taking care of their physical wellness,

01:10:40 --> 01:10:42

and they claim knowledge of the religion.

01:10:42 --> 01:10:44

Do you see what I mean? Like, the

01:10:44 --> 01:10:46

body is the vessel of the soul,

01:10:46 --> 01:10:48

so it has to be something

01:10:48 --> 01:10:50

that you are honoring

01:10:50 --> 01:10:53

as well through your recognition of how you

01:10:53 --> 01:10:56

kinda traverse this worldly plane. Do you know?

01:10:56 --> 01:10:56

Yeah.

01:12:06 --> 01:12:09

Yeah. And there's multiple answers. Right? And they're

01:12:09 --> 01:12:11

gonna be individualized.

01:12:11 --> 01:12:14

Do you know? Been thinking about this again

01:12:14 --> 01:12:15

in this way,

01:12:15 --> 01:12:18

what kind of experience am I having right

01:12:18 --> 01:12:18

now

01:12:19 --> 01:12:20

in this world?

01:12:20 --> 01:12:22

And am I having just simply like a

01:12:22 --> 01:12:24

bodily experience, a physical experience?

01:12:25 --> 01:12:27

Am I also having a metaphysical

01:12:27 --> 01:12:27

experience?

01:12:28 --> 01:12:30

Do you know what I mean? And what

01:12:30 --> 01:12:32

are the things that engage the different parts

01:12:32 --> 01:12:33

of what make me

01:12:34 --> 01:12:34

what I am?

01:12:35 --> 01:12:37

And how are the two things connected to

01:12:37 --> 01:12:40

each other? So the Hadith is giving us

01:12:40 --> 01:12:40

indication

01:12:41 --> 01:12:44

to the remarkable nature of scientific

01:12:44 --> 01:12:47

kinda insight from the Quran and the Hadith,

01:12:47 --> 01:12:49

at times when people did not think about

01:12:49 --> 01:12:52

these things. But its individual relevancy back to

01:12:52 --> 01:12:52

me

01:12:53 --> 01:12:54

is that, hey,

01:12:54 --> 01:12:55

like,

01:12:55 --> 01:12:57

all of us as humans, were made in

01:12:57 --> 01:12:59

this way in our worldly existence.

01:13:00 --> 01:13:01

There's the physical body

01:13:02 --> 01:13:06

and then there's the soul breathed in at

01:13:06 --> 01:13:07

a 120 days

01:13:07 --> 01:13:09

of the fetus

01:13:09 --> 01:13:09

existence.

01:13:10 --> 01:13:14

So why is this hadith mentioning this thing?

01:13:14 --> 01:13:16

And it's not just in terms of

01:13:16 --> 01:13:20

when does, like, life begin and theological debates,

01:13:20 --> 01:13:23

and what does abortion mean, and when is

01:13:23 --> 01:13:24

it allowed, and when is it not.

01:13:25 --> 01:13:27

But it's also telling me what are the

01:13:27 --> 01:13:28

foundational

01:13:28 --> 01:13:30

building blocks of me as a person.

01:13:31 --> 01:13:33

Does anywhere in the Quran or the Hadid

01:13:33 --> 01:13:35

say when you hit a certain age, your

01:13:35 --> 01:13:37

soul departs, but your body still moves?

01:13:39 --> 01:13:40

No. Right?

01:13:40 --> 01:13:43

Like, you are in this place where these

01:13:43 --> 01:13:43

things

01:13:45 --> 01:13:46

necessitate

01:13:47 --> 01:13:47

coexistence

01:13:48 --> 01:13:51

in order for the body to actually have

01:13:51 --> 01:13:52

life to it.

01:13:52 --> 01:13:54

And if at any point in time, the

01:13:54 --> 01:13:56

soul is removed from the body,

01:13:56 --> 01:13:58

the body is just a shell.

01:14:00 --> 01:14:01

So it's not the

01:14:02 --> 01:14:02

primary

01:14:03 --> 01:14:05

and this is where the shift comes in

01:14:06 --> 01:14:08

that the focus only becomes on the primary

01:14:09 --> 01:14:10

being the body,

01:14:11 --> 01:14:12

but it's not.

01:14:12 --> 01:14:14

It's a part of it, but it's not

01:14:14 --> 01:14:15

the whole thing.

01:14:16 --> 01:14:17

And if anything,

01:14:17 --> 01:14:19

what's moving forward

01:14:19 --> 01:14:20

is going to be the not

01:14:22 --> 01:14:23

the not the.

01:14:24 --> 01:14:26

So why am I spending so much time

01:14:27 --> 01:14:31

fussing over just what is external alone,

01:14:31 --> 01:14:34

let alone even thinking about how it relates,

01:14:34 --> 01:14:37

and all these other things that are heightened

01:14:38 --> 01:14:40

in terms of just inward

01:14:40 --> 01:14:41

self development,

01:14:42 --> 01:14:44

you know, and thinking about what else exists

01:14:44 --> 01:14:46

within me. It's not just

01:14:47 --> 01:14:49

the and the and the,

01:14:49 --> 01:14:51

but inside of you are all of your

01:14:51 --> 01:14:51

memories,

01:14:52 --> 01:14:54

all of the experiences you've had, all of

01:14:54 --> 01:14:57

the feelings that you have. Right? Do you

01:14:57 --> 01:14:59

feel better when you're sad alone or when

01:14:59 --> 01:15:01

you're sad with somebody else

01:15:01 --> 01:15:04

who's there to support you when you're sad?

01:15:05 --> 01:15:07

Do you feel a little bit better when

01:15:07 --> 01:15:10

you let out certain things rather than holding

01:15:10 --> 01:15:12

them all inside of you? You start to

01:15:12 --> 01:15:14

learn about the nature of the self through

01:15:14 --> 01:15:17

the self, and you start to think too

01:15:17 --> 01:15:18

also what does it mean to be a

01:15:18 --> 01:15:21

supporter of somebody else. Right? Anybody can pontificate

01:15:22 --> 01:15:24

to people. Do you know? But the prophet

01:15:25 --> 01:15:26

didn't talk so much.

01:15:26 --> 01:15:29

So what was he bringing out with people?

01:15:29 --> 01:15:31

He was helping them to recognize

01:15:31 --> 01:15:33

what they had as inward beauty.

01:15:34 --> 01:15:36

Even the man who's narrating the Hadith,

01:15:36 --> 01:15:37

Abdul ibn Mas'ud,

01:15:38 --> 01:15:41

the young black man who's poor, who is

01:15:41 --> 01:15:43

physically skinny and small in stature,

01:15:44 --> 01:15:46

People would laugh at him. Right? We said

01:15:46 --> 01:15:49

this hadith last time that he was climbing,

01:15:49 --> 01:15:52

getting something from a tree, and the wind

01:15:52 --> 01:15:54

blew, and it lifted up his garments so

01:15:54 --> 01:15:56

you could see his legs, and people were

01:15:56 --> 01:15:58

laughing at his legs, at how skinny they

01:15:58 --> 01:15:59

were. And the prophet

01:15:59 --> 01:16:02

asked them, like, what are you laughing at?

01:16:03 --> 01:16:04

And they say we're laughing at his legs.

01:16:04 --> 01:16:07

Right? Because they're so skinny. And the prophet

01:16:07 --> 01:16:08

says that

01:16:09 --> 01:16:12

his legs are going to weigh heavier on

01:16:12 --> 01:16:14

the scales on the day of judgement

01:16:14 --> 01:16:16

than than the mountains of Uhud.

01:16:17 --> 01:16:18

You know.

01:16:19 --> 01:16:19

Like,

01:16:20 --> 01:16:20

there's

01:16:21 --> 01:16:21

a recognition

01:16:21 --> 01:16:25

that what ennobles him is not what

01:16:25 --> 01:16:27

worldly societally

01:16:27 --> 01:16:27

perspective

01:16:28 --> 01:16:30

is ennobling.

01:16:30 --> 01:16:33

So who cares if Meccan society

01:16:33 --> 01:16:34

is treating

01:16:34 --> 01:16:36

poor people a certain way, black people a

01:16:36 --> 01:16:37

certain way, etcetera.

01:16:38 --> 01:16:39

Not a way that we're indifferent towards it,

01:16:40 --> 01:16:41

but this man's elevation

01:16:42 --> 01:16:42

is coming

01:16:43 --> 01:16:44

from the fact that

01:16:45 --> 01:16:47

he is just inwardly strong,

01:16:47 --> 01:16:50

and all of those things are what make

01:16:50 --> 01:16:51

him good and beautiful.

01:16:51 --> 01:16:53

Not because society

01:16:53 --> 01:16:56

is the judge of what's good and beautiful,

01:16:56 --> 01:16:58

but Allah in his wisdom is what the

01:16:58 --> 01:16:59

hadith is.

01:17:00 --> 01:17:01

Allah in his wisdom

01:17:01 --> 01:17:04

is decreeing certain things for us. Do you

01:17:04 --> 01:17:05

see what I mean?

01:17:05 --> 01:17:08

So the way that you were built is

01:17:08 --> 01:17:09

that you have the

01:17:10 --> 01:17:10

physical

01:17:11 --> 01:17:12

and then you have the metaphysical,

01:17:13 --> 01:17:16

and those two things have to be understood.

01:17:16 --> 01:17:17

The dunya

01:17:17 --> 01:17:19

is going to make you think only about

01:17:19 --> 01:17:20

the physical,

01:17:21 --> 01:17:23

even in relation to your feelings

01:17:23 --> 01:17:24

that are inward

01:17:25 --> 01:17:26

and expressed outward,

01:17:27 --> 01:17:29

is going to teach you to only engage

01:17:29 --> 01:17:30

what you feel

01:17:31 --> 01:17:31

through

01:17:32 --> 01:17:33

external mechanisms.

01:17:34 --> 01:17:35

Numb the pain.

01:17:36 --> 01:17:36

Desensitize

01:17:37 --> 01:17:37

the pain.

01:17:38 --> 01:17:39

Be in a place where outward

01:17:40 --> 01:17:40

mechanisms

01:17:41 --> 01:17:44

help you deal with inward agitation.

01:17:45 --> 01:17:49

Smoke this, drink this, watch this, consume this,

01:17:49 --> 01:17:50

listen to this,

01:17:50 --> 01:17:51

wear this,

01:17:52 --> 01:17:53

dress like this,

01:17:53 --> 01:17:54

eat this,

01:17:54 --> 01:17:55

drink this.

01:17:57 --> 01:17:59

This is temporary. It's band aids.

01:17:59 --> 01:18:03

Right? Because to apply something physical

01:18:03 --> 01:18:04

to something metaphysical

01:18:05 --> 01:18:05

that's hurting,

01:18:06 --> 01:18:08

it's not gonna can you put a Band

01:18:08 --> 01:18:09

Aid on your soul?

01:18:09 --> 01:18:11

Do you know what I mean?

01:18:11 --> 01:18:12

Right?

01:18:12 --> 01:18:14

Can I put a band aid on my

01:18:14 --> 01:18:15

spiritual heart?

01:18:15 --> 01:18:18

No. You gotta look for things that are

01:18:18 --> 01:18:18

also

01:18:19 --> 01:18:20

metaphysical

01:18:20 --> 01:18:21

in their nature

01:18:21 --> 01:18:24

that allow for there to be a sense

01:18:24 --> 01:18:25

of holistically

01:18:26 --> 01:18:27

who it is that we are.

01:18:28 --> 01:18:30

So you can read this hadith and be

01:18:30 --> 01:18:34

in awe that the prophet, expounding upon Quranic

01:18:34 --> 01:18:37

verse, is talking to us about the stages

01:18:37 --> 01:18:37

of embryology

01:18:38 --> 01:18:41

and the growth of the fetus. It's remarkable.

01:18:41 --> 01:18:43

Do you know what I mean? That's not

01:18:43 --> 01:18:44

something we should undermine,

01:18:44 --> 01:18:46

but we don't want that to be the

01:18:46 --> 01:18:47

only takeaway.

01:18:47 --> 01:18:50

And at this juncture in our collective

01:18:50 --> 01:18:51

lives individually,

01:18:52 --> 01:18:54

you gotta be in a place where you

01:18:54 --> 01:18:55

have recognition

01:18:55 --> 01:18:57

of the phases of existence

01:18:58 --> 01:19:00

in a way that's not just remotely memorized,

01:19:01 --> 01:19:02

but it informs decisions.

01:19:04 --> 01:19:07

It plays a role in determining choices

01:19:07 --> 01:19:09

because where this hadith is gonna end, that

01:19:09 --> 01:19:11

we'll talk about next time, is gonna be

01:19:11 --> 01:19:12

about actions

01:19:12 --> 01:19:13

and deeds.

01:19:14 --> 01:19:14

Right?

01:19:14 --> 01:19:16

You live a life that's the life of

01:19:16 --> 01:19:18

the people of paradise, and at the end

01:19:18 --> 01:19:21

of it, it's turned away. Right?

01:19:22 --> 01:19:25

Same thing. The opposite is true because it's

01:19:25 --> 01:19:27

all about actions and deeds.

01:19:27 --> 01:19:29

How many actions do you undertake

01:19:29 --> 01:19:32

for the sake of what is outward and

01:19:32 --> 01:19:33

what is physical

01:19:33 --> 01:19:36

versus how many are you undertaking for the

01:19:36 --> 01:19:38

sake of what is inward and what is

01:19:38 --> 01:19:38

metaphysical.

01:19:39 --> 01:19:40

Do you get what I mean? Does that

01:19:40 --> 01:19:41

make sense?

01:19:42 --> 01:19:44

And then the trick is when you can

01:19:44 --> 01:19:47

get the inside right, the outside looks so

01:19:47 --> 01:19:47

different.

01:19:48 --> 01:19:52

So you don't wanna just find beauty in

01:19:52 --> 01:19:53

everyone around you,

01:19:53 --> 01:19:56

but you learn to find beauty in yourself.

01:19:57 --> 01:20:00

It's not just about having love for others,

01:20:00 --> 01:20:03

but you also understand the biggest block to

01:20:03 --> 01:20:05

loving others is that you don't love yourself

01:20:05 --> 01:20:06

fully.

01:20:08 --> 01:20:10

And what you need to be able to

01:20:10 --> 01:20:12

be able to love yourself fully is a

01:20:12 --> 01:20:15

removal of the things that are layered now

01:20:15 --> 01:20:17

on the inner self, not on the outer

01:20:17 --> 01:20:19

self. Outwardly, we all look the way we

01:20:19 --> 01:20:21

look. That's why some of these things are

01:20:21 --> 01:20:22

invisible,

01:20:22 --> 01:20:24

but they're still present. Like, people don't pay

01:20:24 --> 01:20:26

attention to you when you're sad. They're not

01:20:26 --> 01:20:28

stopping on the street saying, like, are you

01:20:28 --> 01:20:30

okay? When you're feeling miserable.

01:20:30 --> 01:20:33

Entire experiences are erased. You know?

01:20:34 --> 01:20:36

Because they're only looking at you from physical

01:20:36 --> 01:20:38

eyes, not metaphysical eyes.

01:20:39 --> 01:20:42

There's so many hadith where the companions

01:20:42 --> 01:20:43

are looking agitated

01:20:44 --> 01:20:46

and the prophet, even before they ask something,

01:20:46 --> 01:20:48

he's like, what's on your minds?

01:20:48 --> 01:20:51

Because he knows what his people are going

01:20:51 --> 01:20:53

through. He's connected at a different level. Do

01:20:53 --> 01:20:55

you know what I mean? So it's not

01:20:55 --> 01:20:56

just like anxiety

01:20:57 --> 01:20:59

that's telling me I need to talk to

01:20:59 --> 01:21:01

you right now, like, tell me what's bothering

01:21:01 --> 01:21:02

you, but love,

01:21:03 --> 01:21:05

and it just comes across different.

01:21:05 --> 01:21:07

Do you know? Because you can't give somebody

01:21:07 --> 01:21:09

something you don't possess in the 1st place,

01:21:09 --> 01:21:11

and you can only give to them what

01:21:11 --> 01:21:12

you do have in the 1st place. So

01:21:12 --> 01:21:14

what, like, if we open up your heart

01:21:14 --> 01:21:17

right now, your spiritual heart, what would we

01:21:17 --> 01:21:18

find inside of it?

01:21:20 --> 01:21:23

In terms of virtue, in terms of vices,

01:21:23 --> 01:21:25

in terms of things that are values and

01:21:25 --> 01:21:27

things of beauty and things that are like

01:21:27 --> 01:21:30

diseases of the heart. Right? It's not like

01:21:30 --> 01:21:31

a,

01:21:32 --> 01:21:34

a thing that we have like, everybody makes

01:21:34 --> 01:21:36

mistakes, and there's stuff that's inside of us

01:21:36 --> 01:21:38

that we didn't put inside of us, but

01:21:38 --> 01:21:39

it's still there.

01:21:39 --> 01:21:42

So at some juncture, I'd like just figure

01:21:42 --> 01:21:44

out what are the building blocks of me

01:21:44 --> 01:21:47

and think out, okay, like, well, maybe some

01:21:47 --> 01:21:49

of this sits there cause I'm not actually

01:21:49 --> 01:21:51

looking at this

01:21:51 --> 01:21:52

through the prism of

01:21:53 --> 01:21:55

this part of me is actually an important

01:21:55 --> 01:21:58

part of me that existed well before the

01:21:58 --> 01:22:00

physical part of me existed and is going

01:22:00 --> 01:22:03

to continue to exist after this entire world

01:22:03 --> 01:22:04

and everything in it is gone.

01:22:05 --> 01:22:08

Right? That soul, like, still exists. You're created

01:22:08 --> 01:22:11

as a being, but you're created for eternal

01:22:11 --> 01:22:12

existence.

01:22:12 --> 01:22:14

Does does that make sense?

01:22:14 --> 01:22:16

Do you get what I mean? Right? And

01:22:16 --> 01:22:18

what does it look like there? Like, I

01:22:18 --> 01:22:20

don't know, you know, like, we're in our

01:22:20 --> 01:22:22

prime state of existence when we're in Jannah,

01:22:22 --> 01:22:24

may Allah make us people of Jannah. I

01:22:24 --> 01:22:26

told this to people last year, but there's

01:22:26 --> 01:22:28

a brother who's a convert in our community.

01:22:28 --> 01:22:31

They say you're, like, 33, 35 years old

01:22:32 --> 01:22:34

in Jannah. Right? Lunar years, you know.

01:22:35 --> 01:22:38

And he had just turned that age,

01:22:38 --> 01:22:40

and he was like, man, I gotta lose

01:22:40 --> 01:22:41

a lot of weight. I was like, why

01:22:41 --> 01:22:42

he gotta lose a lot of weight? He's

01:22:42 --> 01:22:44

like, because I don't wanna be fat in

01:22:44 --> 01:22:45

Jenna. And I said, what are you talking

01:22:45 --> 01:22:47

about? He's like, well, aren't you gonna be

01:22:47 --> 01:22:49

who you are when you're 33 in Jenna?

01:22:49 --> 01:22:50

I was like, no. That's not what it

01:22:50 --> 01:22:53

means. Like, it's not like the state that

01:22:53 --> 01:22:55

you're in. It's just talking about primacy, like,

01:22:55 --> 01:22:57

when you're, like, kind of at your best.

01:22:57 --> 01:22:59

And he was like, great. Because I'm like

01:22:59 --> 01:23:01

fat right now, and I don't wanna be

01:23:01 --> 01:23:03

fat forever. I was like, good, man. Allah

01:23:03 --> 01:23:04

will make us all pew I would rather

01:23:04 --> 01:23:06

be a fat man in heaven

01:23:06 --> 01:23:09

than, like, a well put together man in

01:23:09 --> 01:23:10

*. Do you know? And that's what you

01:23:10 --> 01:23:13

gotta really think about. Right? Like like, fundamentally,

01:23:14 --> 01:23:15

this is what you have to think about.

01:23:15 --> 01:23:16

Do you know?

01:23:16 --> 01:23:19

How much of dunya is going to be

01:23:19 --> 01:23:22

enough to give up, like, bliss and akhira?

01:23:23 --> 01:23:26

So why why are you giving in

01:23:27 --> 01:23:27

to emotional

01:23:28 --> 01:23:28

angst

01:23:29 --> 01:23:32

that validates you talking to people poorly

01:23:33 --> 01:23:36

that makes it seem like it's okay to

01:23:36 --> 01:23:37

gossip about someone.

01:23:37 --> 01:23:39

These are stupid reasons

01:23:40 --> 01:23:41

to bring,

01:23:41 --> 01:23:43

like, detriment to you in the world beyond

01:23:43 --> 01:23:45

this one. Do you know what I mean?

01:23:45 --> 01:23:46

It's, like,

01:23:46 --> 01:23:48

dumb. Do you know? Not that, like, any

01:23:48 --> 01:23:50

Haram makes sense to do

01:23:50 --> 01:23:51

in that sense.

01:23:52 --> 01:23:53

And a lot of people turn to Haram

01:23:54 --> 01:23:56

in the absence of community support

01:23:56 --> 01:23:58

and people, like, giving to them. Which other

01:23:58 --> 01:24:01

things you wanna think about, we all have

01:24:01 --> 01:24:02

a common beginning.

01:24:03 --> 01:24:05

If you don't value your spirit,

01:24:06 --> 01:24:09

you're definitely not gonna value somebody else's spirit,

01:24:09 --> 01:24:11

and then you can only connect

01:24:11 --> 01:24:13

at the level of a shared external.

01:24:14 --> 01:24:16

It's not a sign of strength necessarily

01:24:17 --> 01:24:19

that the only people you're ever comfortable around

01:24:20 --> 01:24:21

are the people that are from the same

01:24:21 --> 01:24:24

village of the same country that your family

01:24:24 --> 01:24:26

came from, and you get thrown into a

01:24:26 --> 01:24:27

conundrum

01:24:27 --> 01:24:29

the minute you're around people that are different

01:24:29 --> 01:24:30

from you,

01:24:31 --> 01:24:33

or that you have to debase people

01:24:34 --> 01:24:36

that come from different walks of life,

01:24:36 --> 01:24:39

claim that they're lacking in comparison to you

01:24:40 --> 01:24:42

is telling you something about the state of

01:24:42 --> 01:24:43

your inside.

01:24:43 --> 01:24:45

It's not strong, it's weak, insecure,

01:24:46 --> 01:24:48

fragile at that point in time. Do you

01:24:48 --> 01:24:49

know?

01:24:50 --> 01:24:53

Okay. So let's do this.

01:24:54 --> 01:24:55

We'll take a pause here.

01:24:57 --> 01:24:59

People wanna take a quick few minutes and

01:24:59 --> 01:25:01

just turn to the people next to you,

01:25:01 --> 01:25:03

what are you taking away from the overall

01:25:03 --> 01:25:03

conversation?

01:25:03 --> 01:25:05

Just for 2, 3 minutes, and we'll come

01:25:05 --> 01:25:07

back and discuss.

01:25:07 --> 01:25:09

My mom is calling me, so that's why

01:25:09 --> 01:25:11

we're gonna pause right now. Then we'll come

01:25:11 --> 01:25:12

back and discuss.

01:26:00 --> 01:26:01

Islamic Center.

01:26:09 --> 01:26:10

Medium,

01:26:10 --> 01:26:11

small, medium.

01:26:15 --> 01:26:15

Medium.

01:26:23 --> 01:26:25

It. But at the back of a kernel.

01:26:26 --> 01:26:27

K.

01:26:58 --> 01:26:59

Happen

01:27:26 --> 01:27:27

Okay.

01:27:28 --> 01:27:30

So just as we're wrapping up, what are

01:27:30 --> 01:27:32

some of the takeaways from the conversation overall?

01:27:33 --> 01:27:36

Anything coming up for people who are standing

01:27:36 --> 01:27:37

out?

01:27:38 --> 01:27:39

Yeah. I think,

01:27:40 --> 01:27:42

the end of the last portion of the

01:27:42 --> 01:27:45

hadith, I think I think I see that,

01:27:45 --> 01:27:47

of course, prayer is our guard.

01:27:48 --> 01:27:48

You know?

01:27:49 --> 01:27:50

Prayer is our guard from,

01:27:52 --> 01:27:52

reaching

01:27:53 --> 01:27:54

Jahannam or *

01:27:54 --> 01:27:56

Fire with as well where

01:27:57 --> 01:28:00

it is our obligation to continue to

01:28:00 --> 01:28:01

learn more

01:28:02 --> 01:28:03

of the deed, making that connection,

01:28:04 --> 01:28:06

especially with, you know, for me,

01:28:06 --> 01:28:07

about

01:28:07 --> 01:28:09

as well, you know, the soul and making

01:28:09 --> 01:28:12

that connection between physical self and,

01:28:13 --> 01:28:14

metaphysical

01:28:14 --> 01:28:17

self and and the. You know? Just to

01:28:17 --> 01:28:18

acknowledge that and help

01:28:19 --> 01:28:20

individually

01:28:20 --> 01:28:22

acknowledge that and help brothers and sisters even

01:28:22 --> 01:28:24

at younger age as you mentioned is your

01:28:24 --> 01:28:25

son,

01:28:26 --> 01:28:28

For them to acknowledge that and give them

01:28:28 --> 01:28:30

that spiritual growth is very important.

01:28:33 --> 01:28:36

Yeah. Exactly. Okay. Other thoughts? Other things we're

01:28:36 --> 01:28:36

taking away?

01:28:39 --> 01:28:41

Because that's what we're sanctifying. Right? When we're

01:28:41 --> 01:28:43

sanctifying human life.

01:28:44 --> 01:28:46

When people put conditions on, we will only

01:28:46 --> 01:28:47

sanctify

01:28:47 --> 01:28:50

people of this skin color, people of this

01:28:50 --> 01:28:50

complexion,

01:28:51 --> 01:28:52

people of this country,

01:28:52 --> 01:28:54

people of this background.

01:28:55 --> 01:28:56

They're failing to recognize

01:28:56 --> 01:29:00

we all have, like, this shared humanity

01:29:00 --> 01:29:02

that's rooted in

01:29:03 --> 01:29:04

this experience of

01:29:05 --> 01:29:06

having these spirits.

01:29:06 --> 01:29:07

Do you know?

01:29:08 --> 01:29:11

And there's a dignity that's shared within this

01:29:12 --> 01:29:12

experientially.

01:29:13 --> 01:29:15

But if you don't ever think about those

01:29:15 --> 01:29:16

parts of yourself,

01:29:16 --> 01:29:18

you're not then thinking about these parts within

01:29:18 --> 01:29:21

other people or honoring them through those ways

01:29:22 --> 01:29:24

or recognizing it through that. Do you see?

01:29:25 --> 01:29:28

Okay. So let's do this. We'll take a

01:29:28 --> 01:29:30

pause here. Just a quick reminder,

01:29:30 --> 01:29:33

doctor Ali Mermur will have his helika tomorrow,

01:29:33 --> 01:29:34

Tuesday.

01:29:34 --> 01:29:37

The building closes tomorrow at 8 PM,

01:29:38 --> 01:29:40

and then it's gonna be closed Wednesday Thursday.

01:29:40 --> 01:29:42

We're gonna be open for Jummah on Friday.

01:29:43 --> 01:29:45

The building will be open from 12 to

01:29:45 --> 01:29:45

4.

01:29:46 --> 01:29:48

We'll have lunch after. We'll pray,

01:29:49 --> 01:29:51

probably around, like, 3, 3:30,

01:29:52 --> 01:29:53

and then ask people to kinda head out

01:29:53 --> 01:29:54

of the space.

01:29:54 --> 01:29:57

It'll close before mug group time. So just

01:29:57 --> 01:29:58

keep that in mind.

01:29:58 --> 01:30:00

If anyone's around on Friday,

01:30:00 --> 01:30:02

it's just gonna be Khalid and I,

01:30:02 --> 01:30:04

like, hear from our staff. So we can

01:30:04 --> 01:30:06

come, help set up, help clean up, we'd

01:30:06 --> 01:30:08

appreciate it. And also just be in the

01:30:08 --> 01:30:10

space. Typically on holidays,

01:30:11 --> 01:30:12

we get as many people as we do

01:30:12 --> 01:30:14

during the rest of the,

01:30:15 --> 01:30:16

you know, year,

01:30:16 --> 01:30:18

because different people show up also.

01:30:19 --> 01:30:21

You know, people are off from school, so

01:30:21 --> 01:30:23

bring their children. Families will come.

01:30:24 --> 01:30:26

People who are visiting the city, they've heard

01:30:26 --> 01:30:27

about the IC.

01:30:28 --> 01:30:29

Like, they'll come for Joma.

01:30:29 --> 01:30:31

So it'd be amazing that when they come,

01:30:32 --> 01:30:34

they have a great experience if it's, like,

01:30:34 --> 01:30:35

one of their only times coming.

01:30:36 --> 01:30:37

So as many of us can be around

01:30:37 --> 01:30:40

to help and welcome people in, that would

01:30:40 --> 01:30:40

be great.

01:30:41 --> 01:30:43

And then after that, the building will be

01:30:43 --> 01:30:46

closed through the weekend and resume on Monday.

01:30:46 --> 01:30:48

As normal hours of operation.

01:30:49 --> 01:30:51

We have registration open for our Umrah trip.

01:30:52 --> 01:30:54

I know some of you are gonna be

01:30:54 --> 01:30:54

joining us.

01:30:55 --> 01:30:57

The rest of you are interested

01:30:57 --> 01:30:59

or you know people who'll be interested. We're

01:30:59 --> 01:31:01

gonna go from January 3rd to 12th.

01:31:02 --> 01:31:03

We do 4 days in Medina and then

01:31:03 --> 01:31:05

4 days in Mecca.

01:31:06 --> 01:31:07

Just definitely try to come.

01:31:08 --> 01:31:10

This year, we're trying to keep it a

01:31:10 --> 01:31:12

little smaller than previous years. Last year, we

01:31:12 --> 01:31:15

took 200 people, which is really nice, but

01:31:15 --> 01:31:17

everyone didn't get to meet everyone else.

01:31:18 --> 01:31:19

So I think we're limiting it

01:31:20 --> 01:31:21

to 80 people

01:31:21 --> 01:31:23

or so for this year,

01:31:25 --> 01:31:26

just so we can kinda create more of

01:31:26 --> 01:31:29

that cohesion in the group, which means also

01:31:29 --> 01:31:30

we're not, like,

01:31:30 --> 01:31:31

unlimited in seats.

01:31:32 --> 01:31:34

So if you can apply sooner than later

01:31:34 --> 01:31:34

or tell,

01:31:35 --> 01:31:37

people that you know who might be interested

01:31:37 --> 01:31:38

to apply,

01:31:39 --> 01:31:40

just so we can kinda get it squared

01:31:40 --> 01:31:42

away. We do a lot of prep sessions

01:31:42 --> 01:31:44

in advance. There's a lot of guided tours

01:31:44 --> 01:31:45

that we do.

01:31:45 --> 01:31:48

We do halakas after Fajr, after Isha.

01:31:49 --> 01:31:51

It's a little different from, like, what other

01:31:51 --> 01:31:51

experiences

01:31:52 --> 01:31:53

are like.

01:31:53 --> 01:31:55

So recommend coming if you can or letting

01:31:55 --> 01:31:58

people know to join as well.

01:31:58 --> 01:32:01

And then next week, we'll have all of

01:32:01 --> 01:32:03

our normal programs that we normally do,

01:32:04 --> 01:32:05

plus some

01:32:06 --> 01:32:08

one off programs that we're doing. We're gonna

01:32:08 --> 01:32:08

be starting

01:32:09 --> 01:32:12

again with our professional groups meeting.

01:32:13 --> 01:32:15

So we have a meetup planned

01:32:15 --> 01:32:16

in the 1st week of December.

01:32:18 --> 01:32:19

I think we have something planned

01:32:20 --> 01:32:21

for the IC Professionals group.

01:32:22 --> 01:32:24

We're gonna have a black Muslim meetup in

01:32:24 --> 01:32:25

addition

01:32:25 --> 01:32:27

to our monthly Latino Muslim meetup.

01:32:28 --> 01:32:31

We're gonna do a dinner for a convert

01:32:31 --> 01:32:31

community.

01:32:32 --> 01:32:34

So it'll be different things happening

01:32:34 --> 01:32:37

that you could definitely avail yourselves of,

01:32:38 --> 01:32:40

and we'll be advertising all of that, in

01:32:40 --> 01:32:42

the coming week as well.

01:32:43 --> 01:32:43

Okay.

01:32:44 --> 01:32:46

So we prayed Isha before we started,

01:32:46 --> 01:32:48

just so people know. If you could help,

01:32:48 --> 01:32:50

just put the chairs back,

01:32:50 --> 01:32:51

and we'll see everyone

01:32:51 --> 01:32:52

next Monday.

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